WEBVTT - The Free Pass 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:06.520 From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us. Ryan with 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:12.719 Ryan Seacrest. It's Ryan Seacrest here and see Antonia and 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:15.800 Tom's and everybody. Yeah, yeah, I like to see Everybody's 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:18.840 really nice. I've seen you guys for twenty years. Every day. 0:00:20.079 --> 0:00:25.040 I still like seeing you. So let's see sunshine and 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:29.680 hot again and um when we got today sold out 0:00:30.120 --> 0:00:34.519 Lizzo tickets for packs the Hurricane Harbor. But today, Wednesday, 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:40.960 July is a special day. It is a celebration. It 0:00:41.120 --> 0:00:49.519 is Gary seacrest birthday. Yeah, happens every year. Birthday Gary. 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:53.520 So I almost ruined the surprise. He and my mom 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:58.400 were driving to Nashville, and I knew that we had 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:03.800 or he loves these stone Crab legs. Stone Crab Okay, 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:06.440 you order them from Joe's Crabs. I think we were 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:10.560 in Miami and they come in a box, and he 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:13.160 wanted the crab legs, and so I knew they were 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:15.520 on the way. And they said, oh, Dad, big celebration 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:18.679 coming up this week. And my mother's like winking and 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:21.280 making these faces at me to not give it away, 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:23.360 because he didn't know that they were going to arrive. 0:01:23.440 --> 0:01:25.800 The Stone Crabs Joe Stone crabs. Yeah, we're gonna arrive, 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:28.040 and so it was almost as if, you know, I 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:31.560 get so excited about everything and I always am the 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:35.080 person to blow it, No I am. I mean yeah, 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:37.759 Joe Stonta Miami Beach. Anyway, my mom and my sister 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:41.920 and my dad and Flora and Jimmy are all celebrating 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:46.759 his birthday this week. So have your birthday, Gary. Um. Alright, guys, 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:50.520 what's new? Sis? Well? I finished Stranger Things season four 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:54.040 last night. Really yeah, it's a big not dip back in. 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:56.200 You gotta dip back in. It's so good and it's 0:01:56.440 --> 0:01:58.280 why I don't want to give anything away. But I 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:02.640 started the Bear. Oh great, I told you about the Bear. 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:04.120 I know you love the bear and a lot of 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:05.440 my friends are like the Bear, the Bear, the Bear. 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:07.920 So we started the Bear. Michael and I and I 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:10.120 fell sleep after like the third episode. It's really really good. 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:12.440 I just felt because I was tired. So I'm excited 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:15.079 to dip back into that. It's really good. Yeah, the bear, 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:17.480 it's a one guy is a chef, but it's more 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.440 than that. It's not about that, but it is that 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:22.320 as a backdrop. So you're gonna love it all right. Listen. 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:25.280 Last week we spoke with Yelps number one restaurant in 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:28.959 l A. Today it's Orange County's term the best place 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:32.280 to eat in the o C. So Sysney, you saw 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:34.799 a couple on a tandem bike. I saw a couple 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:37.520 and they're probably like in their mid fifties, and they 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:41.880 just seemed so happy on their tandem bike. Everybody looks 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:44.760 happy on a tandem bike. What is it about a 0:02:44.760 --> 0:02:47.880 tandy It is the cutest, coolest thing. So it was 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:50.640 so just to be clear, a tannam bike two seats, 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:55.959 two peddlers, two handlebars, eat, two wheels, two wheels and 0:02:56.040 --> 0:03:01.480 four handlebars four two handlebars two yeah, and then two wheels. 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:05.000 I saw someone on one of those not too long ago, too, 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:08.600 and I couldn't help but smile. That's exactly what happened 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:10.720 to me. And I like had this whole flash forward 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:13.079 of like, Michael, I should get a tandem bike one day, 0:03:13.120 --> 0:03:15.240 and like, when we're retired, we'll wake up every morning 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:18.040 at five am and do our little bike around the neighborhood. 