1 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast presents? 2 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: You know what I think you're in. You're in a 3 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: little bit of denial about what about the fact that Mr. 4 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: Six one seven is leaving? I am a little bit 5 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 1: because I thought about it once, like, actually thought about it, 6 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: and it made me really sad. You thought about it once? Yes, once, 7 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: I actually allowed myself to think about it, because it's 8 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: easier to just not think about it and then you 9 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:33,840 Speaker 1: move on. I know, but you know eventually you're gonna 10 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: have to think about it. I know I'm gonna have 11 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: to think about like next week pretty much, is that 12 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: when he's leaving. Yeah, he leaves the twelve. So you 13 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 1: can admit you love him, yet no, stop it from 14 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 1: I think you care about him more though than you 15 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: admit I do care about him. No, I'd never say 16 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: I don't care about him. I do care about it, 17 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: I know, but you you know, look, you have to 18 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: you have to protect yourself knowing full well your guys 19 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: leaving and you know that that ship is going to sail. 20 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 1: So no, no, I'm really glad that he's doing it 21 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: because I know he really wants to do it. He's 22 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: serving our country and doing this thing, I know, but 23 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: you gotta get yourself to it and denying it from 24 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: yourself and not dealing with it. You know that eventually 25 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: you're gonna run right into that wall and you know 26 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: the other Yes, you're absolutely right about that, But I 27 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: also don't like to acknowledge that as it was happening, 28 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: everyone said, what are you doing? This is a terrible idea. 29 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: You're gonna get yourself in deep and then you're gonna 30 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: be sad when he leaves, Like, oh, shut up, it'll 31 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: be fine. No, no, no, no, that's it's none of 32 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: their business. You had a great relationship with him. You're 33 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: still in it. Actually, yeah, you shouldn't regret anything. I 34 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: just don't like being wrong. Well, he's going to go 35 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: to boot camp, he's gonna come back, he will be ripped. 36 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:41,199 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's already getting There's a lot lately I'm like, oh, hello, 37 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 1: you gotta work out what if you just didn't deal 38 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 1: with it at all. You're just when it happens, it happens, 39 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 1: and you'll just have to just take it as it happened. 40 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: Hashtag goals. That's what I want to do, is just 41 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: not acknowledge it at all. But I feel like I 42 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: have to. Well, once he's not there, you'll have no 43 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: choice but to acknowledge it. Right. Well, it's more of 44 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: like the do you have a conversation about like while 45 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: you're gone? Are you dating other people? Am I dating 46 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: other people? Are going to do with that? I know? 47 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: I know I have to Did you have a boyfriend 48 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: before college? Like that? You guys went to separate colleges 49 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 1: and you broke up for college. No, My boyfriend um 50 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: at the end of high school rolled over into college 51 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: because we were still like right there. You don't know 52 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: what this is, like, what's gonna happen? No? Is this? 53 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: Are you comparing this to college? Everybody breaks up? Of course, 54 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: But but but if you're not together, you're not breaking up. 55 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: You're just saying hey, good luck. Pause. All right, So 56 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: around the table, there's Gandhi. They're scary. There's Brody, there's 57 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: Great Tea who's been very silent so far. There's Garrett, 58 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: there's Garretts, there's Danielle yours truly hello, Elvis. All right, Look, 59 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,119 Speaker 1: I know how it is. I'm from a family of denial, 60 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: where you know, we didn't acknowledge anything that was going on, 61 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: especially things that would cause trauma or drama. We just 62 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 1: deal with it, you know, inside, And I'm sure it 63 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: really damaged us a lot. And it sounds like you're 64 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: but I can relate with what you're going through. I 65 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 1: don't want to deal with this today. I just want 66 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: to have a nice day and not think about it. 67 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: And so when it happens, to do with it then. 68 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: But you know what's gonna happen. I know it's going 69 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: to happen, and I know I'm going to have to 70 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: acknowledge it because I know I'm going to be sad. 71 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: There's also a chance you're gonna be just fine. There's 72 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: actually you're gonna be just fine. It takes a little 73 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:13,959 Speaker 1: time to get to that fine thing. Come on great 74 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 1: to even so quiet? Well, you know, my only advice 75 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: is this, I'm watching TV show recently. Did you ask 76 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: for advice? So I'm watching TV show recently. So this 77 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,239 Speaker 1: young couple got married and the husband got arrested for 78 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: drug trafficking and he got put in jail for seven years. 