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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Alright, hello, and welcome

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Reasonably Shide. My name is Giselle Bryan's.

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Speaker 1: Hey everyone, I'm Robin Dixon. Oh my gosh, this is

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Speaker 1: episode called Sexy Voice. Just kidding now, I'm just taking

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Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us, a kid, thank you, Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for joining us. Thank you for everything

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Speaker 1: that you'll do. We are here because of you. We

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Speaker 1: are here because indeed, all right, so per usual, we

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Speaker 1: have our reasonably shady moments of zoeek Do you want

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Speaker 1: me to go first? Yes, you go first? Okay, So

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Speaker 1: my reasonably shady moment is courtesy of my hair stylists,

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Speaker 1: Shirley Shirley. We love Shirley. I love Shirley. I've been

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Speaker 1: more Shureley forever. Um, so you know we recently went

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Speaker 1: to l A. It Sureley happened to be in l

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Speaker 1: A doing hair for the ebany one hundred event, so

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Speaker 1: she needs to be really nice. And by the way,

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Speaker 1: ebany one hundred, I wasn't invited and NA that was Robin.

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Speaker 1: I know maybe next time, well one eye yeah, so

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Speaker 1: does that mean A hundred years or hundred people, a

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Speaker 1: hundred hundred people that they're trying to honor, and not

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Speaker 1: that you need to honor me, but I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: I've been there. They could have made a D two.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, okay, so okay. So Shirley was there and

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Speaker 1: she was able to do my hair for the appearance

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Speaker 1: on the reel. So we added some pieces to my hair,

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Speaker 1: some extensions, and she didn't have like usually you know,

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Speaker 1: if I add pieces, it's like a clip on or

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Speaker 1: like a tape tab or something. So I don't know.

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Speaker 1: She just had like the tracks that she glued onto

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Speaker 1: my hair. Right, So she's like, oh, yeah, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: know you just when you go home, you take them,

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Speaker 1: just rub some olive oil on it and it will

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Speaker 1: slip right on out. T I today spent two hours

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Speaker 1: getting these tracks out of my hair and this glue

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Speaker 1: out of my hair. I looked like my had My

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Speaker 1: hair looked like oil flick like and it literally was

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Speaker 1: like I mean, she she's literally, oh, it's just gonna

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Speaker 1: slide on out. Some of them slid up on out,

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Speaker 1: but most of them was like it was just so

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Speaker 1: much work. I'm like, my hands are getting my arms

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Speaker 1: getting tired. My neck is tired. I'm like rubbing the

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Speaker 1: oil in. I'm trying to get it out. And then

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Speaker 1: once you and then once you get the hair off,

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Speaker 1: the glue is still in the hair. And then you

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Speaker 1: gotta get get the glue out and you're trying not

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Speaker 1: to pull your real hair, like break your real hair out.

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Speaker 1: And then so then my hair is an oil slick

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Speaker 1: because I have all this olive all my hair. I

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Speaker 1: and then I'm still pulling out glue us and I'm

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Speaker 1: willingly so I know because Cole has done that to me.

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Speaker 1: And it was a big fight after that, because like,

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Speaker 1: you never want glued down tracks, never no good. But

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Speaker 1: they're good because they lay really flat. So that's why

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Speaker 1: they use them, you know. Apparently that's all kim Ka uses. Really, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: apparently she she keeps hair nice and long and flat

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Speaker 1: because she has it glued onto her head. But yes,

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Speaker 1: I was like, no, this did not just slide on out.

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Speaker 1: It was a whole like literally, it took longer to

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Speaker 1: get them out than it took to put them in. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so kim Ka and Shirley or Shady, Yes, yes, both

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Speaker 1: of y'all shady, Shirley, Oh okay, so my shady moment

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Speaker 1: is okay. So I do have an excesseband. His name

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Speaker 1: is Jamal and yeah you heard a femi time or two,

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Speaker 1: and so we like to like share what we're watching,

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Speaker 1: what we're binging with each other. So he and he's

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Speaker 1: like obsessed with it, like if he thinks something is

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Speaker 1: and make sure you watch it. Did you start watching you?

