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Speaker 1: favorite Bachelor recappers and Tiktoker's Alie Myers here to break

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Speaker 1: it all down. Oh gosh, I just got the chills.

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Speaker 1: And you said that because she is one of my

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Speaker 1: to have her under share her with all of you listeners.

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Speaker 1: But in the meantime, we of course have to quickly

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Speaker 1: break down last night's episode because a lot happened. So

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Speaker 1: started off on a high note. So you're gonna give

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Speaker 1: this episode. We've we are in Vienna. It's a little

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Speaker 1: but my day look has to go to Gavy. This

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Speaker 1: I was so justus We've seen a lot of fashion

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Speaker 1: all right, Well, next week will be a big week.

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Speaker 1: It's definitely a turning point week when he goes to

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Speaker 1: our listeners. Ever since Beckham mett Elise, she has not

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Speaker 1: other few like I thank you. So then like as

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00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,360
Speaker 1: we're driving from the speaker to the window, he does

426
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 1: like the pat thing and I'm like, no, m I

427
00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:35,399
Speaker 1: And I was like, did you forget your wallet? And

428
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:37,919
Speaker 1: he's like yeah, And I'm like do you need me

429
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,560
Speaker 1: to pay? And he's like yeah, yeah. How much was

430
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 1: it for one hundred talk about tacos? He was about

431
00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty USD So wow, my god, he

432
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 1: is not a cheap date. No, they didn't give me

433
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 1: like the party pack deal. They didn't give me like

434
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:57,359
Speaker 1: no value sauces. Oh, they gave me a whole box

435
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,199
Speaker 1: of hot sauces, like that was a whole box. And

436
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 1: for taco Yeah. And I did a video of me

437
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,879
Speaker 1: reordering the one hundred tacos when I hit like I

438
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:09,119
Speaker 1: think a million or something followers, and I showed a

439
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 1: physical representation of what that looked like in the car

440
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 1: and what it looked like when I grabbed them all

441
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:16,359
Speaker 1: and ran out of the house. But that's so. So

442
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 1: we got out tacos and I was like, okay, like

443
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 1: where are we going next? And He's like, oh, We'll

444
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 1: just go back to my house. And I was like

445
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm already committed now, Like I mean it, I can't

446
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 1: like one of these damn tacos, I know. I'm like,

447
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 1: at least I'll eat first, you know. So we go

448
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 1: back to the house. We walk in, his dad is

449
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,159
Speaker 1: sitting on the couch, and I'm just like, okay, he

450
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,719
Speaker 1: lives with his dad. Like I'm literally teleporting through hoops

451
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 1: to like explain to my brain that this is okay.

452
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 1: We sit down, He like pours all the tacos down

453
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 1: the table screams, let's feast, and then I'm like oh

454
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 1: my god, I'm going to be murdered. I think that's

455
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,439
Speaker 1: the best part of the story though, is the let's

456
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 1: let's be well. So then some like eating tacos in silence,

457
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, this dude loves tacos, like you

458
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: know when your heart at this point, like this isn't

459
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 1: the first time he's done this, like this, this is

460
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 1: a regular occurrence. Oh yeah. And the thing that really

461
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 1: showed me I was like, this is a rehearsed experience

462
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 1: for him is his dad comes over, is standing over

463
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: me eating it like let us shredded, let us like

464
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: falling out together. Yeah, you've just been included today. Oh yeah.

465
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 1: And he goes, do you want to see my studio?

466
00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 1: And they look at each other and that look of

467
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:22,959
Speaker 1: like this is the time where we go show them

468
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: the studio. I like literally like I have like goosebumps

469
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 1: because it was so creepy. This is the beginning of

470
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 1: a horror movie. Yeah, they're podcast, They're my weird porno.

471
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:38,119
Speaker 1: Like either way, whatever that studio was, I'm like, I

472
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 1: don't care if you want to show me your sick

473
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 1: beats or if you want to film an importate movie.

474
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 1: But either way like I do not want to know

475
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 1: like what it is, and so I like was like, no,

476
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:47,919
Speaker 1: I'm good, and I gather all the tacos and I

477
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 1: walked to my car and try and make it look

478
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 1: like I don't need help, because the full last thing

479
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 1: I want is for him to like have a visual

480
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,880
Speaker 1: memory of my license plate. So I just in shame,

481
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: I get the vie. He wasn't going to help you.

482
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 1: I mean he didn't dry if he didn't buy so

483
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: intrigued about what this studio is? Now, has he ever

484
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 1: since you blew up on TikTok and posted this video,

485
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:12,160
Speaker 1: has he ever tried contacting you? No? No, Oh my gosh.

486
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,479
Speaker 1: I want you to send me his name because I

487
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,360
Speaker 1: want to creep on him and see if I can

488
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: message him and be like what was in the studio.

489
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't know his name because

490
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:26,479
Speaker 1: he tried. He tried to message me back, and I like,

491
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 1: after the date to ask me to go on another date.

492
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 1: And I was so terrified I would get really drunk

493
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 1: and respond to him that I deleted my entire account,

494
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,120
Speaker 1: my whole okay Cupid account. I was like, I don't

495
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: even want to have the option to respond to this dude.

496
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: So I don't have his name or photo, but if

497
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 1: I saw a picture of him, I could I could

498
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 1: remember who he was. And yeah, just the fact that

499
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 1: he thought that that went well enough for a second date,

500
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: Like I want to know where this guy? Yeah, no,

501
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: like and like what does that entail? Like you go

502
00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: pick up popcorn and then like go eat it in

503
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 1: the studio? Do I buy one hundred movie tickets for

504
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 1: him and his entire Do you buy one hundred Chipotle

505
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 1: burritos this time? And just up to Annie a little bit, No,

506
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 1: I don't. I would. I literally would be in debt

507
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,239
Speaker 1: at that point. I had no money. I was like

508
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 1: I barely made it, like like buying this man's tacos

509
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,399
Speaker 1: and it was sucked. Was instead of saying no, I

510
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: knew I was just paid the day before so and

511
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: he didn't know that. I could have been like, sorry,

512
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: I can't afford that. I don't have a one hundred

513
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,679
Speaker 1: and fifty dollars my bank account, but I had like

514
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 1: one hundred and seventy five unfortunately, so he wiped it out. Yeah.