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:21.000 Because it was on the way into work this morning, 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:22.720 and I was like that they look so happy and 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:24.680 so cute, like this is like definitely the routine. They 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:27.680 were like in bike gear, like the whole thing. I 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:30.200 mean it's a version of pedal assist because you've got 0:03:30.240 --> 0:03:34.480 a helper. I know, but I think that is so 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:37.320 cute and so cool, and I don't see enough of that. 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:39.800 I mean, even a sidecar on a vest's cool, you 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:43.520 know exactly. But I did. I did see this and 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:45.680 I thought I want to be those people on the 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:48.080 tandem bike. I know, I definitely did. So. The to 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:50.800 the couple that was on the tandem bike right off 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:55.200 of the what is the Bob Hope exit, Yeah, I 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:57.200 saw you this morning, and you inspired me to get 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.640 a tandem bike, not now but soon. So how much 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:03.120 of those go for a tandem but expensive? It's like 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:05.480 a two for one, right, I don't know. I've never 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:10.080 looked up tandem bikes. So you saw them biking at 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:12.520 five thirty this morning? Yeah, real early. I'm telling you 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:14.360 these guys were serious. But you can tell like this 0:04:14.440 --> 0:04:17.679 was like their morning routine, like they were just they 0:04:17.720 --> 0:04:21.479 were like in sync and you were a friend. Were 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:25.040 from three to eight hundred bucks. I'm getting the prices, 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:29.240 uh four hundred nine hundred bucks Amazon Wayfair Coals what's 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:32.560 a good looking one? To Schwin, is a good one. 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:37.360 There's a Pacific cycler into that, all right. Well, listen, 0:04:37.680 --> 0:04:41.560 a tandem biking couple stays together. I mean, that's for sure, 0:04:41.640 --> 0:04:44.840 and the smiles are container. So if you need to 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:47.479 ask somebody for a favor, this is a psychological trick 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:50.440 that works just about every time. So it's called the 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:54.240 foot in the door technique for asking a favor. So 0:04:54.440 --> 0:04:56.799 you asked for a very small favor first. So for example, 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:58.200 let's say you need to write to L A X. 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:01.200 That is not a small that's what you need. That's 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:03.880 what you need. Favorite. You could say, can you help 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:06.920 me zip up my suitcase? And when they say yes, 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:08.960 that is your foot in the door to ask for 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.000 the ride. So you don't ask for the favorite of 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:13.880 the gate. You kind of hooked them in and then 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:16.240 the next thing you know, you're asking, hey, by the way, 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:19.800 since you're here zipping, can you take me. It's a 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:25.200 bit strategic, but it works. That's funny. So today's quote 0:05:25.240 --> 0:05:27.520 is put yourself at the top of your to do 0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:31.240 list every day and the rest will fall into place. 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:40.400 On air with Ryan Seacrets headlines, well, the Sixth Street 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:44.360 bridge linking downtown Los Angeles to Boil Heights has been 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:49.680 closed indefinitely after continued concerns about illegal activity and safety. 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:52.039 This is why we can't have nice things, guide like. 