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Speaker 1: Hey, you found us.

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Speaker 2: It's working Jeffrey in the morning and our Second Date podcast.

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Speaker 2: Not like is that hard to find these days since

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Speaker 2: we're charting on the top comedy charts every week on Spotify.

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Speaker 3: Yeahre welcome, Yeah, every night and I just stream it

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Speaker 3: on five thousand different laptops.

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Speaker 1: You're the one that.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, guys, but I'm tired of those ratings.

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Speaker 1: All right, Hey, thanks for being Aaron. Don't forget.

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Speaker 2: We do have forty five more minutes of this painful

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Speaker 2: show if you can endure it over on our main feed.

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Speaker 2: Just go to Brook and Jeffrey for that one. But

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Speaker 2: right now, let's get to what you came forward. That's

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Speaker 2: a second date.

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Speaker 4: Yes, second Date, up date. Occasionally we have return listeners

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Speaker 4: friends of the show who come back multiple times to

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Speaker 4: this segment for whatever reason.

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Speaker 1: I call them people that like punishment.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and they'll sometimes get nicknames like Matt Many or Rufer.

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Speaker 4: Haven't heard from either of those guys in a while, though,

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Speaker 4: so hopefully they both found love and Rufer isn't like

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Speaker 4: living in a religious compound in the woods or something.

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Speaker 1: I can't both be true.

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey, Oh yeah, maybe that's what he wants. That's fair,

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Speaker 4: that's true. A lot of romance there. The thing is,

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Speaker 4: it's rare for us to have a woman come back

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Speaker 4: to the show after we failed to get her a date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because usually the smarter one.

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Speaker 4: Women learn their lessons much much quicker than we do.

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Speaker 4: But today is different because we have the return of

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Speaker 4: someone I'm nicknaming Miss Crustworthy, Julia the pie lead. Oh

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Speaker 4: my god, you're.

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Speaker 1: The pie woman, who remember? And then she did the

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Speaker 1: cakes on the date. First she tried all the pies

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Speaker 1: and then she was doing the cakes and it was

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Speaker 1: all about piastrians.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'll try and explain it less frantically than book did.

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Speaker 4: She took a dude to some random house to eat

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Speaker 4: homemade pies. There it which is a house with.

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Speaker 1: And they sat in the car and they ate the

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Speaker 1: whole pie.

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Speaker 2: And then he was upset because he realized that she

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Speaker 2: had taken somebody on a cake date and done the same.

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Speaker 4: Thing with it. We don't have to recap the whole thing.

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Speaker 4: We get she's the pilot. I'm upset for a Miss

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Speaker 4: crust Worthy.

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Speaker 1: And when it comes to pastries, this woman.

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Speaker 4: So that ended up not working out, But now she's

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Speaker 4: back on the line again with a new guy who is.

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Speaker 5: Welcome.

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Speaker 4: Welcome back, Miss Crustworthy hy Butterworth.

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Speaker 2: I have to know before anything, was there a theme

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Speaker 5: No, I mean there was going to be.

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Speaker 4: But so it's been a few months since we last

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Speaker 4: talked to you. What's happened in that time?

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Speaker 5: I've been dating around. I found this wonderful guy. His

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Speaker 5: name is Ben Okay, and it's been going.

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Speaker 6: So well so far, and it's been got it, yeah,

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Speaker 6: tends to find it but sure, Okay, So what's been like?

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Speaker 5: He's great, he's really funny, and we went to some

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Speaker 5: happy hours. It was really fun.

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Speaker 1: You and on multiple dates have been Does he like Pie?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? And he's been invited me out with his friends.

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Speaker 4: Well, we asked a very important question, is he into Pie?

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Speaker 1: That's the old her? He is?

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's still her.

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Speaker 2: You don't.

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Speaker 1: But that's crazy. He brought you out to meet all

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Speaker 1: going like how many dates?

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Speaker 5: Hasn't been spend? Two dates?

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Speaker 7: Too?

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Speaker 5: Happy hours?

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Speaker 4: Too happy hours?

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Speaker 2: Quick to bring the friends in. But I guess it's

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Speaker 3: You don't have to be stuck like facing each other.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and he was taking pictures and like, I feel

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like are we talking clothes on or close off.

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Speaker 8: Or like no, like with his friends.

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Speaker 1: With his friends? Wait, you with his friends?

