WEBVTT - Drama For Your Mamma!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Alright, hello, and welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to another episode of Reasonably Shide. My name is Giselle Bryan's.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey everyone, I'm Robin Dixon. Oh my gosh, this is

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<v Speaker 1>episode called Sexy Voice. Just kidding now, I'm just taking

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for joining us, a kid, thank you, Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much for joining us. Thank you for everything

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<v Speaker 1>that you'll do. We are here because of you. We

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<v Speaker 1>are here because indeed, all right, so per usual, we

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<v Speaker 1>have our reasonably shady moments of zoeek Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to go first? Yes, you go first? Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>my reasonably shady moment is courtesy of my hair stylists,

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<v Speaker 1>Shirley Shirley. We love Shirley. I love Shirley. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>more Shureley forever. Um, so you know we recently went

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<v Speaker 1>to l A. It Sureley happened to be in l

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<v Speaker 1>A doing hair for the ebany one hundred event, so

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<v Speaker 1>she needs to be really nice. And by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>ebany one hundred, I wasn't invited and NA that was Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>I know maybe next time, well one eye yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean A hundred years or hundred people, a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred hundred people that they're trying to honor, and not

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<v Speaker 1>that you need to honor me, but I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been there. They could have made a D two.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, okay, so okay. So Shirley was there and

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<v Speaker 1>she was able to do my hair for the appearance

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<v Speaker 1>on the reel. So we added some pieces to my hair,

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<v Speaker 1>some extensions, and she didn't have like usually you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I add pieces, it's like a clip on or

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<v Speaker 1>like a tape tab or something. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>She just had like the tracks that she glued onto

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<v Speaker 1>my hair. Right, So she's like, oh, yeah, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>know you just when you go home, you take them,

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<v Speaker 1>just rub some olive oil on it and it will

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<v Speaker 1>slip right on out. T I today spent two hours

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<v Speaker 1>getting these tracks out of my hair and this glue

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<v Speaker 1>out of my hair. I looked like my had My

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<v Speaker 1>hair looked like oil flick like and it literally was

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<v Speaker 1>like I mean, she she's literally, oh, it's just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>slide on out. Some of them slid up on out,

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<v Speaker 1>but most of them was like it was just so

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<v Speaker 1>much work. I'm like, my hands are getting my arms

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<v Speaker 1>getting tired. My neck is tired. I'm like rubbing the

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<v Speaker 1>oil in. I'm trying to get it out. And then

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<v Speaker 1>once you and then once you get the hair off,

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<v Speaker 1>the glue is still in the hair. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta get get the glue out and you're trying not

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<v Speaker 1>to pull your real hair, like break your real hair out.

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<v Speaker 1>And then so then my hair is an oil slick

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<v Speaker 1>because I have all this olive all my hair. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta shampoo it and you know, get all that out,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm still pulling out glue us and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>willingly so I know because Cole has done that to me.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was a big fight after that, because like,

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<v Speaker 1>you never want glued down tracks, never no good. But

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<v Speaker 1>they're good because they lay really flat. So that's why

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<v Speaker 1>they use them, you know. Apparently that's all kim Ka uses. Really, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>apparently she she keeps hair nice and long and flat

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<v Speaker 1>because she has it glued onto her head. But yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, no, this did not just slide on out.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a whole like literally, it took longer to

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<v Speaker 1>get them out than it took to put them in. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so kim Ka and Shirley or Shady, Yes, yes, both

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<v Speaker 1>of y'all shady, Shirley, Oh okay, so my shady moment

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<v Speaker 1>is okay. So I do have an excesseband. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jamal and yeah you heard a femi time or two,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we like to like share what we're watching,

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<v Speaker 1>what we're binging with each other. So he and he's

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<v Speaker 1>like obsessed with it, like if he thinks something is

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<v Speaker 1>really good, like he's gonna call me like every day

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<v Speaker 1>and make sure you watch it. Did you start watching you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you start watching? What do you think? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think? Let's talk about it? And so he has

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<v Speaker 1>been on squid Game, right, Okay, So I started watching

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<v Speaker 1>first episode, I was like, this is horrible. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I watched the second episode and I was like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is freaking horrible. I don't like this. But then I

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<v Speaker 1>watched the episode, watched the horrid damn thing. Okay, it

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<v Speaker 1>was a guid game. Y'all are shady because I hated

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<v Speaker 1>it and I didn't want to watch it, but I

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<v Speaker 1>kept I kept watching because you're like, it's got to

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<v Speaker 1>get good at some point because so many people are

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<v Speaker 1>talking about squid games. But isn't it kids, Well, kids

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<v Speaker 1>should not be watching it and Okay, so of course,

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<v Speaker 1>uh squid games on Netflix. I think either seeing in

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<v Speaker 1>or somebody because Jamal just sent me this article. It

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<v Speaker 1>says that kids should not be watching Squid Game because

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<v Speaker 1>it's really it's like violent, it's beyond it like turns

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<v Speaker 1>like the regular kiddie games into and like the killing people.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't win the game or something, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you die a horrible death. Okay, and I and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like to watch stuff like that. It gives me nightmares.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm telling y'all whoever has not watched Squid Game,

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<v Speaker 1>don't watch it. Sorry, Netflix, it's shady because I just

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<v Speaker 1>kept watching it thinking it's gonna give up. And I

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<v Speaker 1>heard that like the schools are banning Squid Game Halloween uniforms,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean costumes. Um, and my my kids watched it,

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<v Speaker 1>like somehow. My and my kids don't really watch TV

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<v Speaker 1>like that. They played a video game all the time

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<v Speaker 1>or they're you know, outplaying sports, and one day they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, we gotta watch quick Game. We gotta watch

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<v Speaker 1>Quid Game. I'm like, what is that? And so they

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<v Speaker 1>sat on the couch and binge Due and Glory and

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<v Speaker 1>Carter might grow up and be acts murderers, Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>not I'm just kidding. I'm really joking, but like it's

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<v Speaker 1>it really it glorifies dying. So there was nothing good

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<v Speaker 1>about it, like nothing entertaining. So I'm changing this. The

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<v Speaker 1>shady person of the week is Jamal Bryant because I

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<v Speaker 1>said to him, why did you make me watch this?

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<v Speaker 1>And why do you like this? He was like, just hell,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many plots and twists and turns. It really

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<v Speaker 1>gets into the mental um thoughts about why people do

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<v Speaker 1>what they do and are they driven by money? He

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<v Speaker 1>had like a four point sermon, he said to me,

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<v Speaker 1>So really, Jamal, you're the shape and none of that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>It all happened. But I don't care about that, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care about like what drives people to kill? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just not my thing. Yes, anyway, we're moving on. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of Halloween, do you have a costume? Um? I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>The time has flown so fast that like I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>even realized that Halloween is coming up? Yes, and then

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<v Speaker 1>like where am I going? I don't. Is anyone happen

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<v Speaker 1>a party? Okay, So by time I hear this, Halloween

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<v Speaker 1>will have happened. Okay, so we can talk about some

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<v Speaker 1>things here. Yeah, we can talk Halloween guys, Happy Halloween. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So for Halloween guys, it was a major full circle

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<v Speaker 1>moment for Giselle because we all went to l A.

