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Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with on our radio. Oh

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Speaker 1: everybody out there today is a beautiful day. Like we

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Speaker 1: just had somebody's squeal in our background. Um, she's obviously

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Speaker 1: Becca Tilly has hung out a little bit with Ashley

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Speaker 1: and I to day. Becca, welcome to the Almost Famous podcast.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I didn't know I was had to be

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Speaker 1: what are you? What are you moving into? Why moving

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429
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Speaker 1: do you have that exact same experience as I do?

430
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Speaker 1: You really can't go and back back and watch old

431
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Speaker 1: movies without having to find adapters that you're You're like,

432
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,879
Speaker 1: there are a loss in the attic somewhere. Yeah, you

433
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Speaker 1: know what? As you say that, you know what, maybe

434
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: the saddest part of that is is I remember that

435
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 1: time in my life where I couldn't and so I

436
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: just stopped. Really yeah, So like it's not even that

437
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 1: I don't I try anymore. Um, stuff like last Boston

438
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 1: really helps because I remember there's a time my life

439
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,239
Speaker 1: where I used to go home for the holidays and

440
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 1: it was so difficult to find any way to get

441
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 1: the TV to work. It would take us hours to

442
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 1: try to watch these things back and then all the

443
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: photos would be gone and they'd be disorganized. Um that

444
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: we just ended up stopping. I haven't done it in years,

445
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: and it would be nice too. There's some really good

446
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: stuff on there, especially you know, as I was a child,

447
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: I'd love to see back. So yes, actually I do

448
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 1: have that same experience and maybe even a little sadder story. Yeah,

449
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 1: that's very sad. And another thing that's really cool about

450
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Speaker 1: Legacy Box, and like the ad is totally done here.

451
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you guys, Um, you know how people

452
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:51,679
Speaker 1: will be like, do you have a picture of you

453
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,439
Speaker 1: when you were a teenager? Do you have a picture

454
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 1: when you were like a preteen? And you're like, not really,

455
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: it's in the photo albums at home, and you can

456
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Speaker 1: kind of just you know, do Legacy Box put the

457
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: flash drive in your computer and then you'll have all

458
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 1: these pictures and you can, you know, show your loved ones,

459
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 1: you and your baby. That's awesome, Hey, Ash, you know

460
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: it's not sad what ben love. Love is not sad,

461
00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: especially fifteen years of love. Our next guest is one

462
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: of Bachelor Nation's favorite, if not favorite bachelorette. She is

463
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 1: the leader of the chart she has started the revolution.

464
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: She has been married and loved for fifteen years, and

465
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: we just wanted to bring her on the almost famous

466
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: podcast to say, congratulate freaking nations. Trista, are you out

467
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: there fifteen years? How often do you like to wave

468
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: that in the face of all of the Bachelor Nay says, oh,

469
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 1: you know, it's funny because we got a text from

470
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 1: one of our friends and he said congratulations, and he

471
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 1: wrote another text as he said, you know, I hesitated

472
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: to send that because saying congratulations means that you maybe

473
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: that people thought that you couldn't do that, like maybe

474
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: you accomplished something that was unheard of. And then he

475
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: wrote back again and he's like, no, it's okay. It

476
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,120
Speaker 1: was something that you should be proud of whatever. And

477
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 1: I feel like Brian and I obviously didn't. I didn't

478
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: do it so that we to get actually been calling

479
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 1: me and saying congratulations on fifteen years. You know what

480
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,239
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like we we obviously are in love and

481
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: it's all real and true and it's our life. So

482
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: I do appreciate the congratulations. It's very sweet. I used

483
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 1: to think of me and to put me um on

484
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: your speed dials for your podcast. But um, but yeah,

485
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: it's just it's just what it is. So it's it's

486
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: all good. I love a part of that colnation. Doesn't

487
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: feel like fifteen years because I didn't know you fifteen

488
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 1: years ago, But it doesn't feel like fifteen years since

489
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: you were on the cover of all those magazines in

490
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: your wedding dress, right. No, I mean it does so

491
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 1: like fifteen years at times, but it has flown by

492
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: really really fast, especially because we have two crazy active

493
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: kids in our lives, and um, we follow them around everywhere.

494
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: And if you think life moves passed before you have kids,

495
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 1: just hold on tight and get ready. Um. But yeah,

496
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: I I there are times when I feel like it's

497
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 1: been fifteen years when we're like just kind of the

498
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 1: daily grind. But most of the time it flies by

499
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 1: because we're having a really good time. We have a

500
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 1: good life, you know, just you. I want to go

501
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,959
Speaker 1: back a little bit too. Well, you said at the beginning,

502
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: when you said when you did this whole thing, it

503
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 1: didn't you didn't do it. So people congratulate you on

504
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: you know, fifteen years. At what point in this whole

505
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 1: experience did a did a relationship with Ryan go from

506
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: just hey, this is a really fun kind of thing

507
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 1: that we're doing too, I want to marry this person.

508
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: I think you and Ashley both kind of have that

509
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: in common where all of a sudden switched from being

510
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: about a show to know this is going to change

511
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 1: my life forever. Well, for me, the switch happened when

512
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: I got asked to be that threat. So I did

513
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 1: The Bachelor just for fun and to get out of

514
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: the rut I was in in Miami. I just wasn't

515
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 1: happy in my life back then, and and I saw

516
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: extra was advertise like they had the casting director who

517
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 1: actually still um helps out with the show, which is

518
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,160
Speaker 1: kind of crazy, but um, you know, I applied for

519
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: that show thinking, oh, this will be fun. I can

520
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: travel and meet some people and go to l A

521
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: and whatever. And you didn't even know it was going

522
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: to be a successful show. Oh so so I had

523
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 1: no idea what it was gonna be. No one did

524
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: at that time, Like really, we we just went into it.

