1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. Back there, nice little ass back there, 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: as back there, Hey babies, what's up? Welcome to this 4 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: episode of Carefully Reckless with your girl Just hilarious sexy 5 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: story time. Now listen, I was getting freaky with this 6 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: older nigga right now. I've been working with him on 7 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,599 Speaker 1: and off or whatever. And let me tell you something 8 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: about the older guy. They've been around so they know 9 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 1: some ship. Okay, there, I am rotting as dead. He 10 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 1: pulling me down on it, not painfully, but on some 11 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: pleasurable pressure ship. Right out of no where. He takes 12 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: his finger, he puts it in my mouth. I wet 13 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: it with my spin and so he starts rubbing them 14 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: right around the tip of my butt hole. That ship 15 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: got me wet as fun, ladies, it did, so I 16 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: stuck going crazy riding to ship out his dick. H 17 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: That ship gets you loose, and so I came. Yes 18 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: I did, And that ship was sexy to me because 19 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 1: that means he let me get mine first, like he 20 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: wanted me to get mine first before he went in. 21 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: He flipped me over and laid me on my back 22 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: and went deep I'm talking about a good deep man. 23 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: That nigga hit that fucking spot and I felt that 24 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: he was about to come because that dick stiffened up 25 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: and my because he was so fucking wet, and he 26 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: looks down at me and he said, open your mouth. 27 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what the fun was. Great happened, but 28 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 1: a bitch did it. I was drunk off the wine. 29 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: I felt good. I came to wife, I opened my 30 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: mouth and this nigga spitting, and I got the funk 31 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: up so fast, so fast, and spit on that nigga. 32 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: I don't give a funk. I spit his spit back 33 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: on him. Do y'all know how nasty but sexy that 34 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: ship was now that I think about it, But I 35 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: felt so fucking violated, like how the funk dare you 36 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: spit in my mouth? Sir? So of course it turned 37 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: into a fight. He put me out and it was 38 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: all good. But that brings me to the topic of 39 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 1: the day, nastiest sex that you've ever had. First of all, 40 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,679 Speaker 1: you're gonna only imagine what was going through my fucking mind, 41 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 1: and this was recently. All types of COVID thoughts was 42 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: going through my mind, All types of ship. You are nasty, sir. 43 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: I didn't even see you brush your teeth before we 44 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: laid the funk down. I don't know, y'all. You just can't. 45 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: I'm not that type of bit now. Listen. I hadn't 46 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: heard that ship in songs before. Spit in my mouth 47 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,239 Speaker 1: something something, spit in my mouth. Okay, shout out the 48 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: CARDI that's cute. She liked that ship. I don't now. 49 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 1: I understand. You gotta be in a mood for that ship. 50 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: That's like a mood and you just can't go around 51 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: spitting anybody mouth. You got to feel it. And I'm 52 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: sorry I never felt it. I never felt it. When 53 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: he did it, I felt like a fucking I just 54 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: felt crazy. I felt little. I felt degraded. I felt 55 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: less than a woman. Get your old ass the funk up, 56 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: and don't ever try no ship like that. I don't 57 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: know if he tried it, because I'm a young girl. 58 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: I'm one of the youngest he's ever dealt with, you 59 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And and and he felt like, 60 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: maybe if I do this ship, that ship like that, 61 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,119 Speaker 1: because that's what these young girls like. Listen, I ain't 62 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 1: your average young girl. Honey, uh I come, and then 63 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: that's it. I was made of ship. So of course 64 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: my experience with that prompt me to ask y'all to 65 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:17,959 Speaker 1: share some of your nastiest sex stories with me, and 66 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna read a couple of them. A couple of 67 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: y'all would love to remain anonymous, but this girl does not. 68 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: Her name is Laura Lynn and she's from Ohio. She said, Man, 69 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 1: my baby father was dog sitting for my friend, fucked 70 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: all up and down that girl house every room. We 71 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: gave each other golden showers in her bathtub too. First 72 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 1: of all, bitch, that sounds like some crackhead and a 73 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: vacant house ship. What the fund is going on? That's 74 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: not what y'all do. First of all, you don't fuck 75 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: your baby father and nobody's house up and down in 76 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: every fucking room, and you're supposed to be dog sitting. 