Speaker 1: Forever. Hi, guys, Hey wait about the Sola. Wait, what's
Speaker 1: the big deal? There's no big deal. You just said
Speaker 1: it right before that we started recording, and I was
Speaker 1: trying to react to it when the episode started, right, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, so tell people what you're talking about. Oh okay.
Speaker 2: So you know, we usually don't like go through Twitter
Speaker 2: and talk about headlines or whatever. But you know, the
Speaker 2: big viral story Zola, that was like I think like
Speaker 2: two years ago about the black girl who was the
Speaker 2: stripper and she met up with this white girl and
Speaker 2: there was this I don't know, like a whole scandal.
Speaker 1: They made a whole movie out of it. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I remember that was like the first big Twitter viral story. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because it was like multiple posts, it was a whole thread.
Speaker 1: Everybody was reading it. I don't remember what happened in
Speaker 1: the story either. I feel like somebody fell off a balcony.
Speaker 1: I don't know, it was something. It was insane. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but the girl is an actual stripper.
Speaker 2: Yes, it feels like she still might be stripping. I
Speaker 2: don't know that I've been. I look through her page
Speaker 2: and I was like, okay, so she's still on brand.
Speaker 1: What's her. What's her social media handle? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I have to look through it again.
Speaker 2: But the girl who's playing her is Taylor Page. She's
Speaker 2: an actress. Uh, she is dating Jason Jesse Williams.
Speaker 1: She was in that.
Speaker 3: She's the one who broke up Jesse's marriage.
Speaker 1: Wait what, Jesse, I'm just asking, No, cheated on his
Speaker 1: black wife with a white woman.
Speaker 2: No, that's that's Minka Kelly. That's Mika Kelly. That's a
Speaker 2: different actress.
Speaker 1: Minka Kelly is the one who broke up Jesse Williams allegedly.
Speaker 1: You say you can't trust these light skin dudes with
Speaker 1: the light eyes. Yeah, with those that curl pattern. Every
Speaker 1: time I yeah, every time I see a curl pun
Speaker 1: like that, it's like nah. No. And side note, I
Speaker 1: worked in this same hotel as Jesse Williams, like years ago.
Speaker 1: He worked in a hotel.
Speaker 2: Yes, he worked at the yard at Soho Grand And
Speaker 2: I was a hostess in the lounge and he.
Speaker 3: Was a bartender.
Speaker 1: No, he was a server. M Did he ever try
Speaker 1: to like talk to you or touch your butt?
Speaker 2: No, But he told somebody that I was seeing at
Speaker 2: the moment that I was trying to talk to him
Speaker 2: and I was like, what are you?
Speaker 1: You're not even my like shade, I don't even Oh
Speaker 1: you don't date, let's do No, oh, you didn't date.
Speaker 1: Let's know, but you dated white women. Yeah. Interesting inters. Hey,
Speaker 1: we all have our thing, and that was light skin
Speaker 1: was not my thing. Well, i'll tell you what. Leskin
Speaker 1: people were kind of freaky. I think that might be
Speaker 1: my flavor of the mother. A little butter pecan right right, right, pequan.
Speaker 1: But a piquan can sleep with me. Yes, okay, But
Speaker 1: you had never had a conversation with Jesse. He just
Speaker 1: told somebody that you were trying to talk to fing.
Speaker 2: We were chatting, like we all worked in the same hotel,
Speaker 2: so it wasn't like we weren't having conversations.
Speaker 1: You guys would have family meal together and your elbows
Speaker 1: touched one time. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, I was a friendly, but not to the
Speaker 2: point where I was like, what are we doing. I
Speaker 2: had already slept with one of the bellmen in the
Speaker 2: in the oh wow, who.
Speaker 1: Was very dark skin? Yeah that's what. Yeah, you slept
Speaker 1: with the bellman. Did he have a little hat.
Speaker 4: On the hop is a bell man?
Speaker 1: Bellman? Yeah? Bellman? And bell hop because like a female
Speaker 1: could be a bellman, but we just calling him bellman.
Speaker 1: When I get to a hotel, I want somebody strong
Speaker 1: to carry my bags, not somebody weak that I got
Speaker 1: to help him carry my bags. Yeah, does oh did
Speaker 1: he carry your bags?
Speaker 2: I mean I think the sex was incredible. He used
Speaker 2: to play football, so okay, a very great body.
Speaker 1: He was so hot. He paid me dirt. He wanted
Speaker 1: no parts.
Speaker 2: I mean I most likely could have been psych I mean,
Speaker 2: just reading old things that I used to write to people.
Speaker 1: I was off.
Speaker 3: What do you mean, So you guys had sex and
Speaker 3: sex was good?
Speaker 1: Yeah? How many times did you guys sleep together? I
Speaker 1: think just twice?
Speaker 3: And after the second time he ignored you at work.
Speaker 2: I think he was just like, yeah, I'm just I
Speaker 2: don't think I want to hook up with somebody I
Speaker 2: work with.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 1: I mean, well that, but you guys had sex twice,
Speaker 1: so that part.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think after the second time, I must have
Speaker 2: just didn't throw it back enough.
Speaker 1: But Na, after the second time, you must have been
Speaker 1: at work, like flashing him your tits and he was like, ah,
Speaker 1: this is wrong.
Speaker 2: I'm I mean I was pressed, but it was just
Speaker 2: like I thought we both were pressed. I thought we
Speaker 2: both were having a good time. But that's not the case.
Speaker 1: You said he used to play football and he was sexy,
Speaker 1: so you know he had other people that he was
Speaker 1: sleeping with outside or maybe he was begging multiple people
Speaker 1: at work. Friend, I don't think so, not that I
Speaker 1: know of. Because I was asking around. That's why he
Speaker 1: stopped talking to you, because you was asking around. I
Speaker 1: was just asking like, oh, do you think he's seeing anybody?
Speaker 1: And they were like, Sidney's asking about you.
Speaker 3: That's his name also, Jesse. Maybe that's what Jesse thought
Speaker 3: you was.
Speaker 1: No, his name was Brandon.
Speaker 2: Hey, Brandon, Yeah, shout out to you, Brandon something. I
Speaker 2: was like, I had like googled him and everything. Nothing
Speaker 2: came up. Nothing came up. There was a couple of
Speaker 2: people that I've been remembering their first and last name,
Speaker 2: and I'll just.
Speaker 1: Like google just to find out, like where the fuck
Speaker 1: they are? What are they doing? And nothing is coming up.
Speaker 1: They must be dead.
Speaker 3: You remember the first and last name of people that
Speaker 3: you slept with.
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know if you could bleep this out,
Speaker 2: but there was a Michael.
Speaker 1: No, can you bleeve it out? Why would you believe
Speaker 1: why would you Why would you bleep out something that
Speaker 1: you haven't said, because I was going to say the
Speaker 1: whole name. Then why say the name if you want
Speaker 1: him to take it out? Yeah, you're right girl, what
Speaker 1: makes no sense? Friend?
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you?
Speaker 1: Okay, you just bleeped it and then you were like,
Speaker 1: can you bleep it? Okay? Anyway, why did you want
Speaker 1: to bring that person's name up?
Speaker 2: No, that's like one of the people that I remember
Speaker 2: their first and last name.
Speaker 1: But you said his last name. His first name is
Speaker 1: Michael though, that's fine. You know Michael's exist. Yes, wow,
Speaker 1: totally not listening to the podcast.
Speaker 4: Put their number into Facebook and a lot of times,
Speaker 4: then you can find out everything.
Speaker 1: You think I have his number. I definitely don't have
Speaker 1: his number, Okay, I guess Wow, yikes, I don't remember
Speaker 1: the first name of some people that I hooked up with,
Speaker 1: let alone. I don't think I ever knew the last names.
Speaker 1: That is. That's impressive.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, well, one, if you were a boyfriend,
Speaker 2: I think I can remember your first and last name.
Speaker 1: You think I think, well, the people in college, I
Speaker 1: remember their last name? Really? Yes? Oh no, I have
Speaker 1: a I have a Chris Larry I don't know if
Speaker 1: Larry is much.
Speaker 2: His name was Lawrence. Well, yeah, he's Ghanaian. And then Chris,
Speaker 2: Chris was light skin that I met off of Facebook.
Speaker 2: I met him from Facebook and we had a relationship
Speaker 2: after that.
Speaker 3: And how was that that was? Being with light Skin Chris?
Speaker 2: He came from a really good home. His dad was
Speaker 2: a doctor. So you're telling me the dick was trash?
Speaker 1: Heard you?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: No, no, no, it was good.
Speaker 2: It was just he was like like nerdy like me,
Speaker 2: but like way more nerdy than me.
Speaker 1: He was.
Speaker 2: I mean, he's I think he's still I think he
Speaker 2: might be a doctor or in psychology something.
Speaker 1: He's doing great.
Speaker 2: He went to I'm saying maybe too much, but he
Speaker 2: went No, but he went to he went to a
Speaker 2: good he went to Temple. But anyway, I would go
Speaker 2: see him in Philly. I would lived in Massachusetts at
Speaker 2: my school, and I'm I would take the bus several
Speaker 2: several hours.
Speaker 1: Did he pay for the bus? No? Did he ever
Speaker 1: come see you?
Speaker 3: Yes, he did, and he took the bus or he
Speaker 3: took his dad's jet or whatever.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: And then actually there was an issue because he had
Speaker 2: came up during my birthday weekend and I was dating him,
Speaker 2: and I was dating this other guy. And when the
Speaker 2: other guy came and I the other guy who actually
Speaker 2: lived in Massachusetts, I was like, yeah, you can't come
Speaker 2: in right now because Chris was there. Yes, he brought
Speaker 2: me like pizza and soda and all this stuff to
Speaker 2: celebrate my birthday.
