1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Call It what It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Luddington, 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio podcast. 3 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 2: Well, Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello call it crew, and welcome 4 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:25,159 Speaker 2: to another episode of Short and Sweet. I think this is. 5 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 3: A mashup of all the things that have been grabbing 6 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 3: our attention lately. 7 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're trends, they're headlines that have been hooking us sometimes. 8 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: Is TikTok a text swad or something we didn't even 9 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 2: know what we cared about and then it was just everywhere? 10 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: Suddenly then you find yourself going down the rabbit hole 11 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: and oh yeah, you know, you know a lot about a. 12 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 3: Little, are a little about a lot. It depends on 13 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 3: what kind of mood you're in. 14 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 2: Okay, let's get start on the first one. Let's do it, 15 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 2: which is women on TikTok are quote unquote rejecting their age. 16 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 2: So this is where women are dressing, acting, and living 17 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 2: younger than your age. And how you feel and not 18 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 2: how old you are. 19 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: I mean, this is so subjective, but yes, go on, 20 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: this is very subjective. 21 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: But for example, there are all these rules out there. 22 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 2: I have so many opinions on this. There are all 23 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: these rules out there, like, for example, you can't wear 24 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 2: a lot of sparkle after forty Did you know that? Apparently? 25 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:25,479 Speaker 3: Whose rule is that? 26 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: Apparently it's aging gracefully where we're we don't, We're not 27 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 2: supposed to like stand out is what I've seen, and 28 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 2: I'm going to stand out. I'm gonna. I am so 29 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 2: irritated by this because like even the have you heard 30 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 2: about the glitter eye shadow rule? 31 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 3: Who is making these rules and where we're not kidding? 32 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 2: So after forty you're not supposed to be wearing glitter 33 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 2: eyeshadow because it's like a more youthful and b it 34 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 2: like it's supposedly like you know, get stuck in our 35 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 2: old baggy wrinkles and we're gonna to be disgusting out 36 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: in the world. I have started adding adding bronzy glitter 37 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 2: to my daily shadow, so you know what f everybody's 38 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 2: saying it. So I'm serious, that's a rule, Jess. It's 39 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: like literally out there. 40 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:19,839 Speaker 3: Well, that's not a rule. 41 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:21,679 Speaker 1: I had never heard that rule, and I don't I 42 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,200 Speaker 1: don't fall I mean, I don't have a ton of 43 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: sparkle in my makeup drawer, but I did. Actually I 44 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: remember when I was younger, speaking of sparkle, I used 45 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: to have a. 46 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 2: Spray, a spray spray the sparkle, Oh, the sparkle, spray 47 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 2: sparkle everywhere. 48 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 3: Okay, sparkle, I would sparkle. I don't. I put a 49 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 3: light mist on the face. 50 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: Okay, definitely a medium mist on the chest and the decoltage. 51 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,239 Speaker 3: You are not brightness out there? 52 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 2: Are we talking about? Like? Are we talking about? Like 53 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 2: you're hitting up the club, so you're doing like that 54 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 2: sparkle a you're talking. 55 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 3: About like it was a sparkle club girl. 56 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 2: Okay, you're not going to the grocery store with a 57 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 2: sparkle though. 58 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 1: Well, I mean the next day, if it was the 59 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: day off the club, I might still have some sparkle remnants. 60 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: I mean I might not have showered yet. Who knows, 61 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 3: it didn't all come off. 62 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 2: You're like Tinkerrell, and I think that this my way 63 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:17,519 Speaker 2: in would be. 64 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: I think, I mean, close your eyes and think about 65 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: what you thought when you were twelve years old and 66 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: whatever person in your life was forty at the time. Yeah, 67 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 1: I don't think that person probably resembles you now, like 68 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: there was still difference, isn't there that some crazy statistics 69 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: someone pull it up for us, But It's like the 70 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: Golden Girls who were meant to be living in like convalescing, 71 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: they were meant to be like out to pasture. They were, 72 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: and they were like in their forties. 73 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 2: Yes, how old were they? 74 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 3: They were? 75 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 2: They were literally like forty at least fifties. Yes, No, 76 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 2: it's so insane. I think my pro the problem I 77 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 2: have with this is even the idea that you're living, dressing, acting, 78 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 2: quote younger than your age. Oh they were. The youngest 79 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: was fifty three and they literally looked eighty. 