77 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: It was probably fucking right in front of the dog. 78 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: And then y'all gave each other golden showers in the bathtub. See'all, 79 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: you don't each other in the bathtub, y'all nasty it 80 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: and the fucking dogs. And I hope your friend listening 81 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 1: to this ship because she know laure Lynn from Ohio 82 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: nasty as moving on to the next guy. He would 83 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: love to remain anonymous. He says. Nastiest was when one 84 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: of the baddest girls back in high school that I 85 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: was fading to get with for mad long ended up 86 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: having a nasty situation between her legs. I still clapped, though, 87 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: got mines, niggas are nasty at fuck, y'all, ain't ship. 88 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: I don't even know what nasty situation between our legs meant. 89 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: That could have meant. She was bloody, she was nasty looking, 90 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: it was too hairy, it was dirty, It could have 91 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: been anything. He didn't give a funk. He's still clapped. Okay. 92 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 1: This one is from Jamayah Dnay. Okay, So this lady 93 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: doesn't mind if I say her name. Her name is 94 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 1: Jemayah Denay. She said. I was sixteen and man, my 95 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: boyfriend stayed outside all night until my mother fell asleep 96 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: so that I could sneak him inside. After we finally 97 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 1: made it into the house, we got busy, but something 98 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,799 Speaker 1: started feeling good, a little too good, and I felt 99 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: something come out while I was riding him. I thought 100 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: I was squirting, so I kept going, but after like 101 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: thirty seconds passed, bitch, I realized I was pissing. His 102 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: face was funniest fuck. Surprised and shocked. I didn't want 103 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 1: to move because I felt like if I hopped off 104 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: of it, it would have made the direction of Pisco haywire. 105 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was the nastiest, most embarrassing sex 106 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 1: story I ever had. Jeremiah, how the fund did you 107 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: think you were squirting? And you know how it feels 108 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 1: when you pissed. You knew your ass was pissing and 109 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: you should have paid before you had sex. She was 110 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: so goddamn nervous. Your mother was gonna wake up. You 111 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 1: probably want to walk down allway and hit that little 112 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 1: creek in the floor to be like, and she waked 113 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: the funk up, So you're gonna piss on this man 114 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: and not in the toilet. I had one of them 115 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: experience when I was younger, too, Baby, y'all, funniest, hold up, 116 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: Hold up, I know the ship getting good, but listened 117 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. If 118 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 1: you love me, you'll listen. And last, but not least, 119 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 1: his name is Michael Mitchell. He said, condom broke green 120 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 1: Puss leaking. That's it, Okay, Okay, nasty, I wonder if 121 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: you got something because the green puss leaking sounds like 122 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 1: inn std okay, and the last one Jasmine Joyce. She 123 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 1: doesn't say what she's from, but she said my ex 124 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: husband asking me to funk him with a strap on 125 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,479 Speaker 1: and he wrote that ship better than a bitch. Whoa 126 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 1: whoa wait a minute, um, Jasmine, okay, baby, Well, I 127 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: hope he is no longer your huss Okay, she did 128 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: say ex husband. I had to go back and reread 129 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 1: that ship. I hope he's no longer your husband, and 130 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 1: maybe he's your best friend or something now. But god damn, 131 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: the fact of the matter is, I don't know what's 132 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: worth him asking you to fucking with a strap or 133 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 1: you actually fucking your ex husband with a strap I'm 134 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: done with you. I'm done with you. Moving on to 135 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: the discussion. Okay, So there's all types of factors of sex. 136 00:06:57,600 --> 00:07:00,160 Speaker 1: When you're having sex with a friend, your part or 137 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 1: your companion, your sex partner, whatever initiation. Is it different 138 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: for men than it is for women who initiates sex more? 139 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: In my opinion, I feel like it is men they 140 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: physically initiated but the whole time a female could be 141 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: thinking in our minds, I want to fund this, nigga. 