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Speaker 1: Did you start watching? What do you think? What do

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Speaker 1: you think? Let's talk about it? And so he has

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Speaker 1: been on squid Game, right, Okay, So I started watching

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Speaker 1: first episode, I was like, this is horrible. But then

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Speaker 1: I watched the second episode and I was like, this

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Speaker 1: watched the episode, watched the horrid damn thing. Okay, it

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Speaker 1: was a guid game. Y'all are shady because I hated

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Speaker 1: it and I didn't want to watch it, but I

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Speaker 1: talking about squid games. But isn't it kids, Well, kids

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Speaker 1: should not be watching it and Okay, so of course,

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Speaker 1: uh squid games on Netflix. I think either seeing in

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Speaker 1: it's really it's like violent, it's beyond it like turns

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Speaker 1: like the regular kiddie games into and like the killing people.

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Speaker 1: If you don't win the game or something, you know,

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Speaker 1: you die a horrible death. Okay, and I and I

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Speaker 1: So I'm telling y'all whoever has not watched Squid Game,

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Speaker 1: don't watch it. Sorry, Netflix, it's shady because I just

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Speaker 1: kept watching it thinking it's gonna give up. And I

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Speaker 1: heard that like the schools are banning Squid Game Halloween uniforms,

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Speaker 1: I mean costumes. Um, and my my kids watched it,

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Speaker 1: like somehow. My and my kids don't really watch TV

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Speaker 1: Quid Game. I'm like, what is that? And so they

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Speaker 1: sat on the couch and binge Due and Glory and

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Speaker 1: Carter might grow up and be acts murderers, Like it's

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Speaker 1: not I'm just kidding. I'm really joking, but like it's

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Speaker 1: it really it glorifies dying. So there was nothing good

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Speaker 1: shady person of the week is Jamal Bryant because I

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Speaker 1: said to him, why did you make me watch this?

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Speaker 1: And why do you like this? He was like, just hell,

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Speaker 1: there's so many plots and twists and turns. It really

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Speaker 1: gets into the mental um thoughts about why people do

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Speaker 1: what they do and are they driven by money? He

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Speaker 1: had like a four point sermon, he said to me,

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Speaker 1: So really, Jamal, you're the shape and none of that happened.

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Speaker 1: It all happened. But I don't care about that, Like

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Speaker 1: I don't care about like what drives people to kill? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's just not my thing. Yes, anyway, we're moving on. Okay,

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Speaker 1: speaking of Halloween, do you have a costume? Um? I don't.

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Speaker 1: The time has flown so fast that like I haven't

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Speaker 1: even realized that Halloween is coming up? Yes, and then

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Speaker 1: like where am I going? I don't. Is anyone happen

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Speaker 1: a party? Okay, So by time I hear this, Halloween

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Speaker 1: will have happened. Okay, so we can talk about some

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Speaker 1: things here. Yeah, we can talk Halloween guys, Happy Halloween. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So for Halloween guys, it was a major full circle

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Speaker 1: moment for Giselle because we all went to l A.

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Speaker 1: We were on the reel Awesome Awesome Opportunity season six,

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Speaker 1: like all of us were on for the week. It

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Speaker 1: was an amazing thing. We appreciate the fact that the

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Speaker 1: in like holding like what we hold champagne glasses and

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Speaker 1: ourselves there holding her diamond like it was. It was great,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, It was awesome. Yes, So I did the

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Speaker 1: Halloween episode and they asked me what I wanted to be,

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Speaker 1: and I went through all of these different costumes and

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Speaker 1: finally one of my girlfriends was like, he should be

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Speaker 1: Vanessa Aams when she won Miss America. And I was

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Speaker 1: like should I really? And she was like okay, So

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Speaker 1: Robin Robin probably has this issue too. So back in

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Speaker 1: when she won. The next morning, my father woke me

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Speaker 1: like a major full circle moment. Oh my god, that

