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Speaker 1: Second date of date, Alexis, how many times has Brooke

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Speaker 1: offered to set you up on a date with a

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Speaker 1: guy she knows and you've said.

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Speaker 2: No? Thanks?

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Speaker 3: Good?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What do you not trust Brooke to have any cool,

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Speaker 1: young honky male friends for you?

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Speaker 3: I think we have different definitions a cool young honkey

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah?

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Speaker 1: Or are you worried that you're going to show up

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Speaker 1: and it's going to be a playdate with her son?

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Speaker 5: That might be better than who you guys are almost

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Speaker 5: the same age couple.

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Speaker 1: One day, well, one of our listeners, Lily, was fighting

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Speaker 1: the same way Alexis was. Her friend wanted to set

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Speaker 1: her up on a date, and Lily kept on saying no, Lily,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: How you doing, Hey, I'm good. It's good to be here.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I take it your friend wasn't good help

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Speaker 5: because you're calling us instead.

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Speaker 3: Actually that's the thing. My friend ended up being great help.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh that's not usual.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, so she's been trying to set me up

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Speaker 3: for a long time. I've been single for probably about

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Speaker 3: a year now.

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Speaker 5: Is she one that like sets you up with anyone

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Speaker 5: she knows? Or is it the same person she's been

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, the same person.

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Speaker 1: Well that's weird too, because now it's like this guy

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Speaker 1: can't get a date either, So that's.

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Speaker 2: A that's smart.

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Speaker 6: Well, hey, you're both red flags.

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Speaker 4: Though very vibrant red ma green.

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Speaker 2: So you eventually met up with him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Well I kept saying no, you know, because my

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Speaker 3: whole idea was like, look, I can find a guy

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Speaker 3: on my own, you know, like I don't want to

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Speaker 4: Did you blame her for it and that's why you No.

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Speaker 3: I think she just might feel bad. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I just didn't want to like make things weird between us.

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Speaker 6: Okay, there's a different level of pressure when it's do

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Speaker 6: you know this guy's name?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? His name was Matt Matt, Matt Matt.

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Speaker 4: And did you get to like look at his socials?

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Speaker 5: Like, did she give you any proof of what the

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Speaker 3: No? She was just like take it from me, Trust me.

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Speaker 3: This guy is a winner. Like, I think you would

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Speaker 3: really hit it off.

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Speaker 4: She must be persistent for you to finally cave.

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Speaker 3: She was, because I didn't cave. She tricked me.

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Speaker 4: Oh what do you mean.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we had a big work event the other week

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Speaker 3: to like celebrate the big work win. So we all

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Speaker 3: went out to the club and after the club, somebody

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Speaker 3: was like, Hey, let's bring the party back to my place.

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Speaker 3: So we all ended up at a house party and

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Speaker 4: And that was by design.

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Speaker 2: Yes, definitely. Okay, So what did you think when you

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Speaker 2: saw Matt?

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Speaker 3: So he's easy on the eyes, he's great, and we

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Speaker 3: ended up just chatting casual style.

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Speaker 7: Good.

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Speaker 1: You didn't do the formal chat with him, the casual.

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Speaker 2: Chat, you didn't take a large bow. Yeah that's nice.

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Speaker 5: But did he know that your friend had been trying

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Speaker 5: to hook you too up? Because sometimes that's really awkward,

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Speaker 5: but it's also could be something you bond over.

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Speaker 3: He didn't say, oh.

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Speaker 4: He didn't say, you don't know if he knew.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know. But at one point in our

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Speaker 3: conversation he just drops that he doesn't know how to drive,

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Speaker 7: Was like, wait, what is like?

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Speaker 1: Is it that he never tried to learn, or that

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Speaker 4: Up less could get a license? I mean, can you

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: No, he just never bothered to learn. It just wasn't

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Speaker 6: Yeah, if you live in a big city, you literally

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Speaker 3: Have some preds that just got their license real Yeah, well.

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Speaker 1: That's because you're teen, or maybe he's from a wealthy

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Speaker 2: Okay, that was where my thought mine first time.

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Speaker 4: But it doesn't matter. I mean, was that okay with you?

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Speaker 3: Well, so of course it's getting late and I'm in

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Speaker 3: a very good food so I'm like, hold up, I'm

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Speaker 3: going to teach you how to drive right now. Come

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Speaker 4: What late night?

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Speaker 5: After the club girl, after the club, after the house parts.

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Speaker 3: Basically, we went to a nearby mall parking lot and

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Speaker 3: I taught him how to drive.

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Speaker 5: Fun because I just remember learning to drive as my

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Speaker 3: I said, it's pretty stressful.

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Speaker 2: And how many casualties were there that night?

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Speaker 3: Thankfully none?

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was a fun time. We just drove

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Speaker 3: he thanked me for teaching him, and there was a

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Speaker 3: little kiss.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I think my driving instructor the same way.

