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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Phil Cicilano is here Siciliana Citilano if you say it correctly, right,

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Speaker 2: is it Cicilano Ciciliano anyway?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 2: If you ever saw photos from our our wedding Alex

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Speaker 2: and my wedding from years ago, Phil, Yeah, the most

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Speaker 2: incredible photographer known to wedding Phil in the world. But

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Speaker 2: Phil used to be our intern on our morning show

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Speaker 2: years ago. We used to call him Psycho Phil. That

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Speaker 2: was me. I still do call him. Why did we

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Speaker 2: call him that? Because he was psycho. It's a little

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Speaker 2: wild back then. You still are anyway. So when it

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Speaker 2: comes to wedding photography, you've been to many weddings, You've

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Speaker 2: seen different techniques that these these women and men go

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Speaker 2: through to get the right shot at the right time,

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Speaker 2: and sometimes sometimes they get in the way of the wedding.

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Speaker 2: You just want to like smack him with the fly swater.

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Speaker 2: You and your crew did such an amazing job at

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Speaker 2: our wedding, and I'll never be able to think enough

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Speaker 2: beautiful work than you. But that's a whole different story

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Speaker 2: the world of wedding photography. So they approached Phil and said,

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Speaker 2: we want to do a documentary about what it's like

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Speaker 2: being a wedding photographer. Oh cool, So it's living on

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Speaker 2: the on the web right now. It's it's alive.

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Speaker 3: So this is the world premiere pretty much of it.

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Speaker 3: We just released it last week like a soft release,

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Speaker 3: and yeah, we're going to start pushing it now and

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Speaker 3: really showing people what it is to be behind the camera.

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Speaker 2: Would you take that jacket off? It's the loudest jacket

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Speaker 2: in the world. I'm sorry, I don't hear it. It's

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Speaker 2: a I can't hear Phil. His jacket is too loud.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Remember that time Lady Gaga came in. She's

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Speaker 2: worrying it like stuff made out of shower curtain material

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Speaker 2: and you couldn't understand a word.

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Speaker 4: She said.

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Speaker 2: It was cranking here much better, all right. So the

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Speaker 2: things you guys go through because you have the emotions

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Speaker 2: of the bride and the bridal party, you have the

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Speaker 2: groom that shows up drunk.

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Speaker 3: I mean you have seen it all. Probably in in

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Speaker 3: your your field. We become the local planner, the psychiatrist

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Speaker 3: of the day. Where really the ones in charge. If

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Speaker 3: you think about it, breakdowns, do you say, like four

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Speaker 3: or five a day, Alex breakdown.

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Speaker 2: Alex broke down because Phil's like, okay, okay, pose this

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Speaker 2: way post that. Wait. I was just like, I'm done,

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Speaker 2: I don't want any more photos and we had to

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Speaker 2: dismiss the photo staff for a moment. Well, to be fair,

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Speaker 2: that was the end of the night. It was the

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Speaker 2: beginning of the night. Oh yeah, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 2: I do a few of these. So anyway, So why

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Speaker 2: do you think it's important for the world to see

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Speaker 2: the wedding and everything from the perspective of the photographer.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think a lot of people only see it

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Speaker 3: for face value, because when you see a wedding, what

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Speaker 3: do you see after it's over? If you weren't there,

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Speaker 3: you just see the pictures. You don't see the work

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Speaker 3: that goes into it to make it the kind of

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Speaker 3: day that it is. Right, and there's hundreds of thousands

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Speaker 3: of professionals in the wedding industry where we show up

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Speaker 3: and nobody even knows we're there. So now it's kind

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Speaker 3: of cool to see this breakdown of like a third

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Speaker 3: wall where you see what we're doing now and you

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Speaker 3: see what we go through to get you to be

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Speaker 3: the best you can possibly be on the most important

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Speaker 3: day of your life.

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Speaker 2: There you go, yeah, you know, because I'm not going

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Speaker 2: to mention the name of the friend that we have

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Speaker 2: that had a wedding with They had photography people there.

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Speaker 2: It was the worst experience ever. Really, you were there.

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Speaker 2: I was, Yes, I had to kick them away from

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Speaker 2: the bride and groom so they could have a moment

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Speaker 2: to themselves. And they wanted them to like re enter

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Speaker 2: the room three or four times to get the perfect takes.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, leave them alone. You're bad at what you do.

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Speaker 2: And then they have a bad band.

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Speaker 1: And now I know as soon as you say bad band,

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Speaker 1: I know what wedding we're talking exactly.

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Speaker 3: We have a very simple approach. I tell all my

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Speaker 3: couples and you do one thing that day, show up,

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Speaker 3: will take care of the rest. I need you to

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Speaker 3: be present, experience your day or like a fly on

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Speaker 3: the wall. We'll tell you what to do, but we're

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Speaker 3: not going to get in your way.

