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Speaker 2: for You Got Decisions?

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Speaker 3: Why did you make me sound mad? Europeans?

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Speaker 1: Because which was just a Malta and death Europe?

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Speaker 2: And boy did ILL get confused thinking it was the Caribbean.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, it was cold. I was on a boat with

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Speaker 2: I said, oh, I guess this is Europe like bitch.

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Speaker 1: It was cold.

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Speaker 2: It was cold, I said, thank god, I brought a

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Speaker 3: That's it, baby, it was cold.

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Speaker 2: I know y'all saw me in the bath of suits

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Speaker 3: It was cold. It was cold, but it was a

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Speaker 1: It was a good time.

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Speaker 2: Then I came back to Atlanta and it was fucking

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Speaker 1: So heard, you know, the parade going on.

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Speaker 2: I'm really sad and realized that in twenty twenty five,

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Speaker 2: I need more Caribbean friends. Shout out to Asia, who

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Speaker 2: I am now Carnival chasing with. However, I tried to

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Speaker 2: Like, it'll get dirty. Ooh wants to do that? Ooh,

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Speaker 2: For anybody who's new here, I'm Jamaican and white. So

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Speaker 2: When I went to Saint Croix for New Year's and

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Speaker 2: So but it's one of those where you were your

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Speaker 1: For juve, you get to just enjoy life with paint.

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Speaker 3: And paint and mud, mud and oil.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, Nigga we and Caribbean we know, taking it

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Speaker 3: Well, it's like it is a bathing people make us.

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Speaker 2: Look But anyways, it's it's just like it's this feeling that.

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Speaker 3: Oh Holly, sorry, Holly, is what it is? Okay, yes,

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Speaker 2: on the delivery for the fit. Nope, it didn't happen.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't It wasn't happening. But anyways, you got decisions.

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Speaker 2: want salas and let's record. Oh yeah, so this week

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Speaker 2: really interesting dilemma here? Should I stay in corporate or

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Speaker 2: become a sex worker? Whoa, hey, calm down, we are

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Speaker 3: Okay, no, no, it's just what a contrast.

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go, Hey, babes, I want to

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Speaker 2: start off by saying I'm so excited to see y'all

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Speaker 1: Seattle secured.

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Speaker 2: By the way, shout out to everyone in Seattle, one

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Speaker 2: we are. I have been working with Slash for my

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Speaker 2: But this administration has stressed me the fuck out, and

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Speaker 2: again for y'all's time. Love your number one Horgonian fan.

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Speaker 2: I love Horgonian. I like that it's giving Game of

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Speaker 1: And how do you find motivation when everything feels so uncertain?

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Speaker 4: Right, so or even maybe yes, leave an Oregon for

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Speaker 3: Either? My point is right? Sure, right the bay like Vegas?

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Speaker 1: Look at your competition. It's there your competition.

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Speaker 2: So that would be my advice for you living in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, with a lot of work, Well, you could just

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Speaker 2: But pretty much you're in a house full of other

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Speaker 1: That would be my advice.

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Speaker 2: deep deep fake, de fake deep fake yourself into an

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Speaker 2: a I can mask.

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Speaker 4: It's still I'm sure they're still figuring it out. It

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Speaker 4: might be complicated, might be passed.

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Speaker 2: Say, you might not have fingers. You could bend that

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Speaker 2: ass over or.

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Speaker 3: Use the blur effect I've seen. I've seen views like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: I don't like tho zodos either, right, and I'll.

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Speaker 2: Be playing aficially. Don't want to see no blur Japanese porn,

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Speaker 2: right they blurring? No, I told you I watched the cartoons.

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Speaker 3: No, but okay, but they do that too. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: don't want to.

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Speaker 1: Watch anything blur.

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Speaker 2: Talk about Like for me, I don't mind the mask,

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Speaker 2: but the but the blurs.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. If y'all have listened to horrible decisions

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Speaker 1: back in the day, here we go.

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Speaker 2: I am a shallow ass bitch, so I even need

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Speaker 2: I need people to be attractive, the bodies of face.

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Speaker 3: I need to.

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Speaker 2: Want to actually be in the room and lick a

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Speaker 2: little something like, that's what turns me on to see

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Speaker 2: attractive people.

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Speaker 3: Fuck.

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Speaker 4: Just to wrap it up, could you give me three

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Speaker 4: ways to do only fans or I guess sex work

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Speaker 4: content because it has be visual that doesn't require face.

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Speaker 2: I just said, so character where you wear a mask, boom.

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Speaker 2: You could also you could also film it to where

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Speaker 2: no face is shown. So say you do POV, so

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Speaker 2: POV is shot to where you're holding it. They're only

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Speaker 2: seeing everyone please you, so maybe someone just eating you out,

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Speaker 2: maybe them on top of you, Like there's a POV

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Speaker 2: way that you can shoot porn to where your face

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Speaker 2: doesn't need to be in it. And then the other

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Speaker 2: one would be to focus on.

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Speaker 3: Other body parts.

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Speaker 2: So whether it's feet, whether it's your boobs, whether it's

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Speaker 2: your ass, whether I don't know, niggas is weird, maybe it's.

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Speaker 1: You kneecap, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But focusing on just body parts because there are so

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Speaker 2: many men in the kink space that have attraction to

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Speaker 2: those things that aren't highlighted often well, titties and ass

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Speaker 2: is of course, but there's other parts of your body

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Speaker 2: that could really bring you in money, Like I said,

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Speaker 2: like your feet armpits are a big one.

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Speaker 3: Armpits are a big one.

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Speaker 2: And then, like I said, there's a lot of people

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Speaker 2: that will pay for your panties or or bras or

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Speaker 2: worn things, so you could also just sell your items

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Speaker 2: as well. So there's a lot of ways that you

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Speaker 2: can make it without showing your face the to answer

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Speaker 2: your questions. Though, definitely keep a corporate job until you're

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Speaker 2: making enough money on OnlyFans, because there's a lot of

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Speaker 2: changes happening right now with the laws and with that platform,

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Speaker 2: specifically that I wouldn't put all of my eggs in that.

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