79 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: It happens, and so she's she's she's alone for seven years, 80 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: and what is she to do? So she ends up 81 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: with his best friend. Right, Oh my God. Wait, the 82 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: mother in law is not happy about this because how 83 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: dare you do that to her son? So you know 84 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: what happens, my lord kills her. So my advice to you, Gandhi, 85 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: because then make sure you understand that you tell Mr. 86 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: Six months seven, it's really completely over. You need to 87 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: go do your own thing and I'm gonna do my 88 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: old thing, and then this way there's no mother in 89 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: law killing you with end. But that was what I 90 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: wanted to I think you need to treat this as 91 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: just a pause in the relationship because you cannot sit 92 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: around waiting for the guy. So he lives his life, 93 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: you live yours. You do what you want to do 94 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: while he's away, and then then if it's right and 95 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 1: it feels right when he's done, then you guys will 96 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: be back together. If not, you're already onto somebody else. 97 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 1: And then he'll find somebody else. And what does this 98 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: Mike sound like? S remember and castaway with Tom Hanks 99 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: gets lost on that island and he's gone for like 100 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: three years or whatever it was, and he's got the 101 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: bear and he talks to the volleyball and then Helen 102 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 1: Hunt his wife remarries, and then he comes home. He 103 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 1: struggles his whole life to get on the raft and 104 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: he fights off sharks, and he gets back and she's remarried. 105 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 1: I'm still mad at her for that movie. I was 106 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 1: wait for him three year. It was a plane crash. 107 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't matter, It doesn't matter. You do 108 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 1: not remarry that fast. Wait, there's a show on television 109 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: now where the plane was gone for five years and 110 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: people came back fact and some families moved on and remarried. 111 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: What do you expect? You know, that's that's how your 112 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: story rolls out. You know what we don't We don't. 113 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: We don't always love or like or even sort of 114 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: or okay with the way our stories rolled up. But 115 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:15,039 Speaker 1: that's how our story rolls out. You gotta deal with it. 116 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 1: I don't really have control over how that side of it. 117 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: You have no control over it. Look at Redemption after 118 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: you know life had changed. Fifty years later, the guy 119 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,239 Speaker 1: gets out of jail. What is one to do? Hang himself? 120 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: He's got nothing going on, and then oh spoiler. The world, 121 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: the world he knew when he was a freeman before 122 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 1: jail was was different than the world that was happening 123 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 1: when he got out and he looked around. He tried 124 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: to try to make sense of it and nothing. What 125 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: I'm saying better relationships and please star wars Love kisses Leah, 126 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:54,080 Speaker 1: but then he finds out it's his twin sister. So 127 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 1: then she goes with Harrison Ford Han solo and he's 128 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: fine with it. That's my point story, what's your point? 129 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: When Andy goes to college, she leaves his toys behind, 130 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 1: and then the toys still love him though, but when 131 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 1: he comes home from school, he doesn't love the toys 132 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: as much. I don't know. I'm just trying to anoledge 133 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: and make a comparison to a movie. Oh my god, 134 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: what's your ultimate game plan? Like, what's the perfect world 135 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 1: situation that you see happening next week? I have no idea. 136 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 1: What if? And he says, I don't want to see 137 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: other people? Please don't see other people. What will you say? 138 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: You have to be prepared for these things. I don't know. 139 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: I didn't. You don't know what to do when it happens. 140 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: Because that's the thing. You're a very very smart person, 141 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: and you'll be able to handle this. You know, we 142 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: don't give ourselves enough credit. We need to give ourselves credit. 143 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: We can handle the worst things that happened to us, 144 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: because think about all the bad things that have happened 145 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: in our lives before. I mean, we handled it that 146 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: we didn't like it, it wasn't good. Sometimes we learned 147 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: lessons from them that we you know, we're really ready 148 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: to be forced to learn. But that's just your story. 