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Speaker 1: know I nailed it. No, you sent me to picture

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Speaker 1: But I loved it. I feel like it's a full

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Speaker 1: one episode where you you weren't like you. You weren't

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my gosh. Okay, so we got

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Speaker 1: But still people need to be careful. Yes, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Manda Seals. I love her too, the characters Tiffany, the

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Speaker 1: characters Tiffany, and Tiffany is a member of my sorority

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Speaker 1: called Alpha Kappa. Alpha. Sore Wars had their painties in

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Speaker 1: a bunch because she had on paraphernalia, said, and I

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Speaker 1: think she had on like the official symbol of our

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Speaker 1: shi off, the shield of Alvaca. Okay, alright, so Sores

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Speaker 1: went into an uproar. How dare they show our shield

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Speaker 1: on Insecure? Who does the MANA Seals think she is?

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Speaker 1: She is not a member of the civility, And I like,

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Speaker 1: did y'all forget she's an actress? Right? How are you better?

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Speaker 1: Sore wroars. I love y'all, but y'all, this not the

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Speaker 1: fight we're gonna fight. Okay, we got other fights to fight. This,

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Speaker 1: ain't it. I saw that and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: So I'm almost like how many people were mad? Because

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Speaker 1: I feel like it was one stupid ass person that

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Speaker 1: tweeted and then all hell broke loose. Yes, and then

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Speaker 1: all hell broke loose because I'm like, most people with

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Speaker 1: the brain are like, yes, this is a show and

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Speaker 1: she's acting right, and like, oh wow, that's so awesome

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Speaker 1: that they represented our survives. But you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: like it's so, oh that's great. So for someone to

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Speaker 1: get mad, it's not like you were at the stoplight

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Speaker 1: and the homeless woman you know we go to college

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Speaker 1: is wearing your paraphernalia. This is this is an actress

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Speaker 1: who's portraying a college educated person. Like it's so so

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Speaker 1: I really think this the whole response to it was

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Speaker 1: blown out of proportion because I really think it was

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Speaker 1: one person that had an issue. I do, but you

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Speaker 1: know what, so you know, I think the the production

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Speaker 1: someone you know involved on the show was like, you know,

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Speaker 1: we have to get permitted. We got permission for that.

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Speaker 1: But then I saw where your national people that was

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Speaker 1: fat which one? Which which one? But the nationals, like

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Speaker 1: National sent a letter or something that said that they

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Speaker 1: said that was fake. I have to do my due

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Speaker 1: diligence because anytime something comes down from the national headquarters

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Speaker 1: like that, I do get a personal email, and I

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Speaker 1: can't remember if I got one, but um, I am

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Speaker 1: gonna say that typically yes, And and I know this.

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Speaker 1: I'm speaking for it from experience because I know from

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Speaker 1: real house bands Potomac, if I wear or something that

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Speaker 1: says a k a um, they're gonna blurred or something

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Speaker 1: that I think we've gotten away with it. But like

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Speaker 1: I've never worn like the official UM shield or I

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Speaker 1: mean crest or whatever, the official ivy I've never worn.

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Speaker 1: And then people are like, oh, well, Spike Lee, Um,

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Speaker 1: you know when he did school days, it was like

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Speaker 1: these fake sororities and fraternities. Spike Lee couldn't get no approval, okay,

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Speaker 1: but Spike was just excited he had a day a movie,

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Speaker 1: Like what so I just I really feel like a

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Speaker 1: it's it's an honor when and we are imagine the

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Speaker 1: people that are watching Insecure who don't know anything about

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Speaker 1: black maternities and sororities, and the eyeballs on us like

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Speaker 1: that's I think, great, not something that we should be

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Speaker 1: complaining about, right, And it's not like I mean, I

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Speaker 1: didn't see the episode, but it's not like she was

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Speaker 1: acting a fool. No, she's she's not like a hall

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Speaker 1: on the street. She's not a criminal. She's not she's

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Speaker 1: not what I'm thinking, Okay, she's just so. I remember

