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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Hunter is on the phone today for a first day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by Jamie. So we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna find out his story and then give her a

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<v Speaker 2>call and see if we can figure out why she's

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he

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<v Speaker 2>still wants one, Hunter, Hollin's have been since you heard

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<v Speaker 2>from Jamie?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's been about six days since I sent a

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<v Speaker 3>follow up text after our date, and I've heard anything.

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<v Speaker 4>So did you text her right after the date? Was

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<v Speaker 4>it days later? When did that happen?

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<v Speaker 3>So? I texted her two days after our date, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's been six days since that text.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, we got a lot of exact time. Yeah, Hunter,

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<v Speaker 5>very sure. I like it. Oh, why don't you tell

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<v Speaker 5>us about your date and how you met Jamie?

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<v Speaker 3>So we met through our mutual friend Mike, who thought,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we would be a good match. We went

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<v Speaker 3>to an Italian spot because it just seemed, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>most romantic, and that was my idea. Okay, okay, And

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<v Speaker 3>after the date was over, you know, I felt like

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<v Speaker 3>we had good conversation and after the date was over,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I said, oh, you know, i'd love to

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<v Speaker 3>you know, get together again, and she said she would

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<v Speaker 3>think about it. But I just figured she was playing

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<v Speaker 3>hard to get.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Did she give you that vibe that she was like

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<v Speaker 4>playful and flirting into it somewhat?

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm just you know, I'm just curious that I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't heard back anything for six days. You know, I

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<v Speaker 3>just figured I would have, you know, at least heard

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<v Speaker 3>something or you know, even if she's not interested, just

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<v Speaker 3>you know, letting me know either way, do you'd think?

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<v Speaker 4>But it turns out that that's not a common courtesy

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<v Speaker 4>these days. What is it about her though, that makes

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<v Speaker 4>you want to get a hold of her?

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<v Speaker 3>We were we both talked about like similar topics, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>We were both into like space conspiracies, aerospace and okay,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, all political stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>So like aliens.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah, And it's weird to find anyone that

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<v Speaker 3>I can talk to about these things or that'll even listen.

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<v Speaker 5>She seemed into it though, Yeah, from what I saw, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>that'd be cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well is there anything that could have happened on the

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<v Speaker 4>date that makes you feel like, I don't know, she

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<v Speaker 4>would have been like, bye, sorry, Hunter, this was fun,

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<v Speaker 4>but not for me.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, maybe I'm a little bit too nerdy for

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<v Speaker 3>my own good.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think though, I think you're you, Hunt, Hunter.

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<v Speaker 3>I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you'll find somebody who is just just as nerdy

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<v Speaker 2>as you are.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess maybe it was her. It could have been maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, I mean maybe maybe I showed too much

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<v Speaker 3>of that too quickly.

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<v Speaker 5>I can see that. I mean, she's gonna find out eventually,

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<v Speaker 5>not a bad way or good in a good way. Well,

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<v Speaker 5>she also could be like a sapio sexual. You know

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<v Speaker 5>what that is.

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<v Speaker 4>It's when you're turned on by somebody's brain. So if

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<v Speaker 4>you're super smart, then I mean, you know, maybe she

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<v Speaker 4>just had a cool or never heard that term before,

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<v Speaker 4>but saio sexual. I'm totally a sapio sexual. So I

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<v Speaker 4>know this me too, right. Yeah, so maybe she just

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<v Speaker 4>had to cool off for a few days, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>if it was too hot for six days.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I'm trying to stay optimistic for you, bro,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep hoble live, Hunter, you're about to call her to

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<v Speaker 2>play a song, come back and then call her and

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<v Speaker 2>see if she's hells why she's ghosting you, and then

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<v Speaker 2>maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, all right, place

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<v Speaker 2>don't come back to get your first stage hold.

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<v Speaker 1>Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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<v Speaker 2>Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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<v Speaker 2>if you're just joining us, Hunter is on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>and Hunter is getting ghosted by Jamie. So we're about

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<v Speaker 2>to call her and see if shall tell us why

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<v Speaker 2>she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date if

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<v Speaker 2>he still wants one after he hears the reason. But

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<v Speaker 2>before we do that, Hunter, why don't you remind everybody

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<v Speaker 2>of your date with Jamie?

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<v Speaker 3>We went on Jamie and I went on a date

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<v Speaker 3>a little over a week ago. We talked about, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>kind of aliens and space, and a couple of days

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<v Speaker 3>after the date, I texted her and it's now been

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<v Speaker 3>six days since I text and I haven't heard back.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe she was abducted by aliens. That would be cool.

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<v Speaker 5>That would be ironic, because she swoops down in a spaceship.

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<v Speaker 5>It picks you up and then you guys can go

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<v Speaker 5>hang out. I just got a visual that's so funny.

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<v Speaker 5>The second date. I see what you did there? All right? Hunter?

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<v Speaker 5>Ready for us to call her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, I'm gonna call it.

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<v Speaker 6>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna call right now. Hello him, I speak to Jamie.

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<v Speaker 6>Please. This is Jamie.

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<v Speaker 2>Jamie, how are you? My name is Jebel from a

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<v Speaker 2>radio show. It's called The Jubil Show.

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<v Speaker 5>The Whole radio shows. Here, Jamie, surprise. My name is

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<v Speaker 5>Nina Why in Victoria?

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<v Speaker 6>Hi? Everyone? What's going on with her?