525
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: The people the cast went into it thinking, oh, we can,

526
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 1: like I said, travel and meet people and have a

527
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: have a good time. And then I did develop serious

528
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: feelings for Alic, which looking back on it, I'm sure

529
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: I was just caught up in it because we definitely

530
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: were not meant to be. But when they asked me

531
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: to be back to Thrette, when Life called me and said, hey,

532
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: what would you think of this? Um I, that's when

533
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: it changed for me. Then I think that I became

534
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 1: really serious when, um when I signed up to be

535
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 1: about Tourette and I thought, oh my, I mean BABC

536
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: is going to be searching for guys for me. This

537
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: is pretty crazy and I need to really get serious

538
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: about this. And I was all in it for just

539
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: to find Ryan and thank god he was there. Um

540
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: I I because of what happened to me, I'm as bachelor,

541
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: which was I got down to the final two and

542
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 1: like the night before, two nights before, he told me

543
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,240
Speaker 1: he was going to pick me. I might have even

544
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: said this on the last podcast you guys had me on,

545
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 1: but um he said he was gonna pick me. He

546
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: didn't pick me, obviously, And because of that, I went

547
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: into the Bachelorette really um cautious. I didn't want to

548
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: get anyone pokes up until I knew for sure, and

549
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: I kept thinking in the back of my mind things

550
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: could change, because things could change. Things could change fully,

551
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: you know, six weeks at that time. Um, and so

552
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: I didn't really fully invest in him until a lot

553
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 1: later on. I think Seattle on Our Overnight was when

554
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: I fully invested because I couldn't stop thinking about him

555
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: even when I was on dates with other people. That's awesome,

556
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: that's so crazy. Um, did you ever think in that

557
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: fantasy suite we're gonna be married fifteen years from now,

558
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: be the poster children for success on the show, and

559
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: you'll always be associated with success on the show. I

560
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: think because you were the first, you set the president. Um.

561
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: Oh gosh. I never would have imagined, first of all,

562
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: that The Bachelor would still exist. Um. Know, that's a

563
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: great point. No never ever would have thought. I mean,

564
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: it was way in its sympathy, and no one could

565
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,959
Speaker 1: have known what would happen with reality television. I mean

566
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: I remember sitting on a panel and they were they

567
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: were talking about how reality TV was a sad I

568
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 1: feel like Mark Burnett was part of it and twice

569
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: and whatever. Anyway, it was a fat back then. You know,

570
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 1: people thought it was going to disappear, and clearly it

571
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: did not disappear. It has taken over our television screens,

572
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:57,959
Speaker 1: and Um, I think it's great. I mean, I I

573
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 1: am fully engaged with all of the shows. I love

574
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: watching all the shows. I love supporting everyone who comes

575
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: on the show, whether it be Bachelor About for right,

576
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: had our Bachelor in Paradise, for Rachel with Pat, or

577
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: Olympic Games or whatever, for our weddings or whatever. Congratulations,

578
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: I think, Um, but I'm you know, I I love

579
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: all of it, and I feel really really thankful that

580
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: I get to be um part of it. It's really cool.

581
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: I just have one last comment and then Ben, you

582
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: want to wrap this thing up. He remember, the last

583
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 1: time we talked in depth was in May, and you're

584
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: telling me that for the first time, Ryan was switching careers.

585
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 1: He Um, is, you're tired from the fire department, and

586
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: how's that going. It's good? Um, thank you for asking

587
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: and remembering. Um. She you know, he has this ups

588
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 1: and down. She newly loved working for the fire service.

589
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: It filled him like he loves being able to help people.

590
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: I mean, one of his favorite things in life is

591
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: when he sees someone on the side of the road.

592
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: He loves to pull them out of a ditch with

593
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: his big old truck. You know, like he just loves

594
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 1: to help people. And he did that for seventeen years,

595
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 1: and it took its toll on his body, on his mind,

596
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: on his spirit. I mean there is a thing called

597
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 1: post traumat it's some kind of post traumatic stress for

598
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: emergency service workers. And he definitely, I feel like, experienced

599
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 1: that in that it was stressful. You know, he saw death,

600
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:49,120
Speaker 1: he saw suicide, he saw um all ages, babies, older people, Uh,

601
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 1: really really really difficult things to deal with. And he

602
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: did it for seventeen years. So from a wife's perspective,

603
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 1: you want your husband to be um, safe and thriving,

604
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 1: of course, but not at the detriment of his spirit

605
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 1: or his mind. Um, he was like short tempered. He uh,

606
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 1: he just wasn't happy for a really long time. And

607
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 1: now he's finding his place. He worked for a company

608
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: called Bail Custom Builders, and so then hey, if you

609
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 1: ever want to build a house, you know up in

610
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: the mountains, only a couple hours away. You know, he's

611
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 1: working with real custom builders. And not that he's like

612
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 1: a builder. Um. Sometimes he helps out on site, but

613
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: he's kind of more like marketing business development. Um, he's

614
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 1: finding his way. He's an evolving job. Um. But I

615
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: love having him here at nighttime. We get to have

616
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: dinner together as a family. He gets to coach Max's

617
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: hockey team. And let me say, your hand, your son

618
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 1: is but very handsome. Boy? Is that a creepy comment.

619
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 1: My sister and I were in all of his hair yesterday.