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:54.920 The bridge opened up to the public back on July dent, 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:58.000 so just a little over two weeks ago, but in 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:00.240 that brief time it's been the center of its PUNSI 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:03.200 in l A for all the wrong reasons. So they 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:07.279 closed it a day after. Celebrities like Kylie Jenner and 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:11.400 Kim Kardashian criticized Instagram for trying to be like TikTok, 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:14.479 they say. The head of I G says the app 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:17.640 is going to continue to support photos, but he believes 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:21.839 it will become more video focused over time, since that 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:26.520 is what people are liking, sharing and consuming on the platform. 0:06:26.600 --> 0:06:30.279 And for only the third time in the twenty year 0:06:30.640 --> 0:06:35.000 history of Mega Millions, the jackpot has surpassed them save 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:39.360 one billion dollar mark after winning. After the winning numbers 0:06:39.400 --> 0:06:43.039 for the drawing last night had no winner. That that 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:46.120 means that the Mega Millions jackpot is now one point 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:50.280 zero to five billion. The next drawing is this Friday 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:56.840 Night Air with Ryan Seacrest. Well, Derek, you are the 0:06:56.960 --> 0:06:59.920 Lucky Caller. How are you this morning? Derek? Oh my god, 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:05.560 thank you. What are you up to in Chatsworth? I'm 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:08.719 actually heading the work right now. What do you do 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:12.920 for work? I'm a carpenter. I do um carpeting for 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:17.680 people's houses and stuff. Cool. All right, so you have 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:21.800 like real work. I mean that's hard, manual labor. Oh yeah, 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:24.160 and I could use a vacation from all this work. 0:07:24.640 --> 0:07:28.080 All right. So we're gonna play, Derek. We're gonna play 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:31.360 Stallion or Stallion Sorr. I already a music festival coming 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:33.640 to the T Mobile Arena in Vegas. We've got a 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:36.080 nice package for you. A pair of tickets to both nights, 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.679 pair of tickets at the daytime stage, a private ride 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:44.640 on Area fifteen's new lift off sky observation deck, accommodations 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:48.120 at an MGM rewards destination, and a gas card. Okay, 0:07:48.160 --> 0:07:51.520 are you ready? Yes? So all you have to do 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:55.040 is play Stallion or Stallion. I'm gonna give you a phrase. 0:07:55.560 --> 0:07:58.160 You tell me if it's a Megan the Stallion song 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:02.160 or a racehorse. The competed last weekend at the Los 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:07.960 Alamitos race Course in Cyprus. This is great. Did you 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:10.520 take another bubble bath last night? You know what I did? 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:16.040 I just uh did a little bit of a sauna. 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:19.320 I was in a dry sung Yeah, yeah, I didn't 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:20.960 bubble bath last night. I was in a dry sauna 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:22.560 when this came up. And I usually can't think in 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:26.720 a lot of heat dry. This is really into my head. Stallion, Stallion. 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:28.760 I like it right there? All right, So here's the deal. 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:32.559 Three right before you get three wrong? First one ball 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:38.720 room hustler, ball room hustler. Which Stallion? Is that? Um? 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:43.319 The one from last weekend? That is a racehorse? Well done? 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:48.920 All right? We're playing Megan d Stallion song or racehorse Stallion? 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:53.439 So only person who wants to play it? I think 0:08:53.440 --> 0:08:56.280 in the city Stallion. But to payoffs, good are here 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:59.439 we go? God's favorite? God's favorite? Is that a Megan 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:03.600 V stai And song or a racehorse Dillon. I'm making 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:10.440 the Stallion here alright for the win for the I 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:13.920 Heart Radio Music Festival package. Derek the carpenter in chance Worth, 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:23.960 Wild and Thirsty, Wild and Thirsty racehorse or meganus Dying song. Oh, 0:09:24.000 --> 0:09:28.480 I think making the Stallion front It is a race 0:09:29.000 --> 0:09:35.640 so sorry, here we go. Thirsty thoughts thirsty thoughts, thirsty thoughts, 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:43.000 racehorse Ace Dion or Megan's dying racehors and that is 0:09:47.360 --> 0:09:52.079 that is correct. Congratulations Derek, thank you, thank you so much. 