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Speaker 1: Eddie getting off her chests? Man? Al right, the prison.

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Speaker 1: jaylen Bartel. What's up? Broken it off your chest? Day?

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Speaker 1: Brittany calling from Tampa, Florida. Hey, Britney, get it off

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Speaker 1: I will only leave my man for three week three

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00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: things you bring me home at STD, you have a

423
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 1: baby on me, or if you gave everything else is

424
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 1: work outible for me? So we're asking eight hundred five

425
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one is there a respectful

426
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 1: way too cheat? I say, no way, not a chance.

427
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:23,360
Speaker 1: If you cheat is definitely disrespectful. Regardless. I've been down

428
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 1: that road. Charlemagne has been down that road. Don't drive

429
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 1: you've been down that road too. I'll speak for myself.

430
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:31,679
Speaker 1: You speak for yourself. You basted, all right, I've been

431
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 1: down that road. It's something that's going up in New York.

432
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:41,439
Speaker 1: And no, I'm not laughing. It's not funny. Don't pull them.

433
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: Don't make it a joke, because that was a that

434
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: was what I did, was disrespectful to my wife. It

435
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: ain't funny. I don't even laugh about it. But there

436
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 1: is no respectful with the cheat. All cheated is disrespectful.

437
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 1: Don't laugh. How are you laughing? It's not funny. Yeah, hey,

438
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:56,080
Speaker 1: when do you get it? So mad for it? Because

439
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 1: it's not funny Now? I feel in you know what

440
00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I don't. I don't think there's a respectful

441
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,040
Speaker 1: way to cheat. You know, when you go home to

442
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 1: your significant and I can always speak for myself, you know,

443
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,400
Speaker 1: as a man, and when I when I'm going home

444
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 1: to my wife, you know, a woman that I love

445
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 1: or woman that I say is my best friend. And

446
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 1: you know, I'm a person who thrives on authenticity and

447
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 1: being honest. You're not authentic, you're not honest, you're not

448
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,960
Speaker 1: real if you're lying to the person that you call

449
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 1: your best friend and the person that you took took

450
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 1: vows with. So just for me is you know, my

451
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 1: guilty conscience wouldn't allow me to continue to do that.

452
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 1: And you know that's when you're just feeding your ego.

453
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: I always say that, you know you're sleeping around with

454
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: a bunch of different women. You're not doing it because

455
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 1: you're unhappy at home. You're doing it because you're unhappy

456
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 1: with yourself and you know you're family. You got bunch

457
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: of levels like imagine your man was paying for somebody

458
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 1: else's rent in their apartment, or bought somebody else a house,

459
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: or had this person in your home and your marital

460
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:54,360
Speaker 1: plan to nobody. Man, yeah, I'm not buying, you might pay.

461
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 1: You're saying things like that happening. And I do feel

462
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: like that level is like, oh, because women have forgiven

463
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,639
Speaker 1: men for cheating, but when they take it to the

464
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 1: next level where they're doing all kinds of relationship type things,

465
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 1: spending holidays away from their families speaking now, but a

466
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:10,479
Speaker 1: lot of times men just spending the money because it's

467
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: hush money. You know what I'm saying. I'm paying you

468
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 1: spend the time too. They're not just spending the money

469
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 1: like they spend the time. But imagine they got a

470
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 1: key to somebody else's house. You're getting mail there, then

471
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 1: I gotta drive by, go to the mailbox and see

472
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: your addresses on the mail. I'm not gonna say Calvin

473
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 1: Hunter's name. I'm not same his incidents. Let's go to

474
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:38,719
Speaker 1: the phol line. Hello, who's there? Crazy? My name is Jad.

475
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: Spend it down him aroun. Okay, both of y'all have

476
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: disrespectfully cheated on each other. Yeah, yeah, both y'all respectfully

477
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:50,439
Speaker 1: disrespecfully cheated. No, my girlfriend of going on three years now,

478
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 1: you've never cheated on her. No, I have never cheated

479
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 1: on her. And that's a god on a cheat. What

480
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: about you? What about you, young lady? Have you ever

481
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 1: cheated on him? I've never cheated on him. I'm never

482
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 1: getting him get away. I've been more for this man

483
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: since day one. I love it, Thank you, I love you.

484
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 1: I would be disrespectful if you admitted it on the

485
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 1: air right now, we see each other's name. Just the case.

486
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: If y'all lying, somebody will call y'all lout to see

487
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,760
Speaker 1: each other's name is way fast. My name is Instagram

488
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,119
Speaker 1: and um man give you so security number? Why you

489
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: add it to listen? Have you do y'all believe there's

490
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: a respectful way to cheat? Hold up? My name is

491
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: hymn telling me on Instagram? X king Lemon, you ain't

492
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 1: say your last name? I know that cheating laugh, but

493
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: the man goes or your wild boy man like that

494
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:43,919
Speaker 1: is a right way to cheat. But you ain't up

495
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: feeling like a scumbag and and it's a lot of work.

496
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 1: What's the right way to cheat? Sir? Tell me old wise?

497
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: What what's the right way to cheat? Number one? You

498
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: make sure that person that your mental ws already knows

499
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: that you got a significant other and they know that

500
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: place and they're they're okay with their place. You sound

501
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,199
Speaker 1: like a cheat, You sound like you know too much.