515
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 1: So anyways, that's how I got here. Okay, So for

516
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,919
Speaker 1: all of our listeners, please check out her video that

517
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: made her blow up on TikTok TikTok. It is so good.

518
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 1: But at least before we met you were obsessed with

519
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: The Bachelor. You did your own funny recaps. They're incredible

520
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: and as somebody who actually lived it, they hit even

521
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: harder for us. So so glad give us the background

522
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 1: of how you got started in the bouch world. Wasn't

523
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,960
Speaker 1: something that you and your husband just always watched together,

524
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 1: Like how did you join us? I have been following

525
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,199
Speaker 1: The Bachelor since literally season one, and like my brothers

526
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: would drink red wine and eat chocolate and we would

527
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: like watch the shop, Like my brothers got me into

528
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:19,880
Speaker 1: this show and um ever, every single episode since all

529
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: the paradise everything, And so when I got married and

530
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: met Jonas his first season was it was ari that wash.

531
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 1: So we literally to you together this day one. Yes

532
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 1: I knew I felt a connection with It was crazy,

533
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,399
Speaker 1: like the whole thing. And I remember we had to

534
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: go to the gym to blow off our anger because

535
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: of the like unedited scene with you, and yeah, that

536
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: whole like thing. We were like so angry. It was

537
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 1: like eleven o'clock at night by the time we finished

538
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: watching that and we went to our gym to like

539
00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 1: walk on the treadmill. So we ran in a little

540
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 1: apartment and like we were so mad for you, and

541
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 1: we're like this is bullshit, and like, oh my gosh,

542
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: so we've I've been following it for forever endom obstessed,

543
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,479
Speaker 1: and so yeah, oh my gosh, We'll give give Jonas

544
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: an extra big hunt for me next time because it

545
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,640
Speaker 1: makes me so happy. I will, I will. I want

546
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 1: to ask you more about Bachelor and because you are

547
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: part of bach nation now, I'm just gonna say what,

548
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 1: Please answer this correctly? Who has been your favorite lead

549
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:32,400
Speaker 1: since you've been watching for the beginning? Um, I think, Becca,

550
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, I'm winking at you. I can,

551
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: guys answer this correctly. Besides me, I know you have

552
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 1: because we're friends. But besides me, I was gonna say, genuinely,

553
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 1: you are like top three, you actually are, and I wouldn't.

554
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 1: I'm not just saying it but to you. And Okay,

555
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: I know I know that some people have certain opinions

556
00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 1: about like Nick, but I genuinely did enjoy boy watching

557
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: him as the lead both times he was both times

558
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: he was on it, twice. Right, well, he was on

559
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,439
Speaker 1: no no, no no, so he was on Boucher at twice.

560
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,239
Speaker 1: He was on and then was the lead and then

561
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 1: when on Paradise and then was yes and then was

562
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: the lead. Yes. Yeah. So I actually enjoyed watching his

563
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 1: Um who else? Um I the first I mean the

564
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: first one was like incredible, the first season ever bachelor. Yeah,

565
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 1: and then um Jason that heartbreak of him like leaning

566
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: over the rail crying that cry is so iconic, Like,

567
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, um, let's see. I liked Rachel's a lot. Um.

568
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: I loved meeting grocery store Joe so much, and it

569
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: like makes me so like happy to know that, like

570
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: y'all are so happy, and I'm just like, oh my gosh,

571
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: isn't weird by the way that, like, because Becka, you

572
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: never even really dated. No, I talked to him for

573
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: ten minutes and then he went home. You're like, yas, Yeah,

574
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: I don't nothing. I knew he had better things sore

575
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: in his future. You you felt it, you felt it

576
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: in your heart. I knew it. I knew it. Yeah.

577
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: So those are those are so on my face And

578
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 1: I know I'm blanking now that I'm under pressure and

579
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,720
Speaker 1: answering the question. But I I think it's so cool

580
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 1: that each season is so different, like it's the same format,

581
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 1: but really, like once Quarantine hit two, it really it

582
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: really changed the format of everything and allowed people to realize,

583
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: like there are other ways that it can work out,

584
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 1: like with Colton not leaving and engage like all of that,

585
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: Like a lot of that kind of changed how it worked.

586
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 1: And so now people I feel like it's more of

587
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: a two way street, Like it's more of a choice

588
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: on both parties, like to say, like I'm in this,

589
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: you know, like it doesn't feel like, Okay, if this

590
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 1: person picks me, we have to get engaged and leave

591
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: a happy couple. Like it just it feels more um

592
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: what's the word like two street? Yeah, yeah, exactly. And

593
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: it's been really interesting to watch that unfold in these

594
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: these last few seasons. Um, and it's been really fun

595
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: to watch. Well, oh, sorry, you're good. I was just

596
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: gonna say for Clayton's season then, I mean, I want

597
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: to know all your thoughts. But who would you like

598
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 1: to see as the bachelotte or who are like, even

599
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: if it's not from Clayton's seasons, there anyone from the

600
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 1: past that you're like, oh my gosh, I would just

601
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: love to see this person be the lead. Um, okay,

602
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: so definitely not Shinney. And I really know, and I

603
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: need to know really quick before I answer that question.

604
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: Is that real? Like what part? Like, yes, it's real, right,

605
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: its not being edited in that way. No, I mean,

606
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: like everything that we say that comes out of our

607
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: MOUs is us. Like there are times where you'll have

608
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: like the team kind of helping direct conversations between people,

609
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: but like everything we say and do is us. Yeah,

610
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: no one say anything, but I think, like who I

611
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 1: would want to see? I don't know, like obviously if

612
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 1: you make it to the end, but like what's her name?

