WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Hot Date Hack

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date. On a scale of one to ten,

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<v Speaker 1>how attractive would you say I am? That's the question

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want any in this room to answer, because

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<v Speaker 1>I already I know I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to ask if you were talking when we had.

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<v Speaker 1>To rate you, I already know that I am an

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<v Speaker 1>eight point three five two.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a very weird number.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the number that my mom rated me at our

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<v Speaker 1>last Thanksgiving Day. Well, she's honest, and I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>She said she didn't like that my teeth weren't straight enough.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't follow up with a retailer.

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<v Speaker 1>It's something about me isn't straight enough and she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't remember anyway. It's always interesting, though, to

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<v Speaker 1>rate yourself, because personally, I'd rate me a soft seven,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's moving extra generous to myself there.

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<v Speaker 2>That's on a good day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So numbers are going to fluctuate based on the

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<v Speaker 1>eye of the beholder. But what if you had a

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<v Speaker 1>hack that could guarantee the next person you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with he's definitely up to your attraction standards?

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<v Speaker 2>Really amazing, there's a hack.

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<v Speaker 1>For that, apparently, because one of our listeners, Blaine, says

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<v Speaker 1>he figured out that hack and we all need to

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<v Speaker 1>learn it today. So Blaine, welcome to the seven and underclub.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy to have an over here.

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<v Speaker 3>How you doing, man, I'm good, happy to be here. Well, also,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't say that I I didn't come up with

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<v Speaker 3>a scary myself, you know, like it was definitely a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of social media helped with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh credit, Well yeah, that's funny.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you write yourself, Blaine before we go into

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<v Speaker 4>your hack, so we know what your level is.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm anywhere between like a zero to like a ten,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, so somewhere in there.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole scale. Okay, what would your mom rte you?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a better question than my mom.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't like you very much. Maybe like a three?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so it must not be hard to find blame

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<v Speaker 2>if you you don't really have a level.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I guess I'm a little bit. Uh,

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<v Speaker 3>I like just suit out of my league a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>It's got to be seven and up.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good for you, man, high game high? Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>super high, and that's why I've been single for what

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<v Speaker 1>ten years?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, eventually one of these is going to stick. So

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<v Speaker 1>to tell us though about this theory that you found online.

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<v Speaker 3>This thing said all the most attractive people in the

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<v Speaker 3>world are born on the fifth, fourteenth, or twenty third

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<v Speaker 3>of the month.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I missed it by a date. I don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>anybody here.

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<v Speaker 2>I was supposed to be born on the fourteenth. Does

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<v Speaker 2>that count?

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<v Speaker 1>No, you baked for too long. I'm the twenty fourth.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm over the book as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you're just looking at people's birthdays.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I started typing in the dates, and uh,

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<v Speaker 3>I would kind of look and see the pictures that

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<v Speaker 3>came up on my suggested page, and if any of

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<v Speaker 3>them were obvious, like birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>Posts, where were you typing these in on what suggested page?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Any? Social media? Tried to on a few different ones,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, Instagram and.

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<v Speaker 4>Paper Okay, okay, see you just type in like, let's

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<v Speaker 4>say October twenty third, right, yeah, or September fourteenth, right.

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<v Speaker 3>The falls in that, and then you can click on

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<v Speaker 3>photos and if so, I like saw somebody with a party,

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<v Speaker 3>heat or like something on, then I would look at

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<v Speaker 3>it and be like happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>The hashtag birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, yeah exactly, And how was the talent

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<v Speaker 1>on those dates?

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<v Speaker 3>Look, the scale was pretty right on, like it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was eights and ten's all the way through. Absolutely, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Were able to use that to your advantage in some way?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. So I just kind of compile

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<v Speaker 3>a list and then I just copy and pasted like

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<v Speaker 3>a generic DM that was like, hey, your profile popped

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<v Speaker 3>up for me, and you have the same birthday as

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<v Speaker 3>my sister and it's the numbers game. So I sent

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<v Speaker 3>like two hundred of these.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, oh yeah, I'm busy.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a big net, sir.

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<v Speaker 3>Look I've been striking out for a while time. I

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<v Speaker 3>mean it's like, it's true, man, you got a castle. Wat.

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<v Speaker 2>I like your honesty. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how did you do with your two hundred messages

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<v Speaker 1>to beautiful women?

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<v Speaker 3>So didn't say anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I actually thought that'd be higher.

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<v Speaker 3>But I would say, like ten or fifteen of them

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<v Speaker 3>message back and said, OMG, no way, small world like

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<v Speaker 3>type of thing. And then I kind of looked in

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<v Speaker 3>the ones that were really close to me and the

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<v Speaker 3>one yeah, and I did get a date out of

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<v Speaker 3>it actually with one that I really really thought was

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<v Speaker 3>cute the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. Wow, one hundred the widest net I've ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>cast and you narrowed it down to one girl in

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<v Speaker 1>one date.

