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Speaker 1: It's Brooking Jeffrey in the morning, and we've got a

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Speaker 1: brand new Second Date podcast for you.

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Speaker 2: Thanks so much for being here. Yes, thank you, we

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Speaker 2: love it.

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Speaker 1: And today I'm really curious to see how many people

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Speaker 1: this would work on this guy's trick. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if it's a trick, but it's a cute way to

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Speaker 1: give out your number without ever having to talk to anyone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's creative and funny. I think, Okay, it would

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Speaker 2: work on you. Yeah I would. Yeah, awesome. So all

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Speaker 2: the guys start doing it, that's the thing. Only one

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Speaker 2: time is it funny, you know, and then it's not.

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Speaker 3: Then it goes viral and everyone's a farming.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 4: All right.

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Speaker 2: What do we got in comments right now?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's one from Pancham who said, love listening to

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Speaker 4: this podcast. I migrated to Spotify from Insta reels and

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Speaker 4: my dog recognizes Brook's voice. She'll get the zoomies when

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Speaker 4: the Second Date update starts.

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Speaker 2: So you're a good book. You're a good book. Zoom

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Speaker 2: zoom zoomy zoomy. I love that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening and being part of

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Speaker 1: this podcast. It means the world to us. Make sure

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Speaker 1: you subscribe and sit back and enjoy the brand new

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Speaker 3: Second Date Update. We've been seeing studies lately and we've

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Speaker 3: talked about this on the show where more and more men,

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Speaker 3: especially gen Z guys, are scared to approach women in

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Speaker 3: person and try to strike up a conversation.

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Speaker 2: Very scary that gender you're intimidating.

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Speaker 3: Which is different than me, who doesn't approach anybody in

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Speaker 3: person because I'm a shy boy. Shy boy gets nervous.

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Speaker 2: But like Jeff, that's actually Jeff's real personality. Everyone knows.

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Speaker 3: Don't tell them. Just like Jeff Goldbloom said in Jurassic Park,

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Speaker 3: life finds a way, and so did our listener Connor,

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Speaker 3: because in his email to us, he said he's trying

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Speaker 3: something new to meet people more organically these days, and

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Speaker 3: watching TikTok to find creative ways to do that. So Connor,

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Speaker 3: welcome to the show man. How you doing.

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Speaker 5: I'm doing all right, brother, How you doing? Hey?

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Speaker 1: There's nothing more organic than following TikTok trends my friends.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, yeah, I am a little bit shy just

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Speaker 3: to talk to you and ask, but what did you

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Speaker 3: find on TikTok that helped your dating life.

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Speaker 5: I came across this trend where apparently these girls are

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Speaker 5: putting their phone numbers on these bracelets, right, and they

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Speaker 5: see a guy they like, they give them a bracelet.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait real quick, I'm picturing like the tailor friendship.

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Speaker 5: That's what?

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Speaker 1: Yeah it?

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Speaker 2: Why do you know so quickly? TikTok.

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Speaker 3: I could see the merit in it because then you

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Speaker 3: don't have to like say words to each other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And if this guy doesn't call you, then you're like, cool,

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Speaker 3: I just gave him a gift and he's got a

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Speaker 3: nice little.

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Speaker 2: Free brace Yeah, he's totally gonna wear that way.

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Speaker 3: Connor, how did that help you?

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Speaker 5: I had this random thought, right, I was like, girls

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Speaker 5: could do it, we should be able.

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Speaker 1: To do it too, Right, that's right, my friend, make

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Speaker 1: your friendship bracelets.

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Speaker 3: Alright, so you you did some arts and crafts for yourself.

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Speaker 5: Actually, I got one of my lady friends to help

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Speaker 2: Smart to streak some beads.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'd be lost.

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Speaker 1: I honestly, it feels like it would work better the reverse.

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Speaker 1: The way you're doing it, it's funny if.

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Speaker 3: It's bad and clunky, rather than it's like cute.

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Speaker 2: A woman would really appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, a little kookie maybe, But is this something

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Speaker 3: that you put on just for when you're going out

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Speaker 3: the time, even at work, just in case you meet someone.

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Speaker 1: I imagined him having the bracelets in his pocket and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like you always have them on deck, That's what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying. Twenty four to seven? Are they on you?

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Speaker 5: To be honest with you, this is new to me, right,

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, okay, So how many bracelets total did you

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Speaker 5: Probably like a dozen okay.

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Speaker 2: Not too many?

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Speaker 3: How many a lot?

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Speaker 2: How many call backs did you get?

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Speaker 5: So I got three?

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's one and four?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what about one of them just texting me back,

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Speaker 3: That's funny. It's got a funny but yeah, that's.

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Speaker 2: That's funny, you know, with her friends doing it.

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Speaker 5: No, no, not that.

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Speaker 2: He followed the rules. He really did on subscriber.

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Speaker 5: I hit it off with this girl named Ainsleck Ainsley.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I mean you've given out so many bracelets throughout

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Speaker 5: To be honest, at first, I didn't.