613
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: I have a cheat sheet with me right now, and

614
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: and them so bad names where she or she she's

615
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 1: the most amazing eyebrows and she she's Oh Rachel. I

616
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: really like Rachel. She's one of my favorites. And I

617
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: don't know if like she ends up being involved in

618
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: drama later, but she's my favorite right now. Um, and

619
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: then I, oh, Mara is that her name? I don't

620
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: like Mara. I just found out I don't like her, Mara, Mara.

621
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm just keeping out one hundred, and I

622
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think you know what that means,

623
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: my friend. I think that my definition of one hundred

624
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: and your definition of one hundred is not the same

625
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 1: one hundred like solid sixty four, like that is not

626
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 1: what I would plus one equals fifty. And I'm like,

627
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 1: I don't think that we went to the same math class,

628
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: my friend. She like, I just it blows my mind

629
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,239
Speaker 1: that someone can tell the lead like this girl's too

630
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: young to get married. It's like there's one thing for

631
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: someone to say, like I feel too young to get

632
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 1: married and relaying that information, but then to just like

633
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: assume something somebody because of their age or the five

634
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: minutes that you've seen the lead in that person together,

635
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: like you're not allowed to tell somebody like what you

636
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: see and how that will play out long term, Like

637
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 1: that blows my mind when people waste their time that's

638
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: so precious talking about other people, like yeah, it never

639
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 1: works out for them, and they just do it every time.

640
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: You said it best, you said in your TikTok you

641
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: like it's prison rules out here, keep your head down

642
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: on other people's name about your mouth, and no joke.

643
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: That is it that is it. If anyone is going

644
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: on the show, that is the one thing you should

645
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: take away from this podcast, and it's just don't talk

646
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: about that whole situation I could get so fired up

647
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: about because I'm twenty three obviously, so I really it

648
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: just hit close to home and obviously like it was

649
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: things that I had heard before too, especially from the

650
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: general public. But like believe it or not, some people

651
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: don't get engaged at the end of it. Some people

652
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: get engaged and don't get married for five plus years.

653
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: And some people are just twenty three and are ready

654
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: for an engagement. And just because you aren't ready or

655
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: you sorry, you weren't ready at twenty three doesn't mean

656
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: that they're not. And some people get engaged way too

657
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: many times and it doesn't work out, so that just

658
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 1: never know, You never know. It's like roulette. You just

659
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: you hope for the best and see where it goes.

660
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: And like, yeah, it's crazy to me, Like I got

661
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: engaged at I think twenty two and married at twenty three,

662
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 1: and like for me, because that's my experience, it blows

663
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: me away when people are like, she's not ready, and

664
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, how about you just stopping so secure

665
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: about your connection with him, and if you don't like it,

666
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: just be better, like just oh my gosh, I would

667
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: have loved Okay, I'm just gonna put this out there.

668
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: Two things. Number one, A lease, we might have to

669
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: see you in Paradise doing a little bartending action with Wells.

670
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: At that point, you would be gold. You would be

671
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: so good for anyone to go do for advice or

672
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: just like comedic relief. But I also have to say

673
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 1: in Last Sense episode they have a whole therapy group day.

674
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: It's like couples counseling, and instead of that counselort, I

675
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: would have loved to see you in the middle of

676
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 1: this with Clayton and the women, because that would have

677
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 1: been TV gold. I I'm not gonna lie to you

678
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: every time I post a recap. I'm just hoping to

679
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: God somebody will reach out to me and be like, hey,

680
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: would you like to be a part of a group

681
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 1: date in some way? Because I'm like, I'm not about

682
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 1: ready to just keep a running notes of like like, Okay,

683
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 1: these are my ideas if I were to be on

684
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: a group date, of what I would do, what I

685
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 1: can facilitate, I will bartend, I will like lead a

686
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:27,320
Speaker 1: group therapy session. I will help you like wrap Christmas

687
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: presents for your grandma and give you advice on like marriage,

688
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: Like I don't care what it is, like, I just

689
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: I want somebody to call me in so bad so

690
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 1: I can like see at least you came to the

691
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: right place. I'm fact Wells is my brother's doppelganger, Like

692
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: I have sent three photos of Wells to my brother

693
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: and then like, y'all are literal twins, and so yeah,

694
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: I'll send you a photo of him after the fact.

695
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we could do like we could do

696
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,279
Speaker 1: a thing where we set your brother up and like

697
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: the whole bartending get up like behind the bar and

698
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 1: like different well and then the cast can walk down

699
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: and like order drink and just see if anyone even

700
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: recognizes what that it's not actually Well, it's the curly

701
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 1: hair everything. It's like they have the same like eyes,

702
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: like the way that they like laugh at things. I'm like,

703
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 1: you guys are literally in the same So when I

704
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 1: see Wells, I think that's why my heart gets so

705
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 1: like he's my family. Like a lot of you guys

706
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 1: feel that way. I feel like, you know, like when

707
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,319
Speaker 1: you're saying, when you meet somebody for the first time,

708
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: you're like, I think this person's going to be in

709
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: my life for a long time. Everybody has meant like

710
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: you guys, like people from the batch world, Like it

711
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 1: feels like you're meaning family, and that could because I'm

712
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: a creep and I know more about you than I should,

713
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 1: but I think more than that, it's like, I feel

714
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: like it takes a special person to put themselves out

715
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 1: there on national television and be so open and vulnerable

716
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: with their lives and like let people into that like

717
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 1: their world like that. I don't know when you meet

718
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 1: somebody like that, you could that in me connects with

719
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: that in you and it feels like it's family. And

720
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: so side note as a just watcher, like, I want

721
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: to thank you guys so much for being so vulnerable

722
00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: and allowing people to see parts of your life that

723
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: are messy but also like really amazing and like the

724
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 1: best thing that's ever happened to you and also like

725
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: the worst thing that's ever happened to you, all at once.

726
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 1: And so I really appreciate the fact that you guys,

727
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 1: even if you are afraid to do it, you do

728
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: it anyways. Because one it makes you entertainment, but too

729
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 1: it allows people to grow with you. Like I've learned

730
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 1: so much about myself and our relationship with you know,

731
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,439
Speaker 1: me and my husband and my family dynamic, just because

732
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 1: of watching you guys be open. So I just want something, Alease,

733
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 1: that's so sweet. We'll thank you, We'll say for you too.

