1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:01,360 Speaker 1: Music Saved Me. 2 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 2: I'm Len Hoffman. Welcome to the Music Save Me podcast. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 2: So glad to have you here. 4 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 3: Now. 5 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 2: If you like this podcast, thank you so much. And 6 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 2: also you might want to check out our new companion 7 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 2: podcast called Comedy Save Me, which I also host, where 8 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,959 Speaker 2: we explored the amazing power of laughter. 9 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:19,319 Speaker 1: Now. 10 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 2: When the weight of the world grows heavy, some turn 11 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 2: to friends, others to faith. But for Romeo Vaughn, it's 12 00:00:26,760 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 2: always been music that casts a lifeline. Rising from the 13 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: borderlands of Texas to the stages of Nashville. Romeo doesn't 14 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 2: just write songs, he crafts survival stories in melody. In 15 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 2: this episode of Music Saved Me, we talk with Romeo 16 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 2: about the pivotal moments where lyrics became life, Buoy's music 17 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 2: became medicine, and stories found their song. So get ready 18 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: to discover how for Romeo Vaughn every note was a 19 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:57,840 Speaker 2: step towards hope, and how those songs might just save 20 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 2: you too. Romeo, Welcome to me Music Saved Me. 21 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 4: Thank you, Hi, welcome, Thank you for having me. I 22 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 4: appreciate it so much. 23 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: I am so glad you're here. Are you comfortable, yep? 24 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 4: Super comfortable? 25 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: All right? 26 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: Well, strap in because we're going to take a quick 27 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:13,759 Speaker 2: break so we can pay some bills, and as soon as. 28 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,639 Speaker 1: We come back, we're going to get into it. 29 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 4: Sound good, Let's do it, Yes, let's do it right, Romeo, 30 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 4: Sit tight, We'll be right back. 31 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: Music saved me, Romeo. 32 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:29,320 Speaker 2: I've read that through your music that you want to 33 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 2: give hope and inspiration to all children who come from 34 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 2: humble beginnings. And you know, think that the whole world 35 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 2: is in the deck is stacked against him, which I 36 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: think is just such a beautiful sentiment. Can you share 37 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: a moment when music truly saved you or helped you 38 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 2: through a tough time in your life? 39 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I mean there's a music has saved 40 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 4: me through it all. But I remember, you know, being 41 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 4: from a small town where I'm from in Santa Rosa, Texas, 42 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 4: I always had this dream, right, And remember a family 43 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 4: member of mine specifically told me, like Romeo, that doesn't 44 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 4: happen to people like us. You know, look at where 45 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 4: we come from, look at what you are, look at 46 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 4: how you look. It doesn't happen. It's just not It 47 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 4: just doesn't happen. And so when that day I went 48 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 4: to school and there was my cousin was performing. My 49 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 4: cousin it has a Spanish Tuhano band and he was 50 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 4: performing for Remember I don't know if you remember Missus 51 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 4: Bush drug Free Week or whatever. 52 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,239 Speaker 1: Oh back in the day, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 53 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 4: So if you were doing the drug Free Week and 54 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 4: my cousin was performing and sat and I had There 55 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 4: was a barber and her name was Lady Diane, and 56 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 4: she said, Romeo, if you because he was trying to 57 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 4: get the kids involved, and he said, She said, if 58 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 4: you go, I'll give you free haircuts for a year, 59 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 4: and I said, no, I can't do it because I 60 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 4: so before I'm a singer, I'm a dancer. So I 61 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 4: went up there and I danced to Michael Jackson and well, 62 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 4: I had just tried out for the football team and 63 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 4: I did make it. But when I went up to dance, 64 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 4: so my cousin had no idea that I danced like 65 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 4: the way I dance because I wouldn't really tell anyone. 66 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 4: But when I went to perform with on stage for 67 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 4: the free haircuts, it actually got me into this music 68 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 4: business because my cousin, he's a Grammy Award winning artist. 