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<v Speaker 5>Not much? Just chilling. How about you?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm doing good, just working, you know, with the grind.

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<v Speaker 5>Nice. Nice. Well, we're calling you today because we got

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<v Speaker 5>an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, that's it's odd, but let's spear it out.

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<v Speaker 2>We do a segment called the First Day follow Up.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 2>someone and then you end up ghosting them, they can

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<v Speaker 2>email us to get you on the phone and find

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<v Speaker 2>out why you're ghosting them. And we got an email

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<v Speaker 2>about you from Hunter.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, okay, yes we did. Hunter.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, I know. Hunter. He told me enough about himself.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, Well he really liked you, and he's wondering

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<v Speaker 2>why you're not calling him back, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I what an awkward time. I even though I explained it.

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<v Speaker 6>We went out, he talked about himself the whole time,

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<v Speaker 6>with things that I had no interest. I just kind

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<v Speaker 6>of sat there and nodded and yeah, and he just talked.

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<v Speaker 6>He didn't ask me about anything about myself the entire night,

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<v Speaker 6>and it was very no it all ish and a

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<v Speaker 6>lot of negative things, and I just kind of just

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<v Speaker 6>felt stuck and I was just nodding and okay, yeah, sure, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>interesting And that's about the only words I could get

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<v Speaker 6>in so the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're not super into space and stuff because Hunter

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<v Speaker 4>thought you guys really bonded over Amien.

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<v Speaker 6>No, but he did talk a lot about athience and

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<v Speaker 6>I just nodded my head and I did not know.

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<v Speaker 6>I couldn't get a break in the conversation to move

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<v Speaker 6>to something else, or or he was just so excitedly

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<v Speaker 6>talking about everything he knew about and listening. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm a good listener, I guess people have told me, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, you don't feel like you've got a chance to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about the things that you know about. It was

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<v Speaker 2>only him talking about the things he knows.

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<v Speaker 6>About, exactly exact creet. It was very it's very odd,

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<v Speaker 6>so I at the end of the night, I even said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I'll have.

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<v Speaker 3>To think about it.

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<v Speaker 7>When he said we should do this again, then I

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<v Speaker 7>kind of thought that he would pick it up from there.

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<v Speaker 7>But he did text me a couple of days later,

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<v Speaker 7>and I just I was busy at the time, and

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<v Speaker 7>then I didn't really have I.

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<v Speaker 6>Wasn't sure how to respond. So it's been a while

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<v Speaker 6>and I probably should have responded, but I didn't know

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<v Speaker 6>what to say. And oh man, now everybody's gonna know,

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<v Speaker 6>just really nervous. I don't know. I thought first dates,

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<v Speaker 6>we're kind of getting to know each other like that,

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<v Speaker 6>both people take part in things that ptain to their lives.

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<v Speaker 6>But that's not where we were at at all. And

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<v Speaker 6>he's very smart, don't get me wrong, like very smart.

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<v Speaker 5>But maybe he hasn't dated a lot.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I guess that's probably a factor. I, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>didn't we didn't get on those topics of other things.

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<v Speaker 6>There was a lot of space stuff in.

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<v Speaker 5>Fall, Jamie.

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<v Speaker 2>I will let you know that Hunter is actually on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone listening and he wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you were more into our conversation than apparently

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<v Speaker 3>you were.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I really have no interest in, you know, the

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<v Speaker 6>space theories and different things, and I was just I

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<v Speaker 6>was hoping the conversation would move to anything else in

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<v Speaker 6>the world eventually, but it just, you know, kept going

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<v Speaker 6>about you, and I'm sorry, that's just not I just

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<v Speaker 6>didn't feel compatible for another date of that kind.

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<v Speaker 3>Was it that it was it the topics? Were they

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<v Speaker 3>just too kind of like nerdy?

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean, I'm just not into that stuff, and

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<v Speaker 6>I was hoping that there would be more share and

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<v Speaker 6>less just being explained things in just a weird way

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<v Speaker 6>that I didn't really I wasn't super interested in those topics,

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<v Speaker 6>but it just didn't stop, and I just kind of

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<v Speaker 6>nodded and you know, listened, but just wasn't wasn't things

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<v Speaker 6>I was into and wasn't the type of data I

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<v Speaker 6>was thinking it was going to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Were the topics too intimidating. No, I don't think they're intimidating,

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<v Speaker 3>just not what I'm interested in, because I thought I

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<v Speaker 3>thought you were really smart talking on those topics as well.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I kind of just agreed with you and

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<v Speaker 6>nodded and try to move the conversation forward.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you weren't into the topics I was talking about. No,

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<v Speaker 3>not really. Sorry, I guess that's good to know for future.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I do have to ask the question, Jamie, would

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<v Speaker 5>you like to go on another date with Hunter? We'll

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<v Speaker 5>pay for it.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I'm good, think thinks but no.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, I'm good too as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, I'm good. I think this is great that

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<v Speaker 4>every these good success.

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<v Speaker 6>Hunter.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe you learn something too on the next time. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>the next time you go on a date, maybe just

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<v Speaker 4>ask them what they're into. Make that one of the questions.

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<v Speaker 5>Make more conversational for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, do you like aliens?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm good. But I did want to let everyone

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<v Speaker 3>know that they did release seven chemtrails today, so, uh everyone,

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<v Speaker 3>I would just recommend everyone say at home, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't either. Well, we'll just make sure we do that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>thank you, Hunter, thank you for that.

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<v Speaker 3>You're welcome.

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