WEBVTT - You've Got Decisions: How Do You Find Motivation When Everything Feels So Uncertain?

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<v Speaker 3>Why did you make me sound mad? Europeans?

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<v Speaker 1>Because which was just a Malta and death Europe?

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<v Speaker 2>And boy did ILL get confused thinking it was the Caribbean.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch, it was cold. I was on a boat with

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<v Speaker 1>a jacket.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, oh, I guess this is Europe like bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>It was an island, so I thought it was giving

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<v Speaker 2>island by his bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>It was cold.

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<v Speaker 2>It was cold, I said, thank god, I brought a

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<v Speaker 2>jacket to wearing the airport.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it, baby, it was cold.

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<v Speaker 1>I was wearing my.

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<v Speaker 2>Baggy ass Balenciaga jacket with everything not matching.

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<v Speaker 1>Shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I know y'all saw me in the bath of suits

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<v Speaker 2>on the gram. Baby, it was coming out of my jacket.

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<v Speaker 3>It was cold. It was cold, but it was a

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<v Speaker 3>good time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I came back to Atlanta and it was fucking

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<v Speaker 2>Carnival in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>So heard, you know, the parade going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really sad and realized that in twenty twenty five,

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<v Speaker 2>I need more Caribbean friends. Shout out to Asia, who

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<v Speaker 2>I am now Carnival chasing with. However, I tried to

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<v Speaker 2>get my homegirls to go to juve with me.

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<v Speaker 3>These bitches was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, it'll get dirty. Ooh wants to do that? Ooh,

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<v Speaker 2>no girl, where is the table service? I realized that

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<v Speaker 2>my friends are two American and I'm fed the fuck up.

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<v Speaker 2>For anybody who's new here, I'm Jamaican and white. So

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<v Speaker 2>no emphasis on the white park, but emphasis on the

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<v Speaker 2>Jamaican park, and so Juve is probably one of.

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<v Speaker 1>The best feelings that I have in life. Juve is

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<v Speaker 1>a celebration.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>When I went to Saint Croix for New Year's and

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<v Speaker 2>did carnival in Saint Croix, it started at like five

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<v Speaker 2>o'clock in the morning and went to like noon. I

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<v Speaker 2>got there and it's just this wonderful Let me let

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<v Speaker 2>me look up the exact want you.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a pre dawn carnivals. The carnival, yeah, the Curban

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<v Speaker 4>countries particularly Internet.

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<v Speaker 2>So but it's one of those where you were your

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<v Speaker 2>little match in outfits with your friends and you just

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<v Speaker 2>drink and you celebrate leading into carnival. Carnival is where

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<v Speaker 2>everyone has their feathers and it's so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>For juve, you get to just enjoy life with paint.

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<v Speaker 3>And paint and mud, mud and oil.

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<v Speaker 2>And then there's these like powders that are colored. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, I don't know what the dwally is Indian celebrities,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, Nigga we and Caribbean we know, taking it

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<v Speaker 2>to Asian but looks type like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's like it is a bathing people make us.

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<v Speaker 2>Look But anyways, it's it's just like it's this feeling that.

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<v Speaker 1>Makes me happy.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Holly, sorry, Holly, is what it is? Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>that's what it looks like.

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<v Speaker 2>But Caribbean juve is probably the best feeling ever. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to convince my American homegirls to join.

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<v Speaker 1>Me, and they didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>And I said, ooh, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't care about my mental health? Like, because this is

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<v Speaker 2>one of the best I did. I guess, like the motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 3>You just kid, You just came back from my whole

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<v Speaker 3>driven night.

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<v Speaker 2>Should you tell them? I said, wow? Like, how dare

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<v Speaker 2>you not support my mental health? This is one of

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<v Speaker 2>the best parties ever. Can you not just join me?

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<v Speaker 3>Like? Mind you?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm offered to buy tickets, I said, bit, y'all buy

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<v Speaker 2>y'all outfits. I'll get the next day, next day prime

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<v Speaker 2>on the delivery for the fit. Nope, it didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't It wasn't happening. But anyways, you got decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's get started with this week's questions.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, I'm joined by Eden.