620
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,839
Speaker 1: You've got the best hair on my kid. I can't

621
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: believe it. But no, he is very handsome. Thank you.

622
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 1: He Um, he can coach now, you know. He can

623
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 1: be at all of his hockey games. He can be

624
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:28,439
Speaker 1: at all of Blake Pleased recitals, all her performances. So

625
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: I just selfishly, I am so thankful that he made

626
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: the leap. And it's hard day to day he has

627
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: to deal with a lot of different personalities. But um, overall,

628
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,760
Speaker 1: I think it was a really good move. So thanks cracking.

629
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: The last time you're on the podcast too, we kind

630
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 1: of highlighted the fact that you're doing some speaking engagements.

631
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: You're staying pretty actually involved and advocating for a few

632
00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 1: really important topics. Are you still traveling and speaking? If

633
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: anybody out there is listening, is going I want to

634
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: hear trist to talk more than just on the almost

635
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: famous podcast. What have you been up to and how

636
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: can they find you? Oh gosh, I know I haven't

637
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: done any speaking. I did Ted X veil a couple

638
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: of years ago, where, um, that was an incredible experience.

639
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: I'm so thankful for it. But quite honestly, my kids

640
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Speaker 1: and my husband have taken over my life and including hockey.

641
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Speaker 1: Like I went from a hockey mom to a manager

642
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Speaker 1: of Max's team last year to a board of directors. Uh,

643
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Speaker 1: I'm on the board of directors for the hockey club

644
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Speaker 1: and now I'm the fundraising director. And with all of

645
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Speaker 1: their activities and I mean just being a mom breakfast, lunch, dinner, uh,

646
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Speaker 1: you know, picking I actually have to leave really soon

647
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Speaker 1: to go pick them up from school. Leave and learned

648
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Speaker 1: to ski today where he's up on the on the

649
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Speaker 1: mountain skiing with her class. Like it's just kind of

650
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: all encompassing right now. Um, so I'm I haven't been

651
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Speaker 1: doing much of anything. I loved the Ted X cockit

652
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Speaker 1: um I had the opportunity to do, and you know

653
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Speaker 1: I would do more of that if given the opportunity.

654
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Speaker 1: Book For now, my kids and Ryan are my priority.

655
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Speaker 1: That's amazing. Trista. We always love you. You You are your legacy.

656
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Speaker 1: Lives on with all of us. You're the best um

657
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Speaker 1: which trying the best and also congratulations on fifteen really

658
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 1: incredible years. You are a role model model for a

659
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,479
Speaker 1: lot of us out there looking for that same thing. Yes,

660
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:39,439
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, Thanks guys. I okay, bye, good

661
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 1: good luck planning acthlete. I'm so excited. Thank you. Yeah.

662
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: When I hung out with you, I wasn't engaged yet.

663
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 1: I remember, I kept teasing. I was like, oh, I'll

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665
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that hysterical you did? Were you guys? Wait,

667
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm totally hijacking this. Where are you guys

668
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Speaker 1: planning on? Like? Was that in the works at the

669
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Speaker 1: time when I saw you, Well, it was in the

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671
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Speaker 1: hoping it was. Yeah, I was putting the good vibes

672
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Speaker 1: out there. Well you, I mean, the good vibes work. Okay,

673
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Speaker 1: I'll see you soon. Okay, by guys, thank you. Has

674
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675
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Speaker 1: kids add so much stress, which means it's really really

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Speaker 1: get to the fun part. Ben, Let's judge the cast.

734
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Speaker 1: Let's judge the cast. It's one of my favorite times.

735
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Speaker 1: This part of the season is where we have no

736
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Speaker 1: absolutely nothing about any of these girls and only doing

737
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: this based on a few pictures that none of us

738
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: have ever looked good on. That is the best, literally

739
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: the best part. No, it's the best. The pettiness brings

740
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: out the best in all of us. It's the realist. Guys.

741
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: Don't say you didn't do this at home. When all

742
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: these pictures were released last week, you broke them down too.

743
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 1: And now we're going to ready, Ben, Yeah, give me

744
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Speaker 1: your started. Girls, who do you think is going to

745
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,959
Speaker 1: make it top three? One at a time? Like a draft?

746
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: We should go one at a time, and that way,

747
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: whoever has the most Actually, before you say you should

748
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: make a wager. Okay, So if my top three is

749
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 1: stronger results with more actual top three, then Ben, what

750
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: do you want me to do? I want you to

751
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 1: eat three day old sushi. Ben, that's like dangerous, so

752
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: that weird? I don't know, you get on the spot

753
00:42:56,760 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: mark that something. Something's shilly on the show. If you

754
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: have to do the show in a costume, more in

755
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: a voice or something. Here's yeah. So here's the thing.

756
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: If I win, Actually, I need you to post on

757
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: your Instagram a video of you singing on this show

758
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: backstreets back? Can we do one? Like? Not? Like a

759
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: song that I could probably actually attempt to sing and

760
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 1: try to sound good. I think it'll be funnier if

761
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to sound good and I sound really bad.

762
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: What's the song that you what's your go to? Like

763
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 1: a Selene Dion song? We can do like, um, what's

764
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Speaker 1: the what's the one like the So it's all coming

765
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: back to me now. I was like, okay, and if

766
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Speaker 1: I if I win and you lose, I want you

767
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Speaker 1: to participate. This is like a grand ask. I want

768
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Speaker 1: you to put together a bachelor boy band and I

769
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Speaker 1: want you guys to actually do like um, I want

770
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Speaker 1: you to do a parody video. Oh no deal, Okay,

771
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna win this. Okay, let the draft begin,

772
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: all right? Well, then the draft begin. We go through

773
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Speaker 1: all thirty girls and then tell us what your starred

774
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Speaker 1: ones are or should we just I know? Actually, here's

775
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 1: the thing, this is what we're gonna do. We have

776
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Speaker 1: a draft, so then we'll go through the girls after this.

