1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: Tany invited to a birthday party and on the invitation 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: it had an end time. What's the big deal, Tany. 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 2: Uh, it's not a big deal. But I've never been 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 2: invited with an end time before. 5 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,239 Speaker 1: I think I have invited you to things and said 6 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: when it's going to wrap up, haven't I No. 7 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: Usual when you used to throw like the Christmas parties 8 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 2: or the holiday parties, you would say starts at whatever time. 9 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 2: You did not give us an ending. 10 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: Well, I'm made mistake. So my buddy Kurt wanted to 11 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: come over for dinner a couple of nights ago, and 12 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: I was very clear. It wasn't like a formal invitation, 13 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: but in my text, I was very clear to say, hey, 14 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: i'll see at six thirty, you'll be home by eight. 15 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: I was just like, really clear to set you'll be home, 16 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,639 Speaker 1: not even like you'll be finished, meaning you'll be out 17 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: the door by seven thirty. I feel like I've done 18 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: that before with you guys said no, you just. 19 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:47,919 Speaker 3: You just wrap it up in the middle of us 20 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 3: all hanging out on your porch or your patios, and 21 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 3: it's time to go. I'm gonna go to jam. 22 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 2: But I think I think an intimate dinner is different 23 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 2: than like a birthday party. I've never like you know 24 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 2: what I mean, Like, I'm never had an ending to 25 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 2: I don't. 26 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 3: Think I put end times on an imitation just so 27 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 3: people don't get there super late, especially if you have 28 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 3: things that are happening like late, you're gonna miss the whatever. 29 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: I think framing the expectation is right, and then there's 30 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 1: no awkwardness when the music stops, the lights come on, 31 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,920 Speaker 1: and people have to leave like it's already predetermined. 32 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: It's on air with Ryan Seacrest. 33 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 4: It's time to take care of you, and who better 34 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 4: to help you do that than the top voices in 35 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 4: well being on Audible. Kick start your wellbeing journey with 36 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 4: your first audiobook free when you sign up for a 37 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 4: thirty day trial at audible dot com. Slash on air