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Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels Second Date Update. A listener named Ben is
Speaker 1: on the phone with us for a second Date update today.
Speaker 1: He said he recently went out with a girl named
Speaker 1: Vanessa and there was a scene caused at the restaurant
Speaker 1: on their first date. Ben, did you forget your pants
Speaker 1: again or something that happens to me NonStop. It's really
Speaker 1: embarrassing and usually causes quite a scene. Well, actually I
Speaker 1: did remember my pants this time. They didn't have anything
Speaker 1: to do with it. Okay, did she forget her pants?
Speaker 1: Well no, but that would have made it better. Okay,
Speaker 1: So your email said that there was a scene that
Speaker 1: was caused. First tell us about the girl and then
Speaker 1: tell us about the scene. Well, first off, her name's Vanessa.
Speaker 1: She's a friend of a friend, so I didn't really
Speaker 1: know her initially. But yeah, I mean she's like, seriously
Speaker 1: the hottest girl I've ever dated at point for sure
Speaker 1: is a that's a bold statement, sir, Well not necessarily
Speaker 1: he might have dated some real, real, unattractive people. No, well,
Speaker 1: she's like hot in general. Like, here's the other girls
Speaker 1: updated they're they're pretty cute. I'm not gonna lie, but
Speaker 1: this girl is like a ridiculous ten Okay, okay, So
Speaker 1: did you know that before going into it? I mean,
Speaker 1: you said you were a set up friend of a friend,
Speaker 1: but had you known of her before and wanted the
Speaker 1: friend to set you up for Well, when when my
Speaker 1: friend wanted to set it up, I was hesitant, but
Speaker 1: then she showed me a picture of her, and uh yeah,
Speaker 1: so yeah, then I was definitely Ina. So when you
Speaker 1: guys saw each other for the first time, do you
Speaker 1: think she was equally as excited about you? I think
Speaker 1: I'm a halfway ys a looking guy, but I knew
Speaker 1: a little bit about her, Like I, um, my friend
Speaker 1: told me she really liked Italians, so I suggested this
Speaker 1: one Italian place, but she said no, she wanted to
Speaker 1: go to her favorite time place. You're like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a man here, I'm gonna think of
Speaker 1: the right place to take her, and she's like, no,
Speaker 1: We're going to my restaurant. I think that's a really
Speaker 1: good sign. I mean, obviously she's excited about the date.
Speaker 1: If she wants to show you someplace good that she
Speaker 1: thinks is amazing, I was definitely down to try it.
Speaker 1: And plus, if she picks the place, then like she
Speaker 1: can't pen that on me if it sucks. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: a very good point one. All right, Well, your email
Speaker 1: said that there was a scene caused during your date.
Speaker 1: Tell us about that. What happened? Okay, So everything was
Speaker 1: going well until the waitress walked up and she told
Speaker 1: us about the restaurant a little bit and then left
Speaker 1: and everything. It seemed fine, but Vanessa was like really
Speaker 1: put off by that, and I didn't understand exactly like
Speaker 1: what was going on. And then she realized she had
Speaker 1: just left one menu and that really put her off
Speaker 1: because she interpreted that as like what am I Am
Speaker 1: I gonna like order for her? Or like is she
Speaker 1: not her own person? Like may she just forgot him
Speaker 1: in you? You know? Yeah, she got insulted thinking that
Speaker 1: the waitress was assuming that you were the man in charge.
Speaker 1: I think so, yeah, I mean I didn't take it
Speaker 1: like that at all. But then she comes to refill
Speaker 1: our waters and Vanessa like criticizes that too. Basically, she
Speaker 1: says that the waitress build the water glass too high
Speaker 1: or something and where it should be only a quarter
Speaker 1: inch from the top and wow. And then she went
Speaker 1: off about how she waitressed for years and she can't
Speaker 1: believe that this girl is actually a real waitress. And
Speaker 1: by the time we were done, I didn't know what
Speaker 1: was going on, but she was getting progressively more mad.