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Speaker 1: But first, UM, I will let you take the first

778
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: pick of this draft. Okay, okay, well, thank you, um

779
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: my first pick like as like the number one top contender. Yeah,

780
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 1: I think Kate. I'm gonna go with Kalin. I like

781
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 1: Caitlind Okay, mm hmm, I'm gonna go, hey, is this fair?

782
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: You you're friends with Colman? Oh, he hasn't said a word.

783
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding. You can ask any of us. He

784
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: hasn't said a word. Why Halen before you move on? Why? Um? Well,

785
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: I know that she has a really deep story, and

786
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: I interviewed Chris Harrison last week for Access and he

787
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: says that her deep story reveals ends up revealing a

788
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: lot about him. So I feel like they have an

789
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: intimate bond. Ben, I don't I like where you're going

790
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,720
Speaker 1: with that. I've heard that is that you know these

791
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 1: that Colton and Kylin kind of connected right away. I

792
00:45:23,560 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: think we talked about that is there's a bigger story

793
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: here than anything we've ever heard, and that's why we're

794
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: gonna fall in love with Colton during the season. Um,

795
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,320
Speaker 1: I've got to go with Cassie. I feel like Cassie

796
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: has been one of those that the show is promoted already.

797
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:42,280
Speaker 1: I feel like she is absolutely beautiful. Um. I think

798
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: Cassie is my second pick. Well. I like about Cassie's

799
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: picture is that I've never seen a more relaxed uh

800
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 1: bio pick before. She's just chilling. I like the way

801
00:45:55,760 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: they change the background to gray. Everybody looks so much better. Yeah,

802
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 1: what they can wind that or there? Okay, Catty has followers.

803
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: That's a big that's a big following. That's why she's relaxed.

804
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: She knows what she's up to. She's gonna do this well.

805
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:14,319
Speaker 1: She's also a true Californian. She grew up at the

806
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: beach and is an avid surfer, and she is a

807
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 1: grad student getting a degree in speech pathology, hoping to

808
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 1: work with kids one day. Ashley, with your second pick,

809
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 1: with my second pick, I'm gonna go with Bree. You

810
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 1: know I like Breathe. Isn't okay to pick the same,

811
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Speaker 1: Is it okay to overlap? Well? Oh, crapola? Because I

812
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 1: wanted to pick Cassie too, she was starred for me.

813
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: Oh well, okay, Well I picked Bree. Then the Lauren

814
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 1: Bushnell look alike. You know what, she is beautiful. We

815
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,719
Speaker 1: gotta we gotta give them both both. Lauren Ambree are

816
00:46:56,920 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: very very very beautiful people. So I get why, um

817
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: a little bit about Bree here. Breathe a model from

818
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 1: south southern California. Bree is much more than just a

819
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: pretty face, though she played soccer for eight years, enjoys

820
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:14,720
Speaker 1: hiking and camping, and loves to hit the snowboard slopes.

821
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: Her biggest dating fear, you ask, farting too loudly. Not

822
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: just farting, but farting too loudly. Don't worry, breathe. It's

823
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 1: really less about this the sound, and way more about

824
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:29,879
Speaker 1: the smell. I don't know, Ash, I might disagree, okay

825
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: with my second pick. All these women are really beautiful.

826
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Speaker 1: I think that I'm going to go with Hannah. Then

827
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Speaker 1: that was my other I'm sorry, she's she's really pretty.

828
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 1: She's a content creator from Birmingham, Alabama, the one that's

829
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: in it for the wrongest the wrongest of reasons, based

830
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: on the bios content creator. Come on, Okay, so this

831
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 1: sweet Southern belt definitely isn't camera shy. She's both the

832
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: photographer and model for her burgeoning social media business. Apart

833
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,720
Speaker 1: from planning the photo shoots for her next post, Hannah

834
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: enjoys being a foodie and glamping. Hopefully Colton likes what

835
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 1: you're putting down. Can we talk about something here? Yeah? Please?

836
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: I need to read this quote which makes me very weary. Um.

837
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 1: She posted on Instagram. Capted in August about her journey

838
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 1: into modeling influencing, she says, I don't consider myself to

839
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: be a so called model. I consider myself to be

840
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 1: Hannah who happens to have a creative aspect of social

841
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 1: media and modeling in general. That's a direct quote. I

842
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:49,359
Speaker 1: like my next, I like my pick um. You know,

843
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: the world of influencing isn't one that is gonna last forever.

844
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 1: I'm I don't know if I've ever heard a more

845
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 1: direct bio from from the back their franchise. Yeah, I'm

846
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,879
Speaker 1: more honest, all right. I think Hannah By is gonna

847
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: be around for a while, so I'm gonna say Hannah By.

848
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,720
Speaker 1: But I also think that Hannah By might be the villain.

