1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:18,760 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to time the little things. In our 4 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: efforts to streamline our lives, we can become obsessed with 5 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: minimizing or avoiding certain tasks. But instead of wondering how 6 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: long something takes, you can set a timer and find out. 7 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: Then you can make an informed decision about whether or 8 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: not a given activity is worth getting worked up about. 9 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 1: I think about the duration of little tasks every time 10 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: I empty the dishwasher. Trust me, I have never liked 11 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: emptying the dishwasher. I don't know that anyone does. And 12 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: before I began studying time, if someone asked me how 13 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 1: long I spent emptying the dishwasher each week, I might 14 00:00:55,960 --> 00:01:00,639 Speaker 1: have given some ridiculous figure like three hours. So tasks 15 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: seemed to take forever because they're an engaging You are 16 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:08,479 Speaker 1: not using your skills, you are not being challenged. These 17 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: tasks just have to get done. And so the tendency 18 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: is to look for ways to be efficient or to 19 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: chuck these tasks from our lists. And I would see 20 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: that I could grab more plates at a time, or 21 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: grab a bowl with my left hand and a glass 22 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: with my right hand, because that corresponds with the locations 23 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: in my cupboards. I played around with loading the dishwasher 24 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 1: so that more of the spoons were on one side 25 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: of the silver ware compartment and more forks on the other. 26 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:38,600 Speaker 1: Then I elected to time the process. Emptying the dishwasher 27 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: takes five minutes. Since this chore is shared across multiple 28 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 1: people in my house, I'm probably devoting fifteen minutes a 29 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: week to it. This is less time than I spend 30 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: staring off into space forgetting what I came into a 31 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: room for. I think I can safely stop fretting that 32 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: emptying the dishwasher is keeping me from living the life 33 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: I want. I'm sure we can all think of these 34 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: movements of seeming inefficiency. Waiting for an older garage door 35 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: to go up, you are doing nothing and nothing is 36 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: being asked of you. You are very aware of your 37 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: time because you are waiting, and so sometimes you get 38 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: impatient and just park outside. But even a very rickety 39 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:22,839 Speaker 1: old door takes maybe fifteen seconds twenty seconds. You don't 40 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: need to use that time to survey your to do list. 41 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: You can just sit there, take a few deep breaths, 42 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: recite something motivational or not, you'll be okay. Sometimes putting 43 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: in a few inefficient minutes can even improve a situation. 44 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: I have very straight hair that looks better if I 45 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: use a curling iron to put a few waves in it. 46 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,119 Speaker 1: And I used to overestimate how much time it took 47 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 1: me to get ready for things when I needed to 48 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: look presentable, until I realized that I can brush my 49 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: teeth in the minute it takes for the iron to 50 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: heat up, and then I can put in my waves 51 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: in about four minutes. Building this into my getting ready 52 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: routine doesn't actually require waking up twenty minutes early, So 53 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 1: why not take the extra four minutes and feel more confident? 54 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: Even that cliche of boring unengaged time waiting for a 55 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: pot to boil doesn't take that long. An electric kettle 56 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 1: can boil enough water for two cups of tea and 57 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 1: about three and a half minutes. Boiling enough water for 58 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: a single serving of spaghetti or oatmeal in a pot 59 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:24,399 Speaker 1: on the stove is similar. If you just stood there 60 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: watching it, you would hardly notice the difference in your life. 61 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: You certainly aren't winning some major efficiency award by using 62 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: the time to delete emails instead, And I'd argue that 63 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: sometimes wasting little bits of time has an upside. Just 64 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: as a wealthy person doesn't fret about the price of 65 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: apples and whether they were ten cents cheaper last week, 66 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: a person within an abundant perspective on time doesn't fret 67 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: about the occasional inefficiency. You have more than enough time 68 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: for what you want to do in life. Waiting a 69 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 1: few seconds for the garage door to go up is 70 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: like saying keep the change. A schedule doesn't feel less crazy, 71 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: and a life doesn't feel richer because of a few 72 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: seconds shaved off here and there. Indeed, the opposite is 73 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 1: probably true. A little inefficiency can make you feel time rich, 74 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: and these moments of abundance feel good. So if you're 75 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: getting impatient about tiny bits of time, get some facts 76 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: time yourself and see how long these demands on your 77 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: time actually take. Then you can make an informed decision 78 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: about whether they're really burdens. In the meantime, This is Laura, 79 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening, and here's to making the most of 80 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to hear from you. 81 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: You can send me your tips, your questions, or anything else. 82 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: Just connect with me on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram at 83 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 1: Before Breakfast pod. That's B the number four, then Breakfast 84 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: p o D. You can also shoot me an email 85 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: at Before Breakfast podcast at iHeartMedia dot com that Before 86 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: Breakfast is spelled out with all the letters. Thanks so much, 87 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 1: I look forward to staying in touch. 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