WEBVTT - The One About Scandoval 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:11.280 We're recording to give them La La podcasts. What's up? 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:18.960 My loves it is La La Kent. I'm exhausted. I've 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:23.880 never been so tired. I'll tell you what. So yesterday 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:28.760 we recorded a podcast with Shena. We talked about a 0:00:28.760 --> 0:00:31.960 lot of stuff and my gusbands. You were here, and 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:35.360 then I went to Dear Media to record with Shena 0:00:35.440 --> 0:00:38.760 to do her podcast. And when she arrives, she says, 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:42.240 did you get the email? I go what email? She said, 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:45.520 We're not allowed to talk about anything. I was like, well, fuck, 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:50.640 I just recorded an hour of talking about it, mentioning 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:54.400 it all. So here we are back on the podcast 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:56.360 to give you nothing that you want right now. 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:59.560 It was good, though. Do you think that you'll release 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:03.319 the episodisode after the stuff airs or what? 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:03.600 Yeah? 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:06.080 I want to keep and release it when we can. 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:08.400 It was a good episode. It was a great episode. 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:10.240 I think I want to take a break and get 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:12.679 a coffee. I think I need to wake up. Fine, yes, 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:22.279 all right, I have my coffee. I'm back. How's everyone's morning? 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:23.959 Fabulous? 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:29.880 Fabulous? So, because we can't talk about everything that obviously 0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:33.480 people would like to talk about, because Bravo finally told 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:36.200 you all that we have indeed picked up cameras again. 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:41.440 To add on to this season, I've heard the reunion 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:44.840 is like staying put, like we're still filming that. And 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:48.680 Jessica found an incredible stylist for. 0:01:48.720 --> 0:01:57.080 Me at at they give them a pop Upahopify. 0:01:57.480 --> 0:02:00.400 Yeah, the Shopify pop up Carlos who does all of 0:02:00.440 --> 0:02:04.800 the the face work. Yeah, the logo face had a 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:07.760 really good friend and she it was like bougie where 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:08.120 we went. 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:09.520 Yeah, so bougie. 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:18.960 Throw shade on Jovanni. But there's like a couple options 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:21.480 because I want to I want to be like vavoom, 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:26.520 you know, yeah, because like I feel like I'm brand new, 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:29.920 like all of the things that I was like show 0:02:30.280 --> 0:02:34.400 shad about at the beginning of the season, I'm like, 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:38.040 pretty solid, Yeah, pretty solid. 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.160 I can I feel like you can talk about this. 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:43.320 I think my personal opinion, I was like, you can't 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:46.520 have anything that maybe your boob's gonna slip out, because 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:49.400 I personally think you're going to be up, the arms 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:53.079 are going to be going all around at the reunion. 0:02:56.120 --> 0:03:01.160 Maybe I actually wear sneakers that's a must, and lots 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:03.840 of boob tape because I thought that same thing. I 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:07.800 was like, I don't want to be like pop pop pop, 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.560 and then a nipple comes out and kind of steals 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:17.840 the show A very upset. It would take very I mean, 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:20.280 I guess there's worse things that could pop out, right, 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:21.800 like a vagina. 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:23.720 It happens. 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:26.200 But I think that you wear whatever you want to wear. 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:30.680 All the dresses that you're choosing from are stunning. 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:33.200 Yeah, I into the floor, So there's no there's gonna 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:34.640 be no cookie hanging out. 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:36.480 But do you think there's gonna be a lot of 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:38.640 maybe yelling or do you think it's gonna be a 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:41.480 lot of calmness, a lot of cutting you with your words, 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:42.560 or do you think it's going to be all the 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:45.000 energy at the reunion I'm talking about. 