Speaker 1: Did you try to calm her down? I mean, how
Speaker 1: did you react everything she was criticizing. I didn't really
Speaker 1: know what to say because I just basically agreed with her,
Speaker 1: and I was just like, yeah, I was like trying
Speaker 1: not to rock the boat anymore than it already was. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess if she's already pissed off, you
Speaker 1: don't want to like poke the bear, you know, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: So what happened. So the waitress brings her bill and
Speaker 1: I was gonna leave a tip, of course, like a
Speaker 1: normal person, and Vanessa is like, no, don't leave a tip.
Speaker 1: She did a terrible job. Wait a former waitress said
Speaker 1: not to leave a tip. That sounds so crazy to me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, I was, of course I'm gonna give her
Speaker 1: a tip, but I got up to leave, and I
Speaker 1: was just gonna hand herr cash, like as in passing,
Speaker 1: But Vanessa goes straight to the waitress and like tells
Speaker 1: her off and like talks about how crappy of a
Speaker 1: job did and like how she should never be a
Speaker 1: server anymore and go get a job somewhere else, and
Speaker 1: like she was so pissed and want to call this
Speaker 1: girl again. She sounds like a really horrible person. On
Speaker 1: the one hand, maybe she's just having the worst day possible,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know what happened to her job
Speaker 1: before that or whatever. But at the same time, she's
Speaker 1: incredibly hot, and I, oh my god, you just want
Speaker 1: to give her another shot? Huh yeah, definitely for sure.
Speaker 1: I just want to find out what the actual we'll
Speaker 1: deal with. Then okay, you won't return any of my calls.
Speaker 1: I don't understand why she would not want to call
Speaker 1: me based on having beef with the waitress. Not your fault,
Speaker 1: and she chose the restaurant paid exactly have you have
Speaker 1: you asked your friend that set you up? Like, is
Speaker 1: she known for being a little off kilter? I talked
Speaker 1: to my friend about it and she said, no, Vanessa
Speaker 1: is always super sweet, super nice, like even keel and
Speaker 1: obviously your friend is just your friend has never gone
Speaker 1: out on a date with vanessas sounds like, all right,
Speaker 1: well we'll play a song, come back call her and
Speaker 1: get your second day update. Okay, all right, all right,
Speaker 1: are you nervous because I am rooking Jubil in the
Speaker 1: morning If you're just joining us for today's second day update,
Speaker 1: Ben is on the phone with us. And Ben went
Speaker 1: out on a date with the incredible hulk, very very hot,
Speaker 1: incredible hold, but still a very very angry person. Her
Speaker 1: name is Vanessa, and I guess throughout their whole first date,
Speaker 1: she just raged about everything from the waitress only dropping
Speaker 1: off one menu to her not pouring the water correctly,
Speaker 1: just all of it. And then even at the end
Speaker 1: of their date, she confronted the waitress and told her
Speaker 1: what a terrible job she had done before storming off
Speaker 1: and out of Ben's life forever. And now, for some reason,
Speaker 1: Ben still wants to see if he can get another
Speaker 1: date with this woman, probably because she's just hot. She
Speaker 1: wasn't be like a supermodel or something, because I would
Speaker 1: not put up with that amount of crazy. She definitely
Speaker 1: looks like a supermodel, and you know, I've I've only
Speaker 1: been on one date with her, So I'm willing to
Speaker 1: give her the benefit of the doubt because maybe she
Speaker 1: just had a bad day. You know, everybody has bad days.
Speaker 1: Pretty people get away with everything. If she was slightly ugly,
Speaker 1: you would have so many horrible words for her. Yeah, exactly. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial her phone number right now and see
Speaker 1: if we can find out why she's not calling you back. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, it's
Speaker 1: Vanessa there. This is she. Hey Vanessa, how are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Who Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's
Speaker 1: a it's a radio show. You're you're on the radio? Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna good, go ahead, and just gonna guess that
Speaker 1: you haven't heard of the show before. It's a show
Speaker 1: like you. Yes, it's a radio show. Is this like
Speaker 1: a country show? Is it like? Do you guys talk
Speaker 1: about stuff? What's No, it's not. It's just I mean,
Speaker 1: it's just a regular morning radio show. We do all
Speaker 1: kinds of wacky prank phone calls and things like that.