80 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 3: Yes they were. 81 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 2: Seriously, yes. 82 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 3: And now you look at. 83 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: People and you look at the and I also think that, 84 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: you know, I think media is changing with it is, 85 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: you know, creating a little more flexibility within the our 86 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: culture's idea of beauty because there's you know, women on 87 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: the cover of things that are not only twenty I 88 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: mean there's beautiful, beautiful women or you know, absolutely being 89 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,679 Speaker 1: seen for their beauty that they're not you know, tiny 90 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: little chickens. 91 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: Well, I'll be honest, the girls that I look at 92 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 2: that I'm like taking my beauty or style inspofor are 93 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 2: probably early fifties right now, early fifties. I think everyone 94 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 2: looks so chic The problem I have with this is 95 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:03,359 Speaker 2: that there's an any is that there is any like 96 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 2: expiration date on some of these things when you hear 97 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 2: a certain age and therefore you're then afterwards considered dressing 98 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 2: younger than your age, like sparkle makeup or whatever, Like 99 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: why why is there an expiration date on some of 100 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 2: those fun things? Like That's what really irritates me. And 101 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 2: I can tell you because one of the other questions 102 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 2: we had is what's your personal I'm still hot and 103 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 2: I know it outfit. I literally went on a date 104 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: with Matt the other night and I threw on and 105 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 2: I have not done this in so long, but I 106 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 2: was like, I'm gonna Jessica capsule it. I threw on 107 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 2: the shortest little mini skirt and I and I don't 108 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 2: know why, but it's almost like I felt like I'd 109 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 2: had to retire them. But I hadn't done this like 110 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 2: on purpose, and I was like, what am I doing? 111 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 2: I felt so cute out my little mini skirt. Yes, 112 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 2: there may have been a buttcheatter too, but I was 113 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 2: I was loving my life. Yeah, So that's the problem 114 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 2: I had that there's even the phrase younger than your age, 115 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 2: like dressing younger like, cue. 116 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I definitely agree with that. I also, 117 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: but do you ever have this happen? I think maybe 118 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: because I've got teenage daughters, is that I'll get stuck 119 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: in an idea of what looks good on me, and 120 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 1: I'll just keep doing that thing, and then there'll be 121 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: a new trend that definitely. 122 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 3: Is the way that you're meant to be wearing, you 123 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 3: know whatever. Perfect example, when oversized became a thing. 124 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, like I've always bought things that fit me, 125 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 4: and like shirts meant to fit this way, and a 126 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 4: T shirt is supposed to fit this way and whatever, 127 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 4: and then all the kids in their extra large pants 128 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 4: and their extra large hoodies and their extra large T. 129 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 1: Shirts that looks to my eye that looked bananas. 130 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 3: And then my kids were like, no, no, no, that's how 131 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 3: we wear it. And I was like, oh, I probably 132 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 3: look more yeah, because my clothes fit. 133 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 134 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: And then you kind of find yourself going, okay, well, 135 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: silhouettes change. 136 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 3: I mean I do. 137 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: I am sort of I love fashion, so I do 138 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: sort of go like, okay, what are the silhouettes? 139 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: Right? 140 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 3: We used to be there was times when we were 141 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 3: super structured and super. 142 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: Tight and then a little looser and then you know 143 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: the baggy pants and this, that and the other. 144 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 3: But it's it's interesting how we how we make it 145 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 3: ours well. 146 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 2: I think what's interesting also is that, like, for example, 147 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: I saw this saying it was like, how to spot 148 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 2: a millennial in the wild? 149 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 3: How does one do that? 150 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 2: And one of the things that really irks me, I 151 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 2: swear to god, it's like my but I'm leaning into 152 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: the trend even though I don't want to, is that 153 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 2: you could spot a millennial buy our ankle socks we wear. 154 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 2: We don't because you guys don't understand that we saw 155 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 2: our parents in these thick friakin socks and they look 156 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 2: like tragic. 