WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Miss Crustworthy Returns

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you found us.

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<v Speaker 2>It's working Jeffrey in the morning and our Second Date podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Not like is that hard to find these days since

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<v Speaker 2>we're charting on the top comedy charts every week on Spotify.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeahre welcome, Yeah, every night and I just stream it

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<v Speaker 3>on five thousand different laptops.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the one that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, guys, but I'm tired of those ratings.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Hey, thanks for being Aaron. Don't forget.

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<v Speaker 2>We do have forty five more minutes of this painful

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<v Speaker 2>show if you can endure it over on our main feed.

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<v Speaker 2>Just go to Brook and Jeffrey for that one. But

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<v Speaker 2>right now, let's get to what you came forward. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a second date.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, second Date, up date. Occasionally we have return listeners

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<v Speaker 4>friends of the show who come back multiple times to

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<v Speaker 4>this segment for whatever reason.

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<v Speaker 1>I call them people that like punishment.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and they'll sometimes get nicknames like Matt Many or Rufer.

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<v Speaker 4>Haven't heard from either of those guys in a while, though,

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<v Speaker 4>so hopefully they both found love and Rufer isn't like

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<v Speaker 4>living in a religious compound in the woods or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't both be true.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeffrey, Oh yeah, maybe that's what he wants. That's fair,

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<v Speaker 4>that's true. A lot of romance there. The thing is,

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<v Speaker 4>it's rare for us to have a woman come back

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<v Speaker 4>to the show after we failed to get her a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because usually the smarter one.

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<v Speaker 4>Women learn their lessons much much quicker than we do.

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<v Speaker 4>But today is different because we have the return of

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<v Speaker 4>someone I'm nicknaming Miss Crustworthy, Julia the pie lead. Oh

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<v Speaker 4>my god, you're.

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<v Speaker 1>The pie woman, who remember? And then she did the

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<v Speaker 1>cakes on the date. First she tried all the pies

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<v Speaker 1>and then she was doing the cakes and it was

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<v Speaker 1>all about piastrians.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'll try and explain it less frantically than book did.

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<v Speaker 4>She took a dude to some random house to eat

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<v Speaker 4>homemade pies. There it which is a house with.

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<v Speaker 1>And they sat in the car and they ate the

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<v Speaker 1>whole pie.

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<v Speaker 2>And then he was upset because he realized that she

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<v Speaker 2>had taken somebody on a cake date and done the same.

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<v Speaker 4>Thing with it. We don't have to recap the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 4>We get she's the pilot. I'm upset for a Miss

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<v Speaker 4>crust Worthy.

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<v Speaker 1>And when it comes to pastries, this woman.

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<v Speaker 4>So that ended up not working out, But now she's

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<v Speaker 4>back on the line again with a new guy who is.

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<v Speaker 5>Welcome.

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome back, Miss Crustworthy hy Butterworth.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to know before anything, was there a theme

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<v Speaker 2>to this date?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I mean there was going to be.

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<v Speaker 4>But so it's been a few months since we last

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<v Speaker 4>talked to you. What's happened in that time?

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<v Speaker 5>I've been dating around. I found this wonderful guy. His

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<v Speaker 5>name is Ben Okay, and it's been going.

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<v Speaker 6>So well so far, and it's been got it, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>tends to find it but sure, Okay, So what's been like?

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<v Speaker 5>He's great, he's really funny, and we went to some

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<v Speaker 5>happy hours. It was really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You and on multiple dates have been Does he like Pie?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? And he's been invited me out with his friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we asked a very important question, is he into Pie?

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<v Speaker 1>That's the old her? He is?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it's still her.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's crazy. He brought you out to meet all

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<v Speaker 1>his friends and stuff. Already it sounds like things were

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<v Speaker 1>going like how many dates?

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<v Speaker 5>Hasn't been spend? Two dates?

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<v Speaker 7>Too?

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<v Speaker 5>Happy hours?

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<v Speaker 4>Too happy hours?