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Speaker 1: one time when um, I think it was season two,

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Speaker 1: I have a ring. I'm so, I'm a member of

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Speaker 1: another sorority, Dalta Sigma Data, and I have a ring

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Speaker 1: with the symbols on it a ring okay, And on

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Speaker 1: the show I wore it filmed scene I wore and

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Speaker 1: I was drinking a glass of champagne. And one of

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Speaker 1: my sore wars like literally messaged me like, oh no,

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Speaker 1: you're wearing symbols and you're drinking on TV. That's not alloud.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like what I'm like, okay, Like let's not

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Speaker 1: go too far with it. Like the drinking thing is like, no,

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Speaker 1: you don't. You can't be like getting. It's not respectful

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00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,879
Speaker 1: to be getting like wasted. Right, I can't drink a

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00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: glass of champagne. Yes you can, Oh my gosh, so

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Speaker 1: so yes, Well, we have respect for our sorority. We

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00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: you know, we honor and value. It's it's importance and significance.

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00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: It's like, come come on, y'all, come on, sorebars, calm down,

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Speaker 1: get your panties out of a bunch, and we're moving

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Speaker 1: on in Jesus name, Okay, so can we put your

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00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: pinkies up y'all? Yeah, and be proud and and a

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00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 1: man's the seals, Um playing Tiffany, you did a very

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00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: good job. We're moving on. So Um, the People's Choice

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Speaker 1: Awards nominations came out, and um, the Real Housewives of

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00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: Atlanta was nominated. We're excited for them. And I think

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00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: Candy Burrst was nominated individually for a reality star. We're

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Speaker 1: excited for Candy. But um, choice, People's Choice. I mean,

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00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: we love you down. How lots longer do we have

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00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: to be around and be ignored? I'm sick of being ignored.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's gonna be Season twelve, Season twel we

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00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: gotta get to season twelve. I mean, we've had some

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00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: some monumental seasons. People's choice, like, what is what is

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Speaker 1: the criteria? Is there a voting system? Because I can

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Speaker 1: get all my people that I know to get the

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Speaker 1: voting for us. Okay, I need to know what is

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Speaker 1: the process. That is funny, I missed that. I mean,

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Speaker 1: but I mean you were think like, yes, how long

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Speaker 1: does it take? How long does it take? Okay? So

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Speaker 1: people's choice do better, people's choice do better? Okay, that's it.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm I've said off. I had to say about that.

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Speaker 1: Now I do want to shout out Magda Stallion, and

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Speaker 1: I do. I do want to know, okay because last

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Speaker 1: year we had the spicy chicken sandwich from fip Eyes

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00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: now right, and everybody went crazy and was standing in line.

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Speaker 1: And now we got a Magda Stallion chicken something situation

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Speaker 1: with some hottie sauce. I want some hottie sauce. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I do. Okay, So if you see me in line

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Speaker 1: of Popeyes, just know I'm going to get some hottie sauce.

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Speaker 1: What is what is hottie sauce? Do we know what it's?

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00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: It's it's a. It's what does it taste like? Like? What?

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Speaker 1: That's what we're gonna find out. But it's her, So

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Speaker 1: it's a mystery sauce. Well, I mean it's the Megan.

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Speaker 1: I mean if you go there like, oh, what Sasha

530
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,959
Speaker 1: can a barbecue ranch, sweet honey muster like not as

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Speaker 1: a hottie? What the hell does that taste like? It

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00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: tastes like a hotie? I don't know where we go.