69 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 4: He took me on tour with him, and it kind 70 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 4: of saved me from like the streets and stuff like 71 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 4: you know what teenagers get involved in. Sometimes the music 72 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 4: allowed me to not be in the streets, not getting 73 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 4: the gangs and not And I went on tour with him, 74 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 4: and that was a part of my life where it 75 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 4: saved me from like you know, juvenile hall and stuff 76 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 4: that all my friends kind of were doing at the 77 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 4: time when it was a cool thing to be a 78 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 4: bad kid. And so music really got me on that 79 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 4: road away from that. So that was the first time 80 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 4: music saved me for sure. 81 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 2: How have songs served as a form of therapy or 82 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 2: self reflection for you personally? 83 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 4: Well? For me, songs like they we all have our 84 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 4: moments where we cry or we're sad and we feel 85 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 4: helpless and hopeless, and so you know, instead of going 86 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 4: out and driving fast and where I could possibly hurt 87 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 4: someone or myself or just going for a bad ride 88 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 4: or going or just you know, sometimes we take it 89 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:48,280 Speaker 4: out on people. We're not supposed to take it out on, 90 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 4: you know, because hurt people hurt people. And so I 91 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 4: write and I write, and I write it down and 92 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 4: I let it out and my binder where I write 93 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 4: my songs, they're like you know when you wet paper 94 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 4: and they're like all mushy. Well every page is all 95 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 4: musty because I'm just crying as I write soside, you know. 96 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 4: But yeah, it helps me. It just really and I 97 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:16,039 Speaker 4: leave the room. I don't really write with like I 98 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 4: don't go into like writes and co write with people. 99 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 4: I don't do that. I do write a lot with 100 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 4: a friend of mine, but he doesn't live in Tennessee. 101 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 4: So I write and I send it to him and 102 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 4: he sends it back. But usually when I write by myself, 103 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 4: it's just it helps me because I don't want to 104 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 4: hurt anyone. And we've all been in a position where 105 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 4: we say something or do something and then you're like 106 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 4: there you go with that long test message like hey man, 107 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, I didn't mean that react on you 108 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 4: like that. I just you know, I'm going through like 109 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 4: a hard time and I hope you can forgive me. 110 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 4: So to avoid that, I write, and it really it's 111 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 4: a therapy. And I don't really like go to like 112 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 4: like the therapy stuff like because I don't know, I'm 113 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 4: just not going to tell a complete stranger like where 114 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 4: I'm going. So I just like, because I can't give 115 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 4: the therapist hope, but I can give I know that 116 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 4: there's somebody out there somewhere in the middle of Burlington, 117 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 4: Colorado that's probably going through the same thing that I'm 118 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 4: going through, and if they hear it, you know, I'll 119 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 4: just give them hope. 120 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 2: Wow, where do I just have to know where you 121 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:27,559 Speaker 2: where this came from? Where you realize that that would 122 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 2: that would be the end result of giving someone else 123 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 2: hope by writing down your own issues to get through. 124 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: I mean that's pretty forward thinking. 125 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 4: I heard Michael Jackson when he would play songs I'm 126 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 4: gonna start cry. But when you would play songs like 127 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 4: when he would write songs down like the Earth Song, 128 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 4: when he wrote down they Don't Care about Us, when 129 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 4: he wrote when he wrote down Stranger and Moscow, when 130 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 4: he would when I would hear those because we all 131 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 4: love the thrillers and the Billy Jeans and the smooth Criminals, 132 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 4: but you go into those deep cuts where where Michael 133 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 4: really poured it hard out and like that, it just 134 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 4: gave me hope. It let me know, like, hey, you're 135 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 4: not alone. There's Michael Jackson, the absolute biggest superstar in 136 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 4: the world and he's