WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Hearts and Crafts 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:01.680 It's Brooking Jeffrey in the morning, and we've got a 0:00:01.680 --> 0:00:04.040 brand new Second Date podcast for you. 0:00:04.080 --> 0:00:06.640 Thanks so much for being here. Yes, thank you, we 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:07.040 love it. 0:00:07.080 --> 0:00:09.879 And today I'm really curious to see how many people 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:12.600 this would work on this guy's trick. I don't know 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:14.480 if it's a trick, but it's a cute way to 0:00:14.480 --> 0:00:16.520 give out your number without ever having to talk to anyone. 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:19.040 Yeah, it's creative and funny. I think, Okay, it would 0:00:19.079 --> 0:00:22.040 work on you. Yeah I would. Yeah, awesome. So all 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:24.239 the guys start doing it, that's the thing. Only one 0:00:24.320 --> 0:00:26.400 time is it funny, you know, and then it's not. 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:28.640 Then it goes viral and everyone's a farming. 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:29.800 Yeah, yeah, that's right. 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:30.720 All right. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:32.159 What do we got in comments right now? 0:00:32.200 --> 0:00:35.479 Yeah, there's one from Pancham who said, love listening to 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:39.040 this podcast. I migrated to Spotify from Insta reels and 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:42.239 my dog recognizes Brook's voice. She'll get the zoomies when 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:44.239 the Second Date update starts. 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:48.200 So you're a good book. You're a good book. Zoom 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:50.440 zoom zoomy zoomy. I love that. 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.280 Thank you so much for listening and being part of 0:00:52.320 --> 0:00:54.279 this podcast. It means the world to us. Make sure 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:56.840 you subscribe and sit back and enjoy the brand new 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:57.440 Second Date. 0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:04.640 Second Date Update. We've been seeing studies lately and we've 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:07.320 talked about this on the show where more and more men, 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:11.760 especially gen Z guys, are scared to approach women in 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:14.640 person and try to strike up a conversation. 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:17.960 Very scary that gender you're intimidating. 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:20.880 Which is different than me, who doesn't approach anybody in 0:01:20.920 --> 0:01:24.759 person because I'm a shy boy. Shy boy gets nervous. 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:29.360 But like Jeff, that's actually Jeff's real personality. Everyone knows. 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:34.039 Don't tell them. Just like Jeff Goldbloom said in Jurassic Park, 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:39.440 life finds a way, and so did our listener Connor, 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:42.040 because in his email to us, he said he's trying 0:01:42.120 --> 0:01:46.080 something new to meet people more organically these days, and 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:50.040 watching TikTok to find creative ways to do that. So Connor, 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:52.040 welcome to the show man. How you doing. 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:54.800 I'm doing all right, brother, How you doing? Hey? 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:58.400 There's nothing more organic than following TikTok trends my friends. 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:02.280 Yeah, hey, yeah, I am a little bit shy just 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:03.920 to talk to you and ask, but what did you 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:06.200 find on TikTok that helped your dating life. 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:09.600 I came across this trend where apparently these girls are 0:02:10.080 --> 0:02:13.760 putting their phone numbers on these bracelets, right, and they 0:02:13.760 --> 0:02:15.720 see a guy they like, they give them a bracelet. 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:19.440 Okay, wait real quick, I'm picturing like the tailor friendship. 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:21.440 That's what? 0:02:21.639 --> 0:02:21.920 Yeah it? 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:25.240 Why do you know so quickly? TikTok. 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:26.840 I could see the merit in it because then you 0:02:26.840 --> 0:02:28.760 don't have to like say words to each other. 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:29.320 Yeah. 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:31.679 And if this guy doesn't call you, then you're like, cool, 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:33.040 I just gave him a gift and he's got a 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:33.760 nice little. 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:36.840 Free brace Yeah, he's totally gonna wear that way. 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:38.040 Connor, how did that help you? 0:02:38.600 --> 0:02:41.240 I had this random thought, right, I was like, girls 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:42.800 could do it, we should be able. 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:46.079 To do it too, Right, that's right, my friend, make 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.360 your friendship bracelets. 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:51.000 Alright, so you you did some arts and crafts for yourself. 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.680 Actually, I got one of my lady friends to help 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:54.680 me to make this. 