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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jebels Second Date Update. A listener named Ben is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with us for a second Date update today.

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<v Speaker 1>He said he recently went out with a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Vanessa and there was a scene caused at the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>on their first date. Ben, did you forget your pants

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<v Speaker 1>again or something that happens to me NonStop. It's really

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassing and usually causes quite a scene. Well, actually I

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<v Speaker 1>did remember my pants this time. They didn't have anything

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<v Speaker 1>to do with it. Okay, did she forget her pants?

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<v Speaker 1>Well no, but that would have made it better. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So your email said that there was a scene that

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<v Speaker 1>was caused. First tell us about the girl and then

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about the scene. Well, first off, her name's Vanessa.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a friend of a friend, so I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>know her initially. But yeah, I mean she's like, seriously

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<v Speaker 1>the hottest girl I've ever dated at point for sure

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<v Speaker 1>is a that's a bold statement, sir, Well not necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>he might have dated some real, real, unattractive people. No, well,

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<v Speaker 1>she's like hot in general. Like, here's the other girls

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<v Speaker 1>updated they're they're pretty cute. I'm not gonna lie, but

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<v Speaker 1>this girl is like a ridiculous ten Okay, okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>did you know that before going into it? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you said you were a set up friend of a friend,

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<v Speaker 1>but had you known of her before and wanted the

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<v Speaker 1>friend to set you up for Well, when when my

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<v Speaker 1>friend wanted to set it up, I was hesitant, but

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<v Speaker 1>then she showed me a picture of her, and uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, then I was definitely Ina. So when you

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<v Speaker 1>guys saw each other for the first time, do you

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<v Speaker 1>think she was equally as excited about you? I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a halfway ys a looking guy, but I knew

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about her, Like I, um, my friend

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<v Speaker 1>told me she really liked Italians, so I suggested this

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<v Speaker 1>one Italian place, but she said no, she wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>go to her favorite time place. You're like, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be a man here, I'm gonna think of

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<v Speaker 1>the right place to take her, and she's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to my restaurant. I think that's a really

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<v Speaker 1>good sign. I mean, obviously she's excited about the date.

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<v Speaker 1>If she wants to show you someplace good that she

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<v Speaker 1>thinks is amazing, I was definitely down to try it.

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<v Speaker 1>And plus, if she picks the place, then like she

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<v Speaker 1>can't pen that on me if it sucks. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a very good point one. All right, Well, your email

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<v Speaker 1>said that there was a scene caused during your date.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about that. What happened? Okay, So everything was

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<v Speaker 1>going well until the waitress walked up and she told

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<v Speaker 1>us about the restaurant a little bit and then left

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<v Speaker 1>and everything. It seemed fine, but Vanessa was like really

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<v Speaker 1>put off by that, and I didn't understand exactly like

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on. And then she realized she had

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<v Speaker 1>just left one menu and that really put her off

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<v Speaker 1>because she interpreted that as like what am I Am

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<v Speaker 1>I gonna like order for her? Or like is she

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<v Speaker 1>not her own person? Like may she just forgot him

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<v Speaker 1>in you? You know? Yeah, she got insulted thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>the waitress was assuming that you were the man in charge.

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<v Speaker 1>I think so, yeah, I mean I didn't take it

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<v Speaker 1>like that at all. But then she comes to refill

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<v Speaker 1>our waters and Vanessa like criticizes that too. Basically, she

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<v Speaker 1>says that the waitress build the water glass too high

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<v Speaker 1>or something and where it should be only a quarter

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<v Speaker 1>inch from the top and wow. And then she went

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<v Speaker 1>off about how she waitressed for years and she can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe that this girl is actually a real waitress. And

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<v Speaker 1>by the time we were done, I didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>was going on, but she was getting progressively more mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you try to calm her down? I mean, how

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<v Speaker 1>did you react everything she was criticizing. I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>know what to say because I just basically agreed with her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was just like, yeah, I was like trying

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<v Speaker 1>not to rock the boat anymore than it already was. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess if she's already pissed off, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to like poke the bear, you know, Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So what happened. So the waitress brings her bill and

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna leave a tip, of course, like a

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<v Speaker 1>normal person, and Vanessa is like, no, don't leave a tip.