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<v Speaker 1>We were on the reel Awesome Awesome Opportunity season six,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was a Potomac takeover of the reel. So

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<v Speaker 1>like all of us were on for the week. It

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<v Speaker 1>was an amazing thing. We appreciate the fact that the

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<v Speaker 1>reel was like really into it. They came out as

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<v Speaker 1>in like holding like what we hold champagne glasses and

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves there holding her diamond like it was. It was great,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, It was awesome. Yes, So I did the

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<v Speaker 1>Halloween episode and they asked me what I wanted to be,

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<v Speaker 1>and I went through all of these different costumes and

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<v Speaker 1>finally one of my girlfriends was like, he should be

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<v Speaker 1>Vanessa Aams when she won Miss America. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>like should I really? And she was like okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>I love it to know me to know that, and

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<v Speaker 1>Robin Robin probably has this issue too. So back in

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<v Speaker 1>when she won. The next morning, my father woke me

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<v Speaker 1>up and he was like, just Zoe you look like

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<v Speaker 1>Miss America. You look just like Miss America Essa Williams.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, dad, what's for practice? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about? So but then from that day for

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<v Speaker 1>the next years, everybody thought I was her, asked me

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<v Speaker 1>was I her? Said you look like her? Related. I've

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<v Speaker 1>signed autographs because they didn't believe I wasn't her. I've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten into parties saying I was way. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>like a major full circle moment. Oh my god, that

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<v Speaker 1>is funny. And I wanted to I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>know I nailed it. No, you sent me to picture

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<v Speaker 1>and and that you know the episode. I haven't seen

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<v Speaker 1>an episode yet, but the picture. I was like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that was spot on spot. Did you send it to

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<v Speaker 1>your dad? No, because I want him to be surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>But I loved it. I feel like it's a full

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<v Speaker 1>circle moment. She was the first black Miss America. She

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<v Speaker 1>was a bad one, like she took her platform and

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<v Speaker 1>made a complete and utter career out of it. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we love you, Vanessa. Yes, yeah, I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. I think people will love it when

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<v Speaker 1>they see it because that's the picture. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this everything. So it's so when you mentioned your dad

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<v Speaker 1>watching you on the reel. Um. Hello. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>shout out my mother, who listens to the podcast, apparently,

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<v Speaker 1>because she called me the other day and was like, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to the pie, I watched you on the

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<v Speaker 1>reel and you did really, really really well. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I listened to the podcast and it was like this

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<v Speaker 1>one episode where you you weren't like you. You weren't

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<v Speaker 1>talking really um confidently and I need you to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what do you talk about? She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but there's other episodes where you do, but

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<v Speaker 1>there was this one where you didn't and I need

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<v Speaker 1>you to talk more confidently. And I said, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for listening. So hi, mom, does this sound

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<v Speaker 1>confident enough? Probably not. You probably don't like that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So don't you just love our parents? Okay, first of all, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>the parents are kind of like we love y'all with

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<v Speaker 1>y'all at the worst because it's like y'all y'all's commentary.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it makes sense and sometimes it's like what are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking so random? I was like, okay, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's kind of like a compliment. But then

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, that wasn't a compliment. It's not a compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Oh my gosh. Okay, so we got

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<v Speaker 1>to get into it all right. First of all, we're

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<v Speaker 1>so excited because in the state of Maryland or no,

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<v Speaker 1>in the county, I don't know, no mask. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to wear a mask anymore where. Oh no, that's like,

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<v Speaker 1>um it's mcgarmer County, Montgomery County. Yes, in mcgarmer County,

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<v Speaker 1>we no longer indoors. We no longer have to wear

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<v Speaker 1>a mask because our our cases are so low, which

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing. So, for instance, I went to the gym

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<v Speaker 1>this morning. No mask. Yes, that's like a great thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But still people need to be careful. Yes, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>people definitely do be careful. I saw an article where

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<v Speaker 1>it said the COVID cases are declining all across you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the US, UM, which of course is attributed to the

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<v Speaker 1>vaccine and the mask wearing. But they said, still, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of interesting, um, because the US still has

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<v Speaker 1>the low lower vaccination rate than like some of the

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<v Speaker 1>other countries. Some of the other countries are like, you know, vaccinated,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're like, what is it. Fifty seven percent of

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<v Speaker 1>the US population is fully vaccinated. Um. So even though

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<v Speaker 1>our cases are declining, we still have a little ways

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<v Speaker 1>to go with the vaccination. And I'm happy that the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>the younger kids now from five to eleven, they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to approve that pretty soon, I think, for them to

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<v Speaker 1>get vaccinated. UM so, you know, come on, let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>let's get a job. Let's get the vaccinated and stop

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<v Speaker 1>being a rebellious child. I feel like all of the

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<v Speaker 1>um jobs that are like, you have to get vaccinated

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<v Speaker 1>in order for you to have continue to have your job,

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<v Speaker 1>and the people are like, oh no, I wannt want

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<v Speaker 1>to do that because they're being told to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just being like a rebellious right. Yeah, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're not doing it because you don't because you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want someone to tell you that you have to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. It's like you're trying to prove a point.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like how many times do I three an

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<v Speaker 1>article where it's like, oh, you know, two parents. I

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<v Speaker 1>saw this article. Reason it was heartbreaking was two parents.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like forty and forty eight, they have five children,

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<v Speaker 1>both got of COVID and of course the man you

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<v Speaker 1>know there, he's the husband as he's dying it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I had got in the vaccine. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's and it's like, oh my god, like we're almost thereal.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's so crazy to think, like how long we've

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<v Speaker 1>been in this pandemic, Like we've been in it over

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<v Speaker 1>since mar so so a long time. A year and

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<v Speaker 1>a half pretty much, Like it is still mind boggling

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<v Speaker 1>to me that we even got here, Like it's so weird,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's so weird that like our normal now is

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<v Speaker 1>like wearing masks and like just it's it's so crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm here for the mask on the airplane because

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<v Speaker 1>it's quite it's tight quarters on the airplane. So oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. I mean I actually feel like I'll probably

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<v Speaker 1>wear masks even, you know, as the pandemic subsides, like

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<v Speaker 1>because I haven't really had like a cold and all

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<v Speaker 1>that type of stuff. You know, my kids not until

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<v Speaker 1>they went back to school did they get strapped throat.

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<v Speaker 1>But um. But but we still have to be careful

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<v Speaker 1>because they said there is a new COVID variant called

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<v Speaker 1>Delta plus. Oh so wait a minute, there's delta and

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<v Speaker 1>then now there's Delta Delta plus. Yeah. Yeah, so let's

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<v Speaker 1>keep our eye out on that. But but I did

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<v Speaker 1>read or here on CNN that, um they said, it

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't really spread here yet, it's mostly in the UK.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's let's hope it. Let's hope it stays over there,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all going to London. Don't bring that over yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>I know we have people in the UK who listened.

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<v Speaker 1>So just wear your mask and stay protected. Stay protected. Okay, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta talk about this woman who was set up

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<v Speaker 1>on a blind date. Okay, because these people are crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>like I do crazy stuff, You do crazy stuff, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>but wait that damn grazy what happened? Okay? So she

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<v Speaker 1>was set this woman. I believe she was in Korea

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<v Speaker 1>or a she's somewhere. Okay, she was set up on

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<v Speaker 1>a blind date. She brought twenty three of her family

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<v Speaker 1>members to the restaurant with her for the blind She

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<v Speaker 1>walked in the door with twenty three people. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if she walked in with them, but the table. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she walked in with twenty three people on a blind

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even know this dude, You don't know the dude,

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<v Speaker 1>and you bring you don't bring your home girl, you

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<v Speaker 1>bring your whole damn family. What Okay? So then the

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<v Speaker 1>bill came and so first of all, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>we already know when when you know this morning, three

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<v Speaker 1>people at the table, the bill can be a little hairy,

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<v Speaker 1>could be a moment. Okay, we already know that. Looking around,

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking around like, well, who babe, I just drank

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<v Speaker 1>water real slow. I had water. I had water, and

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<v Speaker 1>I asked the way just to bring me some limit

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<v Speaker 1>and some sugar and I made my own. That's free, y'all. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So the bill comes as thirty and the dude knew, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what were they eating ramen? Anyway? So he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, at that, I'm not getting stuck with nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>The dude sat and dine please. He already knew, he

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<v Speaker 1>already calculated in his head, and he knew what he

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna do. Brother said, I'm going to the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be right back. Did we ever see him? He dipped?

