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Speaker 1: Weeken our integrond date.

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Speaker 2: If we were just to say, name the person that

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Speaker 2: has the most commitment issues around here, who would it be?

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Speaker 3: Ryan?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I feel like you're very committed, Ryan, Like when you

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Speaker 3: get into a relationship, it's like you're in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true, Tanya, what are you talking about? Throwing

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Speaker 2: me under the bus?

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Speaker 1: You set me up for that. You set me up

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Speaker 1: for that.

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Speaker 2: It was a broad statement, named the person who would

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Speaker 2: most likely have commitment issues, and then you went right

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Speaker 2: to me under the bus.

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Speaker 4: Well, first of all, it's obviously not Sisney Well, and

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Speaker 4: it's obviously not me.

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Speaker 3: You're you're thinking of the term commitment, Uh, to general

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Speaker 3: a little bit more broad.

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Speaker 1: Is the one right now? With the commitment issues. It

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Speaker 1: is so wrong.

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Speaker 3: I don't have commitment issues when it comes to my relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I know, we got that, Michael, Yeah, yeah, we understand.

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Speaker 1: We are all the same.

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Speaker 3: Like that. I'm having commitment issues when it comes to

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Speaker 3: people inviting me to events or hangouts or play dates

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Speaker 3: or anything you name it, especially if it's a month

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Speaker 3: or six months out or.

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Speaker 1: Something like that.

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Speaker 3: Birthday invitations, all those things.

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Speaker 1: What's that?

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Speaker 2: BB, let's beb it's good news. That people want to

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Speaker 2: include you in their lives.

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Speaker 3: And that I understand. I'm not moaning. I'm just I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to understand why it's.

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Speaker 1: Happening to me because people like to have you around.

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Speaker 3: No, not that I'm trying to understand why I'm having

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Speaker 3: the commitment issues. Before in the past, like old Systey

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Speaker 3: from like ten years ago, would be like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: line up my skin, line up my calendar book, bok book. Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 3: I'll be at everything this and that. And now I'm

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Speaker 3: kind of like toning it back to rather, you've.

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Speaker 1: Got six dogs, six kids, and.

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Speaker 3: You have what if babys bigger syndrome, bigger better syndrome

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Speaker 3: means what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Houses?

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Speaker 4: Nay a bbs because you're wanting to keep your options

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Speaker 4: open if something bigger, better comes.

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Speaker 3: No, it's not that at all, because I I just

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Speaker 3: don't even want to leave my house sometimes, like I'm

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Speaker 3: just at me. Yeah, and especially like they're so no,

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Speaker 3: like like Jomo, like joy of missing out because it's

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Speaker 3: even like a bird, it's like someone's birthday like in

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Speaker 3: a month from now, okay, and I still can't commit

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Speaker 3: or like an event someone saying hey, let's grab dinner

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Speaker 3: and then go to this show.

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Speaker 2: And I'm just like, because when it comes around, you're

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Speaker 2: gonna have that It's on a Tuesday, and you've already

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Speaker 2: worked and been the kids.

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Speaker 1: It's going to be an exhausted exactly.

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Speaker 3: Like someone wants to get together like the week of

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Speaker 3: festival and that's like, you know, I feel like that's

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Speaker 3: a busy week, but I just don't know where my

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Speaker 3: headspace is going to be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand this.

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Speaker 2: I totally get it because I have developed this chronic

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Speaker 2: no to stuff and it's because I'm usually working, like

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Speaker 2: somehow something will be on the schedule that they've got

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Speaker 2: to do for work, and it's like if I commit

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Speaker 2: to something and then I can't go, yeah it comes up,

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Speaker 2: then I feel bad. So I just blanket no, which

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Speaker 2: makes me really uninvited.

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Speaker 3: And my friends and colleagues and all that think that

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Speaker 3: inviting me to something two months out is actually great.

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh, I'm sure you'll.

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Speaker 2: Be a vaire more anxiety, that's exactly I know. Well,

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you're feeling that way. It makes me happier.

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Speaker 2: And Tanya just to you know, if you are gonna

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Speaker 2: expect us to do stuff at your wedding. We'd like

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Speaker 2: to put it in our calendar. Okay, I hear you, well,

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Speaker 2: hear us again.

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Speaker 1: I hear you because Tanya has not given us the date.

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Speaker 1: It's not anxiety about schedule.

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Speaker 4: No, But it's not like I'm gonna get married tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna give you plenty of letters.

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Speaker 1: Do you not just hear you months out we're gonna

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Speaker 1: get I guess that's true. Okay, fine, you're gonna get

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Speaker 1: anxiety no matter what. I have anxiety now. Commiting issues

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Speaker 1: to be fun though issues. And I don't know why

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Speaker 1: you threw me under the bus so fast, because you

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Speaker 1: know I don't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you were, I mean that's like one second and

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Speaker 3: then he said, Ryan, okay, you told okay, did.

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Speaker 1: You not set me up for that? I did not

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Speaker 1: set you up for that. Come on, somebody in the room.

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Speaker 1: Did Ryan that me up for that?

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Speaker 4: Anyone?

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Speaker 1: No? No, he just asked the whole comfortable now. But

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Speaker 1: I really don't know why you think he has commitment issues.

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Speaker 1: I feel like he commits, he shows up. He's always

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Speaker 1: have you see me commit to somebody I know time

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Speaker 1: and time again.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's the prom that's not the problem commitment. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and he's in a relationship for long periods of time.

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Speaker 3: And then when you commit to something, if you're going

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Speaker 3: to show up to host things or be somewhere or

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Speaker 3: have lunch, like you're there.

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Speaker 1: I'm there if I say yes to the invitation. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I was given a question. It's fine, Tanya.

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Speaker 3: He took it very personal.

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Speaker 1: I don't take anything personally. Rolls right off my back,

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Speaker 1: roll and right off your back. Bring it up all morning.

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Speaker 2: Clearly, it's a Monday. We've missed each other. Okay, we

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Speaker 2: get it. Coming back here kiss FM. How do you

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Speaker 2: feel about ironing? You got to iron something this morning.

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Speaker 2: I don't love it.

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Speaker 3: I'm my hair straightener this morning, to iron the belt, iron.

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Speaker 1: The belt flattener.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a trick, a trick to I cut the

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Speaker 2: time of ironing in half.

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Speaker 1: Next