Speaker 1: And I was like, in lingerie. And I was like,
Speaker 1: you can't come in lingerie from Claires Secrets, oh, Vickie
Speaker 1: secrets from the mall, the middle of the mall. Do
Speaker 1: you remember what color lingerie you had on? It was purple? Wow? Yeah,
Speaker 1: get to absolutely yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: So I remember him, remember, I don't know the guy.
Speaker 2: I remember the person I lost my virginity too. I
Speaker 2: remember his first name, but I don't remember his last name.
Speaker 2: And then I had a boyfriend in high school that
Speaker 2: I remember his name. His name is Steven, and I
Speaker 2: know his last name too because I was cool because
Speaker 2: I remember. No, we didn't go to school together. He
Speaker 2: went to a separate school. He went to a private school,
Speaker 2: and I went I.
Speaker 1: Was like, you're your your dick catalog sounds like you
Speaker 1: know well to do well, to do intenctive, Like that's
Speaker 1: why when people would be like, are you sure you're
Speaker 1: a gay?
Speaker 2: Do you know how much dick I've been through to
Speaker 2: get to where I am right now? I know that
Speaker 2: I don't want that anymore.
Speaker 1: So, yeah, I remember that first name of the dude
Speaker 1: that I lost my virginity too. I don't think I
Speaker 1: ever knew his last name. He was Trinidaddy, and he
Speaker 1: was a liar and he is dead. Was he hid
Speaker 1: a whole kid from me? That sound whole child, that
Speaker 1: sounds friend, Yeah, a whole baby. Yeah. I have a
Speaker 1: story about that too, somebody that I worked with and
Speaker 1: my other hotel.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you just bang all your coworkers.
Speaker 1: Well there was a time, There was a time and
Speaker 1: a place. Okay, but that's benefic benefits package.
Speaker 2: Yeah he's he's a model. He still looks good.
Speaker 1: But yeah, he was absolutely cheating on his Wow, I'm
Speaker 1: saying a lot.
Speaker 2: You're about to say what I'm saying. You're about to say,
Speaker 2: why no not, wife? I have a story about that too.
Speaker 2: Fuck man, I am a trollop of a whore.
Speaker 1: I don't know what You're a dollop of a hope,
Speaker 1: daisy of a hoe? Wow? Okay, well see, and then
Speaker 1: I went into work and I was like, oh, I
Speaker 1: wonder where such and such as. He's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: his wife. No, not his wife, his his girlfriend is
Speaker 1: in labor. I was like, wait what. I had no
Speaker 1: clue that she was pregnant or that he was with somebody.
Speaker 2: I know he was with somebody. I didn't know that
Speaker 2: she was having a baby.
Speaker 1: Okay, lean Away heard you. Yeah, speaking of cheating, hot
Speaker 1: off the press, Lena Waite getting a divorce because of
Speaker 1: alleged cheating. I mean, if it's if they're gonna divorce
Speaker 1: she cheated friend, ain't no alleged there, uh. I mean
Speaker 1: I knew Lena Waite was gonna be problematic when she
Speaker 1: put them cuts in her eyebrow. I said, oh, she
Speaker 1: trying to while out, trying to while out. I said this, this,
Speaker 1: this is not a good sign for her wife.
Speaker 2: So they were married for two months two months, but
Speaker 2: they have been together for for how long? I don't
Speaker 2: know that logistics of everything, but yeah, for a minute,
Speaker 2: well I think they were married longer than two months.
Speaker 2: They just like let everybody know that they were married
Speaker 2: two months ago.
Speaker 1: I feel like you're chewing on the microphone and be
Speaker 1: pissed off about them. Okay, sorry, guys, she's almost she's
Speaker 1: almost done her orange though, so you'll just bear with
Speaker 1: it for a little bit longer. NOA, yeah, but I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm sure they've been together for a long time and
Speaker 1: like Lena is blowing up, so like for her, why
Speaker 1: for whatever, for them to be like we're getting a divorce,
Speaker 1: it's got to be pretty serious. She had to be
Speaker 1: caught cheating multiple times. You only no way, but I
Speaker 1: can't imagine. Wow, and I heard that she's cheating with
Speaker 1: that actress from Harriet. Uh, Cynthia. That's what they said
Speaker 1: on the streets. I was reading the blogs.
Speaker 4: Cynthia Rivo is not Yeah.
Speaker 1: Somebody told me that with this blunt hair, I looked
Speaker 1: like Cynthia Rivo and I had to leave the party.
Speaker 1: I was like, that is an insult, and I'm going home.
Speaker 1: I said, that was the meanest thing you could have
Speaker 1: said to my blood.
Speaker 4: I hear that she's not the best person to work with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she did Harriet, And so that's already problematic. Okay,
Speaker 1: so hated it. I mean didn't see it, but already
Speaker 1: in the movie looked problematic. Yeah, okay, so I can't
Speaker 1: It just says they broke up two months after announcing
Speaker 1: their marriage, so I don't know how long they were married.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they announced, they announced that they were married, but
Speaker 2: they had been married for a little bit longer than that.
Speaker 1: This thirty five, they spontaneously got married at a courthouse
Speaker 1: in San Francisco. We snuck and did it. You know,
Speaker 1: we really didn't make any announcements or big so she okay,
Speaker 1: it feels like the secret wedding was uh Lena's idea,
Speaker 1: Like she didn't want none.
Speaker 3: Of her host to know she was married. So she
Speaker 3: was like, let's just do it.
Speaker 1: We're in San Francisco, let's get some riceeroni, let's go
Speaker 1: up this little hill, get married, not tell nobody.
Speaker 2: And then her her fiance was probably like give it
Speaker 2: pressure in her like so when are we doing this?
Speaker 2: Like I don't understand, and Lena was like, all right, then.
Speaker 1: Fucking bitch, let's go. Let's just go now, leave that
Speaker 1: sweatsuit on. It's fine, let's go, right, and she was like,
Speaker 1: she probably did it. She didn't have a fresh shape
Speaker 1: up or nothing. They just got married with like a
Speaker 1: jagged hairline.
Speaker 2: And then they had a little boy with the old
Speaker 2: camera from Queen and slim take a picture of them
Speaker 2: in front.
Speaker 1: Of her car. Prob that's probably their wedding phok, yeah,
Speaker 1: they just they just photoshopped the other two faces on
Speaker 1: the top. Wow. Whatever, it's fine. You're saying it's fine.
Speaker 1: What's fine?
Speaker 3: Them not working or her cheating on her wife?
Speaker 1: Both? Fine? Yeah, but that's coming from you. You're you know,
Speaker 1: you've been the other woman before. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Calm
Speaker 1: it down. Wow, that's aggressive. How is it aggressive? You
Speaker 1: saying it's fine? I feel like is aggressive? No, because
Speaker 1: I think for you to think that.
Speaker 2: You're going to be the only person forever that's pretty confident.
Speaker 2: That's a thick that's an amount of confidence that is
Speaker 2: unrealistic to me.
Speaker 1: You know how many it's billions of people in the world.
Speaker 1: So you're saying that you believe in polyamory, polyamorous relationships.
Speaker 1: Now I don't believe in that, but I do believe
Speaker 1: in everybody should get at least like a get out
Speaker 1: of jail free card. One at least one one. That's it.
Speaker 1: You get caught you with one person, Boom, that's done.
Speaker 1: Next time, this is over. Yeah, but why not just
Speaker 1: being an open relationship? Why not just keep it open.
Speaker 1: If we if you think that somebody, everybody deserves to
Speaker 1: get out of jail free, cart that means I get
Speaker 1: to do somebody on the side and you get to
Speaker 1: do somebody on the side. So that's two different people
Speaker 1: at two different times. We can't be doing this at
Speaker 1: the same time. Why can't we can do it at
Speaker 1: the same Dude, we go we gotta pass it off
Speaker 1: because because you doing it, because like because okay, so
Speaker 1: I know I knew this.
Speaker 3: Dude, his mother, No, who cheated?
Speaker 1: The mom cheated on the dead one of his parents
Speaker 1: cheated uh and was fully prepared to leave and that
Speaker 1: felt through right, came back into the relationship, and then
Speaker 1: the other parent forgave them and said that it was fine,
Speaker 1: we would work it out. And then the other parent,
Speaker 1: as soon as they got the opportunity, cheated on, cheated
Speaker 1: on Like if the dad you first, the mom was like,
Speaker 1: it's fine, it's not a problem. Then the mom cheated
Speaker 1: a couple months later because she was like, well, you
Speaker 1: did this to me, So some like, if you're just
Speaker 1: gonna do it in retaliation, then it's not gonna work.
Speaker 1: But if we agree that we're gonna be seeing other
Speaker 1: people on the side, then it is what it is.
Speaker 2: No, when I think when I say get out of
Speaker 2: a jail free card, you you're on a business trip.
Speaker 1: Okay, Wow, you're with the crew. Y'all drinking wood for
Speaker 1: reserve is flowing. Yeah, y'all drinking the Manhattan Yet some
Speaker 1: escorts come through escorts, No, no sports come through. Boom,
Speaker 1: you in the you in the hotel, cheating it up,
Speaker 1: cheating it up a storm? Right, you too, beb whatever?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: And then right you I find out about it. Okay,
Speaker 2: this was a crazy scenario. I'm fucking mad. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: not talking to you for a minute. I'm gonna put
Speaker 2: you on pause. We're still together. That's your get to
Speaker 2: jail free card. Now you have it a whole fucking affair.
