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Speaker 1: Welcome to reasonably shady mail bagooooing. Okay, I want to

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Speaker 1: tell them that to ching chanting like male like like

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Speaker 1: like what like like when you have you know, back

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Speaker 1: in the day that sounds like a casino or you're

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Speaker 1: thinking no, like on your phone, like, oh you've got mail. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: never never mind, never mind. Okay, this is our mail bag.

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Speaker 1: This is our mail bag. Yes, okay, we're in our bag.

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Speaker 2: Letters to read.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is from Shelley Barbie. Yeah. So I was

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Speaker 1: watching Real Housewives on Miami season seven, episode fifteen, and

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Speaker 1: the ladies went on a cruise and they had an

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Speaker 1: eighties theme. All the ladies showed a throwback picture of themselves,

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Speaker 1: all but large to Pippen. Oh really, Oh, Lars's Piper

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Speaker 1: showed a pick of her favorite musician instead, which made

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Speaker 1: me think she looks nothing like how she was born

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Speaker 1: since she didn't want to show a pic of herself.

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Speaker 1: That plastic surgery is something else. Did this really happen?

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Speaker 2: I guess? So. I don't know, but.

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Speaker 1: They put up side by sides of her all the time.

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Speaker 2: But she doesn't intentionally put as side by side up,

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Speaker 2: so I guess she probably didn't want to like open

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Speaker 2: that discussion, right, yeah, so if if she would have

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Speaker 2: put a throwback picture and you know what, they're being

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Speaker 2: so shady and we know the producer on that show, yes,

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Speaker 2: and I know he probably intentionally chose this activity now

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Speaker 2: that you say that absolutely, yes, as a freaking look. Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: intentially chose that activity so that Larsa could put a

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Speaker 2: picture of herself pre surgery. Yeah, and have to answer

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Speaker 2: very pretty girl, yeah, yes, very pretty pretty woman. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I have to answer the questions of why she doesn't

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Speaker 2: look anything like that person, Like it's not even close,

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Speaker 2: Like you can't you put a side by side and

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Speaker 2: I don't. I mean, I'm not judging, but when you

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Speaker 2: do put a side by side, there's no resemblance of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and normally you can you can see some resemblance.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, yeah, most people who have plastic surgery,

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Speaker 2: it's just you've just they've just been enhanced. Yes, it's

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Speaker 2: only them, but they just have been a little tight

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Speaker 2: and a little plumped and enhanced. But I don't I

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Speaker 2: don't see a resemblance. So so yes, this person whoever

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Speaker 2: route in that's being shady.

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Speaker 1: Yes, But Larissa for not.

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Speaker 2: Putting up her picture. She probably didn't want to open

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Speaker 2: the door to that conversation.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, okay, this is from Denise hal you Puka Halukah.

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Speaker 1: I think I said it right. Oh, here's a rap

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Speaker 1: for the two ladies. Okay, here we go, Robin and Giselle.

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Speaker 1: These are two queens keeping you happen behind the scene.

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Speaker 1: One has two boys, the other three girls. Ones into basketball,

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Speaker 1: the other one curls. They give you this group about

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Speaker 1: what's going on. Then they'll slip you a tail or.

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Speaker 1: It's a con they'll take you to heaven and back

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Speaker 1: to how these tec they'll take you to heaven and

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Speaker 1: back to hades. These two queens are reasonably shady. That

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Speaker 1: was good. Okay, Okay, I see you were getting you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna keep We're gonna keep Her're not gonna throw

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Speaker 1: this one away. We're gonna keep it because this is

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Speaker 1: gonna be part of the rap. Yes, yes, okay.

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Speaker 2: Hurry, I have an email from Brad. All right, Hey Brad,

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Speaker 2: this is about neighbor drama.

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Speaker 1: More neighbor drama.

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Speaker 2: We'll got the neighbor drama. Hey, Rob and Giselle. I've

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Speaker 2: been a huge fan of RCHP since the beginning and

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Speaker 2: listener of the pod since day one, as well driving

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Speaker 2: home in traffic and listening to the episode about neighborhood drama.