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<v Speaker 1>Come on now, dip baby dip. He was goals cat gone.

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<v Speaker 1>He ran out the back door. Okay, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>so he said, oh, I got one for you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna sit here and eat. Yeah, I'm entertained, smooth,

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<v Speaker 1>and guess what I don't blame him. Okay, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a wives tale, just happened. And guess what, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you deserve. And I can call her a home that's

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<v Speaker 1>what you deserve. This is a fable favorite. Okay, there's

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<v Speaker 1>there's a moral to this story. Know what the moral is.

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<v Speaker 1>But guess what? That was some time ful and some shenanigans.

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<v Speaker 1>But let me tell you what's also going to be

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<v Speaker 1>some time fooler and shenanigans. And I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's called Porsche's Family Matters portion has her own

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<v Speaker 1>spin off. Guys, y'all know portions, my girl. I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be on Bravo's coming I think airing on

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<v Speaker 1>Sundays Summer in December. But they the trailer for it dropped, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and the trailer was. The trailer was like all kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of time foolery and shenanigans, and I was here for

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<v Speaker 1>every second of it. I can't imagine like having a

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<v Speaker 1>show like that where you have all these you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you have this family, these people with all these personalities,

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<v Speaker 1>and like you were literally like it's one thing for

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<v Speaker 1>us to film our ensemble show because you know, there's

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<v Speaker 1>only so much time they can devote to your personal life,

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<v Speaker 1>like oh my gosh, like and the people look like

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<v Speaker 1>they came to play. They listen. And and Porshea's sister

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<v Speaker 1>who we we've seen on Atlanta over the years. It

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<v Speaker 1>seems kind of mild manner. She was coming from. Portion

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<v Speaker 1>like South, you're gonna be wife number fourt how you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna deal with that? What happened to other three wives? Pa?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean that was like serious inquiring minds

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<v Speaker 1>want to know listen. And it was Dennis for me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so Dennis talking about, yeah, she always gonna love me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you said that. I think I'm making

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<v Speaker 1>this up, but it was like very much like focused

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<v Speaker 1>on the fact that maybe there's some unresolved issues between

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<v Speaker 1>her and Dennis, and um, the overlap of it all.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I'm here for it is the whole. Your

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<v Speaker 1>your baby daddy's fionce, baby daddy is filming the show,

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<v Speaker 1>Your baby daddy, Mama, Your baby daddy mama. She was

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<v Speaker 1>there too. I can't wait. Who this is gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>some good stuff. Portion, we are here for anything. I

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<v Speaker 1>predict great ratings, get your get your coins. And in meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 1>and actually, you know, I didn't want to really talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this again, but like the failin girl is pregnant

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<v Speaker 1>and engaged to the other guy. Okay, I mean she's

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<v Speaker 1>making pregnant like she was probably pregnant then. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm like, okay, I think I had said some

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<v Speaker 1>things before. Now you want to retract, I might want

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<v Speaker 1>to retract. Okay, So Porshel put a record. Robin is

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<v Speaker 1>retracting any commentary that she made negatively business being pregnant

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<v Speaker 1>with the poor boy and they they engaged, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>walking around with a ring that she bought for herself

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<v Speaker 1>all the money that Simon gave her when they got divorced. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I said it. Yeah, I'm just gonna business. Okay. We

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<v Speaker 1>minded our business as we move on. So this this

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<v Speaker 1>story like touched my heart, like in a really big way.

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<v Speaker 1>This whole alec ball went and the gun and shooting

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<v Speaker 1>a crew member. Okay, So so let's just let's just

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<v Speaker 1>put this in perspective. So you know, Rob and I

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<v Speaker 1>have been filming our show for six seasons. Our crew

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<v Speaker 1>is like our are like our people, like they've become

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<v Speaker 1>our family. Absolutely, there in our lives, there in our houses,

0:19:16.680 --> 0:19:19.639
<v Speaker 1>they you know, we talked to them constantly seven so

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, I can't imagine something happening in the moment

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<v Speaker 1>on our watch. You're responsible. You're responsible because like Alec

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<v Speaker 1>Baman will never get over this. So I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure most people know, but Alec Baldman was on the

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<v Speaker 1>set of a movie that he's producing and he's the

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<v Speaker 1>lead actor and called rust and he was handed you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a Western film. So he was handed a gun.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they were running throughing like a rehearsal of

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<v Speaker 1>the scene. He was handed handed a gun. He was

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<v Speaker 1>told it was a cold gun, which means there's no

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<v Speaker 1>live ammunition in it, and he's going through his you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the scene and he fires the gun and a aparently,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, moments later, the the one of the camera

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<v Speaker 1>the camera woman said her stomach hurt and then they

0:20:07.480 --> 0:20:09.440
<v Speaker 1>looked and there was like, you know, she was bleeding

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<v Speaker 1>out and he also so she was shot and they

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<v Speaker 1>also hit. I think it was the director. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just thinking, like, can you I can't imagine. I cannot

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<v Speaker 1>imagine why were there real bullets in the gun. That

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<v Speaker 1>is the weirdest thing, because they're not like, why is

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<v Speaker 1>there live ammunition anywhere on the set, Like that's what.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I really feel like this is like a murder mystery.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't think this was a straight up accident.

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<v Speaker 1>It just doesn't seem it's not even logical why there

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<v Speaker 1>would be bullets like live ammunition on the set because

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<v Speaker 1>you're not supposed to have it. You're not supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>have it. And this woman also can can imagine. So

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<v Speaker 1>she's a mother, she was just married, um and alcohol

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<v Speaker 1>ball Win had to go and talk to her husband

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<v Speaker 1>and be like, yeah, I shot your wife and she's dead. Horrible.

0:20:56.680 --> 0:20:59.200
<v Speaker 1>But it's like he probably that's like it's crazy because

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, um reality, Like you know, he's an actor,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like real life like kind of took over

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<v Speaker 1>in on set, like while he's acting. It's like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so then so then what in respectability do we continue

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<v Speaker 1>to shoot this film or do we scrap the whole project?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was scrapping. I think I wonder how

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<v Speaker 1>long have they been on that set. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I don't. I don't see how anyone, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean not even Alec Balwin. I don't see how anyone

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<v Speaker 1>can even continue. How can they show up to that

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<v Speaker 1>set and you're looking around and you're like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you scrap it. But I really think I almost

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there was like conspiracy theories. He said. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like some you know, Trump Trump people planted it

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<v Speaker 1>or something. I don't know, but I do feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just an accident. No, I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>an accident. I think we're gonna get to the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of it, and we might not know. They might not

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<v Speaker 1>tell it, and I wish they had, like I doubt

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<v Speaker 1>they have like security cameras well, unless they do, because

0:21:53.160 --> 0:21:55.600
<v Speaker 1>there's like you know, expensive equipment and stuff. But like

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<v Speaker 1>that's a horrible so Alec Baldwin, we're frankly, but you

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<v Speaker 1>know it. I'm sorry. I don't mean to cut you

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<v Speaker 1>off when you when you mentioned like our camera, our crew,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't even put it into that perspective, but

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<v Speaker 1>I did immediately, damn immediately, Like if something happened on

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<v Speaker 1>while we're filming and god forbid, one of our crew

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<v Speaker 1>got killed, yeah, I we wouldn't be able to finish this,

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<v Speaker 1>finish the whole season. Well, it'd be done, yes, um,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm all about the show must go on. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think the show at that point. Yeah, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope I would borrowing in and everyone else

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<v Speaker 1>involved is getting some sort of like you know help, Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And her name was Helena, Helena, Helena. We're praying for

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<v Speaker 1>Helena's family as well. Now on to another note of

0:22:44.160 --> 0:22:47.440
<v Speaker 1>y'all out here with too much time on your hands. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a Ray who we love who has a

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<v Speaker 1>show called Insecure, decided that the boogie um cast, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the actor who's playing somebody very booge right and educated

0:23:01.760 --> 0:23:04.280
<v Speaker 1>and you know, dots her eyes and crosses all of

0:23:04.320 --> 0:23:06.960
<v Speaker 1>her teas who we love, and the characters played by A.