734
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 1: I know you know social media is so prevalent these days,

735
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: and you share so much. And obviously people can pick

736
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 1: and choose what they want to share personally, but you've

737
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 1: always been so open and vulnerable, even like not only

738
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: in your funny videos, but like in some of your

739
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,399
Speaker 1: songwriting and singing as well. So thank you. I mean,

740
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,919
Speaker 1: I'm at the end of this. We'll have everyone you know,

741
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: no where to go to find you, but please check

742
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 1: place out. Like her videos are incredible, some are funny,

743
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 1: some are touching, some are just like badass, They're so good.

744
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: We'll get into all that, but I need to ask you,

745
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:02,960
Speaker 1: since you've been watching the show since the beginning overall,

746
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: if you could have, if Jonas would allow you to

747
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: have one hall pass, who would it be in vater Nation?

748
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,280
Speaker 1: Well no, oh my gosh, oh, I have to think. Wait, Okay,

749
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: I've forgotten every single person I've ever seen in my

750
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 1: entire life. Now, Joe and I, Okay, I'll let you

751
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: think for a second. Joe and I were just talking

752
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 1: about this because a girlfriend of mine her hall pass

753
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:32,240
Speaker 1: and she's in like a very happy human relationship. But jokingly,

754
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 1: her hall pass was Tyler Cameron. So when I was

755
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 1: gone for so long on Matt season, her boyfriend started

756
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 1: be like, have you have you heard back from Serena yet?

757
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: Have you have you heard He's like, this is getting

758
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: too close for comfort, like this was this was not

759
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: the plan. Serena my Matt's best friends with Tyler. Okay,

760
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:55,439
Speaker 1: I have my answer, my answer. Okay. Oh I feel

761
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: bad now because he's like happy Ben Higgins. I'm sorry, Okay,

762
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: I'm in HOLI now. Benny's such a great guy. I

763
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:08,240
Speaker 1: he is happily married, but you know he's so sweet.

764
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: I think, like I just it's it's like you meet,

765
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: like you see people like that just seem like they

766
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:15,400
Speaker 1: are who they are on camera and off camera, and

767
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: that's what you're like, That's what's so attractive to me.

768
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, like you just seem like

769
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: a teddy bear. Yeah, anyways that and I'll leave it.

770
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: No ima, no, no, I need no, no, I need

771
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 1: to no, no, I can't. You can't do you have to? No?

772
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:35,439
Speaker 1: I can't though, and you can't. I'm sorry. Nice. I

773
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: love that because she's got such a sweet smile, Like

774
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: his whole face is his smile, and I'm like, it's

775
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: just so nice. I'm gone. He's gonna be so amped.

776
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: It's gonna make this whole week. I'm never gonna hear

777
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: the end of it. I'm gonna have to block this

778
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 1: entire episode from Thomas because he's gonna be heartbroken. The

779
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: lace I thought, I don't know if Thomas could hear me,

780
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 1: And if I thought Tomas could hear me, I think

781
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 1: I'd light on fire. So he was automatically excluded from

782
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 1: his conversation that was never gonna come out of my mouth.

783
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: He's slowly he's weeping in the corner right now. I

784
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 1: feel like we could talk about The Bachelor with you

785
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 1: for hours. This has been so fun, But let's get

786
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 1: more into like you overall and your TikTok rise to

787
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: fame if you will? If you will? What's your creative

788
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,879
Speaker 1: process when you make these? Do you just watch an

789
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: episode and you know, like find a funny bit and

790
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 1: you're like, that's it, or how like what all goes

791
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: into this? Oh my gosh, way more than you would think.

792
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 1: Well maybe not more than you probably know. It's more

793
00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 1: work than it looks. But so what I do is

794
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: I have to watch the episode like three times, which

795
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,919
Speaker 1: they used to getting longer. I don't know, I who's

796
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 1: anything these, but they go for they went from like

797
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 1: forty five minutes another like seven hours. I'm like, this

798
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: takes so much time, so and I love it though

799
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:52,760
Speaker 1: I want it all. I want him to do seven hours.

800
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: So I watched him a few times, and then I

801
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: will make notes of like I have like a whole

802
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 1: spreadsheet of the dates and what the date is, and

803
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: then notes from them that I'm like, yeah, this is

804
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: really cool, I'd like to talk about that. And then

805
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 1: I like have to like edit them so that they

806
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 1: fit on the phone, and then I have to go

807
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 1: into the TikTok app and record them on green screen.

808
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: Then I have to record my screen because I have

809
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 1: to get them all to edit the episode later, So

810
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 1: I I like make a max it out at three minutes.

811
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: Then I have to go back into my phone and oh,

812
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: look at a Lisa's face and head up. How's it going, Joe? Good?

813
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,719
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm so good. I'm just here in

814
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 1: Nebraska and um that I'm not. I'm just it's warm here.

815
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:51,240
Speaker 1: That's why my face is look at just the smile

816
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: just lights up and tell your face so yeah, back up?

817
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: How could you look at those dim poles? Back? It's

818
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: because you guys, I have this weird sixth sense. I

819
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,359
Speaker 1: knew something better was coming in the future. Okay, and

820
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: Joe and I just needed to sturt sit up on

821
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,959
Speaker 1: the beach in Paradise together. That's why. That's true. That's true.

822
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,799
Speaker 1: That's true. Grocery store Joe, I have one question for you. Um,

823
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: what is your favorite thing about Serena? Oh? Thanks? More

824
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 1: than what? If you want It's okay. If you want to,

825
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 1: you can do to. You know what. Wow put me

826
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 1: on the spot probably just yeah. Her giggle, her laugh

827
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: always puts me in a good move, no matter how

828
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 1: stressed out I am. When I hear her laugh, I feel, Oh,

829
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 1: thank you. I'm I'm gonna record her giggle and have

830
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: you make it your ring tone. I don't want to

831
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: play it out okay, other people falling in love with here,

832
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 1: just just Joe just I do want to ask a question,

833
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 1: and we probably should have started the podcast with this question,

834
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 1: but I'm sure Becca already knows the answer. Can you

835
00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 1: tell us me, our listeners, how did you get into TikTok? Like,

836
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 1: how did this journey begin for you? Because like I'm

837
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: assuming you didn't go to like TikTok college and then

838
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 1: graduate and then start your career. No no, no, no,

839
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: no no no. I went to TikTok and I started.