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Speaker 5: It was me and a couple of his guy friends.

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Speaker 4: That sounds like a big deal.

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Speaker 6: Actually is.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I've ever had a girl go take.

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Speaker 1: A group photo not being it like you're gonna put everybody.

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Speaker 2: From I'm with Jeff actually on that one. I think

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Speaker 1: Take this for us?

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Speaker 8: You are they?

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Speaker 4: No? We totally we're like good friends only best friends

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Speaker 2: I think a guy taking a photo period is that's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then next morning he's like snapping me from

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Speaker 1: Oh did you did you know? He was flying out?

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Speaker 1: No going? But that's a good sign, like he's continuing

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Speaker 5: It's awesome, I guess so, But like, why wouldn't you

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Speaker 2: Went on two dates? It's not like you're gonna know

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Speaker 2: happy hours. I still mention it, like, by the way

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Speaker 4: To know where did you find out where he was

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Speaker 1: And yeah, here two days I know.

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Speaker 5: And so he's like snapping me on the beach and

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Speaker 5: it's beautiful. And then later that day after that, he

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Speaker 5: stops on communication, Like and now I've been texting him

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Speaker 5: It's been two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Two weeks week he got busy on his vation. I

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Speaker 2: a lot of water, Say, who knows, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Looking up shark attacks in the Caribbean.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of weird.

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Speaker 4: I'm thinking.

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Speaker 5: I hate to think this way, but I'm thinking that

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Speaker 5: like not texting or he I mean, like you just said,

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Speaker 5: did he get eaten by a shark?

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Speaker 1: We actually call him and he's in the sharks.

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Speaker 5: I'm just confused. It's like if it's not that, I'm

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Speaker 5: Uh huh, And I feel like he felt the same way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's giving you all the right signs.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think you have every reason and to

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Speaker 4: You were returning the equal amount of like snaps back

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Speaker 4: to him. Right, it wasn't all one sided.

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Speaker 7: No, not at all.

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Speaker 5: It was half and half.

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is odd, I trust girl. It's miss Crustworthy Brook.

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Speaker 4: Let's say the name right. We're gonna We're gonna do

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Speaker 4: right by Miss Crustworthy when we call worthy.

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Speaker 2: So that name makes her sound so old.

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Speaker 4: Miss Crustworthy. Laugh if you like it, Oh god, laugh,

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Speaker 4: I'm taking it. We're gonna come back. We're gonna call

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Speaker 4: this guy Ben and figure out what's his deal. Why

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Speaker 4: isn't he getting back to you after two whole weeks?

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Speaker 5: Thank you? Like help me reach out to him?

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Speaker 4: All right, Let's see if he picks up when we

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Speaker 4: do your second date update right after this hold on

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Speaker 4: second Date update. We have our theories for why Ben

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Speaker 4: is in calling back our listener Juliet after he went

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Speaker 4: to the Caribbean two weeks ago. Theory number one, baby

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Speaker 4: shark in his shark family had a little Ben flavored

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Speaker 3: So I should not last because we know it's likely

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Speaker 4: That's my number one. Theory number two, remember one Ben

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Speaker 4: dropped his phone in the ocean after too many breakfast

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Speaker 4: Marguerite or theory number three. The one Julia is most

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Speaker 4: worried about is Ben met another woman while on one

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Speaker 3: Why wouldn't you just say, like, I'm so sorry. I

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Speaker 8: Like.

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Speaker 1: It feels bad for Julia to root for shark in

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Speaker 4: I think we're all praying for because nobody wants number three.

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Speaker 7: Yeah right, Julia, I definitely don't want to be rooting

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I will say getting eaten by a shark is

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Speaker 4: like the coolest.

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Speaker 1: We maybe took his phone and.

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Speaker 4: Text back, yeah it is rude built in or he

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Speaker 4: We're gonna get to the bottom, We're gonna find out.

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Speaker 4: Here we go, and we just dropped another five podcast,

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Speaker 8: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a man.

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Speaker 4: Is this Ben?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Who's this? We're Uh we're a radio show. Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 4: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh looking for recommendations on the Caribbean. No, anybody

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Speaker 1: that was smooth.

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Speaker 3: He's still confused.

