Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2: Addison is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: She's been married to her husband Eli for two years.
Speaker 2: They've been together for five years, but now she thinks
Speaker 2: something might be going on. So hopefully we find out
Speaker 2: he isn't that, Edison. We're here to help you out,
Speaker 2: So tell us what's going on. Why do you think
Speaker 2: Eli might be cheating on you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, So we moved here about a year ago in January,
Speaker 1: and so Eli was really quick to make friends. Like
Speaker 1: he has work, he has like his sport recor league
Speaker 1: and everything like that. I work from home and we
Speaker 1: bought a bit of a fixer upper, so I've been
Speaker 1: really focused on the house. So he's out a lot
Speaker 1: more than I am. So he's been really working a
Speaker 1: lot recently, and the work is upticking, and he's just
Speaker 1: out a lot with his work friends. But he just
Speaker 1: keeps talking about one of his co workers, Amber, and
Speaker 1: I know that they've been working really closely together on
Speaker 1: a few projects. And like, I don't necessarily want to
Speaker 1: accuse him of anything. It's just kind of like setting
Speaker 1: off some alarm bells for me and I kind of
Speaker 1: want to get another opinion.
Speaker 3: So you haven't asked him about any.
Speaker 1: Of this yet, No, but it's a lot of like
Speaker 1: so he just talks about her a lot, and it's
Speaker 1: like it's getting to the point where I hear about
Speaker 1: her like almost every day. In terms of like Amber
Speaker 1: did this, Amber said that, isn't that like so funny
Speaker 1: type of thing. So with the holidays coming up, instance,
Speaker 1: like the traveling is so far this year, like this
Speaker 1: is the first time we actually have to get on
Speaker 1: a plane to go home. I'm just trying to make plans.
Speaker 1: And I brought it up and we like switch back
Speaker 1: and forth between families for Thanksgiving and christ and so
Speaker 1: I was trying to make plans and he said that
Speaker 1: he just can't swing it this year because of work.
Speaker 1: So I'm really kind of concerned about that. And granted,
Speaker 1: like this is a new job, he's trying to get established,
Speaker 1: and I know he has a ton of work, so
Speaker 1: I'm really understanding in that arena, But that, along with
Speaker 1: just how often he's talking about his work friends and
Speaker 1: how often he goes out is just a little suspicious
Speaker 1: for me.
Speaker 3: Did he tell you to go without him or was
Speaker 3: it like Okay, then we'll stay home this time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and he told me to do that. I'm still
Speaker 1: up in the air whether or not I'm going to Like,
Speaker 1: I know that my family is going to be really
Speaker 1: happy to see me and everything like that, but it's
Speaker 1: also going to be really sad to spend Thanksgiving without
Speaker 1: him if he's not going.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean the flip side of this was
Speaker 3: that he's so openly talking about her that I didn't
Speaker 3: think it would be that big of a deal. It's
Speaker 3: just the working during the holidays and all of the
Speaker 3: reasons for not being around you, like it's fine, especially
Speaker 3: around the holidays is a little flaggy.
Speaker 2: Have you met any of his coworkers, like even if
Speaker 2: it is Amber or any of them in general.
Speaker 1: So I haven't met Amber. I did meet like one
Speaker 1: or two of his co workers one night when they
Speaker 1: dropping him off, But yeah, not Amber, which is kind
Speaker 1: of like that's the main person I'm concerned about at
Speaker 1: this point. But yeah, and I also don't want to
Speaker 1: be like tagging along with him and his work friends,
Speaker 1: Like I feel like I haven't really established like many
Speaker 1: friendships of my own here or anything. So that's been
Speaker 1: like kind of low on my priority list. Honestly, it
Speaker 1: is to feel like I'm tagging along with his stuff.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: You already told us what grocery store you guys are
Speaker 2: Rewards Card members at, So we'll do the usual and
Speaker 2: call and pretend to be from the grocery store and
Speaker 2: tell him that he's this month's big winner of a
Speaker 2: dozen long stim red roses delivered anyone that he wants
Speaker 2: and will see if he sends those to you or
Speaker 2: to somebody else. Okay, play us. I'll come back and
Speaker 2: then call him and get you to catch a Cheater. Next,
Speaker 2: right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, if
Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Addison is on the phone and
Speaker 2: she thinks that her husband of two years they've been
Speaker 2: together for five years total might be cheating on hers.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and pretend to be
Speaker 2: from the grocery store that their Rewards Card member at
Speaker 2: and say that we do a promotion every single month
Speaker 2: where one of our Rewards Card members wins free flowers
Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that they want and will see. I
Speaker 2: he sends those to his wife or to somebody else,
Speaker 2: and hopefully he's not cheating, but Adison, Before we do that,
Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation.