840
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: I went to TikTok univerishy. Sorry. I started posting on

841
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 1: TikTok because I was awake really early because I had

842
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 1: a new baby, and so I just started waking up

843
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: at four because I was like trying to get alone

844
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 1: time as a mom before August woke up. And when

845
00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 1: I was awake, I would think of like funny things

846
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 1: to say that I thought were really funny at least,

847
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 1: and so I was just hit record and as I'm

848
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 1: like making my ice coffee in the morning, and then

849
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 1: that was it and nothing was seen more than like

850
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: a thousand times right like by on an accident by people.

851
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: And it wasn't until I August had his first word,

852
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: and I posted that that people started coming to my account.

853
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: That was like the first big video was August saying Mama,

854
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 1: which I'm not realizing was just jibberish, but it was cute.

855
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 1: And so then after that I've started getting followers steadily,

856
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 1: but like until the taco video, that's when it just

857
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 1: like it ran away from me. I was like, I

858
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: don't control this at all anymore. It's it is the

859
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 1: world now to perceive an experience, and so yeah, it

860
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 1: just kind of happened by accident, and I just realized

861
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:19,320
Speaker 1: I really love it, and people love watching me tell stories,

862
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 1: and people love the way that I process information and

863
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: spit it back out, and like I feel like people

864
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:25,919
Speaker 1: just kind of are looking to me now to kind

865
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:29,919
Speaker 1: of represent like just the mental health space, the ADHD thing,

866
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:34,319
Speaker 1: like the mom thing, the like Nebraska thing, like comedians,

867
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: Like it's like it literally I just feel like I

868
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,359
Speaker 1: get to have conversations with people and literally every walk

869
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:44,320
Speaker 1: of life, in every like career, in every age group,

870
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 1: and like I get to have conversations like this where

871
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: it's like I seemingly before all this was a nobody

872
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: in comparison to like celebrity and then now I'm just

873
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,399
Speaker 1: having conversations and I get to just oh, yeah, it's

874
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:58,919
Speaker 1: just so encouraging to me that people want to hear

875
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,800
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's just it's wild. Well, I think,

876
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: like my take on your account, what's so amazing about

877
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: it is you just show so many different facets of

878
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 1: your personality. Like you're a comedian, you're a storyteller, you

879
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 1: are relatable, you're a mom, you're a wife, and you

880
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 1: you're a Bachelor fan, and you just show all of that.

881
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 1: So people just see this like really holistic image of

882
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: like who you are, which is a really scary and

883
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: hard thing to do, I think on the internet to

884
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 1: like share all these different facets of yourself, and like,

885
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: I think you know back and I can relate to

886
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: the like going from you know, total being totally anonymous

887
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 1: to being totally public and it's kind of a crazy jump,

888
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: but you know, I think you've evolved really like beautifully.

889
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's a weird thing to say

890
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 1: about it. TikTok, Yeah, I Oh, I have a question,

891
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 1: what would you give yourself, like a piece of advice

892
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 1: would you give yourself looking back when you were just

893
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 1: starting to become like famous, famous, Like what would you

894
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: encourage yourself with? I had kind of well I'm still

895
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,319
Speaker 1: kind in year one, so like that might be a

896
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: better question for Becca to answer. And I also just

897
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 1: didn't have a normal transition because when my season was airing,

898
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:13,359
Speaker 1: I was in Ontario in full lockdown. Basically I didn't

899
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: get out of lockdown from the pandemic fully until I

900
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: came back from Paradise. So it got it hit me

901
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: like really really hard all at once, where like I

902
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 1: had no gradual growth. But I think, just don't look

903
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 1: at everything and just focus on what makes you happy

904
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:35,200
Speaker 1: and what you're passionate about and the people in your

905
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: life and their opinions, because that's really what matters. Yeah,

906
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: And I think just to add on to that, I

907
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 1: would say, like, I mean I've been now like in

908
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 1: this world of vat Nation since basically twenty seventeen, and

909
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,520
Speaker 1: you know, for a while, it was just such a

910
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: change in my life, like I went, you know, as

911
00:45:56,200 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 1: Serena said, like anonymous to blowing up overnight. And I

912
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 1: think people feed so much into being a certain way

913
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,760
Speaker 1: on social media, looking a certain way, you know, having

914
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: a certain aesthetic and like for me personally, just over time,

915
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: I had to kind of just grow into myself and

916
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:18,280
Speaker 1: post like what I want and what makes me happy,

917
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: and like I didn't and I really try hard now,

918
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: especially to just not care about like engagement and numbers

919
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: and just to do it for me. And that's something

920
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: that I didn't know right away. Like you know, when

921
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 1: you get kind of into this world, you have so

922
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: many people and agents and managers and brands coming at

923
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 1: you being like, you know, what are your numbers, what's

924
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 1: your engagement, what's this, what's that? Here's what we can

925
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,360
Speaker 1: throw at you for that, And I had no idea

926
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: about any of that, and so I really try to

927
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: like not focus on that and care about that and

928
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,760
Speaker 1: just like post what makes me happy, if that's food,

929
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 1: or if that's my dogs, or if that's my relationship

930
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 1: or whatever it might be. I'm not I'm not trying

931
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 1: to do it to gain followers and boost engagement. It's

932
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: just more for me. And I know that's not for

933
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: everyone and that's just for me personally, but just to

934
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: not get caught up in the numbers of things. And

935
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: that's what I want to say to you, Elise, is

936
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: like when Serena says, your TikTok and your Instagram and

937
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 1: your social media just platform as a whole is so

938
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:22,919
Speaker 1: relatable you truly, I will say this, like, you keep