Speaker 2: Absolutely not. You know how much.
Speaker 1: You know how invested you have to be to have
Speaker 1: a fair that's a lot. Also, y'all haven't seen these movies.
Speaker 1: Fatal Attraction. You haven't seen that was the movie with
Speaker 1: Richard gear Oh, unfaithful, unfaithful, I mean faithful.
Speaker 3: Great movie, But y'all not watching these films.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it ends well, it never ends well.
Speaker 4: But everyone thinks that it's not going to be them exactly,
Speaker 4: and that's.
Speaker 1: Why it happens to them.
Speaker 2: But also that's why I think about marriage. It's just like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be the only one forever.
Speaker 1: Really, But there are people that I mean, it's twenty
Speaker 1: twenty and marriage fifty one percent of all marriages and
Speaker 1: a divorce or whatever the hell the number is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you know, there are people that are together and
Speaker 1: they want to be together, and they're monogamous, and you know,
Speaker 1: they born and dry or whatever, but they make it work.
Speaker 3: Those people, those people do exist, They do exist.
Speaker 2: But a lot of people I talk to who married
Speaker 2: for that long, they're miserable then.
Speaker 1: But old school people who's still married, they're still married
Speaker 1: for the love of like their vows and all marriage.
Speaker 1: You're supposed to stay in it. Da da da da da.
Speaker 1: But they're miserable. They're not everybody who's married is miserable. Friend,
Speaker 1: not everybody, but a good amount a lot of people.
Speaker 1: It's a cute amount. They've been together, they've been together
Speaker 1: for twenty five thirty years. They don't even know what
Speaker 1: their wife's vagina looks like anymore. A lie, you know,
Speaker 1: it looked like it got some gray hairs on it.
Speaker 1: Look I think, I think twenty thirty years married is
Speaker 1: some gray pubes and it's some salt and pepper things
Speaker 1: in that thing.
Speaker 3: But I I what was what to say?
Speaker 1: I'm shading coach hairs and I forgot what I was
Speaker 1: gonna say. Yeah, that's rude and triggering. Do you want
Speaker 1: to get married? Friend? Not to me, I'm not proposing.
Speaker 1: I just yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: It sounds like a no. I don't know, Andrew, do
Speaker 3: you want to get married?
Speaker 4: I would like to get married. I could see you
Speaker 4: getting married to yesterday.
Speaker 1: The way you're talking right now, it sounds I'm actually surprised.
Speaker 3: I'm surprised. You sound real. Marie Fauston over there.
Speaker 4: What is this face that you're doing?
Speaker 1: People change, but so did you used to want to
Speaker 1: get married and now you've changed your mind?
Speaker 2: I think I think I wanted to get married because
Speaker 2: that's like it's a thing, like everybody gets married.
Speaker 1: But I just feel like, yeah, I don't feel that
Speaker 1: way anymore.
Speaker 3: Wow, let's get married.
Speaker 1: Every time I see people getting engaged, I see pictures
Speaker 1: of weddings, I'm like, this looks so great. But all
Speaker 1: of that is set up to look great.
Speaker 3: This is all well, that's how photos work, friend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but not just the photos I'm talking about, like
Speaker 2: the actual wedding, the engagement. It's all a big to
Speaker 2: do and it's too curated for me. I feel like
Speaker 2: love is loose and and unpredictable and.
Speaker 1: Uh, marriage and stuff. It's just too strict. It's like
Speaker 1: too many things you got to set up well, but
Speaker 1: not not Lina Lina. Lena then went to the courthouse
Speaker 1: and sweatpants with stains on them and she got a divorce. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because she was she was cheating. She was cheating before
Speaker 1: they was they got married. But I think, but I
Speaker 1: think that's the thing too. I think when it comes
Speaker 1: to regular people getting married versus celebrities getting married, it's
Speaker 1: not gonna be the same thing. Like famous people getting
Speaker 1: married or celebrities getting those to me, don't seem to
Speaker 1: ever work out, like I mean, unless you will. And Jada,
Speaker 1: but you know, they lose. They opened as so and
Speaker 1: Jada has not hit me up once, which is crazy,
Speaker 1: which is insane. The fact that we don't know what
Speaker 1: Jada's type is. This type is her type is you know,
Speaker 1: pouring on the.
Speaker 3: Rise, that's not her type of friend hundred percent.
Speaker 1: Not how tight you don't know Smith makes thirty million
Speaker 1: dollars a movie exactly On the right, you want to
Speaker 1: you're fucking like one of the best. You're like, I
Speaker 1: need to see what it is down there, that's more fun.
Speaker 1: She didn't even know what a groupon was, sis, You
Speaker 1: think she knows what poor people do and where to
Speaker 1: hook up with that On the right, I'm just saying
Speaker 1: Jada Pinket didn't even know what a groupon was. You
Speaker 1: think she know what the poors is up to? You
Speaker 1: think she tapped into this community. I don't say she knows.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying she should be funny and she could
Speaker 1: be fucking we all right, Sidney, Well, let's try to
Speaker 1: get Let's try to sneaking into, you know, an after
Speaker 1: party at the Oscars or the All Star Game. You
Speaker 1: know what. We're gonna track Jada Pinkey's birth chart, see
Speaker 1: where she gonna be in the next couple of months,
Speaker 1: and we'll put you in the room with miss Pinkett Smith.
Speaker 1: She's she ain't got no time for me.
Speaker 2: But it's fine, Like I'm just I'm just like, like
Speaker 2: I get marriage, just like it's beautiful.
Speaker 1: You don't get married. I do get it, but I'm
Speaker 1: just like, yeah that I don't think that's for me anymore.
Speaker 1: M I don't know if I want to get married
Speaker 1: because I don't want to give half of my assets
Speaker 1: to somebody that I think I want to Oprah instead minute.
Speaker 1: But I also feel like, you know, like currently I'm
Speaker 1: having a good time. I don't want to be in
Speaker 1: a relationship strictly for the fact that I feel like
Speaker 1: my career is about to take off and I don't
Speaker 1: want to enter the industry with a man because I
Speaker 1: want to be able to step with who I want
Speaker 1: when I get to where I'm going. That being said,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be banging everybody in Hollywood. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna be the bald hoe that you know, you know,
Speaker 1: Maurice here, you know, Maurice here. I don't want to
Speaker 1: be that. But I want to be free to do
Speaker 1: what I want with who I want. So, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'll get married. But I've only
Speaker 1: ever had one boyfriend, So there's also that I'm not
Speaker 1: really a commitment person.
Speaker 3: It's not really my you know, it's not my narrative.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's uh, it's real specific, but somehow everybody's doing it,
Speaker 2: but not everybody, Like everything is not for everybody, and
Speaker 2: you know people are gonna cheat.
Speaker 1: No one's ever cheated on me far as I know.
Speaker 3: Uh, don't do that with your face, Andrew.
Speaker 1: This man had a whole family. You think he wasn't cheating?
Speaker 1: Which man? The guy that you said you didn't know
Speaker 1: he had You didn't know he had a family. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't know hit a baby.
Speaker 2: You didn't know he had a baby. So you don't
Speaker 2: think he was dealing with anybody else.
Speaker 1: Girl, we were not a couple. We were just sleeping together.
Speaker 1: So he wasn't cheating on me. He was just lying
Speaker 1: to me and took probably all these other hoes, which
Speaker 1: is you know, that's neither here nor there. But I
Speaker 1: found out about the kid because his baby mother called
Speaker 1: me from his phone. Be a be why m m am.
Speaker 4: This stills up?
Speaker 1: Oh my baby mamas.
Speaker 3: She called me from his phone.
Speaker 1: So I picked up. I was like hey, and she
Speaker 1: was like hi, and I speak to Marie please, And
Speaker 1: I was like, oh you hear a woman's voice on
Speaker 1: his from his caller ID from his number. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is this is not gonna be a good call.
Speaker 1: And she's like, I just want to know how you
Speaker 1: know blank because I'm fucking him. And I was like what,
Speaker 1: because you know I'm trying to get because I was
Speaker 1: laying down, like she woke me up from a slumber.
Speaker 1: I said what And she's like, I just want to
Speaker 1: know how you know him? And I was like, we're friends,
Speaker 1: which is not a lie. We can't stand that we're friends.
Speaker 1: I can't. I cannot stand someone calling the other woman.
Speaker 1: Do you mean you can't stand somebody stand?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me finish. Because the way she was
Speaker 1: talking to me, I was like, oh, we could be friends.
Speaker 1: Ah No. She wasn't aggressive, she was very respectful. She
Speaker 1: I just want to know how hi. First of all,
Speaker 1: she hit me with a may I speak to Marie please?
Speaker 1: I said, yes, this is let me get a Marie.
Speaker 1: You're found. Hi. This is Marie? Who may I say?
Speaker 1: It is calling? Anyway? She was like, uh, I want
Speaker 1: to know how you know him? I told her we
Speaker 1: were friends. She was like, oh, well, we have a
Speaker 1: child together. She's like, we have a child together and
Speaker 1: I was like what, I didn't even know he had
Speaker 1: any kids. You know, we have a three year old
Speaker 1: or where however old this kid was. And I was like, oh, okay.
Speaker 1: And I used to speak to this man every day.
Speaker 1: I would go to his house. Never saw no kid toys,
Speaker 1: never heard a baby crying in the background, never like
Speaker 1: stepped over a pacifier in the bathroom.
Speaker 3: There were no kid things in his house.
Speaker 1: You got some good babysitters. No, no, the baby slip.