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<v Speaker 2>This is awesome. I feel like this is like sales

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<v Speaker 2>cold calleing is what?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So sorry, I know you mentioned what was her.

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<v Speaker 3>Name, Delilah?

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<v Speaker 1>Delilah? Yeah, okay, and what did you and Delilah do

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<v Speaker 1>for your meetup?

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<v Speaker 3>So, I mean we dms for a little while, and

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<v Speaker 3>then I finally asked her out to meet up for

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<v Speaker 3>a happy hour at a bar, okay, And she was

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<v Speaker 3>really cute and she came in and uh, she brought

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<v Speaker 3>a Starbucks gift card and it was like, hey, give

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<v Speaker 3>this to your sister because she's my birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>Twain, did you feel guilty because he lied at that point,

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<v Speaker 4>I still feel real guilty.

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<v Speaker 3>She still doesn't know that my sister's birthday is not

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<v Speaker 3>the same as that. But I mean I looked at

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<v Speaker 3>it. It was cute. It was only for like ten dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, so it wasn't even really a very good

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<v Speaker 1>birthday gift anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you, I'm she doesn't even know my sister,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, right, at.

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<v Speaker 2>Least you have one. I guess, yeah, I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>her birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good start to the day. How did it go.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it went really well, but there I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>there was a few things that I kind of have

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<v Speaker 3>honed in one that, uh, like my anxiety brain won't

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<v Speaker 3>really let go.

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<v Speaker 1>You're thinking something like you did was wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I won't say wrong, but I think maybe

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<v Speaker 3>it probably took her back a little bit. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>it maybe came one too strong because I compliment her

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<v Speaker 3>maybe too many times about how pretty she was, like

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<v Speaker 3>six or seven times.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't been on a date with somebody that's attractive.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I don't know, I was a little drunk

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<v Speaker 3>and feeling myself, so I was just kind of trying

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<v Speaker 3>to be completely honest.

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<v Speaker 1>Friends. I mean, as long as you left it at

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<v Speaker 1>like you're so pretty and didn't elaborate all the details

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<v Speaker 1>about why, then you might be safe.

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<v Speaker 2>People love compliments, but there is a point where it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>why are you so shocked?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So how did that date end?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh? Just a little kiss?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's good.

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<v Speaker 3>It's something she went inside and I heard from room.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, if you reached out at all, yeah, i'd

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<v Speaker 3>Sarah tech message. She hasn't responded yet, Okay, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she found out your mom rated you three and

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<v Speaker 1>so then she lost interest. But we're gonna come back.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call it Delilah for you and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you your second date. Update. Right after this second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>we just learned about a brand new hot dating hack

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<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners, Blaine, that made us all

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<v Speaker 1>turn our heads and say, wow, this is ground breaking.

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<v Speaker 1>All the ground is literally cracking. I am never gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look at the world the same ever again after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Because Blaine was not having success on the dating apps,

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<v Speaker 1>and he saw a social media post saying all the

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<v Speaker 1>most attractive people in the world were born on either

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<v Speaker 1>the fifth, fourteenth, or twenty third of the month, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>month that is. So he went online, put those dates

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<v Speaker 1>into Facebook and Instagram, and if a photo of an

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<v Speaker 1>attractive woman blowing out birthday candles came up, he made

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<v Speaker 1>sure to reach out to her sex.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, honestly, every single woman he saw.

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<v Speaker 1>Two hundred hundred messages were sent, and out of all those,

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<v Speaker 1>a handful of conversations happened, and he ended up going

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with a woman named Delilah. And

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<v Speaker 1>as far as we know, she has no clue, but

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<v Speaker 1>maybe just knowing all of the lengths that you went

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<v Speaker 1>to in order to find her would actually impress her. Blaine, No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>when does that story come out?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm gonna have to wait till she does that.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll date for a while. She does something really bad

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<v Speaker 3>and then I'm like, oh, I forgive you.

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<v Speaker 2>It does something really bad and you're like, I knew it.

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<v Speaker 4>I knew when you were the only one out of

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<v Speaker 4>two hundred that messages me back something.

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<v Speaker 1>But we really don't know what the issue is, what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on with her, why they're not hanging out. But

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to find out.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the fun part. You ready for this plane?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna try our hardest. Here, let's style your number.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Delilah. Hey Delilah.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope you're having a good day and that's about to

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<v Speaker 1>get even better because you're on the radio right now

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<v Speaker 1>with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show, Delilah.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh hey guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you know the show? Sweet?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't, but it's cool to hear from you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a radio station.

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<v Speaker 5>Just you?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you? Are you this nice to like scammers who

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<v Speaker 2>call to sometime Okay, Like I don't need a car warranty,

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<v Speaker 2>but you sure have a great day.