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:56.480 Smart to streak some beads. 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:59.040 Yeah, we'd be lost. 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:02.880 I honestly, it feels like it would work better the reverse. 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:05.520 The way you're doing it, it's funny if. 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:07.440 It's bad and clunky, rather than it's like cute. 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:09.520 A woman would really appreciate it. 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:11.760 Well, yeah, a little kookie maybe, But is this something 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:14.400 that you put on just for when you're going out 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:16.959 for the night, or do you wear the bracelets all 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:19.760 the time, even at work, just in case you meet someone. 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:22.400 I imagined him having the bracelets in his pocket and 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:24.480 then pulling them out and giving them to someone. 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:27.400 Yeah, like you always have them on deck, That's what 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:29.120 I'm saying. Twenty four to seven? Are they on you? 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:31.720 To be honest with you, this is new to me, right, 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:33.760 So I kind of wanted to just try it out 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:34.760 for just a full week. 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:38.160 Oh wow, okay, So how many bracelets total did you 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:39.360 give out in that week? 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:41.720 Probably like a dozen okay. 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:42.120 Not too many? 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:43.920 How many a lot? 0:03:44.120 --> 0:03:46.120 How many call backs did you get? 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.600 So I got three? 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:51.160 Okay, that's one and four? 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:54.480 Yeah, what about one of them just texting me back, 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:55.560 said unsubscribed. 0:03:56.440 --> 0:04:02.520 That's funny. It's got a funny but yeah, that's. 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:05.080 That's funny, you know, with her friends doing it. 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:07.440 Okay, And so I'm assuming that's the girl that we're 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:08.400 calling then today. 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:09.520 No, no, not that. 0:04:11.440 --> 0:04:13.320 He followed the rules. He really did on subscriber. 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:17.039 I hit it off with this girl named Ainsleck Ainsley. 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:21.440 Okay, I mean you've given out so many bracelets throughout 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:23.800 the whole week. Did you remember which girl Ainsley was? 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:25.839 To be honest, at first, I didn't. 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:30.080 Okay, that's all right. You didn't tell her that, did you? 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:32.240 No? I didn't. But we we did a picture of exchange, 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:33.839 so I knew who I was. 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:40.520 Of faces, I'm guessing that's probably remember you. She's like 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:45.159 five guys gave me bracelets last week. Was there a day, Yeah, 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:45.480 it was. 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:48.440 We got some lunch lunch. 0:04:48.640 --> 0:04:52.760 Okay, that makes sense, like random guy and bracelet. Let's 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:53.599 do daytime. 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:56.080 What was it like meeting her a second time? 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:59.000 She was still wearing her bracelet. I guess that's a 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:04.080 good thing. And I actually brought her matching homemade necklace. 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:06.080 It's kind of corny. 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:10.719 To match her bracelet, Okay, And I'm assuming your lady 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:12.480 friend helped you make that one too, but we won't 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:12.880 tell anim. 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.040 I bet he figured it out by then. You just 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:18.159 need a longer string. That's all the necklace takes. 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:20.000 I've always got customer rings with their name onto. 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:23.239 Yeah, just got the whole set you right on the necklace, 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.520 because you'd already put your phone number on the bracelet, 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:27.080 social security number on this one. 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:32.400 I just you know, I put a little note like 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:34.080 your special cute. 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:37.120 Did she like the necklace because. 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:39.440 Apparently it reminded her of the show called Love Island. 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:43.760 But I don't know where this is the show all. 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:47.560 The gen Z things, friendship, bracelets, Taylor Swift, Love Island. 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:50.640 Maybe she's just trying to make covers. Yeah, yeah, so. 