Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brigan Jeffrey and we've got your brand new.
Speaker 2: Awkward Tuesday because today's Tuesday. So yay, Welcome to the
Speaker 2: Second Date podcast.
Speaker 1: A lot of response.
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Speaker 1: Trolls in real life. You know what were people saying
Speaker 1: about yesterday's episode.
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Speaker 3: to a fight and have a cop supervised the fight.
Speaker 4: I've heard that in other states too.
Speaker 3: Someone said, I mean, collecting old maps and throwing punches
Speaker 3: at Costco is not the hobby combination I was expecting.
Speaker 1: You know what, There's a lot of layers and how
Speaker 1: old is this boy?
Speaker 5: Five?
Speaker 4: Really funny?
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Speaker 2: Awkward Tuesday.
Speaker 1: The brand new one starts right now.
Speaker 4: It's awkward.
Speaker 5: It's Tuesday.
Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday.
Speaker 6: Phone call.
Speaker 7: I googled stereotypical things men do in relationships that frustrate.
Speaker 1: Women Nicholas, it was still going.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was pretty long, but some of the things
Speaker 7: that came up. One men get too philosophical during cuddle time,
Speaker 7: that's what it says.
Speaker 1: You the Internet. Google is Yes, catch up, soph cuddle man.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we talked too much when we should just be
Speaker 7: in the moment. Apparently Number two they try to solve every.
Speaker 4: Problem their significant other has.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, and would you look at that? A man
Speaker 7: is on the phone right now trying to solve a
Speaker 7: problem he's having with his girlfriend.
Speaker 1: He's doing the wrong thing already.
Speaker 2: Ye.
Speaker 7: His name's Vincent Vince. How does it feel to be
Speaker 7: just another stereotypical guy?
Speaker 5: Dang, that's quite the intro y.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you should be ashamed of yourself.
Speaker 1: Do you like to have long, deep talks while cuddling too?
Speaker 5: I know, Jeff just kind of has a little bit
Speaker 5: of fun.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's what the Google hast said. Maybe you're a
Speaker 7: different type of man, Vincent. So tell us because obviously
Speaker 7: you emailed us with an issue with your girlfriend. What's
Speaker 7: your girlfriend's name?
Speaker 5: Her name is Eliz, Liz Liz.
Speaker 1: Okay, how long have you guys been together?
Speaker 5: We've been together for about a year now.
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, that's a nice spot.
Speaker 1: It is a good spot.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what's the issue that is happening with you and Liz?
Speaker 5: So I feel like over the past like months or so,
Speaker 5: she's been trying to tell me that she's pregnant, and
Speaker 5: I'm afraid that, like it's too late and I've blown
Speaker 5: it already.
Speaker 7: Whoa wa wa wait wait sorry, So you feel like
Speaker 7: she's been trying to drop hints to you that she
Speaker 7: is pregnant, like like what?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 5: Man, there have been a number of things. But I
Speaker 5: remember I walked into the living room and she changed
Speaker 5: the TV channel to like House Hunters.
Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you were going to say, and she
Speaker 1: was holding a pregnancy test.
Speaker 5: Yeah, He's like, wait a minute, I might be clueless,
Speaker 5: but I'm not that clueless.
Speaker 4: Okay, she put House Hunters on TV and what.
Speaker 5: And there's like a couple with a very little baby,
Speaker 5: and you know, they're in that house and they're like, oh,
Speaker 5: this space would be for a nursery. And this turns
Speaker 5: to me and she's like, that does look like a
Speaker 5: nice space for a nursery, doesn't it like the ideas
Speaker 5: that they have for a design? I think that would
Speaker 5: be really great talk about.
Speaker 2: N I love watching HG TV. You just comment on
Speaker 2: the spaces, you agree, you disagree, you dream a little
Speaker 2: bit Like that doesn't mean she's pregnant, and then Brooke.
Speaker 4: Buys the house most of the time.
Speaker 5: Okay, don't we don't really watch House Hunters. That's not
Speaker 5: like a thing that we do together.
