1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: My mom is trying to steal my liver to save 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: her life. The thing is, I don't really care if 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: she dies? Am I the a hole? 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 2: You know how they say like, oh, that's just chopped liver, 5 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 2: you know, like like it's nothing, Like it's useless. 6 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 3: You know, it's nothing. 7 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 1: It's well maybe it is what Maybe you're useless? You know, 8 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: back in my day, you have to work with your 9 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: own kid Wow, kidneys weren't just given to you, Willy nilpe. 10 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: So you know what, Mom, don't your own kidney shit? 11 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: You know? 12 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 3: Wow? 13 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 1: Survive on your own? How about that? How about that? 14 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: They're always saying, gen Z, gen Z, you're never working? Well, well, 15 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 1: why don't your kidneys work? Well? Oh snap, why don't 16 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: your kidneys come on? 17 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 2: Now? 18 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: Maybe uh maybe uh maybe you need to be more spry. 19 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 1: Maybe uh maybe put some more kid in it, you 20 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: know that's right. 21 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, put the kid in the knee, you know what 22 00:00:58,040 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 3: I mean? 23 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: Put that kid in the knee, all right. Anyway, So 24 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: when I was a kid, my mom was pretty awful 25 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: to me and my siblings, resentful, a bit of a bully, 26 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,399 Speaker 1: never hugged any of us, and manly told us how 27 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: we ruined her life. Dang, you get the picture. I 28 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 1: moved out at seventeen to keep my handity sounds like 29 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: a lovely homework. So nice, so nice. Thanks mom for 30 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: giving me all this trauma that I could turn into 31 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: a Reddit story and get red on. Okayoo yo, that's 32 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: called silver linings. Learn about it, read about it, and 33 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: incorporate it in here. Oh yeah, I'm twenty eight now 34 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: and have never had much of a relationship with her 35 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: after moving out, as she never once admitted that she 36 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: had done something really effed up to us. I mean, 37 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like if mama can't even you know, 38 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: make her kidneys work, then how is she gonna make 39 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: her brain work. 40 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 3: Make this relationship work. Am I right? 41 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like she's she's really doing too good 42 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: on making things work. My sister is married, has two kids. 43 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: My brother is divorced with three kids. I got a 44 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: call from the hospital that my mom managed to drink 45 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: her liver out of order and needs a transplant. All 46 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 1: of us siblings were found out to be a match. 47 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: My sister and brother once they realized that cutting out 48 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: part of your liver isn't risk free, backed out. I 49 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: was told I have something called sidis and versus, meaning 50 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 1: my organs are abnormally placed, and that it would make 51 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:31,119 Speaker 1: the risk of surgery higher for me four percent risk 52 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: of death within two weeks of surgery and higher risk 53 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: of other awful shit happening, and of course one hundred 54 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: percent guarantee that my mother will drink away that liver too. 55 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 56 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 3: That's the other thing is you're almost like enabling. 57 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: I guess you drank away your liver. Just live with it, 58 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, you know? 59 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 3: Wow. 60 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: Now, everyone, the doctor, my mom, siblings, everyone is telling 61 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 1: me I should do it because I don't have kids, 62 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: So who cares if the risk is high you have kids, useless, 63 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 1: You're a waste of human life. You're not popping out 64 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: babies like a gatling gun. Well maybe you should be. Yeah, 65 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 1: you know, come on, well, why don't you add to 66 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 1: the population. Why do you add over population? Now? You know, 67 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: I want more mouths for this world's right. This pissed 68 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: me off. My family never valued my lifestyle as a 69 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: decided not to do life by the script about a 70 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: cabin in the wilderness in the north and work from home, 71 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: so I rarely have to leave my lovely little hideaway. 72 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: I make enough money to live the life I have 73 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: always dreamed of, but apparently that does not count since 74 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: I don't want kicks. And my mom, who never cared 75 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: if I lived or died, suddenly thinks she deserves my 76 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: liver because she gave birth to me. You're nothing but 77 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 1: a liver carrier. You know, you're you're. I like you 78 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: to eventually kill you for your liver. 79 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 3: She's she's, she's a vending machine of organs. You know. 80 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 3: It's like B three liver, please. 81 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: Yes, please give it. It's like a it's like a 82 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 1: little little uh uh what's it called where you like, 83 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 1: like you know those pigs that they put in like 84 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: the tubs, and it's like, let me give me your 85 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: liver after I grow you. Ope, he is nothing but 86 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: an object to harvest organs from a meat factory. If 87 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 1: you will, a meat factory, give me your organ I want, 88 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:40,840 Speaker 1: and please mix that with a you know, double shot 89 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 1: of martini. Give me a dirty Bertie. Give me a 90 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: dirty Martini and your liver. Please. 91 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 3: That's not I want. Now, that's my favorite drink. 92 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 1: A shaken, not stirred, filtered, not poisoned, live or not dead. Nice? 93 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:02,919 Speaker 1: All right. The fact that She then spent seventeen years 94 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: bullying me is irrelevant because family and kids are a 95 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: gift from God. 96 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 3: Well fuck them all. 97 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,119 Speaker 1: The doctor said to me, well, it is an increased risk, 98 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 1: but your mother needs a new liver. At least you 99 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 1: don't risk leaving children behind. 