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<v Speaker 2>Weezy is not here because we are filming this in

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<v Speaker 2>the at l I and kidnapped Eden. He came down

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<v Speaker 2>here to DJA a party and I'll say, ooh you

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<v Speaker 2>want salas and let's record. Oh yeah, so this week

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<v Speaker 2>really interesting dilemma here? Should I stay in corporate or

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<v Speaker 2>become a sex worker? Whoa, hey, calm down, we are

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<v Speaker 2>not judging here.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, no, no, it's just what a contrast.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, if y'all are watching this on video,

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<v Speaker 2>we still have Horrible Decisions up. So hopefully this makes

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<v Speaker 2>you feel like you are listening to a Horrible Decisions episode.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, here we go, Hey, babes, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>start off by saying I'm so excited to see y'all

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<v Speaker 2>on tour soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Seattle secured.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, shout out to everyone in Seattle, one

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<v Speaker 2>of my favorite cities in the US of A. And

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<v Speaker 2>thanks in advance if y'all take time on this and

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<v Speaker 2>we are. I have been working with Slash for my

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<v Speaker 2>mom for the past six years, and she is dissolving

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<v Speaker 2>her ownership with the company this month. For context, she

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<v Speaker 2>owns two branches of a staffing agency.

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<v Speaker 3>And I manage them.

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<v Speaker 2>We're both relieved that she is out of a bad

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<v Speaker 2>corporate deal and my mom is already off to the

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<v Speaker 2>next agency, while I am choosing to go in a

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<v Speaker 2>different direction. However, I don't know which direction that is

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<v Speaker 2>these days. I thought it would be a freeing feeling

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<v Speaker 2>tonight I have to staff my ass off twenty five

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<v Speaker 2>to eight and worry about my mommy issues all in

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<v Speaker 2>the same business day, But instead I felt confused and

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<v Speaker 2>motivationally frozen. Being in the staffing industry for so long

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<v Speaker 2>has made me feel like a jack of all trades

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<v Speaker 2>but a master of none. I've hired, fired, and managed

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<v Speaker 2>so many jobs, but I don't actually feel passionate about

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<v Speaker 2>any particular one, and working for my mom for so

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<v Speaker 2>long has given me a sense of imposter syndrome.

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<v Speaker 1>What about master's programs?

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<v Speaker 2>But this administration has stressed me the fuck out, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm already in student debt girl and saying I've already

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<v Speaker 2>started the unimpressive job hunt and haven't come across anything,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've gotten back into my little only fans bag

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<v Speaker 2>in the meantime, which has been fun but challenging living

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<v Speaker 2>in a small town with a not so large following

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<v Speaker 2>and no friends mess no friends slash mentors in sex work.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fully aware that I am in a position where

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<v Speaker 2>I need to make new moves and grind it out.

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<v Speaker 2>But this motivational freeze is taking a toll on me

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<v Speaker 2>that I can't seem to shake. I'm looking for some

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<v Speaker 2>guidance or advice on how to thaw myself out and

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<v Speaker 2>get back on the grind. How do you find motivation

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<v Speaker 2>when everything feels so uncertain?

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<v Speaker 3>This is a good one.

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<v Speaker 2>Do I put myself in another office setting or follow

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<v Speaker 2>the one small passion I have for sex work? Thanks

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<v Speaker 2>again for y'all's time. Love your number one Horgonian fan.

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<v Speaker 2>I love Horgonian. I like that it's giving Game of

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<v Speaker 2>Thrones Katie Quick context. She is twenty seven years old

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<v Speaker 2>from organ which is why she said Horgonian. She said

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<v Speaker 2>Orgonian and she does currently have a BA in interdisciplinary studies.

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<v Speaker 2>She has no kids, no man, and scared it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be no job if she doesn't make a decision soon.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, okay, where do we start with this? Do

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<v Speaker 2>we want to start with the not sex, work, not

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<v Speaker 2>job question? Where how do you find motivation when everything

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<v Speaker 2>feels so uncertain? Because her bringing up the administration her, bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>you ain't even bring up terrorists, the terrorists, the terrorists.

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<v Speaker 2>But then also being in student debt, which y'all that

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<v Speaker 2>has no no, no, no, that is recently.

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<v Speaker 3>Get the fuck out of my credit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was gonna say, like, people are getting hit

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<v Speaker 4>hard with they're getting hit hard.

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<v Speaker 1>With the student debt right now.

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<v Speaker 2>That shit just dropped my mother fucking credit score by one.

