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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to a bonus episode of I Saw

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Speaker 1: What You Did. My name is Millie de Jericho.

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Speaker 2: I'm Daniel Henderson, and you know how we.

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Speaker 1: Do on these bonus We kick back, cut loose, hang ten,

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Speaker 1: catch a vibe.

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Speaker 2: And read your emails to you.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. We have an entire slate of

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Speaker 1: emails this week, so we kind of want to hit

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Speaker 1: it now. Oh my god, I don't even know what

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Speaker 1: to say about this first one, because I feel like

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Speaker 1: everything has been leading up to this in terms of

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Speaker 1: the FMKS.

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Speaker 2: Little did either little did the writer know? Or the writer.

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Speaker 1: Now? I I feel a lot of pressure on this one, obviously,

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Speaker 1: because I feel like, you know, this is, like, like I said,

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Speaker 1: a very important question. But I'm gonna read it out

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Speaker 1: and then we'll figure out what's what. Okay. The title

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Speaker 1: of this email is called FMK Christian Slater Edition, and

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Speaker 1: it's an email from Nicole, and Nicole writes, greetings Danielle

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Speaker 1: and Millie. I have been a devoted listener from day one.

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Speaker 1: You are so fucking smart, funny, honest, and share an

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Speaker 1: amazing rapport that only comes from a truly ride or

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Speaker 1: die bond. While I have commentated messaged many times on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: I have never actually written in It's not because I

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Speaker 1: don't relate to most everything you. My fellow jen Xer's

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Speaker 1: wax poetic about I to just turned forty five and

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Speaker 1: subdenly became more familiar with my poo than I ever

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Speaker 1: needed or desired. What finally made me decide to inundate

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Speaker 1: you with my own voice was obviously your discussion about

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Speaker 1: Christian Slater, specifically your idea to have a Christian Slater

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Speaker 1: theme month. I not only fully support this plan, but

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Speaker 1: desperately want to be a third wheel in these discussions.

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Speaker 1: Slater was my first obsession at thirteen years old, so

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Speaker 1: much so that my mother referred to him as my

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Speaker 1: future son in law. I even fancied that we had

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Speaker 1: a song together. Has any couple worth their salt had?

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Speaker 2: I can't believe you didn't tell us what the song was, Nicole,

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Speaker 2: and I guarantee it was Brian Adams. If you really

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Speaker 1: That is so fucking funny, Nicole, Okay. Rather than crashing

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Speaker 1: such a dynamic duo, however, I'm just gonna throw out

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Speaker 1: a couple fmks in the theme of Christian Slater thank

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Speaker 1: you both so much more than I can cover here.

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Speaker 1: As a from birth centophile, a pro bono film writer,

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Speaker 1: and a fledgling podcaster, I'm so very grateful for your voices, Nicole. Okay, Wow,

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Speaker 1: two rounds, heavy, heavy hitters, all right, here we go.

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Speaker 1: First up, Psycho Slater FMK fuck Mary Kill, Jason JD.

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Speaker 1: Dean from Heathers Arkansas, Dave Rutebah from Young Guns two,

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Speaker 2: Danielle, Oh boy, I mean this is harder than I

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Speaker 2: thought it would be. I'm gonna out the gate Kill Arkansas,

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Speaker 2: Dave Rutebab just because Young Guns two is not my

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Speaker 2: favorites later and I don't think he looks cute and

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Speaker 2: cowboy gear ah, so you gotta go. Okay, then the

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Speaker 2: other two psychos I'm choosing between. It's tough because Jason JD.

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Speaker 2: Dean is obviously my first later crush, Like, how can

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Speaker 2: I deny my first later crush. But then Clarence Whirley,

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's not marriable mm. But then JD.

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Speaker 2: Blew up a school and started what was a dark

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Speaker 2: So I am going to fuck JD.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, yes, yes, yes, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Gonna fuck JD from Heathers because we could do it

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Speaker 2: in a car. That's kind of all he wants, like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, buddy, Oh but what about his boat with his

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Speaker 2: Burns, like corn nuts, bek or plane, he doesn't care.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't want the corn nuts. He doesn't want you.