Speaker 4: Okay, but yeah, I'm kind of with Brooke on this one.
Speaker 7: Dude, I don't know if her putting on a TV
Speaker 7: show with a baby in it is a sign that
Speaker 7: she's just fun to talk about.
Speaker 5: Let me give you another one. Another day, she randomly,
Speaker 5: like out of the blue, comes up to me and says,
Speaker 5: what do you think of your name Grady for a guy?
Speaker 5: And I was like, I don't know. It kind of
Speaker 5: sounds like a perverse to me.
Speaker 7: I can see that, Well, why did you think that
Speaker 7: was a sign? And that she might be pregnant?
Speaker 5: She's thinking of like kids' names, like names for kids,
Speaker 5: is what I thought.
Speaker 2: I just want to know why she wouldn't just tell
Speaker 2: you if she was present.
Speaker 1: I'm wondering, like I could see I could.
Speaker 2: See wanting to like surprise you if you guys had
Speaker 2: been trying and you wanted to make a big announcement.
Speaker 2: But if it's a surprise for her, she's probably freaking out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's my thought exactly. Is that maybe she's freaking
Speaker 5: out so much that she's like doesn't know how to
Speaker 5: tell me, and she's like been trying, but I haven't
Speaker 5: given her the inn. Like, there's also some other stuff
Speaker 5: that I've noticed. I don't know if you guys want
Speaker 5: to hear that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, so far, we're a little medium on this idea.
Speaker 2: Either way, I like to know if your reaction is
Speaker 2: better than that sounds like a pervert.
Speaker 4: What else have you noticed?
Speaker 5: I guess she has like been complaining about clothes not
Speaker 5: fitting her rate recently, and I'm trying to be like
Speaker 5: supportive and I'm not fixated on that, but just like
Speaker 5: in retrospect, I'm like, oh, yeah, she has mentioned that
Speaker 5: a couple of times.
Speaker 3: Okay, she was showing when you see it because you sleep.
Speaker 1: With her, Yeah, we don't know.
Speaker 4: They sleep together, and.
Speaker 1: It takes a lot of time. I don't know, but
Speaker 1: I'll say.
Speaker 2: I'll say, like your first pregnancy, you don't really start
Speaker 2: showing until the second trimemester.
Speaker 1: You just look bloated.
Speaker 4: So she's saying her clothes don't seem to fit.
Speaker 5: Right, yep. Also, like the last three weeks or so,
Speaker 5: she's been eating foods that I have never seen her
Speaker 5: eat before.
Speaker 4: Oh, like pregnancy craving type thing, like like.
Speaker 5: What you know how some people are crazy about bacon.
Speaker 5: She's not. But the last three weeks she's been like,
Speaker 5: I need bacon right now.
Speaker 4: She could just have the munchies as well.
Speaker 3: In her deffeenct, I feel like you should have done
Speaker 3: the opposite, been like you want to get sushi?
Speaker 1: She says, no. Off you guys, why haven't you just
Speaker 1: asked her what's going on?
Speaker 4: It's a good question.
Speaker 5: I don't know how to slot out asked, like, hey,
Speaker 5: are you pregnant?
Speaker 7: By the way, I understand you're you're trying to be
Speaker 7: sensitive about this because if she's not, this would be
Speaker 7: a terrible conversation.
Speaker 4: Exactly doing this huge surprise. You don't want to ruin it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm in a real tricky situation. That's why I'm
Speaker 5: here looking for some help.
Speaker 7: Okay, So what what advice specifically do you want to
Speaker 7: get from us?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 5: I want to know, like if it's a good idea
Speaker 5: to say something, I want to give her the space
Speaker 5: to say it. And I figured, like, if it is
Speaker 5: a nice surprise, I do think she'd be like into
Speaker 5: the idea of like celebrating it on the radio.
Speaker 2: Okay, celebration, just to be three thousand percent positive.
Speaker 1: You are going to be excited if this is the case.
Speaker 5: Right, yeah, yes, I mean I'll be freaked out, but
Speaker 5: like in a good way.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I should make sure I'm not setting them
Speaker 2: up for him to be like yeah right.
