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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us with a

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest. Tanya Patty, Good morning, Patty. How are you.

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Speaker 1: I am doing great. I had a good weekend. Good.

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Speaker 1: It seems like you had to ponder that for a moment.

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Speaker 1: Did you have to think about where'd you go? You?

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Speaker 1: You were right there. I could see seeing me. I

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Speaker 1: have two admude through my laptop and it's a challenge sometimes,

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Speaker 1: you know, buttons on the laptop when you need to

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Speaker 1: be fast and something like this. In this game, that's tricky.

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Speaker 1: You know, Tubbs has got me on these mice and

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Speaker 1: in this game, I'm on mice and that's not that's

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Speaker 1: not a quick game. Tubs these mice, you know, it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: just press the mice. I'm like, press the mice. I

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Speaker 1: gotta drag the mice. The mice goes across two screens.

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Speaker 1: This mice is all over the places you have mice?

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Speaker 1: Do you do have all these mice? No? My button

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Speaker 1: is is pretty easy to click. And that's good because

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Speaker 1: I have to hear my throat a lot. So I

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Speaker 1: have to me too. You know what's interesting, I'm starting

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Speaker 1: to like see a lot of things, like you clear

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Speaker 1: your throat a lot, and I never used to have

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Speaker 1: to clear my throat and now I have to do it.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I think about you often, thought, so

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Speaker 1: you're starting When I wake up in the middle of

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Speaker 1: the night and I have thoughts that go through my

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Speaker 1: what Ryan talks about. Like, I feel like I'm starting

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Speaker 1: to have some of your tendencies. Really, what's next? I

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Speaker 1: don't know, maybe some nut love. Yeah, I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you once you start getting into those nuts like I

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Speaker 1: eat him, here's the issue time. I want to warn

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Speaker 1: you now if you start getting into the nut tendency

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Speaker 1: that I have, almonds, okay, skin and crunchy. And the

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Speaker 1: issue is, if you don't floss, you're gonna have real

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Speaker 1: You're gonna real visitation the next morning. So I don't

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Speaker 1: do you lost every night, floss every night and every

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Speaker 1: morning stop why every morning? If you just sit in

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Speaker 1: the night before, I don't know you're supposed to do that?

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Speaker 1: And I have, um, what are they called the retainers,

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Speaker 1: the permanent retainers. So I feel like it's important for

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Speaker 1: me to get in there. And again, maybe I'm dentally

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Speaker 1: inaccurate on this. But if you floss the night before

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Speaker 1: you go to sleep, and you'll put anything in your

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Speaker 1: mouth the next morning, what are you flossing out? I

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Speaker 1: don't know, plaque. And I'm also a little bit like

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Speaker 1: paranoid about my breath lately because my best friend told

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Speaker 1: me my breath smells or gets stale. Brush your tongue,

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Speaker 1: brush your tongue. So brush your tongue. I do brush

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Speaker 1: my tongue and you don't. Often I brush my teeth now.

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Speaker 1: I I brush my teeth too many. I think that

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Speaker 1: over brush, I'm gonna wear off the enamel. It's not good.

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Speaker 1: And I think it's because of all the coffee that

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Speaker 1: we drink, so by the end of the day, our

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Speaker 1: breath is kind of like. Well, no, after you drink coffee,

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Speaker 1: you have to brush your teeth immediately. I do, Otherwise

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Speaker 1: it gets stale and it gets spack lee. You know

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Speaker 1: what about instead of brushing, you rinse with the mouthwash.

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Speaker 1: Will that be better? Do that too? You should see both? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Can I take a video? So true? Like the amount

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Speaker 1: of utensils and things that we need for our just

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Speaker 1: to get through this well, no, just to get through

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Speaker 1: the four or five hours. We're in these rooms, these studios.

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Speaker 1: I got drawers. Yeah, let me pop over from that drawer.

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Speaker 1: Let's see. I've got I've got scope in there. Oral,

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Speaker 1: I've got an Oral B variety pack. You have, It's

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Speaker 1: like a serial variety pack. They got all the oral

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Speaker 1: B instruments I got here. Look at this. Are you

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Speaker 1: talking about? What's up? Watch? Watch yourself? Oral B pro health, toothbrushes.

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Speaker 1: I got what is this? A six pack? This? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: carry one wherever you go. So I have to ask, Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's there's so much I have to ask when this happens,

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Speaker 1: Listen to this. When this happens, is it the universe speaking?