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<v Speaker 1>She did a terrible job. Wait a former waitress said

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<v Speaker 1>not to leave a tip. That sounds so crazy to me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I was, of course I'm gonna give her

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<v Speaker 1>a tip, but I got up to leave, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was just gonna hand herr cash, like as in passing,

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<v Speaker 1>But Vanessa goes straight to the waitress and like tells

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<v Speaker 1>her off and like talks about how crappy of a

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<v Speaker 1>job did and like how she should never be a

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<v Speaker 1>server anymore and go get a job somewhere else, and

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<v Speaker 1>like she was so pissed and want to call this

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<v Speaker 1>girl again. She sounds like a really horrible person. On

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<v Speaker 1>the one hand, maybe she's just having the worst day possible,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know what happened to her job

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<v Speaker 1>before that or whatever. But at the same time, she's

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly hot, and I, oh my god, you just want

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<v Speaker 1>to give her another shot? Huh yeah, definitely for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to find out what the actual we'll

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<v Speaker 1>deal with. Then okay, you won't return any of my calls.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why she would not want to call

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<v Speaker 1>me based on having beef with the waitress. Not your fault,

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<v Speaker 1>and she chose the restaurant paid exactly have you have

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<v Speaker 1>you asked your friend that set you up? Like, is

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<v Speaker 1>she known for being a little off kilter? I talked

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<v Speaker 1>to my friend about it and she said, no, Vanessa

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<v Speaker 1>is always super sweet, super nice, like even keel and

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<v Speaker 1>obviously your friend is just your friend has never gone

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with vanessas sounds like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song, come back call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second day update. Okay, all right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>are you nervous because I am rooking Jubil in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning If you're just joining us for today's second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>Ben is on the phone with us. And Ben went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with the incredible hulk, very very hot,

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<v Speaker 1>incredible hold, but still a very very angry person. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Vanessa, and I guess throughout their whole first date,

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<v Speaker 1>she just raged about everything from the waitress only dropping

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<v Speaker 1>off one menu to her not pouring the water correctly,

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<v Speaker 1>just all of it. And then even at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of their date, she confronted the waitress and told her

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<v Speaker 1>what a terrible job she had done before storming off

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<v Speaker 1>and out of Ben's life forever. And now, for some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>Ben still wants to see if he can get another

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<v Speaker 1>date with this woman, probably because she's just hot. She

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't be like a supermodel or something, because I would

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<v Speaker 1>not put up with that amount of crazy. She definitely

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<v Speaker 1>looks like a supermodel, and you know, I've I've only

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<v Speaker 1>been on one date with her, So I'm willing to

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<v Speaker 1>give her the benefit of the doubt because maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>just had a bad day. You know, everybody has bad days.

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty people get away with everything. If she was slightly ugly,

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<v Speaker 1>you would have so many horrible words for her. Yeah, exactly. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial her phone number right now and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can find out why she's not calling you back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, it's

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<v Speaker 1>Vanessa there. This is she. Hey Vanessa, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Who Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a it's a radio show. You're you're on the radio? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna good, go ahead, and just gonna guess that

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't heard of the show before. It's a show

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<v Speaker 1>like you. Yes, it's a radio show. Is this like

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<v Speaker 1>a country show? Is it like? Do you guys talk

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<v Speaker 1>about stuff? What's No, it's not. It's just I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a regular morning radio show. We do all

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of wacky prank phone calls and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, are you pranking me? No, I'm not pranking

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<v Speaker 1>you right now. I do want to talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>about something though, if you have a moment, okay, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>depending on what it is. Well, the other day, one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners emailed us about you, about me. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>go on, his name is Ben, and you guys went out. Nope, nope, nope,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not interested contact information. Just let him to know

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<v Speaker 1>to stop calling me. All right, Well, hold hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>hold up, though you didn't. You didn't even let me

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<v Speaker 1>finish what I was gonna say. I don't need to

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<v Speaker 1>let you finish the answers. No, I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>he's contacting you to contact me. Is that what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even want to You don't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>know why Ben would send us an email about you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know why Ben is emailing you. He wants to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with me again. He has made that very clear.