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:51.960 You guys talked about Love Island. 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:54.520 Yeah, well, you know what, I'm kind of a fan 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:56.400 of Love Love Island just a little. 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:58.560 Bit, bro. It's like everyone's guilty pleasure. 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:00.800 I just saw a video of someone's boyfriend going nuts 0:06:00.800 --> 0:06:01.240 over it. 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:03.480 Yeah, it's everywhere anyway. 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:06.560 It's a lot going on. But we hung out for 0:06:07.040 --> 0:06:10.320 over an hour and it's good. I expected a little more, 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:13.320 but we hugged and it was a good time. 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:16.680 That sounds good. I mean that's all inappropriate ending for 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:19.760 a lunch date, right, And have you talked it all? 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:23.000 You know? All she really does like likes my text 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:25.720 or I see that she reads them. I'm kind of 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:28.560 left on red, you know, but I think it's worth 0:06:28.680 --> 0:06:31.000 reaching out again and just kind of seeing what's going 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:34.800 on because I thought we really connected and even the 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:37.640 Love Island thing was so nice to have somebody else 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:39.080 to be a fan of that show. So we're kind 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:40.920 of on the same frequency, you feel me. 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:43.839 She's maybe saying the same thing because it's you know 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:46.160 what Island like, you would think she's saying, Oh, I'm 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.040 so glad in front a guy who's into it. Right, 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:50.280 let's call her and find out man, we're gonna come back. 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:52.240 We'll reach out to Ainsley for you. 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:54.000 Wait, what do we do like, I don't I haven't 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:56.600 watched the show to welcome into the villa or something like, 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:57.440 we have to meet at. 0:06:57.360 --> 0:07:00.600 The fire pets. I'm gonna bonshell, come in and throw 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:02.839 it off. I'm happen to just a simple rose on 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:03.440 these shows. 0:07:03.480 --> 0:07:06.000 No, I'm gonna hop on Amazon. We're gonna order a 0:07:06.000 --> 0:07:08.560 portable fire pit, throw on our bikinis, and come back 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:11.880 and do your second date update Love Island style. Right 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:17.840 after this thank you second date update, we just learned 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:21.920 the hot new way to meet women, and that's friendship 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:24.080 bracelets with your phone number on. 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:26.080 The Yeah, oh. 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:29.200 Yeah, it's an id our listener Connor found on TikTok, 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:32.960 where women are doing this to meet guys now, so 0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:36.760 he thought, why can't a cool, confident man do it too? 0:07:37.280 --> 0:07:40.960 It worked multiple times for him, get. 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:43.200 Sure did, and that's how he met Ainslie. 0:07:43.280 --> 0:07:43.920 It's really cute. 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:45.480 The two of them met up for a date, talked 0:07:45.480 --> 0:07:48.440 a lot about the show Love Island, But since then 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:52.520 she hasn't been responding to him very much, and Connor 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:55.600 is now starting to wonder if he just got voted 0:07:55.640 --> 0:07:59.800 off of her Love Island? Connor, how you feeling. 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:04.360 Man, I'm I'm good. I might still have some options. 0:08:04.680 --> 0:08:07.120 Okay, so you got wait, you got a backup plan? Then? 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:07.960 Yeah? 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:11.040 No, I got, I got, I got a few other options. 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:13.840 Oh okay, Well we can call all of your options 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:17.400 when we're done with this first option, Ainsley, do options 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:18.240 all have bracelets? 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.320 I got to know if you've got backup bracelets for 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:21.160 next week years? 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:22.200 This doesn't work out? 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:24.200 Like, how many extras did you make that you haven't 0:08:24.240 --> 0:08:25.600 been passed around? Well? 0:08:26.120 --> 0:08:29.520 I don't think I needed much extras. I mean I'm 0:08:29.520 --> 0:08:31.120 not a bad looking guy, all right? 0:08:32.240 --> 0:08:35.880 With the confidence you say, like three out of twelve texts, Still, 0:08:35.920 --> 0:08:36.320 that's a. 0:08:36.760 --> 0:08:39.280 That's a high success rate for a man. So let's 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:42.320 keep that confidence going. I'm gonna dial Ainsley's number right now. 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:43.440 Hopefully she picks up. 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:45.440 Sounds good, All right, here we go. 