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<v Speaker 1>Manda Seals. I love her too, the characters Tiffany, the

0:23:10.560 --> 0:23:13.320
<v Speaker 1>characters Tiffany, and Tiffany is a member of my sorority

0:23:13.359 --> 0:23:17.199
<v Speaker 1>called Alpha Kappa. Alpha. Sore Wars had their painties in

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch because she had on paraphernalia, said, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think she had on like the official symbol of our

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<v Speaker 1>shi off, the shield of Alvaca. Okay, alright, so Sores

0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:33.840
<v Speaker 1>went into an uproar. How dare they show our shield

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<v Speaker 1>on Insecure? Who does the MANA Seals think she is?

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<v Speaker 1>She is not a member of the civility, And I like,

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<v Speaker 1>did y'all forget she's an actress? Right? How are you better?

0:23:46.480 --> 0:23:49.960
<v Speaker 1>Sore wroars. I love y'all, but y'all, this not the

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<v Speaker 1>fight we're gonna fight. Okay, we got other fights to fight. This,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't it. I saw that and I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm almost like how many people were mad? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it was one stupid ass person that

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<v Speaker 1>tweeted and then all hell broke loose. Yes, and then

0:24:08.040 --> 0:24:10.280
<v Speaker 1>all hell broke loose because I'm like, most people with

0:24:10.320 --> 0:24:12.760
<v Speaker 1>the brain are like, yes, this is a show and

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<v Speaker 1>she's acting right, and like, oh wow, that's so awesome

0:24:15.800 --> 0:24:19.160
<v Speaker 1>that they represented our survives. But you know what I mean,

0:24:19.200 --> 0:24:22.280
<v Speaker 1>like it's so, oh that's great. So for someone to

0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:25.720
<v Speaker 1>get mad, it's not like you were at the stoplight

0:24:25.960 --> 0:24:30.760
<v Speaker 1>and the homeless woman you know we go to college

0:24:31.480 --> 0:24:33.920
<v Speaker 1>is wearing your paraphernalia. This is this is an actress

0:24:33.920 --> 0:24:37.919
<v Speaker 1>who's portraying a college educated person. Like it's so so

0:24:38.000 --> 0:24:40.760
<v Speaker 1>I really think this the whole response to it was

0:24:40.760 --> 0:24:42.479
<v Speaker 1>blown out of proportion because I really think it was

0:24:42.520 --> 0:24:45.119
<v Speaker 1>one person that had an issue. I do, but you

0:24:45.200 --> 0:24:49.640
<v Speaker 1>know what, so you know, I think the the production

0:24:49.680 --> 0:24:51.399
<v Speaker 1>someone you know involved on the show was like, you know,

0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:53.280
<v Speaker 1>we have to get permitted. We got permission for that.

0:24:53.600 --> 0:24:57.960
<v Speaker 1>But then I saw where your national people that was

0:24:58.000 --> 0:25:02.639
<v Speaker 1>fat which one? Which which one? But the nationals, like

0:25:02.760 --> 0:25:06.000
<v Speaker 1>National sent a letter or something that said that they

0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:10.160
<v Speaker 1>said that was fake. I have to do my due

0:25:10.200 --> 0:25:12.879
<v Speaker 1>diligence because anytime something comes down from the national headquarters

0:25:12.880 --> 0:25:15.600
<v Speaker 1>like that, I do get a personal email, and I

0:25:15.600 --> 0:25:18.720
<v Speaker 1>can't remember if I got one, but um, I am

0:25:18.720 --> 0:25:22.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna say that typically yes, And and I know this.

0:25:22.200 --> 0:25:24.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm speaking for it from experience because I know from

0:25:24.720 --> 0:25:26.760
<v Speaker 1>real house bands Potomac, if I wear or something that

0:25:26.760 --> 0:25:30.399
<v Speaker 1>says a k a um, they're gonna blurred or something

0:25:30.960 --> 0:25:32.720
<v Speaker 1>that I think we've gotten away with it. But like

0:25:32.800 --> 0:25:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I've never worn like the official UM shield or I

0:25:35.600 --> 0:25:38.920
<v Speaker 1>mean crest or whatever, the official ivy I've never worn.

0:25:39.680 --> 0:25:43.680
<v Speaker 1>And then people are like, oh, well, Spike Lee, Um,

0:25:43.720 --> 0:25:45.879
<v Speaker 1>you know when he did school days, it was like

0:25:45.920 --> 0:25:50.720
<v Speaker 1>these fake sororities and fraternities. Spike Lee couldn't get no approval, okay,

0:25:51.119 --> 0:25:53.800
<v Speaker 1>but Spike was just excited he had a day a movie,

0:25:53.960 --> 0:25:57.399
<v Speaker 1>Like what so I just I really feel like a

0:25:58.040 --> 0:26:02.000
<v Speaker 1>it's it's an honor when and we are imagine the

0:26:02.000 --> 0:26:04.920
<v Speaker 1>people that are watching Insecure who don't know anything about

0:26:05.240 --> 0:26:08.920
<v Speaker 1>black maternities and sororities, and the eyeballs on us like

0:26:09.080 --> 0:26:12.879
<v Speaker 1>that's I think, great, not something that we should be

0:26:12.880 --> 0:26:15.040
<v Speaker 1>complaining about, right, And it's not like I mean, I

0:26:15.359 --> 0:26:17.399
<v Speaker 1>didn't see the episode, but it's not like she was

0:26:17.400 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 1>acting a fool. No, she's she's not like a hall

0:26:20.160 --> 0:26:22.880
<v Speaker 1>on the street. She's not a criminal. She's not she's

0:26:22.880 --> 0:26:26.280
<v Speaker 1>not what I'm thinking, Okay, she's just so. I remember

0:26:26.280 --> 0:26:29.000
<v Speaker 1>one time when um, I think it was season two,

0:26:29.800 --> 0:26:31.879
<v Speaker 1>I have a ring. I'm so, I'm a member of

0:26:32.000 --> 0:26:35.200
<v Speaker 1>another sorority, Dalta Sigma Data, and I have a ring

0:26:35.280 --> 0:26:39.159
<v Speaker 1>with the symbols on it a ring okay, And on

0:26:39.200 --> 0:26:41.800
<v Speaker 1>the show I wore it filmed scene I wore and

0:26:41.800 --> 0:26:45.480
<v Speaker 1>I was drinking a glass of champagne. And one of

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 1>my sore wars like literally messaged me like, oh no,

0:26:48.960 --> 0:26:52.600
<v Speaker 1>you're wearing symbols and you're drinking on TV. That's not alloud.

0:26:52.840 --> 0:26:56.159
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like what I'm like, okay, Like let's not

0:26:56.280 --> 0:26:58.439
<v Speaker 1>go too far with it. Like the drinking thing is like, no,

0:26:58.520 --> 0:27:02.080
<v Speaker 1>you don't. You can't be like getting. It's not respectful

0:27:02.119 --> 0:27:04.879
<v Speaker 1>to be getting like wasted. Right, I can't drink a

0:27:04.880 --> 0:27:08.840
<v Speaker 1>glass of champagne. Yes you can, Oh my gosh, so

0:27:08.840 --> 0:27:12.520
<v Speaker 1>so yes, Well, we have respect for our sorority. We

0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:17.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, we honor and value. It's it's importance and significance.