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:48.600 So I'm not a physical person just because I'm not 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:50.920 trying to catch a case. Also, I just like there's 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:54.600 something about like putting my hands on someone that feels ick. 0:03:55.840 --> 0:03:58.120 So that's not gonna be me. But I've never really 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:00.720 been a physical person. That's why I talk the way 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:03.320 I do. I don't know how the rest of my 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:05.080 cast is going to be. I think that there's gonna 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:08.760 be a lot of security, for sure, yeah, I posted 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:13.320 a video this morning that I had to immediately take 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:19.000 down because Karen, my writer die who also yeah, we'll 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:20.600 just leave it at that so no one harasses her. 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:23.760 She's like, you've got to take it down, and I 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:27.160 was like, why is something going to happen? And she goes, no, 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:31.520 but I don't want your lawyer to be blown up 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:34.880 this morning, Like let him have a peaceful day of work. 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:38.000 So I took it down anyway. We all got we 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:39.320 all got legal. 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.919 Letters, legal legal from. 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:47.280 Her hou's attorney. I was like this guy like, don't 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:50.080 you look up if people like I feel like you 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:53.960 know that we have counsel, Like, don't send it to 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:57.040 us directly, and how do you have my email address? 0:04:57.920 --> 0:04:59.360 How does he have your email? 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:00.400 Did you? 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:04.680 Probably because we've emailed you know who before her, we've 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:07.400 emailed her about some things. So she probably gave it. 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:10.119 She's a big fan, so she saved that. She probably 0:05:10.120 --> 0:05:11.080 found it. 0:05:13.360 --> 0:05:19.360 Her team together, her team say that team. 0:05:19.720 --> 0:05:21.440 I don't know if it's a team or one human. 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:26.320 Holy moly, do you think there's any coming back from 0:05:26.360 --> 0:05:28.360 this for Raquel? 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:28.800 Like? 0:05:28.839 --> 0:05:30.200 What do you all think. 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:31.240 There's no coming back? 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:34.680 Coming back? 0:05:34.800 --> 0:05:37.120 She might they might people think that she's gonna be 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:41.039 coming back, but I sure hope that we got La 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:44.360 over here to rip her back down. Well, I got 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:46.400 the other girls to rip her back down. 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:49.480 Well, That's that's the hard thing is, Like I don't 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:52.560 think it's any secret that she's always triggered me always 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:55.840 from the jump. I just there. She gave me an 0:05:55.880 --> 0:06:03.640 ick always, and to see that like the girls who 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:06.279 really were building her up and giving her that confidence 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:08.960 when I may have like made her not so confident. 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:13.919 Now they despise her, probably more than I do, because 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:16.520 they actually were like ye ride or die. It's like 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:18.960 I've always been like get away for you. 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:23.279 It's like, yeah, like you show your colors right Totally. 0:06:24.360 --> 0:06:28.200 I don't know if she'll come back. I mean I 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:31.600 I personally would leave and run away and go home. 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:34.240 I would and go and live my life like this 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:38.479 is not good and sandoval Is is very much to blame. 0:06:38.520 --> 0:06:41.800 Here's the hard thing is, like I understand that there 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:44.599 are do like dudes are just messy and dirty and 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:47.479 for the most part, like they don't make the best decisions. Again, 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:49.360 I'm going to tell you I don't dig men right 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:51.640 now without actually telling you, I don't dig men, but 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:57.640 it's just for me expected when you're especially men in LA. 0:06:57.720 --> 0:06:59.120 Especially men boys. 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:04.640 For a second, No, and I don't, I just I 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:09.240 don't trust anybody, and Santaval has always given me a 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:14.640 narcissistic vibe. So but you expect dudes to do that obviously, 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:16.280 not the person you're sleeping next to. I think I'm 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:18.040 kind of numb. So the way I talk about it 0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:20.040 now obviously is not how I would talk about it 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:22.600 if this had just happened to me. But again, I'm 0:07:22.640 --> 0:07:25.760 like a year and a half out, we're thriving, we've 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:31.200 gotten some peep, we're like good to go. So for like, 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:34.840 I'm talking about it as how I feel now. Men 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:38.119 are assholes. But you don't expect your best friend who's 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:41.360 like a woman to do you like that and to 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:44.800 sit there and look you in your eyes and like 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:47.640 confide in each other and go get lunch when the 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:50.160 whole time that's what she's been doing behind your back. 