157 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 3: We decided, yeah, like they were on a jazzer sized class. 158 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 2: Yes, and so we rejected those and we're like ankle 159 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 2: And then now we are the old ones because we're 160 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 2: wearing the little ankle things that I still love them. 161 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,119 Speaker 1: I fixed that about a year and a half ago, 162 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: and now I'm used to it now. 163 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 3: When I wear my ankle socks, I'm. 164 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 2: Like, preat Okay, are you doing the slouch? Are you 165 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: doing a fold? 166 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: No? It's a full ankle Like I mean, like when 167 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 1: I go when I wear my little leggings and like 168 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: tennis shoes, Yeah, they're like like there's no skin. 169 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 3: You can't see skin between my leggings and my sock. 170 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 2: Okay, but what about like when you're in a short 171 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 2: skirt the. 172 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: Ones I have, when you put them on, they kind 173 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 1: of just naturally like fall a tiny bit so they wrinkle. 174 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 3: They're not like straight up. 175 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 2: But yeah, I've seen one thing I do like, I've 176 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 2: seen the tights with the socks in a skirt, in 177 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: a mazy skirt, tight socks and like your shoes, it 178 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 2: actually looks quite cute. 179 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 3: I'm sure it does, but I just am like, it's 180 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 3: like when we were talking about your your planned tweet 181 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 3: outfit for that summer party when in La are you 182 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 3: wearing socks tights and she. 183 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 2: The damn wearing them? 184 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 3: But you're gonna be real hot. 185 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 2: I know, listen, December, it can just get a little 186 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 2: bit colder in December. I know, I know, I know, 187 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 2: I know, I know. Here's also the problem I have 188 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 2: with this, And this might be not everyone's opinion, and 189 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: as I get older, I might change my opinion, but 190 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 2: I also think that your I feel like my confidence 191 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 2: in myself and what I look like has peaked in 192 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 2: my forties as opposed to thirties, and so I'm actually 193 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 2: like more into fashion in a way that I was. 194 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 2: So I want to experiment more. And then in turn, 195 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 2: though I look like I'm being a tryhard like I 196 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 2: want to be twenty. 197 00:09:56,679 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 1: I'm familiar with that feeling. I feel the same way 198 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 1: I I don't like it. I don't like it, so 199 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: I just reject it. When I have the thought, I go, Okay, 200 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: I see you thought, and I don't want that. I'm 201 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: not on board, and I push it away. Nope, I 202 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 1: can do whatever the I want. 203 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 2: I feel so much cuterer at forty one that I 204 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: did in my thirties at any point in my thirties. 205 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 3: Agree, agree, agree Yes. 206 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: As my friend, sometimes when my pictures come up, I see, 207 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: do you like to look at pictures of your like? 208 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 2: Do not? 209 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,839 Speaker 3: Do you like to? But like I actively don't. 210 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 2: I really don't know. I really don't myself. 211 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: So you know, and obviously I'm in the wrong business 212 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 1: for that. But I wouldn't like after a photo shoot 213 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: or whatever. I think there's a lot of. 214 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 3: People who want to look at the images and tweak 215 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 3: or whatever. I'm like, nope, we're good. 216 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:45,560 Speaker 1: I don't need to look at it. I trust the 217 00:10:45,559 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: people that are in charge of this, and then we'll 218 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: move on. And I've gotten better at that, not like 219 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: I'm running to a monitor to see it, but I'm 220 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 1: not offended by it when I look at it, or 221 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: I don't, it's not offended. I used to just when 222 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: I saw it, I would instantly pick apart everything. 223 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 3: That was wrong with me. Yeah, oh, I think I have. 224 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 1: A greater sense of grace with myself or or I 225 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: don't know, maybe a mixture of the two. But I 226 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: just I can look at them and be like, oh cool, 227 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: like great, yeah, I'm better being my own friend. 228 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yeah, I feel the same way. 229 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 1: Now this is the other thing that I've been seeing, 230 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 1: and I'm I'm I have a real push or push 231 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 1: pull with it because I feel like I normally shy 232 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 1: away from like being too conspicuous, and so this is 233 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: at odds with that. There's all these you know, sort 234 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: of like socialites that are becoming fashion's biggest muses, and 235 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:49,440 Speaker 1: it's all like maximalism, right, like it's all like like 236 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 1: it's very even if it's even if it's your ten dollars. 