849
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 1: I have a little insights the the pageant girls. That

850
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: is Kaylin, she's the current reigning two thousand eighteen Miss

851
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: North Carolina, and Hannah By, the reigning Miss Alabama two

852
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:35,879
Speaker 1: thousand eighteen. They get into it. I'm not sure whether

853
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: they're okay. They're either going to be really good friends

854
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: because they've been around the pageant circuit together, or they're

855
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: not gonna be really good friends. They're gonna have like

856
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 1: a rivalry out for each other, but Harrison said the

857
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,240
Speaker 1: other day there's something between the two of them. It'll

858
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 1: be a storyline. I also am very confused, so I'm

859
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 1: thinking like in this perhaps rivalry. This is me just

860
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 1: like making things up the top of my head. I

861
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 1: feel like Hannah By would be the villain because Klin

862
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:07,360
Speaker 1: seems sweet. But I guess there's nothing that says a

863
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 1: Hannah Bee isn't sweet yet. But she just has a

864
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: more villainous look about her on a bad way, like

865
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: a sexy way. Yeah, let's read Uh so she as

866
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 1: you said. She's form Miss Alabama two eighteen. Born and

867
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 1: raised in Tuscaloose, Alabama, Hannah was bred to be proud

868
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: member of the Alabama Crimson Tide following and her parents footsteps.

869
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 1: By the way, just a side note, there's nobody that

870
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:32,279
Speaker 1: loves their team more in Alabama. She recently graduated from

871
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 1: the University of Alabama with a degree in communications. She

872
00:50:34,760 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: currently works as an interior designer and never misses an

873
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: Alabama football game. See I told you they love their

874
00:50:40,520 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: football so much. Oh in her spare time. This year,

875
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 1: she won the title of Miss Alabama USA two roll

876
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 1: tied Hannah. Hannah by Ashley's final choice. That's my final choice.

877
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 1: I'm totally making things up here, you guys. I did

878
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,879
Speaker 1: not write any spoilers. I'm just making assumptions and I'm

879
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: saying them out loud. I'm also trying to come up

880
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 1: with content to make this interesting when really we have

881
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: no idea what role anyone's gonna play. I do. I

882
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 1: am very interested in the fact that they have two

883
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 1: pageant girls here from Miss USA because you want to

884
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: hear a very embarrassed. It's an embarrassing but do you

885
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: want to hear a story then yeah, I love stories.

886
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: So the August before I was castid officially on The Bachelor,

887
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: I guess it was like two weeks before I was

888
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:38,800
Speaker 1: officially cast on The Bachelor, I did a preliminary Miss

889
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 1: us A round in Virginia because I was I am

890
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: always obsessed with Olivia Colbo and I was like, I

891
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 1: just want to be like Olivia. So I did a

892
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 1: preliminary Miss USA round in Virginia. And they say in

893
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 1: the contract you can't really pursue anything like TV, and

894
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:00,840
Speaker 1: you especially can't pursue anything outside and be see Universal

895
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 1: because that is where Miss USA aired. At the time.

896
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: I'm not sure where it airs now or I think

897
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: it's still NBC. Does anybody know this for sure? You

898
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 1: want to look that up. I'm pretty sure that NBC

899
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,399
Speaker 1: still still airs Miss USA, and it said you can't

900
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 1: do anything outside of that network. I think it's now

901
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: on Fox. Oh, it's now on Fox. So maybe they

902
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: have different contractual requirements allowing these two girls to do it. Actually,

903
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:35,439
Speaker 1: ready for my last pick. It's Tasa Tasia. Yeah, she's

904
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: got the smile, she's got the look. I like her

905
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: profile a lot, like a ton except I don't know

906
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 1: what her career is. I don't even know what that is.

907
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 1: A flip bottomist actually, Okay, um, so I had to

908
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,520
Speaker 1: learn this before when I did the interview with Harrison

909
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: a couple of days ago. That is somebody who draws

910
00:52:56,200 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 1: your blood and like t brings it to testing. Makes sense? Okay,

911
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: Well here's the al. Tasia, the southern California girl is

912
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: definitely not the squeamish type. Well, this would have helped.

913
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 1: She draws blood for a living. When she's not filling

914
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 1: up vials for her patients, she volunteers at her church

915
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: and goes wine tasting. Okay, Tassia if you don't end

916
00:53:17,640 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 1: up with Colton. I like wine tasting and I love Jesus,

917
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 1: so just let me know. Unlike her patients, Tasha hopes

918
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:29,840
Speaker 1: Colton feels faint when he sees here. Tassia is my

919
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 1: final pick. I like her. I'm pretty proud of my picks.

920
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 1: I like Colton's group of women I see. I don't know.

921
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: I think the six that we chose are really the

922
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: ones that I think are gonna buy for Colton's heart.

923
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: All I know is from watching these UM the promos,

924
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:50,440
Speaker 1: somebody out there crushes that dude, like destroys him on

925
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 1: this season, and whoever it is, I ain't about um.

926
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 1: What's what's your dirt? Okay? So I asked Harrison the

927
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 1: other day if him jumping over the fence was just

928
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:06,319
Speaker 1: something stupid, like you know, we've been joking. He like,

929
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 1: probably lost his tie and left on the other side

930
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:10,760
Speaker 1: of the fence, and he was like, oh, one second,

931
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: just gotta quickly to go on the other side of

932
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 1: the fence. He said, no, he was really trying to

933
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 1: run away from Harrison. When Harrison was trying to give

934
00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: him a dad talk, oh talk, he said, not a

935
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 1: friend talk. A fatherly talk. Oh what does that mean?

936
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think we're in fourth this year.