Speaker 1: You know, are you pranking me? No, I'm not pranking
Speaker 1: you right now. I do want to talk to you
Speaker 1: about something though, if you have a moment, okay, I guess,
Speaker 1: depending on what it is. Well, the other day, one
Speaker 1: of our listeners emailed us about you, about me. Yes,
Speaker 1: go on, his name is Ben, and you guys went out. Nope, nope, nope,
Speaker 1: I'm not interested contact information. Just let him to know
Speaker 1: to stop calling me. All right, Well, hold hold on,
Speaker 1: hold up, though you didn't. You didn't even let me
Speaker 1: finish what I was gonna say. I don't need to
Speaker 1: let you finish the answers. No, I don't know why
Speaker 1: he's contacting you to contact me. Is that what's going on?
Speaker 1: You don't even want to You don't even want to
Speaker 1: know why Ben would send us an email about you.
Speaker 1: I know why Ben is emailing you. He wants to
Speaker 1: go out with me again. He has made that very clear.
Speaker 1: You hear what he has to say. Because Ben said
Speaker 1: some things that you did, they weren't super awesome. I'm
Speaker 1: sure I know exactly what he said. All right, it
Speaker 1: was not a good night. Ben was not a great guy,
Speaker 1: you know. To be honest, I thought he was at first.
Speaker 1: My friend really talked him up and uh, it's a
Speaker 1: it's a non. Can I ask you a question about
Speaker 1: the date? Is that possible without you getting mad at me? Okay?
Speaker 1: He said that when you guys went out, everything went fine,
Speaker 1: like you guys, we're getting along, and then you started
Speaker 1: just raging about the waitress and you got so angry
Speaker 1: that you ended the date by storming off to your
Speaker 1: car and haven't talked to him again. Hmye. Okay, so
Speaker 1: but it sounds but from talking to you, it sounds
Speaker 1: like you were angry with him. Yeah. Ben did not
Speaker 1: pass the test, and you know, and that's no more
Speaker 1: dates for him. What's the test? Wait? What test? To
Speaker 1: be honest, I am very attractive. I'm sure Ben made
Speaker 1: that clear to you. I am a very attractive person,
Speaker 1: and I'm not being haughty about it. I'm just being real.
Speaker 1: I'm generally attractive to most people. Okay. Confidence is a
Speaker 1: good thing. Yeah, very humble too, Yeah yeah, no, of course,
Speaker 1: But I'm aware of that. And you know I'm not
Speaker 1: a shallow person, obviously. I mean, Ben is attractive enough,
Speaker 1: but he's not. He's not. I'm more talcative than Ben
Speaker 1: is not me. Okay, but a lot of times I
Speaker 1: have to deal with people who only want to date
Speaker 1: me because I'm attractive. So I set up a test
Speaker 1: process so that I can weed out the bad ones.
Speaker 1: That's that's actually kind of genius. Like I don't understand
Speaker 1: it because I'm not that thank you, but I'm sure
Speaker 1: you're very hot. What was the test? When I date guys,
Speaker 1: I you know, the first date is like when you
Speaker 1: find out what they're made of inside, like what kind
Speaker 1: of guy they actually are, not just looks, not with
Speaker 1: their based on it. And a lot of guys will
Speaker 1: just want to date me because I'm hot, So I
Speaker 1: make it so I kind of provoked them to call
Speaker 1: me out on my shop. So that's why whenever I
Speaker 1: go out on a first date, I choose the restaurant.