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Speaker 1: Or is it you just looking for the next best thing?

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Speaker 1: That's the real question I would ask. Serena, who's on

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Speaker 1: the phone. She said she had the talk with her boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: which the talk. We know what the talk is. The

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Speaker 1: talk is let's not see anybody else talk. She walks

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Speaker 1: away from the talk not to see anybody else. Then

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Speaker 1: she says, she meets the man of her dreams. Is

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Speaker 1: that right? That is correct? How long after the talk

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Speaker 1: did you meet this man of your dreams? So it

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Speaker 1: was just a few days later. Few days after we

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Speaker 1: had the conversation. Okay, and what is it that you're

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Speaker 1: asking us and what is on your mind about what

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Speaker 1: you're going to do. So this new guy that I met,

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Speaker 1: he is perfect, He seems like my dream guy, and

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Speaker 1: I just have a feeling about him, and I want

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Speaker 1: to know, do you think it's awful? Yes? With this

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Speaker 1: other guy? Yes, I think it's awful. Okay, Well, so

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Speaker 1: do I need to see do I need to talk

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Speaker 1: to the guy that I'm already seeing and tell him

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Speaker 1: that I'm kind of having these as for this other person.

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Speaker 1: So here's the thing. If you had to talk, you

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Speaker 1: can't go see the other guy. If you've had to

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Speaker 1: talk and you want to go back on the talk

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Speaker 1: and say that the talk has made you second guess something,

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Speaker 1: then you have to have that talk. But my question,

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Speaker 1: Serena for you is is this really about the guy

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Speaker 1: being the perfect guy for you the other guy or

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Speaker 1: is this a reaction to you having the exclusivity talk

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Speaker 1: and then wanting something the bigger, better deal. Um? I

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Speaker 1: don't think so. I think I just kind of felt

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Speaker 1: this ever happened to you before? This is not a theme,

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Speaker 1: is it? No, this is not a theme. I think

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Speaker 1: that there's psychology or something involved here. I think you're

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Speaker 1: reacting to your conversation about not being able to see

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Speaker 1: other people by seeing other people that you want to see.

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Speaker 1: Do you see I do you see what I'm saying?

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Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. But I feel like, in

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Speaker 1: my head, this other guy is just going to be there,

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Speaker 1: and I can't stop thinking about him, And every time

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Speaker 1: I'm with the guy that I've been dating, I'm just

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Speaker 1: thinking about this other guy. Well, you only have one choice.

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Speaker 1: Then you've got to go back to the guy you

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Speaker 1: had to talk with and have another talk, saying that

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Speaker 1: the talk is irrelevant. You want to go see the

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Speaker 1: other guy who's your dream guy. Yeah, I think you

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Speaker 1: guys are right. Now. What if he's not your dream

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Speaker 1: with that you're gonna go see this guy and you

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Speaker 1: go back to the guy, the original guy, and he

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to have any part of it, then I

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Speaker 1: guess I'm back at square one. Yeah, but at least

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Speaker 1: you're at back at square one, not like thinking what

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Speaker 1: if I didn't. I didn't try it with my dream guy. True. True,

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Speaker 1: I think I've got a stick with my gut. Well, listen,

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Speaker 1: Square one, Tony, and I've lived there for a decade,

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Speaker 1: so you know, yeah, it's pretty chill. It's fine. Yeah. Thanks,

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Speaker 1: you're right, Thank you, guys. Good luck except square. Okay,

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Speaker 1: she's a modern woman. Mm hmmm. Here's your morning hack.

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Speaker 1: It's a tip for the profile pick that you're using

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Speaker 1: on dating apps. Um, if you use this in your photo,

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Speaker 1: you get twelve fewer matches. I feel like I can

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Speaker 1: guess what is it? Filter? No, Patty, do you want

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Speaker 1: to guess duck lips? No? But I would say yes

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Speaker 1: to that, But that's not what this is. I'm over

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Speaker 1: duck lips. There, you know I love duck lips. You

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Speaker 1: still do duck lips? No, not to like smiles. Oh

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Speaker 1: you do duck lips too, Patty, No, not the like

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Speaker 1: nasty duck lips. You're very subtle. What are nasty duck lips?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? You should see this. Okay, now, far matches?