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:56.880 That is scary, absolutely terrifying. I got a big motherfucking bark, 0:07:57.640 --> 0:07:59.120 but I'd never bite. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:04.920 And also though yeah, those are her only friends, like 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:08.080 it's not even just like a vander pum thing like oh, 0:08:08.160 --> 0:08:10.680 can she still do you know, be part of it? Whatever? 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:15.480 Her only friends are these girls that she just fucked over. 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:20.360 Hey, no, she had a really great time, do you 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:22.800 know the ones that are like going on Reddit and 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:25.040 spilling all her DAI secret. 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:31.560 She has other friends get their peaches also, and she 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:35.360 screwed herself. Now lage in general. 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:38.440 In La general and to clarify, because I know, I'm 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:41.680 not saying can Raquel comes back from this? Assuming that 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:44.880 like Tom Sandoval can come back from that. When I 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:47.000 look at the situation and I asked Lala, I'm in 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:50.160 the same boat as Lala, like I'm team women right now. Personally, 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.400 I don't. I mean part of me is like, oh no, 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:54.200 I don't think Tom Sandival can come back from this. 0:08:54.280 --> 0:08:56.760 I've always just been like, oh, Tom's just his own person, 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:59.839 and maybe I've seen like a hint of narcissism, so him, 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:02.160 I'm not even thinking about but raqual when it comes 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:04.839 to like women and this That's why I asked about her. 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:07.400 I don't really care about Tom. So that's why I'm like. 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:09.480 True colors at this point. 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:13.640 This is a You're absolutely right, this is a character flaw. 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:16.320 Yeah, exactly, So who's gonna want to fuck with them 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:18.320 at all whatsoever in any capacity. 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:22.600 We'll have some down load, uh you know, trash people 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:25.800 that will be her friend, and you know that'll be back. 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:29.680 Well. Bottom feeders attract bottom feeders and real recognize. Really 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:31.480 that's how it's always back. 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:32.320 Fine, Rach. 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:38.440 At the end of the day, this too shall pack. 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:40.960 This is not going to be a foreverything where people 0:09:41.040 --> 0:09:43.719 forget people move on. It is what it is. That's 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:44.520 what happens. 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:48.280 But this group will mad. 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:51.160 No, this group will remember, because you're going. 0:09:51.120 --> 0:09:54.839 To be very deep, honey, So go find a different show. 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:57.760 I think she's there. I think she's there. I think 0:09:57.800 --> 0:10:03.040 she's in the ground. They're attending her service tomorrow, like 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:03.640 we're there. 0:10:03.880 --> 0:10:10.200 Is there a world maybe an online streaming service. 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:14.200 Actually, that's pretty baller streaming service. I'd love to be 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:18.200 on the streaming service. Girls got so many followers. 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:20.400 Well, I don't know, for a cal can pretend to 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:23.360 sell a house. That's that's it's too hard for her today. 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.080 You know what's crazy is so many people on the 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:28.320 internet are like, she's so dumb. I'm like, you guys 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:32.040 crucified me when I said yea, literally, I was like 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:36.120 I was buried. You were really upset that I would 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:39.600 use the D word and the S word. Is there any? 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:43.240 Is there any world? And where she goes off off 0:10:43.400 --> 0:10:46.200 somewhere and she goes, I am lost right now. I'm 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:50.360 a lost woman. I need she thinks myself. She goes off, 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:54.120 she does some deep therapy, figures out why she's betraying 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:55.000 all these people. 