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Speaker 2: A good call.

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Speaker 6: They teach you don't kiss and drive.

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Speaker 4: The others did in the back seat.

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Speaker 3: Next so I drove him back to his place, kissed

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Speaker 3: me good night, and that was it.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god. You have heard from.

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Speaker 3: Him technically a little. I mean the next day we

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Speaker 3: just like a yeah, thanks, that was fun.

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Speaker 7: Ha ha ha.

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Speaker 4: They laughed a lot.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that was fun haha. By okay, he was

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Speaker 4: Have you checked with your friend who was setting you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, of course I checked with her because I was like,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, you were right. He's amazing and we

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Speaker 3: had a great time kissed out. But no, she hasn't

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Speaker 3: heard from him either. She is just as frustrated about

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Speaker 3: seem to have worked. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Right, maybe because you taught him to drive. He's like,

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Speaker 6: I'm finally gonna be able to go on a road Yeah,

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Speaker 6: in another country, right.

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Speaker 1: Now, get dozens of dates left and right. Well, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna find out. We're gonna call him in just a

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Speaker 1: minute here, and Brooke is going to back seat drive

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Speaker 1: I'm doing.

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Speaker 4: Somebody needs to be in control.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 1: How many rom coms have that scene where one character

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Speaker 1: teaches the other how to drive a stick shift through

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Speaker 1: a corn field and then they veer off almost hit

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Speaker 6: Dang, I haven't seen this.

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Speaker 4: I don't see that either.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, who's in that one country?

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Speaker 2: I am gossling.

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Speaker 1: White girl here.

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Speaker 7: Girl.

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Speaker 1: Well, that scene played out in real life the other

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Speaker 1: day for our listener, Lily.

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Speaker 2: I don't think there's kind I mean, no pals.

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Speaker 1: It was, and it was just a regular automatic car

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Speaker 1: him how and it turned out to be a great

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Speaker 1: night with laughter and kissing. But now the romance is

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Speaker 1: stuck in neutral car. We're gonna call this guy and

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Speaker 1: try and kick it back into drive sport mode.

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Speaker 3: If yeah, you ready to do this, Lily, I'm so ready. Yes.

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Speaker 5: Think we're like four cylinder show it's fine, insurance doesn't cover.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm excited for you.

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Speaker 5: It's weird that your friend doesn't know either. That was

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Speaker 5: so adamant that you two go out. I think that

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Speaker 5: that's the strangest part is he's not just calling not

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, he's just like disappear or something. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Crazy.

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Speaker 2: Well, let's get some answers. I'm gonna call him right now.

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Speaker 2: We'll see what he has to say. Here we go.

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Speaker 7: Hello, Hey, is this Matt Speakin? Who's this?

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Speaker 1: My name is jeff You may have heard this voice

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Speaker 1: before on a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning.

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Speaker 5: He doesn't drive.

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Speaker 4: You may not listen, that's true.

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Speaker 2: Do you have podcasts?

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Speaker 7: Sorry, I'm not familiar with it.

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Speaker 1: All right, Uh, well, you're on a segment right now

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Speaker 1: called a Second Date Update, and we're trying to help

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners get back in touch with you

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Speaker 1: after you two hung out the other night.

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Speaker 2: Her name's Lily.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god? Oh whoa really?

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Speaker 4: Is that a good huh?

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Speaker 7: Or about?

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Speaker 4: Oh? We can't tell?

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Speaker 7: Uh? You know, I I don't really want to talk

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Speaker 7: about this. Oh, If that's okay?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I understand your hesitation, but this is how

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Speaker 1: the segment works. Like Lily knows that she may be

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's just it's just a very difficult situation really

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Speaker 7: on your side?

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Speaker 5: Is it something personal for you then? Because it sounds

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Speaker 4: Her side, she liked you, she'd like to go out again.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's very much on my side.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right. Do you plan to reach out to

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Speaker 2: Lily at any point?

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Speaker 7: Maybe I'm just trying to figure out a way to

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Speaker 7: do it.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean, just with a call or text?

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Speaker 1: Maybe we can help you out if you're going through

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Speaker 1: something and you need to like work things through.

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Speaker 6: Wait a minute, so, are you like involved with somebody,

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Speaker 6: because you can just be honest with us about that, bro.

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Speaker 7: No, No, I'm not involved with anybody. It's more complicated

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Speaker 4: You're married, you're involved.

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Speaker 2: With many.

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Speaker 7: No, not that either.

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Speaker 4: Do you want us to just play the guessing game

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Speaker 4: for Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I don't think there's any way you guys would guess

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Really if you could give us just a little bit

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Speaker 1: of information, because Lily could really use a little closure

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Speaker 1: on this. She really fell for you the night that

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Speaker 4: So you talked to her friend?