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Speaker 2: He'll let you hang out with your friends. And here's

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Speaker 2: the real reason I'll fuck JD. I think afterwards he

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Speaker 2: And I'm gonna marry Clarence Worley because I kind of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know me, I don't want a husband that's

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Speaker 2: So I'll marry Clarence and let him do his thing

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I know for a fact that Jad from

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Speaker 2: So absolutely you have to fuck or kill him. You

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Speaker 1: first round. Now the second round really really is tugs

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Speaker 1: at my heart shrinks. Okay, so this the second and

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Speaker 1: final Christian Slater FMK is Sensitive Slater FMK, and we

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Speaker 2: This is so easy for me, okay, okay, easy for me.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna marry Adam from Untamed Heart because he's not

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Speaker 1: Being around and in your ship.

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Speaker 2: That's the way. Leaving toast sweat on the counter is like,

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Speaker 2: Mary Adam for sure, absolutely fuck Mark Hunter from Pump

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Speaker 2: Up the Volume. He is every bad dude, I've ever

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Speaker 2: Always reveal a lot about me. But that's just straight

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Speaker 1: He's a stalker? Bitch? Run away, kill that dude? Why me?

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Speaker 1: And then and then in the trailer he says like,

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Speaker 1: I had to know you.

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Speaker 2: So so creepy. That was the nineties, folks, a whole

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then there's that that one, that one part

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Speaker 1: but she's like, if you hurt her, I'll kill you, okay.

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Speaker 2: And he's like, oh, have I got news for you.

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Speaker 2: I've already planned on murdering both of you so you

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Speaker 1: No, Actually it's more attractive if you like Inception. I'm

434
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Speaker 1: just saying it's less attractive if there's a guy that

435
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 1: comes with it in a very emphatic, intense way.

436
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 2: That's just that is wild. I've never encountered that dude.

437
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 2: Now I want to. I can't wait to find that

438
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,679
Speaker 2: dude because I feel like we'd fight. I feel like

439
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 2: you think, oh, they both like Inception, maybe they'd be

440
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 2: perfect for each other. No, I feel like i'd fight

441
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 2: that guy because that guy, again, it's always paired with

442
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 2: something else where. He's like Christopher no one was only

443
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 2: fucking director that matters. And I'm like, I can't with this.

444
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 2: I gotta fight you now physically. Also, I will say,

445
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 2: this is bringing up so much for me. I didn't

446
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,200
Speaker 2: even realize this. But that's the beauty of the bonus episode.

447
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 2: If some guy is like, you know, my favorite movie

448
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 2: is Portrait of a Woman on Fire, I'd be like, no,

449
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 2: you would think that would be attractive to me. But

450
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, you're fetishizing lesbianism goodbye.

451
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh I know. And that's that's why I think

452
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: Born in Flames is an actual good litmus test, because

453
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 1: I don't believe there's lesbian sex in Born in Flames.

454
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: It's just activism.

455
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

456
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: So a guy that's like, well, I can't watch a

457
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:41,119
Speaker 1: lesbian movie unless there's lesbian fucking in it, that means that,

458
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,479
Speaker 1: you know, they would have to get past that level

459
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Speaker 1: in order to enjoy.

460
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Speaker 2: Born completely completely, even though Portrait of a Woman on

461
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 2: Fire is basically like, well, let's touch pinkies, like, it's

462
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 2: not it's like barely gay.

463
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 1: But the arm Pit movie is that the Armpit movie?

464
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Speaker 2: Is it.

465
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: The Armpit movie? Right?

466
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 2: Isn't it?

467
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: What do you think's happening in these armpits?

468
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 2: In this movie? It was like the eighteen hundreds. Yeah,

469
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 2: I swear yes, Key said yes, Okay, maybe I forgot.

470
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 2: I've only seen it once. I did not remember an

471
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 2: armpit part and she like kiss it, she lick at

472
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 2: armpits in that movie. God, is that the extent of

473
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,959
Speaker 2: the lesbian sex in that movie? Because I was bored

474
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Speaker 2: by it.

475
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 1: I want to say that it's like some kind of drug.

476
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: They take a drug and it's through their armpits or something,

477
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: or am I getting that confused with like the worst

478
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Speaker 1: person in the world.

479
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 2: No, worst person in the world. They just straight up

480
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 2: took LSD.

481
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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, okay.

482
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 2: I need to rewatch Portrait of a Women on Fire

483
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:53,359
Speaker 2: apparently because I did not remember the armpit drug scene,

484
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 2: which does not bode well for me trying to keep

485
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 2: Alzheimer's at bay because it wasn't that long ago that

486
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 2: I saw it.