142 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: We already know before we even come over that we're 143 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: gonna suck you. That's why we do all types of 144 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: preparations and ship. But it's like a back and forth 145 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: battle on the mind. We know we shouldn't suck you 146 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: because maybe it's too early, or I don't want him 147 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: to make I don't want him to judge me. I 148 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: don't I don't want him to look at me like 149 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: a whole. But bitch, the mind want what it want, 150 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 1: the pussy want what it want, and you need to 151 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 1: go get it by all means. If that's how you're feeling, 152 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: go fuck that, nigga. Go tell them ship they initiated 153 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: all the time. You've got women out here that likes 154 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: for the guy to initiate it. You got women that's 155 00:07:56,000 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: scared to to initiate it. Me, if I wanted I 156 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 1: take it. I ain't even gonna hold you. No. I 157 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 1: do not rape guys. So for for the listeners that 158 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: the sensitive listeners, you might as well get off of 159 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 1: this ship right now, because if I want it, I'm 160 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: gonna take it and and better believe the moment you 161 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: walk through my door, it's takable because you're in my house. 162 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, what what's yours is mind as long as 163 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: you want to this roof. And sometimes I'm not the aggressive, 164 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm not the initiator. You know, I'll sit back and 165 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: I'll let a guy initiate it. You know. Sometimes when 166 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: when I want to be soft, when I want to 167 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: be nice and girly, and I want a guy to 168 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 1: you know, take over and take control, I'll let him 169 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: initiate it. I'll be okay, I'll lay back for this 170 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: one because you're working with something I don't know the muscle. 171 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: Niggas that it's the muscle for me. I want. I 172 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: want to feel like you're gonna handle me, so I'll 173 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: let you do it. But now times out of send, 174 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: the female already know that she's gonna suck you before 175 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: you even sunk her, so it's totally fine. Another question, 176 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: when's the right time to have sex? Again? Women are 177 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:59,559 Speaker 1: scared of these things typically because we always want to 178 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: seem like we don't want to give it up too easy. 179 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: We always want to same like, oh I made him wait, 180 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: but you can make a nigga weight and that should 181 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: be bullshit. Honestly, it's all about how you feel, and 182 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: it's all about your timing how you feel. Because I've 183 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 1: dated niggas that I've never fucked. I just never had 184 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 1: to urge you, and then I've needed I've dated guys 185 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: that I wanted to, you know, and then I've dated 186 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: guys that I've only wanted to fun and then just 187 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: keep it moving like that's I don't know. I feel 188 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: like as a woman we get the same urges that 189 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: men have. It is just that we're judged more when 190 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: we do it. But ship, I don't care. Call me 191 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: what you want. If I wanted, like I said, I'm 192 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: gonna get it. And there is no right time to 193 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: have sex. Honestly, there is no like like you know, 194 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 1: there's a right time to get married, there's a right 195 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: time to have a baby, there's a right time to 196 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,839 Speaker 1: get promoted, there's a right time. There is no right 197 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: time to have sex. In my opinion, it is not 198 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 1: It is whenever both parties want that ship. Please give 199 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: it to each other, and give it to each other 200 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: hard and deep. Please, I'm sorry, I'm getting very excited. 201 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 1: And then another thing, ladies, you have to understand. Okay, 202 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: So guys don't know everything about the body. They don't 203 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: I've asked sex with guys that I felt was boring 204 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: because they didn't know me the first time. It's like 205 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: it's up in the air. How do you know when 206 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 1: sex is amazing? How do you know when it's bad? 207 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 1: What's your definition of amazing sex? My definition of amazing 208 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 1: sex is I'm I'm gonna give it to you all. Personally, 209 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:36,840 Speaker 1: is when you can keep me wet throughout the whole situation. 210 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: It's very easy for me to get dry as a desert. 