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00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna find out. Actually, Carly, we're gonna give Carly

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Speaker 1: a job and she's gonna to be to get us

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Speaker 1: some hottie sauce. So Megan gets a sauce. Not no,

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00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: she got a whole meal from what it's like a

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Speaker 1: meal and you get a hottie sauce with it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that it comes with the hottie sauce. Yeah, I want

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Speaker 1: some hottie sauce. I dare you? Because I don't think

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Speaker 1: that you eat Popeye's. Well, my dual, my children, I

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00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: want that. You know, my children's go to its Chick

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00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: fil A and occasionally because they do like the frod

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00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: chicken sand Yes, we we might end up at a

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00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: Popeye's or I'll be honest, there's not really one like

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Speaker 1: really around my house. But I'm just saying, now that

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Speaker 1: Meg has the hottie sauce, we got to support and

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00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: get the hottie sauce. Okay, Okay, Robert, We've got to

548
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: talk about some real things out here in these streets

549
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 1: because we have put a a question to the people,

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00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: and the question was because you know, okay, let's be clear,

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00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 1: it's October, guys, and about five more minutes it's gonna

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00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: be November. So you know what that means Thanksgiving and

553
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: families come together for Thanksgiving, and we still in our

554
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 1: had messed up about things that happened Thanksgiving dinner, like

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Speaker 1: last year and the year before that and year before that,

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Speaker 1: like when the family gets together, some some not sense.

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00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: So we asked, we put the question out to the people,

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00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: do you have crazy family drop? And y'all answered that

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00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: day of question WHOA Okay? I think okay, So I

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00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: think we should keep everyone's name anonymous. UM, and I

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Speaker 1: want to start off by saying, to to everyone who shared,

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00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: thank you so much for sharing. UM. You know a

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00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: lot of your stories are indeed crazy full of drama. UM,

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00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: you know a lot of them. I felt very you

565
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: know a lot of sympathy for you and your family

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Speaker 1: and what you're going through. And so I just want

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00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: to you know, say, you know, I'm whatever it is

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00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: that y'all are going through. I'm so sorry that you know,

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00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 1: you're you have these experiences. Um. And I also want

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00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: to thank everyone for sharing so that we can share

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00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: because a lot of our listeners, you know, I think

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00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: one of the great things about you know, us being

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00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: on the show or even the podcast is like we

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00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: share stuff with people to make them understand that like, Okay,

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00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm okay, I'm normal, because there's other

576
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: people out here who are experiencing drama and trauma and

577
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: you know, have crazy things going on in their life.

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00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 1: So you know, sharing these stories is a way for

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00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: everyone to know like you're not alone. Everybody you know

580
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: has something going on, and so you know, it's just

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00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: a matter of supporting one another, showing empathy and support

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00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: and um, you know, and and hopefully people don't have

583
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:12,719
Speaker 1: to like struggle alone or by themselves. Agree, Agree, agreed.

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Speaker 1: Let's see, this was actually kind of funny, y'all. I'm

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00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 1: sorry I was laughing when I read it. Okay, So

586
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: the question is, do you have any crazy family drama

587
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: and this this particular person wrote back and said, my

588
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 1: uncle got deported. His American wife had the choice to

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00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: allow him to come back for the second children who

590
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 1: is this person's cousin, and instead of instead decided to

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00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: divorce him. So that meant he had to wait ten

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00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 1: years to apply to come back, but had the nerve

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00:32:51,920 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 1: to ask his sister for child support money. Talk about shady, Okay,

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00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: now this is funny to be okay. So in other words,

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00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: she was like, you know what, um, I don't want

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00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: you around no more. So I'm gonna call the I

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00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: n S is that what it's called. I'm gonna call

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00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: Homeland Security and tell you are not for ISIS. I'm

599
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: gonna call Isis Ice. I'm gonna call Ice. I would

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00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 1: call the people. And I'm a loot to know that

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Speaker 1: she ain't supposed to be in this country because you

602
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: are my nerves. That's what you are, my nerves and

603
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: got her husband deported. I divorce you, sir. Now let's

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00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: tell you somebody a woman scorned you better leave alone.

605
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: She will jack you up. Oh my gosh, okay, this

606
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: is crazy. My parents switched spouses and married their exes.

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Speaker 1: X what Okay, wait, okay, how does that work? So

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Speaker 1: I guess both of the parents had exes and then

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00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: oh wait, and and married there. So like you would

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00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 1: you would go date Jamal and I would go date wine. No,

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00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: we would know that's not right. Alright, alright, okay, we

612
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: trying to figure it out, trying to figure out it's whatever?