487
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: Well, I just told you, I thought it was a

488
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: different movie. So we both need to do some brain games.

489
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: Holy shit.

490
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: Oh what a great email, What a great email. Thank

491
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 2: you so much, Eileen.

492
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 1: Yes, Eileen, thank you so much. I'm gonna read this

493
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:27,719
Speaker 1: next one. Yeah yeah, This one is from Lindsey and

494
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: it's called best part of going to the movies in

495
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Speaker 1: the nineties as a teenager. Hey you two crazy kids. First,

496
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 1: love the pod. It's the only one I listened to

497
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: without ever skipping any episodes, and your intros always make

498
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: me laugh slash add joy to my day. Second, we're

499
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: about the same age. I'm forty five and grew up

500
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 1: as a nineties kid, and I'm curious if either of

501
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: you ever did this. But my favorite part of going

502
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 1: to the movies back then was planning to see a

503
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 1: R rated movie, but telling our parents we were going

504
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: to see a different one instead, something peachy or whatever.

505
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 1: We'd look up the movie times in the newspaper, remember

506
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 1: those old things, and then coordinate as closely as we

507
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: could on the timing. We'd buy the ticket for one movie,

508
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,160
Speaker 1: then sneak into the rate at AR movie instead. There

509
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 1: was something thrilling about the whole experience and getting away

510
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,399
Speaker 1: with it and also seeing a damn good movie we

511
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to otherwise in the process. Ah, the

512
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: good old days. Keep on doing what you're doing, Lindsey.

513
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Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I mean I comme at this from

514
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 2: two different two different positions, because on the one hand,

515
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 2: there's no way my grandmother gave a shit about me

516
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 2: seeing in our movie I was gonna say, like, I

517
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 2: did not have to hide that from her, but I

518
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 2: did have to help my other friends hide it from

519
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 2: their parents. Yeah, so I definitely did that because a

520
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 2: lot of my friends were like, I'm not allowed, and

521
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, what, You're not allowed to see Silence of

522
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 2: the Lambs, Let's go. So definitely did that, but my

523
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 2: family did not care, like nobody was checking and another

524
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 2: beautiful part of the nineties, nobody was checking to see

525
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 2: what I was actually doing. But it was also easier

526
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: to do back then because, as I have stated, I

527
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 2: used to skip into a lot of movies because, yeah,

528
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 2: movie theaters are by and large run by teenagers, or

529
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 2: at least they were, so nobody cared if we went

530
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 2: in with like a crew of eight people and we're

531
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Speaker 2: just sitting in an R rated movie. No one was

532
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 2: gonna come in and be like, hey, you're eleven, what

533
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 2: are you doing here? Nobody give me shit?

534
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I uh, I'm with you. I don't think

535
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: I was ever told not to see R rated movies,

536
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 1: but yeah, I definitely remember there being like having friends

537
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: whose parents were like super Christian or something, and then

538
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: we couldn't watch things and we would have to sneak

539
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: into something else. But I now I'm just trying to

540
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,239
Speaker 1: recall what that would be because I was always like,

541
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: I think my vibe was like trying to see more

542
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: than one movie in a day. That was like my

543
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: way of sneaking around in the movie theater. Like I

544
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 1: was like, we're going to say, God, this isn't this

545
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: was an epic afternoon. But I remember my friend and

546
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: I went to go see ring Master, the Jerry Springer movie.

547
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: Ah God, Rest in Peace King. So we went and

548
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: saw ring Master, and then, speaking of Christian Slater, another

549
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: movie that was playing in the same movie theater was

550
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Speaker 1: Very Bad Things. Oh that way, yeah, and that So

551
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: we watched ring Master and then we were like, okay,

552
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:37,840
Speaker 1: let's pretend we're like leaving, like you go to the bathroom,

553
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: and then I'll like, you know, walk into another movie theater,

554
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: and then you meet me in the Very Bad Things

555
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: movie theater, and I remember we both sat there for

556
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: probably about fifteen minutes and then we're like, this is

557
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 1: the worst movie we've ever seen, and we left.

558
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 2: So it's a good litmus test.

559
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but that was I think more. That's

560
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: the thing that I remember is that I wanted to

561
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: see like multiple movies in a day but only pay

562
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Speaker 1: for one.