237 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 1: You know, sonnies from Amazon. You're they're meant to be 238 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: like rich girl sonnies, you know what I mean. Like 239 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: there's all this very like have it all, and it's 240 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: the pearls and the vintage glamour and the designer bags 241 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 1: and even if they're but just like having the thing 242 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: that means the thing like a lot of I mean 243 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,319 Speaker 1: you've worn them, I've born them, like the T shirts 244 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 1: that have like a brand name on them or whatever. 245 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:17,199 Speaker 1: But it's it's an interesting thing because it's kind of 246 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: an odds with like I said, I mean, it's not 247 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: normally my go too. 248 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the fashion version of fake it till you 249 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 2: make it, is what they're kind of calling it. I'm 250 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 2: wearing a Salain T shirt. It is something that has 251 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 2: a name across it. I feel like then I can't 252 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 2: I can't wear the pearls with it and the chunky 253 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 2: ear rings and the da and the design it like 254 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 2: I have to chill out on everything else. But that's 255 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 2: just my personal aesthetic. I have really loved. I told 256 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 2: you I'm my Nantucket. I don't know I'm in the 257 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 2: wrong state. My Nantucket vibes is like cozy sweat. It's 258 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 2: like the sweater I'm wearing right now. So I'm not 259 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 2: this is not me, but I appreciate it. I mean 260 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 2: I think that like there's girls that can really pull 261 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 2: it off, and there was a time when I would 262 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 2: have absolutely loved this well. 263 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 1: And it's interesting because again, the part that I like 264 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: about it is not Listen, I'm not advocating for getting 265 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: dupes and all that kind of stuff, but I just 266 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: I don't I really don't think that things should be 267 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:20,319 Speaker 1: completely like not like anyone's gate keeping it, but things 268 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: being so expensive. 269 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 2: Or exclusive fatia, and I feel like everybody should be 270 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 2: able to have access. I remember back when, like Rachel Zoe, 271 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 2: you know, two thousand and five, it was all about 272 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 2: like the you know, you had so many rings on 273 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 2: your fingers and you had you had the layered necklaces 274 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 2: and maybe you had like the faux fur thing that 275 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 2: you got from like wherever, and I loved it. 276 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. 277 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 2: I'm just not feeling it in this moment and my forties, 278 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:48,199 Speaker 2: I'm not feeling it. 279 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 1: I don't have you know, I love fashion, I don't 280 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: have a ton of time. I mean, I feel like 281 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:55,680 Speaker 1: in my twenties. I could sit there and you know, 282 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 1: you could contemplate your clothes and put together combinations and 283 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 1: style yourself or look inspirations from Rachel Zoe or whoever. 284 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: And for me it was Sianna Miller, and you would 285 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: look at the pictures and like recreate it, Like what 286 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 1: do I have like that? 287 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 3: I still do that. 288 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 1: I will go on Pinterest, I will go on I 289 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: will see the socials and have accounts that I where 290 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: someone just has a style that I think is really cute. 291 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: And I think lately things actually have gotten a little 292 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: bit more simple. We went to back like yeah aesthetic 293 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 1: and things were a little simple, and it was like 294 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 1: combinations of outfits, and I truly, because I'm a super nerd, 295 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: I'd take screenshots and truly like put together like a 296 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: little thing where it's like thumbtack pictures of all the 297 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: different things. 298 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 3: And you'd be like, oh my gosh. 299 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: When you're in a hurry and you've got a million 300 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: things to do and you got to get to work 301 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: or you got to get to the kids, and like 302 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: having little inspos was super helpful for me or is 303 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: for me, and I'll be like, oh, yeah, this this 304 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: Khaki pant with this. 305 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 3: White shirt with this water over your shoulders and this 306 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 3: jewelry and the big ear rings and whatever. 