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<v Speaker 2>And bitch, I'm trying to buy a house, so the

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<v Speaker 2>way I have to get on my student loans now?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you know, Sally May wasn't I thought I was

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<v Speaker 2>just gonna run from her forever. Yeah, as soon as

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<v Speaker 2>they took that shit off a deferment and started applying

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<v Speaker 2>that shit to credit, it's like, oh shit. And then,

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<v Speaker 2>to be fair, we talked about this, you and I

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<v Speaker 2>actually on a previous you got decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>The job market is terrible, So.

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<v Speaker 3>Can we do the motivation real quick?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Ed?

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<v Speaker 1>And how do you find motivation when everything feels so uncertain?

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<v Speaker 3>A change of scenery?

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<v Speaker 1>Ooh, not you're telling her to leave organ Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean okay, actually yes, Oh that's actually a really

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<v Speaker 3>great route. Okay, we met.

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<v Speaker 4>More so like stepping out to other ventures or doing

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<v Speaker 4>different tasks, figure out different hobbies.

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<v Speaker 3>That's more of a change of scenery.

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<v Speaker 4>Right. I'm sure you have a great routine and figuring

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<v Speaker 4>things out, but sometimes when you cycle that too often,

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<v Speaker 4>you find yourself in a bit of a funk.

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<v Speaker 3>At least I have all.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, so or even maybe yes, leave an Oregon for

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<v Speaker 4>maybe a trip somewhere nearby, like the neighboring states, or

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<v Speaker 4>maybe across the seas.

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<v Speaker 1>What the neighboring states of Oregon is g me?

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<v Speaker 3>Either? My point is right? Sure, right the bay like Vegas?

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<v Speaker 3>Right right?

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<v Speaker 4>Half a day or two, have a three day Vegas

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<v Speaker 4>trip something like that. It doesn't even have to be crazy,

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<v Speaker 4>et cetera. And it's just have a different route, change

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<v Speaker 4>the scenery, get fresh, different ideas, embrace different ventures, and

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<v Speaker 4>like maybe that'll influence you to figure other things out.

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<v Speaker 3>That being said, now going back.

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<v Speaker 4>To the other question where I feel like you'd probably

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<v Speaker 4>be a little better, well, no, I would let me.

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<v Speaker 1>Answer the motivation because the pandemic did this to me.

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<v Speaker 2>I had all these plans. Weisy and I were currently

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<v Speaker 2>on tour. Yeah, I had just quit my career. I

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<v Speaker 2>had literally quit accounting eight months before the pandemic.

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<v Speaker 1>I quit July twenty nineteen.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, and the pandemic set March.

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<v Speaker 3>Of twenty twenty. Damn that feels you know how that

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<v Speaker 3>feels freshed? I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>And so what the pandemic did for me was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even make goals for myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, everything I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>I could do in life, I have no control over anything,

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<v Speaker 2>because look, I'm in the middle of a pandemic. I

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<v Speaker 2>would have never thought I'd see that in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>And so the uncertainty of me being completely out of

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<v Speaker 2>control of my life really hit during the pandemic. And

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I would say maybe five months in I

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<v Speaker 2>had these ideas and I started diving into those more.

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<v Speaker 2>It seems like your passion is sex work. So I

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<v Speaker 2>think there's a lot of research that you could do.

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<v Speaker 2>I also won't ever. Okay, let's be very clear, OnlyFans

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<v Speaker 2>and sex work is now an entrepreneurial route hear me out.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to market yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>You are a product, you are a brand, and if

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<v Speaker 2>you're saying that you're in this small town with not

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<v Speaker 2>a big following, this might not be the route.

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<v Speaker 1>To supplement a whole career.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>So you talking about leaving corporate America for sex work.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that that's the smartest idea. Hear me out, though,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that this could be a time. And I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how much longer you have in your position.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that you're in because your mom is no

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<v Speaker 2>longer a part of this business. But I would say

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<v Speaker 2>this is where a you lean into your savings like

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<v Speaker 2>and not lean into it. I mean you start if

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<v Speaker 2>you have it yet build your savings up, like I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't leave my job until I had a savings or

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<v Speaker 2>a little security net.

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<v Speaker 1>Security net looks like six months in rent.

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<v Speaker 2>That would give you a little bit of time, and

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<v Speaker 2>unfortunately maybe you need a little bit more than that

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<v Speaker 2>because jobs are not hiring.