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00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: Does it sound crazy as hell? Okay? So your parents exes,

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00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: my parents switched spouses and married their exes X. Okay,

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00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 1: so if I had okay, if my parents were previously married, right,

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00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: but they divorced and they married each other. Okay. So

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00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 1: let's say Jane and Bob and Mary and Bill. Right,

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00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: So Jane and Bob were married, and then Marry and

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Speaker 1: Bill were married right. Oh my god, it's so confusing already.

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Speaker 1: And then those people divorced okay, and then Bob and

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Speaker 1: Mary got married. O. And then they divorced, and then

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Speaker 1: Mary and Bill and Jane and Bob got I don't know,

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Speaker 1: nice giving us castle? Okay? Crazy? Okay? All right? So

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Speaker 1: I got one. I got one. So confusing. This one says,

625
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: my sister has been divorced three times, she's ready to

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Speaker 1: get married for the fourth and she's and she said

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00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: she couldn't go to the to the this fourth marriage. Okay,

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00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 1: she's mad, she said, it's mad. I'm not going. I mean,

629
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,840
Speaker 1: you can only go to so many before you realize

630
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: all they really wanted was a ninja air frying. So

631
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 1: I sent a present at R s v P that

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00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,359
Speaker 1: I would not be there, And now she's salty sent

633
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: a present. She's lucky I didn't send my future brother

634
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: in law a divorce attorney card. But she's mad at

635
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: the new air fryer. Now that it's funny to me,

636
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's crazy. That's like having multiple baby showers, right,

637
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 1: you know, on your fourth wedding, Like come on, now,

638
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: come on, you should really just go to the dag

639
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: On Courthouse. What kind of wedding was it? That's crazy. Listen, listen,

640
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: this is this is my thing. You can. You can.

641
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come to your second wedding, like if I

642
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 1: went to your first one, I'm gonna second. I ain't

643
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: going to your third wedding. Okay, you cannot get married

644
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 1: three times and I'm attending this nonsense. Let me tell

645
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: you something. This is this is a true story. One

646
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: of my girlfriends she'll remain nameless. You know who she is. Um.

647
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: She got married and her mother gave them the toast

648
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 1: at the reception to the new her new son in law.

649
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: She got divorced. Second wedding, the mother gave the same

650
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 1: damn to the new husband. I remember that thing. It

651
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: was berbato. It was berbato. I don't believe it. And

652
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 1: I said to another girl who was next to me,

653
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: who also experienced both of these weddings, I was like,

654
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 1: didn she said that ship last, Oh my god? To

655
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,720
Speaker 1: the first two? Oh my god, it was like shady.

656
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 1: That was the beginning of my shadiness. I'm lying, I've

657
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 1: been shading for a long time. Okay, that is hilarious. Yeah. No,

658
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 1: I'm definitely not going to a fourth wedding, so she

659
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 1: just gonna be mad. I'm probably not sending a gift either. No, no,

660
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 1: but a Ninja air friar is nice, by the way,

661
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,759
Speaker 1: But how many how how many courts? Was it? Don't now?

662
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: Now Robin being shady? Now Robin's being shady? Okay, wait, back,

663
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: got another one. This one said, um, My eighteen year

664
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: old cousin from Mexico came to visit her godparents earlier

665
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: this year. Long story short, she is now daging her

666
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: god dad. She took her god mama's husband. What I

667
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 1: saw another story like that just recently, not not what

668
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: family members from Mexico coming in town, splitting up families.

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Speaker 1: Now this is but dating your godfather. So this is

670
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 1: so crazy. I just saw a story. Um, they seemed

671
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 1: very southern. It was an eighteen year old that married

672
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 1: her sixty one year old godfather. That's terrible. Yes, and

673
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 1: the godfather they and then somehow it got media attention

674
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,360
Speaker 1: or Instagram attention, and they keep going on Instagram and

675
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: making all these videos and stuff. And the guyfather was like, um,

676
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: all these little girls hating all my wife. And then

677
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,239
Speaker 1: the eighteen year old was like, I mean I don't

678
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: want to take these young boys. They can't do anything

679
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,279
Speaker 1: for me. And then the girl's mother it was just

680
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: the whole man, what what race of these people take care?