149 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: It's not gonna kill me. This is just a comfortable, 150 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: like sad situation. But we'll get through it. But you 151 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: haven't had a conversation with him. He's leaving next week 152 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 1: and you guys haven't acknowledged. But don't you think there's 153 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: a possibility he's thinking the same thing. Yes, I think. 154 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: So here three days, somebody years, you're going to be 155 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: at it. Four he'll come back, and because they'll have 156 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: the'll have some time passes by. I told you, I say, 157 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: did a guy who he joined the military when we 158 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: were dating. I didn't believe him. My sad show me 159 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: the papers. He left and we broke up while he 160 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: was there. He calls me one day and he's just like, Hey, 161 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: are we gonna get back together when I come back? 162 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, I don't know. And he said, okay, 163 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: well I'm getting married then oh, well, then aren't you 164 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 1: glad you weren't with him? Because that's like an assholely 165 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: thing to do. But here's what I think is also 166 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: an assholely thing to do. If he were to say, hey, wait, 167 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 1: I would like it if you wait for me, I 168 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: would say, I will give that a try. I'm not 169 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: gonna say for sure for sure, but I feel like 170 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: it would be really rude to break up with someone 171 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: while they're in the military, or to cheat on someone 172 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 1: while they're in the military. Both of those are all 173 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: about I don't know. You need to be realistic. You 174 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: need to be realistic with yourself and with him. So 175 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: if you don't think that that's what you can do, 176 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: you have to say from the get go. God. That 177 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: seems to work out in movies, but working with us, 178 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: I'm not quite sure because you don't have the answers 179 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: right now. Shank, Yes, So so far we have Garrett 180 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: saying that when the toy comes back, it's not gonna 181 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 1: love me, Tea saying I'm going to get killed by 182 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:29,119 Speaker 1: mother in law, Gary saying whatever you just said, yeah, 183 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: dying none seemed wonderful, and then Brodie I said, wait, 184 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: no matter what happens. You wait for him no matter what. 185 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: And my advice is just go with the flow, take 186 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: it as take it as you live it, and you'll 187 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: find your way through it. Don't think about it. You 188 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: haven't thought about it to this point, or you haven't 189 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: acted on it. Why starting now. I like your theory 190 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: because it's the easiest way to roll with it is 191 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: so easy. Don't forget Brodie. And I think you should 192 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: give him a mold of your vagina before you talk 193 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: about that. Not a moldy vagina. Okay, I know you 194 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 1: can do mold of of penises, but you can do 195 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: vagina moles. You can, by the way, my grandmother used 196 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: to bring that to Thanksgiving dinner. That's got to google 197 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: this on their computer. It was green and giggle so 198 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: that your grandmother's vagina mold had tangerines. And I can't 199 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 1: even tell you what they're called. What they call clone 200 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:42,719 Speaker 1: of beep kits okay, the word yeah, make a non time. 201 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: I'm sure there's other brand names. It's late Tex for 202 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 1: Latex free medical grade silicone copy of the outer lips 203 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: of the vagina. This kit contains easy to follow instructions 204 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 1: and everything you need. But you shouldn't you love someone 205 00:09:54,440 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 1: for what's on the inside. It's a really oh is 206 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: mandarin slices inside to say? We will be running this 207 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: podcast on the air. Why we can say on the radio? 208 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: Why can't we say that? Why not? Everyone keeps saying 209 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: it just donland on me, and I think that we 210 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: are missing This is the answer. We are missing something. Okay, 211 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: get to it. And it's the oldest saying in the book. 212 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: What if you love something, set it free, and if 213 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: it comes back it was meant to be. Well, you 214 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: know that's really that really is it? No? But the 215 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 1: other part of that is if it doesn't come back, 216 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 1: you hunted down and kill it right now? Don't do that. 217 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:42,240 Speaker 1: But I think that you know, sometimes sometimes you know, 218 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: we we we we all sit there and say, oh, 219 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 1: we know. I don't care what they say. I don't 220 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: want to listen to my mom. I don't want to 221 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 1: be old. But sometimes it's those old sayings that really 222 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 1: the most. What the translation is, let it be, Just 223 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: let it be and just see see how it flows. 