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Speaker 2: Well, look, you know there is no Froggy has a

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Speaker 2: question that I have a thought, Yes, Frog, what's that?

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Speaker 5: Well, so many times a lot of people when they're

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Speaker 5: planning their wedding and they want to try to cut costs.

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Speaker 5: The last thing you want to do is cut costs

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Speaker 5: with a photographer, because these are pictures that will last

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Speaker 5: a lifetime and you want to make sure that you're

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Speaker 5: getting a pro And maybe by this documentary it shows

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Speaker 5: people how much work actually goes into being a photographer.

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Speaker 5: It's not just oh, I'll just take pictures, right.

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Speaker 3: Well, what I will say is pre COVID, pictures were

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Speaker 3: not number one on the list. And after COVID it

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Speaker 3: became a thing where I would tell all my future

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Speaker 3: potential clients, pictures are the most important thing you can

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Speaker 3: possibly get at your wedding because when all is said

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Speaker 3: and done.

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Speaker 2: We're all you have left besides each other. Right, And

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Speaker 2: sometimes that doesn't last. With COVID.

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Speaker 3: I used to well, it was a thing where the whole,

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Speaker 3: the food, the band, everything was so important. But post pandemic,

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Speaker 3: we have this whole thing now where it doesn't matter

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Speaker 3: where you get married, it doesn't matter who's there, it

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Speaker 3: doesn't matter how big or grand it is. But your

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Speaker 3: pictures are your pictures because we're creating the most important

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Speaker 3: thing and.

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Speaker 2: Is a memory. Hey look we got to do the

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Speaker 2: phone tap, but I'm gonna come back and talk about this.

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Speaker 2: You're not going anywhere. You brought an intimate's cake, so

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Speaker 2: I know you're gonna be here for a while. You

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Speaker 2: know it's good conversation, peep. It is because you need

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Speaker 2: some coffee. You put me to sleep.

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Speaker 6: You really.

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Speaker 2: You need energy.

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Speaker 3: That's all right, all right, let's bring back cycles. Get up, sister,

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Speaker 3: we'll bring back cycles.

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Speaker 2: He brought the end of it. It drinks some coffee

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Speaker 2: with that coffee cake. But you should see the text

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Speaker 2: are coming in. There's a huge response to this. People

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Speaker 2: said that they would not have survived their wedding without

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Speaker 2: the photographers. You would think the wedding planner would be

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Speaker 2: the choreographer here, but it turns out that Phil and

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Speaker 2: his photographer they kind of.

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Speaker 1: Save the day and not everybody has a wedding planner. Really, no,

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Speaker 1: I didn't have a wedding.

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 1: My husband with his green phone.

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Speaker 2: He did a graduate. Anyway, we're hanging out with Phil

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Speaker 2: Cilia Cicilano Ciciliano. It's hard to say that we're a

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Speaker 2: the reason why we're loving you're here, Other than we

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Speaker 2: love you as a member of our family. Is this

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Speaker 2: documentary that was just completed and it's online? How can

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Speaker 3: So right now it lives on my Instagram page if

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Speaker 3: you go to Philip Underscore Siciliano. The second videos right

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Speaker 3: there because now we could pin things on the top,

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Speaker 3: so it's easy for people to find it. Just the

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Speaker 3: picture of me with the camera. You can't miss it.

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Speaker 3: Right you click it and you can watch the whole

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Speaker 3: thing right there. Right now, we're in the process of

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Speaker 3: submitting it different places to see where it goes. But

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Speaker 3: it really is something interesting to watch because it shows

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Speaker 3: a from perspective other than I'm this wedding photographer and

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Speaker 3: I create these beautiful pictures.

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Speaker 2: Right It shows what goes into it. It shows the.

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Speaker 3: Life of me and what I do behind the scenes

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Speaker 3: to get people comfortable, to get people to where they

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Speaker 3: need to be. It shows the humble side of me

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Speaker 3: being a dad, a.

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Speaker 2: Husband, daughters. The cutest Her name is Daisy. How can

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Speaker 2: she not be king Daisy? May you can name you

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Speaker 2: can name the ugliest person in the world, Daisy, and

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Speaker 2: they're gorgeous of me. I'm looking at it. She is gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: She loves all of you anyway, I gotta tell you.