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Speaker 8: What is it like, did I win like a concert

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Speaker 4: No, we haven't done something like that in a long time.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 4: We're we're doing a segment here called a second Date

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Speaker 4: Update where we're trying to help one of our listeners

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Speaker 4: get in touch with you because you two hung out

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Speaker 4: a while ago and apparently had a really good time together.

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Speaker 4: Her name is Julia. Oh uh, remember you guys went

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Speaker 4: to like.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yes, no, I know, I know.

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Speaker 6: No, okay, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, apparently you guys went to a couple of happy

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Speaker 8: Yeah, no, we had a we had a really good time.

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Speaker 8: I've just been out of town, so I.

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Speaker 1: Still Caribbean, right, Yeah? She said you were snapping her, so.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yes, yeah, no, I've been in the Caribbean, but

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Speaker 8: I'm back.

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Speaker 4: So I was gonna say hard to leave.

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Speaker 1: I bet I'm not busy trying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wonder you don't sound very relaxed right now,

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Speaker 4: So that's okay, makes sense.

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Speaker 2: Why are you getting back to her, that's just you know,

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Speaker 2: it sounds like you kind of dropped off.

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Speaker 8: No, I'm gonna I'm gonna reach out to her. I've

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Speaker 8: just you know, it's just been crazy, Like my life

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Speaker 8: has just been crazy, like.

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Speaker 3: The beaded dreads on the beach, and I like kind

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Speaker 3: of like embarrassed, and she's gonna see him look really cool.

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Speaker 8: Yeah that's it. Yeah, I have corn rows.

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Speaker 2: Now, now, what's been so crazy?

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Speaker 8: Well, I just you know, like I've just been busy

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Speaker 8: I just like, yeah, everything just you.

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Speaker 4: Julia mentioned that you had a lot going on in

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Speaker 4: it sounds like you're saying you are still interested. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well that's good because she like when we talked to her,

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Speaker 2: But I have a hot tip if you're interested in

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Speaker 1: She's gonna fall off.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you know what, You're right, I should have please you.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Tell her honestly, you can do this.

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Speaker 7: I thought you met somebody else, because like two weeks

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Speaker 4: So we didn't tell you that Julia has been listening

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Speaker 8: Oh hey, hi, all right, Uh I don't I'm sorry.

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Speaker 8: I don't really, I don't know what to say this

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Speaker 5: Know, did you meet somebody?

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Speaker 8: No, I didn't meet anyone new. I'm just I've just

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Speaker 7: It's just good to hear you from I'm just like

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Speaker 7: it's been way too long I haven't heard from you,

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Speaker 7: and I'm just like so relieved now because like I

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Speaker 8: Yeah, no, I mean I genuinely don't either. I'm just like,

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Speaker 8: but like I absolute like I do want to hang out.

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Speaker 4: Well, this is this is awesome, like, this is this

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Speaker 4: actually pay for your guys's next date if you both

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Speaker 4: officially give us the yes.

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Speaker 8: Yes, yeah, I'm totally excited. Awesome, But just quick, what

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Speaker 8: I Julia like, I am technically married, So I just

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Speaker 8: I hope that's whatever?

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Speaker 8: Did you say married when yeah, I'm technically married.

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Speaker 1: What is technically mean? You're either married or you're not married?

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Speaker 4: I'm just what you gotta wait? You got to explain

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Speaker 4: to us crazy honeymoon? Did you get married there?

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Speaker 8: No? No, no, no, nothing crazy like that. It was

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Speaker 2: Hold up, are you in like an open relationship? Does

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Speaker 8: Well not, I mean not technically no, Like I don't know.

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Speaker 8: Everybody's doing this nowadays.

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Speaker 1: No, that's cheating. That's cheating. You're doing is cheating.

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Speaker 4: Bro, did you not hear everybody is doing this now?

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Speaker 4: He's one of the cool marriage photos of her with

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't do that, yeah, but then you would just

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Speaker 2: It's your buddy's wife or girlfriend or whatever, because it's

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Speaker 8: My wife doesn't know.

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Speaker 1: I was like totally angry right now.

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Speaker 5: I mean, then I can't believe you different to me.

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Speaker 5: You just told me this right away.

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Speaker 8: Well, I know, it's just like kind of an uncomfortable

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Speaker 5: Up front, but your right away.

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Speaker 4: It's a fair a couple of things to bring up front.