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Speaker 2: I can definitely relate, yes, he says. I'm from Australia,

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Speaker 2: so our relationships with neighbors are pretty important as we

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Speaker 2: tend to see a lot of each other. When I

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Speaker 2: built my home a few years ago, my next door

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Speaker 2: neighbors were cool. Everything started off great, really easy to

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Speaker 2: were a few things that annoyed me about them, but

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Speaker 2: I didn't really say anything. After six months, it started

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Speaker 2: to get too annoying that I have to say something.

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Speaker 2: Biggest mistake ever. Oh lol. Basically, I had a problem

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Speaker 2: with their cat jumping my fence and shitting all through

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Speaker 2: Then I come home from work Monday and I find

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Speaker 2: cat shit all over my DRIVERA oh god, what the

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Speaker 2: hell is going on? He? So I checked my security

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Speaker 2: cameras and I see their son swinging a plastic bag

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Speaker 2: around walking it down to the rubbish bin. Obviously, this

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Speaker 2: plastic bag was full of catshit and glitter, which broke

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Speaker 2: open and sprayed everywhere.

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Speaker 1: No, I lost my mind.

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Speaker 2: Yes, this was the beginning of the inn.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's over. Lol, it's over, but.

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Speaker 2: I was committed to payback.

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Speaker 1: Payback is a bit.

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Speaker 2: I ring the doorbell ding dong, the mother comes to

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Speaker 2: the door, and it's instantly aggressive, which makes ME become

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Speaker 2: aggressive towards her and us gazed, and I tend to

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Speaker 1: The next level.

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Speaker 2: Lol. It started off with little things like seeing when

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Speaker 2: she was hanging her washing out on the closeline would

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Speaker 2: coincide with me lighting my fire get all that sinety smoke.

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Speaker 2: Then she decided she was going to plant all of

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Speaker 2: these rose bushes down the side of her driveway, which

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Speaker 2: are scratching my car when I drove up. So in

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Speaker 2: the dead of the night, Yes, I ventured down the driveway, Yes,

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Speaker 2: with a container of weed killer and sprayed every last

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Speaker 2: damn rose bush of her geta. Seeing the roses slowly

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Speaker 2: die over the next week was funny enough, but seeing

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Speaker 2: her try to salvage them was even funnier. She reminded

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Speaker 2: me of more Titia Adams pruning and putting dead roses

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Speaker 2: in a Vade's neighbor drama is so real, but it

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Speaker 2: can sometimes be like a sport where there is no

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Speaker 2: sport on TV to enjoy. Lol. Anyway, I love listening

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Speaker 2: to the pod And if you ever get to Australia,

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Speaker 2: you have to get down to Melbourne.

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Speaker 1: Oh we'll definitely come to Melbourne, so you can't go

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Speaker 1: on that way or not? Yes, Oh my gosh, I

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Speaker 1: love that.

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Speaker 2: I love the tit for dead. I mean yes, she

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Speaker 2: doesn't know that you killed her roses.

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Speaker 1: She I mean she knows now because she listens to.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that would be so crazy, but.

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Speaker 1: You killed her rop w. This is crazy, That is funny.

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Speaker 1: That is comedy. All right. This is from Millied Milliad

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Speaker 1: Milliad nor Hi. Robin and Giselle two of my favorite

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Speaker 1: housewives of all time. I've been a super fan of

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Speaker 1: both of you since the trailer first dropped for RHLP

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Speaker 1: season one. Thank you. I can even remember where I

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Speaker 1: was when I first saw it. I remember on season

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Speaker 1: one seeing the scene of Robin showing Jizzy her wedding

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Speaker 1: dress from her first wedding with Wine and the rest

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Speaker 1: is history. I was a green eyed bandit supporter before

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Speaker 1: I ask, before I ask, mine, is it reasonable or

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Speaker 1: podcast gets me through periods where my anxiety is through

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Speaker 1: the roof and I end up listening to the newest

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Speaker 1: episode like five times before the next one drops. So

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Speaker 1: thank you for adding the new fan mail episode so

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Speaker 1: I don't have to wait too long. Oh this is

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Speaker 2: Yes, well, thank you for listening five times over.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I love that. I love that. Keep the downloads going? Yes,

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Speaker 1: my is it reasonably? A shady question? Is every birthday