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Speaker 2: When you and your team were at our wedding, it

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Speaker 2: was it was like, whoa, it's so weird to know

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Speaker 2: a pro. But people are interested in this, and I

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Speaker 2: love documentaries, like a little slice of someone's life you

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Speaker 3: So is there a name for it? So it's called

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Speaker 3: Stay Still. What happened was about a year ago. A

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Speaker 3: friend of mine in the industry, amazing cinematographer. His name

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Speaker 3: is Chris Antice. He approached me with this idea to

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Speaker 3: because we're constantly capturing all of these couples and people

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Speaker 3: He approached a few people. They're like, yeah, yeah, let's

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Speaker 3: do it. He's like, Phil, what do you think. I

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Speaker 3: was like, let's start tomorrow. He's like, oh, great, when

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Speaker 3: do you want to start. You already have cameras, you're

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Speaker 3: ready to go. So we chose the most interesting day

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Speaker 3: So I was like, yeah, let's start tomorrow. The air

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Speaker 3: quality is great, let's go. And we went to the

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Speaker 2: I love it. All right, stand still, stay still, stay still,

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Speaker 2: because think about it, you're a photographer. Still it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: all right, I want to get into this moment. In

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Speaker 2: a moment, text me now fifty five one hundred. I

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Speaker 2: want to hear, like the craziest wedding photographer story you have,

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Speaker 2: I'll give you mine. You want people to know what

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Speaker 2: you're all about. But at the wedding, you're You're one

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Speaker 2: way of looking at it is you're supposedly somewhat invisible

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Speaker 3: Right, We're invisible and there at the same time. We

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Speaker 3: don't leave your side, but we're not there.

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Speaker 2: It's all kind of creepy, but it works out. But

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Speaker 2: if you ever saw our photos, you did a great

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Speaker 2: job on that. It was awesome. We didn't stay still

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Speaker 2: a lot, but anyway, so we're hanging out with Phil Ciciolano,

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Speaker 2: who was the wedding He and his team photographed our

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Speaker 2: wedding Alex. When Alex and I got married. But we're

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Speaker 2: getting a lot of calls, Phil, people talking about you

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Speaker 2: and how they worked with you. That's awesome. A lot

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Speaker 2: of people saying that you really kept it together and

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Speaker 2: you were like, here's the thing. We can't talk like

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Speaker 2: this here. But when he was shooting us, it was

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Speaker 2: the most dirty, disgusting, vile conversation. We got to make

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Speaker 2: you feel cool, and we had fun. It was fun anyway. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: are you just texting each other? Okay? Danielle, remember way

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Speaker 2: back when you got married, were you happy with your photographers?

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Speaker 1: I was, But I think that if I went back now,

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Speaker 1: i'd vote use Phil because he I feel like you

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Speaker 1: capture more moments that people don't know about.

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Speaker 7: What are they?

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Speaker 1: What are they called lands? Yeah, candids. You're much better

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Speaker 1: with the candids, I think, But I did. I mean,

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Speaker 1: we got great pictures fromorrow.

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Speaker 1: I know somebody who was asked right before you know,

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Speaker 2: Never too late? Yeah, Phil, Can I get my deposit

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Speaker 7: What he asked him? When you know, he had walked

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Speaker 2: You're still married? You're all good?

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Speaker 2: good morning. Okay, so real quick, the something happened there

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Speaker 6: Well, it had already started. Uh, we were doing pictures

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Speaker 2: Oh god, damn, that is so Jackie. I don't like that, man,

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Speaker 2: I know, but yeah, yeah, but those someone lost their life.

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Speaker 2: I think you're a nice guy. But this is the

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Speaker 2: like okay, James, all right, thank you, Maricio. Okay, any

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Speaker 7: Great?

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Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, Brian, are you there?

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Speaker 4: Oh well, you got one of those nice photos where

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Speaker 2: Deuce a Right there you go. You see that's probably

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Speaker 4: It's fantastic.

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Speaker 2: Nice you pray, you pray for those moment was still happening.

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Speaker 2: I love that, and Brian even got a vow there

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Speaker 3: Well, once I put a bride in the middle of

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Speaker 2: Or how did that go? It's pooped all over the groom? Nice? Nice, nice?

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Speaker 2: All right, well listen, Brian, thank you. You're still married.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, all right. We actually met you in Mexico.

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Speaker 4: Oh you did about twenty seventeen. Yeah, we met in Uniko.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, Melanie is my wife. We were married

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Speaker 2: Look at that. Congratulations with dog poop and the photos.

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Speaker 2: You got a life going man. All right, Brian, thank

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Speaker 2: So, Philip, people want to follow you on Instagram. A

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Speaker 2: lot of people were't texting and saying they've heard you

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Speaker 2: very thank you is it Philip?

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Speaker 4: Nice?

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for giving it. I want to see

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Speaker 2: this documentary called Stay Still, Yes, and can you search

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Speaker 2: for it or find it on your Instagra right now?

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Speaker 2: It's just on the Instagram. It's common underscore Ciciliano. I

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Speaker 2: can't say it, Sicily Ciciliano. Oh my god, the girl

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