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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Alyssa is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Bryce.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see ifiel tell us why is ghosting her and maybe

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Speaker 2: get her another date. But first, Alyssa, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Bryce?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: My gosh, you guys, it's been I want to say

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Speaker 1: two weeks, Okay, Like that's legitimate. I gave it a

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Speaker 1: week and I was like, okay, maybe he's just like

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Speaker 1: super busy or got like late COVID, you know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, sorry, Yeah, it's possible.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I gave him a better hit of it, doubt,

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Speaker 1: But like now it's been too long, you know, And

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Speaker 1: I just I really really liked this guy a lot,

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Speaker 1: and I thought we had a really you know, strong connection.

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Speaker 1: But like then just to hear absolutely nothing, I'm just

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Speaker 1: kind of like, okay, like I.

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Speaker 5: Need to find out what happened, you know, Yeah, did

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Speaker 5: you try to reach out to him to like instigate

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Speaker 5: the conversation or anything.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's just like I don't think anything went wrong,

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Speaker 1: you know, I like maybe something on the d might have.

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Speaker 6: Scared him off.

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Speaker 1: Like I just I'm not sure because like he was

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Speaker 1: so adamant about reaching out to me and like you know,

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Speaker 1: wanting to stay close and connected, and then for him

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Speaker 1: to just drop off a cliff like that, I'm like, Okay.

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Speaker 6: Something's going on, you know, like now I'm.

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Speaker 1: Playing detective, you know.

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Speaker 6: And we actually we.

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Speaker 1: First met and like clicked over Instagram because we both

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Speaker 1: have Frenchies, very specific type of dog lover. It's a

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Speaker 1: lifestyle choice, you know, so we're part of a small

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Speaker 1: community of French ye lovers and you know, we just

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Speaker 1: like bonded over our adorable dog children. And you know,

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Speaker 1: after a couple of weeks like chatting back and forth,

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Speaker 1: I invited him to go with me to an Italian

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Speaker 4: Oh that's fun, that's really fun.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So it was like super romantic.

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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to go.

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Speaker 6: As a friend who failed, and.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, this is perfect, Like

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Speaker 1: it's not gonna be awkward. We have an activity, you know,

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Speaker 1: like we're not just going to be like sitting across

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Speaker 1: from each other, like what if you know, how like

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Speaker 1: if you meet someone online or like you're just texting,

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Speaker 1: it could be weird when you finally meet in person,

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Speaker 1: you know, but right so you don't know. But when

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Speaker 1: I met him, I was like, oh my god, I'm

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Speaker 1: like totally floored. Like he's so cute, he's so fun

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Speaker 1: and like we were flirting, like getting really like you know,

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Speaker 1: touchy feely and the pastas like we're it was a

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Speaker 1: good excuse to like accidentally touch each other, you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean it was like major wrong con vibes, Like

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Speaker 1: I was living my best Kate husband life. You know,

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Speaker 1: this is amazing, right, and he's like so funny, so charming,

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Speaker 1: and he impressed the whole class. Like it was just anyway,

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Speaker 1: Like I said, I really liked him. That's why I'm

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Speaker 1: now very confused. And you know, it was just like

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Speaker 1: a perfect date. So that's why I just can't. I'm

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Speaker 1: like going back in my mind trying to think of

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Speaker 1: anything that I said or that he said that was

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Speaker 1: like I don't.

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Speaker 6: Know something I missed you can think of. I mean

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Speaker 6: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, like we were like making out by the end

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Speaker 1: of the class, like outside, you know, I just like

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Speaker 1: got real spicy like super fun and I honestly, if anything,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was like too perfect, So I don't know,

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Speaker 1: like can it be too perfect? And then that's the problem,

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Speaker 1: Like so I don't know, like maybe he's also or

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Speaker 1: there's just something he didn't tell me, you know, and

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Speaker 6: So I just amen trying to figure out.

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Speaker 1: And it's weird because like now I'm checking his instagram,

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Speaker 1: I feel like like a mini like low key stocker,

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Speaker 1: which I'm totally not normally at all, Like I don't

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Speaker 4: You don't even have to explain yourself.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I would do the same thing because I'm like,

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Speaker 5: are you alive two weeks?

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Speaker 4: It's a perfect date? Did you die?

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Speaker 6: What if he's in the hospital, Like what if I

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Speaker 6: should be concerned? You know, right, Like should you be

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and then call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, thank you?

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Speaker 2: All right, well plas, I'll come back get your first

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Speaker 2: afe follow up next right in the middle of your

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Speaker 2: first date follow up and if you're just joining us.

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Speaker 2: Alyssa is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a dude named Bryce. So we're about to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Alyssa,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up on your situation real quick?

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Speaker 1: Okay? So perfectly met on Instagram and when we met

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Speaker 1: in person it was like over the top, like chemistry,

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Speaker 1: super amazing making up by the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: and then just like nothing.

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Speaker 6: For two weeks.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like almost concerned at this point because there

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Speaker 1: and it was almost too perfect.

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Speaker 6: So I'm like, what is going on?

