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Speaker 3: I'm sure.

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Speaker 2: So this is from a nineteen year old female. My

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Speaker 2: friend downloaded dating apps like Tinder and Hinge for the

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Speaker 2: first time about a week ago for reference. She's the

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Speaker 2: type that always says she wants a boyfriend, wants to

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Speaker 2: do couples things, feels lonely, win single, et cetera. She's also,

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Speaker 2: in my opinion, at least very normal and average looks wise,

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Speaker 2: not ugly, not super high, just all right. Since then,

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Speaker 2: she's been complaining to me that almost all of the

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Speaker 2: men are ugly, short, etc. And that she doesn't match

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Speaker 2: with anybody who's hot. I asked to see the people

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Speaker 2: that she was calling ugly, and she showed me her likes,

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Speaker 2: and it showed people that were particularly sort of within

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Speaker 2: her league, also moderately attractive people, moderately attractive men. I

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Speaker 2: told her that these guys were all in her league

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Speaker 2: and that she should give some of them a chance,

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Speaker 2: since she always complains about wanting to be in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: She denied that she's in the same league as them,

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Speaker 2: and said that she's much more attractive than they are.

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Speaker 2: I've pointed out in her own words she doesn't match

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Speaker 2: with any of the guys that she does find attractive,

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Speaker 2: so she's not in their league. She said, I'm an

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Speaker 2: ahle am. I So if your friend comes to you

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Speaker 2: and says, all these ugly guys only ugly guys want

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Speaker 2: to go out with me, but you find those ugly

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Speaker 2: guys to be just normal looking guys and you find

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Speaker 2: your friend to be normal looking, just sounds terrible, but like, honestly,

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Speaker 2: like if you have a friend who has unreasonable expectations

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Speaker 2: for and you can dream for whatever you want. But

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Speaker 2: let's face it, I mean maybe the guy that she

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Speaker 2: envisions may not be interested in her. Maybe, but let's

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Speaker 2: and again this sounds bad, but like, let's just be realistic,

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Speaker 2: right that that maybe she wants to go out with

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Speaker 2: a supermodel, and and maybe there's a supermodel that would

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Speaker 2: want to go out with her, but maybe per capita,

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Speaker 2: she would have a better chance going out with men

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Speaker 2: who are a little bit more less supermodeling. Is that

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Speaker 2: a fair thing to say to your friend eight five

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Speaker 2: five five three five or is that an awful thing

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Speaker 2: to say because you're kind of helping that that. I mean,

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Speaker 2: you don't have to call your friend ugly, But you

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Speaker 2: could say, like, hey, you say you want all these

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Speaker 2: here's another way you could say that, I think is nicer.

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Speaker 2: You say you want all these things, right, you want companionship,

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Speaker 2: you want you want a partner, you feel lonely, you

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Speaker 2: want to do couples things. Maybe your expectations are a

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Speaker 2: little high, you know, maybe the things that you're looking

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Speaker 2: for a little high. Maybe, but you also want the

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Speaker 2: hottest guy on the internet. So maybe maybe we should

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Speaker 2: be looking a little more internally, or maybe maybe our

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Speaker 2: expectations and goals are a little beyond what's reasonable because

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Speaker 2: we all know the person who will only date one

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Speaker 2: kind of person, and then that really limits your opportunity

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Speaker 2: to get the other things that you want. Right, So maybe,

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Speaker 2: and then also I'm trying to make this sound good,

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Speaker 2: but basically she says her friend is average and should

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Speaker 2: find average people, right, which maybe is fair advice. But

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Speaker 2: we all have probably dated that the person that looks

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Speaker 2: the way we want them to, but they don't have

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Speaker 2: any of the other qualities that we want. Maybe they're

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Speaker 2: not even good people. We've probably also dated ugly people

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Speaker 2: who aren't good people, or ugly people who are very

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Speaker 2: great people and provide all the other things. They love

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Speaker 2: you and they're they're loyal to you and whatever. So

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Speaker 2: I guess my thing is if you're only looking for

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Speaker 2: people who you think are super hot, then you're probably

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Speaker 2: missing a lot of other things.

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Speaker 1: Oh, yes, that's the way you say it, right.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean I would just say it.

