1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:04,120 Speaker 1: All right, So this is from VIC on Steve Harvey FM. 2 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: VIC writes, last weekend, I was at my homeboy's mama's 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: house for a barbecue and went into the house. As 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: I was walking out, my friend's mama started talking to 5 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: me in the hallway and she was flirting. I'd be 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 1: lying if I said I wasn't into it. But I'm curious. 7 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: What are the downsides of taking my friend's mama up 8 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: on her offer of getting together and seeing what's what happens? Yeah, 9 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: he wants to date his friend's mom and he wants 10 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: to know you. 11 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 2: You're getting called by your friend. Is the downside? 12 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 3: If your boy find out you over there doing something 13 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 3: with his mama, that's the downside. 14 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 2: I see. 15 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: But she flirted with him. 16 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 3: I got mama. You don't get the cookout, doll. That's 17 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 3: what mama is. You don't get to cook it. 18 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: All right. 19 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 3: Now, she's flirting with you, and you think that's a 20 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 3: connection right there. You think the connection is a margarita. 21 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 3: That's what it is. 22 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 2: Your mama drinking had the cookout? 23 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 3: Okay, now, if you're going to listen, really it should 24 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 3: have happened then right then. 25 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: But you can. 26 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: Always say if she's fine, you make those exceptions, remin 27 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: you guys. 28 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 3: His mama, the boy mama probably is fine because he's 29 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 3: over there thinking about it. He's already think so if 30 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 3: you're thinking about it, she's fine. Now where's y'all? Y'all 31 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 3: got to get out this house and this cookout and 32 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 3: get somewhere else to make this happen. But you can't 33 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 3: jump it off right there at the boy house. Not 34 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 3: not not not not at its not at his house. 35 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: With his mama. Dog don't I got mama fined. 36 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 4: I gotn't disagree if your mama fined? Your new name 37 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 4: is son? How we do that one? 38 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 2: That's what you tell your friend? 39 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, kitty, my name is daddy. Daddy k what you 40 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 4: need to be saying and go clean that room, put 41 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 4: your trifless. 42 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: Our friendship been changed. 43 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 4: Man, Am I am your father now? 44 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 5: And just disrespectful what you talk to him like this? 45 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 4: It's daddy, k that's it, Kenny, No, mo, I'm daddy. 46 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 5: What you say? 47 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 2: Junior? 48 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:24,959 Speaker 5: Watching, I see your mama talking to our sad of 49 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 5: here tripping. 50 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, chicken in here? 51 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, hey hey hey get out my recliner. Wow. 52 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: So hopefully vic uh Tommy Junior helped you out on 53 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: that one, not at all all right, so we do 54 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: have time for another one. Guys. This is from Regina 55 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: on Steve Harvey FM. Regina writes, my boyfriend and I 56 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,359 Speaker 1: work out together all the time, but lately I can 57 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: tell something's off. He's win things slowing down, clearly in pain, 58 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 1: but every time I ask him, he insists he's fine. 59 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he's nursing a back injury, but he's 60 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 1: too proud to admit it. I don't think less of 61 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: him for being hurt, it happened. How do I get 62 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 1: him to open up and stop pretending he's invincible? 63 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 2: I think he nurses some fact, that's a lot of stuff. 64 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 3: You don't really see what he's going to do. He 65 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 3: nursing something, all right, He didn't got bigger. That's what 66 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 3: you need to understand. He back there, Yeah, back. When 67 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 3: you see a back, you know what's coming. You see 68 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 3: creases and grooves from the back. 69 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what you're dealing with. His back hurt. 70 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: So yeah, but that's her question. How does she get 71 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: him to open up and stop pretending like he's all right? 72 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: You know he can't say that, Guys, she needs how 73 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: to approach him with this. 74 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, and if you unbutton this jacket, he could breathe. 75 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 5: That's the problem. 76 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 4: Open up that jacket, Tommy, right, fat, there's what we 77 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 4: could do. 78 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 2: But it's okay. 79 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: I mean, that's why he's in the gym. So he's 80 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 1: trying to get healthy. 81 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 5: If he is, does he sound like that. 82 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 3: He got one of them sweat vest on. You know, 83 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 3: that's how you get once you get in them things. 84 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: All right, guys, Uh, that was no help at all. Yes, 85 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,799 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.