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:58.960 And then she wants to be on TV board board 0:10:59.120 --> 0:10:59.959 logan is not. 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:03.280 It does a little social time, write. 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:05.360 Any of it. I don't want any of the fake 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:09.920 stories she's gonna come out with. And I'm the victim. 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:13.440 You're not the victim, but up in this situation, there's 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:16.480 one victim in this scenarios a Ryanna go find yourself? 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:17.079 Everyone else? 0:11:17.360 --> 0:11:17.920 I agree? 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:20.200 What do you mean social climby? What seems little? 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:23.000 It was just like she's she's a fan, she's always 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:26.280 been a fan. She rolled up to Pump when she knew, 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:30.040 like mm hmm, she was there was no I was 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:34.480 going to Pump who wasn't a fan? Exactly on that day, right. 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:37.920 I was there, she was. She waited around for hours 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:41.920 for James to be done DJing up Pump and then 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:46.560 still like followed us to the next venue, and you know, 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:49.120 was here the whole night trying to get his attention 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:51.200 while he was making out with other people. He was 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:53.679 doing doing his old whole thing the whole night and 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:56.640 still just waiting. Whin's my chance, win's my chance, wins 0:11:56.640 --> 0:12:00.320 my chance? T g a DJ James's autograph. 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.480 Oh God, that makes me think did she have I mean. 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:05.720 And then think about it, then it was she was 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:07.680 like hanging around Peter It's and then it was like, 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:09.400 I'm gonna make out with Schwartz and then the whole 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:13.200 time she was like having some affair with Santoval. Like 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:17.120 it feels very climb climate keeping the group. You know, 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:20.120 I say this, millions of people moved to LA every 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:22.719 day because they're simply good looking and want to make 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:25.720 something up of themselves. Okay, trust me, I've been out there. 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:29.840 There are some fine looking men. They don't really have 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:35.000 it all together. But he kind of flying like there's 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:39.520 plenty of dudes that to make out with. You got 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:41.800 to get out of the group and for it to 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:45.679 be your best friends. Dude, it's just yucky. So for 0:12:45.720 --> 0:12:48.640 her to come like make a comeback, the group's never 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:52.400 gonna forget that's some low down, dirty stuff. And you 0:12:52.520 --> 0:12:56.319 see me in the trailer when we find out did 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:59.160 you see Schwartz make out with Raquel? And I say 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:01.160 she what do I say? 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:02.559 Wait, this isn't the trailer. 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:07.520 Yeah, I say she's like a cheap a low down, 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:10.000 cheap hu or something like that. I don't know what 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:10.280 I say. 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:11.080 Round the money there. 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:13.959 I'm sure you guys can find it. 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:14.520 I know. 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:18.480 I'm like, I's already posted on TikTok somewhere. Make sure 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:18.920 you're tag. 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:21.680 I was a female on another reality show and I 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:23.720 had a man I would watch out because that's what 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:24.640 she's smelling for. 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:25.400 She's gone. 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:28.080 She just bouncing bout since she wants any guy on 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:30.439 any show and cameras on her. 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:35.480 And what Yes, And I don't want to say I'm excited, 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:42.680 because I'm not excited. I'm I'm looking forward. During the 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:47.360 ten weeks that we filmed that there was a scent 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:50.360 I was picking. There was a scent I was picking up. 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:54.360 Katie also was like, I agree, I'm sniffing something too. 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:59.520 In the ten regular weeks not picking cameras back up right. 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:03.640 Katie and I was sniffing and she was always scratch 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:06.760 and always can say, Lala has an intuition, and I've 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:10.080 seen it since two years since I started working for you. 