lonely and she's and she's getting 137 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 4: through it. I can get through it. And I think 138 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 4: that's kind of what made me want to like be 139 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 4: some kind of hope. Obviously on a smaller scale, well come. 140 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: On, but it's a beautiful sentiment, it really is. And 141 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: you know, off the wall, she's out of my life 142 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 1: like some of those earlier things too. 143 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 4: Really yeah, you know that she's out of my life, 144 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 4: you know, just like those like and if you even 145 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 4: his upbeat sons, like like I want to be starting something, 146 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 4: you know, like you know the way he like just 147 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 4: does it. I don't know man in the mirror, I mean, 148 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 4: you know, like just it's just when I heard because 149 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 4: I've always been intrigued in like who wrote this? You know? Yeah, 150 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 4: yeah and so and like Michael Jackson's biggest song, Thriller, 151 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 4: he didn't write it, you know, it was robbed tim fraud. 152 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 4: But but you hear his his deep cuts and where 153 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:33,079 Speaker 4: he's he's feeling alone, but he's also giving you hope. 154 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 4: And it's just like I just want to be that hope, 155 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 4: you know. And I that's where that's where my foundation 156 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 4: of like wanting to give hope and stuff is. I 157 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 4: credited all of it to Michael for sure. Wow. 158 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 2: Wow, that's so incredible that you know you even knew 159 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 2: that at such a early time in your life. 160 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, because when I was younger, I'm from a small 161 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 4: town and Mexican an American, and so boys don't cry. 162 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 4: Are you a man or a mouse? You know? Yeah? Whatever, 163 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 4: you don't. You're not depressed. Go out there, cut the grass. 164 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 4: You know, what do you? What are you depressed about? 165 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 4: You're seven eight years old. You don't have no build, 166 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 4: you don't have nothing. But they don't know. Hey, man, Like, 167 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 4: I mean, look at me. I've been like this my 168 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 4: whole life. Like maybe not like the hat, but I've 169 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 4: always dressed different. I've always like I had long hair, 170 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 4: you know, I I you know, so I've always just 171 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 4: been different. So I was never like everyone else. So 172 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 4: I always felt alone until I music just allowed me 173 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,959 Speaker 4: to just express myself and just you know. 174 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, you know. 175 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:44,119 Speaker 2: Speaking of that, growing up with your Mexican American background 176 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 2: and now thriving in Nashville, the home right Country, were 177 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: there musical experiences that you had or maybe hardships that 178 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 2: sort of changed your path at all on that. 179 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,720 Speaker 4: Journey like outside of music. 180 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:00,559 Speaker 1: Well just maybe something. 181 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 2: Musical experiences are hardships, like breaking through that genre for sure. 182 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 4: So when I first through the town in twenty sixteen, 183 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 4: I was homeless for sixteen weeks. It'd in my car. 184 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 4: I lived under a bridge, the Jefferson Bridge, which you 185 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 4: can't live there no more, and they scooted everybody out. 186 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 4: But I lived under Jefferson Bridge, and I us see 187 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 4: I have a garbage can. I remember at at the 188 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:34,719 Speaker 4: TA and it's not there no more because they tore 189 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 4: it down for a parking lot for the new Nissan Stadium. 190 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 4: But I was there and I remember watching. So it's 191 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 4: a truck stock and I there was a chili a 192 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:50,920 Speaker 4: Philly cheese steak restaurant in the shop and the store 193 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 4: or whatever, and I would remember that watching the truck drivers. 