307 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: And you saw it somewhere and you thought worked and 308 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: you're like, great, don't even have to think about it. 309 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 2: Here's something that I do that I think is a 310 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 2: problem is that I also do the same thing. I 311 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 2: go through and I'm like, oh my god, I love 312 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: that combination, dere And in my mind, I've looked at 313 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 2: so many of these pictures that I think that that's 314 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 2: what I have, Like I almost feel like I'm looking 315 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 2: at it all the time. So that's my style, Like 316 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 2: that's my wardrobe. But I'm in the same pair of 317 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 2: open toad for birkenstocks. 318 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 3: That I saw you in two years ago, and. 319 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 2: Yes, and the first come off every day. So in 320 00:15:33,800 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 2: my mind, I'm like this stylish cool like you know 321 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 2: out in the boat and then tucket. But in my 322 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 2: life it's not translating. 323 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, I do know this to be 324 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: true about you. 325 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 3: But when you are an expert, no one is better 326 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 3: than you. 327 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 1: Like when I send you, you're so clever and you're 328 00:15:57,600 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: so smart. But when I send you a thing for like, 329 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: what what should I wear for this event you are 330 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: You've already sent me. I haven't even sent me for links, 331 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: and they're always good. 332 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 2: Yes, if I if we have to go to an 333 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 2: event other than this event where I would have dressed 334 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 2: wrong but it was still it would have been really cute. 335 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 2: If I have to go to an event, I can 336 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 2: absolutely pull it together for either of us. 337 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 1: Yep. 338 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 2: In fact, you sent me a picture the other day 339 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 2: and I was like, I know that that top goes 340 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 2: with those shorts. That trying it wrong? To save it 341 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 2: for that. 342 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: You're wearing it wrong, and I'd like you to fix it. 343 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 2: I do want to talk about one last thing before 344 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 2: you go. Yeah, the wellness birthday parties are on the rise. 345 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 2: I've been seeing Yep, I've seen that, and I'm super 346 00:16:58,680 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 2: into it. 347 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 348 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 2: So back in the day, I absolutely wanted to start 349 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 2: a birthday party with like let's go out, let's get 350 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 2: bottomless mimosas, right, like, let's get tipsy. And I am 351 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 2: truly just I'm actually kind of in a space in 352 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 2: my life where I'm really tired of alcohol. Actually, yeah, 353 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:24,160 Speaker 2: like I'm kind of over it. 354 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 1: Well, and there's a possibility of going to a party 355 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: and feeling better after the party than you did going 356 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: into the party exactly. 357 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 2: I just I don't know whether it's because listen, it 358 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 2: could because of hashmotos. I don't know what it is. 359 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,440 Speaker 2: It could be good, but I swear if I even 360 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:42,360 Speaker 2: have two glasses of wine, I feel it the next day. 361 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 362 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 2: So, the idea of starting a birthday like I saw 363 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 2: someone start a birthday with a sound bath, I'm like, in, 364 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 2: have you ever been one? I've been to one. You 365 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 2: just basically lay there. But I think I'm realizing that, 366 00:17:56,680 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 2: like I need more of that, like a reset they 367 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 2: as opposed to I'm gonna wake up the next day 368 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 2: and I'm newly whatever it is, and I'm like hungover. 369 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Okay, can I tell you a story about this. 370 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:08,919 Speaker 2: Yeah. 371 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:14,159 Speaker 1: So I recently had a night where I like, I 372 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 1: could have gone out for you know, a dinner or 373 00:18:17,200 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: drinks or whatever, and I actually very purposely made the 374 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: decision that I was like, no, you know what, I'm 375 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: gonna do something chill. I'm gonna do something that where 376 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk away feeling great after I do this thing. 377 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:29,919 Speaker 1: And I was in New York City and someone had 378 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: told me about this place that I guess was like, 379 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, there was like ancient baths. 380 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 3: And I saw our situation and I was like, great, 381 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 3: I'm gonna go do that. Take care of me. It's 382 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: gonna be a little wellness Jessica moment. 383 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 2: I love this story. Yeah. 384 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 1: So I made the appointment and I showed up and 385 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: they said, you bring. 386 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 3: A bathing suit. Okay, it's baths. And so I get 387 00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 3: there and they check. 