502
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: But keep digging the grave, keep digging your grade. Go

503
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 1: number two now, I don't be honest. In the past,

504
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: before I met her, I was in the path. And

505
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 1: just how I know this? The two Never bring anything

506
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: at home, Never bring no time for I don't know

507
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:19,880
Speaker 1: what it is. Don't bring none at home. My back

508
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 1: cut on the radio. But don't bring none at home? Okay?

509
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:29,399
Speaker 1: How many more? Too much? Number four? But just just

510
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: make sure that your house is happy before stepping outside. No, no, no,

511
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 1: how about don't cheat it? Or I thought all those

512
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: things too. None of that works. I'm telling not not

513
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: if you not, if you're being honest with yourself, if

514
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 1: you're lying to yourself, all of that stuff works. But

515
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: if you're being honest with yourself, none of that stuff works.

516
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: Because you're guilty. Conscience gonna eat you up. Hello, who's

517
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 1: this white? What's up? Bro? We're asking is there a

518
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: respectful way to cheat? A respectful way for everything? I

519
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: wasn't to be okay, what is factful? Yes, none of

520
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 1: her friends, no family members. You some perspects with it,

521
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 1: and you know it's a second way to do everything.

522
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 1: I disagree. Okay, So you're okay if you're a woman cheating. Yeah, so,

523
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: but a woman does that respectfully, you can be okay

524
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: with it. It's all thought double standing for everything too.

525
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 1: A woman have a baby, if mommy's baby baby, I

526
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 1: don't think I think that there is no respectful way

527
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: to cheat. The act of cheating in itself is disrespectful.

528
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: You disrespecting your wife. You mester my cousin, youmester my cousin.

529
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: What's her name? South Carolinas? Why you remember? Okay, okay, okay, whatever, okay,

530
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 1: feel like that. My fad saying that. But it is

531
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 1: a first of all. First of all, put a time

532
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: stamp on this. How long ago was this when I

533
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 1: allegedly was messing with this woman? Twenty years ago? Eleven

534
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: years ago, he said, He said, if he said he's free,

535
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: might be he man, I'm not going to deny. I

536
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: don't remember. Wild boy, don't what I mean? I don't know.

537
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: I don't know than just being cold through laugh for

538
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 1: your wild boy boy, oh boy. The story, the mall

539
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,199
Speaker 1: of the story is personally. This is just Lenard Michelby

540
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 1: Charlomne and God speaking. There is no respectful way to cheat.

541
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 1: The act of cheating itself is disrespectful. You expecting your wife,

542
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: You disrespecting your family. You're disrepecting yourself. I used to

543
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 1: cheat to feed my ego. Now I feed my soul.

544
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: I don't cheat. Black men don't cheat a man. You

545
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: have anything to say, I mean, listen, you can't respectfully cheat.

546
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: Thinking that respectfully cheating is that you don't get caught

547
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: because you cannot predict that you will get caught at

548
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: some point. So she'll acts. We got more coming up

549
00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: next to don't move, Happy Holidays, don't go anywhere. It's

550
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning everybody in stej Envy

551
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: and Jula yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

552
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: We got some special guests in the building. Terms and

553
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: we say it's only right to give these brothers their flowers.

554
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: That's right. We have the meagoes in the building. Take

555
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: off Offset. It's good to see y'all. Man. We celebrating

556
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: y'all because I saw Offset. I think it was Offset

557
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: last year who said that y'all don't get your all flowers. Yeah.

558
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: Have you feel like that's changed a little bit. Smell yeah,

559
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 1: they didn't give it back. They didn't been delivered to

560
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: the dough. I do smell them. Absolutely. They literally bleught

561
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: you flowers. We did. We had we flow. We got

562
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: the balloons flowers bringing the flowers. Now, mind you, it

563
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: says culture too, because the third one deflated. We brought

564
00:29:48,960 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: you off. We got y'all for flowers. Three childre. We

565
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: got some motherflowers. That's three and a half grams with

566
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: some good ass. No, my brother Wax got a weedy.

567
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: So the new album is out right now. We just

568
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: want to say congratulations and let's go through it. Man.

569
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 1: I know you don't usually don't get interviews like this,

570
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: but we want to show love. Man. Y'all be the

571
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: most impactful group of the past decade, so you know,

572
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: we got to celebrate that. Y'all have been working really hard, grinding,

573
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: so let's talk about it. How long did it take

574
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 1: to get Coach at three finished? What was the process

575
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: in recording this album? Because I know one lives in

576
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: la some live in Atlanta, some lives somewhere else, and

577
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: y'all have been talking about this album for like three years,

578
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah, Yeah, it took us like two and

579
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 1: a half years. Every last summer was getting ready in

580
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: la Um. We stayed in this house together and we

581
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 1: stayed there for like six as much just going in

582
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: and just piecing it up. We had like thing like

583
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: six or seven records from that time. It's still on

584
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: the album. Um the Miami too. Yeah. Then we went

585
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: to Miami. We would just taking little trips together and

586
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: Jess the chemistry because I mean y'all. You know, y'all

587
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: doing so many different things, you had to sit there

588
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: together and say, let's reconnect. I mean, it was always

589
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: recording through the pandemic, since since it started, we all record.

590
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: But you know, I mean since that we were just putting.

591
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: Since it was time to get the you know, I

592
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: mean the game back, we had to just pick and

593
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: shoes and just going to got you know what I'm saying, championship,

594
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: Grandmother everything together and the chemistry. Then I won't forget

595
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: that we grew up together. You know what I'm saying.

596
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 1: We already know what each other thanking each other doing.