Speaker 5: He just hangs up.
Speaker 4: We're like, what the heck?
Speaker 7: Even if you're not actually excited, just sound excited when
Speaker 7: you talk.
Speaker 5: To her after the that's probably good advice.
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll come back.
Speaker 7: We'll give you our official advice and then let you
Speaker 7: call your possibly pregnant girlfriend and say yay.
Speaker 4: Or something yay.
Speaker 1: Well find out if she's pregnant.
Speaker 7: Well yeah, well we'll find out and then say, yeah,
Speaker 7: give me that baby.
Speaker 4: We'll do it with your awkward Tuesday phone call right
Speaker 4: after this. Hold on, it's awkward.
Speaker 5: It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 4: Brook.
Speaker 7: The first time you got pregnant, how long did it
Speaker 7: take your husband Michael to notice?
Speaker 4: Three four years?
Speaker 7: He was like, why do I hear tiny cries and
Speaker 7: screams coming from our spare bedroom every night?
Speaker 4: The hospital?
Speaker 1: Dang it? I forgot to tell him.
Speaker 7: So let's give our listener Vince a little bit of credit.
Speaker 7: It only took him a month to catch on to
Speaker 7: his girlfriend's pregnancy.
Speaker 1: Possible, we won't.
Speaker 4: Maybe, yeah, we're not sure.
Speaker 7: He has been noticing that she's acting a little different
Speaker 7: because there's been a few clues, maybe some hints she's
Speaker 7: been dropping that he originally missed. Vince, real quick tell
Speaker 7: our audience, if they're just joining us, what those hints were.
Speaker 5: So she mentioned some about a nursery, I liked a
Speaker 5: certain boy's name, and then she she mentioned that she
Speaker 5: felt like she was gaining weight.
Speaker 1: It's good to really reiterate how she mentioned that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeahs So overall, you're looking for advice on how
Speaker 7: to make this call and give her basically a platform
Speaker 7: to be able to openly tell you that she's pregnant
Speaker 7: if that is the case.
Speaker 4: So, Brooke, what's your advice for him?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 1: I think you follow her lead.
Speaker 5: Right.
Speaker 2: She's been dropping all these hints and you need to
Speaker 2: do the same. So like, okay, for instance, you tell
Speaker 2: her like, oh my god, I was driving by a
Speaker 2: park the other day and I saw this father playing
Speaker 2: catch with this kid, and.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I can't wait for that to be.
Speaker 2: Me oo, and then that gives her an opening and
Speaker 2: she's like, you don't have to wait.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I can try to drop a few hints
Speaker 5: for sure.
Speaker 4: All right, there's some positive advice there, Jose. What do
Speaker 4: you think as a guy.
Speaker 7: It doesn't matter, brother, if you did something wrong or
Speaker 7: did something right, or if you missed a bunch of
Speaker 7: pregnancy signs or hints.
Speaker 4: Just apologize, no reason at all, all right?
Speaker 7: Be sincere do it multiple times and it always works,
Speaker 7: like watch this, Hey, Brook, Yeah, I'm so sorry about earlier.
Speaker 4: I'm really apologize for all those things that I did
Speaker 4: this morning. What did you do? Doesn't matter? That covers
Speaker 4: me for like three hours.
Speaker 1: Now, she's gonna be He's not mad.
Speaker 4: Brooke, She's a woman. She's always mad about something. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: You actually should apologize for this, bro I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry you have to witness I am so sorry.
Speaker 4: We finally wanted to go dumb advice. Maybe take it
Speaker 4: if it's making her mad. Just a little bit of
Speaker 4: an apology I don't think would hurt. But it's up
Speaker 4: to you. Dude.
Speaker 7: We're gonna dial your girlfriend's number right now and let
Speaker 7: you talk to her.
Speaker 4: Good luck.
Speaker 5: Yeah, sorry, thank you, yeah, thank you guys. Sorry, I was.