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Speaker 1: If you wear sunglasses you don't like sunglasses? And smile

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Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, I see a caller, It says anonymous. Anytime

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Speaker 1: we see an anonymous call, we have to take it

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Speaker 1: and you have to be anonymous. But they make two

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Speaker 1: of us. Yeah, anonymous caller, Hi, Hi for this call.

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Speaker 1: And this call only we shall both stay anonymous. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: it sounds good. Great. How may I help you? I

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Speaker 1: am having, um some trouble. I'm getting married one and um,

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Speaker 1: i'm having some grandma with my in law with your

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Speaker 1: mother in law. Yes, okay, welcome me home. So we're

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Speaker 1: doing the reception at her backyard. We are my Beyonce

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Speaker 1: and I are paying for the entire wedding. But now

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Speaker 1: But here's the way I would handle it if I

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Speaker 1: were in a situation. The person to tell her is

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Speaker 1: your soon to be husband. Yes, he should be the

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Speaker 1: vehicle to convey the message. Have you tried that I have? Um.

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Speaker 1: at me saying it's so minimal, like you should be

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Speaker 1: or whatnot, Like you should be focusing on figure stuff.

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Speaker 1: Well you shouldn't. You should be focusing on what you

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Speaker 1: believe the best path two keeping her from micromanaging is

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Speaker 1: is the message coming from her son. So what you

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Speaker 1: need to do is figure out how do you get

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Speaker 1: your how do you get her son your fiance to

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Speaker 1: convey the message on your behalf or his behalf so

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Speaker 1: that you can keep right. I think you going to

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Speaker 1: her honestly creates weird tension. It has to be him.

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Speaker 1: And look, I me're about to marry the guy. He's

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Speaker 1: to me, that's the best way to getting it done

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Speaker 1: I don't think she has to say anything. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's her wedding and she's uncomfortable. Then she but look

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Speaker 1: for a second, the reception, Oh she's still there. I'm

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Speaker 1: not anonymous. Sorry. The reception is she that's her in

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Speaker 1: law's domain. Fine, let that be. There's the wedding is there,

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Speaker 1: but it's a couple of flowers here and there, And

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Speaker 1: spend the rest of your life like exactly, so she

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Speaker 1: should start listening to what she wants. But put yourself

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Speaker 1: Here's what's gonna happen. So you found this receipt from

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Speaker 1: It's a far hun. We got to walk around it.

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Speaker 1: he didn't. He said he didn't want to get into trouble. Now,

422
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: Olivia jumps in on the call and we asked him

423
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 1: what he what do you mean by that? He said

424
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 1: he didn't want to get into any credit card trouble.

425
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: His wife did not believe it. He confessed that he

426
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 1: was with his old fraternity brothers and friends, and he

427
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 1: didn't tell her because he feels that he always can't

428
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 1: go out without her and not get in trouble. Right.

429
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: So that's the issue that Patty brought up. But here

430
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: is part of the call. Listen, we have that dumb

431
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:56,120
Speaker 1: rule that we don't we can't go anywhere without each other.

432
00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: We can like we got to walk around it. So

433
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 1: then he asked Olivia this. If I would ask you, hey,

434
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: here's my fraternity for union, I want to go out,

435
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: what would you have fed Olivia? I would have said, yeah,

436
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: I want to I want to go with you. I

437
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 1: would love to be with you. So Patty says, poor guy.

438
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,680
Speaker 1: We said, what do you mean, poor guy? The guy

439
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: can't go out with his buddies without getting in trouble.

440
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: And Tony said, well, if his wife wants to go,

441
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 1: she should be able to go. A lot of calls

442
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,119
Speaker 1: on that eight D five to one or two seven

443
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: at KIS seven. Here's Simona Inglewood. I just see on

444
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 1: the screen it says poor guy. So Simone, why do

445
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: you say poor guy? Because Patty is absolutely right. First

446
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,639
Speaker 1: of all, he he knows his wife. He knows that

447
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: if he acts, he's gonna say, I want to go.

448
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,439
Speaker 1: I think it's healthy in a relationship too. For you know,

449
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 1: a guy that it was something every once in a

450
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: while and a girl to do it with her girls

451
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 1: every once in a while. He knew she was going

452
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: to want to being on it. Yeah, well I will

453
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: tell you this. Every single call is saying that Olivia

454
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 1: is wrong, and some are saying, I'm just gonna read this,

455
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,959
Speaker 1: and Terry says that lady is off her rocker. Let

456
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,639
Speaker 1: me grab that call, all right, Santa Clarita, Good morning,

457
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 1: How are you? Hi'm good? How are you? I'm good?