100 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 3: Fuck that. 101 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: I was so stunned I forgot the entire Swedish language 102 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: and just sat there. I'm guessing, oh piece from sweetens. Ah, 103 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: what did I just hear? And who will care for my. 104 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,160 Speaker 3: Pets if I die? Opie's a dog ball? 105 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: You know, babies, I'm a fir babies and my mom. 106 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 3: I gave you my life. You should do the same 107 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 3: for me. 108 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 4: After all, I gave you my best years and raising 109 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 4: you were no job. 110 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, guess what. You're a joke, Mama. 111 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 1: You're a joke, mama. 112 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 3: Fucking guy ha. 113 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: Hi on the deathbed, I want your blood to fall 114 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 1: through the bed and I want that doctor to slip 115 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 1: on the blood and you know what, Doc, maybe maybe 116 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: cut out your liver while you're bleeding out in the 117 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: floor and give it to mom. Oh my, I want 118 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 1: that all down. Yeah. She also gave me two fractured 119 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: ribs and one time locked me out of the house 120 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: in the middle of winter, and I had to smash 121 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: a window with my hand to get in. 122 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 123 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: So you can suffice to say, you know, the relationship 124 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: was great and OP should just get. 125 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 3: Over another of the Year award. 126 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: I can't believe I even tried that. I agreed to 127 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: be tested as a donor, as if she would have 128 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 1: magically changed. I'm leaving the city tonight, taking the train north, 129 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 1: and will hopefully be back in my cozy home tomorrow. 130 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: When the doctor calls to hear my decision. I might 131 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: not even pick up cold. Guess what, John, what. 132 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 3: There's a freaking up date? 133 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: Oh goodness, Oh wow. OP sent an image of where 134 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: they live and it's beautiful. Okay, So I just wanted 135 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: to write a short update, all right. So I had 136 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: spoken to the people involved, my mom, my siblings, and 137 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: the medical staff, and then told everyone that I won't 138 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: donate a part of my liver to my alcoholic mother. 139 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: A doctor at the hospital where my mother was treated 140 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: initially when her liver crash simply said, I understand, but 141 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: that also means that I must inform you you need 142 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: to prepare to say goodbye to her in a not 143 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: so distant future. I might not particularly like my mother, 144 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: but I don't wish death on anyone, so that sucks. 145 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: But again, she drank her own liver away. It took 146 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: years of hard work to reach the place where she 147 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: is now. She's been to several clinics, gotten all sorts 148 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: of help. She would stay until they stopped treating her 149 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,520 Speaker 1: with oxes canned, and then check out and start it 150 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: all over again. So much of the taxpayer's money has 151 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: been spent and thrown away on her, and she refuses 152 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 1: to take any responsibility at all. Basically, she's a waste 153 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: of money and a waste of wah. God, it's always 154 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: the nurses or the doctor's fault that she drinks. 155 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 4: They don't get they don't give me the right treatment. 156 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 4: Like all I need is a dirty mark. She could 157 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 4: not stir it's erectly into the blood streets. 158 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 3: Perfect. 159 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, just I know how torself better. I think she 160 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: would do the same to any donated liver. And I 161 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: told the doctor this. My sister said that she understood, 162 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 1: and now that things have had time to calm down 163 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: a bit, she even said that she thinks it's the 164 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: right thing to do. My brother does not agree with 165 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: my decision, So maybe donate your own liver, bro, come on, yeah, God, 166 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:43,719 Speaker 1: which actually he said, And I told him that he 167 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: can donate a nice size of his own liver then, 168 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,680 Speaker 1: but then, of course he tells me he can't because 169 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: he's got kids and it's too much of a risk 170 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 1: for him. Bro, just because you have kids doesn't make 171 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: your life worth immediately more than mine. 172 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:02,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, where's your nice cabin? You know what? What have 173 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 3: you built? 174 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? Where are your fur baby? 175 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 176 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:08,959 Speaker 1: Come on? I, on the other hand, and am obviously 177 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: disposable God and my mother, so I honestly can't be 178 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: bothered to type it out. I phoned her to tell 179 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: her that she will not be getting my liver, which 180 00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: is such a weird tech staff to say, and as expected, 181 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: she went from jovial to resentful by the drop of 182 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 1: a hat. Everything from I'm your mother, you only. 183 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 3: Get one mother. 184 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: Too, you must be there for family was throw it 185 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: at me. She even referred to the fact that I 186 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: once risked my life for my dog when she went 187 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: through the ice on a frozen leg. But you won't 188 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: do this for your mom, No, no, I will not. Actually, 189 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: she said many awful things. I guess I can understand 190 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: that she's upset and scared, but even I have a 191 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 1: limit to how much of that shit I'm willing to stand. 192 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: So eventually, I just said I'm done and I hung up. 193 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: Kick any clack, don't call back. Not sure what to 194 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: expect now, don't really care either. I'm glad that my 195 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: sister came around. Perhaps my brother will if given time. 196 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 1: Maybe not. Either way, I'm happy to have made my 197 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 1: decision clear. Now that it's done, I can get back 198 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 1: to enjoying my life far from the mall, in the 199 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: comfort of my home and the company of my awesome dogs. 200 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: Wow, well there, Yeah, I have it. 201 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:36,079 Speaker 2: My goodness, hope he's colder than an. 202 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,839 Speaker 3: Ice liver fresh off the surgery. 203 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: Colder than her dog when it fell through the ice. 204 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, So my question is if your parents 205 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: was dying of liver cancer, would you give your liver 206 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: to them? Let's let's say they don't have a drinking problem, 207 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: they just had liver cancer. Would you give your liver 208 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 1: to your mom or dad? Me part of your liver 209 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:58,719 Speaker 1: a slice? Yeah, would you give your I want to 210 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: hear I want to hear what everyone else is moment 211 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 1: size and why, but John, you would? 