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<v Speaker 1>Our friends and family aren't that nice to us. Pleasure

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<v Speaker 1>talking to you, but we do have a reason for

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<v Speaker 1>calling because we're doing something called a second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's we're One of our listeners is trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you to hang out one more time.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been out with him once. His name is Blaine.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, oh.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, blame you like blame Blaine.

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<v Speaker 5>We're really cool. We had a great time. We kind

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<v Speaker 5>of met on social media.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to stop you real quick because we've actually spoken

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<v Speaker 1>to Blaine before we called you, and we kind of

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<v Speaker 1>heard all the details about how you met and how

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went out to a bar and you brought

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<v Speaker 1>him like a cool Starbucks gift.

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<v Speaker 2>Card Chris sister. He thought that was really sweet.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we have the same birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>And the sister.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So the question that Blaine has that he's going

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<v Speaker 1>through us hoping to get some answers for is why

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<v Speaker 1>are you not wanting to see him again? If that's true?

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<v Speaker 5>If I'm honest now, because I wasn't honest in I

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<v Speaker 5>stretched the truth about my age on my social media

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<v Speaker 5>and we were having such a great time. I felt

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<v Speaker 5>a little guilty about being dishonest.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, okay. I think a lot of people stretch

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, Like if you're twenty seven, you'll say

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five. Sure, how much did you stretch the number by?

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<v Speaker 4>It?

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<v Speaker 1>We go in like three years or forty.

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<v Speaker 5>Years, about four years of stretch four.

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<v Speaker 2>What's interesting about that is he didn't notice at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I have brought that.

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<v Speaker 4>Up to us, like you shouldn't. I don't think feel bad.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, four years isn't that big of a difference

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<v Speaker 4>at all now.

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<v Speaker 5>But I just felt really weird about it because he

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<v Speaker 5>bought it up on it and I didn't correct him.

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<v Speaker 2>So like he said, you're I mean, what are you

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<v Speaker 2>saying you are on social media?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, my social media says that I'm thirty two, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>but I'm thirty six okay, okay, okay?

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<v Speaker 2>And can I just ask why why do you lie

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<v Speaker 2>about it?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 5>It was just something that I did and I just

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<v Speaker 5>never went back and changed it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's not putting it onto like a dating

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<v Speaker 1>app trying to like trick guys. It's just something on

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<v Speaker 1>her personal social media page.

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<v Speaker 4>That I think my Facebook says I'm whileder because I

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't allowed to make it at the age when Facebook, Yeah, stretch.

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<v Speaker 1>It, Okay, but I mean that doesn't sound like he

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<v Speaker 1>did anything wrong. That sounds like you're just feeling guilty

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<v Speaker 1>that you didn't one hundred percent come clean. Right.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just a really honest person, and it felt really

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<v Speaker 5>weird to start off this new relationship on a lie, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And so it was easier to go to him than

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<v Speaker 4>to come clean and tell him the truth.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I didn't want to look stupid for lying about

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<v Speaker 5>something so small.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. I know you're an honest person. On this show,

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<v Speaker 1>we tend not to be sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>But if we do have any guilt about it, that

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<v Speaker 4>is the bad one.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why this is so hard for me to be

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you and let you know that Blaine has

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<v Speaker 1>actually been on the other line listening this entire time.

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<v Speaker 5>That's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could say that, but it is, Blaine.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you there?

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<v Speaker 3>Man?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, Hey, I don't know what to say right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I can, I can start it. Uh, that

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't bother me. I don't care, like what age is

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<v Speaker 3>just the number. You know, you look great. I honestly

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<v Speaker 3>thought you look younger than thirty two.

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<v Speaker 5>So oh, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're saying she doesn't seem like she's a thirty six

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<v Speaker 1>year old.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean you can kind of choose your own age, right,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's a good.

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<v Speaker 2>Rule to live, but oh yeah, that is my due.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the government.

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<v Speaker 3>And somebody says you look twenty six, you're twenty six.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's how she think that is.

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<v Speaker 5>So I hear that. It makes me feel a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit better, but I just I feel really bad when

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<v Speaker 5>you brought it up, Blaine on the date, Like my

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<v Speaker 5>eyes got really big, and I didn't know what to

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<v Speaker 5>say to you.

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<v Speaker 3>So I could I could probably make you feel a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit better. So the whole when we first started talking,

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of lied to you about my sister.

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<v Speaker 5>What wait, you don't have a sister?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, no, I do I have a sister, But

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<v Speaker 3>I just I don't know. You're so beautiful and I

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<v Speaker 3>really wanted to talk to you, so I just kind

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<v Speaker 3>of lied about the about her birthday and your birthday

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<v Speaker 3>being the same, just because I don't know. I just

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<v Speaker 3>kind of wanted to start a conversation with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, you lied about her birthday?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean it was just the way I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to talk to you. You're so beautiful, I wanted to.