458
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: So you say she's off her rocker? Yes, I think

459
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: that is so long, just like what's the previous color

460
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 1: was just saying, like I me and my husband had

461
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 1: been together sixteen years, we've been married for ten, but

462
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: never once even when I did it when I was younger.

463
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 1: I think it's just a selfist thinking, like when we

464
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 1: would go out together, they don't get mad at they're

465
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: dancing with someone else. I mean, you kind of watched

466
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 1: closely and stuff. And I think maybe because maybe she's

467
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,439
Speaker 1: been cheated on before, maybe she knows people who's been

468
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:53,119
Speaker 1: cheated on. But that's definitely not healthy. Well, the problem

469
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 1: is problem. He already feels he's got a tiptoe around.

470
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: He's just gonna he's just gonna do more things in secrecy.

471
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: He feels like he's going to be in big trouble

472
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:03,400
Speaker 1: and in the doghouse if he's hanging out with this boy.

473
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: If that's all legit that he was hanging out with

474
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: his fraternity brothers. Then he's just gonna keep not telling

475
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 1: her stuff so not to get in trouble while doing

476
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 1: things with his boys. You know exactly. That's worse. And

477
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: she doesn't understand that. And like he was saying, what

478
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,640
Speaker 1: would you have said if I told you I wanted

479
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: to go? She I would have said yes, but I

480
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: would have wanted to die. And it's like, oh my god,

481
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,439
Speaker 1: that's why he didn't tell you. And whether he stays

482
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 1: with her or if he leaves her, she's definitely going

483
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,800
Speaker 1: to have a problem in future relationships because she's not

484
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: gonna understand that. You guys need that space. Yes, what

485
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 1: we want to be with our husbands, we both need

486
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,640
Speaker 1: that time apart. You still need to be able to

487
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 1: maintain your friendships exactly. Well, thanks you for calling. Now

488
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 1: let me jump to Patty in l A. Patty, you

489
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 1: say that he should leave her. She's she's crazy. I

490
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: mean I would have ran for the hills a long

491
00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: time ago. She says, it's very person so he should

492
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: just pack up and get out of the marriage. Oh,

493
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 1: I mean not not not so much like that, But

494
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 1: I mean I don't think they're in a good relationship.

495
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 1: You're not in a trusting one for sure. Yeah. Very unhealthy.

496
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: And I wouldn't. I would have that long. I couldn't.

497
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: I can count on one hand the number of times

498
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: we've taken a call from someone that says that he

499
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 1: should leave her right, that the man should walk out right,

500
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: you should some way around, Um, Patty, thank you for

501
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 1: listening to us in l I appreciate you. Thank you, guys.

502
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 1: You have a good days. Hello there, Ethan, how are you,

503
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: buddy good? How are you? I'm great? Thank you for asking?

504
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 1: So how can I help you? Bro um Well? A

505
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: guy that I used to date who's now Mary Cooman.

506
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: Over the weekend I got a message on Instagram from him.

507
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: So here's the message. It says, Hey, it's m Hey.

508
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: His name. UM, I've been stationed overseas, but now I'm

509
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 1: back to civilian life living in Laguna for a while.

510
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: Would love to catch up. Let me know in your

511
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: free kissy face. And I haven't responded because I have

512
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: no idea what to say. I feel like nothing good

513
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: can come responding, But you know I don't. I don't

514
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: want to be rude. I followed him on Instagram and

515
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,880
Speaker 1: I know he he is still with his wife. Oh

516
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 1: he's so you dated him. Was he married when he

517
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: dated him? No, so you dated him when he was

518
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,719
Speaker 1: not married then he got married to a woman. Yes,

519
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: all right, this is a complicated situation, so you don't

520
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:45,479
Speaker 1: want to be rude, And I don't think you have

521
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: to be rude, like, I think you can respond, but

522
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: I think you need to probably be clear your intention

523
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 1: when you respond. And I don't think your intention is

524
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: to get involved with him, right right, I think his

525
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: intentions might be to hook up. Well it sounds like

526
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: based on the kissie face. Yeah, so I mean tiny

527
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: shaking a right. I don't I'm not a big believer

528
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 1: in you know, I don't think you need to blow

529
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 1: him off and not respond. I mean, the guy was

530
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 1: clearly representing our country overseas, right, and you clearly had

531
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: a relationship with him, So there's no reason to be

532
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: rude or not respond. But I think you have to

533
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: be very clear in your response that you're not open

534
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 1: to being with him while he's married, if that's your view, yeah, yeah,

535
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: and he's I know they've got kids too, Yeah, I

536
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: think you have to be very clear so they don't

537
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: cause a problem. Yeah, that's good, Thank you all right, Ethan,

538
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 1: thanks for calling. Thanks okay too. Now Ethan's going to

539
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: do the absolute opposite, but at least he heard us out.