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:56.520 Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Ainsley. 0:08:58.360 --> 0:08:59.439 This is her. He's calling. 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:02.440 We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:05.640 the Morning. Offended that you don't recognize us by our 0:09:06.000 --> 0:09:07.000 voices alone or not? 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:09.160 It makes sense? 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:12.600 Yeah, okay, Like, what's going on? Did I win something? 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:13.680 No? 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:15.599 Really, you clearly haven't listened to the radio in a 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:19.200 very long time. We don't give away anything. 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:20.560 There's no budget. 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:22.560 We may ask for money by the end of this. 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:26.800 Actually get your venmo ready. But what we're doing is 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:31.400 a segment here. It's called a second Date Update Okay, okay, 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:34.440 And that's something where we reach out to people who've 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:37.960 gone out with somebody before. That person is not calling 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:40.280 our listener back and we're trying to figure out why. 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:45.800 Oh that's awkward totally, which is why we put it 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:47.760 on for entertainment purposes. 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:50.480 Perfect It could be fun though. It could be somebody 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:51.200 that you really like. 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:53.480 Yeah, and in this case it's a guy named Connor. 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:58.000 Oh yeah, I think I think I would like to 0:09:58.040 --> 0:09:59.839 maybe go out with him again. He's nice. 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:01.240 Oh, oh, you would. 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:02.080 I was easy. 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:05.000 I feel like I feel like you've auditioned for a 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:06.040 reality show before. 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:09.360 I mean, it's just that the thing is, like, there's 0:10:09.400 --> 0:10:11.360 this other guy who's also pursuing me, and I just 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:13.719 I'm trying to be fair and like figure out what's 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:17.000 going on because I like both Okay. 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:18.640 Okay, another person in the picture. 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:25.320 Okay, who's a competition? What are you working with here against? 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:25.600 You know? 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:28.840 I mean he's a really nice guy. Listen, they're both 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:30.720 nice that I don't really want to lead either one 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:33.000 of them on because it's kind of early, so I 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:34.680 just kind of want to see how it progresses. They 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:37.040 date each one one of them a couple of times 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:38.560 and kind of get to know them so that I 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:39.920 can actually make a choice. 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:42.160 So you are going to call Connor back and go 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:43.720 out with him again too. 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:45.920 Because Connor is the one who gave you a bracelet 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:46.679 if you remember. 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:49.280 I do remember, I still have it. 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:51.320 It was really that the other guy didn't give you 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:52.880 any handmade jewelry. 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:57.160 No, you're right, I don't have any other handmade sory. 0:10:57.160 --> 0:10:58.199 And it was super cute. 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:01.360 That's a few points that Connor already on this other. 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:03.760 I like this, That's what I'm saying. Like they're both 0:11:03.840 --> 0:11:06.320 really sweet, and it's like everybody can be sweet on 0:11:06.360 --> 0:11:08.680 the first date, Like let's yeah, let's see what this 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:10.440 is like after a couple. I don't want to burn 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:11.400 a bridge. 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:14.959 Okay, but but you're burning a bridge right now by 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:16.080 not responding to him. 0:11:16.080 --> 0:11:17.600 All you're doing is liking his text. 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:18.800 Yeah, oh yeah. 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:20.559 I mean I just don't want to lead anyone on, 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:22.200 and I don't know, maybe I'm not going about it 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:23.960 the right way. So it's like, yes, I'm definitely still 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:25.839 interested in Connor, but I also don't want him to 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:28.440 think that I'm like both feet in gun ho right 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:30.920 out the gate and then him like, oh this doesn't 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:33.079 work out and then like be like really crushing. 