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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone?

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Tim How you doing?

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Speaker 1: I'm doing well about you?

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Speaker 2: We are great? It's waiting by the phone. Let's learn

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Speaker 2: about this data. I'm going through your email here. You

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Speaker 2: went out with Roxy, you met on Tinder and then

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Speaker 2: what happened?

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Speaker 1: We talked for that.

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Speaker 6: We actually went out twice, and I don't, you know,

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Speaker 6: mean to get too much into things. But after the

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Speaker 6: second we hooked up, which I look.

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Speaker 1: As a pretty good sign.

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Speaker 6: I thought she was into it, but you know, she

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Speaker 6: started ghosting me after that, and I'm here to find

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Speaker 6: out why.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I see what. I don't hear you bragging

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Speaker 2: about hooking up on the second date. I think sometimes

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Speaker 2: on a second date, that's a good sign, right, I mean,

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Speaker 2: especially if you get a second date then you hook up.

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Speaker 2: It's like this is going in the right direction, except

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Speaker 2: she's ghosting you and it's driving you crazy. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 2: we'll call her, we'll see if we can figure out

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Speaker 2: what's going on and put this to rest, and hopefully

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Speaker 2: we can straighten out whatever the issue is. Maybe nothing's

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Speaker 2: going on, maybe she's just been busy, or who knows,

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Speaker 2: And if that's the case, we'll set you up on

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Speaker 2: another date and we'll pay for that. Okay.

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Speaker 6: I really appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: Part two of waiting by the phone, Tamm doing okay,

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Speaker 2: doing good.

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Speaker 6: Little anxious to figure out what's going on here?

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Speaker 2: Right right, Well, we're about to find out. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: call rock Sy. We're gonna see what's going on. You

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Speaker 2: guys learn in a couple of dates you thought they

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Speaker 2: were successful. Now she's ghosting you, and you want to

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Speaker 2: know why.

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Speaker 6: You got it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, good luck? Hello?

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Speaker 6: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Is this Roxy?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Roxy, it's Fred from the Fred Show. I have to

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Speaker 2: tell you that we are on the radio right now

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Speaker 2: and I need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Is it okay? If we keep talking.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess that's okay.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of awkward, but thank you. Yeah, I know,

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Speaker 2: I know, thank you so much. We're calling on behalf

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Speaker 2: of this dude named Tim who I guess you met

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Speaker 2: you on Tinder and you went on two dates. Do

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Speaker 2: you recall this guy?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he's sound excited.

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Speaker 2: We know that. Yeah, we've heard it before. So what

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Speaker 2: would happened with this guy? Because he described a couple

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Speaker 2: of really good dates, he liked you a lot, was

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Speaker 2: hoping to take you on a third date, says that

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting. Can we sort of get to the bottom

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Speaker 2: of why. It's like I still called out, but.

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Speaker 7: I was just trying to be discreet. Yeah, Tim is,

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Speaker 7: I mean he was like a cool like honestly, we

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Speaker 7: actually got along really well. He was a really nice guy.

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Speaker 7: We had gone on a couple of dates and we

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Speaker 7: had kind of polled around and stuff. And after one

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Speaker 7: of the hook up, this is like weird to even

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Speaker 7: talk about with how like I told my closest friends,

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Speaker 7: but he asked to keep my underwear? Did you call

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Speaker 2: Got a lot of problems?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: I hate that word? Second?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, same, the.

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Speaker 2: Same. These so he what like he wanted them as

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Speaker 2: some kind of a souvenir.

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Speaker 7: I don't know what he's gonna do with him, I was,

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Speaker 7: but I was like, no, dude, absolutely not. Yeah, and so,

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Speaker 7: I mean that is just kind of how I felt

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Speaker 7: about the whole situation.

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Speaker 2: You're like, I'm not doing this to spook.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I just I don't get like, I don't

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Speaker 7: consider myself like vanilla necessarily, but I'm not into I

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Speaker 7: didn't know what the hell he was gonna do with it. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: So I was like, no, I'm going to go ahead

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Speaker 7: and keep the clothing that I.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, let me expensive panties.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah? Were they nice ones?

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Speaker 3: I mean you know what was going to go down?

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Speaker 2: But would you leave some behy if a guy asked you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he would, Yeah, little things to make people happy.

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Speaker 2: You know what if they were expensive ones?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why not?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? What is an expensive What is an expensive pair

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Speaker 2: of underwear?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't buy like expensive, Like yeah,

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Speaker 7: Have are like in a set, you know, like like

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Speaker 2: Would those be like thirty bucks for underwear? Or tim

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Speaker 2: is here? I always leave that part out. Sim has

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Speaker 2: been listening to all this, Tim, what what do you?