937
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 1: Ash I think this season of The Bachelor is going

938
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 1: to be one that nobody wants to miss. And we

939
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:40,919
Speaker 1: already here's the thing, because we already have drama coming

940
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 1: into the play here. There's a story that was released

941
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: this week, and it's one that it seems to be

942
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:51,319
Speaker 1: a common threat on any season of The Bachelor so far. Tracy,

943
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say your last name here. Shipaf has some

944
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: mean tweet tweets out there that have became public at

945
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: this point, one of which she's bashing the Bachelor franchise because,

946
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,840
Speaker 1: in her opinion, who would go on this show to

947
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:09,800
Speaker 1: try to find love? Ashley, what's your take? That was

948
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 1: a bad tweet? I can't I can't do. I can't

949
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: say anything except for the fact that she's obviously she

950
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,240
Speaker 1: doesn't think it's really going to happen for from the show,

951
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:22,359
Speaker 1: and she's definitely there for the wrong reasons. And those

952
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,960
Speaker 1: are some gnarly tweets. I mean, we've all said stupid

953
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 1: things on Twitter. But here's my take. Here's my tweet take.

954
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: There's so many times in life there's so many times

955
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:34,840
Speaker 1: in life that we say something, or we stand firm

956
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 1: on something, or we do something, and we we we

957
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 1: seem to be stuck in our ways and we look back.

958
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: I mean, how many times does this happen everybody in

959
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 1: the studio here. Well, you then look back ten years later,

960
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: and you've grown, or you've changed your minds, has your

961
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: mind has opened up a little bit to something new.

962
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is be careful the stances you

963
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: take in life now, the things that you feel so

964
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:57,799
Speaker 1: secure about, and the things that you just hold on

965
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:03,400
Speaker 1: is absolute truth, because later on you could get mud

966
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 1: thrown right back in your face. Just like Tracy that.

967
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 1: I mean, these are huge tweets. She is now on

968
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 1: this show. She didn't just continue to watch the show.

969
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,840
Speaker 1: She's not just a commoner and a fan of the show. No,

970
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,320
Speaker 1: she chose to go on the show. My second point here, Okay,

971
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:18,319
Speaker 1: this is the point that maybe creeps me out the most.

972
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 1: How in the world did they find these tweets? Who

973
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 1: was out there using so much of their time to

974
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 1: go through every cast member on the Bachelor franchise to

975
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,359
Speaker 1: find tweets eight years ago? Was the eight years ago?

976
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: Eight years ago? Not a quiet tweets. She tweets often. Um,

977
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 1: if people I really don't want people to go back,

978
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,400
Speaker 1: but if they were, they would find the most embarrassing

979
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 1: Jonas Brollar tweets ever. Oh, they would be just there

980
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:49,399
Speaker 1: seventy all about the Jonas brothers, and they probably make

981
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:52,359
Speaker 1: it seem like I don't even know, like I'm friends

982
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,120
Speaker 1: with them or something. That's what sounds gonna sound like.

983
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:56,319
Speaker 1: It's gonna be like so and so waved to us

984
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,160
Speaker 1: and they love us. It's gonna be like the most

985
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:00,040
Speaker 1: immature sounding thing ever. And now that I'm telling of

986
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: people this, They're definitely gonna go back at years. Um,

987
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:07,439
Speaker 1: let me just say one thing, as um an advice giver.

988
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 1: If I had to go back and give myself advice,

989
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: whether that was eight years ago on Twitter or four

990
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: years ago on Twitter, or today on Twitter, I would say,

991
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: don't put anything out there that you would just say

992
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 1: in the privacy of your own home or to your

993
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 1: best friends. Only put on Twitter things that you'd be

994
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 1: fine saying in front of an open general audience. Because

995
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:37,400
Speaker 1: that's what Twitter is is a public platform. I'm I'm

996
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: gonna encourage any listener out there if you can go

997
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: back and find some of these tweets that actually you're

998
00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 1: talking about UM videocast make sure that happens. So please

999
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:50,560
Speaker 1: go back, find these tweets, copy and paste them. Sending

1000
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 1: the email at Ben and Ashley at I Heart Media

1001
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 1: dot com. I cannot wait to make so much fun

1002
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: of Ashley. Actually, there's one thing in life that we

1003
00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 1: don't make fun of him. That's a holiday season. The

1004
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,920
Speaker 1: holiday seas and is absolutely crazy. I know right now

1005
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 1: at Generous there are orders going off every day all day.

1006
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: My phone is blowing up with people buying coffee, mugs,

1007
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 1: but bracelets, t shirts, whatever. And we use stamps dot

1008
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: Com to make our shipping and our postage more efficient.

1009
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 1: It's it comes through all the time. It makes my

1010
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: life a lot easier. I love Stamps dot Com. Like

1011
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: I said, I work with them every day. The holidays

1012
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 1: are madness. Ever you go there is traffic or lines.

1013
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: That's why I'm loving using stamps dot Com. With stamps

1014
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 1: dot Com, you can access all the services of the

1015
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: post Office right from your desk, buying print, real US

1016
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 1: postage for any letter or any package, all of able

1017
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: twenty four hours a day, seven days a week. Just

1018
00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 1: click print mail and what you're done. Stamps dot Com

1019
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 1: will even send you a digital scale where you wait

1020
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:52,080
Speaker 1: your letters and packages and print the exact amount of

1021
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 1: postage every time. You can imagine here, everybody's sitting in studio.

1022
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: When you operate a company that is online and retail,

1023
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 1: especially during the holiday season, your order is really increase

1024
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: and pick up, and your resources don't exactly do the same,

1025
00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: So you have to become more efficient with how you

1026
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: ship and how you post. That's where stamps dot Com

1027
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 1: comes in. It makes my job in my life so

1028
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: much better every day. Right now, he's almost Famous for

1029
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 1: this special offer. Four weeks trial includes postage and a

1030
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 1: digital I mean, I'll do it for the digital scale.

