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Speaker 1: You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey Mitch, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing good man, just have a little issue.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. So Giselle is a woman that you met

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Speaker 1: at at bar. So you guys met out in the wild.

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Speaker 1: You met in public, which I think, Yeah, you would

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Speaker 1: think that would make a big difference, right, You would

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Speaker 1: think it would make a difference that you know that

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Speaker 1: that that you meet someone out actually, so you like

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Speaker 1: you kind of get a vibe for the chemistry and stuff,

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Speaker 1: because it can be hard to do on the apps

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Speaker 1: you don't know who you're dealing with.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, one hundred percent if I prefer to like connecting

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Speaker 3: real time, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so what happened? Where are we at?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like we met at a bar and you know, uh,

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Speaker 3: just like off the jump, I thought she was cute.

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Speaker 3: We felt like we hit it off, exchanging numbers and

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Speaker 3: you know, we're flirty on text, Like the vibes are good.

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Speaker 3: We even started planning like like our first date, but uh,

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Speaker 3: you know, it just kind of completely disappeared and there's

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Speaker 3: like with no rhyme or reason. There wasn't like a

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Speaker 3: follow up so i'd feel like, you know, I could

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Speaker 3: tell if like I can vibe if it's not working,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. But it just felt like

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Speaker 3: it was cool, and then it just stopped.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just kind of confused.

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Speaker 1: Let's do this. We're gonna call Giselle. You'll be on

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Speaker 1: the phone at the same time. We're gonna ask some

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Speaker 1: questions on your behalf. At some point you're welcome to

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Speaker 1: jump in on a call. And the hope is that

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Speaker 1: we can figure out, you know, why you've never heard

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Speaker 1: from her again after what you thought was a successful date.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully we can come up with something, you know, a

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Speaker 1: good response she's been busy or not feeling well or

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Speaker 1: something came up, and then we'll set you guys up

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Speaker 1: on another date that we pay for us.

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Speaker 2: How good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, perfect.

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Speaker 2: Let's see what happens next.

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Speaker 1: Part two of waiting at the phone after g got

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Speaker 1: Brunel Mars in two minutes Fred's Show, Lady gog got

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Speaker 1: Brundell Mars. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Mitch, you let's

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Speaker 1: call this woman Gazelle. You guys met at the bar.

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Speaker 1: You thought she was cute. You guys exchanged numbers and

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Speaker 1: you started planning your your first date, I guess, but

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Speaker 1: then you've reached out to her since then, trying to

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Speaker 1: you know, you met in person, right, so now you're

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Speaker 1: trying to plan the date you talked about and she

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Speaker 1: gave you her number. So these are all good signs,

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Speaker 1: except she's not responded to you since then, and you

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Speaker 1: want to know.

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, All right, let's call. Let's call Jazell. Now,

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Speaker 1: good luck, Mitch. Hi isus, Gazelle, Hijazel? Good morning. My

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Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show. The

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Speaker 1: whole crew is here. It's the Morning radio show, and

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Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 1: radio right now, and I would need your permission to

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Speaker 1: continue with the call. Is that okay if we chat

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Speaker 1: for a little bit, okay? Yes, So we're calling on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a guy named Mitch. I guess you guys

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Speaker 1: met out at a bar recently, exchanged numbers, talked about

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Speaker 1: going on a date. Do you remember her for him?

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Speaker 2: Mitch is the guy?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I guess I thought that was implied, but anyway,

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Speaker 1: you remember the guy?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: So what happened? Because he, I mean, he said he

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Speaker 1: went up to you. You guys chatted in person, you

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Speaker 1: changed numbers, talked about a date. I mean, you knew

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Speaker 1: what you were dealing with. I guess you probably didn't

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Speaker 1: have to give him your number or agree to a date.

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Speaker 1: But then you've disappeared. So what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Sorry, this is so really weird.

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Speaker 2: No, it's weird. No, it's definitely weird, no doubt about that.

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Speaker 5: Right, Mitch. So well, whatever, I recently.

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Speaker 6: Got out of a four year relationship and like, it

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Speaker 6: was bad. My ex cheated on me. It was awful.

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Speaker 6: The breakups been along a lot of hard work for

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Speaker 6: me to get through.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 6: I met Mitch and yeah, he was really cute and

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Speaker 6: I thought we had a connection. But like on the

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Speaker 6: night that we went out, I don't know, I started

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Speaker 6: kind of like piecing some things together throughout the night,

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Speaker 6: things started kind of clicking.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I realized how small this world is. Mitch.

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Speaker 6: It turns out is the ex boyfriend of the girl

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Speaker 6: that my boyfriend cheated on me with.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Mitch is the ex boyfriend of a woman who

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Speaker 1: your ex boyfriend cheated on. Okay, I'm just going clear here.

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Speaker 1: So you were cheated on by Mitch's ex girlfriend. What

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Speaker 1: do I have to do with him?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 6: Well, like the connection, the situation, Like, it's been really

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Speaker 6: hard for me to get through. I don't know how

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Speaker 6: you would feel. But if your wife cheated on you

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Speaker 6: and then you started dating, it's just so complicated.