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Speaker 2: You would, So you would you would say to your

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Speaker 2: friend Kiki, you, I'm sorry, but you your expectations are

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Speaker 2: too high and maybe you should bring it back to work.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say, girl. So we all have strengths

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Speaker 4: and weak strengths and weaknesses Okay, strengths, and I would say,

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Speaker 4: you know, you are really strong in the friendship department.

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Speaker 3: In the personality, oh damn.

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Speaker 2: If anybody calls me struck, if anyone says strengths and weaknesses,

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Speaker 2: I'm very strong in the personality department.

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Speaker 4: You knock it out the park when it comes to personality.

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Speaker 4: But on the looks, I ain't going you. We could

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Speaker 4: do a little work, and so I think you should

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Speaker 4: give another type of guy a chance. And you know,

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Speaker 4: because or type of guy is down, you're setting your

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Speaker 4: friends up for failure. Like you're setting a friend up

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Speaker 4: and feel you're telling her that she can go get

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Speaker 4: a hot guy and you know she's ugly, Like, come on.

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Speaker 3: Be for real. You don't think any of your friends

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Speaker 3: are ugly?

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Speaker 1: Do you?

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Speaker 4: But I don't, Okay, I don't think my friends know.

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Speaker 3: What they should go for.

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Speaker 1: You and I know what I can go for. You know,

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Speaker 1: like you could have anything you want.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure, Kaylee wen't want to get real that we've

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Speaker 2: all probably watched our friends struggle with dating and they

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Speaker 2: and they gravitate towards something that isn't necessarily the most productive,

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Speaker 2: whether it's toxic guys or girls, or whether it's rich

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Speaker 2: a themale dating or or I don't know, maybe they're

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Speaker 2: just they're not prioritizing the right qualities. So maybe that's

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Speaker 2: how you say it. It's like, look, you're really focused

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Speaker 2: an ugly person. Maybe you don't even make it about

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Speaker 2: their appearance. You just say like, but maybe we should

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Speaker 2: start looking into other qualities because there's more out there.

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Speaker 1: You can never tell your friend that they are not attraction.

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Speaker 6: You cannot say that to someone you love in any circle.

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean though, But I'm saying, so fus

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Speaker 2: focus on the other stuff.

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Speaker 1: La, Hi, La, How you doing?

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Speaker 5: Ray Breed?

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Speaker 4: How are you?

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Speaker 2: Guys?

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Speaker 5: I love all of you.

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Speaker 1: First off, what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 2: What do you tell your friend If your friend is

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Speaker 2: really focused on looks and they're not necessarily bull of

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Speaker 2: the same caliber.

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Speaker 1: Of what they're seeking.

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Speaker 5: This is crazy because I mean, I like I text

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Speaker 5: that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, So

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Speaker 5: it depends on what you're looking for in beauty. When

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Speaker 5: you say beauty, do you want to beat the full heart.

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Speaker 5: Do you want a kind heart? Do you want someone

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Speaker 5: to takes care of you? Or do you want to

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Speaker 5: six foot seven fine something, something that is full of

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Speaker 5: the bad words. So it's just the chance, and it

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Speaker 5: will be hard to tell a friend. But if you're

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Speaker 5: a real friend, I would be super honest. I would

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Speaker 5: be super honest. I want to tell her that she

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Speaker 5: was ugly, you know, but I would be like, you,

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Speaker 5: guys are compatible. Look at him, look at you. It

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Speaker 5: just depends on what you're looking.

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Speaker 6: At him, and.

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Speaker 2: Look at you, with all due respect, look at him

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Speaker 2: and look at you. It's not that's.

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Speaker 1: Not the approach. Look at him, look at you.

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Speaker 5: I got to think that, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, we're just whiteboarding here and no bad ideas.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, La, have a good day. I love you,

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Speaker 2: call anytime. Hey, Mandy, how you doing, Mandy? Good morning?

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Speaker 1: Look at him and look at you.

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Speaker 3: Make a cute baby.

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Speaker 4: That's how you got to say it, because you know

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Speaker 4: they say ugly people make you baby.

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Speaker 3: Jesus yea make a great baby.

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Speaker 1: Negative positive? Don't you remember that?