212 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like my mom is not like this mom, 213 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 2: like this mom is crazy. Yeah, no, I would. I 214 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 2: would definitely do it. Is I actually never knew because 215 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,439 Speaker 2: I knew, like what you have like two kidneys, so 216 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: you can like remove a kidney and you're fairly okay. 217 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 2: I never knew you could do part of a liver, 218 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 2: Like that's so interesting. 219 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: You can't? Yeah, yes you can. 220 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 2: I would personally do it, but I think I think 221 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 2: it's also an interesting scenario of like putting yourself in 222 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 2: opie shoes, of like, if this person is your mom, 223 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 2: would you do the same. 224 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: Thing If this person is my mom? I wouldn't. If 225 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 1: it was my actual mom, I would if like like 226 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: my mom currently, I would. I would give her my liver. 227 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but where do you give your liver to 228 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 1: your mom? Put your answers in the comments and tell 229 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 1: us why. But you know what? We love. 230 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 2: We love the thoughts and comments of our beautiful public subscribers. 231 00:11:59,120 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 3: Let me read a few t you. 232 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 2: These come from the video Sleeping with My Sister's husband, 233 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 2: Psycho Roommates and Destroyed Marriages. This comment is from public 234 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 2: subscriber Twin Sisters Sam's voice is my only therapy. 235 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 1: Oh God, thank you very much. 236 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 3: Good gravy. 237 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: Let me just whisper nothing's sweet, nothing into your ear. Also, 238 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: I am recently signured more reasons to flood Sam's LEAs signal, 239 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 1: So please flood GMS at Samuel Donners. 240 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: Oh goodness. 241 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 2: Public subscriber Kira Redholmes says I kicked my twenty six 242 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 2: cousin forty female out after a little over a month 243 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 2: from my house because she kept pushing my boundaries. Kira, 244 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 2: gotta set those boundaries. 245 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: For sure, set those boundaries. 246 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 3: Come on, especially, come on, you're you're forty, I'm twenty six, 247 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 3: get your own home, come on now. 248 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 2: And then finally, public subscriber Lynn Perez op Worker was awesome. 249 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:07,839 Speaker 2: Love it, Lynn, We love you and all of all 250 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 2: we do amazing public subscribers, so publicly subscribe, drop a 251 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 2: comment and we just. 252 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: Might read it on the next story that we will. 253 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 2: My selfish husband stole my bonus and spend it on himself. 254 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 2: No one takes my money and lives. Am I the 255 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 2: a hole and lives? 256 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 3: Hey? You gotta know what I gotta know? 257 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: Hey, you book my bonus that I dig your knee 258 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 1: gaps and then I dig you life. 259 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 3: One day you're gonna wake up sleeping. 260 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: With the fishes the dollar bills that you. 261 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 3: Saw with the bottom of the That's. 262 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 2: Right, a little. All they found of him was his 263 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 2: little alien inten. 264 00:13:50,040 --> 00:14:00,199 Speaker 1: How sad is that his penis like snow too? I 265 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: don't have this new looked un locket. Yeah, yeah, we 266 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: will a wee union day. Actually maybe maybe yeah, okay, 267 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 1: maybe it is his dick that would be interesting in 268 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 1: the window. Just uh, I have one thing, you know, 269 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: those little aliens and Toy Story, right, what do you 270 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 1: think those intendas are really for? Come on, knowledge be 271 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: an adult being adults? What is it really for? 272 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 3: I mean them them things are stiff like they are. 273 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just I want to look up one thing. 274 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: There has to be has to be. 275 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 3: Oh no, don't saying it. 276 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: What am I gonna say? 277 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 2: You're gonna say, uh uh, fan fic, porn or whatever 278 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 2: of the. 279 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: I know there's that. I'm saying. There has to be 280 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: some like the claw butt plugs. You know, you know 281 00:14:55,800 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: there's like those aliens from Toy Story interesting and there's 282 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 1: probably snow butt plugs too. Let's look up snow snow 283 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 1: but I. 284 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 2: Guess I never thought of the wide array of I 285 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 2: guess you could put It's like a mug. 286 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 3: A plug is a mug. You can put anything on it. 287 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 1: Let's see you read it. Okay, wait, wait wait wait, 288 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: and then it's a toy story alien. If there's not 289 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: a toy story alien butt plug. 290 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 3: Say, won't know what to do with himself. What has 291 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 3: the world come to? 292 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: Bro Wow? Okay, there's not a toy story butt plug, 293 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: but there is a Shrek butt plug. 294 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 3: I mean that one just fits. You know. 295 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 2: It's also so bad. It reminds me of the scene 296 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 2: where he pulls like a candle out of his ear wax. 297 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 2: That's like a little bit what it looks like. Oh 298 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 2: my gosh, just just pulling butt plugs out of his ears. 299 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: Wow, crack butt plugs. 300 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 2: I mean it makes sense. Look, key makes makes sense. 301 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 2: They look like a good branding, good branding. 302 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, he's every ass swamp, He's inside every 303 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 1: swampy ad. 304 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 2: He's just inserted himself right there. This is my swamp 305 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 2: and I'm not leaving. Oh boy, okay, let's talk about 306 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 2: let's talk about up story here. So I am not 307 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 2: sure how to do this or if this is the 308 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:32,119 Speaker 2: right community. 309 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 3: It might be, it might not be. 310 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 2: I would like some objective third party advice I put 311 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 2: for my current situation as I am at a loss. 312 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 3: The history. 313 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 2: My husband, twenty eight male, and I twenty seven female, 314 00:16:43,960 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 2: have been married for about four years now, okay, we 315 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 2: dated in college and got married afterwards. He finished college 316 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 2: with a finance degree and thought he would go into accounting. 