Speaker 1: The baby was at the baby brother's house. But also
Speaker 1: like I don't know, maybe he would go outside and
Speaker 1: like lock the door, like I don't know where he
Speaker 1: was talking to me when we would talk, and she
Speaker 1: was like, we have a child together, blah blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. And she was like, I just wanted to
Speaker 1: let you know.
Speaker 3: And I was like, yes, call you know, we friends.
Speaker 1: And then because and then my phone rang like an
Speaker 1: hour or two later, and it was him again, and
Speaker 1: I thought it was this woman and I was like, well,
Speaker 1: I got more questions, so I'm picking up and it
Speaker 1: was him and I was like, what did you do tonight?
Speaker 1: And he was like, nah, nothing, nothing crazy, you know,
Speaker 1: I just hung out with the boys, with the boys,
Speaker 1: or with your boy, with your child, with your son.
Speaker 1: He's with the boys. But my birthday was coming up,
Speaker 1: and I didn't say anything because I want him to
Speaker 1: get me a gift. Work work. I love the scam. Ah.
Speaker 1: Oh you think you're gonna get me. No, you got
Speaker 1: gonna get me a gift. You've got got and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get a gift. And then he didn't get me
Speaker 1: a gift, and then I did not well because the
Speaker 1: next time I spoke to him after that, the baby
Speaker 1: was in the background screaming and I was like, who
Speaker 1: bagy is that and he was like, that's my son.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, she must have told him that.
Speaker 1: I know because we literally were sleeping together for like
Speaker 1: a year and never heard anything about this child. And
Speaker 1: then a couple days after I speak to her, Now,
Speaker 1: your baby's in your house and you can keep a
Speaker 1: secret being loud? Good for him? Who's that in the background?
Speaker 1: Oh that's my kid? What when did you have a baby?
Speaker 1: I told you I had a kid? No you did not,
Speaker 1: You did didn't tell me which your bitch ass show
Speaker 1: home anyway. So that's why we don't date Trinidadians anymore. Oh,
Speaker 1: I totally yeah, they're done. Can't canceled with the tea
Speaker 1: canceled hard tea mm hmmm. Anyway, I can't believe I
Speaker 1: didn't get a gift. Actually I can. You know diapers
Speaker 1: are expensive, beach.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just rolling back all those times, it's just like,
Speaker 2: what a terrible career in dick.
Speaker 1: Uh. You know I didn't get enough gifts.
Speaker 2: I will say that the guy that came from a
Speaker 2: good home dad doctor got me a Tiffany's bracelet, very cute, cute.
Speaker 1: What did I do years later? Gave it to my roommate,
Speaker 1: just like you gave it to your room. So I
Speaker 1: can't have nice things because you was laid on a ramp. No,
Speaker 1: I just get I was like, yeah, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: use this no more. When am I gonna wear this?
Speaker 1: And this is when like that bracelet, like the it
Speaker 1: was like a Pandora bracelet. No, not the pan Dora,
Speaker 1: but like yeah with the yeah, with the engraved or whatever. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was such a big deal to have it, and
Speaker 1: I wanted it so bad and then I finally got it.
Speaker 2: And then years after that, I started, you know, I
Speaker 2: was on drugs and I was like, I don't want
Speaker 2: this no more.
Speaker 1: I was on drugs.
Speaker 2: What it was sterling silver, so it wasn't like it
Speaker 2: wasn't gold or anything.
Speaker 1: It was silver plated. Yeah, I can't believe I gave
Speaker 1: it up. I was like, I'm so stupid. What is
Speaker 1: sterling silver? What does sterling mean? Like a blend a
Speaker 1: millange of silvers?
Speaker 4: No idea. I don't know why you're looking at me.
Speaker 1: Well, because you're white. I think maybe you knew.
Speaker 4: I've never even heard sterling silver before.
Speaker 1: Well that's actually wow, that's rude.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Let me look it up for you.
Speaker 3: He said, I don't know what you're looking at me.
Speaker 3: I don't wear that.
Speaker 2: I'm like, what other gifts that I get? I didn't
Speaker 2: really get gifts.
Speaker 1: Uh. The the guy before Adrian, he got me a
Speaker 1: bag because he was like, oh you keep He got
Speaker 1: me a diaper bag. Wait, hold the one. He got
Speaker 1: me a Chloe diaper bag but it looked like like
Speaker 1: a normal bag, but it was a bag for diapers.
Speaker 1: Because he's like, oh, you're always with that Adidas Duffel bag. Yo,
Speaker 1: you had an Adidas backpack with the two strings. No,
Speaker 1: I had Adidas Duffel bag and I would carry that
Speaker 1: everywhere because I would like have a change of shoes
Speaker 1: and my makeup and stuff because you know, so you've
Speaker 1: always always had a giant bag. Yeah, at all time, Yes, absolutely, Okay,
Speaker 1: Sidney never has like a little purse. Yeah, what's a
Speaker 1: small purse?
Speaker 3: Sidney never like carry like an envelope clutch.
Speaker 2: No, I'm the type that's like, oh, she's going somewhere
Speaker 2: for the weekend.
Speaker 1: I'm a weekender bitch. Yeah, weekender bitch.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Love that.
Speaker 3: That's the name of the EU.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So, oh, first thing that pops up is Tiffany's unless
Speaker 2: was it listening to me?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 3: Wait, what did you google Tiffany's?
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I put in sterling silver in the
Speaker 1: first thing that pops up is Tiffany's.
Speaker 3: Okay, well, please read the definition.
Speaker 1: Sterling silver is an alloy of silver, containing ninety two
Speaker 1: point five percent by weight of silver and seven point
Speaker 1: five by weight of other metals, usually copper. The sterling
Speaker 1: silver waits okay, So how much percentage of silver is it?
Speaker 1: Ninety two point five percent? Okay, So it's mainly silver,
Speaker 1: it's mainly silver. Yeah, And then you know this was
Speaker 1: that copper a couple pennies in it. They melt a
Speaker 1: couple abe linking faces and then you get a sterling silver,
Speaker 1: people ask, is sterling silver a good quality chosen for
Speaker 1: strength and beauty? Sterling silver has a lifetime of durability.
Speaker 1: Pure silver is very soft, making it a poor choice
Speaker 1: for an everyday ring, such as an engagement ring or
Speaker 1: a wedding ban. The additional of copper makes silver strong.
Speaker 1: So sterling silver is good.
Speaker 3: But why the word sterling in front of silver makes
Speaker 3: it feel like.
Speaker 1: It feels amazon. Yeah, yeah, it feels middle of them,
Speaker 1: all right, yes, thank you. It feels clare successory. It's
Speaker 1: clear exactly. Yeah, that's what it is. That's what it is.
Speaker 1: But if you get it from Tiffany's now it's.
Speaker 2: Better because it's shinier. Okay, but hold on, let's get
Speaker 2: into it. My friend, uh started dating this millionaire and
Speaker 2: oh Ryan, we put my phone down and he was
Speaker 2: buying her everything. I mean, I'm talking about him.
Speaker 1: Give us the full story so we can go do it.
Speaker 2: He owns like a shoe company, like a big shoe
Speaker 2: company or whatever, and I think he met she met
Speaker 2: him through another friend who was like a flight attendant
Speaker 2: for private jets.
Speaker 1: Oh, talent specific business. This. Wow. I hope these friends
Speaker 1: never listen to the podcast High friends that are rich
Speaker 1: or Richard Jason. Yeah, so she met him through there.
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, the friend who was a flight
Speaker 2: attendant used to be a shoe model for this Dudeka.
Speaker 1: Come on, she's a good friend. No no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: this friend, this friend comes through like she's shoe model.
Speaker 1: Now what size? What's it? What's it? I mean like
Speaker 1: a seven? She was a seven.
Speaker 2: She's a very small feet, but you know, she hooked
Speaker 2: him up. And you know, my friend is was very younger,
Speaker 2: like so much younger than this guy. He's like in
Speaker 2: his fifties and she's like in her twenties or whatever. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: and obviously he was a very alabaster and immediately he's like, oh,
Speaker 2: you know, what is your friend black? But she like
Speaker 2: got very nice quality hair. She's okay, so she Jesse
Speaker 2: Williams heard you. Yeah, yes, no, but she's she's brown skin.
Speaker 1: I'll show you brown skin. She's gorgeous. She's a model.
Speaker 1: I don't know if she models now, but.
Speaker 3: She got to be gorgeous in the face to be
Speaker 3: a foot model.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, the other friend, the other friend is gorgeous,
Speaker 1: but she's just her feet are cute. To be a
Speaker 1: full model. They're very pretty. Okay, she has good feet. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: here's my friend. This is which one is this? That's
Speaker 1: the one who dated the the millionaire.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I feel like I could do this. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I could definitely date a millionaire.
Speaker 1: That's the reason why I'm not.
Speaker 4: It's the millionaire cute.
Speaker 1: No, they never are Andrew. You know this.
Speaker 4: Sometimes they are never.
Speaker 1: There in the movie that.
Speaker 3: They always got a funny look like Richard Gear.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. They're shaped like penguin from the Batman movie. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they waddle a little bit. They're always mister potato head vibes. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's cute. She looks kind of like a friend of ours. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: she's great. So he you know, giving her car, giving
Speaker 1: her allowance, buying her like Chanel watches, getting her like
Speaker 1: the best Artemar Artemar Artemar watch that's like a Cartier watch,
Speaker 1: like one dollars. She had watches, but I don't want watches.
Speaker 1: Put my name on a lead he had hold on. Okay.
Speaker 2: She had like diamonds, diamond studs from Tiffany's whatever, all
Speaker 2: this stuff.