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:36.120 I think you are going eighty steps ahead of yourself here. 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:37.880 You guys have had one lunch date. 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:39.400 You know. I think if you were just honest with 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:41.920 him and told him you liked him, that would make 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:43.560 Wouldn't that make you feel good as a guy? 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:45.880 I mean, yeah, that's why I'm willing to go out 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:48.400 with him. I mean, everything you're saying makes sense, So 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:50.400 I guess we'll make me think about this a little 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:50.880 bit differently. 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:54.480 Well, I think Connor would feel very reassured if you 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:58.160 actually relayed that message to him, because he's in the 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:01.040 middle right now, unsure of where you're at. We're voting 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:04.840 for Connor. Text unfair, Oh textingte text Connor. Well, I 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:08.880 think there's a very good opportunity. I don't think I 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:10.480 don't think we need any of that, because there's a 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:12.960 good chance for you to tell him those feelings directly, 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:15.840 since he is already on the phone right now waiting 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:16.480 to speak with you. 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:19.160 Oh well, that's awkward. 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:23.360 Okay, Like I said, that's what we enjoy about this segment. 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:25.679 So yeah, Brook and Jeffrey Island. Connor, are you there? 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:29.120 Do you want to say hi to Ainsley? 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:33.280 I didn't know you were hanging out with somebody else, 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:35.440 but I guess that's cool. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:40.120 Okay, Okay, So like it, like it wouldn't bother you 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:43.360 if I'm kind of just seeing you both for a 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:46.160 couple of weeks and seeing who I really connect with. 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:51.360 Yeah, I don't know if it bothers me, but I 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:52.560 think it's a little weird. 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:54.480 Yeah, Like, what does that mean? 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:57.600 Connor? Don't blow this you You had a yes when 0:12:57.640 --> 0:12:59.440 I was talking to her that she already wanted to 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:01.640 see you, but suddenly you came on. You say one 0:13:01.679 --> 0:13:03.760 thing and it's flipped to and I don't know, stick. 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:04.360 Up for yourself. 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:07.880 No, wait, why are you being defended like I'm confused, Connor? 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:10.640 Because you told us you had other options too. I mean, 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:11.840 isn't that what dating is? 0:13:12.280 --> 0:13:15.360 Listen, don't tell her that. I mean that was between 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:16.320 you and me, right. 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:18.720 Yeah, Birk, what are you doing? You're trying to submarine him? 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:24.920 She has options, he has everyone who's singles what it is. 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:27.120 It's something that we all acknowledge, but we don't actually 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:28.679 talk about book. It's a secret. 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:29.640 Well that's the problem. 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:31.640 It doesn't need to be a secret, Connor. You don't 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:33.880 need to, like feign like you're upset about it. You 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:35.840 can't be upset about it if you're doing the same thing. 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:37.679 You don't have to have anybody tell you how to 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:40.120 feel about how to live your life. Connor, It's okay, 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:41.200 just talk to Ainsley. 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:46.160 Honestly, I'm not upset about it. Right. This is the surprise. 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:49.200 I thought you and me was really trying to work 0:13:49.240 --> 0:13:53.320 this out. You just seem like a dope, awesome person. 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:56.720 I kind of feel like we're a good match. 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.480 That is so cute, Ainsley. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:03.320 Listen, Connor, I honestly, it's really sweet, and I really 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:05.320 do appreciate how genuine you are, and you seem like 0:14:05.320 --> 0:14:08.560 a really good guy. So I mean, yeah, I mean 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:10.360 I do think we could probably go out again. You know, 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:11.640 just see what happens. 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:15.120 Okay, we're back, Connor. Well done. 