317 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 1: Well, big money bags over, Yeah, yeah, there we go. 318 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 3: Buy me a big new car with them big new 319 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 3: money bags. 320 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you know, invest in some ETFs. 321 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, or some some doge coin yeah. 322 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,160 Speaker 1: Wait wait quick quick side note. I was on the beach. 323 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 1: I was surfing and there was a wedding going on 324 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 1: the beach and they were doing the best man and 325 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:20,040 Speaker 1: like best lady speeches and it was literally the most 326 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 1: like stereotypical LA and was. 327 00:17:22,040 --> 00:17:23,880 Speaker 3: Like when I met Brad. 328 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,199 Speaker 1: And then there was a like his best man was 329 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:29,440 Speaker 1: like where I met Brad. He was working in finance 330 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,879 Speaker 1: and I and I barely knew what an ETF was, 331 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: so he told me what an ETF was, and the 332 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:39,399 Speaker 1: dude to the fine ETF. 333 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 3: Wow, wow, interesting is that a typical LA? 334 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I get the finance bro and like communications 335 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: gal right. 336 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 3: Right, yeah, okay, yes, that that makes sense. 337 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:58,360 Speaker 2: My man quickly found out that accounting was not his passion. 338 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 1: The only one who likes the counting is the doll, 339 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 1: the one. 340 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: For fucks I don't give about my new poor boyfriend. 341 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 3: That's right. You better better get your money, a buddy. 342 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 3: Oh you need look out those Come on, get the 343 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 3: two budgeting. I just went into Italian, the Italian. 344 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 1: Arack Tylvanalian like, it's similar counting these noodles, son, it 345 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: is pretty similar. 346 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 2: So he started bouncing around jobs and ideas, business ideas, 347 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 2: being a teacher, being a lawyer, but nothing really kept 348 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 2: him saying, this is. 349 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 3: What I want to do. 350 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: My passion. Man sounds lost. 351 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 2: You know, he's he's lost. He's looking, he's looking for 352 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 2: his purpose over here. You know, aren't we all? 353 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, aren't we all? Except he's poor. 354 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: Now he's poor. You know. Rather, you know what they say, 355 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,919 Speaker 1: it's his easy to marry a rich man as a 356 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 1: poor man. 357 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 3: They say that. 358 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: They say that, so girl divorce. I'm kidding, I'm kidding. 359 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 3: It's cheaper to keeper him. 360 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 1: Is that a thing that people say? Yes, it's cheaper 361 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,959 Speaker 1: to keep her. Yeah, I've never heard that. 362 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's like, actually, I guess it's 363 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 2: kind of like cut your losses and say the relationship. 364 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 3: I don't I don't know if it's actually. 365 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: Cheaper to keeper than to get a divorce. 366 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 3: There we go, it's cheaper keeper. That's it. 367 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:41,400 Speaker 2: Fucked up relationships, right, just like I don't know if 368 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 2: that one is is one that I think that's one's 369 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 2: more of a joke of like, oh, hey, like, don't 370 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:47,119 Speaker 2: get a divorce. 371 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 3: Because cheaper to keep. Hilarious. 372 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 2: This was pre COVID. Since COVID, he has not attempted anything. 373 00:19:57,119 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 2: And he said, oh for god, oh God, oh God. 374 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 2: He says, after the pandemic there will be a boom 375 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 2: and jobs and he can find something easily then that 376 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 2: he's passionate about. 377 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: Man is the king of procrastination. I'm telling you, when 378 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: this pandemic blows over, that all up for something. 379 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 3: There's gonna be so many job offers. I like won't 380 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:23,920 Speaker 3: know what top. 381 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: It's gonna be oozing out of my dick. There's gonna 382 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 1: be so many job off this. 383 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 3: God. 384 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 2: I've been working full time and thankfully my job became 385 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 2: remote and pays the bills while putting food on the table. 386 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 1: What is he doing all that? That is like such 387 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 1: a game like masturbating? 388 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:42,439 Speaker 3: Babe. 389 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 2: I gotta I gotta hit this sport high scoring cod 390 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 2: before all these two jobs come in. 391 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 1: Bababe, I gotta get my one arm workout in. This 392 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 1: is for you. 393 00:20:52,400 --> 00:20:55,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll be so strong when I'm lifting you with 394 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:56,439 Speaker 2: one hand. 395 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, have you seen that one episode of Rick 396 00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: and Morty where Morty and jet his arm and has 397 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 1: a giant arm. That's gonna be my physique just for you. 398 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 3: Oh, just you wait. 399 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 2: I'll have a new job and a strong freaking arm 400 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 2: to do all do all the dirty deeds I need. 401 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, wow, what what a what a kind thoughtful 402 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 2: guy is over here? 403 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 1: I know the kindness sounds like an absolute cockbag. Oh man, 404 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 1: he should peg him? 405 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 3: We should, yeah, further to mean. 406 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 1: Him if we peg him, well, I guess I guess 407 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 1: a man can peg another man. He just uses no 408 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 1: trap on. Yeah we should say we should we should 409 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 1: have but but but sexual intercourse with him. 410 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 3: Maybe, you know, just to really teach him a lesson. 411 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:53,359 Speaker 2: Okay, you better watch consensual but yeah, we better watch's boyfriend. 412 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna steal your man. 413 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 3: We're gonna We're gonna make a man out of your man. 414 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 3: I'll make a man out of you. Your new version 415 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 3: of the song of twenty twenty three editions. 416 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: Oh boy, Central butt sex is punishment, that's right. Just 417 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: you wait, that's punishment for Op. Yeah, maybe it's not. 418 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 1: I feel like it's taking a yeah, taking this this 419 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 1: dirtbag off, or he's like. 420 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 3: WHOA, twist my arm? 421 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: You know? 422 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 3: Oh, you know, I'm. 423 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:27,159 Speaker 1: Not doing anything. 