1031
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 1: You're kidding me. Think about all the things you can

1032
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: do with the digital scale. Don't wait to go to

1033
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 1: stamps dot com before you do anything else. Click on

1034
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 1: the radio microphone at the top of the home page

1035
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 1: and type in almost famous that stamps dot Com into

1036
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 1: your almost famous today. It will change your life. Just

1037
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 1: trust us a little bit. At some point. Actually, to

1038
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 1: finish out another great episode, one of our final episodes

1039
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,920
Speaker 1: of the offseason. I mean, this is getting absolutely wild

1040
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:51,200
Speaker 1: that We're already about to start the Bachelor over once again.

1041
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 1: Today was a big episode with Trista on it. We

1042
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: went through Colton's women, who we think are absolutely great,

1043
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 1: but we judge them critically because that's what we do best.

1044
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: And finally, we have a rumor that it doesn't really

1045
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: feel like a rumor to me. Sometimes on this podcast,

1046
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 1: we're bringing up things that I'm like, yeah, no way,

1047
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 1: this happened, right. I mean, for example, we'll start with

1048
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 1: one uh that we've researched very very critically, and that

1049
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 1: is the Sean Booth rumor. Has he moved on already

1050
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 1: because he was spotted with Charlie Arnault? I don't want

1051
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 1: to say her name right, Um out in public? Are

1052
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 1: they dating? Are they not? They? I don't think they are.

1053
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: Actually from a very viable source, I think they were

1054
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 1: spotted together at a at a gym, at a workout.

1055
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 1: You know, there was a bunch of people there, and

1056
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 1: then afterwards maybe they hung out one Well, here's a

1057
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Speaker 1: here's a deal, Sean single. Um, from all sources, nothing happened. Um.

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Speaker 1: I mean, actually, in your opinion, is it too quickly?

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Speaker 1: How quickly is too quick to even hang out or

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Speaker 1: talk to somebody new after a major breakup. I think

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01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 1: it really has to based on the person because some

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01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: people they do well with having a quick rebound and

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01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: then some people really need to let it digest for

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01:01:04,880 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 1: a while. It depends on your personality. I agree, Yeah,

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01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:11,400
Speaker 1: you can't. You know, we can't blame anybody once they're

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Speaker 1: officially single. I mean, yeah, you know, you want your

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01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 1: heart to heal. We wish best for anybody. But if

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Speaker 1: you want to talk to somebody, that's then okay. I

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01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,640
Speaker 1: have nothing against it. If you know, Sean starts talking

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01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:25,520
Speaker 1: to somebody or Caitlin starts talking to somebody, it doesn't

1071
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:27,680
Speaker 1: matter the timing. It just matters the respect and they

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01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 1: give each other. I think that's an important key moment

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Speaker 1: here is how are you gonna slam another person's face?

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Speaker 1: Are you not? I hope they don't. I don't think

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01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:37,800
Speaker 1: they will. Um So, through all of this, it's just

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01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:41,240
Speaker 1: weird still to me that we're talking Sean and somebody

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01:01:41,240 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 1: else or Caitlin and somebody else and it's not Caitlin

1078
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,479
Speaker 1: and Sean together. That still hurts my heart a little

1079
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 1: bit that they're not together. It's sad, uh and I

1080
01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 1: don't know how to process that. That's what's weird to

1081
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 1: me here. It's so sad. I know it's so weird.

1082
01:01:56,720 --> 01:01:58,959
Speaker 1: I wonder if we get Sewn on the podcast here,

1083
01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 1: maybe even next week, to talk about some of these

1084
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure he doesn't want these things flowing around.

1085
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 1: I'm sure he has a lot to share and tell,

1086
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 1: and you know, we know Sean he'll be respectful. Let's

1087
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 1: try to reach out to and see if'm you're on

1088
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: the podcast. That would be awesome. If you feel like

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01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 1: you can do that. I think that's up to Sean,

1090
01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 1: but we want to throw their offer out there. It's

1091
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 1: always good to make sure that the truth is present,

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01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,280
Speaker 1: so we tat to Sean seople get them on. If

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01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:26,680
Speaker 1: we do, make sure you tune in next week to

1094
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast to see if Sean Booth happens to

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Speaker 1: join us. Another couple, Yeah, I was gonna say, we

1096
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 1: also need to get one of these two on the line.

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01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:40,920
Speaker 1: Bibiana and and Bibiana, what do you think, I don't

1098
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: just think. I know she had a super big crush

1099
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 1: on him going into Winter Games. She was so disappointed

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Speaker 1: that he wasn't going to be there. She was he

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01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 1: was the one and only she was looking forward to

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Speaker 1: seeing there. And now they've been spotted out of Miami

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01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 1: Heat game and E News is reporting that they are

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01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 1: casual le seeing each other, and of course it is

1105
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: a long distance and um, we need to get one

1106
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 1: of them on here to confirm what's actually going on.

1107
01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:13,320
Speaker 1: But I'm really are because like dreams coming true, and

1108
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 1: you know what they're both like. They're both very sexy

1109
01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 1: like they both are very like sensual. They're both um,

1110
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Speaker 1: you know, people that we know and that we both

1111
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 1: really appreciate. They make a striking couple. I mean a

1112
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 1: striking and very athletically inclined. They love the gym. Yeah,

1113
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 1: so Bibiana and Peter Cross, we cannot confirm or deny,

1114
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 1: but we're going to make sure that we get answers

1115
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:42,959
Speaker 1: next week because I just saw this rumor today, because

1116
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 1: we're prepping for the podcast. Uh so next week is

1117
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Speaker 1: gonna be a let's call it the Rumor Busting Podcast.

