WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Pregnancy Safe Space 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.560 Hey, it's Brigan Jeffrey and we've got your brand new. 0:00:02.440 --> 0:00:05.600 Awkward Tuesday because today's Tuesday. So yay, Welcome to the 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:06.640 Second Date podcast. 0:00:07.000 --> 0:00:08.280 A lot of response. 0:00:07.920 --> 0:00:11.800 Yesterday on the guy who likes to fight Facebook. 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:15.440 Trolls in real life. You know what were people saying 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:16.599 about yesterday's episode. 0:00:16.920 --> 0:00:19.720 One person said, in Texas, you can legally challenge someone 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:21.720 to a fight and have a cop supervised the fight. 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:23.919 I've heard that in other states too. 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:27.360 Someone said, I mean, collecting old maps and throwing punches 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:30.200 at Costco is not the hobby combination I was expecting. 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:33.319 You know what, There's a lot of layers and how 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:34.080 old is this boy? 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:34.440 Five? 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:36.920 Really funny? 0:00:37.000 --> 0:00:38.199 Yeah, all the things right. 0:00:38.680 --> 0:00:41.600 All right. We love seeing your feedback from these episodes, 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:43.720 so please let us know what you think of today's 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:44.479 Awkward Tuesday. 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:46.000 The brand new one starts right now. 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:48.320 It's awkward. 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:49.760 It's Tuesday. 0:00:50.280 --> 0:00:51.680 It's awkward Tuesday. 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:52.279 Phone call. 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:58.480 I googled stereotypical things men do in relationships that frustrate. 0:00:58.000 --> 0:01:01.800 Women Nicholas, it was still going. 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:03.920 Yeah, it was pretty long, but some of the things 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:08.360 that came up. One men get too philosophical during cuddle time, 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:11.240 that's what it says. 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:17.000 You the Internet. Google is Yes, catch up, soph cuddle man. 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:19.440 Yeah, we talked too much when we should just be 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:23.840 in the moment. Apparently Number two they try to solve every. 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:25.640 Problem their significant other has. 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:28.559 Oh yeah, and would you look at that? A man 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:31.440 is on the phone right now trying to solve a 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:34.160 problem he's having with his girlfriend. 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:36.119 He's doing the wrong thing already. 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:36.360 Ye. 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:38.880 His name's Vincent Vince. How does it feel to be 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:41.000 just another stereotypical guy? 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:43.840 Dang, that's quite the intro y. 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:46.520 Yeah, you should be ashamed of yourself. 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:49.080 Do you like to have long, deep talks while cuddling too? 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:54.640 I know, Jeff just kind of has a little bit 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:54.960 of fun. 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:57.680 Yeah, that's what the Google hast said. Maybe you're a 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:00.640 different type of man, Vincent. So tell us because obviously 0:02:00.680 --> 0:02:02.880 you emailed us with an issue with your girlfriend. What's 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:03.720 your girlfriend's name? 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:06.200 Her name is Eliz, Liz Liz. 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:07.760 Okay, how long have you guys been together? 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:10.079 We've been together for about a year now. 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:12.440 Okay, Okay, that's a nice spot. 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:13.440 It is a good spot. 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:16.280 Yeah, what's the issue that is happening with you and Liz? 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:20.440 So I feel like over the past like months or so, 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:24.120 she's been trying to tell me that she's pregnant, and 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:26.320 I'm afraid that, like it's too late and I've blown 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:26.840 it already. 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:29.400 Whoa wa wa wait wait sorry, So you feel like 0:02:29.480 --> 0:02:31.920 she's been trying to drop hints to you that she 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:33.520 is pregnant, like like what? 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:34.799 Oh? 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:36.920 Man, there have been a number of things. But I 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:39.600 remember I walked into the living room and she changed 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:41.720 the TV channel to like House Hunters. 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:43.080 Oh, I thought you were going to say, and she 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:44.480 was holding a pregnancy test. 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:49.440 Yeah, He's like, wait a minute, I might be clueless, 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:50.680 but I'm not that clueless. 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:53.120 Okay, she put House Hunters on TV and what. 0:02:53.600 --> 0:02:56.359 And there's like a couple with a very little baby, 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:58.960 and you know, they're in that house and they're like, oh, 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:03.000 this space would be for a nursery. And this turns 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:04.239 to me and she's like, that does look like a 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:06.320 nice space for a nursery, doesn't it like the ideas 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:07.760 that they have for a design? I think that would 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:10.360 be really great talk about. 