424 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 3: I guess anyway, So yeah, I guess. I hit my 425 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 3: high score on cod today. So I hit my. 426 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,919 Speaker 1: Twitch stream and I masturbated seven times. But balls are 427 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 1: dreams as well. 428 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 3: That was kind gentleman out over here. 429 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, at least I could be. 430 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 2: Oh boy, well, onto the incident in question. After the 431 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 2: fiscal year closed out. After the fiscal year closed out, 432 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 2: my work was really well well selling medical testing equipment. 433 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 2: We sell medical testing equipment, so it was a big 434 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 2: product of twenty twenty. 435 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 3: So yeah, Op was. 436 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 1: Probably he's probably racking it in, yes, sir ras racks. 437 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I was given a promotion. I got a 438 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 2: little pay raise and a small bonus. Nice work. 439 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:24,000 Speaker 1: Cool. 440 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:28,159 Speaker 2: I was really excited because I could finally repair my 441 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:32,879 Speaker 2: purse and replace my shoes. My friend's puppy destroyed it, 442 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 2: but I acknowledge I should not have left my purse 443 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: on such a low stool in front of the puppy's bed. 444 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 2: So my fault side note, totally not your falt, topee. 445 00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:43,479 Speaker 2: The friend should totally. 446 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,399 Speaker 1: The friend should pay for that. 447 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:46,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent. 448 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,199 Speaker 1: My dog ripped apart. And unless they like put it 449 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 1: in their doggie cage or something like if if my 450 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 1: friend had their purse destroyed by my dog, I'm out. 451 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:00,440 Speaker 3: I would feel like ship. 452 00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:02,840 Speaker 1: I would pay for that ship. 453 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 2: Instantly, unless they're tempting it as like a like, hey, 454 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 2: what are you ready? 455 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:12,920 Speaker 3: You can't? Yeah, yeah, that's that's the only way you 456 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 3: should pay for that OPI. 457 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's ridiculous. My god, ship bro. 458 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,159 Speaker 2: I was so excited to tell my husband, but he 459 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 2: seemed more excited than me over this promotion. 460 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:28,440 Speaker 3: Why so excited? Oh god, I'm smiling like that. I 461 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 3: hate where I hate what is what is cooking right now? 462 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 3: I can feel it, feel it, bubba. 463 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:34,439 Speaker 1: I have no idea. 464 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,360 Speaker 3: You can ask for something or he's expecting some kind 465 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 3: of It's gonna be so dumb. He started going off 466 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 3: on how he could no Sam. 467 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes we're too accurate when we're joking. 468 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 1: Okay. 469 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 3: He started going off on how. 470 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 2: He could redo his game area and get the nice 471 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 2: new system since he was tired of his others. 472 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: Bro, why would she get you something that's just gonna 473 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: make you more of a piece of ship? 474 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 2: Babe, I've used this PS four to dif I play it, 475 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 2: my God like it's been through enough. We need to 476 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 2: put it. 477 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 1: Hard at work, doing your work. I'm hard at work 478 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:22,680 Speaker 1: getting high in the ranking. Those God rankings aren't gonna 479 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 1: rank themselves. 480 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, babe. When you see the graphics, 481 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 2: you will you'll. 482 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 3: Buy two of them. 483 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:28,879 Speaker 1: Babe. 484 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,640 Speaker 3: You won't be able to help it. You'll want one 485 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 3: for yourself. 486 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,760 Speaker 1: Baby, I want you to. I'm gonna paint a picture 487 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 1: I've heard of Ninja. You're looking at the next Ninja 488 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 1: right here. 489 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,439 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm gonna be pro, Babe. 490 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 2: I swear I'm gonna get so much of this Twitch 491 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 2: streaming money. 492 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,920 Speaker 1: It's gonna be in. Yeah. I have one person watching, 493 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 1: and it's my mom. But let me tell you she 494 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 1: told the cause. 495 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, my average my average monthly donation is like 496 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,200 Speaker 2: a hundred bucks. So my mom is like totally proving 497 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 2: my mom. 498 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, if I just get ten more of those babes, 499 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 1: but just have ten more moms, are you kidding me? 500 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:08,880 Speaker 1: A thousand bucks a month? 501 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 3: That's what I call them, My mom's fans. 502 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:17,240 Speaker 1: That for my nachos, and game that pays for every 503 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 1: nacho and all of the the in game money that 504 00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: I use. Every month, I'll buy you one hundred Gucci 505 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: birches versus babe. Yeah, just just just wait a few years. 506 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,919 Speaker 2: I just need one more little investment right now, and 507 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 2: they just need to dye my hair to green to 508 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 2: compete with Ninja. Remember when I was been financed, Babe, 509 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:39,120 Speaker 2: it's called r OI. Yeah, called an investment. You gotta 510 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 2: let it cook, not. 511 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 3: Fuck this guy. I was dumbfounded. 512 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,200 Speaker 2: I got really quiet because I almost could not believe 513 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 2: what he was saying. He eventually goes out and gets 514 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 2: himself a new system chair and a mouse. 515 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 1: Bro is man? Is man trying to go pro? 516 00:26:59,320 --> 00:26:59,439 Speaker 3: Like? 517 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,120 Speaker 1: Is he trying to become a streamer? 518 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 3: What is he like? He? 519 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,360 Speaker 2: It would have been one thing, actually, what we were 520 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,680 Speaker 2: jokingly saying would have been better than what he did. 521 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 2: He was just like, I need a new gaming setup 522 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:11,719 Speaker 2: and just goes and buys it. 523 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:12,720 Speaker 1: That's pretty shitty. 524 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 2: Wow, he had basically spent my bonus. Oh my god. 525 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 2: I was so upset and ultimately hurt a numb. We 526 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 2: ended up getting into an argument and he called me 527 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 2: selfish for not being happy that he got to achieve 528 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 2: his dream and I'm being spoiled for being upset that 529 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: I couldn't spend this money on me. First, it's her money, Sam, 530 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 2: can I just it would be different. 