597
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: We won't see each other, so it's imagine when we

598
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: get together. Did the money Did the money ever make

599
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: y'all too comfortable? Nah? Not even a little bit. Na, Na,

600
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: I don't feel like we ain't never started working. Charlotte

601
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: Man would kind of like upset because he was saying,

602
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: we saw the saucer. We were selling the sauce too,

603
00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 1: went like coming from, well, we can from you gotta

604
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: get any photosaus. You gotta sell them the socca else

605
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: we're selling something else. But it feels like everybody took

606
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: the megals wave and y'all hadn't really capitalized on it

607
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: the way I think y'all should have, right, you know

608
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: what I mean, right, right, right? I mean, I just

609
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: I think that's what we're doing for the inspire, you

610
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But yeah, you're right. It's so

611
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: different when we flashed back to the first time y'all

612
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 1: was up here to where we are now, all yet

613
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: out though all that was in jail, take Off was

614
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: the most talkative, and Quabo Dreadu was short. We gotta

615
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 1: do a side by side or something. Long time. At

616
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: what point did y'all realize that if y'all don't start

617
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: like speaking up and demanding your credit, y'all may y'all

618
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 1: may not get it. You know. You see you see

619
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: you see you see the people say a little say

620
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: a little things, you know what I mean. But it's

621
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: I feel like it's just we was missing. We just

622
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: ain't putting them product. I ain't feel like they were

623
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: still count out groups. You know what I'm saying. They

624
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: still do that. I was always talking about other artists.

625
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 1: They'll never say nothing about groups or when they talk

626
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: about single artists down place, it's one, you know what

627
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I feel like we, you know what

628
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying, we're trying to stapilize sales as one whole artist.

629
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 1: You feel I'm saying, our things separately and together as

630
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: a whole meges it's one man band, you know what

631
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, And even if you don't get your credit,

632
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: I think you or asked for you work hard, feel

633
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: and they just go shortself. O God, how did the

634
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: sip I'm evolved though, from when you guys first started

635
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 1: doing it to where we are now, because I'm sure

636
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: you had to push you back the pandemic happened. So

637
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: what was the process from where you started off like

638
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:36,479
Speaker 1: this is what it's gonna be to where you got

639
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: it to it was like sixty percent done, like for

640
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 1: like two years, like the lad these Glad, these last

641
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 1: records like justin Bieve Drake, have you become a last part?

642
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: All them records came like two three weeks ago, you

643
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So we just made should We

644
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,479
Speaker 1: laid down the foundation and then all the good start

645
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: coming in with the time. Though it was harder too.

646
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 1: Though cool. We probably got like my hundred songs recorded

647
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: since we dropping to show him in my media too,

648
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: Like it's like six hundred songs. I got one and

649
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,399
Speaker 1: he got one. How did y'all new coach you would

650
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: be a trilogy? Did y'all playing it like that from

651
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: the start and kept counting us out every time we

652
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: dropped him the coach, they said it one's gonna be

653
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: good as its coaching one, And every time we came

654
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: back and proved them right. So we wanted to do that.

655
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 1: It put that, it put that, you know what I'm saying,

656
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: that pressure on us and and we're like we had

657
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: a goal to set, you know what I'm sayingcause we

658
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: always wanted to outshine or out you know what I'm

659
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 1: saying due the first ones of the second ones, like

660
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: with music, you get what I'm saying. Yeah, But the

661
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 1: videos y'all films in Jamaica or whynot? Yeah, that's what

662
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 1: Jamaica popcind in there? What was that experience had? Its

663
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: hard hard man. He just pulled up, He pulled up.

664
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: He pulled up like a hundred dal trench hundred d

665
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 1: ain't playing. Yeah, they pulled them up. But we were

666
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 1: shooting the collar video. Shoot Yeah, we shot her video

667
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 1: calling then we shout out that time were about to

668
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 1: shoot our video. That's it was very hospitable. Yeah. What

669
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,839
Speaker 1: did he lay out for the man? He said, the jet.

670
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 1: Haven't you have a good chef when you get to

671
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: the house, They said, the jet had a chef. You

672
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: got the best chef in the world. Y'all, y'all got

673
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 1: to eat, man, that's what you got. It's crazy. Yeah,

674
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 1: that's when you're gonna make the record though you feeling. Yeah,

675
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: when y'a clear to make the record outdamna send the job.

676
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get the chef. Yeah, put you'all uf, you

677
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 1: got a record for you. After we asked you what

678
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: you want to shoot? The right I said, I never

679
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 1: went to Jamaica. He said, we're gonna boom filed up

680
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: the jet. We got shot the video, shout out video.

681
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: It was magic. Since then after the video, he said, y'all,

682
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Good y'all, good y'all. Chill

683
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: the whole bill and Georgia. Yeah, man, you know he

684
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: do a big So whose idea was it to do

685
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: the avalanche record? I could that be up? Yeah? Yeah,

686
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: we'll be cooking up. Where were you listening to that

687
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: when you at the crib and that came on one

688
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: of the old stations. Though he was like, Mama, this wrong.

689
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: It was just in my head the Temptation song out.

690
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: You're like, I know we can wrap on anything. He

691
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,280
Speaker 1: wants to pull it up, and I was just like, drill,

692
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: let's let's get it. I need you to got damn

693
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 1: pulled this up. We went, we actually pulled it off

694
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,760
Speaker 1: for YouTube and that start working from there. Then Moretown

695
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: got the you know what I'm saying, They they we

696
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 1: we went more Time to Temptation there too. So I

697
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: just got the whole file set up in files and

698
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 1: broken down and went to work. And when y'all heard it,

699
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: y'all know immediately that was it. Yeah, really it feel good.