194 00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 4: They'd come out, they would come out with their with 195 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 4: their leftover plates, and some would take it with them 196 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 4: and some would throw it away. Well, I would wait 197 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 4: till they threw it away, and I would just wait 198 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:15,079 Speaker 4: till they walked away, and I'd run over there and 199 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 4: I grab it from the trash and I'd go back 200 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 4: and I'd be like and I would just eat it 201 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 4: now and all because I believe in this. I believe 202 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 4: that I was supposed to be here. And you know, 203 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 4: the Bible says, though I walk through the valley of 204 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 4: the Shadow of Death, I will fear no evil, and 205 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 4: the Lord is my shepherd, and I shall not want 206 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 4: And I believed it and I still believe it, and 207 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 4: that's what made me just keep going, because you know, 208 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 4: somebody told me one time, who's your favorite country singer 209 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 4: of all time? And I said, Keith Whitley is my 210 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,599 Speaker 4: favorite country singer. And they said, do you want to 211 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 4: be the next Keith Whitley? And I said, no, I 212 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 4: want to be the first Romeo var. 213 00:11:55,120 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 1: And great answer and wow, And but. 214 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 4: I understand and I understood that, and understand now that 215 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 4: I had to go through it. I had to, you know, 216 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 4: I always I my dad always, you know, you know, 217 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 4: stand your truth, and fight for what you believe in. 218 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 4: Stand there for what you believe in, whether you're right 219 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 4: or wrong, and if you're wrong, be prepare to pay 220 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 4: the consequences. And so I believed in this, and I 221 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 4: believe in it so much, and I always just told me, 222 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 4: you know, because in that time, I was alone. But 223 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 4: I believe in the music. I believe in the hope 224 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 4: that I could give somebody, somebody out there if I 225 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 4: just got through this, Just get through this, and your 226 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 4: story will be full. And you know, the hardest walks, 227 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 4: you know, the hardest walk you can make is the 228 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 4: walk that you make alone. But that's the walk that 229 00:12:56,160 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 4: builds character. And I always and you know, the hardest 230 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 4: clients lead to the greatest views. And so I just 231 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 4: stayed firm, I stayed strong, And it was always about 232 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 4: the music. I didn't care what I was going through. 233 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 4: Music was going to get me out of there. Music 234 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 4: was gonna get me. And so I went to this 235 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 4: place after that. And I because I always had this 236 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 4: mindset and it has like I was like, the lion 237 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 4: is the king of the jungle. It's not the fastest, 238 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 4: that's the cheetah. It's not the biggest, that's the elephant. 239 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 4: But the reason why the lion is the king of 240 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 4: the jungle because the mindset, there's nobody hungrier than the lion. 241 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 4: So I always said that to myself, do you stay hungry, 242 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 4: stay hungry? You want to kill an alligator? Feed them? It 243 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 4: does nothing. So be like I always told my dad, 244 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 4: he was like, why are you still there? You're struggling, 245 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 4: And I'm like, Dad, listen, you don't understand. He's like, 246 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 4: my dad's a realist. He's not a dreamer. He's like, 247 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 4: I understand this music, Romeo, but come on, sound like 248 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 4: you're you know, you're you're Nicola diving me the dead here. 249 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 4: I said, Dad, you got to understand. 250 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 3: That. 251 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 4: I that the wolf on top of the hill is 252 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 4: never as hungry as the wolf climbing the hill. I 253 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 4: always got to remain the wolf climbing the hills. And 254 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 4: after I was homeless, I went to this place called 255 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 4: uh they found me on I went to the VA 256 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 4: because I'm a veteran, and the VA put me in 257 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 4: this place called Matthew twenty five and it's a homeless 258 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 4: program for vets and stuff like that, and they they 259 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 4: help you overcome homelessness. And so I went there and 260 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 4: they got me out of the bridge and they put 261 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 4: me in made twenty five and I started writing songs, 262 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 4: and I started, uh, just seeing the bigger picture. I 263 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 4: was no longer eating food with ants on it and 264 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 4: you know, like a hot meal, you know, and which 265 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 4: is why now I don't like lettuce, tomatoes or anything 266 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 4: like that. It's like also when I order a cheeseburger 267 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 4: is meat and cheese, Romeo, You're just. 268 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: Wow, You're such a