Speaker 1: She had, shoes, clothes, money, everything. Yes, So obviously they
Speaker 1: break up and obviously I mean he went he before
Speaker 1: he broke up, and he's like, you know, I get
Speaker 1: you these nice things because like if anything happens, you
Speaker 1: can always like sell this stuff and you'll you'll have money,
Speaker 1: you'll be taken care of. So what a nice guy.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think you know he he was doing this.
Speaker 2: They didn't they didn't have they didn't really have sex
Speaker 2: like that. I think she might have had sex with
Speaker 2: him twice, and she was with him for months and
Speaker 2: months and months min maybe a whole year. Who knows,
Speaker 2: they only have sex twice. Yeah, she only told you twice. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: this friend is very honest. N She drinks Tennessee like
Speaker 2: it's water.
Speaker 1: She drinks Tennessee. Yes, wow, Cavossier drinking Hennessy. This is okay.
Speaker 3: Put my new yeest resolution is to start drinking Hennessy.
Speaker 1: Hannessy gets you to where you need to be.
Speaker 3: Friend Hennessy is getting me on a private jet.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: Anyway, so she they got the guy stops giving her money.
Speaker 1: No, they break up, she moves out whatever, but then
Speaker 1: oh they lived together. They lived together absolutely, and I
Speaker 1: only has had twice yeah, yeah, he couldn't. I'm saying
Speaker 1: a lot.
Speaker 3: Please say it, Please say but you know, you know
Speaker 3: you couldn't.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't need to say it, you know.
Speaker 2: So anyway, she goes to back to Houston or whatever,
Speaker 2: that's where she's from, and uh, you know, she comes
Speaker 2: back to the city because she's like, oh, I'm trying
Speaker 2: to pawn all this stuff.
Speaker 1: So I'm going with her to pawn these things. Do
Speaker 1: you where do you pawn an autumn? Watch the Diamond District.
Speaker 1: You just go to those places.
Speaker 2: So you go to you you see what the market
Speaker 2: is for it. You see you know how much it
Speaker 2: was paid for, and then you see what people are
Speaker 2: taking it for. Okay, so we go there and a
Speaker 2: lot of the stuff you're not really getting nowhere near
Speaker 2: the money you paid, right because it's used, not even that,
Speaker 2: it's just used. Like even if you bought one and
Speaker 2: then came the next day to sell it, it's you're
Speaker 2: just not gonna get.
Speaker 1: It's the quality that they're saying it is. It's really
Speaker 1: not that great. Tiffany's absolutely not. There was. She had
Speaker 1: like studs that were fifty or sixty thousand dollars. We
Speaker 1: went to so many stores. Every time it was like
Speaker 1: maybe ten one was like eight thousand dollars. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: they're not gonna give you what you paid. No, that's
Speaker 1: not how they make money. Oh, absolutely not. But I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like that is such a small amount. So what the
Speaker 1: hell does a fifty thousand dollars stud look like? Oh?
Speaker 1: They were big, they were huge. Okay, so they were rocks.
Speaker 1: They were beautiful stud When I think stead, I think
Speaker 1: they were incredible. The only watch out of all of
Speaker 1: them that were worth real money was the Cardia Watch.
Speaker 1: How much did they How much does that retail for?
Speaker 1: Do you think her watch? Yeah, I'm gonna say it
Speaker 1: was at least like seventy seventy thousand dollars. She had
Speaker 1: like a lot of watches that were how much do
Speaker 1: you think she get for it? We went we went
Speaker 1: to one place and they was like, oh, we'll take
Speaker 1: this for it was I think were a little under
Speaker 1: twenty thousand. But it's just like this would rather you
Speaker 1: just give me the money? No, I have the money,
Speaker 1: and then like maybe put like a gift on top
Speaker 1: of the stack cash, but give me my money.
Speaker 2: But that's when she was telling me after everything. She
Speaker 2: was like, all this name brand, all these things, that
Speaker 2: none of this matters, Like it's stupid. She the money
Speaker 2: that she accumulated from whatever this relationship, she took it
Speaker 2: and she made her own business. And now she has
Speaker 2: her own salon or whatever in you know where she
Speaker 2: lives and she she's employing people, she has a home.
Speaker 2: She's like, things don't matter. She's like, yeah, I buy
Speaker 2: things now. But at the end of the day, you
Speaker 2: need the money and you need to invest it.
Speaker 1: And if you can, if you have the opportunity to
Speaker 1: get a lump sum of something, she's like, immediately put
Speaker 1: it into a business, whatever business you want, do it,
Speaker 1: even if it's like, oh, this is not something I love.
Speaker 1: Per se, when you when you make when you start
Speaker 1: a business, you're gonna get a return, especially when you
Speaker 1: start a business with money that he gave you. I mean,
Speaker 1: wise words from a sugar baby love to see it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what we need is a sugar baby expert. Yeah
Speaker 1: she was a I don't think. Yeah she doesn't do
Speaker 1: that anymore.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I mean she doesn't because she got a business.
Speaker 1: But like these people do. I mean, you could have
Speaker 1: a business and still get money on the side, like Claus.
Speaker 1: Are you talking about Claus? Ain't nothing wrong with that?
Speaker 1: Are you watching Claus? I am not, but I saw
Speaker 1: the first season. It was good. It was great. I
Speaker 1: love Nie Nash. Let me, she's getting a divorce too. No, no,
Speaker 1: she is, Yes, she is. Wait what haping divorced? Wendy
Speaker 1: Williams told me, you know he's where we getting my news?
Speaker 4: Husband is so hot too. I think he is me.
Speaker 1: Because you know your taste is questionable from top it. No,
Speaker 1: that's not true. He's everybody showed me. I was like,
Speaker 1: that's a lie. Remember when Andrew banging at homeless guys
Speaker 1: stop it?
Speaker 4: And he looked like Jamie fo Ah.
Speaker 1: Jamie Fox poor though doesn't we saw him poor in
Speaker 1: that movie where he was a pianist. Pianist, he was
Speaker 1: probably still hot. No, he looked right homeless. Okay, wait,
Speaker 1: when am I looking up?
Speaker 3: Nash see husband?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Jay Tucker husband. Oh he is cute. I wouldn't say
Speaker 1: he's like the finest, but he's.
Speaker 4: A nice too.
Speaker 1: He's Yeah, he looks like somebody that drop a bus.
Speaker 1: He looked like a nigga that would cheat. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2: You could see the whey he wear his suits. It's
Speaker 2: like he's one step out the door.
Speaker 1: Andrew, I'm not gonna give him hot. You know, he
Speaker 1: like a nice looking guy.
Speaker 5: But for.
Speaker 1: You said, that's not how, that's not how you No,
Speaker 1: that's wrong. Take that back. She fine as fun. Her
Speaker 1: body is snatched, she's funny as hell. She's making money. Titties,
Speaker 1: top titty tier, top tier titty Yeah, amazing.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, the.
Speaker 1: Reason that they, I think got a divorce is because
Speaker 1: she started getting really I don't think there was any
Speaker 1: cheating involved, but I think you know, when you meet
Speaker 1: somebody and they're at the beginning of their career, you know,
Speaker 1: they're like they're a different person. They start to do well,
Speaker 1: they start to book things, they start to make money,
Speaker 1: they start to be busy, and like maybe you feel
Speaker 1: emasculated as a man, or you feel like you getting
Speaker 1: left behind because you still work at you know, wherever
Speaker 1: he was working, Barney's or whatever. You know. So I
Speaker 1: think that's why the studio, he works at the studio.
Speaker 1: He's an engineer at the studio exactly. So you know,
Speaker 1: that's why I think a lot of relationships, like Hollywood
Speaker 1: relationships fail when you're starting out like didn't Vanessa Hudgens
Speaker 1: also just break up with her man. They were together
Speaker 1: for like nine years and he is in a bunch
Speaker 1: of new movies, like his career is starting to take off.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you know he got what he needed
Speaker 1: from her and now he's like bye. Like that shit
Speaker 1: is so scary and stressful. What is scary? What's scary?
Speaker 1: I don't know you with somebody and.
Speaker 2: You already established and then they witch you and then
Speaker 2: they get what they need and they peace out. That's
Speaker 2: that's stressful.
Speaker 4: Well, Monique has an open relationship Monique. Yes, here we
Speaker 4: are Monique. She always talks about the thing. I think
Speaker 4: she has some podcasts about her open relationship with her husband.
Speaker 1: She talks so much that it's just like it needs
Speaker 1: to be open. So because there's no way there's your
Speaker 1: mouth closed, so your relationship shouldn't. Yeah, we love you, girl,
Speaker 1: come on the pod. Somebody at her, at her, make
Speaker 1: sure she knows about us. We can't pay you to
Speaker 1: be here, but we would love for you to be here.
Speaker 1: It would be great exposure for you. No one, girl,
Speaker 1: We love you anyway. Yeah, she's got a special coming
Speaker 1: out too. I'm sure time where it came out, she was.
Speaker 4: Mad about Amy Schumer getting a lot more money for Netflix.
Speaker 1: From that's what the whole Monique thing started from Netflix
Speaker 1: ban because they ordered, they offered her like a tenth
Speaker 1: of what Amy Schumer got, and Amy Schumer got like
Speaker 1: sixty million.
Speaker 4: Dollars And where's Amy Schumer's oscar?
Speaker 1: Amy Schumer don't need an oscar. No, she's a she's
Speaker 1: a white woman. Getting an oscar doesn't mean any It
Speaker 1: means nothing. Absolutely. Remember when Halle Berry got an oscar.