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Speaker 5: No? I didn't. But we we did a picture of exchange,

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Speaker 3: Of faces, I'm guessing that's probably remember you. She's like

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Speaker 3: five guys gave me bracelets last week. Was there a day, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: We got some lunch lunch.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense, like random guy and bracelet. Let's

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Speaker 3: What was it like meeting her a second time?

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Speaker 5: She was still wearing her bracelet. I guess that's a

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Speaker 3: To match her bracelet, Okay, And I'm assuming your lady

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Speaker 2: I bet he figured it out by then. You just

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Speaker 2: need a longer string. That's all the necklace takes.

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Speaker 3: I've always got customer rings with their name onto.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just got the whole set you right on the necklace,

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Speaker 1: because you'd already put your phone number on the bracelet,

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Speaker 5: I just you know, I put a little note like

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Speaker 5: Apparently it reminded her of the show called Love Island.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know where this is the show all.

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Speaker 3: The gen Z things, friendship, bracelets, Taylor Swift, Love Island.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she's just trying to make covers. Yeah, yeah, so.

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Speaker 3: You guys talked about Love Island.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, you know what, I'm kind of a fan

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Speaker 3: Bit, bro. It's like everyone's guilty pleasure.

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Speaker 2: I just saw a video of someone's boyfriend going nuts

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's everywhere anyway.

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Speaker 5: It's a lot going on. But we hung out for

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Speaker 2: That sounds good. I mean that's all inappropriate ending for

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Speaker 2: a lunch date, right, And have you talked it all?

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Speaker 5: You know? All she really does like likes my text

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Speaker 5: or I see that she reads them. I'm kind of

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Speaker 3: let's call her and find out man, we're gonna come back.

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Speaker 3: We'll reach out to Ainsley for you.

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Speaker 1: Wait, what do we do like, I don't I haven't

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Speaker 1: we have to meet at.

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Speaker 2: The fire pets. I'm gonna bonshell, come in and throw

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Speaker 2: it off. I'm happen to just a simple rose on

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Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna hop on Amazon. We're gonna order a

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Speaker 3: portable fire pit, throw on our bikinis, and come back

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Speaker 3: and do your second date update Love Island style. Right

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Speaker 3: after this thank you second date update, we just learned

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Speaker 3: the hot new way to meet women, and that's friendship

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Speaker 3: bracelets with your phone number on.

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Speaker 2: The Yeah, oh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's an id our listener Connor found on TikTok,

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Speaker 3: he thought, why can't a cool, confident man do it too?

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Speaker 2: It worked multiple times for him, get.

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Speaker 3: Sure did, and that's how he met Ainslie.

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Speaker 2: It's really cute.

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Speaker 3: The two of them met up for a date, talked

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you got wait, you got a backup plan? Then?

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Speaker 5: No, I got, I got, I got a few other options.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, Well we can call all of your options

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Speaker 3: when we're done with this first option, Ainsley, do options

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Speaker 3: all have bracelets?

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Speaker 1: I got to know if you've got backup bracelets for

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Speaker 1: next week years?

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Speaker 2: This doesn't work out?

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Speaker 1: Like, how many extras did you make that you haven't

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Speaker 5: I don't think I needed much extras. I mean I'm

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Speaker 5: not a bad looking guy, all right?

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Speaker 4: With the confidence you say, like three out of twelve texts, Still,

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Speaker 3: That's a high success rate for a man. So let's

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Speaker 3: keep that confidence going. I'm gonna dial Ainsley's number right now.

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Speaker 3: Hopefully she picks up.

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Speaker 5: Sounds good, All right, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with Ainsley.

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Speaker 6: This is her. He's calling.

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Speaker 3: We're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 3: the Morning. Offended that you don't recognize us by our

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Speaker 3: voices alone or not?

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Speaker 2: It makes sense?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, Like, what's going on? Did I win something?

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Speaker 3: Really, you clearly haven't listened to the radio in a

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Speaker 3: very long time. We don't give away anything.

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Speaker 2: There's no budget.

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Speaker 3: We may ask for money by the end of this.

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Speaker 3: Actually get your venmo ready. But what we're doing is

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Speaker 3: a segment here. It's called a second Date Update Okay, okay,

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Speaker 3: And that's something where we reach out to people who've

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Speaker 3: Oh that's awkward totally, which is why we put it

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Speaker 2: Perfect It could be fun though. It could be somebody

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's just that the thing is, like, there's

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Speaker 3: Okay, another person in the picture.

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Speaker 2: Okay, who's a competition? What are you working with here against?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 6: I mean he's a really nice guy. Listen, they're both

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Speaker 2: So you are going to call Connor back and go

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Speaker 3: Because Connor is the one who gave you a bracelet

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Speaker 6: I do remember, I still have it.

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Speaker 3: It was really that the other guy didn't give you

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Speaker 6: No, you're right, I don't have any other handmade sory.

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Speaker 6: I like this, That's what I'm saying. Like they're both

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Speaker 1: Okay, but but you're burning a bridge right now by

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Speaker 2: All you're doing is liking his text.