special person. It's like you were 269 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: instilled in your DNA something that even your father had 270 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 1: to learn from you. But he gave you those tools 271 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 1: to be. 272 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 2: Strong to begin with as a realist, which is is 273 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 2: pretty incredible. And your journey has just been I mean, 274 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 2: forget about just getting into a different musical genre than 275 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 2: your heritage, which seems so outlandish but not these days, right, 276 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 2: But to be a vet and to be homeless and 277 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 2: part of a population out there that needs so much, 278 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 2: to have the strength that you had and you and 279 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 2: you really did. You pulled yourself out of it, and 280 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 2: it's it's pretty incredible. 281 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 4: Well, you know, I didn't pull myself out of it. 282 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 4: The Lord never left me. But you know, it's very hard. 283 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 4: It was hard, you know, it was hard looking back 284 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 4: and thinking about it. It was hard. But my dad always 285 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 4: said this, and it's a good good thing that you 286 00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 4: brought that up. My dad always said, when you leave 287 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 4: my house, you will have every key that you need 288 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 4: to open the doors in life. Now it's up to 289 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 4: you to take the time to find the key, You're 290 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 4: gonna you're gonna get frustrated, and you're gonna want to 291 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 4: knock the knock the door down. And but if you 292 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 4: just take the time to find the right key, you 293 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 4: open whatever door you want. And So when I was 294 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 4: homeless and I was in out of the garbage can, 295 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 4: sleeping outside and getting rained don and you know, getting 296 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 4: mugged and watching cryings the normal people shouldn't be watching, 297 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 4: I remember that if I just take the time and 298 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 4: find the key, I'll get out of it. And I did, Yes, 299 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:04,680 Speaker 4: you did. 300 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:09,439 Speaker 2: And uh, writing a song called big Dreams from a 301 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: small town that reflects sort of your own journey and 302 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 2: the challenges that you've just described and faced. 303 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 1: Is that Is that correct in saying that? 304 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, so, I'm from a small town of Santa Rosa, 305 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 4: Texas in the Rio Grand Valley, deep deep deep South Texas, 306 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 4: like the very tip of Texas, Mexico is twelve minutes 307 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 4: from my parents' house. There was twenty seven seniors in 308 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,479 Speaker 4: my graduating class. I was top, saying, I don't want 309 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 4: to brag or anything, but you brag, you deserve it 310 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 4: all you want. But yeah, so I got big genes 311 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 4: from that small town you know. And so I wrote 312 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 4: a song with my friend, with my friend Brandon, and 313 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 4: he had the idea of like that. He came up 314 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 4: with like the melody and stuff like that, and you know, I, 315 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 4: you know, I added, you know, we started writing back 316 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,719 Speaker 4: and forth. Then it's where it came from, Santa Rosa, Texas. 317 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:03,639 Speaker 4: I mean, it's it's my hometown. And I wanted to 318 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 4: be like Mike but not Jordan's giving. And so that's 319 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 4: where I you know, big dream from a small town. 320 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 4: I got big dreams. I got big, big dreams. But 321 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 4: here's the thing. The dream is not. I mean, who 322 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 4: doesn't want to play a sold out stadium? Of course 323 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:30,960 Speaker 4: that's all good, but the dream is. I was in Jonesboro, Arkansas, 324 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 4: not long ago. I got a random DM in my 325 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 4: Instagram and I opened it and I had I had this. 326 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 4: I had wrote released this song a long time ago 327 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 4: called Gone. Nobody ever heard it, Goddy, but this one 328 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 4: person did and he said, I know you don't know 329 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 4: me from Adam, but I just wanted to tell you 330 00:18:55,840 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 4: that two weeks ago I was constant lay on suicide 331 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 4: and I came across your song Gone, and it let 332 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 4: me know when the song you're going through was what 333 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 4: I'm going through right now, and hearing your song, I 334 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 4: told myself, if Romeo can survive, I can too. So 335 