Speaker 1: So we're in a new city. You've been spending a
Speaker 1: lot of time at work, and especially with his new
Speaker 1: coworker called Amber. I haven't met her. I don't really
Speaker 1: know the situation, and so he doesn't want to travel
Speaker 1: home for Thanksgiving and is telling me to go instead.
Speaker 2: Hopefully he's not. But are you ready to call him?
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Gorbel calling
Speaker 2: from SIRS. I was looking for a rewards card member
Speaker 2: named Eli.
Speaker 1: Yes, this is Eli.
Speaker 2: Hi Eli, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling with some good news. Congratulations,
Speaker 2: you're this month's big winner.
Speaker 1: Thank you, guys.
Speaker 4: That's what this is.
Speaker 2: The flowers.
Speaker 4: The flowers, Okay, I'm not sure what.
Speaker 2: Oh, maybe you don't know. Every single month, we choose
Speaker 2: one rewards card member totally random, who wins free flowers
Speaker 2: delivered from our Florida apartment. You just won thirty six
Speaker 2: long stem red roses. About it, the candy and a
Speaker 2: card to be delivered to anybody that you want, absolutely free.
Speaker 1: This is fantastic.
Speaker 4: I guess what happens next.
Speaker 2: It's very easy. I can take the information down in
Speaker 2: just a matter of minutes over the phone. If you
Speaker 2: want to do that right now, and you know who
Speaker 2: you want to send them to, I could do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, we can just do it one.
Speaker 2: That's fine, perfect, First and last name of the person
Speaker 2: that you'd like to send them to.
Speaker 1: First, sure, so her name is Addison. Last name Dan
Speaker 1: is mine. It's actually my wife.
Speaker 2: And do you want a card to go with that?
Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's write in I love you, princess.
Speaker 4: Let's get dinner out tonight and talk about the holidays,
Speaker 4: but spelt daz.
Speaker 2: Because it's just a year in a daze. It's crazy.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, then I'll just let you know that this is
Speaker 2: not the grocery store. My name is Jewbol this is
Speaker 2: a radio show called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 1: Hi.
Speaker 3: Hi, I'm Nina on the show.
Speaker 1: Hilarious. Yeah, I've actually I know you guys.
Speaker 4: I know I've heard this show before.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, have you heard that to catch cheater segment?
Speaker 4: Yes I have, And I feel like this is a
Speaker 4: little bit of a trip, but yes I have.
Speaker 1: It's a truth seeker.
Speaker 2: Yeah, your wife is on the phone, and this is
Speaker 2: a segment that we do to see who people send
Speaker 2: flowers to in case they might be cheating.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, I'm really confused why we're doing this.
Speaker 1: I don't know, It's just it was really a show
Speaker 1: with you know, wanting to come home for the holidays,
Speaker 1: and yeah, taken work, and like, you just keep talking
Speaker 1: about Amber, and I'm just feeling at the outside and
Speaker 1: something's just not quite adding up. So I'm really happy
Speaker 1: to hear that you don't want to send flowers to
Speaker 1: anybody from me. No, I definitely do not.
Speaker 4: I promise you that there isn't anything you need to
Speaker 4: worry about with Amber. In fact, Amber's wife Sarah would
Speaker 4: probably laugh at this too. Ohison, So I did lie
Speaker 4: about having to work on the holidays a little bit,
Speaker 4: so Edison, the part in this note about the holiday,
Speaker 4: you know about us traveling home looking you know, we've
Speaker 4: been together for years now, and every year we go
Speaker 4: back and forth to our families and we try to
Speaker 4: be good kids to our parents and all that. But
Speaker 4: now that we've moved away, that's a little bit different.