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<v Speaker 1>You hear what he has to say. Because Ben said

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<v Speaker 1>some things that you did, they weren't super awesome. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure I know exactly what he said. All right, it

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<v Speaker 1>was not a good night. Ben was not a great guy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. To be honest, I thought he was at first.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend really talked him up and uh, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>it's a non. Can I ask you a question about

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<v Speaker 1>the date? Is that possible without you getting mad at me? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>He said that when you guys went out, everything went fine,

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<v Speaker 1>like you guys, we're getting along, and then you started

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<v Speaker 1>just raging about the waitress and you got so angry

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<v Speaker 1>that you ended the date by storming off to your

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<v Speaker 1>car and haven't talked to him again. Hmye. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>but it sounds but from talking to you, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you were angry with him. Yeah. Ben did not

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<v Speaker 1>pass the test, and you know, and that's no more

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<v Speaker 1>dates for him. What's the test? Wait? What test? To

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, I am very attractive. I'm sure Ben made

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<v Speaker 1>that clear to you. I am a very attractive person,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm not being haughty about it. I'm just being real.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm generally attractive to most people. Okay. Confidence is a

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<v Speaker 1>good thing. Yeah, very humble too, Yeah yeah, no, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm aware of that. And you know I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a shallow person, obviously. I mean, Ben is attractive enough,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's not. He's not. I'm more talcative than Ben

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<v Speaker 1>is not me. Okay, but a lot of times I

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<v Speaker 1>have to deal with people who only want to date

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<v Speaker 1>me because I'm attractive. So I set up a test

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<v Speaker 1>process so that I can weed out the bad ones.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's actually kind of genius. Like I don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>it because I'm not that thank you, but I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>you're very hot. What was the test? When I date guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, the first date is like when you

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<v Speaker 1>find out what they're made of inside, like what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of guy they actually are, not just looks, not with

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<v Speaker 1>their based on it. And a lot of guys will

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<v Speaker 1>just want to date me because I'm hot, So I

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<v Speaker 1>make it so I kind of provoked them to call

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<v Speaker 1>me out on my shop. So that's why whenever I

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a first date, I choose the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>So the waitress is my friend and so I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>being unfair to her, but I act unfairly, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'll call out little micro things like the water

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<v Speaker 1>being messed up, or not call enough or quarter inch

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<v Speaker 1>from the top, like I've told him that I've waitress

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<v Speaker 1>before and that she's a waitress just like Badger the waitress.

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<v Speaker 1>And if he isn't willing to call me out and

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<v Speaker 1>tell me that I'm being a jerk, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be with somebody who would just agree with me,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, well she's hot, screwed if she's a mean.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the most I mean. At first I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were super vague, but now I just think you're

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<v Speaker 1>an evil genius. Happens. Oh it's happened. You just don't

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<v Speaker 1>know about it. I'm not the only girl doing this.

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<v Speaker 1>So the waitress was your friend, Yeah, yeah, yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>was definitely. She knows all about this and he and

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<v Speaker 1>he just went along with the whole thing. Yeah. He

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like shrugged and was like oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like we'll get another menum and like, oh yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>water does seem weirdly small from the top. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes no sense? Is it almost fun for you? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>How far can I go before this guy actually stands

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<v Speaker 1>up for what's right? This is making me sound like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like an evil like sorceress who's like thinking of

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<v Speaker 1>all these ways of the things. But it's not like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I really, I honestly want to find somebody of substance,

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<v Speaker 1>like a partner who's willing to call me out. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've done this a dozen times, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and out of all those, I've literally only gone on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date with one guy, really, and it's because

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<v Speaker 1>he called me out. He was like, you're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>being a jerk, and I was like, oh, whoa round

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<v Speaker 1>up a pause for this fun, let's try us out.

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<v Speaker 1>One dude out of dozens actually call you out for

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<v Speaker 1>being in a hole because everybody else just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>date you because you're hot. I'm glad that you're impressed

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<v Speaker 1>by all this. But are we done with this this

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<v Speaker 1>phone call? We are almost done. I just have one

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<v Speaker 1>more thing I need to say to you. Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>else do you want to know? I feel like I've

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<v Speaker 1>told you everything. Oh I don't want to know anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to let you know that Ben is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening to this conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>really wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes? Ben?

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<v Speaker 1>You there? Or did you run away? No? I'm definitely here, Vanessa.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty what you did back in the restaurant. And look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call you out now because it apparently you

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<v Speaker 1>like that kind of thing and I didn't call you

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<v Speaker 1>out back. I'm trying to be a nice guy, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is the first freaking date that I have been

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<v Speaker 1>on with you. I'm not gonna like cause drama immediately

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<v Speaker 1>I get to know sie on drama trying to I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to call somebody out on being mean. You could

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<v Speaker 1>have eased just been like nope, that's the water, isn't weird? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a problem with this waitress? You could

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<v Speaker 1>have literally said anything instead of just being a little dude.