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:17.360 N I love watching HG TV. You just comment on 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:20.400 the spaces, you agree, you disagree, you dream a little 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:22.440 bit Like that doesn't mean she's pregnant, and then Brooke. 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:23.400 Buys the house most of the time. 0:03:24.440 --> 0:03:27.840 Okay, don't we don't really watch House Hunters. That's not 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:29.160 like a thing that we do together. 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:33.920 Okay, but yeah, I'm kind of with Brooke on this one. 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.040 Dude, I don't know if her putting on a TV 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.240 show with a baby in it is a sign that 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:39.880 she's just fun to talk about. 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:43.440 Let me give you another one. Another day, she randomly, 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.480 like out of the blue, comes up to me and says, 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:48.480 what do you think of your name Grady for a guy? 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:50.360 And I was like, I don't know. It kind of 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:51.680 sounds like a perverse to me. 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:59.440 I can see that, Well, why did you think that 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:01.240 was a sign? And that she might be pregnant? 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:03.960 She's thinking of like kids' names, like names for kids, 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:04.600 is what I thought. 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:07.520 I just want to know why she wouldn't just tell 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:08.600 you if she was present. 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:11.520 I'm wondering, like I could see I could. 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:13.720 See wanting to like surprise you if you guys had 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:16.240 been trying and you wanted to make a big announcement. 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:20.479 But if it's a surprise for her, she's probably freaking out. 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:23.440 Yeah, that's my thought exactly. Is that maybe she's freaking 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.080 out so much that she's like doesn't know how to 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:26.880 tell me, and she's like been trying, but I haven't 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:30.920 given her the inn. Like, there's also some other stuff 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:32.520 that I've noticed. I don't know if you guys want 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:32.839 to hear that. 0:04:33.120 --> 0:04:37.200 Yeah, yeah, so far, we're a little medium on this idea. 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.440 Either way, I like to know if your reaction is 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:40.960 better than that sounds like a pervert. 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:43.679 What else have you noticed? 0:04:44.200 --> 0:04:47.279 I guess she has like been complaining about clothes not 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:49.640 fitting her rate recently, and I'm trying to be like 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:52.320 supportive and I'm not fixated on that, but just like 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:54.880 in retrospect, I'm like, oh, yeah, she has mentioned that 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:55.880 a couple of times. 0:04:56.400 --> 0:05:00.520 Okay, she was showing when you see it because you sleep. 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:02.200 With her, Yeah, we don't know. 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:03.880 They sleep together, and. 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:11.360 It takes a lot of time. I don't know, but 0:05:11.440 --> 0:05:12.039 I'll say. 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:14.520 I'll say, like your first pregnancy, you don't really start 0:05:14.520 --> 0:05:15.839 showing until the second trimemester. 0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:16.799 You just look bloated. 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:19.360 So she's saying her clothes don't seem to fit. 0:05:19.320 --> 0:05:22.360 Right, yep. Also, like the last three weeks or so, 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:25.320 she's been eating foods that I have never seen her 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:25.960 eat before. 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:28.880 Oh, like pregnancy craving type thing, like like. 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:31.400 What you know how some people are crazy about bacon. 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:34.240 She's not. But the last three weeks she's been like, 0:05:34.279 --> 0:05:35.880 I need bacon right now. 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:38.120 She could just have the munchies as well. 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:39.520 In her deffeenct, I feel like you should have done 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:40.960 the opposite, been like you want to get sushi? 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:47.919 She says, no. Off you guys, why haven't you just 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:49.160 asked her what's going on? 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:49.960 It's a good question. 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:52.640 I don't know how to slot out asked, like, hey, 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:53.320 are you pregnant? 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:55.479 By the way, I understand you're you're trying to be 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:58.000 sensitive about this because if she's not, this would be 0:05:58.000 --> 0:05:59.680 a terrible conversation. 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:02.200 Exactly doing this huge surprise. You don't want to ruin it. 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:04.800 Yeah, I'm in a real tricky situation. That's why I'm 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:05.800 here looking for some help. 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:08.560 Okay, So what what advice specifically do you want to 0:06:08.560 --> 0:06:09.160 get from us? 0:06:10.040 --> 0:06:10.160 Well? 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:12.479 I want to know, like if it's a good idea 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:15.240 to say something, I want to give her the space 0:06:15.320 --> 0:06:17.479 to say it. And I figured, like, if it is 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:19.800 a nice surprise, I do think she'd be like into 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:22.400 the idea of like celebrating it on the radio. 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:29.040 Okay, celebration, just to be three thousand percent positive. 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:31.800 You are going to be excited if this is the case. 