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:55.720 You've won the whole I Radio Music Festival package. Bro, 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:59.679 you got your vacation. Oh thank you. I definitely need this. 0:10:00.200 --> 0:10:03.960 You gotta hang on one a second. And we have 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:05.360 more of these to give away. You can get these 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:09.000 tickets at a excess dot com. So you know. Um, 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:13.079 we love highlighting l A eateries and last week we 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:15.679 featured a coffee shop here in Burbank that yelped named 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:18.679 the best place to eat in l A. So Yelp 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:21.320 has also released their best places to eat in Orange 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:24.680 County and on the list. Topping the list number one 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.800 is lily Pop Cafe. Have you heard of it? I 0:10:27.840 --> 0:10:30.200 haven't heard of it, but it looks delicious. And you know, 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:34.080 I always tend to not go towards a bagel sandwich this, 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:37.640 but I forget about them. But they're so yummy, They're great. 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:40.880 I have not had enough of them in my life. 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:45.120 I've not had enough so anyway, Um, Lily Pop Cafe, Anaheim, 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:49.160 owned by Richie Chore, specializes in fresh baked bagels and 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:52.560 bagel sandwiches, and they got number one on the list 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:55.280 of restaurants in Orange County. So let's meet rich Richie. 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:59.560 Good morning, How are you alright going? Congratulations on taking 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:02.600 the number one spot? Man, Oh, thank you, thank you, 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:06.839 appreciate it. So a bagel sandwich sounds simple. How is 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:11.559 it You're the number one restaurant with a bagel sandwich? Yeah? So, um, 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:15.400 with our shop, everything is made fresh in house. We 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:18.600 all of our cream cheeses are all homemade. We have 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:22.959 like our keys are all homemade also, and then with 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:25.640 our bagels, what we do is we also boiled it 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:28.680 before we bake it too. So there New York style 0:11:28.760 --> 0:11:32.559 bagels and we make them fresh every day. It looks fain. 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:34.360 I mean, I'm looking at the photos and you can 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:37.360 look at this on Instagram to Lily Pop two Peace 0:11:37.400 --> 0:11:41.480 Cafe on Instagram. So what's been the reaction around there 0:11:41.480 --> 0:11:45.880 for being number one? Um? A lot of people are 0:11:45.960 --> 0:11:52.160 actually like really surprising the area and everything that um 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:54.720 that has been happening over there. It's really new to 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:57.920 us also because we just opened, uh a year and 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:01.840 five months ago, and then we were caught by surprise 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:04.680 and which is really grateful and thankful for everyone in 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:08.839 the community over there that has been supporting us. Yeah. 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:12.439 So I just Richie, is it true that you let 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:15.680 people call ahead and reserve bagels so you don't run 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:18.760 out of their favorite one? Oh yeah, that's been the 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:22.000 thing over there. So. Um so what's been happening is, 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:26.840 uh we on on some occasional days we've been selling out. 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:30.000 So what we tell customers is that they can call 0:12:30.080 --> 0:12:33.680 ahead to uh let us know what they want so 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:35.720 we could put it aside for them so then when 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:39.560 they get there, they would have what they want. Yeah. 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:43.960 I like that, Richie. Over at Lily Pop Cafe on 0:12:44.000 --> 0:12:46.240 Santa ana Canyon Road, just off the ninety one that 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:50.480 we're canyon in Anaheim. Check out those bagel sandwiches on Instagram. Wow. 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:54.080 Well listen man, congratulations on being number one on the 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:57.280 list of Orange County eateries. Thank you. I appreciate it 0:12:57.360 --> 0:13:01.840 so much. Oknyt brother, take care they cubee. What is 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:06.680 your favorite kind of bagel? You're gonna think I'm lame, 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:10.559 just plain, I know. But if I want something sweet, 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:13.000 I will do like the cinnamon e sugary, like whatever. 