700
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 1: I heard that baseline come in first. He was rapping

701
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 1: on top for like or like thirty seconds in the

702
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 1: baseline hit. I was like, oh, Papa, roll roller stones.

703
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: They got roller stones in the bathroom and y'all don't

704
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 1: even got no hook and feel like y'all just wanted

705
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: to get on there and snap and let people know,

706
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 1: y'all you know, y'all do this for real, just walk on.

707
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: Jay Z commented on that is that the ultimate cosign,

708
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: that's all with Coach Hunt. Don't getting no bigger than that.

709
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: I'm telling he didn't made it to another planet. Wrapping

710
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: you start off wrapping all right. When we come back,

711
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: we got more with the me Goes. Let's play a

712
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: joint off their album. This is Avalanche Rolling Stone, but

713
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 1: now I got Rolling Stones in the besom Ice Avalanche

714
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:20,280
Speaker 1: to me Goes Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne,

715
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking

716
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 1: it with the me Goals, Charlemagne Quick. I'll be wondering

717
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 1: how you got so tapped in with New York calls

718
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: the artist, Well, it was pop smoke of Bobby's murder.

719
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: How did how did those relationships happen? Man shout out

720
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: New York, New York Man, I'm in my second spot.

721
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 1: You feel me now? But um, it's just all up man.

722
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: Jay one thousand and boys, one thousand, Pops Moos one thousand,

723
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 1: Jeff always R p Rezzi so always just ready to learn.

724
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:46,919
Speaker 1: Jed lock In just soak it up. And every time

725
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 1: he Jess, he always reacted fast like he already knew

726
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: what he wanted to do. And then Bobby they have

727
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: been now DALs in two thous thirteen and we just

728
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: stayed locked in every since. Now'll do the album with them,

729
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 1: do an album together, a project with Bobby Yeah, yeah, yeah,

730
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: we got to finish the Smigo. I feel like y'all

731
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: made a powerhouse back in the day. I don't think

732
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,880
Speaker 1: that was the first time. It was like Rochester, New

733
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: York or something like that. Got family out here because

734
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: you being the look the craziest spots in New York.

735
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 1: I'll be for seeing you pop up in the back.

736
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 1: How to you here? You know I'm having that make

737
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: us got family? We got family too, I mean because

738
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: quit were you even with pop smoke us on him? Early,

739
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: like y'a always connected. Early had an album or something. Yeah,

740
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,359
Speaker 1: we had we had when we had a whole bunch

741
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 1: of songs, was funn to put together. I don't know

742
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 1: if we're gonna do it. And now I got a

743
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 1: highlight Stephen Victor, but that's who made it happened. I

744
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: just told him he was hard and he was in la.

745
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 1: I told him pull up on me. Then. Ever since then,

746
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 1: we just we made shape the room and light it up.

747
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 1: The one that's on our album made that's twice the

748
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,479
Speaker 1: same day went to London, made like Folk Records, West Coast.

749
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:55,920
Speaker 1: Every time we got together, we just made something, put

750
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 1: it out. So and I heard you see on the

751
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: new album that you wish you could have him up

752
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: under your wings. So even when y'all had that time together,

753
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,879
Speaker 1: what was the relationship like? Yeah, you know what I'm saying,

754
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: Like mentoring the Jim, making sure he you know what

755
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 1: I'm saying, going through what we'll you know what I'm saying,

756
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 1: going through the right motion, saying, asking about females and

757
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: all type of things like that. How do situations like that,

758
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: you know, alter the way y'all move? You know what

759
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,479
Speaker 1: I mean? When you see the untimely things that happened

760
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: to brothers like pop smoke. How to move militant man,

761
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 1: move like you got you got some love, I got

762
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: kids and go home to you know what I'm saying.

763
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 1: So I don't be believing in a tough man like

764
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pay what I gotta pay to protect my

765
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 1: family everything I don't. I'm having security at my house.

766
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: It seeing not somethinghow twenty four hours you gotta protect

767
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:40,320
Speaker 1: yourself worth a lot, You can lose a lot? Crazy

768
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: right now? A lot of people depend on breeze and

769
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: car jackings. You see the security Doug got shot at Linnuxmall.

770
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,720
Speaker 1: Y'all move different in your own hometown, and I definitely

771
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 1: make you move different. Make you think about life, you

772
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. More think about your decision. And

773
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 1: he'd be like, man, so many stuff, so much stuff happened.

774
00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: We got the move, you know what I'm saying, We

775
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: got the move right. I'm glad to hear that, because

776
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: also you come along way from jumping off stage with

777
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: the falcon punch and getting your own hands dirty, you

778
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:05,959
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, man, you gotta you gotta,

779
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: you gotta clean up, understand the bin inside of everything

780
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: and become a man for real and moving right in

781
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,879
Speaker 1: that aspect, too Off said, we know you're good and married,

782
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 1: but for takeoff and quevo? How do you know what

783
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:18,439
Speaker 1: woman loves you? For? You? Like, how do you even

784
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: date now? Not knowing what people's intentions are? I don't.

785
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: It's so what you see? You got death? What I asked?

786
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: I asked album what you see? I want to know what?