563
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, And the newspaper was crucial for that. Sometimes

564
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 2: I would just rip that part out of the newspaper

565
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 2: and carry it with me.

566
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

567
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 2: So then in between movies you can be like, all right,

568
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 2: this one's starting next, like we can go yeah, yeah,

569
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 2: because if you sitod there and looked at the board,

570
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 2: it'd be obvious that you're like skipping into the movie.

571
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: And the board was usually in the front with all

572
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Speaker 2: the times on it, and you have like, after you

573
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 2: buy your ticket, you can't see that board anymore, so

574
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 2: you have to bring the newspaper with you. But yeah,

575
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 2: of course that was like the nineties write of passage,

576
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 2: sneaking into movies pretending you're going to see a PG

577
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 2: movie and going to see an R movie. It's why

578
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 2: we're all supremely fucked up right now?

579
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you so? Did your grandmother ever take you

580
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: to an R AND movie in the theater or was

581
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: it just like rented stuff for.

582
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 2: Like it was rented, like we watched a lot of

583
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,239
Speaker 2: RA movies at home. Yeah, she never wanted to go

584
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 2: to the movies with us because we were fucking kids.

585
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: We were nightmares. She's like, I'm not going with you

586
00:31:58,640 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 2: kids to goddamn movie.

587
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: Yeah I know. I just saw recently, I rewatched Total

588
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: Recall and I had not seen that movie since the

589
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: movie theater. And then I remembered that my dad took

590
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: me to see Total Recall like when it came out,

591
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: and I'm pretty sure that's an R rated movie. But

592
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 1: I was like, oh good. I was like, I don't

593
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: even remember how old. I was, like twelve when I

594
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: saw Total Recall. So I'm like, huh, my dad brought

595
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: me to an R rated movie.

596
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 2: He wanted to see that movie, that's all. He wanted

597
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 2: to see it, and you were with him for that day.

598
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 2: For whatever reason, you.

599
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: Got to you gotta see it. And I gotta tell you,

600
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: just for the record, Total Recall fucking completely holds up.

601
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: It is really best. Oh my god. I love the

602
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 1: shit out of it.

603
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 2: Let's put it in an episode. I'd love to see

604
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 2: it again.

605
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Between that and Tremors, I was like,

606
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: nineteen ninety is the greatest year for film. Write a

607
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: book about it. Oh God, don't tempt me. But yeah,

608
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: so that's a good question. Lindsay actually that was pretty

609
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:03,760
Speaker 1: provoking for us.

610
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Speaker 2: Thank you, Lindsey. I appreciate it all right. The next

611
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: email subject is breakup movies. Hi, Danielle and Milly. First

612
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 2: of all, I love your pod. My favorite thing to

613
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 2: do is listen while I'm cooking dinner on Tuesday evenings.

614
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 2: Your friendship makes me happy and I truly love how

615
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 2: you two support each other. Thank you for setting that example.

616
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 2: I am currently going through a breakup from a ten

617
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 2: year plus relationship. I'm having a very difficult time with this.

618
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 2: My therapist suggested watching sad films so that I can

619
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 2: feel the sadness to help me tolerate my emotions. I'm

620
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 2: doing my best. My question to you two is what

621
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 2: are some good breakup films that you would suggest to watch.

622
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: I recently watched Begin Again, starring Kira Knightley and Mark Ruffalo.

623
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: I would say that it really hit home for me

624
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 2: in so many ways, from when she realizes her boyfriend

625
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 2: is cheating, to all the wonderful music played throughout the film,

626
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 2: the connections that are made through music, and the reality

627
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 2: that it's okay to begin again. Thank you for me

628
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 2: me feel validated when I stand up for myself and

629
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 2: other marginalized people against the patriarchy who was constantly trying

630
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,760
Speaker 2: to bring us down. Also, thank you for making women

631
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 2: of our age I'm forty three feel cool for wanting

632
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 2: to do nothing more than stay home, watch movies and

633
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 2: cuddle our pets, stay cool and kind, best wishes and more.

634
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 2: Misregards Amanda, who uses she her pronouns ah Amanda, Well,

635
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 2: I mean, my knee jerk instinct is to say I'm

636
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 2: sorry your tenure plus relationship ended. But if he was

637
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 2: cheating on you, or if there was, it's not always

638
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 2: a bad thing when those relationships end. So I will say,

639
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 2: I hope you're in a good place now. And your

640
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 2: therapist suggesting watching sad films is interesting to me because

641
00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 2: I haven't broken up with someone in a long time.