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:21.760 Everything I can't do lack and unneath for me. Every 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:23.560 now and then they'll throw it in the bag and 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:26.280 it's like it contaminates all the other bagels, and I 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:28.840 get so depressed and like, man, now they all taste 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:32.160 like everything. Oh, I love everything they do. I would 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:36.840 never have anything but me either. Yeah, this sin, like 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:39.679 the one with Simon and Reason. It throws me off, 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:42.000 Like that's if I want something sweet. But if I'm 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:45.560 gonna do like a bagel, what's the point of having 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:48.400 I don't know. I have a piece of bread boring. 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:50.800 I agree, it feels like it's a waste of your car. 0:13:50.920 --> 0:13:55.280 Blow dress it up with the cream cheese, schmir. Okay, 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:59.199 I know, Oscar. How are you? Hey? There? I'm doing 0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:02.360 and doing and I about yourself so good, Oscar. So 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:06.400 tell me how can we help you? Oh? Man, I 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:10.400 don't know where to begin. Um. So, I've been seeing 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:13.760 a girl for about six weeks or so. It's going 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:17.600 pretty well. And this weekend she's being the night at 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:21.520 my place for the very first time. Um. Before that, 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:23.680 we spent the night at her place and we all 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:28.080 did the weekend in Palm Springs. Anyway, my roommates out 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:32.400 of town, right and I've been cleaning, getting the whole 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:38.400 place ready. It's spotless. But here's the thing that bothers me. 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:43.880 Walls are really thing super thing. When I'm in my bedroom, 0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:46.960 I can hear my neighbor's conversation word for word, and 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:49.840 they didn't have to take go Like I can hear everything, 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:58.000 if you know what I mean. Yeah, no, I can 0:14:58.080 --> 0:15:00.440 hear entire conversations and the only hand like you don't 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.880 have to yell. I can be compeating my cereal and 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:04.600 I can be hearing what they're gonna do when he 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:10.600 was gonna do for the entire day. Okay, So my question, 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.080 I don't know how to say this. Do I warn 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:16.480 her about that? I feel it's gonna make it really 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:20.880 self conscious in the moment if I do you know? 0:15:21.080 --> 0:15:23.880 I mean I think you do know? Don't you don't? 0:15:24.440 --> 0:15:27.880 You don't say anything. Just let it be. Just let 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:29.320 it be, and if it does get out of hand, 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:32.480 maybe in the act kind of be like, oh, I 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:34.960 don't know. I feel what she has a right to 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:37.720 know what we're doing it because well, I mean, it's 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:39.880 it's supposed to be like a private space for us, 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:42.720 and it'd be I don't know, like a little rude 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:45.600 if I just didn't say anything, and then you know, 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:48.040 we're doing some stuff and I'll know where we're gonna. 0:15:48.120 --> 0:15:49.320 We get like a k not going to do it 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:51.880 for a neighbor or something, or they flammed the wall. Man, 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:54.480 I don't know. I think you're gonna do the right thing. 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:56.520 I just get a sense from your voice that you 0:15:56.560 --> 0:16:02.040 are going to do the right thing here. Thank you 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:05.840 and good luck. Are you loud this city? Are you 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:08.880 having that conversation? Well, he just brought it up. I 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:11.000 think if I have the freedom to be loud, yes 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:13.080 I am, but we have children, so we don't have 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:18.320 that freedom to be loud. Are you loud tubs? Very loud? Really? 