Speaker 4: A good start. Good save it for your girlfriend. I'm
Speaker 4: gonna die number right now. Here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello, Hey, what's up? Yeah, just a normal day here,
Speaker 5: chicking in.
Speaker 6: Okay, is everything okay?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah for sure. I was just out for like
Speaker 5: a driving in the work day and I like passed
Speaker 5: by this park and I saw this this like father
Speaker 5: and son and they were playing cash. It was like
Speaker 5: so so cute, so cute, and I was just like, wow,
Speaker 5: that kid was like so bad or whatever, you know
Speaker 5: what I mean. I couldn't catch the ball, but was
Speaker 5: like that's a sweet man. I'm like, you know, why
Speaker 5: why are you talking so fast?
Speaker 6: Is something wrong?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 5: It just made me think, like I just wanted to
Speaker 5: apologize and say that, like I may you haven't been
Speaker 5: as like attentive recently to your needs or what do
Speaker 5: you remember? Just like I obviously I've had my mind
Speaker 5: on work recently, like it's a super busy time. So
Speaker 5: I wanted to just like let you know that I
Speaker 5: I love you and I'm sorry if I like haven't
Speaker 5: been the way that about. I feel like like a
Speaker 5: little while ago you were trying to tell me something
Speaker 5: important and I maybe was not hearing what you were saying,
Speaker 5: and I'm trying to hear today. No. No, I'm just
Speaker 5: trying to say I want to be a better listener
Speaker 5: because I obviously I'm not like talking over myself right now,
Speaker 5: and that that's something that I'm trying to work on
Speaker 5: and I want to be here to listen to you.
Speaker 6: Okay, gotcha.
Speaker 5: Oh, I'm just going to be like straight away that
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm the more I talk to the
Speaker 5: more I'm being weird. So I think I just got
Speaker 5: to get to the point. I feel like you've been
Speaker 5: dropping hints that you're pregnant, and I've been a total
Speaker 5: moron about it, not hearing you. Am I right, I'm
Speaker 5: not pregnant, You're not. God? No, no, Well, why what's
Speaker 5: with all the like you've talked about your clothes not
Speaker 5: fitting and like you're eating all the bacon and she's
Speaker 5: taking stuff and I wait, wait, wait, wait, what's going on?
Speaker 5: Is it something dire? I don't understand.
Speaker 6: I have to gain fifteen pounds in order to be
Speaker 6: eligible to get a BBL.
Speaker 2: What BL You're too small for a bb A button implant?
Speaker 6: What is going on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we want to know.
Speaker 7: We this doesn't feel like the right time to join
Speaker 7: this conversation, but we do need to let you know,
Speaker 7: Liz that you're on the radio right now with a
Speaker 7: show called Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Oh no, Yeah, why would you not
Speaker 5: tell me this?
Speaker 2: Why would you tell him You're going to get a
Speaker 2: bblah recovery process, need to help.
Speaker 6: I was going to tell you, but like that's why
Speaker 6: we're going on the girls trip because it's out of
Speaker 6: the country.
Speaker 4: And I'm going to get it down there.
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I bet you wouldn't know.
Speaker 5: I hold on.
Speaker 6: I had a consultation with the doctor. They said that
Speaker 6: everything's good, but I just need more body fat. So no,
Speaker 6: everything will be safe. And that's why I've been eating
Speaker 6: more and that's why my clothes don't fit.
Speaker 7: Okay, So so I just but both before you go
Speaker 7: on any further list, I just want to be sure
Speaker 7: because this is kind of a health thing. I want
Speaker 7: to just make sure you're okay talking about that publicly
Speaker 7: with us.
Speaker 1: Yeah the radio right now? Is that cool?
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, definitely. I'm excited for it.
Speaker 2: So if you're excited for it, why haven't you told
Speaker 2: your boyfriend I.
Speaker 6: Kind of wanted to come back and like have this
Speaker 6: new body and Vince be super excited about it, and
Speaker 6: and it's expensive, so I kind of wanted to for it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, who else would?
Speaker 6: Why?