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<v Speaker 1>That was you. That's what it felt like being on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with you. Then you get to know somebody first,

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<v Speaker 1>and then once you get to know somebody, then you

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<v Speaker 1>can call them out for all their I'm just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know who you are, and you're okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but called a no, no, no no, you held a radio

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<v Speaker 1>station to try and get a second date with me

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<v Speaker 1>even though I was an asshole. So if I wasn't attractive,

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<v Speaker 1>would you want a second date? If I didn't look

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<v Speaker 1>like this, would you want a second date? That's a no?

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't it okay? Well? In case in point, I mean, Ben,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got to be honest, like you did it say

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<v Speaker 1>one thing about her other than how hot she was, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly don't know anything about Vanessa. Why are you

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<v Speaker 1>giving her more ammunition. She doesn't know that everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>attracted initially by beauty. That's just the way it works.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that you're a terrible person. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>the right person for me. I'm looking for somebody who's

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<v Speaker 1>willing to call me out, willing to communicate with me

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm being irrational about something. I don't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to just be like, oh, pacify it. It's fine. I

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<v Speaker 1>can have sex with her later. Like it's great, It'll

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<v Speaker 1>be worth it. I don't really know what to do. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've been scammed, okay, like one of

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<v Speaker 1>those scams over the internet where you lose all your

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<v Speaker 1>money and you don't really know what happened. And I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you didn't give me a fair date. And

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<v Speaker 1>I deserve a fair date. Everyone does, and so like

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<v Speaker 1>that's all I'm asking. I'm only asking for a fair date,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that's open and honest and not playing tricks. Hey, Vanessa,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Ben one more time?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for a second date. You know. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to give him a round of applause for that

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful speech he just gave. But no, you are brutal. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, Look okay, that kind of steals a

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<v Speaker 1>deal for me, because if you're gonna be a sole

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<v Speaker 1>like that, I wouldn't want to date anyway. Oh now

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't want to date, And ask Ben, if you

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<v Speaker 1>would have done that on our first date, maybe we'd

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<v Speaker 1>be going on a second day. John had to call

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<v Speaker 1>a radio station to get in touch with this man. Ben.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry you did not get a second date. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't win. If I called her out and didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>who she was, then she would like me. And if

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't and wanted to get to know her more

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<v Speaker 1>than she won't like me. Yeah. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess on your next date, just like as soon as

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<v Speaker 1>you start going out, just calling out on everything. Just

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<v Speaker 1>be rude, ye broken jubil in the morning the hot

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<v Speaker 1>test didn't even know it existed. If you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm talking about, I'll tell you in just a second.

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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about today's second date update and the guy

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<v Speaker 1>in today's second Date update named Ben. I bet he

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<v Speaker 1>feels wronged, and you know what he should do. He

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<v Speaker 1>I probably want to get some money for that, I

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<v Speaker 1>so hit him up. Speaking of being blindsided, Ben went

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<v Speaker 1>out with Vanessa. She was terrible on their first date,

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at the waitress, saying like are you even gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tip her? Just complaining about everything. When we got her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, we asked her about the date and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, yeah, I do that on all my first

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<v Speaker 1>dates because I'm incredibly hot. But she didn't sound like

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<v Speaker 1>cocky hot. She just sounds like I know I'm attractive

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<v Speaker 1>and dudes just want to date me because I'm good looking.

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<v Speaker 1>So when she goes out on dates, she acts like

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<v Speaker 1>an a hole seeing if the guy will call her

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<v Speaker 1>on it so she knows that he's just not into

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<v Speaker 1>her looks, and it's all set up like the waitress

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<v Speaker 1>was actually a friend of hers, that's why she picked

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant. And I couldn't figure out why he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call her when she was being just a jerk,

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<v Speaker 1>But it was because she was hot. She was not enough.

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<v Speaker 1>I just heard about this as I would fall for this.

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<v Speaker 1>I would fail at this test totally. Oh, I think

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<v Speaker 1>most dudes do. That's why she does it. And there's

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<v Speaker 1>so many dudes that are pissed at her on the

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<v Speaker 1>text board right now, someone texted in she sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>she has a weird face and a small booty. Right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>guys are angry at her. But because that's not petty,

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<v Speaker 1>it worked because normally you wouldn't want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second you wouldn't want a second date update if you

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<v Speaker 1>went out with somebody like that, But he still wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do it because she was hot, So I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it worked for a text in at seven, eight, five, nine, Two, ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to do this test? Now? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>learn something from Vanessa? Remember? If you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, just email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back two five,