0:16:18.360 --> 0:16:23.320 That shocks me. Yeah. I feel like you would be 0:16:23.440 --> 0:16:26.720 so quiet, like I wouldn't even know you're there. Oh 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:35.360 my god, are you loud? Not surprised? What about the kids? Yeah, no, 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:40.120 I can't do it when we have them. Would you 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:42.160 want to be warned about thin walls? I would be. 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:45.560 I would want that morning because so that just proves 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:58.400 that you're a loud because you want the morning's Ryan sads, Well, 0:16:58.440 --> 0:17:01.760 it is Wednesday, also known as Gary Sacrists Birthday. Have 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:05.040 your birthday. Dad. Um, Now you said, if we see 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:08.520 E n M or c n M on someone's dating 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:11.960 app profile, this is the training report Chinese getting into 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:15.159 why this is making news and what that all means. 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:18.760 But you say beware, beware unless it's your thing. So 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:22.400 we can thank Nick Cannon for this new wonderful term. 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:24.400 And he's been in the press a lot this week 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:27.439 because of his eight children with five different women, and 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:30.920 actually one of them was just born this week, so congrats, um. 0:17:30.960 --> 0:17:37.000 But now with five different women, it's a lot of maths, 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:42.520 eight and two sets of twins. Everybody's having a birthday. 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:45.600 Mom is having a birthday, kids are having a birthday, birthday, 0:17:45.640 --> 0:17:49.000 there's always a birthday. Yeah, yeah, Um, But now there's 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:52.520 a term for um. Nick has kind of coined this 0:17:52.560 --> 0:17:55.239 new term. He said, one of my therapist coined what 0:17:55.280 --> 0:17:59.400 I do as consensual non monogamy, because to even pretend 0:17:59.440 --> 0:18:02.200 I'm in him an ogmous relationship that would be misleading. 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:06.240 So apparently this term has caught on and now people 0:18:06.280 --> 0:18:08.440 are putting it on their dating app profiles. So they'll 0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:13.240 either say, um, practicing E M M, which is ethical nonmonogamy, 0:18:13.359 --> 0:18:18.080 or they're looking for CNM, which is consensual nonmonogamy, all 0:18:18.119 --> 0:18:24.639 of which are up front. Right, It's total transparency. There 0:18:24.640 --> 0:18:28.280 are no secrets there, right, And I mean sometimes people 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:31.120 use dating apps to find a significant other, some people 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:33.959 who want to find like their their future spouse. Some 0:18:34.000 --> 0:18:35.760 people go on the dating apps just for a one 0:18:35.840 --> 0:18:38.600 night stand or a fling. So I guess if that's 0:18:38.640 --> 0:18:40.800 what you're looking for, it's good that it's just out there. 0:18:40.880 --> 0:18:42.879 But if you're looking for something serious, you see that 0:18:42.960 --> 0:18:48.280 on their profiles. Definitely swipe blood. So would I mean, again, 0:18:48.280 --> 0:18:51.359 this is just guessing, but would it mean that you're 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:56.000 so you're not monogamous at all. You're seeing other people, 0:18:56.040 --> 0:18:59.000 but you're saying or seeing other people, that's what it means. Yeah, 0:18:59.000 --> 0:19:00.800 And I guess it's like a it's the new it's 0:19:01.640 --> 0:19:07.960 two version of an open relationship. Well no, I don't. 0:19:08.000 --> 0:19:11.920 I don't know. I'm listening to you and I'm learning alongside. 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:16.040 I don't is it the definition of an open relationship 0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:20.240 or is it the definition of multiple simultaneous relationships? Use 0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:23.320 a lot of words like ethical non monogamy, So I'm 0:19:23.359 --> 0:19:26.639 like trying to like a tongue twister because non monogamy. 0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:29.560 I guess it has like a negative connotation, so putting 0:19:29.600 --> 0:19:36.840 ethical and particuler. There's ethical both. The open relationship is 0:19:36.880 --> 0:19:41.879 like baseline, same person, but with other people you just 0:19:42.119 --> 0:19:44.600 but those other people could change all the time. I'm 0:19:44.600 --> 0:19:47.760 still going back to that one person, whereas this means 0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:52.800 could mean parallel tracks of right, you're right because I 0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:54.159 think in the open you're not supposed to have the 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:57.080 relationship outside the relationship. Correct. And I guess this one's 0:19:57.080 --> 0:20:01.760 saying there's just no relationships or there could be duel 0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:06.360 or multi track relationship. Tasical and consensual, they're essentially they're 0:20:06.400 --> 0:20:14.359 the same. Okay, Yeah, really wrecked our brains there on 0:20:15.560 --> 0:20:23.320 air with Ryan Secrets. On air on air with Ryan's Secrets. 