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Speaker 2: I mean, Look, you're entitled to your own freaky but.

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Speaker 6: I just like keeping them as a bit of a souvenir.

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Speaker 2: So do you have a box full of them somewhere?

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Speaker 2: Like that's disgusting?

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, if I'm not special.

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Speaker 6: It's something like that. Like what if I hook up

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Speaker 6: with somebody and like they give me their paint and

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Speaker 6: let me keep it. But if I'm seeing somebody else,

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Speaker 6: I throw the old ones away?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's that would be That would be creepy. I

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Speaker 2: had no question.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And also I don't see what the big deal is.

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Speaker 2: You know, a lot of people are.

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Speaker 6: Into this sort of thing. She told me no, and

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Speaker 6: I was totally cool with it. I didn't freak out

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Speaker 6: or anything like that. And also, aren't you supposed to

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Speaker 2: Shame?

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Speaker 6: But I feel like I'm being very judged right now,

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Speaker 6: and that's not very cool, not very whole.

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Speaker 2: On a second, I mean, I don't know that we're

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Speaker 2: judging you so much. She's allowed to judge you because

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Speaker 2: she doesn't have to do what you asked me to do.

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Speaker 7: I'm not into it.

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Speaker 6: Oh she does do it, and that like no, and

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Speaker 6: I respected you saying no. I didn't push the batter.

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Speaker 6: I just said, hey, by the way, I'm into this one.

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Speaker 6: Do you mind if I kept it? You said no.

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Speaker 2: I said, that's cool, okay.

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Speaker 6: At the end of it, you could have just said afterwards, hey,

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Speaker 6: that really freaked me out. I didn't want to see

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Speaker 2: That's true. She could have. She doesn't know you that.

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Speaker 7: I didn't really well about it, so you.

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Speaker 8: Can't let it go.

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Speaker 6: I did want to chat about it, and.

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Speaker 2: You didn't want to chat that.

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Speaker 6: But this is my only recourse. I thought we had something.

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Speaker 6: I wanted to know what was going I thought maybe

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Speaker 2: You guys, you guys, we talk about this all the time, right,

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Speaker 2: I mean, you guys have only been out twice. There's

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Speaker 2: no equity. I used to wear equity all the time. Like,

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Speaker 2: she doesn't she likes you, but she doesn't really, really

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Speaker 2: over it. Like I understand what you're saying, which is

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Speaker 2: I asked you for something, she said no, and you

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Speaker 2: were cool about it, and you can communicate, but like,

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Speaker 2: you're not. I don't think you're there yet. You're still

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Speaker 2: getting to know each other. She can't get that out

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Speaker 2: of her mind. She doesn't know anything else about you.

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Speaker 2: She's just wanting a bunch of other stuff. If I'm

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Speaker 2: dating somebody for six months and they asked me to

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Speaker 2: do something weird that's different than two times, and I

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Speaker 6: That was that.

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Speaker 2: With my luck, I would ask for that and get kinky.

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Speaker 2: I'd forget I had them, and then I would meet

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Speaker 2: the woman of my dreams and she'd come over and

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Speaker 2: be like, what are these? And then I'm in trouble.

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Speaker 2: I got this is kind of weird. Rox Sye, any

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Speaker 2: chance you would forgive this guy and give another shot.

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Speaker 3: It's just not my thing.

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Speaker 7: I think we'd both be better off found people that

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Speaker 7: are mold a little bit better.

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Speaker 2: There you go, Well, if you will, Tim, Good luck

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Speaker 2: to you, Tim Okay, Sorry thanks.

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Speaker 1: Awen's Entertainment Report. He's on the Bread Show.

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Speaker 5: Diddy is asking to serve his fifty month sentence at

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Speaker 5: Federal Correctional Institute in New Jersey.

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Speaker 3: It's called Fort.

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Speaker 5: Dix, which kind of sorry on twelve Dix. His lawyers argue, Oh,

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Speaker 5: in that case, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: He wants to be moved to Fort Dicks.

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Speaker 5: His lawyers argue that the low security facility, which makes

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Speaker 5: me a little nervous near his hometown, offers a top

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Speaker 5: drug treatment program, the Residential Drug Abuse Program, that could

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Speaker 5: help him remain sober and rehabilitate. They also say that

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Speaker 5: its proximity to New York would make family visits easier.