540
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't think it's rude not to respond. If somebody

541
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,960
Speaker 1: sends you a message and it's insinuating something and you

542
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: see that they're married and they're in a relationship. I

543
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: really I do not think that it's rude if you

544
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: don't respond. It's just kind of saying I'm not interested.

545
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: And there was a kissy face like there's no reason

546
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 1: to response. I think I I just feel like it's

547
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: more respectful they had a relationship. Um, I think it's

548
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: more respectful just to say I'm so glad you're safe

549
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 1: and back at home, and I just need you to

550
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,239
Speaker 1: understand it's not okay that you know we communicate like this,

551
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: or that we get together or whatever it is you

552
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: want to say. But I'd rather him respond than not

553
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: responding opening open the door. That's why I said, your

554
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: intention has to be very clear, shut it down by

555
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 1: telling the wife, hey, your husband's sending me messages. Well,

556
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,680
Speaker 1: I don't think I think no, no, no, I would

557
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: I would appreciate if a woman came to me and said, hey,

558
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: you know, so and so is sending me messages like

559
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: I think Ethan has one response, and that is I'm

560
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: glad you're safe at home. Thank you for serving our country.

561
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: Uh period. Yeah, this is not for me, you know.

562
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: Or you've made a choice and I wish you luck

563
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: and that's it and be done and not respond again.

564
00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 1: M hmm. That sounds like that guy's let's send a

565
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 1: message back to Etan and say, well you know that then,

566
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: but then stop. But I think it's totally appropriate to

567
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 1: be clear. So Ethan called us and he said he

568
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: used to date a guy and I don't know Ethan.

569
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 1: He just happened to call up a few minutes ago. Um,

570
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: and it's very interesting to see where people stand on this.

571
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: He got a message from this guy he used to date,

572
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: who is his ex who is now married to a woman,

573
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: and Ethan said that the guy reached down and said, hey,

574
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: it's me. I've been stationed overseas, but now I'm back

575
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: to civilian life living in Laguna for a while. Love

576
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 1: to catch up. Let me know when you're free. We

577
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: all had different points of viewing what to do. I said, look,

578
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: it's okay to respond to that one message out of

579
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: politeness and respect for the relationship you had and frankly

580
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: the fact that he maybe because I have this, you know,

581
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: my grandfather was in the service, so I think that

582
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: you should spawn because maybe that reason. But I think

583
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 1: it's okay as long as your intentions are clear and

584
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: you respond. Wants to say thank you. I'm glad you're okay,

585
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: thank you for what you're doing for our country. Welcome back.

586
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: But you need to focus on you know, your choices, uh,

587
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: and make it clear that the door is not open

588
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: and that you're not interested. That's what I think you thought. Differently,

589
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: you said, do not respond, ignore him completely, And Patty,

590
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: you say, reach out to his wife on social media

591
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: and tell his wife what he's trying to do. SAT

592
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: hundred five to one or two seven here at Kiss FM.

593
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: Let me grab Tracy in Los Angeles. Tracy, what would

594
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: you do? Oh my god, Ryan, it's a gateway to

595
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: help you. Don't answer that text. I do this for

596
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: a living, thank you? Oh my god, what do you

597
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: do for a living? I'm a psychic for a living,

598
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 1: so I'm constantly getting women that are calling me about

599
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: an EXCEP to marry. Don't do it. I personally I

600
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: had someone getting married on me. And two months later,

601
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: two months later, he contacted me through Twitter. I called

602
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: my son and I was like, this happened to me,

603
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: And my son was like, block came on every social media,

604
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: Block him from your phone. And I have been feeling

605
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: so much better because it's a gateway. And also the

606
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 1: text messages. You can delete your text message and bathed

607
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: them to say something. And then when his wife finds out,

608
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: she's gonna say, he's gonna be like, look, I didn't

609
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: like she did it. He did it it? Don't you

610
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:33,280
Speaker 1: a psychic? You can see the future. What's going to happen?