0:27:17.160 --> 0:27:20.920
<v Speaker 1>It's like, come come on, y'all, come on, sorebars, calm down,

0:27:20.960 --> 0:27:22.480
<v Speaker 1>get your panties out of a bunch, and we're moving

0:27:22.520 --> 0:27:24.600
<v Speaker 1>on in Jesus name, Okay, so can we put your

0:27:24.640 --> 0:27:28.119
<v Speaker 1>pinkies up y'all? Yeah, and be proud and and a

0:27:28.160 --> 0:27:30.879
<v Speaker 1>man's the seals, Um playing Tiffany, you did a very

0:27:30.920 --> 0:27:34.600
<v Speaker 1>good job. We're moving on. So Um, the People's Choice

0:27:34.600 --> 0:27:38.760
<v Speaker 1>Awards nominations came out, and um, the Real Housewives of

0:27:38.760 --> 0:27:42.320
<v Speaker 1>Atlanta was nominated. We're excited for them. And I think

0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Candy Burrst was nominated individually for a reality star. We're

0:27:46.240 --> 0:27:52.480
<v Speaker 1>excited for Candy. But um, choice, People's Choice. I mean,

0:27:52.480 --> 0:27:56.760
<v Speaker 1>we love you down. How lots longer do we have

0:27:56.840 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>to be around and be ignored? I'm sick of being ignored.

0:28:00.359 --> 0:28:03.159
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's gonna be Season twelve, Season twel we

0:28:03.160 --> 0:28:06.720
<v Speaker 1>gotta get to season twelve. I mean, we've had some

0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:11.240
<v Speaker 1>some monumental seasons. People's choice, like, what is what is

0:28:11.240 --> 0:28:13.959
<v Speaker 1>the criteria? Is there a voting system? Because I can

0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:16.159
<v Speaker 1>get all my people that I know to get the

0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:19.679
<v Speaker 1>voting for us. Okay, I need to know what is

0:28:19.720 --> 0:28:22.480
<v Speaker 1>the process. That is funny, I missed that. I mean,

0:28:22.600 --> 0:28:26.440
<v Speaker 1>but I mean you were think like, yes, how long

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:28.199
<v Speaker 1>does it take? How long does it take? Okay? So

0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:32.480
<v Speaker 1>people's choice do better, people's choice do better? Okay, that's it.

0:28:32.560 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm I've said off. I had to say about that.

0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:37.439
<v Speaker 1>Now I do want to shout out Magda Stallion, and

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I do. I do want to know, okay because last

0:28:41.200 --> 0:28:44.560
<v Speaker 1>year we had the spicy chicken sandwich from fip Eyes

0:28:44.680 --> 0:28:47.760
<v Speaker 1>now right, and everybody went crazy and was standing in line.

0:28:47.800 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 1>And now we got a Magda Stallion chicken something situation

0:28:51.520 --> 0:28:55.320
<v Speaker 1>with some hottie sauce. I want some hottie sauce. Yes,

0:28:55.360 --> 0:28:57.800
<v Speaker 1>I do. Okay, So if you see me in line

0:28:57.840 --> 0:29:00.360
<v Speaker 1>of Popeyes, just know I'm going to get some hottie sauce.

0:29:01.080 --> 0:29:03.880
<v Speaker 1>What is what is hottie sauce? Do we know what it's?

0:29:04.040 --> 0:29:07.040
<v Speaker 1>It's it's a. It's what does it taste like? Like? What?

0:29:07.240 --> 0:29:09.560
<v Speaker 1>That's what we're gonna find out. But it's her, So

0:29:09.560 --> 0:29:11.960
<v Speaker 1>it's a mystery sauce. Well, I mean it's the Megan.

0:29:12.160 --> 0:29:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean if you go there like, oh, what Sasha

0:29:14.240 --> 0:29:17.959
<v Speaker 1>can a barbecue ranch, sweet honey muster like not as

0:29:17.960 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 1>a hottie? What the hell does that taste like? It

0:29:21.480 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 1>tastes like a hotie? I don't know where we go.

0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna find out. Actually, Carly, we're gonna give Carly

0:29:26.520 --> 0:29:28.800
<v Speaker 1>a job and she's gonna to be to get us

0:29:28.840 --> 0:29:32.440
<v Speaker 1>some hottie sauce. So Megan gets a sauce. Not no,

0:29:32.680 --> 0:29:34.880
<v Speaker 1>she got a whole meal from what it's like a

0:29:34.920 --> 0:29:37.080
<v Speaker 1>meal and you get a hottie sauce with it. Yeah,

0:29:37.080 --> 0:29:39.280
<v Speaker 1>that it comes with the hottie sauce. Yeah, I want

0:29:39.360 --> 0:29:42.240
<v Speaker 1>some hottie sauce. I dare you? Because I don't think

0:29:42.280 --> 0:29:47.160
<v Speaker 1>that you eat Popeye's. Well, my dual, my children, I

0:29:47.320 --> 0:29:49.360
<v Speaker 1>want that. You know, my children's go to its Chick

0:29:49.400 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>fil A and occasionally because they do like the frod

0:29:52.760 --> 0:29:55.640
<v Speaker 1>chicken sand Yes, we we might end up at a

0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Popeye's or I'll be honest, there's not really one like

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:01.600
<v Speaker 1>really around my house. But I'm just saying, now that

0:30:01.760 --> 0:30:04.360
<v Speaker 1>Meg has the hottie sauce, we got to support and

0:30:04.400 --> 0:30:14.440
<v Speaker 1>get the hottie sauce. Okay, Okay, Robert, We've got to

0:30:14.480 --> 0:30:16.360
<v Speaker 1>talk about some real things out here in these streets

0:30:16.400 --> 0:30:20.280
<v Speaker 1>because we have put a a question to the people,

0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:24.160
<v Speaker 1>and the question was because you know, okay, let's be clear,

0:30:24.200 --> 0:30:27.080
<v Speaker 1>it's October, guys, and about five more minutes it's gonna

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:31.200
<v Speaker 1>be November. So you know what that means Thanksgiving and

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 1>families come together for Thanksgiving, and we still in our

0:30:34.920 --> 0:30:38.280
<v Speaker 1>had messed up about things that happened Thanksgiving dinner, like

0:30:38.680 --> 0:30:40.720
<v Speaker 1>last year and the year before that and year before that,

0:30:40.840 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 1>like when the family gets together, some some not sense.

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 1>So we asked, we put the question out to the people,

0:30:48.280 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 1>do you have crazy family drop? And y'all answered that

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:58.240
<v Speaker 1>day of question WHOA Okay? I think okay, So I

0:30:58.280 --> 0:31:02.520
<v Speaker 1>think we should keep everyone's name anonymous. UM, and I

0:31:02.560 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 1>want to start off by saying, to to everyone who shared,

0:31:05.400 --> 0:31:07.520
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for sharing. UM. You know a

0:31:07.520 --> 0:31:12.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of your stories are indeed crazy full of drama. UM,

0:31:12.680 --> 0:31:14.880
<v Speaker 1>you know a lot of them. I felt very you

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:17.280
<v Speaker 1>know a lot of sympathy for you and your family

0:31:17.320 --> 0:31:18.920
<v Speaker 1>and what you're going through. And so I just want

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 1>to you know, say, you know, I'm whatever it is

0:31:21.080 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 1>that y'all are going through. I'm so sorry that you know,

0:31:23.880 --> 0:31:28.280
<v Speaker 1>you're you have these experiences. Um. And I also want

0:31:28.280 --> 0:31:30.880
<v Speaker 1>to thank everyone for sharing so that we can share

0:31:30.920 --> 0:31:33.160
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of our listeners, you know, I think

0:31:33.240 --> 0:31:34.920
<v Speaker 1>one of the great things about you know, us being

0:31:34.960 --> 0:31:36.800
<v Speaker 1>on the show or even the podcast is like we

0:31:36.840 --> 0:31:40.920
<v Speaker 1>share stuff with people to make them understand that like, Okay,

0:31:41.240 --> 0:31:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm you know, I'm okay, I'm normal, because there's other

0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 1>people out here who are experiencing drama and trauma and

0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:50.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, have crazy things going on in their life.