531 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,360 Speaker 1: Like they're married, right, so it's like technically both their 532 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 1: money or whatever. But it would be different if he 533 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:49,880 Speaker 1: was like taking care of kids or like even helping 534 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,960 Speaker 1: around the house. But it seems like he's doing nothing. 535 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 2: Literally like yeah, she I feel like she would at 536 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,160 Speaker 2: least mention it of like, oh, hey, he at least 537 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 2: did this, like he took He takes care of everything. 538 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 2: So outside of work, I clock out. I don't kind 539 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 2: to do anything else. Boom, that could be fine. 540 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 1: Sully, I get off the clock. He's massaging my feet, 541 00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: you know. Boom, that sounds great. Sam expects his woman 542 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 1: to do. Samuel Donner secretly exposed sexus Sam goes on 543 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 1: another rant on Oko p Oh my goodness, just kidding. 544 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 1: I do not expect my future wife to give me 545 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:30,400 Speaker 1: foot rubs exactly. 546 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:31,919 Speaker 3: He also expects. 547 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: You get to work. 548 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 3: You think one of these is gonna cut it? Babe? 549 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 3: I need the real deal. Shout up. Actually, don't shout 550 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 3: them out, because they have. 551 00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 1: Sp responsors on this podcast. 552 00:28:58,360 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 3: Oh my god, we're having fun today, guys. 553 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 2: I basically called him an ungrateful ahole and asked, why 554 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 2: does he deserve new stuff when I have been providing? 555 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: I mean, true, yes, true. What is this dude doing? 556 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 1: I just I just want to know what he's actually like. 557 00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: How is he helping? 558 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 2: From all we know right now, it sounds like in 559 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 2: video games he feel. 560 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 1: Is at least trying to be eye candy. 561 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 2: I think I think the same way he would double 562 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 2: down on his investments. He's doubling down on being a 563 00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:32,280 Speaker 2: lazy piece of shit. 564 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 3: Oh god. 565 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,320 Speaker 2: He got really quiet on that one and just stormed out, 566 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 2: saying that he would be staying with his family. Good god, yeah, 567 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 2: really only about an hour away. And I've been getting 568 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 2: angry calls and. 569 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 3: Texts due to the fact that he doesn't feel supported 570 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 3: in his own home. 571 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: And if I'm making supported doing what what is he 572 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: need like supported doing what? 573 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 3: Just being being a hot pie. 574 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 1: Like lanes of God? 575 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, getting getting the ultimate rank like buddy no. And 576 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 2: if I'm making the money, then I can get whatever 577 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 2: I want when I want. And I shouldn't throw it 578 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 2: in his face that he doesn't have an incumb but 579 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 2: he's not trying. That's the thing, Like it's okay to 580 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 2: be down your luck, but if you're down on luck, 581 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 2: your luck fucking try literally like anything like like get 582 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,680 Speaker 2: get a little like a part time anything. While you're like, look, 583 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 2: I don't know, like there's something apply to jobs like show. 584 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, or if you are like like you could be 585 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: a streamer, you know, like that you could do that, 586 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 1: you know, but I actually try. 587 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:52,080 Speaker 3: What if he's just like what if he see really 588 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,240 Speaker 3: just like killing out like dream? 589 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like his dream and he's literally making like 590 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:02,920 Speaker 2: millions of dollars in just not telling it, just like 591 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 2: so siphoning money away from her, just like stock piling. 592 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 2: He's like, you have no idea all the all the 593 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,720 Speaker 2: hot streamer babes are gonna be love me once I 594 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 2: get a. 595 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 3: Hot they're gonna be coming around for Miles. They're all 596 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 3: gonna want me, baby. 597 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: I love those big titty goths, oh god, which is 598 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,760 Speaker 1: not true. I'm not saying that, but they don't love 599 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 1: big titty goths. 600 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 3: This is O P. S. 601 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 1: Thinking. 602 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm reading a story no about her like throwing 603 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 2: it in his face. 604 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 3: Yes, p s A. I like how I like how 605 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 3: Sam's p s. A. Is he's sexist in mind? Is 606 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 3: I hate big titty goths. I'll oh man, poor Sam. 607 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 3: He's always painted as the villain on the show for 608 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 3: no reason. I'll take all the big titty gothas myself. Yeah, 609 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 3: the more, the more, there we go, I'll take for 610 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 3: the wow. 611 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 1: So glad. 612 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 3: I'm always sacrificed. 613 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,840 Speaker 1: You know. I will care for the big titty gothic. 614 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: There we go, Shepherd, he cares for sheep exactly. 615 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 616 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 2: Uh, I'm trying to keep a roof over his head 617 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 2: and food on the table. All of his friends and 618 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 2: family think I'm way overreacting to something that makes my 619 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 2: husband happy. 620 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: So dumb, you get a fucking job, Get a job, 621 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 1: get a job. 622 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 2: Get it, or just just contribute or work in some 623 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,760 Speaker 2: way manner or fashion. Do anything but play video games 624 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 2: and steal money. Do anything about that? 625 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 1: Get a hobby, Get a hobby. 626 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 3: I don't know maker her well technically, yeah. 627 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 1: Take up skateboarding. There you're sick exactly. Yeah, my god, 628 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 1: he's shredding. Yeah wow, oh god, you know, maybe maybe 629 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 1: I want him just sit around all day and tread. 630 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 1: I just I'm just fucking horned, watching soaking with every 631 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: every this, this skate bark. It looks like it has 632 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,400 Speaker 1: just been rained on my god. 633 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 3: Oh man. And the next time we get a large 634 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 3: sum of money, my husband said that he would let 635 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:21,560 Speaker 3: me repair my purse. 636 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 1: Yikes. 637 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 3: I'm ready to try divorce. 