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:12.960 You just couldn't like read people, and I think, yeah, 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:17.040 obviously useful talent these days. 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:20.720 Especially well, when my life went to hell in a handbag, 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:25.520 a very expensive hand bag, I was like, if the 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:27.920 person that I trusted the most could do this to me, 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:30.840 anyone could do this to me. I don't trust anyone 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:35.080 except for the people in this room, my sponsor, and 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:39.680 obviously my mama. That was it. So now I look 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:43.400 at the world as everyone's evil until you prove that. 0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:45.560 You're not guilty until proven innocent. 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:52.920 Basically, it's not the funnest way to live, but. 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:57.440 Doesn't feel strange that you sort of went through or 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:59.640 from an outsider looking in, it seems like you went 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:06.080 through a big situation and of course people came to you, 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.440 but it seems a little different. Obviously Arianna and Tom 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:13.440 is completely different situation. But now like we've got hashtag 0:15:13.480 --> 0:15:16.760 team Arianna, and it doesn't seem like the same. Again, 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:19.440 maybe it's because you chose that and you were like, 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:21.680 do you look at it, and you're like, damn, everyone's 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:23.800 really come down to fight for her, and just a 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:26.040 year and a half ago, I went through some wild 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:28.040 shit and I just don't think I had the same 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:28.920 support or no. 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:31.960 I think people look at me, and I think they 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:34.200 also look at Katie like they don't need as much 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:37.640 support because they're good, they got this, you know. But 0:15:38.160 --> 0:15:40.960 I also don't know what it's like to have my 0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:43.640 best friend be that girl. 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:44.880 Yes, it's a. 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:46.160 Completely different thing. 0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:46.640 Yeah. 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:50.720 Also it's different because my person was not really on 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:54.440 the show. Never in the history of Bravo have three 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:57.080 main cast members, two of which who have been in 0:15:57.080 --> 0:16:01.760 a relationship for most of the seasons that we've had 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:02.200 in the ten. 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:05.200 Years ten years, yeah, yeah, basically ten years. 0:16:05.800 --> 0:16:09.400 Never in the history have they broken up because one 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:13.280 of them is messing with another cast member who's the 0:16:13.320 --> 0:16:17.000 best friend. It just it's never happened. I mean, I 0:16:17.040 --> 0:16:21.680 have people texting me I think it was you yesterday. 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:24.480 You're like random friend who was like, I don't even 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:26.560 know what this show is, but because it's blowing up 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:28.840 on my feed, I'm going to, like I have to know. 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:30.920 My best friend from home said what season do I 0:16:30.920 --> 0:16:31.280 start at? 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:32.880 And I'm like, one, Oh, I want to start it. 0:16:32.960 --> 0:16:36.840 I want to know what the numbers are this tonight. 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:38.760 I want to know what the numbers are. 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:44.200 Ever are and the streaming. That's what I who's because 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:45.960 people like my friend are like, I don't know what 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:48.080 the show's about, but it's all I see. I'm starting 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:49.800 at season one. I want to go back and see 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:51.480 how those numbers are going up because I think a 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:53.080 lot of people are going, okay, I got to get 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:53.360 in on that. 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:56.640 Also, they're going back and they're looking at Tom in 0:16:56.720 --> 0:17:00.720 a totally different yeah, And I'm like, okay, wait a second, 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:02.320 this person is right here. 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:05.880 Okay, now that I'm thinking about it, that has happened. 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:13.159 A friend has Tom Sandoval. It's Kristin Jackson's Saucy and 0:17:13.280 --> 0:17:16.840 is on Vanderbump. So, yes, this but it is a 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:17.720 different situation. 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:20.679 I think this is now ten years in. 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:22.640 This is like we're buying houses. 