0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:53.520
<v Speaker 1>So you know, sharing these stories is a way for

0:31:53.560 --> 0:31:57.760
<v Speaker 1>everyone to know like you're not alone. Everybody you know

0:31:57.840 --> 0:32:00.440
<v Speaker 1>has something going on, and so you know, it's just

0:32:00.480 --> 0:32:04.560
<v Speaker 1>a matter of supporting one another, showing empathy and support

0:32:04.680 --> 0:32:08.400
<v Speaker 1>and um, you know, and and hopefully people don't have

0:32:08.440 --> 0:32:12.719
<v Speaker 1>to like struggle alone or by themselves. Agree, Agree, agreed.

0:32:14.200 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 1>Let's see, this was actually kind of funny, y'all. I'm

0:32:18.480 --> 0:32:20.560
<v Speaker 1>sorry I was laughing when I read it. Okay, So

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:23.600
<v Speaker 1>the question is, do you have any crazy family drama

0:32:24.200 --> 0:32:28.160
<v Speaker 1>and this this particular person wrote back and said, my

0:32:28.320 --> 0:32:32.920
<v Speaker 1>uncle got deported. His American wife had the choice to

0:32:33.000 --> 0:32:36.640
<v Speaker 1>allow him to come back for the second children who

0:32:36.720 --> 0:32:43.480
<v Speaker 1>is this person's cousin, and instead of instead decided to

0:32:43.480 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 1>divorce him. So that meant he had to wait ten

0:32:48.200 --> 0:32:51.760
<v Speaker 1>years to apply to come back, but had the nerve

0:32:51.920 --> 0:33:00.400
<v Speaker 1>to ask his sister for child support money. Talk about shady, Okay,

0:33:00.440 --> 0:33:02.680
<v Speaker 1>now this is funny to be okay. So in other words,

0:33:02.680 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 1>she was like, you know what, um, I don't want

0:33:07.200 --> 0:33:09.280
<v Speaker 1>you around no more. So I'm gonna call the I

0:33:09.520 --> 0:33:11.160
<v Speaker 1>n S is that what it's called. I'm gonna call

0:33:11.200 --> 0:33:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Homeland Security and tell you are not for ISIS. I'm

0:33:14.920 --> 0:33:18.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna call Isis Ice. I'm gonna call Ice. I would

0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:20.200
<v Speaker 1>call the people. And I'm a loot to know that

0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:22.080
<v Speaker 1>she ain't supposed to be in this country because you

0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:25.880
<v Speaker 1>are my nerves. That's what you are, my nerves and

0:33:26.000 --> 0:33:31.480
<v Speaker 1>got her husband deported. I divorce you, sir. Now let's

0:33:31.480 --> 0:33:33.960
<v Speaker 1>tell you somebody a woman scorned you better leave alone.

0:33:34.600 --> 0:33:39.480
<v Speaker 1>She will jack you up. Oh my gosh, okay, this

0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:47.800
<v Speaker 1>is crazy. My parents switched spouses and married their exes.

0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:55.240
<v Speaker 1>X what Okay, wait, okay, how does that work? So

0:33:55.320 --> 0:33:58.800
<v Speaker 1>I guess both of the parents had exes and then

0:33:59.000 --> 0:34:04.360
<v Speaker 1>oh wait, and and married there. So like you would

0:34:04.480 --> 0:34:08.160
<v Speaker 1>you would go date Jamal and I would go date wine. No,

0:34:08.360 --> 0:34:11.680
<v Speaker 1>we would know that's not right. Alright, alright, okay, we

0:34:11.760 --> 0:34:14.120
<v Speaker 1>trying to figure it out, trying to figure out it's whatever?

0:34:14.200 --> 0:34:17.480
<v Speaker 1>Does it sound crazy as hell? Okay? So your parents exes,

0:34:17.719 --> 0:34:24.040
<v Speaker 1>my parents switched spouses and married their exes X. Okay,

0:34:24.080 --> 0:34:30.359
<v Speaker 1>so if I had okay, if my parents were previously married, right,

0:34:31.120 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 1>but they divorced and they married each other. Okay. So

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:38.440
<v Speaker 1>let's say Jane and Bob and Mary and Bill. Right,

0:34:38.600 --> 0:34:40.719
<v Speaker 1>So Jane and Bob were married, and then Marry and

0:34:40.760 --> 0:34:44.720
<v Speaker 1>Bill were married right. Oh my god, it's so confusing already.

0:34:44.920 --> 0:34:48.920
<v Speaker 1>And then those people divorced okay, and then Bob and

0:34:48.920 --> 0:34:53.640
<v Speaker 1>Mary got married. O. And then they divorced, and then

0:34:53.719 --> 0:34:58.800
<v Speaker 1>Mary and Bill and Jane and Bob got I don't know,

0:34:58.960 --> 0:35:03.560
<v Speaker 1>nice giving us castle? Okay? Crazy? Okay? All right? So

0:35:03.600 --> 0:35:07.080
<v Speaker 1>I got one. I got one. So confusing. This one says,

0:35:07.160 --> 0:35:10.560
<v Speaker 1>my sister has been divorced three times, she's ready to

0:35:10.560 --> 0:35:13.399
<v Speaker 1>get married for the fourth and she's and she said

0:35:13.440 --> 0:35:16.319
<v Speaker 1>she couldn't go to the to the this fourth marriage. Okay,

0:35:16.440 --> 0:35:19.040
<v Speaker 1>she's mad, she said, it's mad. I'm not going. I mean,

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:22.840
<v Speaker 1>you can only go to so many before you realize

0:35:23.160 --> 0:35:26.200
<v Speaker 1>all they really wanted was a ninja air frying. So

0:35:26.480 --> 0:35:29.239
<v Speaker 1>I sent a present at R s v P that

0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:32.359
<v Speaker 1>I would not be there, And now she's salty sent

0:35:32.440 --> 0:35:35.560
<v Speaker 1>a present. She's lucky I didn't send my future brother

0:35:35.640 --> 0:35:40.719
<v Speaker 1>in law a divorce attorney card. But she's mad at

0:35:40.760 --> 0:35:44.000
<v Speaker 1>the new air fryer. Now that it's funny to me,

0:35:44.560 --> 0:35:49.440
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, that's crazy. That's like having multiple baby showers, right,

0:35:49.840 --> 0:35:52.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, on your fourth wedding, Like come on, now,

0:35:52.680 --> 0:35:57.160
<v Speaker 1>come on, you should really just go to the dag

0:35:57.239 --> 0:36:00.560
<v Speaker 1>On Courthouse. What kind of wedding was it? That's crazy. Listen, listen,

0:36:01.120 --> 0:36:03.239
<v Speaker 1>this is this is my thing. You can. You can.

0:36:03.280 --> 0:36:05.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna come to your second wedding, like if I

0:36:05.000 --> 0:36:06.680
<v Speaker 1>went to your first one, I'm gonna second. I ain't

0:36:06.680 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 1>going to your third wedding. Okay, you cannot get married

0:36:09.120 --> 0:36:11.520
<v Speaker 1>three times and I'm attending this nonsense. Let me tell

0:36:11.520 --> 0:36:13.480
<v Speaker 1>you something. This is this is a true story. One

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:16.680
<v Speaker 1>of my girlfriends she'll remain nameless. You know who she is. Um.

