1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the COLO or Chief Love Officer. 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Ready, Steve, yes, ma'am. All right, Floan and 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: Anderson Right, my boyfriend broke up with me and he 4 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: took my clothes and other things to his mom's house. 5 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: I owe his mama some money, so she's saying, I 6 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: won't get my clothes until I pay her. She has 7 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: all of my work clothes. How do I get my 8 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 1: things back? 9 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: Give her mama the money you owe her. Yeah, that's it, 10 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 2: that's all this was playing. Yeah, Yo, boy told your 11 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 2: mama he fit to break up. He said, bring all 12 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 2: her clothes over here, because when you break up with her, 13 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna see my money no more. And I'm 14 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 2: gonna keep her clothes till she give me my money. 15 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 2: That's all you got. That's all you got. Ain't no 16 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 2: need to try to drag the police into this, because 17 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 2: they not gonna get into that. They got to have 18 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: proof that it was your clothes. They ain't got no search. 19 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 2: Want to go in mama's house. How much do you 20 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 2: owe his mama? You've got to pay her back. Yeah, 21 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 2: all I got for you. You can't go over there and 22 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 2: take it and don't need of going in the yard 23 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 2: with no scene. You know, you owe this woman this money. 24 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 2: She got your clothes. You can go to work, especially 25 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 2: if it's. 26 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what she said, all of her work clothes, 27 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Kyle in Louisville, Kyle writes, 28 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: I've been married three years. In May, my wife told 29 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: me that she hated her job, so she quit. She 30 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: also stopped cleaning the house and cooking. She told me 31 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: that this is a life she's always wanted. How do 32 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: I tell my wife that she's not a Disney princess? 33 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: Yeah you could, You could tell her now, but this 34 00:01:55,480 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 2: is the life she's always wanted always, Dear near Press, 35 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 2: I don't quit my job. I don't like it. I 36 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 2: don't clean no more. I'm sitting brown. Yeah wow, so bro, 37 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: I really don't have no real advice for you, man, 38 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 2: except you know, you gotta sit her down and have 39 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,519 Speaker 2: that conversation with her, and all she gonna do is 40 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 2: tell you this is the life she's always wanted. She 41 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: hates her job. You know you all didn't plan it. 42 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 2: You all had planned obviously in your marriage to be 43 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 2: from a two income household. She's changed that. Now's one income. 44 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 2: Uh you feeling a little uh betrayed, a little let down, 45 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: So you gotta voice your opinion, and then you know, 46 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 2: probably best thing for you, I think is just gonna 47 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 2: let her be a Disney princess, you know, but without 48 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 2: your check. Yeah, I don't get a divorce. And then 49 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 2: you can take that preciless thing as far as. 50 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: You want to take it, because she just shut down, 51 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Jason and Daytona Beach, Jason writes, 52 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: my wife has a bad habit of correcting me in 53 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: public in front of others. She did it Saturday and 54 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: I ignored her. I wanted to curse her out in 55 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 1: the car, but I didn't. How do I get her 56 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: to respect me and stop talking to me like I'm 57 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: a child in public? 58 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to talk to her about it, though. 59 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to talk to her about it. And 60 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 2: ladies be mindful of that. Not all women, but just 61 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 2: some women. Be mindful of demasculating your man. It's not 62 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:56,119 Speaker 2: a benefit to your marriage of what's it called emasculating? Yeah, 63 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 2: so you can in deduction, ain't nobody ain't nobody, ain't 64 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 2: nobody deducted? No money from me. They deduct your money 65 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: they take from so whatever that is. They said, don't 66 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 2: do that to him in public. It doesn't all work 67 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 2: if you emasculate him in front of others. So I 68 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 2: think you're gonna have to have the serious conversation with 69 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 2: her because that can't continue to happen because he gonna 70 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 2: snap one day. 71 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: What kind of relationship do they have? He said, I 72 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 1: wanted to curse her out in the car. Do they 73 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: talk to each other like that? 74 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: Well, you know, he mad now because this ain't the 75 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 2: first time she's done it before, so she embarrasses him 76 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 2: in public. So I wanted to cuss out in the car. Hey, 77 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 2: don't you ever raise your blankety blank voice to me 78 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 2: like that again? And check me in front of no 79 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 2: blankety blank people. Blank you think you are? I ain't 80 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 2: your child, I'm your husband. You need to get that 81 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 2: blank straight. That's what he wanted to say. That's what 82 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 2: he's saying in the mirror. When my first two marriages, 83 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 2: that's what I said. Yeah, yeah, my first two marriages, 84 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 2: that's what I said. 85 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 3: Yeah we heard yeah that worked, yeah yeah here, oh 86 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 3: yeah yeah yeah, because. 87 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: You knew it. It was like it was rehearsed. 88 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,119 Speaker 2: You knew what I know exactly what to say because 89 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 2: I said it then I figured that out. Just try 90 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 2: to just marry somebody that don't make you want to 91 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 2: cuss him out and you ain't got all right? All right? 92 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: Last one, Steve, This is the last one. This is 93 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: from Christie in Stockbridge. Christie writes, my husband took our 94 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: six year old to get his ears pierced and he 95 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 1: didn't tell me about it. I also injured my I 96 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: almost injured my son trying to pull them out. My 97 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: husband got his ears piers too. I'm not happy. Why 98 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 1: did he wait until he's thirty seven to get his 99 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 1: ears pierced? I don't know. 100 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 2: I don't really know, but I wouldn't. 101 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 1: You can't. 102 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 2: You gotta. You gotta talk it over with your spouse 103 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 2: when it comes to them children, especially the mother. She's 104 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 2: the manufacturer of the child. You know, that old That 105 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 2: old a man's fifty percent of it. Nah, not really well? 106 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 2: You about you about ten percent of the process. Dog. 107 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 2: You made a contribution at the beginning. After that you 108 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 2: were done. It's all her. You got to tell her 109 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 2: and and ask her what to do with this baby. 110 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 2: So six year old don't need pierced ears, that's for sure. 111 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 3: That's out of line, that's way out of it. 112 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 2: Well, I don't think at thirty seven you need piercing, 113 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: but that is that's just me. But I'm okay. I'm 114 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 2: okay with me and who do it. I'm I'm okay 115 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 2: with tattoos. 116 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: You agree with the wife because she's not happy about it. 117 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 1: She wants you know, Oh, you should have talked to 118 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: her about it. It's a child, now, you he thirty seven, 119 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: He went into her. But I would have checked with 120 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: my wife. Baby, I'm thinking about getting this baby. I 121 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: don't want you to had no pissy. That would have 122 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: been the end of it. 123 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: But I couldn't get tattoos or piercing because of a 124 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: promise I made to my mother and father. My mother 125 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 2: asked me never brand your body because she knew I 126 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: was in the fratt She said, you the Lord don't 127 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: want you to do that. So I never did that. 128 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 2: And my daddy said, don't come in this house with 129 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 2: no ear in on. That's what such just old school 130 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 2: and it ain't nothing wrong with it. Want it? One man? 131 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 2: Jordan had one w. 132 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: Thank you Clo. You're listening, Harvey morning show,