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.360 It's amazing to hear. I just kind of want to 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:20.680 be on the same page with you. So you're going 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:23.240 to pass on this next guy, right, because we're chilling, 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:28.320 We're getting to know each other, what you know. I'm 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:30.840 just trying to figure this out, right, So are you 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:34.280 saying you want to see me? Or are you want 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:36.960 to still see him? Or like what's going on? 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:37.560 Wow? 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:40.720 Okay, So like now you're giving off some pretty serious 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:44.000 jealous vibes and I'm really not into that. 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:45.000 I know that that's the case. 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:47.920 I mean, Connor, you would be doing the same thing right, 0:14:48.000 --> 0:14:49.560 like you would be only skin her. 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:52.480 Like, yeah, that's exactly what I'm talking about. I'm not 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:53.440 seeing anybody. 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:56.280 You literally just said you had other options, Like, maybe 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:58.000 it's a better idea we don't go out. 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:03.400 Wait again, Ainsley, here's the thing like, how do you 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:07.600 He's just saying, let's really actually try this instead of not. 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:10.320 Yeah, Connor, remind her of the good times that you 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:11.160 two had together. 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:15.720 Yeah, we bonded over Love Island. I gave you the 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:18.280 friendship bracelet and in this necklist. 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:21.920 Yeah okay, I did like that. Maybe maybe we should 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:22.480 hang out then? 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:26.640 Okay, well, okay, it's at this point I cautioned Connor 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:30.280 to not say any other words whatsoever, because anything that 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:33.200 you say could have a detrimental impact on Ainsley's decision 0:15:33.240 --> 0:15:34.120 here for a second date. 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:35.760 Maybe they should just go to a movie so they 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:36.320 don't have to talk. 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:39.440 Yeah, I'm just gonna officially ask now, now that she 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:41.880 seems to be on board again, Connor, are you still 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:44.080 cool with this? Do you want to hang out with Ainsley? 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:48.160 Honestly? Yeah, I don't know. 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:55.360 Oh Connor, dude, you all you had to say is yes. 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:58.560 Yeah, you know, but I just don't know if we should. 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:02.480 This is what just make a choice. 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:04.400 So now, Connor, you don't want to go out with Ainsley? 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:09.840 Oh my god, Okay, listen, I really thought I liked you. 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:13.480 I thought you liked me with other guys. That's cool, 0:16:13.520 --> 0:16:17.880 that's fine. But listen, I do have another girl, okay, 0:16:18.160 --> 0:16:21.280 and I think she's a little more sure about what 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:21.800 she wants. 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:29.480 You guys sleep around then okay, we've come to an agreement. 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:32.080 They both have other options that they want to explore first, 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:33.920 and if those don't work out, they'll come back to 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:34.360 each other. 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:36.520 This is why people give up on duty. 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:39.120 So Ainsley, it looks like officially it's a no and 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:42.560 a yes and another no and then yes and yeah. 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:42.920 I don't know. 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:46.400 So yeah, this was a lot. Thanks for calling and 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:48.880 ruiney my day a little bit, I guess, But. 0:16:48.920 --> 0:16:50.680 We also made it better at the same time. 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:52.800 Right, yeah, I mean yeah, at least I know Connor 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:53.800 is no longer an option. 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:56.240 Are you sure about that? 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:57.080 Oh my god? 0:16:57.400 --> 0:17:03.080 Connor hanging enough brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Oh my god, 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:05.680 that was so frustrating to be a part of. I'm 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:06.520 so glad it's over. 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:08.520 It's awful. 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:10.560 And I thought Brooke brought up a really good point 0:17:10.560 --> 0:17:13.000 about how was It was like the perfect snapshot of 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:17.280 what modern dating is and how uncertain everybody is. Nobody 0:17:17.320 --> 0:17:19.880 wants to commit to anything at all anymore. 0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:21.440 I mean, I get it. 0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:24.600