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Speaker 6: I mean I just don't want to lead anyone on,

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Speaker 1: I think you are going eighty steps ahead of yourself here.

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Speaker 2: You guys have had one lunch date.

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Speaker 1: You know. I think if you were just honest with

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, that's why I'm willing to go out

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Speaker 3: Well, I think Connor would feel very reassured if you

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Speaker 3: middle right now, unsure of where you're at. We're voting

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Speaker 3: for Connor. Text unfair, Oh textingte text Connor. Well, I

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Speaker 6: Oh well, that's awkward.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Like I said, that's what we enjoy about this segment.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, Brook and Jeffrey Island. Connor, are you there?

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Speaker 3: Do you want to say hi to Ainsley?

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Speaker 5: I didn't know you were hanging out with somebody else,

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, So like it, like it wouldn't bother you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know if it bothers me, but I

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like, what does that mean?

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Speaker 3: Connor? Don't blow this you You had a yes when

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Speaker 3: I was talking to her that she already wanted to

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Speaker 5: Up for yourself.

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Speaker 1: No, wait, why are you being defended like I'm confused, Connor?

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Speaker 1: Because you told us you had other options too. I mean,

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Speaker 5: Listen, don't tell her that. I mean that was between

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Birk, what are you doing? You're trying to submarine him?

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Speaker 1: She has options, he has everyone who's singles what it is.

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Speaker 3: It's something that we all acknowledge, but we don't actually

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Speaker 3: talk about book. It's a secret.

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Speaker 2: Well that's the problem.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't need to be a secret, Connor. You don't

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Speaker 3: You don't have to have anybody tell you how to

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Speaker 3: just talk to Ainsley.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I'm not upset about it. Right. This is the surprise.

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Speaker 5: I thought you and me was really trying to work

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Speaker 5: this out. You just seem like a dope, awesome person.

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Speaker 5: I kind of feel like we're a good match.

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Speaker 2: That is so cute, Ainsley.

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Speaker 6: Listen, Connor, I honestly, it's really sweet, and I really

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Speaker 3: Okay, we're back, Connor. Well done.

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Speaker 5: It's amazing to hear. I just kind of want to

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Speaker 5: to pass on this next guy, right, because we're chilling,

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Speaker 5: We're getting to know each other, what you know. I'm

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Speaker 5: just trying to figure this out, right, So are you

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Speaker 5: saying you want to see me? Or are you want

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So like now you're giving off some pretty serious

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Speaker 2: I know that that's the case.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Connor, you would be doing the same thing right,

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Speaker 5: Like, yeah, that's exactly what I'm talking about. I'm not

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Speaker 6: You literally just said you had other options, Like, maybe

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Speaker 1: Wait again, Ainsley, here's the thing like, how do you

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Speaker 1: He's just saying, let's really actually try this instead of not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Connor, remind her of the good times that you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we bonded over Love Island. I gave you the

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Speaker 6: Yeah okay, I did like that. Maybe maybe we should

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, okay, it's at this point I cautioned Connor

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Speaker 3: here for a second date.

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Speaker 2: Maybe they should just go to a movie so they

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just gonna officially ask now, now that she

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Speaker 3: seems to be on board again, Connor, are you still

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Speaker 5: Honestly? Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Oh Connor, dude, you all you had to say is yes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, but I just don't know if we should.

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Speaker 2: This is what just make a choice.

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Speaker 3: So now, Connor, you don't want to go out with Ainsley?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, Okay, listen, I really thought I liked you.

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Speaker 5: I thought you liked me with other guys. That's cool,

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Speaker 5: that's fine. But listen, I do have another girl, okay,

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Speaker 3: You guys sleep around then okay, we've come to an agreement.

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Speaker 3: They both have other options that they want to explore first,

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Speaker 2: This is why people give up on duty.

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Speaker 3: So Ainsley, it looks like officially it's a no and

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, this was a lot. Thanks for calling and

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Speaker 2: We also made it better at the same time.

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Speaker 6: Right, yeah, I mean yeah, at least I know Connor

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Speaker 5: Are you sure about that?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Connor hanging enough brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: that was so frustrating to be a part of. I'm

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Speaker 2: It's awful.

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Speaker 3: And I thought Brooke brought up a really good point

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Speaker 2: I mean, I get it.

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Speaker 1: It's like going to a restaurant like the Cheesecake Factory,

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Speaker 2: Yes, many flavors out there.

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Speaker 3: You just got to come back once every day, get

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Speaker 2: You just stick to the one thing you like.

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Speaker 3: Maybe. Yeah, it is funny that these two were kind

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Speaker 3: they voted each other off. So yeah, the good news is,

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Speaker 3: we don't vote anybody off the Brook and Jeffrey Island.

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Speaker 3: Just go to our podcast, have a drink, stay awhile,

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Speaker 3: take your pants off, listen to all of our second

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Speaker 2: Talkt about that. I bet a lot of people do

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Speaker 2: have their pants off.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we support that. Okay, you find them online

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Speaker 3: at Broken Jeffrey