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Speaker 5: Diddy has already served about a year in custody and

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Speaker 5: could be released in roughly three years. A judge will

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Speaker 5: now consider that request, but the final placement, I guess

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Speaker 5: is on the Federal Bureau of Prison. By the way,

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Speaker 5: President Trump did confirm that did he asked him for

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Speaker 5: a pardon? Obviously he said no, But Trump says he

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Speaker 5: calls him puff Daddy, which was my favorite part. He's like,

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Speaker 5: I call him puff Daddy. And he did ask me

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Speaker 2: Versions of his name. So it's good you subscribed to.

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Speaker 3: So back in the day.

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Speaker 2: The Taco Bell fifty K is not sponsored by fifty K.

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Speaker 1: Mat Yeah, they talk better than they say. These are

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Speaker 8: We didn't eat lunch today, and you never miss a meal.

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Speaker 5: So there's a couple issues that I have with this comment.

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Speaker 5: Second of all, I don't need anyone tell me I

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Speaker 8: And third of all, we both smirked at each other.

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Speaker 2: work out. Yeah, I don't know. I don't know that

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Speaker 2: you need to step in. I mean, I understand that

444
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Speaker 2: the natural desire to want to defend your friend, but

445
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Speaker 2: I also think it's like, I don't know when you know,

446
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Speaker 2: probably when you left. He got an earful about it,

447
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Speaker 2: so I don't know.

448
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Speaker 3: She actually asked me why I didn't say anything.

449
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Speaker 2: Really, yeah, I don't think that's your job.

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Speaker 5: I don't think so either, and I didn't want to

451
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Speaker 5: get involved, but I was like girl, and she was like, yeah,

452
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Speaker 5: you should have said that, and I was like, oh,

453
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Speaker 5: really okay, I don't know the.

454
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Speaker 2: Rules, yeah, because I don't know, Like I mean, obviously

455
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Speaker 2: if it were something like really hurtful, I mean, which

456
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Speaker 2: could that could be interpreted really hurtful, but like a

457
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Speaker 2: physical or something else, like yeah, of course you intervene,

458
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Speaker 2: but I don't know. I don't necessarily want to get

459
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Speaker 2: involved in people's no sense of humor or passive aggressiveness

460
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Speaker 2: or whatever it is because I don't. I don't know,

461
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Speaker 2: and then I stand to alienate myself from that group

462
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Speaker 2: inadvertently if I'm overreacting. So I don't know. Maybe later

463
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Speaker 2: I would check with my friend and make sure that

464
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Speaker 2: she was okay, But no, I don't think it's fair

465
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Speaker 2: for people to expect you to jump in on their

466
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Speaker 2: relationship sort of squabbles.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, she wasn't like upset with me or anything.

468
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Speaker 5: But like when we talked about it later, I was like, girl, yeah,

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Speaker 5: you know what did he say?

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Speaker 10: I would just say one thing, okay, and I'm not

471
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Speaker 10: gonna go to the floor with it, but I will say,

472
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Speaker 10: let's normalize one thing, and that's making people uncomfortable when

473
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Speaker 10: they want to make someone else uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel what I'm saying. I'm big on that.

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Speaker 10: So like if Hobby ever said that, if he would never,

476
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Speaker 10: but if he did, I give you guys permission to

477
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Speaker 10: make him uncomfortable, like call him out on something, and

478
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Speaker 10: I will be right there, okay, tagging you on I

479
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Speaker 10: will cheer you on, because I feel like we give

480
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Speaker 10: people too much permission to, like just I don't know,

481
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Speaker 10: disrespect other people or say things like slick stuff, you know,

482
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Speaker 10: And if I don't stick up for myself in that moment,

483
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Speaker 10: I give you guys permission too.

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Speaker 2: But we don't have any perspective now Pauline, like we

485
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Speaker 2: know now that she was upset and wishes that that

486
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Speaker 2: camin had come to her defense. But in the moment,

487
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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's not just some silly little

488
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Speaker 2: game that the two of them play, and then.

489
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Speaker 3: We could be silly together and not being funny.

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Speaker 2: I think it's for me to again, short of something

491
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Speaker 2: that's like dire, I don't think, or dangerous, I don't

492
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Speaker 2: know that. I think it's for me to inject myself

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Speaker 2: and other people's relationships because I got to think, if

494
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Speaker 2: you're saying it in front of me, in front of me,

495
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Speaker 2: then you don't mean you're more than I would like

496
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Speaker 2: to believe. If I know all parties involved, that you're

497
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Speaker 2: not actually trying to be hurtful, that you're being silly,

498
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Speaker 2: even if you are being hurtful, but then that's for

499
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Speaker 2: the other that's for you to straighten out with your husband,

500
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Speaker 2: not me.

501
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Speaker 3: But I give you permission to be just a silly back.

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Speaker 10: And I'm only saying this because again, like we give

503
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Speaker 10: people too much permission and room and leeway to do.