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:34.040 Right, yeah, yes, I mean I'll be freaked out, but 0:06:34.080 --> 0:06:34.880 like in a good way. 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:37.680 Okay, Okay, I should make sure I'm not setting them 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:39.120 up for him to be like yeah right. 0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:40.200 He just hangs up. 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:41.000 We're like, what the heck? 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.560 Even if you're not actually excited, just sound excited when 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:45.159 you talk. 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:47.640 To her after the that's probably good advice. 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:48.920 Okay, we'll come back. 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:51.000 We'll give you our official advice and then let you 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:58.280 call your possibly pregnant girlfriend and say yay. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:57.600 Or something yay. 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.360 Well find out if she's pregnant. 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:01.400 Well yeah, well we'll find out and then say, yeah, 0:07:02.040 --> 0:07:02.839 give me that baby. 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.600 We'll do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call right 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:08.520 after this. Hold on, it's awkward. 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:13.840 It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:14.200 Brook. 0:07:14.280 --> 0:07:17.120 The first time you got pregnant, how long did it 0:07:17.120 --> 0:07:19.280 take your husband Michael to notice? 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:22.720 Three four years? 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:24.880 He was like, why do I hear tiny cries and 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:27.040 screams coming from our spare bedroom every night? 0:07:27.680 --> 0:07:28.240 The hospital? 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:30.000 Dang it? I forgot to tell him. 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:33.320 So let's give our listener Vince a little bit of credit. 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:35.880 It only took him a month to catch on to 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:37.760 his girlfriend's pregnancy. 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:38.920 Possible, we won't. 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:43.200 Maybe, yeah, we're not sure. 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:45.920 He has been noticing that she's acting a little different 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:48.680 because there's been a few clues, maybe some hints she's 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:52.440 been dropping that he originally missed. Vince, real quick tell 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:55.360 our audience, if they're just joining us, what those hints were. 0:07:56.160 --> 0:08:00.520 So she mentioned some about a nursery, I liked a 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:04.040 certain boy's name, and then she she mentioned that she 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:05.920 felt like she was gaining weight. 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:08.520 It's good to really reiterate how she mentioned that. 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:14.960 Yeah, yeahs So overall, you're looking for advice on how 0:08:15.000 --> 0:08:18.320 to make this call and give her basically a platform 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:21.560 to be able to openly tell you that she's pregnant 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:22.720 if that is the case. 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:24.360 So, Brooke, what's your advice for him? 0:08:24.480 --> 0:08:24.680 Well? 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:25.960 I think you follow her lead. 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:26.280 Right. 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.800 She's been dropping all these hints and you need to 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:32.480 do the same. So like, okay, for instance, you tell 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:34.360 her like, oh my god, I was driving by a 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:36.439 park the other day and I saw this father playing 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:37.360 catch with this kid, and. 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:39.959 I was like, oh, I can't wait for that to be. 0:08:40.000 --> 0:08:43.800 Me oo, and then that gives her an opening and 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:45.080 she's like, you don't have to wait. 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.760 Yeah, yeah, I can try to drop a few hints 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:47.200 for sure. 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:49.720 All right, there's some positive advice there, Jose. What do 0:08:49.760 --> 0:08:51.000 you think as a guy. 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.720 It doesn't matter, brother, if you did something wrong or 0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:55.800 did something right, or if you missed a bunch of 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:57.360 pregnancy signs or hints. 0:08:58.080 --> 0:09:01.960 Just apologize, no reason at all, all right? 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:06.000 Be sincere do it multiple times and it always works, 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:08.680 like watch this, Hey, Brook, Yeah, I'm so sorry about earlier. 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:10.920 I'm really apologize for all those things that I did 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:14.280 this morning. What did you do? Doesn't matter? That covers 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:15.400 me for like three hours. 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:17.239 Now, she's gonna be He's not mad. 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:20.760 Brooke, She's a woman. She's always mad about something. I'm sorry. 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:23.720 You actually should apologize for this, bro I'm sorry. 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:26.040 I'm sorry you have to witness I am so sorry. 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:28.839 We finally wanted to go dumb advice. Maybe take it 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:30.800 if it's making her mad. Just a little bit of 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:32.600 an apology I don't think would hurt. But it's up 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:33.240 to you. Dude. 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:36.000 We're gonna dial your girlfriend's number right now and let 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:36.719 you talk to her. 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:37.720 Good luck. 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:41.840 Yeah, sorry, thank you, yeah, thank you guys. Sorry, I was. 