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 4: I just want to thank you for saving my life. 336 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:27,360 Speaker 4: That's the dream. That's all I want to do. That's 337 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:29,359 Speaker 4: all you want to do, and I want to bring 338 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 4: and I just you know. We shot the video for 339 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 4: Big Dreams from a small town. So the place that 340 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:39,840 Speaker 4: took me in was called Matthew twenty five. Last year 341 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 4: for my birthday, I had shout out to the restaurant 342 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 4: Chew East. They donated all the food so I could 343 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 4: go and feed Matthew twenty five. And I, with God's help, 344 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 4: I was able to get like fifteen seventy five gallon 345 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 4: bags full of clothes and we went to donate to 346 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 4: Matthew twenty five. And this year we went back and 347 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,880 Speaker 4: shot the music video for Big Dreams at Matthew twenty five. 348 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 4: One of my greatest friends, his name is Ryan Mason. 349 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 4: He works at a place called Scoreboards here in Nashville. 350 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 4: He's a GM and they they donated food so I 351 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,879 Speaker 4: could feed Matthew twenty five in the video. And so 352 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 4: it's the dream to just give hope and we were, 353 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 4: and I was able there, and you know, I told them, look, 354 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,120 Speaker 4: I know, looking at me, you don't. You probably would 355 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 4: never believe me. But I was where you are. It 356 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 4: wasn't long ago. And I prayed over them and we 357 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:43,639 Speaker 4: fed them, and we talked and we laughed and we cried, 358 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 4: and two of the men came up to me and 359 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 4: helped me live out my dream. They said, Romeo, you're 360 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 4: just you gave us so much hope. That's my dream. 361 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: There's nothing better than that. Being your profession, I can 362 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 1: see it. I mean, you're wearing your heart on your sleeve. 363 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 1: You know it brings tears to your eyes just describing it. 364 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 3: We'll be right back with more of the Music Save 365 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 3: Me Podcast. Welcome back to the Music Saved Me Podcast. 366 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 2: I have to say thank you so much for your service, 367 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,439 Speaker 2: not only to our country, but to the people that 368 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 2: you're helping with your music. And it seems like this 369 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,159 Speaker 2: is what you were really put on this earth to do. 370 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,679 Speaker 2: And I can hear it and feel it from you 371 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 2: even through the zoom call. 372 00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:34,120 Speaker 1: I can really feel it. 373 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 2: Do you think music is one of the reasons that 374 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 2: you have been able to cope with the pressures of 375 00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 2: the industry itself, which I'm sure is a whole new 376 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:44,959 Speaker 2: world for you to be in, or maybe even just 377 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 2: self doubt or personal setbacks in your life. And I 378 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 2: know we touched a bit on this already. 379 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:55,359 Speaker 4: You know, music has been everything. Music saved me so 380 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 4: many times. For instance, a lot of times I feel 381 00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 4: sad and I'm down and oh my god, maybe I 382 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:07,000 Speaker 4: can't do this, maybe I can't make it or whatever. 383 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 4: I pop in a sugar Land song here, mom and dad, 384 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 4: I'll send money. I'm sorry, I'm like, I love it. So, 385 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:19,240 Speaker 4: you know, music just it's all around, just you know, 386 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 4: all around, just really really helped. Like it just saved 387 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:28,959 Speaker 4: my soul. I mean, I can't imagine my life without music, 388 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 4: even like even if I'm not telling my story or 389 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 4: I'm not out there, you know, putting songs or writing songs. 390 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 4: Just the fact that I can. I'll pop in like 391 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 4: uh and where I'm from in Texas, where I'm from, 392 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 4: but the nine five six cut where I'm from in 393 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 4: the Valley of Texas. You know, we go from Keith Whitley, 394 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:58,280 Speaker 4: George straight to Usher, Ludacris and oh, you know, so 395 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 4: like I'll be home sad and I'll pop in a 396 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,119 Speaker 4: you know, a George Strait song or Into song, or 397 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,639 Speaker 4: or a La Mothe song, Keith Whitley song, and and 398 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 4: I just it's like I feel like a tesla for energy. 