642
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 2: But when I do, I go the other way. I

643
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 2: want revenge and bloodshed and humor, and I do not

644
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 2: want sadness because I'm already pretty good at being sad.

645
00:34:56,320 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 2: So I would suggest watching something like The Wedding Singer.

646
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:02,280
Speaker 1: Which is a great fucking breakup.

647
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:07,439
Speaker 2: It me that part where he's singing, maybe we could

648
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 2: drop the clip in, But where he's singing, it was

649
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 2: all bullshit. It was a fucking joke.

650
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Speaker 1: Shit, yeah, I love it. What he's like, get out

651
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: of my Van Halen T shirt before he jinx it

652
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: and break up the band or whatever.

653
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 2: Like that's where I go for breakup movies, is like revenge,

654
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 2: bloodshed or humor.

655
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I I'm with you. I mean, obviously I'm gonna

656
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:41,919
Speaker 1: suggest Possession from nineteen eighty one. That's a really good

657
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: breakup movie. You did not just sig chance Possession for

658
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:58,959
Speaker 1: a break bitch, I love you. That is that would

659
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:00,480
Speaker 1: probably send you a the edge.

660
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 2: I have to admit that would send you over the edge,

661
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 2: not just feeling good about your breakup, but literally never

662
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: wanting to date again.

663
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, at least I was left for a

664
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 1: creature at least. Oh good God, I mean, I I

665
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean there's like I love the Wedding Singer. Actually,

666
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 1: I think The Wedding Singer is maybe my favorite Adam

667
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: Sandler movie.

668
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

669
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: It is so fucking charming and wonderful and I've.

670
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 2: Got in it. And he's hot.

671
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:38,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's hot. Great, Yeah, he's hot. He's your boyfriend. God.

672
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: I mean I'm trying to think of like some other things,

673
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: like I oh, god. I mean, I mean, of course,

674
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,280
Speaker 1: we've talked about a lot of breakup movies on the podcast,

675
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: and we've talked about like high fidelity, you know, another

676
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: like real, real sour breakup movie.

677
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 2: I don't know, he was afraid of Virginia Wolf is

678
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 2: where I go like, oh god, I could ended up

679
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 2: in a marriage with that person.

680
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, or like even like waiting to exhale or something

681
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 1: like something that's kind of like a good like fuck you,

682
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 1: I'm so happy to be single. Yeah, And I don't know.

683
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: I mean there's all there's also like I don't know.

684
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,719
Speaker 1: To me, I don't like the kind of like like

685
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: lighthearted rom comms that like to go dark. It's like,

686
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,320
Speaker 1: if we're already dark, let's go darker.

687
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 2: What had you?

688
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen Blue Valentine? I don't. Yeah, yeah,

689
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that since it came out and that

690
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 1: shit wrecked me.

691
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 2: I only saw ones because it was like devastating.

692
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like that might rock you a little

693
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 1: too much. But I don't know I would give I

694
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: would personally give it a go if I was going

695
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: through a breakup, but yeah, I don't know. That's I

696
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: think those are my choices.

697
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 2: Great Yeah, it's great, and Amanda, listen. We hope you

698
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 2: get through it and come out the other side remembering

699
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 2: that you're fine just the way you are, that women

700
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 2: our age can do whatever the fuck we want, and

701
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:07,760
Speaker 2: you'll come out of this being in a better place.

702
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 2: And that's all. Just keep listening to things that make

703
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 2: you happy, lean towards all of your emotions, keep going

704
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 2: to therapy. You'll be fine.

705
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, you will have your Nestley Alpine White moment where

706
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: you're on the rock, You're looking out into the horizon

707
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: and yes, storms in Africa is playing behind you, and

708
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: you'll be like ready to transition into the next phase.

709
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 2: So yeah. Or you'll be on a date with someone

710
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 2: at a seaside restaurant and he'll bring up Dot's boot

711
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 2: and you can just slip the table and get the

712
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:42,359
Speaker 2: fuck out of there.

713
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,919
Speaker 1: You can roundhouse kick him in his fucking face. That's right,

714
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,240
Speaker 1: No dos boot in this house.

715
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 2: This next one is short.