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:44.199 A good start. Good save it for your girlfriend. I'm 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:46.280 gonna die number right now. Here we go. 0:09:55.120 --> 0:10:02.480 Hello, Hey, what's up? Yeah, just a normal day here, 0:10:02.559 --> 0:10:02.920 chicking in. 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:09.160 Okay, is everything okay? 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:13.320 Yeah? Yeah for sure. I was just out for like 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:18.120 a driving in the work day and I like passed 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:20.280 by this park and I saw this this like father 0:10:20.320 --> 0:10:22.560 and son and they were playing cash. It was like 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:26.600 so so cute, so cute, and I was just like, wow, 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:29.040 that kid was like so bad or whatever, you know 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:30.599 what I mean. I couldn't catch the ball, but was 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:35.920 like that's a sweet man. I'm like, you know, why 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:37.000 why are you talking so fast? 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:37.680 Is something wrong? 0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:40.240 No? 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.200 It just made me think, like I just wanted to 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:46.160 apologize and say that, like I may you haven't been 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:50.320 as like attentive recently to your needs or what do 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:55.360 you remember? Just like I obviously I've had my mind 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:57.720 on work recently, like it's a super busy time. So 0:10:58.440 --> 0:11:00.080 I wanted to just like let you know that I 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:02.480 I love you and I'm sorry if I like haven't 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:08.200 been the way that about. I feel like like a 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:11.120 little while ago you were trying to tell me something 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:14.400 important and I maybe was not hearing what you were saying, 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:19.760 and I'm trying to hear today. No. No, I'm just 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:22.000 trying to say I want to be a better listener 0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:25.600 because I obviously I'm not like talking over myself right now, 0:11:26.280 --> 0:11:28.719 and that that's something that I'm trying to work on 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:31.120 and I want to be here to listen to you. 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:35.240 Okay, gotcha. 0:11:33.160 --> 0:11:38.160 Oh, I'm just going to be like straight away that 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:40.800 I feel like I'm the more I talk to the 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.520 more I'm being weird. So I think I just got 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:46.440 to get to the point. I feel like you've been 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:48.640 dropping hints that you're pregnant, and I've been a total 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:53.840 moron about it, not hearing you. Am I right, I'm 0:11:53.840 --> 0:12:03.640 not pregnant, You're not. God? No, no, Well, why what's 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:05.959 with all the like you've talked about your clothes not 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:09.080 fitting and like you're eating all the bacon and she's 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:14.200 taking stuff and I wait, wait, wait, wait, what's going on? 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:16.679 Is it something dire? I don't understand. 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:19.920 I have to gain fifteen pounds in order to be 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:22.319 eligible to get a BBL. 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:31.199 What BL You're too small for a bb A button implant? 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:33.199 What is going on. 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:36.760 Yeah, we want to know. 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:40.800 We this doesn't feel like the right time to join 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:43.400 this conversation, but we do need to let you know, 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:45.599 Liz that you're on the radio right now with a 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:46.760 show called Brook and Jeffrey. 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:53.120 Oh my god, Oh no, Yeah, why would you not 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:53.880 tell me this? 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:55.920 Why would you tell him You're going to get a 0:12:55.920 --> 0:12:59.520 bblah recovery process, need to help. 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:02.199 I was going to tell you, but like that's why 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:04.199 we're going on the girls trip because it's out of 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:05.200 the country. 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:06.719 And I'm going to get it down there. 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:07.760 Oh my god. 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:14.320 Yeah, I bet you wouldn't know. 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:16.679 I hold on. 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:18.720 I had a consultation with the doctor. They said that 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:21.839 everything's good, but I just need more body fat. So no, 0:13:21.960 --> 0:13:24.319 everything will be safe. And that's why I've been eating 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:26.280 more and that's why my clothes don't fit. 0:13:26.880 --> 0:13:29.280 Okay, So so I just but both before you go 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:31.240 on any further list, I just want to be sure 0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:33.680 because this is kind of a health thing. I want 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:36.440 to just make sure you're okay talking about that publicly 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:37.120 with us. 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:39.319 Yeah the radio right now? Is that cool? 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:41.520 Oh yeah, definitely. I'm excited for it. 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:44.400 So if you're excited for it, why haven't you told 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:45.920 your boyfriend I. 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:48.360 Kind of wanted to come back and like have this 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:52.080 new body and Vince be super excited about it, and 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:57.120 and it's expensive, so I kind of wanted to for it. 0:13:58.720 --> 0:13:59.880 Yeah, who else would? 