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Speaker 1: I do? Get a uglier boyfriend? Now that is a

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Speaker 1: life hack, ladies and gentlemen, or a flame. So modern

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Speaker 1: problems require modern solutions. That's the OKOP guarantee.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, dude, if you weren't dating such a battye,

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Speaker 2: maybe not everyone would try to steal them, you know, exactly,

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Speaker 2: such a groobbing monster cock. Maybe, Oh he wouldn't be.

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Speaker 2: He wouldn't be getting honeys around the corner trying to

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Speaker 2: ride you know, twenty five fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 1: You need a nice slice of micro meat.

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Speaker 2: That's what you need. Yeah, go to the deli, get

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Speaker 2: some micro meat. Shave a little off either, that's your boyfriend. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I feel like I was just describing circumcision.

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Speaker 1: Well, now that you said it, now we're all thinking it.

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Speaker 2: What you think about it. A circumcised micro penis is

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Speaker 2: even smaller than a micro penis.

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Speaker 1: It's a micro micro penis.

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Speaker 2: Micro micro is a microier penis.

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Speaker 1: That's true. That's true. Shout out tiny by the way,

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Speaker 1: collor at your boys sometime. So I female twenty three

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Speaker 1: four months, and I'm totally smitten smitten.

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Speaker 2: Oh he's an old man.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right. Hey, grandpa, which man over there? Can

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Speaker 1: I get you your cane? Grandpa? Wait?

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Speaker 2: Is that twenty eight half your age plus eight?

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Speaker 1: So it's definitely the safe zone. I think it's five

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, twenty two much in the safe zone. Twenty

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Speaker 2: two is the minimum. Oh according to that math.

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Speaker 1: Wow, oh there you go. Wow, I didn't. It's always close.

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Speaker 1: He's actually close. He's closer than I thought.

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Speaker 2: To the line to the line, what do you think

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Speaker 1: You know? Like I feel like once you're getting like

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Speaker 2: I feel that's they just like I would agree the

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Speaker 2: also it's like I feel like it's so arbitrary too.

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Speaker 2: I just also don't see like I don't see being

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Speaker 2: college at the very end they do, because like it's

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Speaker 2: more like I think it's more like different life zones.

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Speaker 2: That's what itels. It's like if you're like, you know,

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Speaker 2: if you're in the working world, you probably are going

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Speaker 2: to identify with someone more in the working world. But

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Speaker 2: I know they are like twenty you know, three that

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Speaker 1: It happens. Yeah, I knew two people often closely that yeah,

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Speaker 2: A little consenting adults and all that? So it's ultimately fine,

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Speaker 2: But I was like, yeah, I'm you know what, I

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Speaker 2: think everyone's everyone's hero should be Leonardo DiCaprio and if

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Speaker 2: Leo if it's okay, but yeah, oh I guys, it's

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Speaker 1: My mind's going to be ninety years old, hard cut,

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Speaker 1: just dumping every girl on her twenty fifth birthday every time.

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Speaker 2: how he's thinking about it, Like it's actually like I'm

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Speaker 2: It's it's like that right.

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Speaker 1: Evidence is.

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Speaker 2: It has mounted, It has mounted, It.

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Speaker 1: Has mounted, it has mounted.

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Speaker 2: Like let us know what what do you think is

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Speaker 2: the appropriate formula for dating? Put your answers in the coul.

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Speaker 1: And the comments below. Or if you have big age gaps,

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Speaker 2: Share let us know and why you think it's fine?

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend is the sweetest, smartest, kindest, most caring guy

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Speaker 2: That is pretty sweet, Prettyweet's pretty sweet.

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Speaker 1: Except it's all going to go up in flames, because

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Speaker 2: This is run it. Your love is temporary, you're a

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Speaker 1: This is run it. I don't don't sell those things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no free money for you guys. Okay, we know.

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Speaker 1: We met at the start of the new semester at

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Speaker 1: to Sam's point, I think makes it even more cohesive

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, it seems like they're more in the same lifestyle. Waight.

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Speaker 2: So he's getting his master, she's getting her undergrad.

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Speaker 1: get this tip. I'll give you a tip on your homework. Oh,

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Speaker 2: Baby. That's all right, upgraded to and baby, you can

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Speaker 2: see this. Ah, this this asshole. You can stick it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, pegging, I respect it. Yeah, we respect the pegs.

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Speaker 1: That is at four months. Also, that's that's pretty pretty early.

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Speaker 1: History, that's right. She told me she would not be

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Speaker 2: He ain't no stranger. He ain't no stranger, for sure.