0:20:24.760 --> 0:20:27.200 Do you know during this show we cover a lot 0:20:27.200 --> 0:20:29.359 of different things, and you know, you've got Sisney, You've 0:20:29.400 --> 0:20:32.119 got Tany, You've got myself, You've got Tobs, but we 0:20:32.119 --> 0:20:34.640 want more sometimes and we go into the back room 0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:37.679 where the phones are and some of our producers and 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:41.560 phone operators are there, and Ruby's coming in with something 0:20:41.600 --> 0:20:44.679 that you tried to explain to me, but I just 0:20:44.880 --> 0:20:47.640 don't yet understand what you just said. We are about 0:20:47.640 --> 0:20:50.720 to talk about. So I'm gonna ask Ruby you to 0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:54.040 explain to me what Cissy Antania just tried to explain 0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:56.119 to me where I said what and the song ended. 0:20:57.240 --> 0:20:59.800 So this is not about you. It's about a friend 0:20:59.840 --> 0:21:04.560 of yours yes, and a hall pass yes, and your 0:21:04.560 --> 0:21:07.880 friends getting married. Huh, bad, bad, bad? What's good in this? 0:21:07.880 --> 0:21:10.480 This is all bad, bad, bad? Why? I don't know, 0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:13.639 I don't know. It made me feel so uncomfortable. So, um, 0:21:13.800 --> 0:21:18.800 my friend's fiance told me and my boyfriend um that 0:21:18.920 --> 0:21:22.879 she gets a pass for her bacheloret And I was like, 0:21:22.920 --> 0:21:24.359 what do you mean? A pass? Like she could do 0:21:24.400 --> 0:21:26.520 whatever she wants, Like if she's loved with someone else, 0:21:26.560 --> 0:21:28.960 I would be okay. And he's like, yeah, I mean, 0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:31.280 I wouldn't mind as long as she's honest about it. 0:21:31.280 --> 0:21:33.600 But if she tried to hide it, then that would 0:21:34.480 --> 0:21:36.680 the wrong way to start a relationship for the rest 0:21:36.720 --> 0:21:39.760 of the That's what I said. You know, what I 0:21:39.800 --> 0:21:43.280 think is what did he already do? Interesting that he's 0:21:43.280 --> 0:21:45.720 opening the door for her to do so that he 0:21:45.840 --> 0:21:48.560 doesn't have the guilt he's carrying the only reason you 0:21:48.560 --> 0:21:51.160 would say that, I mean, that's what I hear. I mean, 0:21:51.240 --> 0:21:54.639 all passes in general might be fun dinner conversation to 0:21:54.720 --> 0:21:57.359 those who are unattainable. Right. All pass conversations should be 0:21:57.359 --> 0:22:01.040 about people you will never meet, right, not people that 0:22:01.080 --> 0:22:04.600 like are around you, celebrities. I don't even like the 0:22:04.640 --> 0:22:10.879 conversation in general. Well, because you think that that's you, 0:22:11.119 --> 0:22:16.680 that's you building up your man. I think he might 0:22:16.720 --> 0:22:20.280 also be planning to do this at his bachelor party. Well, 0:22:20.320 --> 0:22:22.760 I got this is trade. I asked. I was like, 0:22:23.080 --> 0:22:25.159 are you is that something you want to do? And 0:22:25.200 --> 0:22:26.919 he's like, no, no, no, no, not at all, like 0:22:27.000 --> 0:22:30.040 I would never like I'm not. And I was like, okay, 0:22:30.080 --> 0:22:31.399 I'm not into that, but you want her to be 0:22:31.400 --> 0:22:33.639 into that? Well, I was just so confused. Yeah, he 0:22:33.720 --> 0:22:36.399 did something I don't see. I think the next question 0:22:36.440 --> 0:22:39.720 is did you already do that? Bro? And see where 0:22:39.760 --> 0:22:43.240 that goes. But I just can't imagine ever finally be 0:22:43.359 --> 0:22:49.000 with someone I'm engaged to getting married and saying yeah 0:22:49.119 --> 0:22:52.760 I'm cool if you're with another dude like two weeks 0:22:52.800 --> 0:22:58.920 before the wait, it's so weird. Yeah that's bad, it's 0:22:58.960 --> 0:23:04.560 not good. So Robbie Hall passes, they don't exist. I'm 0:23:04.640 --> 0:23:07.600 sure they do. Like I'm sure he I don't know. 0:23:07.640 --> 0:23:10.040 You never asked him. No, I don't want to know, 0:23:10.280 --> 0:23:11.840 and you've never you don't want you like, you don't 0:23:11.880 --> 0:23:13.840 know who he finds attractive, like as far as he 0:23:13.960 --> 0:23:17.280 watching a movie, he likes Mark Margot Robbie. Okay, so 0:23:17.320 --> 0:23:18.960 there you go. That's like the Hall top. I bet 0:23:19.080 --> 0:23:21.119 she's on the top of a lot of people's You know, 0:23:23.840 --> 0:23:26.560 what about for Michael who's on the top of his list? 0:23:26.760 --> 0:23:33.160 Katy Perry, Taylor Swift Easy, that's too close to home. Well, 0:23:33.160 --> 0:23:35.479 that just goes way back, Like I mean, since we 0:23:35.480 --> 0:23:37.520 were like first, what did the list? Okay, Katy Perry, 0:23:37.520 --> 0:23:42.160 who was Katy Perry, Taylor Swift? Um, this is all uncomfortable. 0:23:42.200 --> 0:23:46.879 These are all people that we know, and they're not 0:23:46.920 --> 0:23:48.840 like Hall passes. It's almost like he has like this 0:23:49.400 --> 0:23:52.440 like respect slash crush on them, if that makes any sense. 0:23:52.520 --> 0:23:54.439 It doesn't bother any Harst, Like I would never do 0:23:54.480 --> 0:23:58.440 anything with Calvin Harris. But what about even the crushes 0:23:58.480 --> 0:24:01.359