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:00.200 Why? 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:02.560 It's like. 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:06.800 That was your opportunity to say, I'm excited about your 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:11.160 body now now, yes, beautiful, now you need. 0:14:11.000 --> 0:14:11.400 To do that. 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:14.480 Yeah, I'm sure that's what he wants to say. Deep down? 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:16.280 Are you paid for it? 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:18.920 I'm excited for you if it's something that you feel 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:22.440 like will make you happier. But I yeah, I mean 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:25.000 I'm kind of glad that you didn't feel like you 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:27.680 were doing it for me, you know, like you don't 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:28.440 need to do it for me. 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:31.240 Well, I mean she didn't consult him, so I think, yeah, 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:33.720 definitely for her. She's doing it for herself. 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:35.960 I just didn't know how to tell you that. I mean, 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:38.040 I've always wanted to do that, and sometimes people are 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:40.520 judging about it, and I, you know, I have to 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:41.960 do what's right for me, and this is what I 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:45.640 want to do and I definitely and I'm not pregnant. 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:49.480 Yeah, so the nursery part wasn't a hint? 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:51.880 No, And what about the name Grady. 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:54.320 Yeah, he mentioned that a few months ago. 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:56.440 You brought up the name Brady and you asked him 0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:57.760 and he didn't have a very good review. 0:14:58.240 --> 0:14:59.680 So we were watching a show and there was a 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:03.240 great on the show. Oh that's the only reason why. 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:03.720 That was it. 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:05.880 There was no hidden messaging there. 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:09.480 Okay, Oh no, I mean I would name a baby that, 0:15:09.680 --> 0:15:11.840 but I'm not going to now said it's a pervy name. 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:14.120 Okay. 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:17.400 Okay, Well, so you still can imagine yourself having kids 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:18.200 someday with him? 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:22.440 Yeah, yeah, someday, not anytime soon, but I would love 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:23.480 that love I love you. 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:27.040 The recovery time from a BBO, I'm sure would delay 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:30.640 that for a few months at least. Yeah, yeah, a 0:15:30.720 --> 0:15:32.720 few years. Sorry. 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:34.960 Clearly, my female co hosts are very knowledgeable about it 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:37.600 and have researched it deeply looked into it in all 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:38.600 sorts of different countries. 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:40.960 Well, I'm gone to Columbia after one of my girlfriends 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:41.920 got a surgery done. 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:46.320 Okay, why do you put quotes around my girlfriend? Okay? Interesting? 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:50.880 Vince, Clearly this call did not go the way that 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:53.240 we expected it to go. But do you feel like 0:15:53.400 --> 0:15:55.760 you are in a better place mentally at the end 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:56.120 of it. 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:58.960 Are you excited even I'm not excited to not be 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:00.720 a dad, but I am excited did that she's doing 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:03.440 something for herself? And I'm excited that I didn't misread 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:04.000 the moment. 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:08.160 I think the. 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:13.760 Moment freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:16.360 I think maybe the most shocking and kind of funny 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:19.080 part of that entire call was after she explained the 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:22.520 whole situation of what she's doing and why she wants it. 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:26.480 The first thing Vince says is so are you gonna 0:16:26.520 --> 0:16:27.240 be paying for. 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:28.760 That? 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:31.880 Was like the worst thing he possibly said in that moment. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:35.800 I mean, typical guy, just how a dude thinks. 0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:37.960 I guess is that how you guys think? 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:40.320 Yeah, I'm just saying we don't think logically the way 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:41.280 that that most people. 0:16:41.600 --> 0:16:42.520 We don't know who we think. 0:16:42.760 --> 0:16:44.880 Okay, yeah, it means I will say, it is nice 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:46.960 to hear from a super supportive boyfriend. 0:16:47.000 --> 0:16:47.920 Though I wonder if. 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:55.880 He's gonna throw her a butt shower, new underwear, new shorts, 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:56.640 new cushions. 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:00.320 Yeah, like pregnancy, she's gonna be a that for a 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:00.720 little bit. 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:04.119 I mean, did it sounded all though like he was 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:07.080 maybe a little disappointed? He wasn't going to be a dad. 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:08.119 There's actually hard of me. 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:12.040 That part was sweet. Yeah, it'll be a good dad someday. 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:17.600 Someday, Yeah, nowhere in the near future. So you keep 0:17:17.640 --> 0:17:20.240 holding on and enjoy that BBL when it comes, I guess. 0:17:20.280 --> 0:17:23.160 But if you ever need help with your personal life, 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:25.800