Speaker 4: And I wanted to propose to you over the holidays
Speaker 4: but you know, I'm.
Speaker 1: Talking to your parents first of course.
Speaker 4: About doing it, and I thought to be a nice
Speaker 4: little change if we do a friends giving this year.
Speaker 4: This way I can introduce you to Amber and her
Speaker 4: wife Sarah. Plus I've been kind of friendly with.
Speaker 1: Some of your work friends a little bit.
Speaker 4: And maybe have them over to kind of ease into
Speaker 4: this new surroundings in our new living situation before I
Speaker 4: we kind of.
Speaker 3: Do that communication is key. Who are y'all? How this
Speaker 3: didn't come up before? Is blowing my mind? No offense,
Speaker 3: prob I just I mean, there's so much room for interpretation.
Speaker 1: Wait, so you want to have people over and do
Speaker 1: more of a holiday thing at our place?
Speaker 4: Yeah, basically that's what my thought was kind of a
Speaker 4: friend giving and just had to go over Crown to
Speaker 4: hang out and not worry.
Speaker 1: About work stuff.
Speaker 4: Have you know these people, introduce you to some of
Speaker 4: my work friends, ones that you don't know, like Amber,
Speaker 4: you know, have some of your work friends over to
Speaker 4: and just be just kind of chill.
Speaker 1: About it and just be open about it.
Speaker 4: And day, I mean I was a little I get
Speaker 4: scared or just you know, Uh, I'm not sure about
Speaker 4: how to bring it up because I know how close
Speaker 4: you are to your family.
Speaker 1: I know this means a big deal to.
Speaker 4: You going back there for the holidays. I didn't want
Speaker 4: to upset you. I know you're still trying to get
Speaker 4: comfortable with the new surround and you know, the new
Speaker 4: living situation. Honestly, I don't know how else to bring
Speaker 4: it up, So that was kind of my thought with this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean, I think the thing that doesn't
Speaker 1: make sense is like pushing me to go home anyway.
Speaker 1: So I understand why it'd be hesitant to bring it
Speaker 1: up and everything, But I don't know. I would be
Speaker 1: happy to have people over and do our own thing, honestly,
Speaker 1: Like traveling is so much, especially around the holidays, so
Speaker 1: I do think it's kind of time to like have
Speaker 1: our own traditions around some of these things.
Speaker 3: Side note, I think there's one thing that you guys
Speaker 3: are forgetting and why it's so important to communicate. I
Speaker 3: know you've been spending the holidays with your families, but
Speaker 3: who's cooking? Who's in charge of the food? That means
Speaker 3: so much preparation, Like you're stressing me out right now.
Speaker 3: My man did not tell me that I was cooking
Speaker 3: in a week for all of these people, I would
Speaker 3: be flipping at.
Speaker 1: A pot lug. Y'all can say out.
Speaker 2: So maybe Amber's wife is cooking. That's also another thing, okay,
Speaker 2: but that had be gone for a second.
Speaker 1: That's all he was worried about.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because some people have to actually feed people on
Speaker 3: the holidays.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we're getting it catered with. There you go. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I trust you, and I'm sorry I brought you
Speaker 1: on the radio, but I love you and I'm so
Speaker 1: excited to do the holidays together. I'm excited too, bab,
Speaker 1: and I love you.
Speaker 4: And I guess I should have been more clear and
Speaker 4: more communicative.
Speaker 1: And I apologize.
Speaker 4: And we're going to figure this out and let's go
Speaker 4: out for dinner tonight and discuss it more. And I
Speaker 4: think we're I think we're going to be okay though.
Speaker 3: And you guys can do the thing with the mashed potatoes.
Speaker 3: What you don't know about the thing with the mashed potatoes, No,
Speaker 3: I need to learn. I're just gonna say you eat
Speaker 3: it anyway.
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