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Speaker 7: I can't even like, oh, do you understand me? You

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Speaker 7: get it like you're in a long relationship with the

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Speaker 7: one and they cheat on you, and then you go on

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Speaker 7: a date with the person that that person was in

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Speaker 7: a relationship with, Like that connection is not okay in

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Speaker 7: my world.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you both couldn't you commiserate over both being

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Speaker 1: cheated on? I mean, I've heard of this happening, by

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Speaker 1: the way, I've heard of you know, it does seem

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Speaker 1: a little strength, But I've heard about people's axes getting together.

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Speaker 2: Right, Well, we don't do Mitch was cheated on by

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Speaker 2: the girlfriend.

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Speaker 6: Maybe they had already broken up, right and I guess

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Speaker 6: we don't know.

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Speaker 5: I don't know for sure, but I'm pretty bother them

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Speaker 5: either way. It's too close to home.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's I have too many feelings about the situation

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Speaker 6: to go on a date with somebody that is remotely

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Speaker 6: connected to the.

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Speaker 5: Woman that helps my boyf and cheat on me.

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Speaker 2: I get that. Let me.

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Speaker 1: Mitch is here. I forgot to mention the mitches here.

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Speaker 1: I'm very forgetful. I apologize.

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Speaker 2: Mitch. Did you did you put that together? Did you?

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm assuming you didn't.

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Speaker 1: And and and by the way, were you cheated on

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Speaker 1: when you were active in a relationship with this woman?

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Speaker 2: The other woman?

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Speaker 3: Well, hey, Joe, I had no idea. So wait, no,

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Speaker 3: me and Allison weren't together. But wait, went like, I mean,

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Speaker 3: that's the weird like Allison right, Like you're cheated with Allison?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, how could I forget? Well?

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Speaker 1: I guess I don't know why he's being penalized for

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Speaker 1: that's my thing. Why are we taking this out on him?

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Speaker 1: He didn't do anything.

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Speaker 6: It's not that it has anything to do with Mitch.

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Speaker 6: It has everything to do.

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Speaker 5: With the hoe bag and the X and looking at

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Speaker 5: the situation, it's too close to home. This is a

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Speaker 5: huge city, and that's the person I went on a

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Speaker 5: date with. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Kind could have told me, I understand, you know you're

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Speaker 3: still there?

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Speaker 6: Like how that for? How do you bring that up

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Speaker 6: on a first date? Like, hey, I know, we've been

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Speaker 6: talking for like an hour, but I'm pretty sure the

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Speaker 6: last person you banked banged my last person I bang.

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Speaker 2: Just like that is it? Is it a good time

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Speaker 2: to date it you're still so hurt by it? I

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Speaker 2: wonder like I'm saying that, no.

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Speaker 6: It's not, which is why I stopped talking to this person.

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Speaker 6: I'm clearly not ready to be in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: So well, that's fair.

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Speaker 1: That's fair that in a perfect world you have that

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Speaker 1: conversation with him, and I understand you're not obligated to

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Speaker 1: do that, but I suppose you could have maybe and

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Speaker 1: I'm not criticizing you, but you could have maybe not

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Speaker 1: given him your number or or release.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is just soft thrash in my world, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: let me just do I know.

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Speaker 5: I'm going to deal with it personally, you know, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I get that, and I guess the communication here was

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Speaker 1: was broken down. But that is a very small world,

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Speaker 1: I will say. And I think, you know, flex would

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Speaker 1: be for you two to hook up and then you know,

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Speaker 1: maybe send some pictures accidentally, you know, it'd be a

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Speaker 5: It's that crossed my mind.

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Speaker 6: I was thinking about all the ways we could revenge.

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Speaker 5: But man, I'm trying to be a better person.

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Speaker 2: Why exactly what good does that do?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 1: Because, by the way, you were wrong, so I think

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Speaker 1: you know, and this wouldn't be wrong. You were wronged

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Speaker 1: by being cheated on. This wouldn't be wrong, and it

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Speaker 1: would be pretty good, you know, pretty sweet revenge. However,

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Speaker 1: I assume you're not interested in going out with him

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Speaker 1: now if we pay for it.

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Speaker 6: Mitch, I think we could be friends and definitely plan retaliation.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, I'm sorry it hurts you in any way.

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Speaker 5: I'm just not ready for gating. Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, I don't want to if someone's not emotionally available,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to, you know, invention that either, you know,

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Speaker 4: I understand.

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Speaker 3: I guess.

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Speaker 4: Just you know, it's okay if we stay in touch

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Speaker 4: and you know, if you.

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Speaker 3: Want to talk about it or whatever, I'm here for you.

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Speaker 1: We have a great budget for this because we very

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Speaker 1: rarely hooked people up. So if you guys want to

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Speaker 1: want a friend date retaliation and hit us up, we'll

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Speaker 1: pay for it.

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Speaker 2: But thank you both for your time, Bess, A bunch

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Speaker 2: of both of you.

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Speaker 4: Sure. Thank