681
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I'm gonna move on. We love everyone.

682
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: I got right mate? Wait minute, you got one? Yes? Yes, yes, yes,

683
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 1: So I mean this is crazy. I've got an older

684
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 1: sister that's so messed up. She tried to get my

685
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:40,240
Speaker 1: parents divorced. My little sister, and I will never forget it.

686
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: That is so sad, that's very sad. That's like why

687
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: that's so weird. I mean that, that's definitely something that

688
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: would break up a family, you know, like that, that's

689
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: like you if that happened in my family. Yeah, I'm

690
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 1: not forgiving you for that. No, no crazy family, Joma. Okay,

691
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 1: this is a good one. So my grandma passed out

692
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 1: because I told her that I'm gay, and she started screaming,

693
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 1: crying it passed out, and I laughed because the way

694
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:15,240
Speaker 1: she dropped to the floor. Okay, guys, let's be clear,

695
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 1: like anyone over the age of eight, don't spring on him.

696
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: That's your gay, Like, just let him be, just let up,

697
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: just just let it go to the grave. Just let

698
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,879
Speaker 1: it go to the grave, because I can't. Lord only

699
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: knows how they're gonna handle it, and they're a little

700
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: hards especially if you know, like, Okay, Grandma, I gonna

701
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: take this, well right, Just just let grandma. Just just

702
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 1: let her live the rest of her life, you know,

703
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:44,320
Speaker 1: in her stubbornness. Yes, oh good, oh my gosh. Okay,

704
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: So this one, I walked in on my mom and

705
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: someone from my own grade making out in my basement room.

706
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: I had to tell him to get the funk out

707
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 1: and then tell my mom. She ruined my reputation. She

708
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: also said she told you another story about her psycho

709
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,879
Speaker 1: mom attacking her current boyfriend. The first time she met him.

710
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 1: She was wearing his sweatshirt that he gave me and

711
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,439
Speaker 1: I told her that's awkward, Mom, please take it off.

712
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 1: So she walks up to him says, I heard you

713
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 1: want your sweat it back and pulls it off and

714
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 1: whips it at him and it is all going on.

715
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 1: Why they're trying to eat mash with dados and gravy Thanksgiving?

716
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 1: This is terrible. So I had to know. I was like, Okay,

717
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 1: how old was your mom? Like how much older was

718
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:30,760
Speaker 1: your mom? Like she sounds like she was like twelve

719
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 1: years older than you or something, you know what I mean? Like,

720
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: why is your mom acting like that? So she says

721
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: she was twenty four Her mom's twenty four years older

722
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: than her. She was eighteen when this happened, like she

723
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 1: literally oh, she said she would dress way too young

724
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 1: for her age. She was good and daisy dukes. She

725
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:48,760
Speaker 1: had suffered from an eating disorder since she was fourteen.

726
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,440
Speaker 1: She's always been a hot mess, but that was like

727
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 1: the worst thing she ever did to me. She loved

728
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:53,959
Speaker 1: her pills and liquor, so she's always up to no good.

729
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 1: One time she had me drive her and her loser

730
00:40:56,520 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: friends to buy coke, but they got cracked instead. That

731
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 1: was another thing that went too far from me. It's

732
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,840
Speaker 1: all trauma and I've processed it, so don't feel bad. Happy.

733
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 1: I have these bad ship crazy stories to share or

734
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 1: and and this is good because everybody should know that

735
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: no one is immune or skips drama. We all go

736
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: through it no matter what. I don't can how you

737
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,720
Speaker 1: know you look at people's families and you think they're perfect.