Speaker 1: Every single movie she made before and after that was
Speaker 1: trash doo doo. Well, Monique got for precious and then
Speaker 1: you know, she started talking about Oprah being the devil
Speaker 1: and Tyler Perry being trash and she hasn't been in
Speaker 1: a movie since. And I understand, Oh, ego is Ego
Speaker 1: is strong, because it's like I know where she's coming from,
Speaker 1: because she's like, I want I want my worth, I
Speaker 1: want this, I want that, I deserve this. I should
Speaker 1: be able to speak on it. But it's like you
Speaker 1: got to play the game, right, because you got to
Speaker 1: play the game and get what you can from it
Speaker 1: and then start your own shit and then you're in
Speaker 1: control and you won't even even have to mention these people. Well,
Speaker 1: think about all the money that she lost because of this, Okay,
Speaker 1: because because the whole thing started from when she was
Speaker 1: doing press for Precious. Okay, she was doing press for Precious,
Speaker 1: and they wanted her to con. They wanted her to
Speaker 1: go to CON and all these other places and do
Speaker 1: all these interviews and she was like, well, am I
Speaker 1: getting paid for these? And they were like, no, this
Speaker 1: is part of your contract. And she didn't want to
Speaker 1: do the stuff because she was like, well, I'm tired
Speaker 1: and I should be paid to do work. And she
Speaker 1: she got this reputation that she was difficult to work with,
Speaker 1: and then after that people didn't want to work with her.
Speaker 1: And it's like, Sis, you was worried about these scraps
Speaker 1: from this press. Now you can't make any money from
Speaker 1: any movies because nobody wants to work with you. You
Speaker 1: should have just done that free work, free quote unquote work,
Speaker 1: and then you would have been able to make more
Speaker 1: money consistently after that movie was done. The problem is
Speaker 1: is that she said, she said, you know, she had
Speaker 1: to fly herself out, she had to do all this,
Speaker 1: She had to you know, get her own makeup all
Speaker 1: this stuff when she goes to con which I understand sure.
Speaker 1: And then Kevin Hart, I don't know, they wanted him
Speaker 1: to do promo for the movie that he was in.
Speaker 1: He was able to work it out as if you
Speaker 1: want me to promote on this platform, you need to
Speaker 1: pay me this amount of money.
Speaker 3: Yes, because when it wasn't at the same time that
Speaker 3: the Monique.
Speaker 1: Way, it wasn't at the same time, but it was like,
Speaker 1: it wasn't that far off to be like, you can
Speaker 1: stipulate something for these people, right, But that's Monique's lawyer's fault.
Speaker 1: That's Monique's lawyer and Monique's manager's fault. You shouldn't negotiated
Speaker 1: all that in the contract before you signed it. Friend,
Speaker 1: And far as I know, her husband is a manager,
Speaker 1: so yelling an open relationship, d yelling an open relationship,
Speaker 1: and he can't read. He can't open the contract and
Speaker 1: say well you need this, this, this, this, this, We
Speaker 1: can't cross these things out. Also, Kevin Hart at this
Speaker 1: point or whatever point that this happened, has like social
Speaker 1: media wasn't as big when Monique was doing Precious, but
Speaker 1: Kevin Hart has a huge social media following so you know,
Speaker 1: most people that have one hundred thousand plus followers, they
Speaker 1: can go ciate money based on what they post, you know,
Speaker 1: so that there's a difference there. But also women, when
Speaker 1: we ask for what we want, we're viewed as difficult.
Speaker 1: And when men do it, they just you know, they're
Speaker 1: good businessmen.
Speaker 2: Or or they already hit them with a high number anyway,
Speaker 2: because it's a man, they don't.
Speaker 1: They normally do not low ball men, especially white men.
Speaker 1: We already know that. But man, a man is going
Speaker 1: to get a higher number than a woman one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: I agree with you on that, as when they have
Speaker 1: no problem giving them this number, yes, yes, yes, no,
Speaker 1: but this is but at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: when you're negotiating money with anybody who has a lot
Speaker 1: of it, the contract that they offer you first is
Speaker 1: what's convenient for them, what's most ideal for them. So
Speaker 1: even if they're offering these white men a higher number
Speaker 1: than they're offering a black woman, they're still not giving
Speaker 1: them what they could give one hundred percent give them.
Speaker 1: So whatever number they offer me, when I get my
Speaker 1: contracts for anything, I would triple it and ask for
Speaker 1: that right and then we meet somewhere in the middle.
Speaker 1: But as I've and I've spoken to other female comics
Speaker 1: and other female performers, and they're always afraid to ask
Speaker 1: for more money. And I'm like, but that's not how
Speaker 1: I live my life. My mantra is what would a
Speaker 1: white man do? And that's how I do it. And
Speaker 1: lucky for me, the people who represent me, you're all white,
Speaker 1: so they ask for what they want and then my
Speaker 1: black ass gets that.
Speaker 3: But do you got to ask for more? You gotta
Speaker 3: know what your worth is.
Speaker 1: You gotta know what the people, uh, the people who
Speaker 1: don't look like you are asking for are probably gonna get.
Speaker 1: Ask for that, ask for the white man check, and
Speaker 1: you probably not gonna get it. Most likely you're not
Speaker 1: gonna get it. But ask for that, ask for more
Speaker 1: than that you or it's just like whatever you think
Speaker 1: you're worth is double it. Well, because but I spoke
Speaker 1: to this chick and this was recently, maybe like in
Speaker 1: December sometime, and she was like, she was like, I
Speaker 1: got offered this job and she was like, but it's
Speaker 1: not enough money, but I don't want them to offer
Speaker 1: the job to somebody else. And I was like, but
Speaker 1: if it's not enough money. Then you just gonna take
Speaker 1: that little bit of money and that's how you're gonna
Speaker 1: like how can you support yourself? And she was like,
Speaker 1: I just don't want to be I don't want them
Speaker 1: to think that I'm difficult. And I was like, but
Speaker 1: men don't think like that. They're just difficult. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: or it's not even difficult. It's like you want me, right,
Speaker 1: I didn't ask for this job. If you hitting me up,
Speaker 1: that means you want me. You want something that I
Speaker 1: can offer. So I'm not going off the number that
Speaker 1: you're giving me. You need to go off the number
Speaker 1: that I need for me to work. Whatever number they
Speaker 1: put that, whatever number they offer, you don't take it.
Speaker 1: That's not how That's not how money negotiation works. That's
Speaker 1: not how Will Smith got thirty million dollars a movie. Now,
Speaker 1: that's not how. I mean Bad Boys two was, I
Speaker 1: mean Bad Boys three was not a good movie. But
Speaker 1: you know the movie took so long for them to
Speaker 1: do it because Martin Lawrence, they were offering him so
Speaker 1: much less than Will Smith. And he was like, well,
Speaker 1: I'm not we both it's Bad Boys. It's not Bad
Speaker 1: Away with Martin laure It's both of us. So you
Speaker 1: you ask for what you're worth. You ask for what
Speaker 1: you want, and if they don't want to give it
Speaker 1: to you, then be fully prepared to walk away and
Speaker 1: be like, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 3: Be fully prepared to walk away, which.
Speaker 1: Is fine because something else better is gonna come that, Like,
Speaker 1: if somebody wants you, if they really want you, they
Speaker 1: gonna give you that number less your monique, which is
Speaker 1: where we come back to. She didn't want she didn't
Speaker 1: want to play ball, so she now is not in
Speaker 1: the game at all. That's that's what is happened in
Speaker 1: the mo That's what happened to her in the last
Speaker 1: I mean for her, she feels like, you know, she's
Speaker 1: still in it, which is you know, but I'm saying
Speaker 1: you She won an oscar, right, That's what Andrew brought up.
Speaker 1: She won an Academy Award for Best Supporting.
Speaker 4: Actress and then.
Speaker 3: No movies after that, not even a Soul plain too,
Speaker 3: no movies, And it's like, what happened?
Speaker 1: Friend? I mean, this industry is fucked. I mean, we
Speaker 1: listened to that podcast where they were interviewing Viola Davis
Speaker 1: and you know, whatever you think is going to be
Speaker 1: and when you become an actor or actress or whatever.
Speaker 1: That's not how it plays out. Like Viola Davis had
Speaker 1: to be so many terrible roles to get to where
Speaker 1: she is now because they just were not allowing or
Speaker 1: offering her that at first. And she's still mad at
Speaker 1: herself for doing the help. She's furious. She I'm sure
Speaker 1: she's the way she was talking, she's still mad that
Speaker 1: she took that role. But at the time, it was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is this is like the best thing that I
Speaker 1: can do for now, for now, until I can get
Speaker 1: to the position of like, oh yeah, I'm never taking
Speaker 1: those roles. And then how to get Away We're Murdered.
Speaker 1: She said that they they had she was not the
Speaker 1: first pick. She said they want they wanted her to audition,
Speaker 1: and she was like, I am not auditions that they
Speaker 1: wanted her to read for the role of how to
Speaker 1: get Away We're Murder And they were fully prepared to
Speaker 1: offer it to two other, two white actresses, and they
Speaker 1: didn't want them to They were going to give them
Speaker 1: the wrong and because they didn't want it, and because
Speaker 1: they didn't want it, that's why she got it. But
Speaker 1: she she also she refused She said I'm not reading
Speaker 1: for this, and she got it, and she's winning all
Speaker 1: these awards for her, but like, imagine, imagine fucking Nerve,
Speaker 1: imagine Violin, do what else and where you are going
Speaker 1: to give that to Jennifer Lawrence, somebody raggedy sis, Jennifer Aniston,
Speaker 1: Jennifer Phoebe, Phoebe from Friends, somebody raggedy, not raggedy. But
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but it's just like, come on, now, come
Speaker 1: on and even still, I mean she's I mean, I
Speaker 1: saw an interview where she was like, if you guys
Speaker 1: keep saying I'm the Meryl Streep of whatever, then give
Speaker 1: me Meryl Streep money. Absolutely. But that's the thing too,
Speaker 1: is like black women in Hollywood, they you know, they
Speaker 1: they throw this away, but they love recycling. What the
Speaker 1: hell is Jennifer Lawrence, Jennifer and what's the other one now, Maggie, Margot, Robbie,
Speaker 1: Like it's the same, They have the same fakes, they
Speaker 1: do the same thing. They like them. The director likes
Speaker 1: working with them. Every single thing they direct for the
Speaker 1: next six years that person is in. But they don't
Speaker 1: do that with they don't do that with black actresses. No,
Speaker 1: they'd be like well, well, I think Gabrielle Union was
Speaker 1: touching on this, that that was happening to her, to
Speaker 1: her as well, because she was supposed to what what
Speaker 1: movie was she up against that she was supposed to get? Oh, Scandal?