939
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 1: it so real in every facet, whether it's funny, whether

940
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: it's regarding mental health, whether it's serious, whether it's just

941
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: being vulnerable in sharing your songwriting and singing like you

942
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: are just you on any given day. You have your

943
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: good days and your bad days. And that's why I

944
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 1: personally love following you and supporting you, and I think

945
00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 1: that's probably why a huge fan base loves watching you

946
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: as well, is because you're just going to be you,

947
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: and I think in this world, in this day and age,

948
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: that's not as common as we think, and it's such

949
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 1: a beautiful thing. So I want to thank you. And

950
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: you also are a huge advocate for just women and

951
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 1: just building each other up and sharing kindness in our

952
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:05,280
Speaker 1: actions and our words, and I think that is so

953
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 1: incredibly important. And you're just again for all of our listeners,

954
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:13,800
Speaker 1: like please check out her page because she just is

955
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 1: so well rounded and has so many incredible things to

956
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 1: share that we could all take a page from. All Right, well,

957
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:23,439
Speaker 1: I'm crying for that's really good. I think. I think

958
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: that growing up, I really just was so desperate and

959
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: hungry for a space that I felt like I was

960
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 1: allowed to figure out who it was and be myself.

961
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,479
Speaker 1: And I feel like I grew up in the era

962
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: of Instagram just getting big, Facebook just getting big, and

963
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 1: it was like that super polished like life, like highlight

964
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: reel of your life, and I felt like there was

965
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: no space to make mistakes, there was no space to

966
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: have learned, like an opportunity to grow in front of

967
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: other people and get it wrong. And like, I genuinely,

968
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: from the bottom of my heart, just want to cultivate

969
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 1: like this community which sounds so cliche, of people that

970
00:48:56,400 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: like have their permission to just be themselves and nothing else,

971
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: and like also change in it. I think that when

972
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 1: you get famous, then people you're like timestamped as this

973
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 1: person and you are never allowed to change your mind.

974
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 1: And like, if you're famous long enough and in a

975
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 1: public eye, like a ten years from now, you will

976
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 1: be a different person than you were when everyone found

977
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: out your name for the first time. And like, I

978
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 1: just want to be so transparent with the fact that

979
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: like we're human, we can grow, we can also make

980
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 1: a video and have our hair be in a million

981
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:28,760
Speaker 1: different directions and defining literal gravity and then like still

982
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: like be funny and relatable and like and like make

983
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:33,839
Speaker 1: a friend and so yeah, thank you so much. That's

984
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 1: all I ever have wanted to do on my videos.

985
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: So the fact that that translates just makes my heart

986
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 1: so happy. Well, oh, I'm getting chills again. This has

987
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 1: been I have to say, like one of my not

988
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 1: just because you're you and incredible with my friend, but

989
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 1: like one of my favorite interviews I've done so far.

990
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 1: It's just been so real and so fun and it's

991
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 1: not all only bout for focus but everything else. All Right,

992
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: I know you are a very busy woman. You have

993
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: a husband and your career and tiktoks to make and

994
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 1: your baby. But um, let's get into a quick little game.

995
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 1: And yes, um we know you're not available since you

996
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:12,880
Speaker 1: are married with the child and all. But just for

997
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 1: this game, we're going to pretend that this is a

998
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 1: Lise's season of the Bachelorette. So we're gonna do like

999
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 1: a little rapid fire question this season of the Bachelor.

1000
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: So she is pretending to be a contestant on the

1001
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 1: Bachelor oh okay, okay, got it. Sorry, okay, good catch. Okay, So,

1002
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,160
Speaker 1: but your husband can be the bachelor in this scenario

1003
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:37,160
Speaker 1: if you would let yeah it great, okay, great, So yeah,

1004
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: we're gonna pretend. Wait should We're just gonna pretend. Yeah,

1005
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,359
Speaker 1: the bachelor's gonna be a bachelor and just like how

1006
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 1: you would, okay, interact with him. So, um, it's gonna

1007
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 1: be rapid fire. We'll just ask you a question. You

1008
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 1: just go so okay, First things first, Elise, you're all

1009
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 1: dressed up, you get out of the limo to meet

1010
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: the bachelor. What's your big reveal? Are you going to

1011
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 1: be wearing in a costume, driving up in a tractor, etc.

1012
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 1: The world is your oyster, the budget is your oyster. Okay,

1013
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be wearing jeans and um, some type of

1014
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 1: tennis shoes because I'm not about to stand in heels

1015
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 1: all night. I don't. I don't have the knees for

1016
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 1: that and the lower back. And I will be singing

1017
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: a song, so I'll have my guitar and I will

1018
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 1: have written a song on the spot, like on the

1019
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 1: limo drive over, because if I think about it too

1020
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:27,920
Speaker 1: long then I will lose my mind. So I'll just

1021
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: have written a song and walk up to him and

1022
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 1: like been funny, not like trying to be like serious

1023
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: about it, like really funny, And that will be nice.

1024
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 1: That would managements. I love that perfect. Yeah, already create

1025
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,959
Speaker 1: this too. Yeah, someone's gonna steal this idea. You're gonna

1026
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 1: bad to see this on the next I can't wait.

1027
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: I hope. So well, our nice question was gonna be

1028
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: what would your dress look like? But we already have

1029
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 1: heard Denimon tennis shoes, so I'm gonna skip that one. Yes,

1030
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,840
Speaker 1: you finally get to talk to the bachelor, but another

1031
00:51:55,920 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: woman interrupts you. What would your response be, Um, that's okay,

1032
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 1: thanks for asking, that's not thank you? Um okay. Roles

1033
00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 1: are reversed now, So what if you haven't had time

1034
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: to talk to the bachelor yet, are you gonna be

1035
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: interrupting another woman? Um? Yeah, definitely. I will not be

1036
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,280
Speaker 1: the jerk that like is just going in two minutes

1037
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 1: into somebody talking. I like, here's my thing. I am

1038
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 1: not gonna like fight somebody to like want me. So

1039
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 1: I would be the person that like sends my cell

1040
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 1: home because I'm like I'm okay, like I have no,

1041
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: I have no room to just like fight for somebody,

1042
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 1: and I know that like that comes later, but like

1043
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: first night, I'd be like, not, dude, if you don't

1044
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 1: want to, Like if I didn't catch your eye, you

1045
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:49,040
Speaker 1: have like thirty people here, so I'm not gonna like

1046
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 1: waste my time running after you. So I would I interrupt,

1047
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't really like do it too too much,

1048
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:58,359
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't try that hard, you know what I mean.

