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Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels Second Date Update. A listener named Ben is

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Speaker 1: on the phone with us for a second Date update today.

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Speaker 1: He said he recently went out with a girl named

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Speaker 1: Vanessa and there was a scene caused at the restaurant

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Speaker 1: on their first date. Ben, did you forget your pants

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Speaker 1: again or something that happens to me NonStop. It's really

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Speaker 1: embarrassing and usually causes quite a scene. Well, actually I

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Speaker 1: did remember my pants this time. They didn't have anything

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Speaker 1: to do with it. Okay, did she forget her pants?

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Speaker 1: Well no, but that would have made it better. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So your email said that there was a scene that

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Speaker 1: was caused. First tell us about the girl and then

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Speaker 1: tell us about the scene. Well, first off, her name's Vanessa.

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Speaker 1: She's a friend of a friend, so I didn't really

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Speaker 1: the hottest girl I've ever dated at point for sure

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Speaker 1: is a that's a bold statement, sir, Well not necessarily

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Speaker 1: he might have dated some real, real, unattractive people. No, well,

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Speaker 1: she's like hot in general. Like, here's the other girls

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Speaker 1: updated they're they're pretty cute. I'm not gonna lie, but

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Speaker 1: this girl is like a ridiculous ten Okay, okay, So

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Speaker 1: did you know that before going into it? I mean,

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Speaker 1: you said you were a set up friend of a friend,

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Speaker 1: friend to set you up for Well, when when my

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Speaker 1: then she showed me a picture of her, and uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, then I was definitely Ina. So when you

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Speaker 1: I'm a halfway ys a looking guy, but I knew

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Speaker 1: told me she really liked Italians, so I suggested this

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Speaker 1: the right place to take her, and she's like, no,

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Speaker 1: We're going to my restaurant. I think that's a really

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Speaker 1: If she wants to show you someplace good that she

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Speaker 1: And plus, if she picks the place, then like she

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Speaker 1: can't pen that on me if it sucks. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: said that there was a scene caused during your date.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about that. What happened? Okay, So everything was

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Speaker 1: going well until the waitress walked up and she told

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Speaker 1: I gonna like order for her? Or like is she

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Speaker 1: Did you try to calm her down? I mean, how

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Speaker 1: So what happened. So the waitress brings her bill and

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Speaker 1: and she chose the restaurant paid exactly have you have

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Speaker 1: well we'll play a song, come back call her and

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Speaker 1: are you nervous because I am rooking Jubil in the

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Speaker 1: morning If you're just joining us for today's second day update,

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Speaker 1: Ben is on the phone with us. And Ben went

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Speaker 1: out on a date with the incredible hulk, very very hot,

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Speaker 1: Pretty people get away with everything. If she was slightly ugly,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial her phone number right now and see

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, it's

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Speaker 1: Vanessa there. This is she. Hey Vanessa, how are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Who Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's

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Speaker 1: a it's a radio show. You're you're on the radio? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna good, go ahead, and just gonna guess that

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Speaker 1: you haven't heard of the show before. It's a show

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Speaker 1: like you. Yes, it's a radio show. Is this like

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Speaker 1: a country show? Is it like? Do you guys talk

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Speaker 1: about stuff? What's No, it's not. It's just I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's just a regular morning radio show. We do all

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Speaker 1: kinds of wacky prank phone calls and things like that.

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Speaker 1: You know, are you pranking me? No, I'm not pranking

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Speaker 1: you right now. I do want to talk to you

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Speaker 1: depending on what it is. Well, the other day, one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners emailed us about you, about me. Yes,

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Speaker 1: go on, his name is Ben, and you guys went out. Nope, nope, nope,

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Speaker 1: I'm not interested contact information. Just let him to know

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Speaker 1: You don't even want to You don't even want to

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Speaker 1: I know why Ben is emailing you. He wants to

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Speaker 1: go out with me again. He has made that very clear.

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Speaker 1: You hear what he has to say. Because Ben said

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Speaker 1: was not a good night. Ben was not a great guy,

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Speaker 1: He said that when you guys went out, everything went fine,

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Speaker 1: be honest, I am very attractive. I'm sure Ben made

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Speaker 1: That's that's actually kind of genius. Like I don't understand

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Speaker 1: learn something from Vanessa? Remember? If you want to do

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