388 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 1: Me in and it's really nic ice and very it 389 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 1: feels very zen and everything else, and they lead me 390 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 1: to the women's locker room. I always find those locker 391 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 1: rooms a little I mean, you know, it's a little 392 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 1: interesting because you're all. 393 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 3: Like in the space and like, yeah, naked people and 394 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 3: you know, in varying states of undress. Whatever. So then 395 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 3: a woman comes out and she. 396 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: Tells me, you know what the program is, which is 397 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:21,679 Speaker 1: that I'm gonna put my babysuit on, I'm gonna put 398 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 1: this robe on, and then I'm gonna, you know, follow 399 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,680 Speaker 1: her down to these stairs to where you re rendezvous 400 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 1: with these baths before you get a massage. 401 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 3: Okay, great, So I do what I'm supposed to do. 402 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 1: She walks me out and she looks over her shoulder 403 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:36,960 Speaker 1: as we're walking down this hallway and she's like, so, 404 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 1: are you meeting someone you know on the other side 405 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: of this door, like for the baths, for the baths 406 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 1: part of it. 407 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 3: And I was like, like, you. 408 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 1: Know, like a friend or something, right, okay, And I'm like, 409 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 1: uh no. 410 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 3: No, nope, it's just me. 411 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 1: And she looks at me and she goes, oh, it's okay, 412 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:55,880 Speaker 1: you'll have fun anyways. 413 00:19:56,119 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 3: And I was like, wait what, oh go what? 414 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: And it's New York, so you're so I go down 415 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: and it's now the sudden becomes very very dimly lit, 416 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:10,720 Speaker 1: like barely can see your hand in front of your 417 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:14,159 Speaker 1: face kind of dimly lit. And now I'm actually worried 418 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 1: that I've done something wrong. I just think that it 419 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,400 Speaker 1: is not going to make me feel better. 420 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:24,120 Speaker 2: Yeah no, yeah, oh my god. Wait what? 421 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 3: And someone checks me in and he says. 422 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 2: Okay, how many people are checking you in? You've had 423 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 2: to just let the TSA. You've felt like five check 424 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 2: in security checkpoint. 425 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,479 Speaker 3: And I'm on to the second. And so this gentleman 426 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 3: meets me. He's got his iPad. 427 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 1: They all have iPads, and he's like he's like okay, 428 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: and I walk into the space where now it becomes 429 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:48,679 Speaker 1: a little brighter because I can see you to my 430 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 1: right and down a couple more stairs that there are 431 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: about six different aquamarine pools that are lit up in 432 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 1: this round space, and the one that's closest to me 433 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: that I can see, like as I look over the 434 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: railing has got two people in it and they're just floating, 435 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:12,120 Speaker 1: but like frog legged two people floating in the ancient 436 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 1: nun And all of a sudden, I'm putting that together 437 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 1: with the fact that this woman has said are you 438 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 1: are you. 439 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 3: Meeting someone here? 440 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? 441 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 1: And then I'm putting it together with the fact that 442 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: it's a Friday night in New York City. 443 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 3: And I'm this is a couple situation. This is not 444 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 3: a wellness Jessica night. 445 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god. This is like a new date night 446 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:40,120 Speaker 2: that you've and you've gone single mingle. 447 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 3: Very different. 448 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,359 Speaker 2: My social anxiety is like so stressed right now. The 449 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 2: fact that their frog life floating is or even run 450 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,439 Speaker 2: for you, and then you just join the date like 451 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 2: I'm so like you can see me. I'm like blushing 452 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,399 Speaker 2: a little bit, like I'm so stressed out I can 453 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:57,360 Speaker 2: do the story. This is horrifying. 454 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 3: Hi, I was going to die, and I didn't know 455 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 3: where the escape patch was. 456 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 1: And I had this massage waiting on the other end 457 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 1: of it, right that I'd already paid for. 458 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 2: So what do I do? 459 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 3: So I'm wearing my bathing seat on my rope. 460 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,400 Speaker 2: I'm literally crying. 461 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 1: You look at the guy with the iPad and this 462 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 1: is like a section to the episode. 463 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 2: This is a full Sex of City episode. Okay, yeah 464 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,639 Speaker 2: you okay, yeah, Number five is the iPad? 465 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 3: The iPad? Hey, is there another option for me? 466 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 1: Right? 