399 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 4: Just check. You know. 400 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,120 Speaker 2: It's an amazing we we are run on on electricity, 401 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 2: but we don't plug in. So I'm guessing maybe one 402 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,239 Speaker 2: of those plugin sources, just as you said that is 403 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,479 Speaker 2: it's got to be the music and the arts that 404 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 2: we plug into that that juices us up. 405 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 4: It's always yes, you know, or I hear. I do 406 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 4: listen to a lot of like worship music a lot, uh, 407 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 4: you know, shout out to Brandon Lake and and uh, 408 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:47,480 Speaker 4: but uh, you know, I love all the I love 409 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 4: the music that that brings me closer to God. And 410 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 4: and and I read my Bible a lot, and you know, 411 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,719 Speaker 4: the Bible the one thing that I always when I 412 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 4: think like maybe I can't do this or maybe it's 413 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 4: too hard. I'm a Mexican American, and and I don't 414 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 4: look like everybody, even the Mexican artists that are out 415 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 4: there now. They're wearing the cowboy hats and they're wearing 416 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,160 Speaker 4: the boots and the wranglers. You know, I'm not that 417 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 4: you know. And don't get me wrong, it's wrong from 418 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 4: my dad was My dad was a rodeo cowboy. And 419 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 4: the reason why I don't wear a lot of that 420 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,920 Speaker 4: stuff is because growing up my dad put he put 421 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 4: this in a flat top for a snapwranger and some 422 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 4: justin boots, and my whole life, my whole life was 423 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 4: like that. 424 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: No, but your music is really incredible. 425 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 2: I mean your your voice, Oh my god, like like butta, 426 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 2: I mean you so much and then you're unexpected. Uh 427 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 2: this is you know, country music with a twist and 428 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 2: faith and rock. I mean you do the guitar solos 429 00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 2: that are completely not normal, like I shouldn't se normal, 430 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:02,159 Speaker 2: but they're not expected. 431 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 4: I'm glad that you noticed that because I tell my 432 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 4: producer all the time, like we have to do this, 433 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 4: like the guitar has to be And a lot of 434 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 4: people don't understand how much I love Michael Jackson. And 435 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,120 Speaker 4: when Michael Jackson put it and did it, when Van 436 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,919 Speaker 4: Halen came in and yes, that's right. 437 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 2: Go wa gosh, you're thinking like run dmc met zero 438 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 2: Smith days you know that's pretty good. 439 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I try to do that. I try to 440 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 4: just stink outside the box. You know, no pun intended, but. 441 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 1: It's great. It's a great way to think. 442 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 4: I just have to be because here's the thing. There's 443 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 4: seven billion people on earth. There's only one you, one me, 444 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:54,320 Speaker 4: ever was, ever, is ever will be like the Heavenly 445 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 4: Father designed us perfectly. God don't make mistakes now here. 446 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,640 Speaker 4: And the reason why I try so hard in this 447 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 4: and to do this music and to do it right, 448 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:09,439 Speaker 4: and because I believe in my heart of hearts, and 449 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,480 Speaker 4: I'll take my glasses off and tell you, I believe 450 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 4: that our gift, our talent, your talent, my talent, everybody's 451 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 4: talent is God's gift to us. But what we do 452 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:29,239 Speaker 4: with it is our gift that to God. And the 453 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 4: one thing that keeps me going is in Matthew six 454 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 4: thirty three, the Red Letters, Jesus says, first the Kingdom 455 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:44,280 Speaker 4: of Heaven, and all things will be added on to you. 456 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 4: I believe that, I really do. 457 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 2: I feel like I want to just end on that 458 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 2: note because it's so powerful. But I have one more 459 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 2: question that might I believe, be even more powerful. Yeah, 460 00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:00,879 Speaker 2: and thank you for that. I know everybody needs to 461 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 2: hear faith. Everyone has to have faith, and everyone has 462 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:05,640 Speaker 2: to have a belief. 463 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 4: I believe that because if you don't stand for something, 464 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 4: you'll fall for anything. 465 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: I'm making a T shirt right now, Romeo. That is 466 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 1: so amazing. 