0:17:23.840 --> 0:17:27.680 Yeah, we're also not twenty one and messy. Everyone is 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:29.040 in the Are they broken? 0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:30.160 Oh no, they were? 0:17:30.160 --> 0:17:32.000 I think they were. They broken up. No, they were 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:34.040 together when it happened, but broken up. I think when 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:37.760 they when it was, So that's still different. Kristen and yeah, 0:17:38.040 --> 0:17:40.640 that's still different. Arian and Tom were together. They've been 0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:41.199 together up. 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:44.639 But also Jack's was the villain always, you know what 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:47.200 I mean, Like they've been portraying Tom as if he's 0:17:47.240 --> 0:17:48.359 mister innocent. 0:17:48.040 --> 0:17:51.560 This old time correct, see you now? 0:17:51.760 --> 0:17:54.880 So for Jackson was like it was expected to happen this, 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:58.600 It's like, oh now the fans are whoa okay right? 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:01.720 And it's scary too when someone who's like so like 0:18:01.840 --> 0:18:05.040 two of them, Santoval and Raquel, are so like saying 0:18:05.080 --> 0:18:08.320 all these things to press, like you guys see. 0:18:08.040 --> 0:18:10.960 And then it's like wait what In a sense it 0:18:11.080 --> 0:18:14.320 makes me I'm using the most horrific. 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:16.880 Words because I wanted to. I'm thinking of it as 0:18:17.520 --> 0:18:19.800 taking Ariana out of it. Yes, I want you to 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:22.199 watch and be entertained, that's what it's all about and 0:18:22.240 --> 0:18:24.920 go holy shit. Obviously this is arian is real life. 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:27.560 It's my real life, it's everyone's real life. And I'm 0:18:27.640 --> 0:18:30.320 heartbroken for her. I cannot even imagine. And she is 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:33.840 going to come out of this looking at her life differently, yes, right. 0:18:34.960 --> 0:18:36.800 And the only reason I'm saying this is because I 0:18:36.800 --> 0:18:40.960 can speak from experience that type of heartbreak. Again, I 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:43.600 can't imagine if it was the best friend. I cannot 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:48.400 stress that enough. I do see the nuances, but when 0:18:48.480 --> 0:18:52.119 you guys are watching, I also want it to be 0:18:52.520 --> 0:18:54.240 And I know this doesn't sound fun, but I want 0:18:54.280 --> 0:18:56.840 it to be a teachable moment in the sense that 0:18:56.960 --> 0:19:02.239 people like this exist. I've been screaming about narcissism at 0:19:02.280 --> 0:19:07.520 the top of my lungs since my own situation. It's scary, 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:12.199 it's absolutely terrifying, and you could be sleeping next to one. 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:14.119 You could have someone in your friend group and they 0:19:14.160 --> 0:19:16.600 will bleed you dry in every sense of the word. 0:19:16.720 --> 0:19:21.639 I cannot stress this enough. When you're watching, please pick 0:19:21.760 --> 0:19:25.520 up on behavior that you're seeing. It's important and if 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:27.720 you have someone in your life that is acting that way, 0:19:27.960 --> 0:19:29.600 you cut that shit out immediately. 0:19:30.160 --> 0:19:32.680 Yep. We say no, no, no, no, no no. 0:19:32.840 --> 0:19:36.600 It really is like to watch this season now is 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:39.600 going to be It's going to be very hard for 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:41.840 a lot of my cast members. And there's certain things 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:43.800 that are said that everyone co signed on where I 0:19:43.840 --> 0:19:47.320 was like that ain't cute, it ain't cute, And here 0:19:47.359 --> 0:19:47.639 we are. 0:19:48.240 --> 0:19:48.440 Yep. 0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:52.960 I'm looking forward to seeing you being there for her, 0:19:53.080 --> 0:19:55.640 you and Katie specifically, because you guys have went through 0:19:55.720 --> 0:19:58.080 things that I think she can now reach out to 0:19:58.119 --> 0:20:00.159 you and be like, holy shit, how did you do this? 0:20:00.880 --> 0:20:03.360 I think I'm going to be someone that comes in 0:20:04.359 --> 0:20:08.000 later down the line. I think I'm way too intense 0:20:08.040 --> 0:20:11.119 for her right now, way too abrupt. The way I 0:20:11.240 --> 0:20:15.040 handled my situation is different than the way she's handling hers, 0:20:15.119 --> 0:20:20.119 because we all handle heartbreak in a different way. Mine 0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:25.359 just the way that my brain switched. I just don't 0:20:25.400 --> 0:20:27.560 know that I would be the person. I don't know 0:20:27.600 --> 0:20:29.600 that I'm the person that should be around her right now. 0:20:29.640 --> 0:20:31.920 I don't know that it would be good for her 0:20:31.960 --> 0:20:35.960 productive productive. I think the group she has around her 0:20:36.000 --> 0:20:38.160 and keep in mind, like I text her, I check 0:20:38.200 --> 0:20:41.600 in with her friends, just letting her know like I'm here. 0:20:42.200 --> 0:20:46.080 But I think that's where it should stay, just until 0:20:46.119 --> 0:20:49.280 the wound is not so fresh. Because me, I'm like, 0:20:49.720 --> 0:20:50.600 what we doing, girl? 0:20:51.840 --> 0:20:52.360 What we doing? 0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:58.480 Girl? I got I have my grenade launcher ready, just 0:20:58.560 --> 0:21:00.600 give me the go. And she has given me the go. 0:21:00.760 --> 0:21:03.040 But that was me. That's what I was doing with 0:21:03.200 --> 0:21:07.520 my whole relationship was I was like, oh, no, you're fucked, but. 0:21:09.400 --> 0:21:11.680 You are cut and dry, which is going to come 0:21:11.680 --> 0:21:14.600 in handy, and that's what I love. You saw things 0:21:15.160 --> 0:21:17.800