787
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: I really know what they see? Because like they see,

788
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 1: they say everybody else. So I'm trying to say what

789
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: y'all see? So how do you date? Like? What do

790
00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: you do? Dms? Is it people you know? Is it

791
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: somebody hooked me up? I ain't got no tea. Now

792
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 1: you try to, I ain't. But I'm just saying right here,

793
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 1: you ain't gotta be specific. But I'm just saying, like,

794
00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: how does it happen? Then? Because, like I said, you

795
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like everything had for a reason.

796
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 1: So I feel like God, So I believe in guys.

797
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,800
Speaker 1: So I feel like guy got that special one for me.

798
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: And I'd be asking him like it's just the one?

799
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: You know? You know what I mean? So I'd be

800
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 1: telling him I feel like he don'na let me know

801
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 1: when it's one. Good. Yeah, that's a hell of a

802
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 1: line to man, any woman to ask you that that's

803
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: what you said. If it's God's will, that's what I'm

804
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: saying that God, I would have been the benefit an answer.

805
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: How do you know what somebody wants from you? Though? Living,

806
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: you learn, you go through the motions. Ain't got time

807
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: to be living and learning going through the motions. I

808
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 1: ain't got too many mistake to make you know what

809
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: I mean? That would have been the benefits of being

810
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: in a group the past ten years. You got brothers

811
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: to call and talk about all this good. I can

812
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: talk to him about anything. I ain't got to hold back. Man.

813
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 1: What's the celebration like for y'all? Like when the album

814
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: was done and turned in? What did you guys do?

815
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 1: And house? You're going crazy? Just what I eat to

816
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: go out of eather? They too, y'all ain't tired at all.

817
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: I've seen y'all in Miami one night, y'all. I haven't

818
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 1: got no sleep. Sleep this morning, three hours of sleeps

819
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: and just hold the last two weeks last night. Yeah,

820
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 1: that's how you got everywhere. We got the holograms in

821
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: the city. We're trying to time travel. Anybody got to

822
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: try and traveling machine. Let her know all were trying

823
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 1: to do. I feel like y'all, y'all had a wager

824
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: with me because something I got a ten thousand dollar bit.

825
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: We taught. We're going up another dime. But yeah, we

826
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 1: taught last night when he didn't want a bit for

827
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 1: the whole thing. I think the heart's gonna beat the

828
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: boys all like when everything really, I think the hearts

829
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: gonna be feeling and then whoever we play, we got

830
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: it depends a lot of take Yeah, Brooklyn, Yeah, they

831
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:53,959
Speaker 1: just broken gospel missing it got missing important, important missing folks.

832
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 1: But you got walking the good though. I ain't go

833
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:57,840
Speaker 1: front man. I like Trader, I liked I like the

834
00:42:57,880 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: way he talks. Nobody. They can't go out, no want guard.

835
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: No nobody got a true point guard in the NBA.

836
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: And that's what you know what I'm saying. That's that's

837
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:06,919
Speaker 1: the difference when you got a scoring point guard because

838
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: you got a double team move then he finds somebody elpen,

839
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 1: I gotta do it to your job. Now, let's talk

840
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 1: about this Mount Rushmore of Atlanta, because I saw y'all

841
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 1: talking about that. That an all time lest y'all feel

842
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: like y'all should be on a just past shout out

843
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 1: to the city, but all time time it's bigger than me. Ye,

844
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: something that should be on there with y'all all time Atlanta. Hush,

845
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 1: we gotta fly ahead, connected as one. So that's one.

846
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:35,320
Speaker 1: That's one, right, I said, Gucci, like you said, But

847
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: tip M, I feel a little John Jay Oh all

848
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 1: time and all time, I feel like little John j D.

849
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 1: Timmy outcast is one. I gotta put a podcast. But

850
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 1: if you I think y'all a certain error. So I

851
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: feel like it would be like y'all Gucci Future and

852
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 1: somebody said, all time going, all time, all time is

853
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: tough man for time. It's only folks with it, folks

854
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:06,839
Speaker 1: based us. I don't care home on what else we got.

855
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: You gotta put a little John on it. Little John

856
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: gotta be on the yah. Like the Crunk helped raise y'all,

857
00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 1: didn't it in a lot of ways. Crunk, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

858
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, that's how it was the point week,

859
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 1: That's how we had. He created out. He created a

860
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 1: lot of lanes for a lane, so you got to

861
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: put the butler John. Yeah. John, He brought a lot

862
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 1: of people behind him. Crunk snapped, that's all John, and

863
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: he's still getting money right Yeah, and E d M.

864
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:44,399
Speaker 1: He went, M. Put soldier boy on it. No soldier

865
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 1: name from Atlanta. Start. I have a little movie. Got

866
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: more with the megoes when we come back. Let's get

867
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,879
Speaker 1: into a megos Mini mixes The Breakfast Club Good Morning.

868
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 1: That was a megos Mini mix Morning. Everybody Audi is

869
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the

870
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club was still kicking it with the Megos, Charlemagne.

871
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:08,359
Speaker 1: You know we've all heard room was over the past

872
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 1: decade of the of the Megos breaking up, Was that

873
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: ever a moment where that was really true? Never? No

874
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 1: man got real real blood family man. We gotta say that.

875
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 1: Never They said that too. That's count ain't never heard

876
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 1: you never heard that the count line all the time,

877
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 1: Megos leaving Quabo, going with Kanye this and that, like

878
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 1: Bat and Bougie was off that song by yourself. What's

879
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 1: wrong with the generation? Is they always trying to divide

880
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: and conquer? Man, That's that's what be going on, Like

881
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 1: the uplift, Who's the best and who's this? I might

882
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: see something on Instagram and got two different artists and

883
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 1: be like tapped if this person better? And like it

884
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: this person? That were wrong with the generation? Why they

885
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 1: can't be? Uh both on fire? You know what I'm saying?