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<v Speaker 2>Quick to bring the friends in. But I guess it's

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<v Speaker 2>happy hours, so maybe everybody's there, you know, Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have to be stuck like facing each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and he was taking pictures and like, I feel

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<v Speaker 5>like if you're taking pictures, that means it's serious pictures

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<v Speaker 5>of what.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like are we talking clothes on or close off.

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<v Speaker 8>Or like no, like with his friends.

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<v Speaker 1>With his friends? Wait, you with his friends?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>It was me and a couple of his guy friends.

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<v Speaker 4>That sounds like a big deal.

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<v Speaker 6>Actually is.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I've ever had a girl go take.

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<v Speaker 1>A group photo not being it like you're gonna put everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>In the absolutely exclude people.

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<v Speaker 2>From I'm with Jeff actually on that one. I think

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<v Speaker 2>you can totally say, all right, guys, photo, can you.

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<v Speaker 1>Take this for us?

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<v Speaker 8>You are they?

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<v Speaker 4>No? We totally we're like good friends only best friends

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<v Speaker 4>now number one friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I think a guy taking a photo period is that's

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<v Speaker 2>a good point their friends anyways?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and then next morning he's like snapping me from

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<v Speaker 5>the airport.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh did you did you know? He was flying out?

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<v Speaker 1>No going? But that's a good sign, like he's continuing

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<v Speaker 1>this communication.

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<v Speaker 5>It's awesome, I guess so, But like, why wouldn't you

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<v Speaker 5>tell me we only.

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<v Speaker 2>Went on two dates? It's not like you're gonna know

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<v Speaker 2>happy hours. I still mention it, like, by the way

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<v Speaker 2>I'm flying, maybe he's having so much fun asking her questions, getting.

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<v Speaker 4>To know where did you find out where he was

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<v Speaker 4>going the Caribbean?

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, here two days I know.

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<v Speaker 5>And so he's like snapping me on the beach and

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<v Speaker 5>it's beautiful. And then later that day after that, he

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<v Speaker 5>stops on communication, Like and now I've been texting him

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<v Speaker 5>and sending him pictures or whatever, and he's not answering me.

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<v Speaker 5>It's been two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Two weeks week he got busy on his vation. I

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<v Speaker 2>was going to say, yeah, he was on a beach

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone, very dangerous place for you to be

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of water, Say, who knows, I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Looking up shark attacks in the Caribbean.

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<v Speaker 1>That's kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking.

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<v Speaker 5>I hate to think this way, but I'm thinking that

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<v Speaker 5>maybe he met someone on this trip and then he's

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<v Speaker 5>like not texting or he I mean, like you just said,

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<v Speaker 5>did he get eaten by a shark?

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<v Speaker 1>We actually call him and he's in the sharks.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just confused. It's like if it's not that, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>really confused because I don't normally click with people like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh huh, And I feel like he felt the same way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's giving you all the right signs.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think you have every reason and to

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<v Speaker 2>get an explanation from him.

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<v Speaker 4>You were returning the equal amount of like snaps back

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<v Speaker 4>to him. Right, it wasn't all one sided.

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<v Speaker 7>No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 5>It was half and half.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, this is odd, I trust girl. It's miss Crustworthy Brook.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's say the name right. We're gonna We're gonna do

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<v Speaker 4>right by Miss Crustworthy when we call worthy.

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<v Speaker 2>So that name makes her sound so old.

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<v Speaker 4>Miss Crustworthy. Laugh if you like it, Oh god, laugh,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm taking it. We're gonna come back. We're gonna call

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<v Speaker 4>this guy Ben and figure out what's his deal. Why

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<v Speaker 4>isn't he getting back to you after two whole weeks?

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you? Like help me reach out to him?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Let's see if he picks up when we

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<v Speaker 4>do your second date update right after this hold on

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<v Speaker 4>second Date update. We have our theories for why Ben

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<v Speaker 4>is in calling back our listener Juliet after he went

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<v Speaker 4>to the Caribbean two weeks ago. Theory number one, baby

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<v Speaker 4>shark in his shark family had a little Ben flavored

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<v Speaker 4>feast right off the coast.