211 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 1: Better believe it is very easy for me to get dry, 212 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: because once I'm turned off, I'm turned off. So when 213 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 1: that pussy go from sounding like mac and cheese like 214 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: the to there's something to dry it up. Is dried up, 215 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: and you need to eject yourself from me, sir, because 216 00:10:58,000 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: I I don't feel it anymore. She don't want it 217 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: in there, She don't want you in there. So yeah, 218 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 1: she didn't drive it up for a reason. So yes, 219 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: when you can keep me wet throughout the duration of sex, 220 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: when you can make me feel beautiful. Now, y'all have 221 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: to understand sex is a very sensual thing. Most of 222 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 1: it is actually in your mind. It's how you feel 223 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: in your mind. You know what I'm saying. So if 224 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: you can make a woman feel beautiful while you are 225 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 1: having sex with her, that's a plus for you, sir. 226 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: I'm talking about touch on a fail on a tell 227 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: her she's sucking beautiful. Look in my eyes. I love 228 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 1: when a nigga look at me mm hmmm. When I'm 229 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: writing him and I look down and I catch him 230 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 1: looking at me. That is sexy. That's sexy. That makes 231 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: me feel good, That makes me feel like he's into it. 232 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 1: Orgasm after orgasm is amazing sex to me. If I 233 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: come once, that's fine. But when you make a woman 234 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 1: come more than one time, that's amazing. And when I 235 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: go to sleep, if I can have sex with you 236 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: and I can get up and go work out or 237 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 1: go run three miles. Now you have not done your 238 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: job successfully, No, you have not. I have to be 239 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: able to take a snooze, nick, If I can't get 240 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:09,079 Speaker 1: right back up, you did your jaw. You did your jaw. 241 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: That it makes me feel good. Also, uncontrollably moaning and 242 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 1: screaming is what makes sex amazing for me. So for me, personally. 243 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:21,719 Speaker 1: It's a lot of different factors that goes into it. 244 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:25,000 Speaker 1: How do you know when sex is bad? The definition 245 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 1: of bad sex to me is when I'm drying. If 246 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 1: I get dry during sex, that's like no. When I'm 247 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 1: wishing for it to be over, that's bad sex. When 248 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 1: you want to rush it, when you want to hurry, 249 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 1: you have to say to yourself, I wish this, nigga, 250 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: hurry up and come seriously, because uh, I don't know 251 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: because you already came, or you feel like you're not. 252 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 1: Sometimes you can be having sex and you know this 253 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: is not gonna do it for you. This is not 254 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: going to make you come. You're not going to get 255 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: your nuts. You know that during the sex because the 256 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 1: strokes are so bullshit, or the guy is is hiding 257 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: his face from you. I hate when a guy is 258 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: scared to make eye contact with you, gosh, or when 259 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: you're putting your head down, like, what the funk are 260 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 1: you a coward? What the fun you're giving me? This 261 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: coward dick for now, I'm get off of me. That 262 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 1: that is bad sex for me. And when I have 263 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: to force my moans oh yeah, oh my god, just 264 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: to make him come, just to speed up, speed up 265 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 1: the process. That's how you know it's bad sex. Or 266 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: when both of you are are quiet and ship at 267 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 1: the end. Yeah, just get up, put your clothes on, leave, 268 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 1: even if it's your house. It just makes you want 269 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: to get up and leave. I don't give a fuck. 270 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: That's what bad sex is to me. Something non sexual 271 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 1: that turns you on. Listen for me. It is when 272 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: a man is slightly bow legged. Uh, slightly bow legging. 273 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: Not pigeon told, because a lot of people be thinking 274 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: of pigeon told when you say bow legged. No, no, no, y'all, 275 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying when a man is slightly bow legged and 276 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 1: when he stand and them need them, them knees, them 277 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: legs bend out like little like little little little straight parentheses. 