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Speaker 4: Are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Okay, here we go. Hello him, I speak to Bryce please.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, this is Brice Bryce.

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Speaker 4: How you doing?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jeubel and I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Bryce Whole shows Here. My name's Nina Hi, and

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Speaker 4: I'm Victorian. How are you?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, No, I haven't.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, okay, do apologize for just try to do

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Speaker 2: better in the future. Well, we do a segment on

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Speaker 2: our show called the First Aid follow Up. What that

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Speaker 2: is is if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 2: someone and you end up ghosting them, that person can

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Speaker 2: email us to get you on the phone and ask

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Speaker 2: why you're ghosting. Oh okay, so you're ghosting somebody and

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Speaker 2: they emailed us. Do you have any idea who that

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: I do.

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Speaker 4: Okay, where do you think it is?

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Speaker 8: I think it's probably Alissa.

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Speaker 4: You are probably correct.

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Speaker 2: Alyssa emailed us and told us about your date and

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Speaker 2: she's confused, So would you mind telling us why you're

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Speaker 2: a ghostinger?

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Speaker 6: Okay, No, it was Listen, it was a great day.

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Speaker 8: I didn't expect it to be that great actually, and

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Speaker 8: she was kind of amazing. And we we did.

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Speaker 6: We really hit it off.

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Speaker 8: I mean, we got along, we connected on you know

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Speaker 8: a lot of important things like that are in a lot.

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Speaker 8: I mean, obviously our dogs. I'm sure she probably told

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Speaker 4: You know, this is kind of.

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Speaker 6: A whole thing. And no, it was great.

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Speaker 4: It was a lot.

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Speaker 8: It was kind of one of I just had this

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Speaker 8: I don't know if I'm I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 8: When we went out, I kind of was one of

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Speaker 8: which I think is probably where this is going to go.

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Speaker 8: And I don't want to, you know, string it out

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Speaker 5: But does it feel like you just skipped a lot

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Speaker 8: and I just I just I don't I don't want to,

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Speaker 8: I guess I don't want to get a bad reputation already,

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Speaker 5: Know, well, because you think you're to date other girls

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Speaker 6: I'm just worried. Yeah, I'm worried that, you know.

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Speaker 8: I'm just I'm going to end up not actually having

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Speaker 8: it's you know, it's not really you know, I don't

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. I don't really know what to say.

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Speaker 4: I'm just worried that you're gonna fall in love too quickly.

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Speaker 5: I mean I think that that's pretty cool when you

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Speaker 6: I mean yeah, but.

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Speaker 8: It's like, you know, I just got here, and it's like,

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Speaker 8: is this really happening? Like it's it's scary and maybe

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Speaker 8: I am over, you know.

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Speaker 9: I kind of almost want to ask, like, are you

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Speaker 9: sure you don't just want to be single for a

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Speaker 9: little bit, Like it's kind of sounds like you move

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Speaker 9: to a new city, you just want to play the field,

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Speaker 6: I mean, there's a bit of that, but I'm also like.

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Speaker 8: At an age where it's like, you know, I would

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Speaker 8: like instability, I would like somebody to kind of share

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Speaker 8: so it's like am I already making that step, you know,

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Speaker 6: Just got here?

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Speaker 4: So well, thank you for being honest with us. I

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Speaker 4: appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: And now I'll let you know that Alissa's actually been

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Speaker 2: listening to this conversation.

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Speaker 4: She's on the phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Hi, Hi, Sorry, not trying to like

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Speaker 1: make it weird, maybe too late.

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Speaker 6: But thanks for answering that question.

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Speaker 1: Like I was definitely curious, you know what happened, because

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Speaker 1: I thought I was like, Okay, this is like too perfect,

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Speaker 1: you know, and it's definitely not me.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, no offense, Like I was just like okay, like

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Speaker 3: just because we had so much fun and there was

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Speaker 3: idea that you were going through so much on your own.

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Speaker 6: But we can take things slow.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be like you know, this runaway

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Speaker 1: train that like I'm not like rushing to the altar

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Speaker 1: like tomorrow.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I would.

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Speaker 1: Veous like I'm down, but I also, you know, don't

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Speaker 1: necessarily want to get married by Elvis. So but we

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Speaker 1: can like chill, you know, like I'm totally down to

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Speaker 1: hang out more and you know, like just kind kind

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Speaker 1: of get to know each other better while you're still

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Speaker 1: kind of learning ropes of you know, like a new place.

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Speaker 1: And it can be a lot all at once. But

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Speaker 1: it's more fun if you're hanging out with someone that you.

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Speaker 8: Like, right, I mean, if if you're if you can

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Speaker 8: understand and like want to take it slow, because I

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Speaker 8: mean that date was they got pretty fast.

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Speaker 6: But I mean, yeah, we can just take it slow.

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Speaker 8: I think, uh, I can give.

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Speaker 4: Me try, right, will you go on another date with LISTA?

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it?

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Speaker 8: Oh well yeah, absolutely.

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Speaker 6: Wow, we're the winners of the second date, It's My

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Speaker 1: Today's first date follow up