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<v Speaker 1>It's scarce saving.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not looking, but friends of mine and.

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<v Speaker 1>Friends looking it's it's terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>So in terms of getting out of the rut when

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<v Speaker 2>things feel so uncertain, you clearly have this passion of

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<v Speaker 2>sex work. With your degree, you said it's interdisciplinary studies,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's communications, education and humanities.

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<v Speaker 1>Now where it's not probably a lot of money. There's

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<v Speaker 1>always hiring in health.

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<v Speaker 2>In education, so whether you lean into maybe being a

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<v Speaker 2>substitute teacher for a little state jobs or a state job,

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<v Speaker 2>them motherfuckers be hired and there's benefits. So that would

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<v Speaker 2>be my first thing is maybe lean into something you

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<v Speaker 2>didn't consider at first. And if you went to school

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<v Speaker 2>for interdisciplinary studies like communications education humanities, being at a

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<v Speaker 2>staffing agency, you probably actually haven't been tapping into what

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<v Speaker 2>you went to school for. So maybe you could find

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<v Speaker 2>love in those things that those careers bring a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit more certainty.

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<v Speaker 3>Than other careers.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, for sex working, do I put myself in another

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<v Speaker 2>office setting or follow the one small passion I have

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<v Speaker 2>for sex working? My advice twenty seconds ago was to

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<v Speaker 2>find another career and you could build both. Now, sure,

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<v Speaker 2>let's be very clear, you risk losing your job if

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<v Speaker 2>your only fans gets out.

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<v Speaker 1>We've seen it happen to police officers, to teachers, to

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<v Speaker 1>fucking I like.

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<v Speaker 4>In its most minimal sense. By the way, it's it's

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<v Speaker 4>like everyone like shows pussy like.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you could lose your job for putting up cleavage.

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<v Speaker 4>Folks as long as like you're connected to that dot

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<v Speaker 4>com forward slash whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It's yeah bad, yeah, So be prepared to risk your

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<v Speaker 2>job if you plan to do both. My advice would be, however,

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<v Speaker 2>you said it's challenging living in a small town with

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<v Speaker 2>a not so large following and new friends or mentors

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<v Speaker 2>and sex work. Here's the thing that maybe you don't

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<v Speaker 2>know and I don't know how many followers you currently

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<v Speaker 2>have on OnlyFans, but there is an affiliate program ironically

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<v Speaker 2>with OnlyFans. So if you want so, say this is

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<v Speaker 2>an example, say your niche is feet picks.

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<v Speaker 1>You can go on Twitter, maybe not.

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<v Speaker 2>So much Instagram, but I would say go on Twitter

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<v Speaker 2>or go through OnlyFans.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at your competition. It's there your competition.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, if you're willing to make a new page, you

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<v Speaker 2>can reach out to one of these girls and be

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<v Speaker 2>willing to sign up under their code, which allows them

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<v Speaker 2>to get a percentage of you. But what it also does,

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<v Speaker 2>is it pushes you towards their audience.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're someone.

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<v Speaker 2>So you could either go the route of finding someone

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<v Speaker 2>that you think is really similar to you, because then

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<v Speaker 2>clearly their audience may also like you, or say niche

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<v Speaker 2>but you look different and reach out to someone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>reach out to some of the girlies through either DMS

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<v Speaker 2>their Instagram and be like, Hey, I'm looking to start

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<v Speaker 2>my only fans, I'd really like to go under you.

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<v Speaker 2>If you push my content, they get a percentage of

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<v Speaker 2>your thing, and of course they want you to be

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<v Speaker 2>successful because the more money you make, the more money

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<v Speaker 2>they make.

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<v Speaker 3>True.

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<v Speaker 2>So that would be my advice for you living in

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<v Speaker 2>a small town. Also not sure what your money looks like,

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<v Speaker 2>but how good invest in traveling? There's so many sex

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<v Speaker 2>workers shout out if you even join our patreon. There's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of girls within our community and they're over

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<v Speaker 2>on the discord and they meet with each other. But

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<v Speaker 2>they all have jobs and OnlyFans and they do things

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<v Speaker 2>where they go to travel parties where basically you're in

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<v Speaker 2>a content house.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, with a lot of work, Well, you could just

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<v Speaker 4>travel go to one of the content meetups.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to go test it and all those things.