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<v Speaker 5>You said that, So, where's my gift card? I want

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<v Speaker 5>my gift card back?

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<v Speaker 3>I'll bring back to Hey, we can go on a

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<v Speaker 3>second date and I'll pay for Starbucks. How about that?

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<v Speaker 5>That's I don't understand. How did you figure out that

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<v Speaker 5>my birthday? How did you figure out when my birthday was?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>God, look all right, I don't know. This is too

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<v Speaker 3>much to say on somebody said at one point that

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<v Speaker 3>most attractive people's birthdays are the fits of fourteenth and

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<v Speaker 3>the twenty third. So I kind of heard a Facebook

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<v Speaker 3>search for people with those birthdays. Oh my, hey, what

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<v Speaker 3>a I chose you? Like? I did only message you. Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear what she just said about that? She

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<v Speaker 1>called you a loser?

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<v Speaker 2>Bro?

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<v Speaker 4>No, maybe she's talking about the guy who came up

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<v Speaker 4>with that theory on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean both of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean he was just having a hard time.

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<v Speaker 2>You know how hard dating is.

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<v Speaker 5>It's really hard to find honest people. Also, that's why

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<v Speaker 5>dating is so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>You were just saying how guilty and horrible that you

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<v Speaker 1>felt about yourself, that you weren't completely honest with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and now.

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<v Speaker 5>It was a mistake.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, look, you said that I was a really cool

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<v Speaker 3>person and we would have never met up if I

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<v Speaker 3>hadn't gone through all that and got in touch with

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<v Speaker 3>your over social media.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I didn't know you were an online creep

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<v Speaker 5>such in the dirt web for people's birthday, living in

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<v Speaker 5>the dark ages, and even light on your sister.

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<v Speaker 1>No successful relationship has ever started with total honesty. So like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is actually not a bad place to jump off from,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'd love to send you out on one more

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<v Speaker 1>date that we would pay for, not you, not with

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<v Speaker 1>the gift cards or anything on us, one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Give him a chance.

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<v Speaker 5>I just I really hate dishonesty, so I'm gonna have

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<v Speaker 5>to pass.

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<v Speaker 1>But coming from someone pretending to be a thirty two

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<v Speaker 1>year old online that was an accident. Yeah, excuse Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how this call devolved into what it was,

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<v Speaker 1>but coming from this twenty three year old GQ model,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think love is possible if you if

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<v Speaker 1>you just give it a chance.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, I by your career, jeff Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Where's the line.

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<v Speaker 3>You're right, love is possible. That's why I'm messaging two

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<v Speaker 3>hundred more later today A successful second date.

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<v Speaker 2>Update freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>People are just not forgiving enough anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>You think that's what it is. I wanted them to

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<v Speaker 2>go out. I think they would have been so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's the problem. It's like it's forgiveness because,

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<v Speaker 1>let's recap. Delilah was not honest about her age, and

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<v Speaker 1>Blaine heard that and said, you know what, it's okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care. I like you. And then Blaine goes,

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<v Speaker 1>I also kind of wasn't honest about my sister's birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>and Delilah went, how dare you you deserve to suffer

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<v Speaker 1>a lonely painfulness or something along those lines.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I don't know that she went that far,

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<v Speaker 4>but basically tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Me that effect. It should have been, even Stevens, it

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<v Speaker 1>should have been like, Okay, I lied. There were equal lives.

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<v Speaker 1>We're both on it.

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<v Speaker 4>They I think we're concentrated the wrong thing. There was

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<v Speaker 4>honesty at the end. That's the thing that we should have.

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<v Speaker 4>But once he said a DM two hundred women.

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<v Speaker 3>Why why that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's no different than meeting on the dating apps. You're

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<v Speaker 1>messaging probably five hundred women there and only going out

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<v Speaker 1>with one.

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<v Speaker 2>It just makes you feel like a loser.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just I'm sorry, it's just how it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Why Why can't as a society we just be more

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<v Speaker 1>accepting about the creative ways that people connect online, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, nobody wants to meet in person anymore in public,

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<v Speaker 1>but no girl wants to be one of two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>messages either like you got to have a middle or.

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<v Speaker 4>Why can't we just agree that there's some things that

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<v Speaker 4>just shouldn't be said, even if we love honesty.

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<v Speaker 1>There, you know, I'm gonna say something so mean right now,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know what, I'm not friging. I'm gonna I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna restrain, restrain myself and just say, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want some help with your dating life, email

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you going to be mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Just make you angry on them? There, We'll call that

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<v Speaker 1>pursuers and call you

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<v Speaker 2>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.