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<v Speaker 3>So I should not last because we know it's likely

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<v Speaker 3>not a shark guy.

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<v Speaker 4>That's my number one. Theory number two, remember one Ben

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<v Speaker 4>dropped his phone in the ocean after too many breakfast

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<v Speaker 4>Marguerite or theory number three. The one Julia is most

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<v Speaker 4>worried about is Ben met another woman while on one

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<v Speaker 4>of the islands there.

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<v Speaker 3>Why wouldn't you just say, like, I'm so sorry. I

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<v Speaker 3>know we went on a couple of dates. I've met

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<v Speaker 3>someone it was fun.

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<v Speaker 8>Like.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels bad for Julia to root for shark in

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<v Speaker 1>this one.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we're all praying for because nobody wants number three.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah right, Julia, I definitely don't want to be rooting

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<v Speaker 7>for sharks, but I kind of am.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I will say getting eaten by a shark is

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<v Speaker 4>like the coolest.

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<v Speaker 1>We maybe took his phone and.

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<v Speaker 4>Text back, yeah it is rude built in or he

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't need Let's at least dial Ben's phone and see

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<v Speaker 4>if somebody, a water creature or Ben himself picks up.

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna get to the bottom, We're gonna find out.

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<v Speaker 4>Here we go, and we just dropped another five podcast,

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<v Speaker 4>but we went Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 8>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's a man.

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<v Speaker 4>Is this Ben?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Who's this? We're Uh we're a radio show. Hi, good morning.

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<v Speaker 4>We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh huh looking for recommendations on the Caribbean. No, anybody

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<v Speaker 1>that was smooth.

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<v Speaker 3>He's still confused.

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<v Speaker 8>What is it like, did I win like a concert

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<v Speaker 8>or something?

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<v Speaker 4>No, we haven't done something like that in a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 4>We're we're doing a segment here called a second Date

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<v Speaker 4>Update where we're trying to help one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 4>get in touch with you because you two hung out

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<v Speaker 4>a while ago and apparently had a really good time together.

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Julia. Oh uh, remember you guys went

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<v Speaker 4>to like.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, yes, no, I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 6>No, okay, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, apparently you guys went to a couple of happy

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<v Speaker 2>hours and yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, no, we had a we had a really good time.

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<v Speaker 8>I've just been out of town, so I.

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<v Speaker 1>Still Caribbean, right, Yeah? She said you were snapping her, so.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, yes, yeah, no, I've been in the Caribbean, but

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<v Speaker 8>I'm back.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was gonna say hard to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet I'm not busy trying.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I wonder you don't sound very relaxed right now,

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<v Speaker 4>So that's okay, makes sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you getting back to her, that's just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it sounds like you kind of dropped off.

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<v Speaker 8>No, I'm gonna I'm gonna reach out to her. I've

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<v Speaker 8>just you know, it's just been crazy, Like my life

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<v Speaker 8>has just been crazy, like.

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<v Speaker 3>The beaded dreads on the beach, and I like kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like embarrassed, and she's gonna see him look really cool.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah that's it. Yeah, I have corn rows.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, now, what's been so crazy?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I just you know, like I've just been busy

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<v Speaker 8>traveling to and from and like it's been really busy.

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<v Speaker 8>I just like, yeah, everything just you.

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<v Speaker 6>Know, Julia.

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<v Speaker 4>Julia mentioned that you had a lot going on in

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<v Speaker 4>your life even when you two were hanging out, that

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<v Speaker 4>you had to like squeeze in happy hour stuff. But

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<v Speaker 4>it sounds like you're saying you are still interested. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well that's good because she like when we talked to her,

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<v Speaker 4>she was worried that it was just like a one

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<v Speaker 4>or two night thing.