716
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 1: This most one is short, but so cool. I think

717
00:38:54,640 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 1: this letter is from Ali's Elise. Elise both ways are cool,

718
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 1: but the title of it is fem do Cinema. Hi.

719
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: I'm a French tattoo artist and a big fan of

720
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 1: the pod. I'm listening to the latest episode and just

721
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 1: had to throw my hat in the ring. If you're

722
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,359
Speaker 1: ever in Marseille, it would be an honor to give

723
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: you a fem Do cinema tattoo. Sincerely, Ali's Aalise. Wow.

724
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 2: I think all that means is we are taking a

725
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 2: specific trip to Marseille. Oh my god, for sure.

726
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will definitely go do.

727
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 2: That, and we did. We also got a nice email

728
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 2: from someone who drew some fem do cinema art and

729
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 2: they put frank heads in the background. What. Yeah, it's

730
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 2: pretty cool. Maybe well I'll ask if we're allowed to

731
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 2: post it on the uh on the Instagram because it

732
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 2: was beautiful. I mean we, for copyright reasons, cannot actually

733
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:55,319
Speaker 2: make that a T shirt or get that. Yeah, but

734
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 2: it was beautiful. It was beautiful, So thank you. We

735
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 2: are definitely making a trip to Ants to get this tattoo.

736
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 1: Also, I'm sorry I'm feeling ourselves because we have French listeners.

737
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,799
Speaker 2: I know a French tattoo artist. I know.

738
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, listen, we have the best listeners in the world.

739
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 1: We have a listener who's a French tattoo artist. Okay,

740
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: like it's the coolest. Fuck all you other podcasts doing

741
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 1: some things.

742
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 2: I love competition. Now whose listeners are coolest? Ours? Get

743
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 2: out of here. We don't have to have this fucking competition.

744
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: I love this for us.

745
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you so much for writing in and making

746
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 2: us feel cool and giving us a reason to travel

747
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 2: and get a tattoo. That was the best, the best,

748
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:42,919
Speaker 2: All right? I got what more?

749
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: Yeah?

750
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 2: You ready for it?

751
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 1: I'm ready.

752
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 2: The email subject is obsolete video store job stories, dear

753
00:40:52,320 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 2: movie may even goddesses. I'm not gonna accept that, but okay. Yes,

754
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 2: I worked at West Coast Video in the nineties and

755
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 2: I still miss it sometimes. Here are some low lights.

756
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 2: The year Groundhog Day came out and my boss made

757
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 2: us play it on repeat on February second. I still

758
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 2: cringe every time I hear the first few notes of

759
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 2: I Got You, Babe, repeatedly finding Watership Down and Fritz

760
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 2: the Cat in the children's section because they're animated, being

761
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 2: as repeatedly to find that movie with the guy from

762
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 2: that other thing where everything like explodes and stuff, you

763
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 2: know the one I mean, right, And yes, nine out

764
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:36,799
Speaker 2: of ten times I did ah good times I missed

765
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 2: the discoveries of being able to take home two videos

766
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 2: a night, and I can still conjure up the store's

767
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 2: theme song if I give it a second thought. Video

768
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 2: stores may be gone, but movies live on forever. Thank

769
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 2: you for your passion, the laughs, and for schooling me

770
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 2: with every show. Please keep up the good work. Side note,

771
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 2: Millie did an episode where she basically interviewed Danielle. Can

772
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 2: we get a vice versa on that please? I'd love

773
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 2: to know more about our seven Deadly Monkeys members. Thanks again.

774
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: In toodles, Amanda, who's a she her pronouns. I absolutely

775
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 2: loved the notion of Fritz the Cat being in the

776
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 2: children's section.

777
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 1: I know too.

778
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,760
Speaker 2: That sent me over the bucket edge.

779
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that did like Meet the Feebles or something like.

780
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 1: I love like the ideas of these like really like

781
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: hardcore adult films being like in a children's section. That's

782
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: so funny.

783
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 2: Video stores were wild and two videos a night that's incredible.

784
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 2: That's incredibly impressive. I'm surprised I never worked at a

785
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 2: video store for that, but I wanted to. I did

786
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,320
Speaker 2: want to address that. I have asked Millie several times

787
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 2: if I could interview her, and she let me do

788
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 2: it a little bit when her book came out, but

789
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 2: only about the book. So would you be down to

790
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 2: do a bonus episode where I interview you about your life?