278 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,319 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like with a slight bend, 279 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 1: that ship is so sexy to me. Or when a 280 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: nigga walk like that, when a nigga walks, I love 281 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 1: when a man walks with a slight bow leg that 282 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: ship making me went right now? And maybe that is 283 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 1: t m I, but this is carefully reckless And y'all 284 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: know who the hell I am. That's sexy to me? 285 00:14:24,960 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: Or fresh fucking haircut. When you see the line now, 286 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: not not the painted line, not the Beijan line. And 287 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: and and even if you do you have Beijing, don't 288 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: overdo it and ship don't. Your hair should not be brown, 289 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 1: but your hairline is black. It's like, no, you should 290 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 1: have shown. You should have told that nigga to get 291 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: the brown Beijing to match your hair. I hate when 292 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: when when a nigga too talk, let me get I'm 293 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: getting into the wrong ship. Something non sexual that serves 294 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: you on when a nigga can dress. I love ball 295 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: mass jackets. When a guy can throw his ship on 296 00:14:57,080 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 1: and he looked good, and when he walks confidently, I 297 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 1: love that. When a man smells good, that's sexy to me. 298 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: That does it for me. Now we got a commercial, 299 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: and if you click off of this podcast, I swear 300 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen. A lot of y'all 301 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 1: maybe in relationships or sexualation ships. I just made that 302 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 1: up and it may be getting boring, but you gotta 303 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 1: keep the spark. It's always good to keep spark, keep 304 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: it sexy, keep it spicy, or whatever. So I got 305 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: a solution for that. If your sex life is getting born, 306 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: you gotta do it, like asking me, what's something you've 307 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 1: always wanted me to try? But scared because you assumed 308 00:15:35,760 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: I wouldn't like it? You gotta extra make that ship, 309 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: asks them again. I repeat, what's something you've always wanted 310 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: me to try? But you got scared because you assumed 311 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 1: that I wouldn't like it. Now for you, that might 312 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: be anal. A lot of women don't like anal sex 313 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:54,240 Speaker 1: because they can't can't get past the three minutes of 314 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: it hurting for a little while. It's gonna hurt for 315 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: a while because it's a butthole. The only thing that 316 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 1: is made the coming and out of it is ship, 317 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,239 Speaker 1: you know. And the dick is a muscle. It grows, 318 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: it grows, it grows, it pul states, but you cannot 319 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: be scared to take it. It's gonna hurt, you know. 320 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: But that's why you gotta lose that motherfucker up. Loave 321 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: it up, and I'm telling you're gonna start liking it. 322 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. Maybe it ain't you 323 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: all cup and see it. A lot of women don't 324 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 1: like it even at the three minutes is like, no, nigga. 325 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: Some women can't even get past the fact that it's 326 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: their ship. Hoole, that that a nigga is trying to 327 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:31,000 Speaker 1: pleasurably enjoy. But trust and believe if you get there, 328 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: you're gonna get there, and it feels good after you 329 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 1: do it a couple of times. I love it. I'm 330 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: a big fan of it. Ladies where lingerie spice it 331 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: up like that nigga's love. Let me stop calling them niggas. 332 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 1: Men love when the woman looks sexy, he loves you 333 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: know it's it's it's imagery. It is an illusion. It's girl. 334 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: I'll get put on some Rihanna and dance. Make yourself 335 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 1: feel sexy when you feel sexy and lingerie. Trust me, 336 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: you look sexy when you feel it. You look sexy. 337 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:04,639 Speaker 1: Put on some freaking music, put on some fucking music, 338 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: throwing your lingerie and walk for that nigga. Walk for him, 339 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 1: give him a massage, get yourself nice and oily, and 340 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 1: you gotta feel it. I'm talking about feel it. Close 341 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:16,760 Speaker 1: your eyes right now and just imagine. Oh girl, yes, 342 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,199 Speaker 1: And I'm sitting here with a goddamn track suit on, 343 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 1: and I failed sexiest ship because I'm thinking about putting 344 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:27,520 Speaker 1: on some lingerie for which whichever nigga tonight. You know 345 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, whichever, you're not got a nice or 346 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 1: healthy roster. So I'm gonna make sure I picked the 347 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 1: right one, because everybody in lingerie worthy, So make sure 348 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:37,920 Speaker 1: you wait for the right the right man. Okay, men, 349 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: surprise her with a new position surprising because listen, if 350 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 1: you've been having sex with the same person for the 351 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: longest of the time, since the long long time agose days, 352 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 1: it's very easy for her to learn your routine. It's routined, 353 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 1: and I know, like I've been through that before him. 