Speaker 1: There was a show, right, she was up. She was
Speaker 1: up for Scandal, and they went with Kerrie Washington, which
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, that makes sense this.
Speaker 5: But like.
Speaker 1: But it's like shod no, no. I mean it's just
Speaker 1: obviously you're like, oh, I deserve this or whatever, but
Speaker 1: it's also like, you got to be realistic. A lot
Speaker 1: of people get type casts because depending on how many
Speaker 1: rules you didn't take that you've took. If you don't
Speaker 1: show your range, they're gonna keep putting you in the
Speaker 1: same And what.
Speaker 3: Is Gabrielle Union's range city.
Speaker 1: That she don't do that prinlysis friend as close to
Speaker 1: her as you look, I love some Gabby. Well you
Speaker 1: are the only person in the room that does. I
Speaker 1: just I you know, I she's not a good actress, friend,
Speaker 1: She's a basic as best that being said, Kerry Washington
Speaker 1: not the great of an actress either, and she's very
Speaker 1: annoying and scandal but uh, you know, I think that
Speaker 1: the role went to the right person in that in
Speaker 1: that instance. But it fucks with you. It fucks with
Speaker 1: you cause you're you're you're in this and you're like,
Speaker 1: I'm my peers, my friends, da da da da da,
Speaker 1: and we know all the ship that goes on with
Speaker 1: the industry, like oh, they'll offer to this person and
Speaker 1: then oh they're giving somebody else more money and you
Speaker 1: wouldn't even know if you didn't even just fucking ask, Like, well,
Speaker 1: that's what Viola Davis was saying on this podcast, and
Speaker 1: y'all need to listen to it. It's so freaking good.
Speaker 1: She was saying that, like you have to like buy
Speaker 1: the rights to a movie, like because she was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I have my own production company, but so does Octavia
Speaker 1: Spencer and actually be Hinton, Like all these black women
Speaker 1: have their own production companies. And you think when you
Speaker 1: have your own then making a movie is a piece
Speaker 1: of cake. But it's not because you ought to then
Speaker 1: get funding for your movie. And she was like, what
Speaker 1: white man is going to play a supporting role to
Speaker 1: me in a movie?
Speaker 3: Because the it's if the politics are go into it
Speaker 3: is crazy.
Speaker 1: They get paid more money and they're a supporting character
Speaker 1: and you're the star, but you make less than your
Speaker 1: a white coastar. It's insanity. And but but you need
Speaker 1: that white coastar to get funding for your movie. Yes,
Speaker 1: because a production company is not gonna give you money
Speaker 1: because they're like, well, who's gonna see this this black,
Speaker 1: this blick movie. It's and it's I mean even with us,
Speaker 1: like if we go into something with us together, they're like, ah,
Speaker 1: two black girls, they'll want to switch you out where Oh,
Speaker 1: let's get an Asian or a white because then it's
Speaker 1: like mainstream and it's like what we have the most
Speaker 1: chemistry And we're like they're like, yeah, but we need
Speaker 1: but who Yeah, how are we going to sell this?
Speaker 1: And it's Erica knuckle watch this what I mean anywhere
Speaker 1: we go we fucking shutting it down right. It just
Speaker 1: it upsets me because it's just like, oh, so you're
Speaker 1: gonna put You're gonna put us with somebody we don't
Speaker 1: know that, we don't have a real good rapport with.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be off. Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, I mean people can act and like, you know,
Speaker 2: I see you with other people like this works. I
Speaker 2: guess she getting a check?
Speaker 1: So yes, for the team for the money, friend, yeah,
Speaker 1: and the exposure. But like, we just did the thing
Speaker 1: on NPR. It was asked, asked me another and when
Speaker 1: I tell you bodied it, Sydney and I got on
Speaker 1: stage and stole the end like it was our podcast.
Speaker 1: It was our show.
Speaker 3: The audience was like, oh, well, I don't even see
Speaker 3: this host. What are y'all talking about?
Speaker 1: No, we love we love the host. Yes, it says
Speaker 1: we love the hoax. But I'm saying we got If
Speaker 1: you would invite me and Sydney to do something together
Speaker 1: and you're there and you think you're gonna moderate it,
Speaker 1: we are taking over your podcast show.
Speaker 3: You're we're taking over it sucks and we're interviewing you.
Speaker 1: Right, let's talk about what you got going on. It's
Speaker 1: a it's a gift and it's a curse. But it's
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, but this is that's like the industry.
Speaker 1: It's just like, it makes more sense, Oh if I
Speaker 1: pair you with somebody else of a different nationality. But
Speaker 1: it doesn't. Everybody doesn't make more sense. It doesn't make
Speaker 1: more sense to me. It don't make no, it doesn't
Speaker 1: make more sense because when we look at when you
Speaker 1: look at the media, that we consume it's white, white commercials,
Speaker 1: white families, white theys, whiteyah blah bla blah blah blah. Right,
Speaker 1: but like black folks consume that, and we can we
Speaker 1: can enjoy something that doesn't have black I mean we
Speaker 1: don't want to, but like we we can watch a
Speaker 1: white movie and be like, oh, that was a good
Speaker 1: that was good. But you telling me that white folks
Speaker 1: can't watch two people who don't look like them and
Speaker 1: identify with them characters. But that's not what the people
Speaker 1: are saying. These are what the people that the gate
Speaker 1: keepers are saying that the people who are curious whom
Speaker 1: talking about. Yeah, they're like, well, you know, Andrew wants
Speaker 1: to see us. I mean, ed you went to see
Speaker 1: Queen it's slimpses. Okay, he basically saw us. He was
Speaker 1: in that film at the shere you're so damn and
Speaker 1: send it took her braids out in the studio, So
Speaker 1: you've basically seen Queen and slim Here. You're it's living.
Speaker 1: It's right next to you, living and breathing. Yeah, anyway,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's what what other options do we have?
Speaker 1: Friends like I can't get a desk job. No, I
Speaker 1: can't not work in the entertainment industry. No, because I can't.
Speaker 1: You know, I've been fired from every job I've in
Speaker 1: my head. So that's not where I thrive. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: thrive here, No, absolutely, but but that's why it's Like.
Speaker 2: Gabrielle Union was at h she did No Hollywood Reporter,
Speaker 2: they do those those interviews, and she said when she
Speaker 2: was at the table, she's like, talk to your sister,
Speaker 2: ask what she's asked. Don't be afraid to be like,
Speaker 2: this is the amount I'm getting because what you're doing
Speaker 2: is you're helping the system. Because what they're doing is
Speaker 2: they're low balling like you're a good friend, yep, and
Speaker 2: you like you're saying yes, but this is a business.
Speaker 1: It's like, no, it's not a business. It's a business
Speaker 1: for them. No, So it is a business. That's what
Speaker 1: it is. It's a business and for them, whatever is
Speaker 1: cost effective for them is what they're gonna offer you.
Speaker 1: There was somebody in New York I don't remember who
Speaker 1: it was, but there was there was an email circulating
Speaker 1: in like random the black community, and it was like writers, actors, directors, producers,
Speaker 1: and they were all anonymously putting in how much money
Speaker 1: they made for their first thing, their second thing, their projects,
Speaker 1: what the budget was, so we could all see how
Speaker 1: much everybody was getting paid so we could better negotiate
Speaker 1: our contracts. Were you on that email list? No, well
Speaker 1: I gotta find it. But it was from like maybe
Speaker 1: like a year and a half, two years ago. People
Speaker 1: were just putting in how much money they were making
Speaker 1: for projects, so we could see essentially what you're talking about,
Speaker 1: so we could be like, oh, okay, realistically I should
Speaker 1: be asking for no less than this. Yeah, so I
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, I can't wait to be in
Speaker 1: a group chat with Kerrie Washington and Taraji and them
Speaker 1: to see how much they make it, so I could
Speaker 1: be like, all right, right, right, that's what I should
Speaker 1: be asking for. And then I mean, she is this
Speaker 1: is where I was like, this is a tough one.
Speaker 1: She's like, when you take the role that everybody was like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it for that amount, then it's like
Speaker 1: you're opening the door for them to keep making that
Speaker 1: that amount so low. So sometimes it's just like, am
Speaker 1: I in a position to be like I can't take
Speaker 1: this money? I understand what she was saying, but it's
Speaker 1: like some people are not at that level where they
Speaker 1: could just be like, yeah, I'm gonna turn that down.
Speaker 1: And that's what's so crazy because the people who turn
Speaker 1: that role down know how much you're getting paid, and
Speaker 1: they judge you for them they do, and they look
Speaker 1: at you they're like, oh, I was they offered me
Speaker 1: that role? Actually?
Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's like that's the other part of Hollywood
Speaker 3: that is that's so scary.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, like so it's it's scary because you're gonna
Speaker 1: be in these circles. You're gonna be at the Golden
Speaker 1: Globes eating your little you know, your fish dish, your
Speaker 1: shrimp contail right now, and somebody and sitting down Lathan
Speaker 1: or Whoever's gonna walk by and be like beach like
Speaker 1: you you you bringing us all down.
Speaker 3: And you're like, since I my mom is here, like
Speaker 3: I've never been to the Golden Like why are you
Speaker 3: talking to.
Speaker 1: Me like that? Like that is so scary. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: you know it's gonna happen because people can't or they don't,
Speaker 1: they don't have to say anything. They just look at you.
Speaker 1: They're like right, and you're just sitting there with your
Speaker 1: fashion ovah Vault collection and you're looking at them like
Speaker 1: you just happy to be there, but they think they
Speaker 1: look down at you because you took money that they
Speaker 1: were like, I would never do it for that much.
Speaker 3: But it's like, since I just got here, this is
Speaker 3: my first job. My IMDb is bear.
Speaker 1: Let me make this money. As I supposed to do, right,
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to say no and then just never work. Yeah, anyway,
Speaker 1: I mean that's I.
Speaker 2: Mean that essentially, that's what's like Viola Davis saying like
Speaker 2: I needed to do these little roles and these these
Speaker 2: roles that you're like, ah, this is not good for
Speaker 2: the brand or the community, but I need this money.
Speaker 1: Or you need the experience, right damn? All right, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get me a little Jewish agent and a
Speaker 1: little Ari from uh entourage, and we're gonna make this
Speaker 1: money because realistically, we are gonna we're gonna book things
Speaker 1: that we don't really want to do, but we they're
Speaker 1: stepping stones. Yeah right. I mean, I don't know where
Speaker 1: Meryl Streep started, but you know, Mary, Meryl Streep does
Speaker 1: six movies a year, and they're all different. And she
Speaker 1: can be artistic and she could be creative, and she
Speaker 1: could be Julia Julia, and she could be the devil
Speaker 1: wears Prada, and she can be you know, a nun
Speaker 1: and she she has all this different these different this
Speaker 1: different range, and she could flex some muscles and damn well, right,
Speaker 1: but Viola is not getting offered as much as as Meryl.
Speaker 1: She's she gets to be a crackhead, she gets to
Speaker 1: be a mom. Where does she? Would she Juilliard? Where'd
Speaker 1: she go she went to? I think she went to
Speaker 1: Juliard Julia the best of the best, right, m hmm,
Speaker 1: that bitch works. She'd be acting. Okay. Meryl Streep is
Speaker 1: the black Violet Davis. Okay, because everyone calls Viola Davis
Speaker 1: the black Mary, the white Viole. You know what, you know,
Speaker 1: what the hell, I don't do that. Don't do that.
Speaker 1: I said that in my solo show. Meryl Streep is
Speaker 1: the white Violet Davis. Thank you, yes, Merch Merch. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know, We're not gonna be competing with those women.
Speaker 1: We're gonna be competing with like Yaa Shahiti or whatever,
Speaker 1: and like you know, like young black Hollywood, and well
Speaker 1: that's who they give that, that's who they offer the
Speaker 1: role to. And then they're like, ah, I'm too busy.
Speaker 1: I'm I won't be I'll be you know, in another
Speaker 1: country filming something else. I can't do it. Yes, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I can't. What's the girl from Dear White People logan something? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, and the girlfriend like no, the Nola Darling girl, Oh,
Speaker 1: Dewanda Wise. I'll read stuff and I'm like, oh okay.
Speaker 2: Like and we'll see all the people that are auditioning,
Speaker 2: and then you see the deadline. They're like, that's who
Speaker 2: they offered it to begin with. They were auditioning all
Speaker 2: these other people just in case, just dick, justin that.
Speaker 2: They're like, oh, we can't do it, but they they
Speaker 2: know who they want for the role. A lot of
Speaker 2: people have said like, oh, this person wrote me into
Speaker 2: they were thinking about me the whole time they made
Speaker 2: this character.
Speaker 1: Yep. That's why, like casting directors is all like you.
Speaker 1: You all got to be in a it's not just
Speaker 1: your talent. Writers got to know you. Casting directors got
Speaker 1: to know you and they got to have a rapport
Speaker 1: and a relationship and they're like, ah, this is for
Speaker 1: this person. Yeah I wrote you into this thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah I'm doing oh I did ah I saw them
Speaker 2: in this hold on, let me bring them back. I
Speaker 2: think this is for them, that's all it is. You'd
Speaker 2: be like, oh, I set audition since they wasn't even
Speaker 2: thinking about you.
Speaker 1: They the camera wasn't on. Yeah, like they should come
Speaker 1: in and you felt good about it. But you're not
Speaker 1: even thinking about you, And it's it's not about it's
Speaker 1: not you, it's you, like because you're so hard on yourselves.
Speaker 1: What it's literally, it was never gonna be U siss,
Speaker 1: but what's for you will be for you. No man
Speaker 1: can take amen. Amen, Ah what the choir saying. He said. Anyway,
Speaker 1: all that's all that being said. I feel good about
Speaker 1: what is coming right. You know it's gonna be hard,
Speaker 1: but you know whatever, Uh, we'll figure it out. We're
Speaker 1: we're here, we're writing, we're creating content, and we gonna
Speaker 1: sell something that maybe will never get made, but we'll
Speaker 1: get paid for it and we'll use that money to
Speaker 1: do something else and put it back into the business.
Speaker 1: And uh, you know, along the way, we might maybe
Speaker 1: sleep with your husband or your mother. I'm sleeping with moms.
Speaker 1: When I get up to the top, watch out, how
Speaker 1: hide your mom? Hide your auntie I'm for everybody. Had
Speaker 1: your kids had your eye they rapping everybody out here. Wow, Sydney,
Speaker 1: can't believe you hid your mom? Is that the title? Kids?
Speaker 4: We had a title?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but we could we could amend that,
Speaker 1: you know, we switched.
Speaker 4: We had week under Bitch as the title.
Speaker 1: What do you want to That's cute though, We do
Speaker 1: you like that?
Speaker 4: And that works a weekend with your mom at the
Speaker 4: very end of the episode.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, no, actually yeah, the white no, the black,
Speaker 1: the white violent, the white Violet Davis. Yeah, the white
Speaker 1: Violet Davis. That white Violet Davis. That's cute, tooky, I'm
Speaker 1: here for that. Yeah, all right, Well, shout out to
Speaker 1: Monique and let's just list all the black female actresses
Speaker 1: that we can remember. Yeah, and then speaking of putting
Speaker 1: money back into the business, y'ah, niggas go to the
Speaker 1: Patreon because it's popping and uh we see we see
Speaker 1: the people who are It's just it's like blowing up
Speaker 1: a little bit and it's real cute and I'm really
Speaker 1: love it and we need that same energy. Keep it going,
Speaker 1: you know, keep it moving, keep it going. And also
Speaker 1: I have a solo show on what is It what's
Speaker 1: the day? Wow? Fuck yikes. I think it's the February
Speaker 1: the eighth at ten o'clock. Yes, at Union Hall. Can
Speaker 1: y'all get tickets because I don't want nobody to not
Speaker 1: be there. People gonna get tickets? What you're talking about?
Speaker 1: I'm just you know, that's the energy that I put
Speaker 1: out there. Nobody's coming. Yeah, that's that's negative and her
Speaker 1: this negative thinking exist. Yes, before we go, Okay, So
Speaker 1: February eighth, Union Hall, ten PM show. Yeah, Sydney's show
Speaker 1: is called what is it called? How to Start a Fire?
Speaker 1: How to Start a fire? Yeah, And while we leave,
Speaker 1: when we on the way out, we're just gonna list
Speaker 1: again black female actresses that we can remember, ready, Queen Latifa,
Speaker 1: Regina King, Regina Hall, Jada Pinkett, who was the one
Speaker 1: that was in set it off, but she had a kid,
Speaker 1: and a Kimberly Elise, Yes, Kimberly Elise, Vivica a Fox,
Speaker 1: a Fox Cecily Tyson.
Speaker 3: Okay, yes, a classic WHOOPI Godberg you know she you
Speaker 3: know she got that he got so I throw.
Speaker 1: That out there. Yeah, Okavir Spencer, come on, Sidney, we
Speaker 1: need I know, Gabriel Union yeah, we said, Garberry, Washington.
Speaker 1: We just want to list them. We said, all those people,
Speaker 1: Holly Berry, Dandy Newton, Dandy Newton. Where is she? Where
Speaker 1: is Sandy Newton? Yeah? Yeah, yeah you Jody Smith, Jody
Speaker 1: Foster Smith? Is that Jody what's her full name? Foster Smith?
Speaker 4: Jodie Foster is a different actress? Silence?
Speaker 1: Okay, but okay, don't don't do this, don't don't do this,
Speaker 1: don't do this. Okay, Well, we can't think of any
Speaker 1: more black I know there are, but black female actresses.
Speaker 1: Give us some names. People in the back a Dominique Fisher, dominate.
Speaker 1: Who's that? Ah, she's in juice? Okay, oh pay what?
Speaker 1: Oh the dude? Oh that's the James Frankle thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's canceled. Canceled. Well, we can't, for whatever reason, think
Speaker 1: but you guys listed and y'all, y'all put it in there,
Speaker 1: put it in the comments. If we missed your favorite
Speaker 1: black female actress. Oh, Angela Bassett, Yes, we ain't ship.
Speaker 1: We just gonna stop right there because I can't think
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