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<v Speaker 2>But I have a hot tip if you're interested in

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<v Speaker 2>a girl, maybe text her, yeah within two weeks, since.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna fall off.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, you know what, You're right, I should have please you.

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<v Speaker 8>You guys have a contact or whatever, right, or she

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<v Speaker 8>got in contact with you. You just tell her that

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<v Speaker 8>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell her honestly, you can do this.

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<v Speaker 7>I thought you met somebody else, because like two weeks

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<v Speaker 7>is a long talent.

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<v Speaker 4>So we didn't tell you that Julia has been listening

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<v Speaker 4>to this conversation. So yeah, there you go. You can

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<v Speaker 4>say sorry yourself directly to her.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh hey, hi, all right, Uh I don't I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't really, I don't know what to say this

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<v Speaker 8>little I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, did you meet somebody?

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<v Speaker 8>No, I didn't meet anyone new. I'm just I've just

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<v Speaker 8>been like busy, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just good to hear you from I'm just like

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<v Speaker 7>it's been way too long I haven't heard from you,

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<v Speaker 7>and I'm just like so relieved now because like I

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<v Speaker 7>felt like this instant chemistry and I don't normally feel

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<v Speaker 7>that with everyone.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, no, I mean I genuinely don't either. I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 8>I know everybody always says this, but like I've just

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<v Speaker 8>been caught up and it's not so busy and distracted,

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<v Speaker 8>but like I absolute like I do want to hang out.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, this is this is awesome, like, this is this

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<v Speaker 4>is way easier than these normally go because we will

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<v Speaker 4>actually pay for your guys's next date if you both

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<v Speaker 4>officially give us the yes.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, yeah, I'm totally excited. Awesome, But just quick, what

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<v Speaker 8>I Julia like, I am technically married, So I just

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<v Speaker 8>I hope that's whatever?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait wait wait wait.

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<v Speaker 8>Did you say married when yeah, I'm technically married.

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<v Speaker 1>What is technically mean? You're either married or you're not married?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just what you gotta wait? You got to explain

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<v Speaker 4>to us crazy honeymoon? Did you get married there?

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<v Speaker 8>No? No, no, no, nothing crazy like that. It was

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<v Speaker 8>our like five year anniversary.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold up, are you in like an open relationship? Does

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<v Speaker 2>your wife know this stuff?

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<v Speaker 8>Well not, I mean not technically no, Like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 8>Everybody's doing this nowadays.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's cheating. That's cheating. You're doing is cheating.

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<v Speaker 4>Bro, did you not hear everybody is doing this now?

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<v Speaker 4>He's one of the cool marriage photos of her with

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<v Speaker 4>his friends. Yeah, we heard that. Then you and your

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<v Speaker 4>friends got together and you were taking pictures with Julie.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't do that, yeah, but then you would just

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<v Speaker 1>claim that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's your buddy's wife or girlfriend or whatever, because it's

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<v Speaker 2>he wasn't in the picture with her.

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<v Speaker 8>My wife doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like totally angry right now.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, then I can't believe you different to me.

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<v Speaker 5>You just told me this right away.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I know, it's just like kind of an uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 8>thing to bring.

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<v Speaker 5>Up front, but your right away.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a fair a couple of things to bring up front.

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<v Speaker 8>They can laugh while they want, but like the weird

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<v Speaker 8>thing to bring up, and so it's better to do

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<v Speaker 8>it a little down the road, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it does soften the blow just a little.

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<v Speaker 7>Bit terrible And this is not going to work.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, hold on, hold on, how about we just go

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<v Speaker 8>out once and then you decide after no, you can't.

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<v Speaker 1>You you have to tell his wife. You have to out,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to let her know. You got to find her.

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<v Speaker 1>Sho'll listen to this.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, yeah, no, that's already happened. It's fine, Like it's

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<v Speaker 8>happened a couple of times where like girls will contact

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<v Speaker 8>her or whatever. She always believes me because it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the grossest response.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's a woman that's willing to believe whatever her

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<v Speaker 4>man says, and that's something that's rare in this world.