354 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 1: I was in a relationship for three years and I 355 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 1: literally learned every part. It was. It was like a 356 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 1: watching a rerun of a show. Eventually, sex for me 357 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: and that relationship was watching was like watching a rerun 358 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 1: of my favorite episode of Martin. It was. It was 359 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 1: good sex. It was just the same position. Okay, I know, 360 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 1: he's gonna do this for three minutes, then he's going 361 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 1: to eat my pussy for ten minutes, and then he's 362 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: going to do this for five minutes. Then we're gonna 363 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 1: do this for and then it's the same routine, you 364 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like I said, good sex with 365 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 1: the same routine. So men surprised how with the new position. 366 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:36,440 Speaker 1: I don't give an if you gotta go buy the 367 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 1: Comma Sutra book, or you can look up positions that 368 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 1: you never did before. YouTube got everything and then that 369 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: got everything go. You know what I'm saying. Surprise her, 370 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: give her something to look forward to so she won't 371 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 1: have to go find it elsewhere, or she won't have 372 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 1: to be unhappy in the in your sex life, because 373 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 1: everybody don't cheat when they're not getting what they're lacking 374 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 1: in their relationship, they just end up being miserable. You 375 00:18:57,400 --> 00:19:01,719 Speaker 1: don't want to dissatisfy her, keep us satisfied, keep it spicy. 376 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: You can also role play. If y'all don't like that, 377 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: watch pooring together. That may make some women uncomfortable watching 378 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:11,159 Speaker 1: poorn with their guy. Just try it, though, Try it. 379 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta do ship that you don't want to do, 380 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 1: or ship you never did, to keep your man happy, 381 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 1: to keep the spice, to keep it ship. Sometimes you 382 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:21,879 Speaker 1: gotta do ship that you don't want to do. But 383 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 1: I've done ship that I didn't want to do, you 384 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 1: know what I mean, except spitting in my motherfucking mouth. 385 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 1: So look, we're gonna go back to that ship because 386 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 1: I don't like that ship to each his own. If 387 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: you you you have done it before, you can write 388 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: me and tell me how you felt about it. But 389 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:41,440 Speaker 1: if not, I don't encourage. It is way too much 390 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 1: germs going around these motherfucking days. I have not talked 391 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 1: to that nigga ever since, and I will not. And 392 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm so mad because that was my older nigga. Only 393 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: had one old nigga on the roster, and he just 394 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 1: had to funk it up. Who the funk he thought 395 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 1: he was spitting in my ship? I spit that ship 396 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 1: right back on his aids. I should have spit it 397 00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: back in his mouth, bitch. I'm sorry about that. As 398 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 1: for all the sex stories that y'all sent me, man, 399 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:06,120 Speaker 1: y'all got to do better. I hope all this ship 400 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 1: is old because y'all all funny and ship. The funniest 401 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: one that I read was Jamiah Dnay, who pete on 402 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:17,400 Speaker 1: her goddamn boyfriend. That was funny as hell. Funny as hell. 403 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 1: So before I go, Ladies, you have to learn exactly 404 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 1: what you really like. Men, you have to learn exactly 405 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 1: what you really like so you can show these people 406 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: when y'all can start having amazing sex. And if you 407 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 1: want to do it, ladies, you tell him first. You 408 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 1: tell them you ain't gotta wait for him to initiate. 409 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 1: That's the problem. Were too scared. Initiate the ship first 410 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: and watch most of us are keep more niggas around 411 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 1: like that initiating. Initiating, Be dominant and keep that ship spicy. 412 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: Make sure you keep your ship spicy before somebody else 413 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,399 Speaker 1: get your hot sauce. Thank you for turning into this 414 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 1: episode of Carefully Reckless with the topic was sexy and 415 00:20:54,080 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 1: ship today and then my deepest pan boys peace me like, 416 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 1: just you got your ass nigger, shut the fuck up. 417 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 1: I've been. I'm hit on my cash right, told you 418 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 1: bout my hustle. I've been started. Carefully Reckless is a 419 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 1: production of I Heart Radio and The Black Effect. For 420 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 1: more podcasts from I Heart Radio, visit the I heart 421 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 1: Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to your 422 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: favorite shows.