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<v Speaker 2>But pretty much you're in a house full of other

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<v Speaker 2>sex workers where you guys pretty much collaborate and now

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<v Speaker 2>you can potentially be on other platforms with more followings.

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<v Speaker 2>You could get fans that way, and it brings you

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<v Speaker 2>outside of your little town in Organ that would be

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<v Speaker 2>your little town of Oregon.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be my advice.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's it goes hand in hand with the fun,

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<v Speaker 4>with the fact of the motivation, right, But is stepping

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<v Speaker 4>outside your comfort zone going to different places. You're a

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<v Speaker 4>little town of Organ and being financially being financially secure and.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally stage job.

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<v Speaker 2>I also want to say something all on let me see,

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<v Speaker 2>let me look up this little article I saw because

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder how this is going to impact Only Fans workers. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>so this was this week. Only Fans Owner is looking

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<v Speaker 2>to sell the UK based adult content platform to another

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<v Speaker 2>buyer and there is a current investment group looking to

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<v Speaker 2>purchase it. So what would you think the value of

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<v Speaker 2>OnlyFans is.

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<v Speaker 4>Obviously the millions, but I don't think. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>it's billions. Do you think it's billions?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Digg you wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh shit?

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<v Speaker 2>So OnlyFans Owner is currently in talks to sell to

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<v Speaker 2>an investor group at an eight billion dollar value billion eight.

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<v Speaker 1>So Nigga has money over it off of a little

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<v Speaker 1>people wanted to run day coaches and showed a.

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<v Speaker 3>T Well that's the thing. I know. There's eight billion,

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<v Speaker 3>eight billion.

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<v Speaker 1>Dollars and my doctor, evil motherfucker voice sex. I see what.

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<v Speaker 3>Should get there? He a bajillion dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so my only concern would be too, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're looking to just lean into that, there's a ton

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<v Speaker 2>of other sites where you could sell your panties. You

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<v Speaker 2>can go on chat chat chat baiter, better chat, something

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Chatter bait, chatterbase.

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<v Speaker 4>So does that make me a thought?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, you know you correcting me horrible decisions, that is crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>But because of this news and anyone else listening that

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<v Speaker 2>may not have been made aware mind you also not

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<v Speaker 2>sure if.

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<v Speaker 3>You are are in the know.

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<v Speaker 1>But there are like bills looking to be pasted, the

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<v Speaker 1>ban porn.

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<v Speaker 3>Like across so you.

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<v Speaker 4>So it is the potential fear that if they do

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<v Speaker 4>sell that, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>It could change all change not only policies, it could

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely change the restructure of how people are.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting their money.

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<v Speaker 2>And just for you to have an idea of how

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<v Speaker 2>big only Fans has growing revenue revenue you're ready. Revenue

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<v Speaker 2>for for OnlyFans went from three hundred and seve tventy

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<v Speaker 2>five million and twenty twenty to six point six billion

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<v Speaker 2>in twenty twenty three. And revenue that's that's for the year.

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<v Speaker 2>It made six point things billion in one.

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<v Speaker 3>Year, over twenty percent increase.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's great booths do both. I think you

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<v Speaker 2>can do both, but you understand the risk.

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<v Speaker 3>And hide it. Well, well, you want to make money

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<v Speaker 3>on only.

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<v Speaker 1>Fans, It's hard to hide it.

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<v Speaker 3>You got to have you really want to make I've

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<v Speaker 3>seen people do the mask. Oh you could do them.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at you? Oh you is you?

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<v Speaker 2>Is?

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<v Speaker 3>I like porn?

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<v Speaker 1>You is around?

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<v Speaker 3>I like porn you is around. I would say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what your what your body looks like,

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<v Speaker 1>tattoo eyes.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 2>I would I would say that, maybe create a character

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<v Speaker 2>like there was just Oh wait, I'm Japanese now, so

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<v Speaker 2>it's called momo con momo is oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I just is that that's what's happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Yeah, the momo means peach in Japanese.

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<v Speaker 2>That means, y'all, I'm multi lingual now because I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>to speak Japanese. But yeah, so there was just momo

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<v Speaker 2>con here in Atlanta, which means peach con. So was

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<v Speaker 2>all of these, It was all these anime characters, and

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<v Speaker 2>so there's a huge market if you do want to

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<v Speaker 2>keep your identity sealed, maybe leaning into being some sort

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<v Speaker 2>of character, one that's either known or you make one

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<v Speaker 2>up so that you can hide your identity so that

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<v Speaker 2>you could work both things. You can do OnlyFans and

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<v Speaker 2>have a job until your job, like you don't need

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<v Speaker 2>your job anymore because you're making so much money on

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<v Speaker 2>on only.