1049
00:52:58,400 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 1: I just if we didn't see me and be like, wow,

1050
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 1: she's stunning. I did. That's okay, someone else is gonna

1051
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: think I'm stunning, you know what. I can see you

1052
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: doing it. I could see you because you're so sweet

1053
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,359
Speaker 1: that like but like in a how do I say?

1054
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: It's like in a sassy sort of way though, So

1055
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 1: I could see you like giving the other girl enough

1056
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 1: time but then coming up with like a plate of

1057
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: food and just sitting down and be like, oh, you

1058
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 1: guys want some and like starting it enough that way

1059
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: is like this thruple and then you know, and then

1060
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 1: the other the other one's good addles. Yeah, Like I'm

1061
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 1: not asking you to leave, I'm just gonna join. Yeah,

1062
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 1: I just say here while you guys talk like I

1063
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: just have some food and everyone has to eat anyways,

1064
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: so I might as well share my wings with you. Yeah,

1065
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 1: that's like something I would definitely I love that and

1066
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:39,720
Speaker 1: I would love to see if the other girls just like, okay, fine,

1067
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:43,720
Speaker 1: I'm game. Like I'm gonna say, I'm gonna leave first.

1068
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:47,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna use that. Actually I really like that. Then

1069
00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 1: really share one of my one hundred taco bell harsh

1070
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 1: Thank you. Hey, guys, I hope to get one of

1071
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 1: the producers. Go get me one hundred tacos. Would you

1072
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 1: want one? They're gonna be staging about thirty seconds anyways,

1073
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 1: so if you don't want to eat one, then like,

1074
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 1: I'll just eating myself. I guess that's why we're beans tonight.

1075
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:04,799
Speaker 1: Thank you. All right, So I would give you the

1076
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:10,439
Speaker 1: first impression. Girls, I'm just saying this is now you're

1077
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 1: one on one date. What would be your biggest fear

1078
00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: in terms of activity, Like do you hate horses? Do

1079
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: you not want to go skydiving? Swimming with sharks? What's

1080
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 1: the absolute never I'm going to send myself home before

1081
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:25,720
Speaker 1: I do this date? Oh, I mean it's anything heights

1082
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: wise in any literally anything too high or too low,

1083
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 1: so underwater or no anything in space sky. No, just

1084
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 1: keep me on the ground, like if you will, I

1085
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 1: will sea level see, yeah, normal sea level and like

1086
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: that's good, Like it's good. I'll ride a horse, I'll

1087
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:47,280
Speaker 1: drive a car, I'll walk okay. Just please don't push

1088
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:48,959
Speaker 1: me out of a plane in the sky. And don't

1089
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 1: make me like look at things that live in the

1090
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:52,320
Speaker 1: ocean and don't want to see people. They live in

1091
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:53,839
Speaker 1: the ocean for a reason. Please don't make me look

1092
00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: at it. Okay. So on that note, then for group date,

1093
00:54:56,360 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 1: would you rather do a physical activity or a performance activity? Oh? Performance?

1094
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 1: I can't handle any type of physical like unless it's

1095
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:07,440
Speaker 1: like not. I don't want to fight anyone. I don't

1096
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 1: want to do any of those like like pillow fights

1097
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: with like the feathers that go everywhere. I don't want

1098
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:13,719
Speaker 1: to do like WrestleMania. I would I want to I

1099
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 1: can roast somebody, I can sing a song, I can

1100
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 1: like come up with things on a spot. I just

1101
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to like fight anyone. Oh my god.

1102
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 1: No physical I got my season on one of those days. Yeah,

1103
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: I'm right there with you. No, And I don't I

1104
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 1: know no, thank you, no, no, But I'll go on

1105
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: a hike. I'll do that. I'll on the ground, on

1106
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 1: the ground. I can even handle a little too. I'm like,

1107
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 1: I'm good. If I can't fall off the side of

1108
00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 1: this mountain to my death. I'm like, I'm good. But

1109
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,920
Speaker 1: if it's like I feel like I'm gonna no, no,

1110
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 1: thank you, I give it. Alrighty you hear another woman

1111
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 1: talking about her boyfriend back home? Are you telling the bachelor?

1112
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. That is her business. Who knows he might

1113
00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: be into open relationships. I don't know. Oh, I can

1114
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:02,399
Speaker 1: ask him, but I'm not going to tell them about

1115
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: her boysman. Now, I'll let her use my phone to

1116
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 1: call her moving back home, my contraband phone. I'm not

1117
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm not going to tell the lead.

1118
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: It's all good. Yeah, prison rules, prison rules, out of

1119
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: my mouth. Yeah. Would you be open to calling another

1120
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: woman out if she's doing something rude? Oh? Yeah, I'm

1121
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 1: a big fan of like your your consequence, your choice.

1122
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,359
Speaker 1: So like, if it just affects you, if you're being

1123
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 1: rude and it's just you in a room, fine, But

1124
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: when it affects me and like the health of the house, Yeah,

1125
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something, but if if it doesn't affect me,

1126
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 1: like no, you keep going and being your bad self.

1127
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: I cannot think like if if you're going to confront,

1128
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: like if there's someone stirring up shit, don't break to lead,

1129
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: like just take it right to that like that woman,

1130
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:52,760
Speaker 1: you can handle it yourself, Thank you. I do not understand.