638 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 2: I'm John's ready to throw hands. I'm from this guy 639 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:35,480 Speaker 2: coming back with my money. No, I haven't responded, and 640 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 2: don't think I will for a few days. But I've 641 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 2: gotten so many You're such a bee and you're the 642 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 2: a hole. I'm starting to wonder if I really am. 643 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 2: I don't so there is uh oh wow. A pretty 644 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 2: meaty update update, a juicy up. But I mean, I 645 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 2: guess the question is is the ale actually is maybe 646 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 2: the question should what should OP do? 647 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,320 Speaker 1: Now? Well, first, do you think OP is a hole? 648 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:06,000 Speaker 3: Yes? What should is OP? 649 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 2: The a hole? 650 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 1: What should op do Yeah, let us know in the 651 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,319 Speaker 1: comments when you say comments right now, But Sam, break 652 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: it down, well, I think I feel like no matter 653 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: the gender of your partner, just like bring something to 654 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 1: the table is important correct or the important like for 655 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 1: for the relationship, but also for the individual. Like I 656 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 1: think if like someone like doesn't have any purpose and 657 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: it's just like doing nothing, they're going to be sad 658 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:35,280 Speaker 1: long term. And but that could look like a different 659 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,160 Speaker 1: bunch of ways. It could look like, you know, helping 660 00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 1: out with the house. It can look like taking care 661 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 1: of kids. But if you're in like an apartment, I 662 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 1: don't know if that's when you know, tak it out. 663 00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 2: I mean maybe, yeah, I think you could be like, hey, 664 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 2: every single thing outside of your job I'm going to 665 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 2: handle so you don't have to like think how nice 666 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 2: it would be to like that that that that would 667 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,600 Speaker 2: be I feel like that would be a worthy thing 668 00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 2: to offer to contribute. 669 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:04,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, or just and I think the I think Ope's 670 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 1: husband just needs to I don't know what does Ope 671 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 1: do like because I'm like, do you do you say, hey, 672 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 1: you really needed to start looking for a job. I 673 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,959 Speaker 1: don't I don't like where this relationship is heading. 674 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:17,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think you sit down and you're 675 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 2: liking to that point, Okay, that's like mandatory. You have 676 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:22,839 Speaker 2: to get a job or you have to start looking 677 00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 2: for a job and be like, I feel so like 678 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 2: I don't know me. 679 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:27,520 Speaker 3: I'd be like, I. 680 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,839 Speaker 2: Feel like disrespected that you would like, you know, take 681 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 2: this money that was a bonus that I've been providing 682 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,520 Speaker 2: for all this time, and that you kind of got 683 00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:36,320 Speaker 2: your family to turn on me, Like I feel like 684 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 2: just going through whatever, uh whatever is hurting Ope from 685 00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,239 Speaker 2: this interaction and being like this is not. 686 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 1: How the how the family could even be on against him. 687 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:51,120 Speaker 2: He's probably he's probably feeding them like wise, Yeah, all right, 688 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 2: well I'll see that this update. Let's see, let's see. 689 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 2: I was not expecting this kind of support. I appreciate 690 00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 2: all the kind messages and compassion. This is more than 691 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 2: I've ever felt in my life. So thank you read it? 692 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,920 Speaker 2: Oh OPI my god, Well you definitely deserve it. I 693 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,840 Speaker 2: took the weekend to reflect on what I want and 694 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,399 Speaker 2: read through the comments and messages. I see your point 695 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 2: and that I can't keep treating this like a marriage 696 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:16,319 Speaker 2: if he doesn't. So here's to today and my first 697 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:21,360 Speaker 2: steps towards freedom. I am separating the finances immediately and 698 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 2: contacting a local lawyer to see my options and rights. 699 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 2: Are we going through divorce? 700 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,000 Speaker 3: That might be where we're headed. 701 00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 2: I think she's just kind of like getting all her 702 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 2: ducks in a row at a minimum. 703 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 1: And then shoot the ducks. 704 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:39,840 Speaker 2: But now, as well as therapy options for him, I 705 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 2: will present this to him and he gets to choose. 706 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 3: But I refuse to baby an almost thirty year old. 707 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:48,319 Speaker 3: If he wants that, well, he has his mother. 708 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:53,960 Speaker 1: Okay, so it sounds like she's like, I'm separating the expenses, 709 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 1: you support yourself. 710 00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:59,320 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yeah, yeah, which is smart kind of I 711 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 2: think situation Yeah yeah yeah. Thank you to everyone. I 712 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 2: will try to update in the future, and we have 713 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:06,880 Speaker 2: one final update. 714 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:07,280 Speaker 1: Okay. 715 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 2: I want to thank everyone who reached out and snapped 716 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 2: me out of this daze with my soon to be ect. 717 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,320 Speaker 2: I mean, we saw this coming, we saw it, we 718 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,919 Speaker 2: saw it coming. He was extremely toxic and just made 719 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 2: me feel not worth anything. Thus probably why it was 720 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,759 Speaker 2: so hard to see he wasn't it. So I want 721 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,439 Speaker 2: to thank everyone who offered words of encouragement and even 722 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,719 Speaker 2: the tough love I needed to hear it. After we 723 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 2: went back to his parents, he was waiting for my apology, 724 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 2: which I never did, and when he noticed I drained 725 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 2: our joint bank account, he escalated, saying I was his 726 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 2: and how I could never actually leaved him and that 727 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,719 Speaker 2: he owned me. Oh my god, God, this guy went 728 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 2: from like piece of crowd, just like the bottom of 729 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:57,239 Speaker 2: vagor piece of my god, all of my success was 730 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,279 Speaker 2: his and without him I would be a loser drop out. 731 00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 3: Bro, have you looked at a mirror. 732 00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:06,120 Speaker 1: You're the guy who's playing video games all day. 733 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 3: Mine doesn't have a job. Dude. 734 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 1: If anyone's being the loser dropout, it's you. 735 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 2: It's you. 736 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 3: You dropped out of life. Bro, that's a lot worse. 