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, and she was I don't know how to scrape.

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Speaker 7: She just like had this look of shock on her face.

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Speaker 7: What hold on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, Lily's friend now admits that she has feelings

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I thought she was joking, so, you know,

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Speaker 1: So it sounds like there might be there might actually

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Speaker 7: I don't know. I had never thought about it.

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Speaker 6: I understand because they do say a lot of times

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Speaker 5: Like telling somebody to order fries when it's you that

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she was hoping that Lily would reject him so

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Speaker 5: But that's a weird way to go about it. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: Matt.

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Speaker 1: It's not a horrible position for you to be in,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you guys got to tell him now.

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Speaker 1: I just got to tell you, Matt, this is super awkward.

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Speaker 7: Hey Matt, Hey, Hey Lily. Oh, I'm really sorry. I

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Speaker 7: This's not how I wanted you to find out.

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Speaker 3: I am so overwhelmed. I just I don't know what

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Speaker 5: I'll say, it doesn't sound like your friend did this

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Speaker 1: I feel like maybe your friend lied to you on purpose.

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Speaker 1: She definitely lied about saying that she didn't hear from

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Speaker 4: Well, what is she gonna say? I heard from him.

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Speaker 4: I confess my love to him. That would be the truth.

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Speaker 7: I thought.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't know what to say either.

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Speaker 6: Probably, Lily, she was trying to tell you how great

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Speaker 2: She fell for him too.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it makes sense.

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Speaker 5: She's like trying to convince you over and over again,

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Speaker 3: For him, it's really making me rethink our entire friendship

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Speaker 3: and like what else she might be keeping from me that, Oh, Mad.

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Speaker 4: This is so messy for you to be in the middle.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, man, well I don't want to and anyone's friendship

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Speaker 4: It out, every guy.

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Speaker 1: I like how you think, Matt, this is a good

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Speaker 6: I know, let's all have some drinks again.

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Speaker 2: But what's wrong? What's wrong with that?

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Speaker 4: Brook? It's not what the women want.

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Speaker 1: If you were twenty years younger and a few drinks deep,

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Speaker 4: Could Matt, have you got out with the other girl already?

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Speaker 4: The friend?

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Speaker 7: No? Not at all?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay jokes aside.

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Speaker 1: In all honesty, Matt sounds pretty sincere, like he just

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Speaker 2: That's not working.

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Speaker 3: So Matt, I just I don't know what the right

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Speaker 7: I don't know, really, I don't have an answer for you.

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Speaker 7: I think I think you got to talk to our

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Speaker 4: So you can't decide between them.

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Speaker 7: Still, No, I don't think it's a matter of deciding.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, yeah, that'd be a pretty messy road

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Speaker 2: So I mean, maybe it's not a bad.

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Speaker 1: Idea for all three of you guys to talk it

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Speaker 3: Whoa, that's I gotta I gotta put the gotta put

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Speaker 3: a big old yellow flag out stare on that one.

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Speaker 2: Restaurants. Should we go somewhere else?

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Speaker 3: No, I just I've got so much to work out.

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Speaker 3: I had no idea this is going to go this direction.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm sorry this is happening. I know this

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Speaker 2: is a lot. Keep us posted.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I hope more than anything your friendship, you know,

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Speaker 4: And then Matt, I mean, you're in a win win situation.

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Speaker 6: So yeah, let us know who you pick.

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Speaker 7: Matt. I don't know, but when when I do, I think, okay, okay,

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Speaker 7: I mean if I if I end up with either

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Speaker 6: It's gonna be tough. Just like when you learn parallel

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have one of them behind you being like, no.

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Speaker 3: You.

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Speaker 2: Do the other thing, crank the wheel to the right.

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Speaker 7: You know, a lot of adults don't know how to drive, guys.

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Speaker 1: Jeff in the morning, man, I kind of wanted to

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Speaker 1: ask Lily if she would like to do an awkward

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Speaker 2: Out what was going on.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure. Well, it seemed like Lily was kind of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not.

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Speaker 5: Like we can just oh my god, right, she is

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Speaker 6: Ye.

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Speaker 4: Freend obviously is it coming to her kids? She knows

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Speaker 4: it's so awkward.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I've heard that stuff happen sometimes where you're

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Speaker 4: Oh man, you've heard that before.

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Speaker 6: I feel like it's the opposite for two girls are fighting, like,

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Speaker 6: come on, you date them?

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Speaker 3: No, no data.

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Speaker 1: I really hope that we do get an update though

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Speaker 1: from this situation. Invested in that to find out who

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Speaker 1: in a completely different direction.

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Speaker 4: I mean, maybe after this he doesn't have any choices anymore, or.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we broke him from dating forever. So if you'd

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Speaker 1: like to be broken from dating forever.

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Speaker 2: Email the show. We can help make that happen.

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