224 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: The universe will make something happen. Okay, now are you 225 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: going to get a mold of his penis? Well? But 226 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: I didn't even think about that until now. If you're 227 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: listening to you, I have a mold of your boyfriends Mr. 228 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:17,199 Speaker 1: Mr six. Uh. This vagina is pink. So it's saying, 229 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: if you'd like it to be darker to match yours, 230 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:22,320 Speaker 1: you can go. You don't know, you have no idea. 231 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: It looks like this. You got problems. But it's saying 232 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 1: you need a Windsor and Newton Artists oil color. It's 233 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: available at any arts supply store for about five dollars. 234 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: I have to walk in and say, hello, do you 235 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 1: have paint in Windsor oil that would match my vagina? 236 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 1: Can't you use a brown sharpie? You have vagina paint? Right, 237 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: I'll provide an example here you go. Also, but let's okay, 238 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 1: let's be real. There's more than a penis that's leaving here. 239 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 1: There's also your buddy. Because you guys are very friendly 240 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: with each other. We're friends first. You love to hang 241 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: out with each other and be friends, and that's sort 242 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: of that. That is the foundation of your relationship with Yes, okay, okay, 243 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: that's going to go away. I know. I was just 244 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 1: thinking he sends me like the funniest stuff during the day, 245 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 1: and he sent me something yesterday. It made me laugh 246 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 1: so hard and I was like, wait a second, are 247 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: you gonna have your phone to send me stuff when 248 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 1: you're in basic training? Oh? That would be a long 249 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:18,680 Speaker 1: time with no funny memes. All right, So is that 250 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: something you can prepare for? I don't think so. Again, 251 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: that's another thing. It's when it happens. It happens. You'll 252 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: wake up that morning, life will be different and you'll 253 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: deal with it. Well, expect me to be emotionally needy. Guys, Okay, 254 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:33,839 Speaker 1: you're all hanging out with me. Well, that's why we're 255 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: hearing for each other, right, I think trom daniel do 256 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: you have a fever headache? All right? Would be the 257 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 1: stunt penis took a turn? That's straight. No, it wouldn't. 258 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: I heard. No, that would be shawsh You like Mr 259 00:12:55,520 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 1: two one too. So anyway, just we're here if you 260 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: need something, something as simple as just going out and 261 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 1: having fun or you know, I don't have any penises 262 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: you're gonna get from this room, but maybe Danielle. I 263 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 1: take it. I love Danielle. But just like I said, 264 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 1: just let it happen and see what happens. Well, I 265 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 1: imagine you guys have all been around each other for 266 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: a long time and been through a lot of breakups 267 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: or precarious situations. And guess what we all got through them. Yeah, here, 268 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: and you all seem great. You know, one more occurred 269 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: to me in New York City. In New York City 270 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: or in the New York State, they're always coming up 271 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 1: with new area codes, which means there's gonna be plenty 272 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 1: of other people to go out and find while he's gone, 273 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: so you won't be single very long. But we're just 274 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 1: talking about her losing someone. Why do we have to 275 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: rush into another relationship. She's not dating by area code. 276 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 1: This guy just happens to be from Massachusetts exactly for him. Well, 277 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: that was one side of things, I said. The other 278 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: you're just you're just make noise. Dude. I got a 279 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 1: nine four three guy. He's hot. You should talk to him. Look, 280 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,680 Speaker 1: you know it's gonna get You're gonna be fine. I agree. 281 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 1: I think it's going to work out the way it should. 282 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 1: The universe has a tendency of doing it. Would be miserable, 283 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 1: worst case, join the army. You know, how many people, 284 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 1: how many people are going through situations that are just 285 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: not very pleasant, and they drive themselves nut by trying 286 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: to fix it or trying to to come up with 287 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: solutions or oh my god, what I'm gonna do. What 288 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do, when at the end of the day, 289 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: what's gonna happen is gonna happen. So just sit back 290 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 1: and be you know, be a spectator at your own 291 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: your own game, you know. But you've gotta find ways 292 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 1: to take care of yourself. You gotta take care of you, 293 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 1: have to find ways to be good to yourself. Surround 294 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 1: yourself with people who like you, and you're You're gonna 295 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 1: be fine. You guys are a really good support team. 296 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 1: I gotta say not everyone, all the death and murder 297 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 1: and your toy is not gonna love you anymore. It's 298 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 1: not gonna love you anymore. Unless you buy the you know, 299 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: the penis mold, it'll love you. I'll just get to 300 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: the fifteen minute morning Show.