738
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 1: They're not. But also like people before you have kids,

739
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,959
Speaker 1: oh my god, just make sure that you're like fit

740
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 1: to raise a kid, that you you know that you

741
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,839
Speaker 1: can be a good example for your child, because this

742
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:37,839
Speaker 1: type of stuff, it creates lifetime trauma, you know, Like

743
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 1: I just I feel like as a as an adult,

744
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 1: my responsibility to my kids is to make sure that

745
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 1: I don't do something to them or you know, create

746
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: a scenario for them that's going up negatively affect them

747
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: for the rest of their life. And and before you

748
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 1: have kids, to make sure that um, the person that

749
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,439
Speaker 1: you're having the kids with, family you want to eat with,

750
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 1: arrested your life or have the potential to have to

751
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: break bread with them instead of the table with them,

752
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: deal with how they chew on their food, like all

753
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:13,240
Speaker 1: of that, and you gotta weigh all of those things. Um,

754
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 1: and but the good news is that you know, we're

755
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 1: all in this thing together. No matter whether your family

756
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: drama is I have to go drive my mama to

757
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 1: buy cocaine or or um, somebody came from Mexico and

758
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: stole my husband likes. You know, it varies, but we

759
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 1: all have drama. Now. I do want to read a

760
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 1: couple of things. One, I want to remind you guys

761
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: to write reviews, Oh yeah about this podcast because um,

762
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: that's important to people. And review please important because it'll

763
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: like more eyeboats will see it. So if we have like,

764
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: the more reviews we have, the better ratings we have,

765
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 1: more people will see it and then more people will

766
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 1: listen to it. So please make sure you review reasonably.

767
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: Shade okay, And I do want to end my my

768
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: side of of this drama with something actually kind of

769
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 1: nice because Batty her name is Batty. Yes, I'm saying

770
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 1: your name, b j B. She said, I'm gonna read

771
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: it just out. I haven't always liked you, but I

772
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 1: will say this episode, I don't know what episode she

773
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: watched made me see you in a different light. And

774
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: I respect your vulnerability and I understand you much more now.

775
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: I guess it was like seeing myself in the mirror.

776
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: Even though you don't know me, I still feel you

777
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: deserve an apology for my judgment on you. So what

778
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say to um, B j B is I

779
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 1: appreciate your apology, but girl, keep your judgment to yourself.

780
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 1: I appreciate you, but you know what it takes. It

781
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: takes a good person to admit, okay, I was wrong,

782
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: or an apology, you know what I mean, Because I

783
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 1: think some people can say, you know, I um assume things,

784
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 1: or I jumped the glunt gun or whatever. So it

785
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: takes a big person to come out and say, you

786
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: know what, I was on the bandwagon and I was

787
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 1: hating right. But but does this make it this okay?

788
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: That you You've probably written I don't know a thousand

789
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: comments to say that I'm horrible, but you give one

790
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 1: that says I'm sorry, and I was supposed to be like, whoo, no,

791
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,439
Speaker 1: b j B. I appreciate you, and uh, it's all good.

792
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: You know, we're just here to entertain and to make

793
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: you guys see that we are. We are beyond relatable.

794
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: Our story is your story. And if you can look

795
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: in the mirror, if you can look at my story,

796
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 1: and then you look in the mirror and see yourself,

797
00:44:39,360 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: and that's a good thing. I've done my job absolutely.

798
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 1: And you know, our stories aren't like our stories are

799
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 1: not going to be relatable to one person, but there

800
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: might be a sliver of something where you're like I

801
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 1: can relate to that, and they can appreciate that. Yes, yes, yes, yes,

802
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 1: all right, well I think that's our episode, rob This

803
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: is always a pleasure. We do appreciate you listening and

804
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:06,359
Speaker 1: never forget either live your life reasonable or shady by

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Speaker 1: all right, By reasonably Shady is a production of the

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Speaker 1: Black Affect podcast Network. For more podcasts from our Heart Radio,

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Speaker 1: visit the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever

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Speaker 1: you listen to your favorite shows, and you can connect

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Speaker 1: with us on social media at Robin Dixon, ten, Giselle Briant,

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Speaker 1: and reasonably shady,