Speaker 4: It's like.
Speaker 2: That was your opportunity to say, I'm excited about your
Speaker 2: body now now, yes, beautiful, now you need.
Speaker 7: To do that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure that's what he wants to say. Deep down?
Speaker 1: Are you paid for it?
Speaker 5: I'm excited for you if it's something that you feel
Speaker 5: like will make you happier. But I yeah, I mean
Speaker 5: I'm kind of glad that you didn't feel like you
Speaker 5: were doing it for me, you know, like you don't
Speaker 5: need to do it for me.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean she didn't consult him, so I think, yeah,
Speaker 2: definitely for her. She's doing it for herself.
Speaker 6: I just didn't know how to tell you that. I mean,
Speaker 6: I've always wanted to do that, and sometimes people are
Speaker 6: judging about it, and I, you know, I have to
Speaker 6: do what's right for me, and this is what I
Speaker 6: want to do and I definitely and I'm not pregnant.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so the nursery part wasn't a hint?
Speaker 5: No, And what about the name Grady.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he mentioned that a few months ago.
Speaker 7: You brought up the name Brady and you asked him
Speaker 7: and he didn't have a very good review.
Speaker 6: So we were watching a show and there was a
Speaker 6: great on the show. Oh that's the only reason why.
Speaker 2: That was it.
Speaker 4: There was no hidden messaging there.
Speaker 6: Okay, Oh no, I mean I would name a baby that,
Speaker 6: but I'm not going to now said it's a pervy name.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, so you still can imagine yourself having kids
Speaker 2: someday with him?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, someday, not anytime soon, but I would love
Speaker 6: that love I love you.
Speaker 4: The recovery time from a BBO, I'm sure would delay
Speaker 4: that for a few months at least. Yeah, yeah, a
Speaker 4: few years. Sorry.
Speaker 7: Clearly, my female co hosts are very knowledgeable about it
Speaker 7: and have researched it deeply looked into it in all
Speaker 7: sorts of different countries.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm gone to Columbia after one of my girlfriends
Speaker 2: got a surgery done.
Speaker 4: Okay, why do you put quotes around my girlfriend? Okay? Interesting?
Speaker 7: Vince, Clearly this call did not go the way that
Speaker 7: we expected it to go. But do you feel like
Speaker 7: you are in a better place mentally at the end
Speaker 7: of it.
Speaker 5: Are you excited even I'm not excited to not be
Speaker 5: a dad, but I am excited did that she's doing
Speaker 5: something for herself? And I'm excited that I didn't misread
Speaker 5: the moment.
Speaker 1: I think the.
Speaker 6: Moment freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: I think maybe the most shocking and kind of funny
Speaker 7: part of that entire call was after she explained the
Speaker 7: whole situation of what she's doing and why she wants it.
Speaker 7: The first thing Vince says is so are you gonna
Speaker 7: be paying for.
Speaker 6: That?
Speaker 2: Was like the worst thing he possibly said in that moment.
Speaker 4: I mean, typical guy, just how a dude thinks.
Speaker 1: I guess is that how you guys think?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm just saying we don't think logically the way
Speaker 7: that that most people.
Speaker 4: We don't know who we think.
Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, it means I will say, it is nice
Speaker 7: to hear from a super supportive boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Though I wonder if.
Speaker 2: He's gonna throw her a butt shower, new underwear, new shorts,
Speaker 2: new cushions.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like pregnancy, she's gonna be a that for a
Speaker 4: little bit.
Speaker 7: I mean, did it sounded all though like he was
Speaker 7: maybe a little disappointed? He wasn't going to be a dad.
Speaker 4: There's actually hard of me.
Speaker 1: That part was sweet. Yeah, it'll be a good dad someday.
Speaker 7: Someday, Yeah, nowhere in the near future. So you keep
Speaker 7: holding on and enjoy that BBL when it comes, I guess.
Speaker 7: But if you ever need help with your personal life,
Speaker 7: if you're in a relationship like this or just anything
Speaker 7: going on, we can try and be of help to you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.
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