1118
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 1: I mean, we're gonna talk rumors, We're gonna get some answers,

1119
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 1: and and finally close out the podcast, we want to

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Speaker 1: take one email from one of our listeners. This email

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01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 1: comes from Caitlin I just listened to the last week's

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Speaker 1: podcast where you talked about Aaron and Jordan Rodgers and

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Speaker 1: the Rogers family, and I felt compelled to write and

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Speaker 1: defend the Rogers family. I live in Chico and just

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Speaker 1: down the road from Ed and Darla Rogers, the whole

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Speaker 1: Rogers family hometown. I have known their family for over

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Speaker 1: fifteen years and can, with all honesty tell you that

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Speaker 1: the Rogers family are some of the kindest, good hearted,

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Speaker 1: godly people I know. They have raised boys, their boys well.

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Speaker 1: The estrangement that is occurring is all by choice of Aaron.

1131
01:04:29,600 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 1: The parents have done nothing to cause it whatsoever. He

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Speaker 1: has chosen to live his life differently and separately from them.

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Speaker 1: Darla Rodgers is truly one of the sweetest women I know.

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Speaker 1: The Rogers family continues to be in the headlines. It

1135
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Speaker 1: feels weird. It feels odd. I don't get why or

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Speaker 1: how the Rogers family snuck him to bats our nation,

1137
01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 1: but they have Jerk. A press conference this week, Aaron

1138
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: said that he said something along the lines of I

1139
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: was out, I was away visiting my folks, and people

1140
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 1: have been chattering about that, whether they're trying to reconcile

1141
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 1: or whether that quote was just a little bit confusing,

1142
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 1: like folks are folks definitely his parents or was he

1143
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 1: visiting folks? You know, good point. I don't even think

1144
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 1: about it. I hope they're reconciling. It feels weird to

1145
01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 1: me that this this family drama. You know, at times

1146
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 1: and on this podcast, you know, we can talk about

1147
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 1: things that are are rumors or things that maybe come

1148
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:29,720
Speaker 1: off a little more critical, and that's part of this

1149
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:32,280
Speaker 1: whole thing. We've opened ourselves, our lives up to the

1150
01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:34,320
Speaker 1: public um and we want to make sure to get

1151
01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 1: the best information available. It still feels uncomfortable me that

1152
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:40,919
Speaker 1: we talk about the Rogers family at all within Bachelor Nation,

1153
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:42,960
Speaker 1: that it was on TV, that it comes back through

1154
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 1: the podcast, that people are you know, quoting about it

1155
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 1: in magazines. It's family drama that we should leave fit. So, Caitlin,

1156
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 1: thanks for reaching out, Thanks for giving the Rogers family

1157
01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 1: some amazing credibility. Um, we hope for all purposes the

1158
01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 1: Rogers family is healing. Ben Easton just said us a

1159
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:06,520
Speaker 1: funny text. What he I don't know, how did you

1160
01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:08,080
Speaker 1: found this so quick? How did you find it? One

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Speaker 1: of those Twitter archives? Hold on Nasan's going to talk.

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Speaker 1: I'm very good searching Twitter. I need to find this

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Speaker 1: is I have a good laugh at myself. Um. This

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Speaker 1: is from January nine, two thou ten. I remember the

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Speaker 1: day I was in Philly at a Nick Jonas concert.

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Speaker 1: It says, sitting fourth row at Nick Jonas with a

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Speaker 1: found some good tweets a video from the Almost Famous podcast,

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Speaker 1: I will make sure you're gonna give a personally shot

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Speaker 1: I'm going to make sure this is the most sensual,

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Speaker 1: we gotta give some thank you out there. The podcast

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Speaker 1: does not exist without these people. I mean, this is

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Speaker 1: how we make money, This is how we keep the

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Speaker 1: podcast going. This is why Mark and Easton hang out

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Speaker 1: with us. Um. I mean there's really no other reason

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Speaker 1: give a shout out to Mark and Easton in studio

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Speaker 1: Amy Sugarman are wonderful producer Becket Tilly for coming on

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Speaker 1: the podcast. Trista, all the people that let us talk

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Speaker 1: about them, sean to Beanna, Peter Tracy, and the women

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Speaker 1: got some major things happening this year and Batchel Nation.

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Speaker 1: I also finally got to close this Ashley, thanks for

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Speaker 1: being my co host. You're the best. We love you,

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Speaker 1: we appreciate you. I actually had to tell a story

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Speaker 1: to close this thing out. I was doing. I spoke

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Speaker 1: at Colorado University this week, UM about entrepreneurship and in business.

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Speaker 1: I was speaking to their online platform with a great

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Speaker 1: young lady named India. I'm sitting within the speech and

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Speaker 1: she looks at me and she goes, hey, listen to

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Speaker 1: your podcast. I said, thank you so much. It always

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Speaker 1: means a lot to us when people say that, and

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Speaker 1: she goes, no, I just love Ashley, and I was like, well,

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Speaker 1: that's really sweet. We FaceTime actually actually answered. It made

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Speaker 1: India's life. Um, she made my life because I got

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Speaker 1: to see Jared getting spray tanned almost for a chipping

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Speaker 1: Dale's thing. He did this weekend, so I'm sure he did. Hey,

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Speaker 1: we love you, we appreciate you with that. I've been been,

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Speaker 1: I've been, Ashley, and I'm sorry for all my weird rambles.

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Speaker 1: Today I haven't my brain is not here today. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: we have those days. See I can't even complete ascendence

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Speaker 1: right now. Oh By followed the Benn and Ashley I

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