886
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 1: Or is this trash? Or is this you know what

887
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying garbage? Whatever? Like? Because everything should we should be.

888
00:45:56,680 --> 00:46:00,080
Speaker 1: We ain't never splitting each other money majority of the

889
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:02,839
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, same feel me, the same,

890
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 1: same color, and they'd be doing some of the sayis

891
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: what's the nat? We need to just what I'm saying

892
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 1: better at the seven hundred songs? How do you come

893
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 1: together and decide which ones make it? Though? Stand out? Someone?

894
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:16,399
Speaker 1: Just get the gang in the room. We just playing

895
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,760
Speaker 1: man play. They put in front of the day on someone,

896
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 1: it would be like six some seven, six or seven

897
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 1: already just you you don't even question. You knew Avalanche

898
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: was on that. Yeah, yeah, you knew straightening was straight Yeah,

899
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 1: but we can't get some straightening. We had to put that. Dude.

900
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: I can't believe y'all got to explain what that is

901
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: the people, I guess, I'm like, understand straightening? Do your

902
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: parents used to say that to you? Get this little boy?

903
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 1: Get get this boy from straightening. See, I appreciate that shot. Man.

904
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: I can't believe people asking y'all what that meat and lost?

905
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: You gotta get an understanding for you know what. I

906
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: ain't get some straightening. You know it ain't none but

907
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:54,880
Speaker 1: a little bit of straightener. Can't get none. You know

908
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, ain't ain't none but a live it straightening.

909
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,359
Speaker 1: Ain't no straightening. Let you get some straightening. Y'all haven't

910
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: had to do that. The body in the wild all right,

911
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: all right, yeah, yeah, straight straight straight, somebody I'm saying

912
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:11,759
Speaker 1: straight straight. We got straight in with the album all

913
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: the time. Anybody who was playing with the name we Goes,

914
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 1: we got straight in with this album exactly. Any anybody

915
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: who thought anything, any thought process, puspect. So you feel

916
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: like people was questioning whether or not this was gonna

917
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:31,320
Speaker 1: be y'all gonna put some spect on my name. No.

918
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 1: You know what's great though, it's for you guys all separately,

919
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: individually have your own things going on, but that you

920
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: could come together. And that's what's powerful, right that you

921
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 1: all have all these separate projects that happened, and then

922
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: you're able to say, Okay, now it's time for the

923
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 1: me Goes to regroup like Voltron, and you gotta stay

924
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: with your foundation. Three hit and Wash can't hand on

925
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: home without the foundation. So can we talk about the

926
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:54,320
Speaker 1: individual projects too that you guys have. I know my

927
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: girl Ricky was working with you on the show Street

928
00:47:57,239 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 1: Where show right Ricky? Yeah, the old man Ricky. She

929
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 1: she she's amazing, black, strong, powerful woman and she had

930
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: me and she put it she fire. I love her.

931
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 1: So we did a show that's gonna come on HBO.

932
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,439
Speaker 1: Matt's called the hype about street war designers and giving

933
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: them a chance to shine, because you know a lot

934
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: of the big designers take their dripping gonna make all

935
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: the money from it, they don't never get the credit.

936
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 1: So we're giving them a chance. That's all her brother,

937
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: It wasn't that supposed to be on quimby HBO Matts.

938
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 1: Quicky was the gaming show I had, then the other

939
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: show I had when I did Jay lenos Car Garager

940
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: stuff like that. Yeah, yeah, So how did it go?

941
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 1: And solo impact the group? Though? What did y'all learn

942
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 1: when y'all want to go off to do y'all solo projects?

943
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: How did the impact the group? Wh y'all came back again?

944
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: Came up? Boy, they still can't forward us. We just

945
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: do we can. We could do it anyway you want

946
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: to come because all our albums were successful and we

947
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: still come back and be successful as one. So I

948
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 1: feel like we're just a different group. We need to

949
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 1: get they need to we need they need to put that,

950
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 1: put us in a different shuff because I don't be

951
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,240
Speaker 1: I don't know no other group than they did that. Actually,

952
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 1: none that we talk about it, like drop seven projects

953
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 1: and then come back successful to a group again on

954
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,879
Speaker 1: you bomb. But but they ain't nothing bigger than the Okay,

955
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 1: shout out, yeah, since we did right behind, that's good

956
00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 1: with me. Behind. Ain't ain't nothing bigger than the group.

957
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: Not realize what I'm saying. The bigger the group get,

958
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: we get individually. So you know what I mean. We

959
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: just we're about the group. Say size what I'm saying.

960
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 1: Potentially I just did with the pandemic because y'all stay

961
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: on the roads. They turn the bandemic. We turned the

962
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:38,160
Speaker 1: pandemic into a pandemic. You know that. Yeah, you's gonna

963
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: know your kids in school, so you gotta you gotta

964
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 1: be a teacher now. Yeah, the homeschool thing, I want

965
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: to let them go to school. So that that was crazy.

966
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 1: Learning to try to keep them they're so young, Like

967
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 1: to keep them paying attention to the computer at first

968
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: was hard. They weren't trying to do that. I might

969
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,879
Speaker 1: look my daughter, literally, she'd look. She'd be there while

970
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: I'm dead and I go to my room, come out.