Speaker 1: So the waitress is my friend and so I wasn't
Speaker 1: being unfair to her, but I act unfairly, you know,
Speaker 1: like I'll call out little micro things like the water
Speaker 1: being messed up, or not call enough or quarter inch
Speaker 1: from the top, like I've told him that I've waitress
Speaker 1: before and that she's a waitress just like Badger the waitress.
Speaker 1: And if he isn't willing to call me out and
Speaker 1: tell me that I'm being a jerk, but I don't
Speaker 1: want to be with somebody who would just agree with me,
Speaker 1: because I'm like, well she's hot, screwed if she's a mean.
Speaker 1: This is the most I mean. At first I thought
Speaker 1: you were super vague, but now I just think you're
Speaker 1: an evil genius. Happens. Oh it's happened. You just don't
Speaker 1: know about it. I'm not the only girl doing this.
Speaker 1: So the waitress was your friend, Yeah, yeah, yeah, she
Speaker 1: was definitely. She knows all about this and he and
Speaker 1: he just went along with the whole thing. Yeah. He
Speaker 1: just kind of like shrugged and was like oh yeah,
Speaker 1: like we'll get another menum and like, oh yeah, the
Speaker 1: water does seem weirdly small from the top. I'm like,
Speaker 1: that makes no sense? Is it almost fun for you? Like?
Speaker 1: How far can I go before this guy actually stands
Speaker 1: up for what's right? This is making me sound like
Speaker 1: I'm like an evil like sorceress who's like thinking of
Speaker 1: all these ways of the things. But it's not like that.
Speaker 1: I really, I honestly want to find somebody of substance,
Speaker 1: like a partner who's willing to call me out. And
Speaker 1: you know, I've done this a dozen times, I mean,
Speaker 1: and out of all those, I've literally only gone on
Speaker 1: a second date with one guy, really, and it's because
Speaker 1: he called me out. He was like, you're kind of
Speaker 1: being a jerk, and I was like, oh, whoa round
Speaker 1: up a pause for this fun, let's try us out.
Speaker 1: One dude out of dozens actually call you out for
Speaker 1: being in a hole because everybody else just wanted to
Speaker 1: date you because you're hot. I'm glad that you're impressed
Speaker 1: by all this. But are we done with this this
Speaker 1: phone call? We are almost done. I just have one
Speaker 1: more thing I need to say to you. Okay, what
Speaker 1: else do you want to know? I feel like I've
Speaker 1: told you everything. Oh I don't want to know anything.
Speaker 1: I just want to let you know that Ben is
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening to this conversation and
Speaker 1: really wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes? Ben?
Speaker 1: You there? Or did you run away? No? I'm definitely here, Vanessa.
Speaker 1: That's pretty what you did back in the restaurant. And look,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you out now because it apparently you
Speaker 1: like that kind of thing and I didn't call you
Speaker 1: out back. I'm trying to be a nice guy, and
Speaker 1: this is the first freaking date that I have been
Speaker 1: on with you. I'm not gonna like cause drama immediately
Speaker 1: I get to know sie on drama trying to I'm
Speaker 1: going to call somebody out on being mean. You could
Speaker 1: have eased just been like nope, that's the water, isn't weird? Um?
Speaker 1: Do you have a problem with this waitress? You could
Speaker 1: have literally said anything instead of just being a little dude.
Speaker 1: That was you. That's what it felt like being on
Speaker 1: a date with you. Then you get to know somebody first,
Speaker 1: and then once you get to know somebody, then you
Speaker 1: can call them out for all their I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to get to know who you are, and you're okay,
Speaker 1: but called a no, no, no no, you held a radio
Speaker 1: station to try and get a second date with me
Speaker 1: even though I was an asshole. So if I wasn't attractive,
Speaker 1: would you want a second date? If I didn't look
Speaker 1: like this, would you want a second date? That's a no?