467 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 3: And he's like, what do you mean? 468 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: And I said, what if if I wanted to skip 469 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:37,639 Speaker 1: the baths part of it? 470 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 3: He's like, oh you do? 471 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, I think I'm I mean, 472 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 1: like if I wanted to wait for the massage part, 473 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 1: like where would I wait? And he goes, oh, well, 474 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,000 Speaker 1: I mean no one ever does that. And I was like, okay, yeah, 475 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 1: but if I wanted to go back to the locker 476 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,159 Speaker 1: room and then we'll come find you, And I said, okay, just. 477 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 2: Sit in the locker room, just sit. 478 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 1: There, and he's like, but you should look around and 479 00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: see if there's any of the bad do you want 480 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: to get into? 481 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 3: And I was like hmm okay. So he left me 482 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:05,879 Speaker 3: and I said, but so, how will you find me? 483 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 3: If I'm just You'll find me in one of these beds. 484 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 3: And he's like, yeah, find you. 485 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 2: I'm like what okay, No, like Jessica and get your 486 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 2: shit together. 487 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 3: You're a grown up. 488 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, situation, and you should. 489 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 1: Just go find the bath that you should dip into, right, yeah, 490 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:23,040 Speaker 1: just calm the mind and I So I went on 491 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: a little walk, I did a lap, and there was 492 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 1: one bath that seemed to be unoccupied, and right as 493 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 1: I was about to take my robe off and put 494 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:34,360 Speaker 1: a toe into the. 495 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,719 Speaker 3: I was like rollicking over and and like jumps in. 496 00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, we're done. We're done. I'm out. 497 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 3: I'm out. So I went back to the locker room 498 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 3: and then I just sat by my locker. Oh he 499 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 3: waited for someone to come grab me for my massage. 500 00:23:56,160 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 1: Oh that plan for wellness, you know, didn't one hundred 501 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 1: percent work out for me. 502 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 3: But I'm not gonna stop trying. 503 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is but I definitely. 504 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 1: Think that if I would if I was recommending that 505 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:11,880 Speaker 1: experience to anyone, I would say definitely do not. 506 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 2: Go so low, No, absolutely. 507 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 3: I did the one guy floating. 508 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 2: It's the floating if they weren't floating, but it's the 509 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 2: floating because like, if you're you can't like, okay, I'm 510 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,639 Speaker 2: just like picturing you floating and then you accidentally, you know, 511 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 2: you're touching another body and then you just sort of 512 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,680 Speaker 2: float your way back over. It's so awkward. 513 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 1: It's because it's a won's experience, and obviously there's something 514 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 1: healing about these ancient maths. 515 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 3: There were also a couple of people that were like stretching. 516 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 2: No, Jessica, you know what the momosas sound better in 517 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 2: this moment. I'm back to Amosa brunch for my birthday. 518 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 3: This is what you wish for. 519 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 2: We have to add know this, please please write this. 520 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 2: We need to. We need to collect all our little 521 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 2: stories and just put them into stuff. Because this is 522 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:11,199 Speaker 2: apposite the floating frog leg couples. I can picture it 523 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 2: so well. And then just you by yourself, Oh god, 524 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 2: it's so true. 525 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: Right by the way, how you felt hearing me tell 526 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 1: the story is how I felt. 527 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 3: Being in this story. I've never been so anxious. No, 528 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 3: the entire experience was really quite stressful. 529 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,679 Speaker 2: No, and then just you sat by your locker is 530 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 2: just really tragic. Just people walking around you naked, undressed. Man, 531 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 2: you know what, Jessica, wait before before we go, me 532 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 2: and you when I go to New York next, we're 533 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 2: gonna sound bath together. No, not sound bath. 534 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 3: We're gonna do this. 535 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:48,680 Speaker 2: What is it called. 536 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 3: I don't know if I could go back. 537 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,160 Speaker 2: We're going back. We're going to frog leg together. We're 538 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 2: gonna have our own romantic date, just me and you 539 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 2: and you know what, if a third person comes in, 540 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 2: get out, get out, I'm gonna scratch. I know I need. 541 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 2: I'm not kidding. This is exactly what we're doing next 542 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,440 Speaker 2: time I'm in New York. All right, we gotta call 543 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:23,879 Speaker 2: it the end, the end of the episode.