971
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 1: She watched the TV. The thing ain't playing and the camera.

972
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:03,879
Speaker 1: How do you know how to do that? Yeah, it's

973
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 1: crazy house. Fatherhood changed you off to you know, it

974
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 1: makes you see the bigger pictua, see see the real

975
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 1: light to life, you know what I mean, Like you'd

976
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,120
Speaker 1: be living by yourself or sometimes and young and with

977
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 1: no guidance. So now you gotta guide them. Now I

978
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 1: gotta guide them. And they really my kids really pay

979
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,920
Speaker 1: attention to me, tell me like anything I'm doing, or

980
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 1: I just catch them like if i'm if I'm about

981
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 1: the post a video of my kids are staring at me.

982
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: So I noticed that I influenced them so big. So

983
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 1: if I be on some board, they're gonna be on it,

984
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: no matter who what position. I mean, you know what

985
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:37,799
Speaker 1: I'm trying. So just being responsible father, being a farm

986
00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 1: I ain't had that. So a lot of times I

987
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: made some I'd made some big mistakes, big mistakes in life.

988
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 1: So I try to stay on mine. Remember when you

989
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 1: was here by yourself, and then he was talking about

990
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 1: wanting the relationship with your pathers. You you ran into

991
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 1: him somewhere, ran into him, I mean, shout out to him. Man,

992
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 1: I look like standing. I helped him out, you know

993
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 1: what I mean. I haven't seen him was this, Oh

994
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 1: I've seen him. You called me, I answered the phone.

995
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, but shout out the pots.

996
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 1: But I don't want to drag pots through the nothing,

997
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 1: not like that, you know what I mean. But it

998
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: was nice, mean, no, I mean nice, nice I did.

999
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: That's something I accomplished through my life, you know what

1000
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: I mean. So that's what's up? Absolutely take up during

1001
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 1: the pandemic. What were you doing? See what I'm saying. Uh,

1002
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: still spinning, you know what I mean. Chilling with the

1003
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:36,400
Speaker 1: fan fan time, working, watching movies like way because I

1004
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: watched I was saying the other day, I never really

1005
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: get to watch some movies and TV like that until

1006
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 1: this pandemic. So what kind of things We're like, what

1007
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:47,200
Speaker 1: kind of movies? What was you buying on the pandemic?

1008
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,720
Speaker 1: And I bought watch? I bought me two three watching

1009
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: some chain about it through the pandemic when as soon

1010
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 1: as they started, that was a ton to buy all

1011
00:51:56,160 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 1: that real estate. Yeah, I supposed I stoped tripping two

1012
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: million with them all. Now your house went up two

1013
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:10,840
Speaker 1: million dollars two God damn. I talked me to get in.

1014
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 1: Why why did Jesus peace take off of it? For

1015
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 1: spiritual reasons? Or because you know, yeah, without him, none

1016
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 1: of us would be here. That people don't realize. And um,

1017
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 1: you know, I mean were religious. I'm Christian and I

1018
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 1: keep gotting first and I'm my my name on the back.

1019
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 1: I lost my grandmama, So so I wear this. I'm

1020
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 1: wear all the time. Even if I got other jury

1021
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 1: on and and don't go right with the setup, I

1022
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 1: still took it. I'm saying, just keep it up on me.

1023
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 1: They said you the movie man, So what was you?

1024
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: What was you on? Everything is new? You know? I

1025
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: mean I was watching the little series like The Guy Father, Harlem,

1026
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:51,800
Speaker 1: Little snow Falls that would I've been on recent And

1027
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: I like the documentaries like I rewatched stuff like the

1028
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 1: old Tyson documentary Fire Heart Beach. Just you know what

1029
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying, classic bro, Yeah, just classic stuff. Just what's up?

1030
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: Just news? What about what you did in the pandemic?

1031
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: I was shooting some movies, getting into it, shoot some movies.

1032
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: What if I production? Production is your thing too? So

1033
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: are you gonna are you gonna go like real deep

1034
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: into it as Fire's producing for other artists and I

1035
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 1: just like producing for us if it makes me feel like,

1036
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm saying on some just been doing

1037
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,160
Speaker 1: that saying since I was in eighth grade. But I

1038
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 1: don't never like take the credit forward and you know

1039
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 1: what I'm saying stuff like that. Don't like tags and

1040
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,160
Speaker 1: I just like being in behind the scene. But I'm

1041
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 1: most definitely like messing with beats and I'm making for

1042
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 1: other artists. But you'll never know if I if I

1043
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: did it or not until you see, like the credit

1044
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: stuff like that. Yeah, and I said, you produced a

1045
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:47,399
Speaker 1: horror movie, right, Yeah, I um scored a horror film

1046
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 1: and executive produce a horror film called The Resort. It's

1047
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 1: out right now and it's it's a it's a scary

1048
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 1: movie shot at my boy wheel And that's it. All right.

1049
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: We got mold to me Goes when we come back.

1050
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,439
Speaker 1: Let's get into another joint off the album. This one's

1051
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: featuring Drake. That was the Megales featuring Drake. Me Goes

1052
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:08,560
Speaker 1: are here moaning Everybody's DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the

1053
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 1: guy we are the Breakfast Club now, Charlemagne. I feel

1054
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 1: like that's gonna be the next the next level for

1055
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 1: all of them. Me Goes the TV film world. Yeah, yeah,

1056
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 1: we like it. We love TV. Yeah, put me on

1057
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:22,319
Speaker 1: t ll I see you working with Lloll the goat Man.