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<v Speaker 1>For you to lean into where you actually don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to show your identity.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, that's also what I've learned, even just

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<v Speaker 4>like in a like a not smaller scale, but a

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<v Speaker 4>different skill. Even with YouTube, a lot of people make

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<v Speaker 4>money with YouTube without even having to show their faces,

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<v Speaker 4>not even their voice. I know, I know, we're just

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<v Speaker 4>talking about it on the Decision Decisions episode about the

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<v Speaker 4>fact that people do or was it you got a

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<v Speaker 4>decisions the whole AI ship. So imagine being able to

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<v Speaker 4>manipulate shit like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well enough, we did do that on Decisions Decisions, So

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<v Speaker 2>there was an episode. I'm not sure which one, but

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<v Speaker 2>there is an app that currently allows you to do

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<v Speaker 2>all the movements and you pretty much can date fake

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<v Speaker 2>deep deep fake, de fake deep fake yourself into an

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<v Speaker 2>a I can mask.

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<v Speaker 4>It's still I'm sure they're still figuring it out. It

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<v Speaker 4>might be complicated, might be passed.

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<v Speaker 2>Say, you might not have fingers. You could bend that

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<v Speaker 2>ass over or.

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<v Speaker 3>Use the blur effect I've seen. I've seen views like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like tho zodos either, right, and I'll.

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<v Speaker 2>Be playing aficially. Don't want to see no blur Japanese porn,

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<v Speaker 2>right they blurring? No, I told you I watched the cartoons.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but okay, but they do that too. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Watch anything blur.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk about Like for me, I don't mind the mask,

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<v Speaker 2>but the but the blurs.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing. If y'all have listened to horrible decisions

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<v Speaker 1>back in the day, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>I am a shallow ass bitch, so I even need

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<v Speaker 2>I need people to be attractive, the bodies of face.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to actually be in the room and lick a

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<v Speaker 2>little something like, that's what turns me on to see

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<v Speaker 2>attractive people.

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<v Speaker 3>Fuck.

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<v Speaker 4>Just to wrap it up, could you give me three

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<v Speaker 4>ways to do only fans or I guess sex work

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<v Speaker 4>content because it has be visual that doesn't require face.

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<v Speaker 2>I just said, so character where you wear a mask, boom.

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<v Speaker 2>You could also you could also film it to where

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<v Speaker 2>no face is shown. So say you do POV, so

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<v Speaker 2>POV is shot to where you're holding it. They're only

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<v Speaker 2>seeing everyone please you, so maybe someone just eating you out,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe them on top of you, Like there's a POV

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<v Speaker 2>way that you can shoot porn to where your face

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't need to be in it. And then the other

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<v Speaker 2>one would be to focus on.

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<v Speaker 3>Other body parts.

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<v Speaker 2>So whether it's feet, whether it's your boobs, whether it's

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<v Speaker 2>your ass, whether I don't know, niggas is weird, maybe it's.

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<v Speaker 1>You kneecap, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>But focusing on just body parts because there are so

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<v Speaker 2>many men in the kink space that have attraction to

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<v Speaker 2>those things that aren't highlighted often well, titties and ass

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<v Speaker 2>is of course, but there's other parts of your body

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<v Speaker 2>that could really bring you in money, Like I said,

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<v Speaker 2>like your feet armpits are a big one.

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<v Speaker 3>Armpits are a big one.

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<v Speaker 2>And then, like I said, there's a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>that will pay for your panties or or bras or

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<v Speaker 2>worn things, so you could also just sell your items

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<v Speaker 2>as well. So there's a lot of ways that you

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<v Speaker 2>can make it without showing your face the to answer

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<v Speaker 2>your questions. Though, definitely keep a corporate job until you're

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<v Speaker 2>making enough money on OnlyFans, because there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>changes happening right now with the laws and with that platform,

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<v Speaker 2>specifically that I wouldn't put all of my eggs in that.

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<v Speaker 3>Basket, all right, Terras girl, Terras, Terris, Well.

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