611
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: What is even going to do? Oh? No, well, he's

612
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: not gonna hate Unfortunately, he's I mean he's unfortunately, he's

613
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:44,760
Speaker 1: not gonna listen to you. He's not going to answer

614
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: that text. But you did confuse him. He's like he's

615
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:53,359
Speaker 1: sitting back thinking what the hell? But I I don't

616
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: think she can read his future unless she's like physically

617
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: with him, just him now. No, no, no, no, no,

618
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 1: I could read we outlets. Oh, let's cut to the chase, Tracy,

619
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: what's going to happen? With Kanya in the next year. Um, Tanya,

620
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 1: what's your sign? Cancer? Cancer? So you're going to go

621
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: through some major changes major. Um. There will be two

622
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: choices for you, Tanya. One will probably walk away for you,

623
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: and the other one is probably going to like make

624
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 1: you like stay inside their mind for you, like they're

625
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,479
Speaker 1: going to make you always think about them. One's gonna

626
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 1: be assigned leads to Gemini or Um Aquarius. The other

627
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: one is going to be cancer like you talk to

628
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: you or prices. Um. You're too strong for yourself. You're

629
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: too strong, you know, pull a little bit back can

630
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: be much more of a woman. When you're with your man.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be strong anywhere else. But in terms of dating,

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Speaker 1: way too strong. You also don't really trust men. They've

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Speaker 1: got to pull back. You've got a trust God in

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Speaker 1: the process, even the one with the Blaine trust God

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Speaker 1: in the process. If it's meant to be, it will be.

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Speaker 1: But you don't have to always work worry about someone

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Speaker 1: cheating on you. It's gonna happen. It's gonna happen. But

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Speaker 1: for some reason, you don't trust the water sign more

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Speaker 1: than the air sign that's coming along, and your miserable

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Speaker 1: at the same time. And I also think you're not

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Speaker 1: having enough dex, Like we gotta get that out of

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Speaker 1: the way. And the list goes on and on. Tracy,

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Speaker 1: she's getting a clear signal. Did you hear her reception

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Speaker 1: was a little spotty going over the hill and then

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Speaker 1: she got into the valley and strong. She has all bars,

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Speaker 1: all bars, Tracy with psychic reading, like, legit, gonna really

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Speaker 1: listen to Like I need this tape because you said

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Speaker 1: some things and I couldn't write them down fast enough

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Speaker 1: that you really get two guys, Yeah, the Aquarius and

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Speaker 1: the Scorpio, Like wows, she was right. Okay, well, Tracy,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling, and we are so

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Speaker 1: happy that you have a four bars? Five? How many

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Speaker 1: are bars? Do we get? Five bars? What's all right? Well,

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Speaker 1: you take care of Tracy the psychic alright, four bars.

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Speaker 1: If you get a fifth bar, you're really connected at

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Speaker 1: another level. Wow. I don't believe that stuff. Okay, you

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Speaker 1: know it's funny. I don't really either, but like she

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Speaker 1: really kinda hit the nail on the head and they

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Speaker 1: have all of her notes on a post on air

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Speaker 1: with Ryans. All right, this is Huntington beat Stephanie on

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Speaker 1: hold for tell me something good. Stephanie, you are on

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Speaker 1: with us? How are you? I'm doing great? How are

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Speaker 1: you good? So tell us something good. But my mother

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Speaker 1: in law got a new kidney and liver over the weekend.

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Speaker 1: How long was she waiting? I'm sure she was on

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Speaker 1: a list or waiting for those. Yeah, she was on

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Speaker 1: the list. It's actually a short time because they just

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Speaker 1: found out her levels got really bad and they gave

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Speaker 1: her about six months on her current level. So she

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Speaker 1: got one in with that within two weeks. And how relieved?

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Speaker 1: Is everybody really relieved? She's got four sons and ten

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Speaker 1: grandchildren and one on the way, and it's just awesome.

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Speaker 1: It makes you really appreciate those selfless individuals who have

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Speaker 1: donated their organs to be able to receive them. Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I know we we said he was an angel. So

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Speaker 1: what's your mother in law's name? Her name is Donna. Donna.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you for listening to us in

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Speaker 1: Huntington Beach. We appreciate stuff. Thanks so much. On air

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Speaker 1: with Ryan's Secrets. All right, let's get to Ali. Ali.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, how are you hey? I'm doing good? How

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Speaker 1: are you? We're fine and we understand that your coworker.