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Speaker 1: And my sister said that she was sorry, but he

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Speaker 2: I think he can inside of me in more than

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Speaker 2: one place. M hmm. Maybe he's come in both places.

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Speaker 2: That might be the situation.

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Speaker 2: Who is he? I remember? Is how ginormous his heart was?

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Speaker 2: Drop it, like drop the boyfriend, drop.

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Speaker 1: The subject of bringing him.

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Speaker 2: I think she's going to have to meet him eventually

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Speaker 1: That is? That is so true? So what are we

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Speaker 2: Like just never meet this dude?

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Speaker 2: Just like you. No, I don't want to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: He's still a strange to me. I haven't met him before.

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Speaker 1: I hate strangers or maybe.

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Speaker 2: He's not a stranger and they they know each other

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Speaker 1: It's best some people. Some people say that they are

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Speaker 1: about to make one hundred new friends.

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Speaker 2: One hundred new girlfriends, one hundred new sexual friends.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say children, oh that too, that works too.

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Speaker 1: Can't do both? Felt that both both combined, it doesn't work.

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Speaker 1: bring it up again. This makes no sense.

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Speaker 2: Bro, it's her boyfriend. Like if it goes anywhere she's go,

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Speaker 2: they're gonna have to meet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just God, this makes no sense.

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Speaker 2: I mean, there's no way that they're they haven't boned,

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Speaker 2: like they definitely had sex. Like, there's no way they

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Speaker 1: It's too much like her reaction, way too extreme, way

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Speaker 1: It really keeps, it really keeps coming up. Just it

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Speaker 1: I told my cousin she should not have a baby.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? I'm so innocent? Why did

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Speaker 1: you tell her that she shouldn't have a baby? Because

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Speaker 1: because I want to? That's right. Yeah. My female twenty

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Speaker 1: been struggling with having kids and are suffering from health issues.

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Speaker 1: They've begun IVF treatment, which is expensive where I live.

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Speaker 1: So far, they've had several rounds but no luck. They

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Speaker 1: visited on my mom's birthday yesterday. We don't see each

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Speaker 1: other much now, but my mom tells me about how

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Speaker 1: they're doing in general. We were conversing at dinner and

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Speaker 1: IVF was brought up.

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Speaker 2: Hmm hmmm.

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Speaker 1: Lauren said that she and her husband are about to

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Speaker 1: undergo another round of IVF, trying to get that bun

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Speaker 2: Yeah, cook it.

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Speaker 1: Everyone at the table set a prayer and wish some luck.

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Speaker 1: But I told Lauren that after spending this much money

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Speaker 1: and already having gone through several rounds in addition to

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Speaker 1: other factors contributing to infertility, she should really consider stopping IVF,

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Speaker 1: taking a break, and also saving money.

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Speaker 2: And really her place to say where she should spend it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean money. It's not necessarily a bad idea,

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Speaker 1: but it's like it's her life, Like, what are you

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Speaker 1: gonna do? You know what I mean? Lauren and her

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Speaker 1: husband looked offended. Lauren said that they aren't struggling with money,

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Speaker 2: Okay, right, he is kind of an ale.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Lauren got quiet. I stated that this was just

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Speaker 1: and said, I think you should just mind your own

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Speaker 2: Facts, dude, you should definitely mind your own business.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? Op From there, the argument ensued.

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Speaker 1: I told him he was being disrespectful, and he kept

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Speaker 1: talking back to me because you're being an ahole. Don't

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Speaker 2: It seems like you're the one who's being insecure.

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Speaker 1: Seriously. Shortly after he and Lauren left, Mom started asking

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Speaker 1: me why had cost a scene on her birthday? Hunt Bird?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Literally, she's like a dark an her poor sister on

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Speaker 1: her goddamn birthday. I said, we were just talking, but

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Speaker 1: Lauren and her husband blew it way out of proportion.

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Speaker 2: It was ridiculous, dude, ok this is like the most

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Speaker 2: clear cut a hole behavior that I've ever heard.

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Speaker 1: Mom said that I have zero say in anyone's reproductive

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Speaker 1: choice and I should have kept my mouth shut.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, what are you the Republican Party coming on?

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Speaker 1: My sister, who rarely agrees with me, sided with me,

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Speaker 1: saying that I was in the right. But my mom

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Speaker 1: My husband, too, sided with me and told me to

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Speaker 1: give it a few days and Lauren will call me back.

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Speaker 1: I see Lauren as a sister and I respect her,

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Speaker 1: but we have our moments. Am I the A hole? Yes? Yes,

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Speaker 1: you are the a whole.

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Speaker 2: You are unequivocally and irrectively the a hole.

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Speaker 1: Case closed,