Speaker 1: Isn't it okay? Well? In case in point, I mean, Ben,
Speaker 1: you've got to be honest, like you did it say
Speaker 1: one thing about her other than how hot she was, Like,
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know anything about Vanessa. Why are you
Speaker 1: giving her more ammunition. She doesn't know that everybody is
Speaker 1: attracted initially by beauty. That's just the way it works.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you're a terrible person. You're not
Speaker 1: the right person for me. I'm looking for somebody who's
Speaker 1: willing to call me out, willing to communicate with me
Speaker 1: if I'm being irrational about something. I don't want you
Speaker 1: to just be like, oh, pacify it. It's fine. I
Speaker 1: can have sex with her later. Like it's great, It'll
Speaker 1: be worth it. I don't really know what to do. Look,
Speaker 1: I feel like I've been scammed, okay, like one of
Speaker 1: those scams over the internet where you lose all your
Speaker 1: money and you don't really know what happened. And I
Speaker 1: feel like you didn't give me a fair date. And
Speaker 1: I deserve a fair date. Everyone does, and so like
Speaker 1: that's all I'm asking. I'm only asking for a fair date,
Speaker 1: somebody that's open and honest and not playing tricks. Hey, Vanessa,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Ben one more time?
Speaker 1: We will pay for a second date. You know. I
Speaker 1: want to give him a round of applause for that
Speaker 1: wonderful speech he just gave. But no, you are brutal. Well,
Speaker 1: you know what, Look okay, that kind of steals a
Speaker 1: deal for me, because if you're gonna be a sole
Speaker 1: like that, I wouldn't want to date anyway. Oh now
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to date, And ask Ben, if you
Speaker 1: would have done that on our first date, maybe we'd
Speaker 1: be going on a second day. John had to call
Speaker 1: a radio station to get in touch with this man. Ben.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you did not get a second date. I
Speaker 1: can't win. If I called her out and didn't like
Speaker 1: who she was, then she would like me. And if
Speaker 1: I didn't and wanted to get to know her more
Speaker 1: than she won't like me. Yeah. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: guess on your next date, just like as soon as
Speaker 1: you start going out, just calling out on everything. Just
Speaker 1: be rude, ye broken jubil in the morning the hot
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Speaker 1: out with Vanessa. She was terrible on their first date,
Speaker 1: yelling at the waitress, saying like are you even gonna
Speaker 1: tip her? Just complaining about everything. When we got her
Speaker 1: on the phone, we asked her about the date and
Speaker 1: she said, yeah, I do that on all my first
Speaker 1: dates because I'm incredibly hot. But she didn't sound like
Speaker 1: cocky hot. She just sounds like I know I'm attractive
Speaker 1: and dudes just want to date me because I'm good looking.
Speaker 1: So when she goes out on dates, she acts like
Speaker 1: an a hole seeing if the guy will call her
Speaker 1: on it so she knows that he's just not into
Speaker 1: her looks, and it's all set up like the waitress
Speaker 1: was actually a friend of hers, that's why she picked
Speaker 1: the restaurant. And I couldn't figure out why he wanted
Speaker 1: to call her when she was being just a jerk,
Speaker 1: But it was because she was hot. She was not enough.
Speaker 1: I just heard about this as I would fall for this.
Speaker 1: I would fail at this test totally. Oh, I think
Speaker 1: most dudes do. That's why she does it. And there's
Speaker 1: so many dudes that are pissed at her on the
Speaker 1: text board right now, someone texted in she sounds like
Speaker 1: she has a weird face and a small booty. Right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: guys are angry at her. But because that's not petty,
Speaker 1: it worked because normally you wouldn't want to do a
Speaker 1: second you wouldn't want a second date update if you
Speaker 1: went out with somebody like that, But he still wanted
Speaker 1: to do it because she was hot, So I guess
Speaker 1: it worked for a text in at seven, eight, five, nine, Two, ladies,
Speaker 1: are you going to do this test? Now? Did you
Speaker 1: learn something from Vanessa? Remember? If you want to do
Speaker 1: a second date update, just email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back two five,