467 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,880 Speaker 2: But my last question to wrap things up with you, 468 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 2: if you could share one message besides the beautiful one 469 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 2: you just shared. And all of them throughout this conversation 470 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 2: have been so enlightening. But if anyone's out there struggling 471 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 2: right now, what would it be that you could share 472 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 2: for that one message? And what song of yours would 473 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 2: you want them to hear to help them through it. 474 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,719 Speaker 4: I want them to hear not only big dreams from 475 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 4: a Samon town, but I have a song out there 476 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 4: and it's called Over. The song talks about a breakup, 477 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 4: but if you hear, if you see the video, hear 478 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 4: the song. It's about a guy who's struggling with his 479 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:06,400 Speaker 4: own cell. So I played two parts. I played good 480 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 4: met and bad Me. And because I overcame, I overcame. 481 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,199 Speaker 4: This road wasn't easy, this industry, this town is not easy. 482 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,679 Speaker 4: And I you know, I'm actually one year sober on 483 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 4: the twenty sixth of July. 484 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,640 Speaker 1: Congratulations, that's huge. 485 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:29,239 Speaker 4: And so you know, overcoming that addiction and stuff. And 486 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 4: if you hear this song over it says, this is 487 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 4: where we start or where we end. But I'm not 488 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 4: getting over you again. And so the biggest hope that 489 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 4: I can give anyone out there is you don't have 490 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 4: to believe in God. But even if you don't, he 491 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 4: loves you. There's hope. But you have to love. Learn 492 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 4: to love yourself, learn to forgive yourself. You are not 493 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 4: your mistake, you are not your failures. Every day that 494 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 4: you wake up is another opportunity to be better than 495 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 4: you were yesterday. And I'm gonna say this, and I 496 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 4: don't know if I have enough time, but I'm gonna 497 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 4: say this. If somebody gave you twenty five thousand, seven 498 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:22,160 Speaker 4: hundred dollars every day for the rest of your life, 499 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 4: you only have twenty four hours to spend them. You 500 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 4: can't roll them over. You have to spend them. Wouldn't 501 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 4: you do the best to spend that twenty five thousand, 502 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 4: seven hundred dollars in those twenty four hour You would 503 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 4: do your best to spend that money. Well, in life, 504 00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 4: we get twenty five thousand, seven hundred seconds. We can't 505 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 4: roll them over, we can't take them to the next day. 506 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 4: All we get in twenty four hours, so do your 507 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 4: best to spend them. And it's not always going to 508 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 4: be easy. It's not always gonna be but you know what, 509 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 4: when it rains life, it rains and it storms, but 510 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,600 Speaker 4: instead of hiding, learn to dance in the rain. Makes 511 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 4: better effects, you know. And just there's hope. He just 512 00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 4: loves you. And if I could tell you anything the Bible, 513 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 4: it says in first Crenthess, it says, then firm in 514 00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 4: your faith, be on guard, be courageous, be strong, and 515 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 4: do everything with love. 516 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 1: Romiovon, You're amazing. 517 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 2: I can't wrap you up into one word to describe 518 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 2: who you are and what you are, but you mean 519 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:45,520 Speaker 2: a lot to a lot of people, and now you 520 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 2: mean a lot to me. So thank you for coming 521 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 2: on music save Me and sharing your entire self with us. 522 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:55,760 Speaker 2: I could talk to you for hours, but I really 523 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 2: appreciate you stopping buy and good luck with everything, and again, 524 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 2: thank you for your service, not only, like I said, 525 00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 2: not just to this country, but to everyone that you 526 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 2: continue to help. 527 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 1: With your music and your words, they mean a lot 528 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 1: and I know they're helping. 529 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 4: Thank you so much for having me and letting me 530 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 4: tell my story and getting it out there and helping me. 531 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 4: You're a part of the journey, and thank y'all so 532 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 4: much and I hope to talk to you soon