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Speaker 1: of mine I invite all my friends to one thing,

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Speaker 1: which typically is dinner and drinks. I have quite a

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Speaker 1: lot of friends and all our different friendship groups. All

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Speaker 1: friendships reigns from twenty seven to ten years, and I'm

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Speaker 1: thirty three years old, a thirty three year old guy

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Speaker 1: from the UK. Okay, So every year I tell the

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Speaker 1: people in the group chat message I make, which is

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Speaker 1: normally normally around twenty five to thirty people, please do

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Speaker 1: not worry if you can't come. This is the This

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Speaker 1: You don't even need to tell me or tell me

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Speaker 1: the reason. Just vote in the poll yes or no

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Speaker 1: if you can come. So I can make the reservation.

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Speaker 1: Even after explaining all of this to them, people still

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Speaker 1: message separately. Bear in mind, I make the group chat

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Speaker 1: setting that only I can send messages with their reasons

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Speaker 1: why they can't come. Okay, First of all, that is

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Speaker 1: very annoying to me, because respectfully, I just need to

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Speaker 1: just need to vote in the poll. But my main

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Speaker 1: issue is the ones that can't come and message me

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Speaker 1: always try to make other plans so that they can

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Speaker 1: feel okay about missing my main event.

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Speaker 2: Like to say, like, oh I can't make it, but

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Speaker 2: let's do lunch. Let me take you out to lunch

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Speaker 2: next week. I see.

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Speaker 1: I think it is seriously shady that every year I

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Speaker 1: want to pa. I get that, Oh, I get that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you just want to do it one time

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Speaker 1: Please let me know your thoughts. Am I being reasonable

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Speaker 1: so I'm already thinking about what I can plan for

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Speaker 1: next year to avoid having to make one hundred plans

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Speaker 2: Right, Okay, I respect that. Wooh, I appreciate it me too, Yes,

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Speaker 1: Want your birthday Well, first of all, is it reasonably

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Speaker 2: I think it's shady, but I think they're doing it

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Speaker 2: I feel like you have to be really like what specific? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yes, so melas other rules. I think his name is

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Speaker 1: my lad, so he needs to just be like he

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Speaker 1: needs to start saying no when these other people are like, hey,

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Speaker 1: can can we go out on Tuesday and not your

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: No, I'm going out on Friday. This is my day, right.

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Speaker 2: But I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not mad at doing some things at another time,

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Speaker 2: And I think it's like, Okay, no, I just want

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Speaker 2: to celebrate my birthday one time and that's it. Like

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Speaker 2: I don't need we don't need to stretch it out.

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Speaker 2: You don't need to, you know, keep doing it multiple

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Speaker 2: times because that's your time. Like, I'm sure you're busy,

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Speaker 2: you know whatever, whether it's with work and your own

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Speaker 2: personal life, Like you don't have time to just yes,

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Speaker 2: go out multiple times to celebrate your birthday if that's

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Speaker 2: not what you want to do, right.

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Speaker 1: So either my recommendation is either say no or tell

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Speaker 1: these people that can't make it on your day to

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Speaker 1: oh nice, and paid for it.

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Speaker 2: Oh that was nice.

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Speaker 1: Not only did she do that which has never been

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Speaker 1: that's what you do if you can't make the event.

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Speaker 2: even but even if you're telling like, hey, it's no

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Speaker 1: Like I invited Robinson my birthday.

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Speaker 2: She did nothing.

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Speaker 1: I do nothing, and I was fine with it. I

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Speaker 1: But like if people are demanding your time, it's so

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Speaker 2: But I think they're doing it because they feel bad

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Speaker 2: but next time, just be a little just be more

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Speaker 2: direct and more specific in the group chat. Hey, this

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Speaker 2: is my birthday plans. If you can't make it, no worries.

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Speaker 2: Please don't worry about getting together at another child of

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Speaker 1: Right and then, and then when they ask you anyway,

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Speaker 1: say no, Hope. I told you, Hope.

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Speaker 2: Can you read? Do you understand? What? Do you can

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Speaker 1: Hope? Yeah? Okay, that's it for the mail bag today.

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Speaker 1: We love y'all.

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Speaker 2: Bye,