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:21.120
<v Speaker 1>She got married and her mother gave them the toast

0:36:21.160 --> 0:36:25.719
<v Speaker 1>at the reception to the new her new son in law.

0:36:26.360 --> 0:36:30.080
<v Speaker 1>She got divorced. Second wedding, the mother gave the same

0:36:30.200 --> 0:36:34.200
<v Speaker 1>damn to the new husband. I remember that thing. It

0:36:34.239 --> 0:36:38.520
<v Speaker 1>was berbato. It was berbato. I don't believe it. And

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:40.440
<v Speaker 1>I said to another girl who was next to me,

0:36:40.480 --> 0:36:42.719
<v Speaker 1>who also experienced both of these weddings, I was like,

0:36:42.960 --> 0:36:45.120
<v Speaker 1>didn she said that ship last, Oh my god? To

0:36:45.200 --> 0:36:47.720
<v Speaker 1>the first two? Oh my god, it was like shady.

0:36:47.760 --> 0:36:50.680
<v Speaker 1>That was the beginning of my shadiness. I'm lying, I've

0:36:50.680 --> 0:36:56.880
<v Speaker 1>been shading for a long time. Okay, that is hilarious. Yeah. No,

0:36:57.200 --> 0:36:59.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm definitely not going to a fourth wedding, so she

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna be mad. I'm probably not sending a gift either. No, no,

0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:05.520
<v Speaker 1>but a Ninja air friar is nice, by the way,

0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:09.759
<v Speaker 1>But how many how how many courts? Was it? Don't now?

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<v Speaker 1>Now Robin being shady? Now Robin's being shady? Okay, wait, back,

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<v Speaker 1>got another one. This one said, um, My eighteen year

0:37:15.680 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 1>old cousin from Mexico came to visit her godparents earlier

0:37:21.080 --> 0:37:23.960
<v Speaker 1>this year. Long story short, she is now daging her

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:30.120
<v Speaker 1>god dad. She took her god mama's husband. What I

0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:35.480
<v Speaker 1>saw another story like that just recently, not not what

0:37:36.239 --> 0:37:39.440
<v Speaker 1>family members from Mexico coming in town, splitting up families.

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<v Speaker 1>Now this is but dating your godfather. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>so crazy. I just saw a story. Um, they seemed

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<v Speaker 1>very southern. It was an eighteen year old that married

0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:53.040
<v Speaker 1>her sixty one year old godfather. That's terrible. Yes, and

0:37:53.360 --> 0:37:57.440
<v Speaker 1>the godfather they and then somehow it got media attention

0:37:58.040 --> 0:38:01.360
<v Speaker 1>or Instagram attention, and they keep going on Instagram and

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:05.480
<v Speaker 1>making all these videos and stuff. And the guyfather was like, um,

0:38:05.520 --> 0:38:09.080
<v Speaker 1>all these little girls hating all my wife. And then

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:11.239
<v Speaker 1>the eighteen year old was like, I mean I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to take these young boys. They can't do anything

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<v Speaker 1>for me. And then the girl's mother it was just

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<v Speaker 1>the whole man, what what race of these people take care?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to. I'm gonna move on. We love everyone.

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:30.000
<v Speaker 1>I got right mate? Wait minute, you got one? Yes? Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean this is crazy. I've got an older

0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:35.400
<v Speaker 1>sister that's so messed up. She tried to get my

0:38:35.480 --> 0:38:40.240
<v Speaker 1>parents divorced. My little sister, and I will never forget it.

0:38:41.080 --> 0:38:44.680
<v Speaker 1>That is so sad, that's very sad. That's like why

0:38:44.719 --> 0:38:48.040
<v Speaker 1>that's so weird. I mean that, that's definitely something that

0:38:48.040 --> 0:38:50.600
<v Speaker 1>would break up a family, you know, like that, that's

0:38:50.640 --> 0:38:53.920
<v Speaker 1>like you if that happened in my family. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not forgiving you for that. No, no crazy family, Joma. Okay,

0:38:57.920 --> 0:39:01.600
<v Speaker 1>this is a good one. So my grandma passed out

0:39:01.920 --> 0:39:05.400
<v Speaker 1>because I told her that I'm gay, and she started screaming,

0:39:05.400 --> 0:39:08.520
<v Speaker 1>crying it passed out, and I laughed because the way

0:39:08.560 --> 0:39:15.240
<v Speaker 1>she dropped to the floor. Okay, guys, let's be clear,

0:39:15.760 --> 0:39:18.759
<v Speaker 1>like anyone over the age of eight, don't spring on him.

0:39:18.760 --> 0:39:22.279
<v Speaker 1>That's your gay, Like, just let him be, just let up,

0:39:22.320 --> 0:39:24.319
<v Speaker 1>just just let it go to the grave. Just let

0:39:24.320 --> 0:39:26.879
<v Speaker 1>it go to the grave, because I can't. Lord only

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<v Speaker 1>knows how they're gonna handle it, and they're a little

0:39:30.040 --> 0:39:33.080
<v Speaker 1>hards especially if you know, like, Okay, Grandma, I gonna

0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:35.719
<v Speaker 1>take this, well right, Just just let grandma. Just just

0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:38.200
<v Speaker 1>let her live the rest of her life, you know,

0:39:38.400 --> 0:39:44.320
<v Speaker 1>in her stubbornness. Yes, oh good, oh my gosh. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So this one, I walked in on my mom and

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<v Speaker 1>someone from my own grade making out in my basement room.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to tell him to get the funk out

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<v Speaker 1>and then tell my mom. She ruined my reputation. She

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<v Speaker 1>also said she told you another story about her psycho

0:40:02.200 --> 0:40:05.879
<v Speaker 1>mom attacking her current boyfriend. The first time she met him.

0:40:05.960 --> 0:40:09.279
<v Speaker 1>She was wearing his sweatshirt that he gave me and

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<v Speaker 1>I told her that's awkward, Mom, please take it off.

0:40:11.480 --> 0:40:13.359
<v Speaker 1>So she walks up to him says, I heard you

0:40:13.360 --> 0:40:15.920
<v Speaker 1>want your sweat it back and pulls it off and

0:40:15.960 --> 0:40:20.440
<v Speaker 1>whips it at him and it is all going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Why they're trying to eat mash with dados and gravy Thanksgiving?

0:40:23.920 --> 0:40:26.960
<v Speaker 1>This is terrible. So I had to know. I was like, Okay,

0:40:26.960 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 1>how old was your mom? Like how much older was

0:40:28.840 --> 0:40:30.760
<v Speaker 1>your mom? Like she sounds like she was like twelve

0:40:30.840 --> 0:40:32.680
<v Speaker 1>years older than you or something, you know what I mean? Like,

0:40:32.800 --> 0:40:34.480
<v Speaker 1>why is your mom acting like that? So she says

0:40:34.520 --> 0:40:36.680
<v Speaker 1>she was twenty four Her mom's twenty four years older

0:40:36.680 --> 0:40:40.040
<v Speaker 1>than her. She was eighteen when this happened, like she

0:40:40.200 --> 0:40:43.319
<v Speaker 1>literally oh, she said she would dress way too young

0:40:43.360 --> 0:40:46.480
<v Speaker 1>for her age. She was good and daisy dukes. She

0:40:46.520 --> 0:40:48.760
<v Speaker 1>had suffered from an eating disorder since she was fourteen.

0:40:48.880 --> 0:40:50.440
<v Speaker 1>She's always been a hot mess, but that was like

0:40:50.480 --> 0:40:52.080
<v Speaker 1>the worst thing she ever did to me. She loved

0:40:52.080 --> 0:40:53.959
<v Speaker 1>her pills and liquor, so she's always up to no good.