791
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,760
Speaker 2: Because I have tried. Don't think I haven't tried, folks.

792
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: I mean, if the people demanded, I guess I will

793
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 1: let you do it. I just feel like I'm not

794
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: as interesting as you like in terms of like life experiences,

795
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 1: and you just you know, I don't know. I just

796
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: you know, you know me.

797
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 2: I just first and foremost, it ain't a competition.

798
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: I know.

799
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 2: Second of all, you are you're Every single time you

800
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:22,879
Speaker 2: tell me something about your past, it kills me. It

801
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 2: cracks me up. It is so funny you sitting at

802
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 2: a fucking cafe in Atlanta with a pen like a

803
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 2: plume pen in the dark, writing in a journal. I

804
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 2: want more of those stories, like how did you get

805
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:34,760
Speaker 2: to be so cool?

806
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 1: Well, I'm like, I think that's kind of what I mean. Okay,

807
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: First of all, it's definitely not a competition.

808
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 2: We know that.

809
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: But I feel like when I think about my life

810
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 1: and I think about your life, like put together in

811
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: the same timeframe, it's like, you know, as a teenager,

812
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,919
Speaker 1: you were like going into New York City and then

813
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: as a young person, you like lived everywhere across the

814
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: country and drove to Alesca and had all these experiences

815
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 1: and also and it's like, my shit is like, oh,

816
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: I just like lived in suburbia and I had to

817
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: make my own fun because my fucking parents in my

818
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 1: life was so boring that I'm like, while you were

819
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:19,240
Speaker 1: fighting bears, I was like, you know, sitting in coffee

820
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,640
Speaker 1: shops wearing all black, being an idiot.

821
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,799
Speaker 2: Like I'm just like, you know, but here's what. So

822
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 2: many more people have your experience than mine. They want

823
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:30,879
Speaker 2: to be validated. And then you took that. You took

824
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 2: that suburban experience and you went on to have a

825
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:38,720
Speaker 2: twenty year career as a film programmer and even just

826
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 2: just getting to tell people stories about how you got

827
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 2: into underground films and like you used to be a

828
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 2: DJ at a gay club, Like come on, you got stories?

829
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean yeah, but that all happened like

830
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 1: in my adult life, you know, where I was like

831
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 1: as I was growing up, I was just like such

832
00:44:56,480 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: a little shit and hated everything, and you know, it's

833
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: just like I just wonder that I had had it,

834
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 1: Like I wish I had had, especially in my twenties,

835
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,359
Speaker 1: just more of that kind of adventurous life of like

836
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 1: I wish I had moved. I mean, I didn't move

837
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: outside of Georgia until my late thirties, so you know,

838
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: I don't know. I always look at it comparatively. I'm like,

839
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,600
Speaker 1: she's just so much more interesting than me. But I

840
00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: but I also understand it's not a competition.

841
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 2: So well, people want to know. So would you be

842
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:27,280
Speaker 2: down for me to interview you for a bonus episode?

843
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, of course I would do that. You

844
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 1: got it on tape, folks, Yes, yes, I would. I

845
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 1: love Amanda was like, I'd like to know more about

846
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 1: her Seven Deadly Monkeys.

847
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 2: Member, this is what I mean, Like, who else who

848
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 2: is it I can club in high school than they

849
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 2: call the Seven Deadly Monkeys.

850
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:52,320
Speaker 1: You're coolest shit. That's not Oh wait no, it's not cool.

851
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 2: It is hilarious and cools. We want to know more

852
00:45:56,480 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 2: of that, Like you definitely had more traditionally fun high

853
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 2: school experiences that I did, And that's the kind of

854
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 2: stuff I want to know about to you, And I

855
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 2: want to know about your career and just everything anything

856
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 2: that makes you as wonderful as you are. I think

857
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:15,839
Speaker 2: people want to know and I will definitely interview Millie

858
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 2: and now we have it on Now we have it on.

859
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 1: Record that to it. Yes, I will. I will do that.

860
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: But I also thank you Amanda for for having an

861
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: interest in my life in that way. I appreciate it,

862
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: and thanks for the email. Honestly, like, so you never

863
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: worked at a video store? Just to recircle back on that, no,

864
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:37,720
Speaker 1: did you wish record store?

865
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 2: No? I worked at a lot of bookstores, and the

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