1131
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, do you know how much drama would be

1132
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 1: resolved by people just talking? Like that's pretty much a

1133
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 1: universal thing, Like how much has been resolved that gets

1134
00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 1: brought up? Because oh god, it kills me, like people

1135
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:10,879
Speaker 1: like she's not doing her dishes. It's like, dude, just no,

1136
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, yes, just talk about it anyways. Right,

1137
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:18,000
Speaker 1: oh wait, sorry, you get the last one. This is

1138
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: our last one. So unfortunately your time on the Bachelor

1139
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: has come to an end. Are you crying in your

1140
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: final interview in the level? No? No, you say it now.

1141
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 1: I know, I know. I know. I have the luxury

1142
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 1: of not actually experiencing that, and it's hypothetical. I okay,

1143
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 1: So one, I am a crier. The only thing that

1144
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: I am worse at and like and like, I just

1145
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: I will stone cold ie someone out if someone has

1146
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: hurt me. I will give them nothing, like I will

1147
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 1: go to like the darkest place in my brain to

1148
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: not give them what they are like wanting, which is

1149
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:59,479
Speaker 1: me to be sad. And I say that like not

1150
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: having experienced it, but it's I will shut off. I

1151
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 1: will become a robot and then when everyone walks away,

1152
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 1: I will lose it for like seventeen days. Um and

1153
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: but then you don't know. I feel like by the

1154
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 1: time you get sent home, if you make it long enough,

1155
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 1: you have been around the cameras and all of that

1156
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 1: long enough to where you kind of are desensitized to it.

1157
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 1: I'm sure like if you've been to like the last

1158
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 1: few weeks, it's like these cameras have been in your

1159
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: face the whole time, so crying crying would feel less

1160
00:58:27,080 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 1: like it'd be, you feel like less invasive, like you're

1161
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 1: just talking to a friend, right, Is that kind of

1162
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: how it would feel? So totally this has been such

1163
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 1: an absolute blast. Oh my gosh, please come back anytime.

1164
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 1: We got to get into the mansion. We got to

1165
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:42,840
Speaker 1: get you involved somehow. I know you're very busy, but

1166
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 1: we have to take it you. I will take it.

1167
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for the opportunity. It was so

1168
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,560
Speaker 1: good to see you. It was so nice finally meeting

1169
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 1: it after about friends. Yes, I'm so happy, Alice, thank

1170
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 1: you so much. You are the best. Yeah, okay, I'll

1171
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 1: talk to you guys later. Oh my gosh, I just

1172
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: absolutely love her. Is she not just such a gem?

1173
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,919
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed. I'm obsessed with her. She's so funny, She's

1174
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 1: such a gem. I want her to come back and

1175
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: do like an actual full episode recap with us one day.

1176
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 1: Oh one thousand percent, she will be back. I'm going

1177
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:22,720
Speaker 1: to find give me two seconds. I want to find her.

1178
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 1: I should have had her plug her own Instagram and TikTok.

1179
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 1: But for any of our viewers out there who want

1180
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 1: to check her out, it is Elise. It's e l

1181
00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: y s E underscore Myers, and that's m y e

1182
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 1: r s. That's her Instagram Elise Underscore Myers and then

1183
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: her TikTok is. I haven't else Myers, just her full name,

1184
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: no Underscore, so at E l y s E, m

1185
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: y e r s and definitely follow her on there.

1186
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 1: I went down a deep dark rabbit hole of her

1187
00:59:56,760 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 1: TikTok and was laughing hysterically. Yeah, you never know what

1188
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 1: you're going to get with her, and that's that's why

1189
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 1: she's so fun to follow, but even even better in person.

1190
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 1: I cannot think a lease enough for joining and they

1191
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 1: can't wait to see more of her. Um okay, Serena.

1192
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:15,200
Speaker 1: Before we wrap this episode really quick, we have to

1193
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,680
Speaker 1: go through, of course, our Rose and our thorn of

1194
01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 1: the week. So I'm just gonna keep it simple. My

1195
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 1: rose were I'm gonna say Susie's shoes when she came

1196
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 1: back from that date, because they were incredible. And then

1197
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:34,040
Speaker 1: my thorn is going to be how many times the

1198
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 1: women say the word like, I'm gonna leave it at that. Yeah,

1199
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 1: they do say it a lot this season. Um okay.

1200
01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: My rose is going to be getting to watch Susie's

1201
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 1: shopping spree the part two where she got to trown

1202
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 1: all those designer gowns. I thought that was so cool.

1203
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 1: I've also been to Vienna before actually, so the date

1204
01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: that they had, I've actually been to that castle, so

1205
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 1: getting to see like all the spots and I'm just like, oh,

1206
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm dying to go back to Europe. And then my

1207
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 1: thorn is going to be Sarah's fake tears. I'm sick

1208
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 1: of the fake tears. Nothing irks me more. We've seen

1209
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 1: them multiple times this season, and yeah, that would be

1210
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 1: my thorn. It's a good one, all right, everybody. We're

1211
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: gonna leave it at that until next week. Again, huge

1212
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 1: thank you to a Lease for joining us. You were

1213
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 1: such an absolute pleasure to have and sarrying to Thank

1214
01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: you again and even bigger thank you to all of

1215
01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 1: our Bachelor Happy Hour listeners. And I've said this before

1216
01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 1: and I'm going to say it again. As a reminder,

1217
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 1: we are still casting for both The Bachelor and The Bachelorette.

1218
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 1: You can head to Bachelor nation dot com slash apply

1219
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: to nominate either yourself or someone else. Also, make sure

1220
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 1: to hit us up on social. You can find us

1221
01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:50,960
Speaker 1: at at Bachelor Happy Hour on Instagram and from there

1222
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 1: you will find everything you need to know to follow

1223
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 1: us on Twitter and TikTok and Bachelor Happy Hour is

1224
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: available on Apple podcasts, Amazon Music, or wherever you listen,

1225
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:02,080
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1226
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Speaker 1: Wondering Plus, an Apple podcast, or the Wondering app. Thank

1227
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,880
Speaker 1: you everyone for listening this week. Thank you again to

1228
01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: our guest Alise and back up for having me. We

1229
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 1: will see you all next week. Until then, bye everyone,