737 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:21,520 Speaker 3: My god. A you know you know what else? Who 738 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:26,719 Speaker 3: else is a loser drop out? Your boy? Okay, so op, 739 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 3: he is a loser drop out, then drop out. 740 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: Yes, John did drop out of college, but he's not 741 00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:35,920 Speaker 1: a loser drop out. He's like a Marcus Zuckerberg. All right, 742 00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:37,759 Speaker 1: I mean Mark Zuckerberg is not what you want to 743 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 1: be compared to. 744 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:42,680 Speaker 2: He is a He is a non loser dropout. Well, 745 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 2: let's let's wait till the to the to the measuring contest. 746 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:52,480 Speaker 3: And then then maybe maybe I'll take Yeah yeah, oh boy. 747 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:55,440 Speaker 1: By John and jiu jitsu. 748 00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, come at your boy. His family was even worse. 749 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 2: I had already blocked them, so they started making fake 750 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,759 Speaker 2: accounts and using apps to hide their number to harass me. 751 00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 2: Oh my god, saying I ruined their son's life and 752 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 2: how he sacrificed everything to get me where I am 753 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,880 Speaker 2: to throw him to What did he sacrifice? 754 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,160 Speaker 3: He wouldn't even sacrifice his gaming console for your purse. 755 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 2: Literally he got everything, and that this was disgusting and 756 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 2: that I deserve to rot, You deserve to rot. Family, 757 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 2: get a grip. I provided all of this to my lawyer, oh, 758 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 2: who recommended that I take a restraining order in case 759 00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 2: he wanted to escalate further, and not to engage ever, 760 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,160 Speaker 2: but just to keep the record. So this actually, maybe 761 00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:45,760 Speaker 2: this is helping. 762 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 3: Oh p. 763 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 2: Actually this has caused my anxiety to go through the roof, 764 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 2: and I'm working on this with my therapist. I've separated 765 00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 2: the finances completely and change my banks, even told them 766 00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,200 Speaker 2: I soon to be ex is never allowed to access 767 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,799 Speaker 2: these accounts because he would take it all and run. 768 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,160 Speaker 2: I've changed, I have changed my number and gone completely 769 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:08,320 Speaker 2: dark on social media. Besides, this part of me is 770 00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:11,360 Speaker 2: broken that our marriage came to an end over a computer. 771 00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:14,280 Speaker 2: I keep thinking I am stupid and how I couldn't 772 00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 2: see the warning signs. I must look like a fool 773 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 2: to everyone. All in all, Yeah, I don't think you. 774 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:20,279 Speaker 3: Look like a fool. 775 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,920 Speaker 2: No, Like it's it's when you're literally when someone like 776 00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 2: warps your entire like view of everything, and. 777 00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 1: Like you had to have this to happen to like 778 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:32,759 Speaker 1: really break out of it exactly. You know, sometimes it 779 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 1: takes like like I think oftentimes in a relationship that 780 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:41,239 Speaker 1: doesn't work, it's like you get adjusted to a new normal, yes, 781 00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,319 Speaker 1: like sacrifices that you're not really sure you want to make, 782 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:47,600 Speaker 1: and then there is a single action that's. 783 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:50,920 Speaker 2: Just like sound something I like, yeah, exactly breaks you 784 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,879 Speaker 2: out of the matrix. All in all, I'm slowly picking 785 00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:55,839 Speaker 2: up the pieces of my life and figuring out how 786 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,920 Speaker 2: to move forward. Thank you to anyone still reading this, 787 00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 2: and thank you every one who helped get me here. 788 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,560 Speaker 1: Wow, Opie, you've been through the ringer. But I feel 789 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:11,919 Speaker 1: like this is probably the best conclusion that you could 790 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:16,640 Speaker 1: have hoped. Yes, or it sounds like the guy completely 791 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 1: just showed his colors, and honestly, better that he show 792 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 1: you and you get out of it, yes, than like, 793 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 1: you know, him stringing you along. 794 00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 3: Imagine spending your whole life with this guy. I mean, 795 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:30,440 Speaker 3: that would be awful. 796 00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,480 Speaker 1: That's one of my ecks. Actually, that's a huge ic 797 00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:36,440 Speaker 1: spending your life with people who are terrible. That that 798 00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:38,920 Speaker 1: is a big, big, big eck. But you know it's 799 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: not a big ch Oh what Sam? What are Subscribers comment? 800 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I got one right now. Just so just 801 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 1: to show you the opposite end of a couple that 802 00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:54,719 Speaker 1: actually works extremely hard. Public subscriber Kayla does Crochet says 803 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,600 Speaker 1: to answer the grandparents question, I was raised a lot 804 00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,600 Speaker 1: by my maternal grandparents. In my early childhood. My mom 805 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,239 Speaker 1: worked the night shift at a hospital and my dad 806 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: worked a construction job during the day, so it was 807 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,279 Speaker 1: hard to raise my sister and I, especially with my 808 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: mom and her night shift job. I have a lot 809 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,440 Speaker 1: of memories of summers at my grandparents. However, it never 810 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 1: felt like my parents were pushing me onto them. They 811 00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:17,800 Speaker 1: were still very active in my life, and when I 812 00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:19,680 Speaker 1: was seven, my mom was able to get a different 813 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 1: job that allowed her to stay at home so she 814 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 1: could watch my sister and I more and be active 815 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,319 Speaker 1: in our lives. They rely to my grandparents for help 816 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:30,000 Speaker 1: and they got it, but watching my sister and I 817 00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,520 Speaker 1: was never expected of them. But they were appreciative, which 818 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,520 Speaker 1: is what I feel is what OP is not getting. 819 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:39,240 Speaker 1: I didn't get any appreciation from the daughter, just entitlement. 820 00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:42,920 Speaker 1: So thank you for sharing your I mean, it sounds 821 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 1: like you're not only your grandparents, but your parents were 822 00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:49,720 Speaker 1: super hard working like OP in this story. So please 823 00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:55,520 Speaker 1: share your stories of maybe your significant other or yeah, 824 00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:59,239 Speaker 1: share your stories off your significant other, maybe being a 825 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 1: piece of shit and not working at all. If you 826 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,879 Speaker 1: have those lazy see different others, that's what I want 827 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 1: to hear. 828 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:06,920 Speaker 3: Send them in and we'll see you next time.