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Speaker 2: Going What do you say to your friend who's shooting

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Speaker 2: for the stars from a dating perspective and not hitting

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Speaker 2: because maybe they should be a little bit more reasonable, realistic.

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Speaker 7: Well, there's a way that you can say things to

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Speaker 7: at work you want someone to do something for you,

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Speaker 7: instead of saying, you know, ordering them around to do it,

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Speaker 7: say you know, can you help me? Or you know,

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Speaker 7: when you're talking to your friend, you tell your friend, hey,

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Speaker 7: you know, maybe this guy doesn't look that good, but

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Speaker 7: you know, maybe there is something about him.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you're saying point out, you know, sort of

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Speaker 2: like nothing to see here, like kind of point out. Uh,

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Speaker 2: just find the positives and elevate them.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but when you're talking to your friend and you

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Speaker 7: know your friend maybe not be in the same link

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Speaker 7: as the hot people, then maybe you tell them, I

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Speaker 7: don't know, there's many fish in the sea.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, is not getting better?

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Speaker 7: Just mine for you?

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Speaker 1: Oh boy.

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Speaker 2: Hey, there's a site for people that look like you

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Speaker 2: and it's not this one.

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Speaker 1: It's called normal people dot com.

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Speaker 7: Hey, there's just a way to say it without being

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Speaker 2: Mandy, with all the respect, I don't think it's any

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Speaker 2: of the ways. Yeah, yeah, thank you, you have a

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Speaker 2: great day, all right. I know it's a tough one, right,

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Speaker 2: because you want your friend to find what they're looking for.

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Speaker 2: But if they're only obsessed with appearance, and then maybe

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Speaker 2: that's not going to work. Hey, Roberta, Roberta, how you doing?

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Speaker 2: What do you think I'm.

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Speaker 1: Going to you?

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Speaker 6: So I think that's a friend that needs to go

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Speaker 6: outside and touch the grass? Yeah, lower for expectations. I

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Speaker 6: wouldn't be a good friend if I would like to

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Speaker 6: my friend like that, because look, I'm gonna be honest

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Speaker 6: with you.

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Speaker 1: Like you look questionable too, So.

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Speaker 2: Understanding, now I have found people, I gotta be honest

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Speaker 2: with you.

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Speaker 1: You look questionable too.

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Speaker 3: Look what you've done to these Roberta.

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Speaker 1: Hey, can I ask you, Roberta, do you have any friends?

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Speaker 8: You know what?

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Speaker 6: You actually have friends? I mean I approached him and

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Speaker 6: I told him, I'm like, look, I am brutally honest.

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Speaker 6: I don't sit here, and I don't beat it around

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Speaker 6: the bush.

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Speaker 1: Don't beat it around the bush.

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Speaker 2: Your own never beat it around the bush, Roberta. Just

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Speaker 2: so you never get yourself in trouble with any of

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Speaker 2: the of the authorities. It's beat around the bush. No

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Speaker 2: one's beating anything. But anyway, I'm just trying to help you.

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Speaker 2: I'll being really honestly with you.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, let me give you an example. Okay, me, I'm

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Speaker 6: a heavier, said girl, but I have a really pretty face.

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Speaker 6: My husband, he is not the type. He was very vain.

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Speaker 2: That's actually I think it's an excellent example. Right, Maybe

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Speaker 1: Right, So there's got to be a way to say this.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's not how to do it.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's just, hey, you're looking for a lot of

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Speaker 1: So let's start looking.

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Speaker 2: Maybe we start looking a little bit less and a

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and I would also recommend the therapist.

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Speaker 2: So so yeah, so you ain't it, you ain't hitting,

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Speaker 1: You should probably see it. Roberta.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know you're trying to help, but man,

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Speaker 6: You're the last coc in the desert, Like, come on.

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Speaker 1: The last coca in the desert.

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Speaker 3: Where are these phrases coming?

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Speaker 1: What you're saying, Roberta.

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Speaker 2: You take a you take your pretty face and go

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Speaker 2: No, that was a good point though, Yes, no, because

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Speaker 2: But it was like, oh, it's gotta be oh they

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Speaker 1: Yeah they talk better than the excited tell me. These

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Speaker 8: Jason Brown, Yes, ready, I am go dear blogs. So

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