0:40:54.280 --> 0:40:56.480
<v Speaker 1>One time she had me drive her and her loser

0:40:56.520 --> 0:41:00.520
<v Speaker 1>friends to buy coke, but they got cracked instead. That

0:41:00.600 --> 0:41:02.799
<v Speaker 1>was another thing that went too far from me. It's

0:41:02.840 --> 0:41:05.840
<v Speaker 1>all trauma and I've processed it, so don't feel bad. Happy.

0:41:05.880 --> 0:41:07.680
<v Speaker 1>I have these bad ship crazy stories to share or

0:41:08.320 --> 0:41:11.360
<v Speaker 1>and and this is good because everybody should know that

0:41:11.960 --> 0:41:17.160
<v Speaker 1>no one is immune or skips drama. We all go

0:41:17.280 --> 0:41:19.560
<v Speaker 1>through it no matter what. I don't can how you

0:41:19.600 --> 0:41:21.720
<v Speaker 1>know you look at people's families and you think they're perfect.

0:41:21.760 --> 0:41:26.080
<v Speaker 1>They're not. But also like people before you have kids,

0:41:26.160 --> 0:41:28.959
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, just make sure that you're like fit

0:41:29.080 --> 0:41:30.799
<v Speaker 1>to raise a kid, that you you know that you

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:33.839
<v Speaker 1>can be a good example for your child, because this

0:41:33.880 --> 0:41:37.839
<v Speaker 1>type of stuff, it creates lifetime trauma, you know, Like

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:39.960
<v Speaker 1>I just I feel like as a as an adult,

0:41:40.000 --> 0:41:42.799
<v Speaker 1>my responsibility to my kids is to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't do something to them or you know, create

0:41:45.920 --> 0:41:50.319
<v Speaker 1>a scenario for them that's going up negatively affect them

0:41:50.360 --> 0:41:53.040
<v Speaker 1>for the rest of their life. And and before you

0:41:53.080 --> 0:41:56.360
<v Speaker 1>have kids, to make sure that um, the person that

0:41:56.400 --> 0:41:59.439
<v Speaker 1>you're having the kids with, family you want to eat with,

0:42:00.040 --> 0:42:03.799
<v Speaker 1>arrested your life or have the potential to have to

0:42:03.840 --> 0:42:06.360
<v Speaker 1>break bread with them instead of the table with them,

0:42:06.719 --> 0:42:09.040
<v Speaker 1>deal with how they chew on their food, like all

0:42:09.080 --> 0:42:13.240
<v Speaker 1>of that, and you gotta weigh all of those things. Um,

0:42:13.280 --> 0:42:16.160
<v Speaker 1>and but the good news is that you know, we're

0:42:16.160 --> 0:42:18.400
<v Speaker 1>all in this thing together. No matter whether your family

0:42:18.480 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 1>drama is I have to go drive my mama to

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:26.200
<v Speaker 1>buy cocaine or or um, somebody came from Mexico and

0:42:26.200 --> 0:42:29.440
<v Speaker 1>stole my husband likes. You know, it varies, but we

0:42:29.640 --> 0:42:31.960
<v Speaker 1>all have drama. Now. I do want to read a

0:42:32.080 --> 0:42:34.239
<v Speaker 1>couple of things. One, I want to remind you guys

0:42:34.760 --> 0:42:39.640
<v Speaker 1>to write reviews, Oh yeah about this podcast because um,

0:42:39.680 --> 0:42:44.680
<v Speaker 1>that's important to people. And review please important because it'll

0:42:45.040 --> 0:42:46.880
<v Speaker 1>like more eyeboats will see it. So if we have like,

0:42:46.960 --> 0:42:49.600
<v Speaker 1>the more reviews we have, the better ratings we have,

0:42:50.080 --> 0:42:51.960
<v Speaker 1>more people will see it and then more people will

0:42:52.000 --> 0:42:55.719
<v Speaker 1>listen to it. So please make sure you review reasonably.

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<v Speaker 1>Shade okay, And I do want to end my my

0:42:59.320 --> 0:43:02.200
<v Speaker 1>side of of this drama with something actually kind of

0:43:02.320 --> 0:43:06.719
<v Speaker 1>nice because Batty her name is Batty. Yes, I'm saying

0:43:06.760 --> 0:43:11.200
<v Speaker 1>your name, b j B. She said, I'm gonna read

0:43:12.239 --> 0:43:15.480
<v Speaker 1>it just out. I haven't always liked you, but I

0:43:15.520 --> 0:43:17.960
<v Speaker 1>will say this episode, I don't know what episode she

0:43:18.040 --> 0:43:21.520
<v Speaker 1>watched made me see you in a different light. And

0:43:21.600 --> 0:43:25.640
<v Speaker 1>I respect your vulnerability and I understand you much more now.

0:43:26.440 --> 0:43:29.440
<v Speaker 1>I guess it was like seeing myself in the mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though you don't know me, I still feel you

0:43:32.719 --> 0:43:38.120
<v Speaker 1>deserve an apology for my judgment on you. So what

0:43:38.160 --> 0:43:41.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say to um, B j B is I

0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:44.920
<v Speaker 1>appreciate your apology, but girl, keep your judgment to yourself.

0:43:48.360 --> 0:43:50.799
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you, but you know what it takes. It

0:43:50.840 --> 0:43:54.880
<v Speaker 1>takes a good person to admit, okay, I was wrong,

0:43:55.520 --> 0:43:56.759
<v Speaker 1>or an apology, you know what I mean, Because I

0:43:56.760 --> 0:44:01.400
<v Speaker 1>think some people can say, you know, I um assume things,

0:44:01.480 --> 0:44:03.319
<v Speaker 1>or I jumped the glunt gun or whatever. So it

0:44:03.320 --> 0:44:06.520
<v Speaker 1>takes a big person to come out and say, you

0:44:06.560 --> 0:44:09.920
<v Speaker 1>know what, I was on the bandwagon and I was

0:44:10.120 --> 0:44:12.840
<v Speaker 1>hating right. But but does this make it this okay?

0:44:12.920 --> 0:44:16.680
<v Speaker 1>That you You've probably written I don't know a thousand

0:44:16.719 --> 0:44:19.080
<v Speaker 1>comments to say that I'm horrible, but you give one

0:44:19.320 --> 0:44:24.920
<v Speaker 1>that says I'm sorry, and I was supposed to be like, whoo, no,

0:44:25.560 --> 0:44:28.439
<v Speaker 1>b j B. I appreciate you, and uh, it's all good.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we're just here to entertain and to make

0:44:31.000 --> 0:44:34.080
<v Speaker 1>you guys see that we are. We are beyond relatable.

0:44:34.160 --> 0:44:35.920
<v Speaker 1>Our story is your story. And if you can look

0:44:35.960 --> 0:44:37.799
<v Speaker 1>in the mirror, if you can look at my story,

0:44:37.840 --> 0:44:39.360
<v Speaker 1>and then you look in the mirror and see yourself,

0:44:39.360 --> 0:44:41.600
<v Speaker 1>and that's a good thing. I've done my job absolutely.

0:44:42.000 --> 0:44:45.239
<v Speaker 1>And you know, our stories aren't like our stories are

0:44:45.280 --> 0:44:47.839
<v Speaker 1>not going to be relatable to one person, but there

0:44:47.920 --> 0:44:50.520
<v Speaker 1>might be a sliver of something where you're like I

0:44:50.560 --> 0:44:53.560
<v Speaker 1>can relate to that, and they can appreciate that. Yes, yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well I think that's our episode, rob This

0:44:57.600 --> 0:45:00.640
<v Speaker 1>is always a pleasure. We do appreciate you listening and

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<v Speaker 1>never forget either live your life reasonable or shady by

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<v Speaker 1>all right, By reasonably Shady is a production of the

0:45:14.000 --> 0:45:18.320
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