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Speaker 1: You have an issue, a grooming issue with your coworker, right. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I work in the pretty like conservative office building and

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Speaker 1: this guy who's pretty high up, just a couple of

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Speaker 1: roads behind me, and he clipped his fingernails and tonails

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Speaker 1: at his desk. Okay, Um, tonails bother me more than

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Speaker 1: the fingernails, and do they grow faster? Something is doing

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Speaker 1: this often. It's like every other day he's on a

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Speaker 1: conference call and it's a bad hat. It's like a

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Speaker 1: it's like a it's like a like a jittery fix.

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Speaker 1: I guess I just it's disgusting, like what we're eating

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Speaker 1: once we can hear it. Well. Has anyone given him

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Speaker 1: the eye or suggested that maybe he could do that

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Speaker 1: in private? We've tried. People even have their desks moved.

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Speaker 1: H yeah. Um, you know, I'm trying to think of

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Speaker 1: stuff that people have done around here. It's pretty much everything.

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Speaker 1: You know. Amy. Amy used to come in every morning,

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Speaker 1: and the person I thought of too well, she would

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Speaker 1: come in and she would her excuse was, oh, it's early,

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Speaker 1: and my response was you signed up for it. But

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Speaker 1: she would come in and she would get out of

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Speaker 1: the shower and then just drive to work. Then she

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Speaker 1: would come here with her hair dryer and her things

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Speaker 1: are curling irons, and she would plug them in to

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Speaker 1: the green room where guests would come, and she'd be

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Speaker 1: in there like it's a salon personal agreement that should

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Speaker 1: be done at home. Well, I do think so. And

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Speaker 1: you know, Amy, we don't need your curling irons and

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Speaker 1: your hair dryers. And she also, uh, what is it called?

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Speaker 1: She also files her nails files. Yeah, like it just

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Speaker 1: she'll be in the meeting and she'll just pull out

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Speaker 1: a nil phone and just start filing her nails. I

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Speaker 1: don't like that either. You need to hide all the

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Speaker 1: tools from everyone. Well, listen, you need to address this

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Speaker 1: with your coworker because clipping toenails and clipping fingernails is

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Speaker 1: not okay or or Ali, what if you fight fire

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Speaker 1: with fire and you do something gross back, it's not

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Speaker 1: a great idea. Not at the office, she said, a

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Speaker 1: conservative office, right. I think this comes in the fall

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Speaker 1: of messaging directly to your coworker that it's inappropriate. An

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Speaker 1: anonymous note. Yeah, maybe that's fine too. It's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's fine too. All right, well, good luck, let's go

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Speaker 1: back to Amy. So I've worked with Amy. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to tell you twenty years, maybe longer, maybe twenty five years.

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Speaker 1: I've hired Amy everywhere I've gone, right, She'll tell you that, Patty,

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Speaker 1: I've actually worked with her longer than you. Okay, she's

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Speaker 1: only but only by one person. So, um, why is

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Speaker 1: she filing her nails? This is not an Amy Sugarman thing,

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Speaker 1: filing nails. Filing her nails? I think in front of people,

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Speaker 1: I think, to be honest, I think these are all

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Speaker 1: like weird calming things for her. Like the blow drying.

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Speaker 1: I think like she does it in meetings because it

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Speaker 1: calms in meetings. She's blow drying her hair in meetings.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, she files her nails and meetings. It's something

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Speaker 1: that different. But blown drying your hair that involves apparatus

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Speaker 1: and an outlet and a straightener. She'll straighten it two

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Speaker 1: in meetings. I really think it's like a calming thing.

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Speaker 1: I think it helps soothe her so she doesn't get

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Speaker 1: so frazzled. We need to find gum for her show

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Speaker 1: she choose gum, Well, we need to find something else

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Speaker 1: to calm her down, cigarettes, something to calm her down. Well,

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Speaker 1: she's to do something, but blow drying and flat ironing

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Speaker 1: in meetings is not exactly protocol. Trust me, I've tried

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Speaker 1: to get her to have a some of alcohol. I've

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Speaker 1: tried very hard. Well. I can tell you as a

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Speaker 1: person that learned not to put her in an elevator ever,

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Speaker 1: do not give her alcohol. So that's it for us today.

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