504
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Speaker 3: These kind of things. Just be silly back, be like,

505
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Speaker 3: oh how about you can't get up and make a

506
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Speaker 3: sandwich yourself? Yes, I can't.

507
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Speaker 2: That's extremely combative what you do. I'm but that's how

508
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Speaker 2: I hate to say this, but that's how you get

509
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Speaker 2: yourself like not liked by the partner, and then that's

510
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Speaker 2: how it causes problems. And you can sit here and

511
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Speaker 2: say like, yeah, well, well that's their problem, but then

512
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Speaker 2: you're unfortunately, as we've all seen, their problem becomes your problem.

513
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Speaker 2: And I hear what you're saying, but like, yeah, I

514
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Speaker 2: don't know that in your home. It's for me to

515
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Speaker 2: be passive aggressive with you on your comment when I

516
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Speaker 2: don't have all the context.

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Speaker 3: True, I don't blame you, Yeah, you don't blame you.

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Speaker 5: We had just started in the night and like we

519
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Speaker 5: were going to be together all night, the three of us,

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Speaker 5: and actually for once I held my tongue, which I've

521
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Speaker 5: never done.

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Speaker 2: Because you could have made the evening very uncomfortable. I

523
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Speaker 2: understand both sides of this, but it's like I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but like with in certain situations and with certain

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Speaker 5: people and certain friends partners.

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Speaker 8: Maybe I feel that I can.

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Speaker 5: I didn't know what was going on, and honestly, the

528
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Speaker 5: comment stunned me so much that I was silent because

529
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Speaker 5: I was like, what, you can't say that, especially to

530
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Speaker 5: a woman, like don't say that.

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Speaker 2: I guess you could test it by doing by responding

532
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Speaker 2: self in a self different any way about yourself. I

533
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Speaker 2: guess you could be like, oh, I know, I'm kind

534
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Speaker 2: of hungry, or I don't know something. You could say

535
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Speaker 2: something like but I think if you're like, well, I

536
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Speaker 2: can't believe you just said that in defensive your friend,

537
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Speaker 2: it's like, oh whoa, because then all of a sudden,

538
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Speaker 2: making gas like you and make you look like you're overreacting,

539
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Speaker 2: and then before long you're right. The rest of the

540
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Speaker 2: evening sucks because because you had to open your mouth.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I just I was like, oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: But I sometimes I have to tell myself and I'm

543
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Speaker 2: not very good at this, and to your point, sometimes

544
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Speaker 2: I have to remind myself. I don't have to have

545
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Speaker 2: a comment about everything. I don't have to contribute to

546
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Speaker 2: every conversation. My voice doesn't always need to be heard

547
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Speaker 2: because I like to have something to say about everything.

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Speaker 3: I'm learning. Oh, you're right, you're right, I'm learning.

549
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Speaker 2: This is me. I'm talking about me. This is not

550
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Speaker 2: this is not me, like you know that projecting onto you.

551
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Speaker 2: It's like sometimes I want to have a comment about everything,

552
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Speaker 2: and sometimes it's like I need to say, Okay, I

553
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Speaker 2: was I was very proud of myself because you could

554
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Speaker 2: have made the rest of your night really bad.

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Speaker 5: I resisted an urge and I had an urge. But yeah,

556
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Speaker 5: it's it depends on the the friend, the husband and

557
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Speaker 5: the situation. And I actually, for once in my life,

558
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Speaker 5: held my tongue and I'm proud. But I was just

559
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Speaker 5: wondering what you guys thought about calling out someone else's partner,

560
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Speaker 5: because just word of wisdom for men or anyone really

561
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Speaker 5: don't remind someone that they don't miss any meals.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's but I think it's the level of comfort,

563
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Speaker 2: like if you knew, like there are people, there are couples.

564
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Speaker 2: I know them both well enough that I could say something.

565
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Speaker 2: There are some that I don't know the sense of

566
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Speaker 2: humor or the sensibilities or or the context, and then

567
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't say anything. But I think you have to

568
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Speaker 2: be self aware enough to know in my opinion, now again,

569
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Speaker 2: if it's if it's hurtful or abusive or someone, then

570
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Speaker 2: I'm a punch on his face. But I don't know.

571
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Speaker 2: For all I know, right before I walked in, she

572
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Speaker 2: made a fat joke to him, and you're him. It's

573
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Speaker 2: never like those jokes are usually not funny. But like again,

574
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Speaker 2: I don't know what happened earlier in the day or yesterday,

575
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Speaker 2: or like what their little stupid jokes, you know what

576
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Speaker 2: they're stilly little humor is