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<v Speaker 5>Ye, not rare.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't say it was a good thing. I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>saying it's rare.

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<v Speaker 3>Unfortunately, I have seen things like this where people just

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<v Speaker 3>don't care ros do it openly.

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<v Speaker 4>According to Ben, a lot of married couples are doing

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<v Speaker 4>this and it's the new norm.

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<v Speaker 3>But not do we feel bad, Jeff, because like we're

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<v Speaker 3>involved now, Like I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 4>Say solicit cheating.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not. We're not asking them to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>date now that we know he's.

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<v Speaker 4>We already asked, and they already both said.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, take backs job.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not giving you a gift card, Ben, you deserve

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<v Speaker 2>a gift card.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we're giving it to your wife.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she's going to take him to dinner.

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<v Speaker 8>Guys, are.

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<v Speaker 4>He's gonna feel guilty the whole time? Poor Julia, Julia,

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<v Speaker 4>you doing okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I'm gonna be fine.

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<v Speaker 5>I just gotta keep dating.

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<v Speaker 3>This is an easy answer, right, Like he's married is

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<v Speaker 3>a very thing to walk away from.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you believe?

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<v Speaker 2>Now you have to ask dudes before you go on

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<v Speaker 2>a date with him if they're married, Like what a

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<v Speaker 2>ridiculous question.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to ask do you have a girlfriend, and

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<v Speaker 3>then have a follow up do you also.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a wife?

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<v Speaker 5>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 8>Guys, they're not going to tell you the first time.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, that's fair, that's good advice. Actually, yes, Ben sucks. Ben, Ben,

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<v Speaker 4>I gotta say you are the most upstanding sucky person

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<v Speaker 4>that we've ever hand on the show. He gave some

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<v Speaker 4>good advice. Don't believe men advice. I hope no one

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<v Speaker 4>learned anything. I certainly didn't. Looking Jeffrey in the morning, Okay, Wow,

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<v Speaker 4>big emotional response in the studio from that one, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you not have an emotional response to that?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>The guy kept insisting it's more normal now for married

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<v Speaker 4>people to date outside of their relationships.

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<v Speaker 6>So what a cheater?

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<v Speaker 1>Says jeff His wife doesn't even know that he's doing it,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's yeah, sure different if they had an agreement

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<v Speaker 1>or something.

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<v Speaker 4>I have to look it up though, to see if

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<v Speaker 4>he was right. And according to a twenty twenty three study,

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<v Speaker 4>marriage infidelity rates are on the rise, okay, and the

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<v Speaker 4>percentage of married people who cheat right now is somewhere

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<v Speaker 4>between seventy one percent and eleven percent and eleven Jeff

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<v Speaker 4>science has to leave a little bit of margin of

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<v Speaker 4>air there.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's the dumbest study, really good website.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know even if the science came back and

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<v Speaker 2>prove it, that means he was doing the right.

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<v Speaker 4>Thing, or that he's just part of the status quo.

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<v Speaker 4>The thing is, we do know. Each person who answered yes,

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<v Speaker 4>they are cheating said it's cool. Everybody's doing it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's the new nineteen eighties marijuana. It's cool, man, everybody's

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<v Speaker 4>doing it.

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<v Speaker 6>Bro.

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<v Speaker 4>So at the end, I guess he's still a bad guy.

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<v Speaker 4>But I guess I don't want to offend seventy one

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<v Speaker 4>to eleven percent of the population. Bro, I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 4>where people lie. Some cheatering just texted in, Oh great,

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<v Speaker 4>we lost the cheating demo, darning. I am an upstanding

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<v Speaker 4>cheating but text in to seven eighty five nine to two,

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<v Speaker 4>tell us what you thought about the second date updated.

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<v Speaker 5>It was great.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you need help with your dating life, married

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<v Speaker 4>or single, we'll try and help you out. We'll call

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<v Speaker 4>that person hopefully single. We'll call that person who's not

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<v Speaker 4>calling you back