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Speaker 8: They can laugh while they want, but like the weird

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it does soften the blow just a little.

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Speaker 7: Bit terrible And this is not going to work.

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Speaker 8: Well, hold on, hold on, how about we just go

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Speaker 8: out once and then you decide after no, you can't.

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Speaker 1: You you have to tell his wife. You have to out,

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Speaker 1: you have to let her know. You got to find her.

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Speaker 1: Sho'll listen to this.

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Speaker 8: Yes, yeah, no, that's already happened. It's fine, Like it's

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Speaker 8: happened a couple of times where like girls will contact

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Speaker 8: her or whatever. She always believes me because it's fine.

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Speaker 1: That is the grossest response.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's a woman that's willing to believe whatever her

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Speaker 5: Ye, not rare.

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Speaker 4: I didn't say it was a good thing. I'm just

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Speaker 3: Unfortunately, I have seen things like this where people just

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Speaker 3: don't care ros do it openly.

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Speaker 4: According to Ben, a lot of married couples are doing

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Speaker 3: But not do we feel bad, Jeff, because like we're

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Speaker 4: Say solicit cheating.

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Speaker 1: We're not. We're not asking them to go on a

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Speaker 4: We already asked, and they already both said.

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Speaker 1: Yes, take backs job.

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Speaker 2: We're not giving you a gift card, Ben, you deserve

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Speaker 2: a gift card.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're giving it to your wife.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Actually like that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's going to take him to dinner.

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Speaker 8: Guys, are.

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Speaker 4: He's gonna feel guilty the whole time? Poor Julia, Julia,

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Speaker 4: you doing okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm gonna be fine.

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Speaker 5: I just gotta keep dating.

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Speaker 3: This is an easy answer, right, Like he's married is

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Speaker 3: a very thing to walk away from.

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Speaker 1: Can you believe?

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Speaker 2: Now you have to ask dudes before you go on

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Speaker 2: a date with him if they're married, Like what a

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Speaker 3: You have to ask do you have a girlfriend, and

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Speaker 3: then have a follow up do you also.

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Speaker 1: Have a wife?

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Speaker 5: What do you think?

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Speaker 8: Guys, they're not going to tell you the first time.

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Speaker 4: Wait, that's fair, that's good advice. Actually, yes, Ben sucks. Ben, Ben,

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Speaker 4: I gotta say you are the most upstanding sucky person

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Speaker 4: that we've ever hand on the show. He gave some

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Speaker 4: good advice. Don't believe men advice. I hope no one

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Speaker 4: learned anything. I certainly didn't. Looking Jeffrey in the morning, Okay, Wow,

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Speaker 4: big emotional response in the studio from that one, for sure.

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Speaker 1: How did you not have an emotional response to that?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 4: The guy kept insisting it's more normal now for married

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Speaker 6: So what a cheater?

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Speaker 1: Says jeff His wife doesn't even know that he's doing it,

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Speaker 1: like it's yeah, sure different if they had an agreement

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Speaker 4: I have to look it up though, to see if

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Speaker 4: he was right. And according to a twenty twenty three study,

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Speaker 4: marriage infidelity rates are on the rise, okay, and the

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Speaker 4: between seventy one percent and eleven percent and eleven Jeff

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Speaker 1: But he's the dumbest study, really good website.

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Speaker 2: We don't know even if the science came back and

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Speaker 4: Thing, or that he's just part of the status quo.

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Speaker 4: The thing is, we do know. Each person who answered yes,

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Speaker 4: they are cheating said it's cool. Everybody's doing it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's the new nineteen eighties marijuana. It's cool, man, everybody's

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Speaker 6: Bro.

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Speaker 4: So at the end, I guess he's still a bad guy.

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Speaker 4: But I guess I don't want to offend seventy one

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Speaker 4: to eleven percent of the population. Bro, I'm not sure

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Speaker 4: where people lie. Some cheatering just texted in, Oh great,

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Speaker 4: we lost the cheating demo, darning. I am an upstanding

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Speaker 4: cheating but text in to seven eighty five nine to two,

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Speaker 4: tell us what you thought about the second date updated.

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Speaker 5: It was great.

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Speaker 4: And if you need help with your dating life, married

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Speaker 4: or single, we'll try and help you out. We'll call

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Speaker 4: that person hopefully single. We'll call that person who's not

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Speaker 4: calling you back