1058
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 1: How you work with the first time I've seen him,

1059
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: I just told him like, hey man, put me on

1060
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 1: the NCIS show Man. What we're doing? He liked, Bet,

1061
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna hit you for real though, I'm like, all right, Bet,

1062
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 1: And then he hit me, probably like a few weeks later.

1063
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: And then I had a meeting through my agency with

1064
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:39,360
Speaker 1: with with with him. When I sit down, he just

1065
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: come in. I got you. I'm gonna let you. How

1066
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: do you be in this? Don't He told me like,

1067
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: don't mess up though, Bro, you're brother. You gotta you

1068
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: gotta as this. I'm like, Bet, and I got That's

1069
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 1: how I got the show straight off his word. Wow.

1070
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 1: One time he told him clothed mouth, don't get fit.

1071
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 1: Promise you and no matter what level you at, you

1072
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:58,360
Speaker 1: still can't be afraid to ask for something. Can't be

1073
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna open your mouth. I said, why you don't

1074
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 1: lean it too? The dancing more man, I've been waiting

1075
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 1: for that time. I've been waiting for that since that bop.

1076
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: I think the b performance ain't no shame my gut.

1077
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 1: It's about time, and then when you do it, it

1078
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: got to be iconic moments, you know what I mean,

1079
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 1: It got to be an iconic moment. And and then

1080
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna say somebody, we're gonna hit the stay too.

1081
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: That show y'all have to be to you wain't run show.

1082
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 1: Y'all got a routine, man, New steps Okay, okay, steps routine,

1083
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 1: So y'all got to y'all got some choreography playing steps,

1084
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:51,879
Speaker 1: new steps. How much is the game change once y'all

1085
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:53,800
Speaker 1: got in it ten years ago? Man, because that was

1086
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: a long time. We just stayed. We just stayed just

1087
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 1: dropping music. We didn't know was changing until they was

1088
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 1: telling us, you know what I'm saying, So we were

1089
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 1: just like just dropping music. Then once we found out,

1090
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: like when we dropped out first while I ran album,

1091
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:10,360
Speaker 1: he didn't do too crazy because it wasn't no mixtape,

1092
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 1: and we were thinking that, you know what I'm saying,

1093
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: it's like it's mixtape style like when you drop it.

1094
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 1: So we was like, damn, hurt it hurt us, you

1095
00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:20,799
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Then after that, when we came back,

1096
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,279
Speaker 1: we had to just go back to our singles, just

1097
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:25,839
Speaker 1: kept dropping singer kept dropping singing dropping singers, and then

1098
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:28,399
Speaker 1: people had to like won an album. And then that's

1099
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 1: when we came out with culture and we realized, how

1100
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: you know, I'm saying a lot of some of our generation,

1101
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: we really said a lot of not us. You know

1102
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:37,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. They ain't know about you feeling the

1103
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,239
Speaker 1: og music you feeling with them. You know what I'm saying.

1104
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 1: That people we look up to. You know what I'm saying.

1105
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 1: People was going to two thousands or whatever. It be

1106
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 1: still shocking to meet it down't no appreciate you from

1107
00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: hip hop for music and the general. A lot of

1108
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: people got still to say, I don't know nothing about it,

1109
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 1: but even the way people looked at you changed. At

1110
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: one time. It was like the mumble rapping that I

1111
00:56:57,080 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: was like what it was. It was a float though

1112
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 1: I figured it out to UNDERSTANDY didn't understand the flow

1113
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 1: because we're saying we mumap. We can pick pick any

1114
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 1: bar or verse you think we muma wrapped, then we

1115
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 1: can tell you what we said. But it was the cadence.

1116
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 1: I think it was the cadence in the speed. We

1117
00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 1: can see that we changed the whole two If you

1118
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:15,959
Speaker 1: go to twenty thirteen when the artists having to bounce.

1119
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: But still right now, it's a little slower right now,

1120
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 1: that's why we'd be saying we motivated, we started this flow.

1121
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 1: That's what I think it just was. They don't know

1122
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 1: what it was like, who he was from what they

1123
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 1: get too fast one cadence they want used to it.

1124
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 1: But now everybody can pick up and you know what

1125
00:57:31,240 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's the lingo now, so everybody, then you

1126
00:57:34,840 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, y'all vaccinate because y'all got a

1127
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: song called back to me. That's all I kept think

1128
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: about and ill looking to that red blue Benjamin vaccine,

1129
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: special kind of vaccination. Yeah, now, but the blue Benjamin,

1130
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: I ain't. I'm vaccinated vaccinated. Yeah, I'm glad. You know

1131
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Check this out of home. Call you.

1132
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 1: I got the vaccine, Okay, I got, I got, I

1133
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 1: got the shot. You're not vaccuated now that it's shot mane.

1134
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 1: So that's the unvaccinated side. That's what I'm saying. This

1135
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 1: is the thing when we right me so little right,

1136
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 1: you want to take the shot right? Cool? Cool, but

1137
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:26,439
Speaker 1: it's good for twelve months. So and ain't nobody really

1138
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 1: stamped that it stopped. So every year you got to

1139
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: take a shot. At this point, what I'm saying, right, yeah,

1140
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 1: like the flu shot. Mama never gave me the flu

1141
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: shot since my mama wasn't never going for that in

1142
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 1: the first place. My mama got to shot him my

1143
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 1: moment she got it. But the vaccine, Mom, take the vaccine,

1144
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 1: but we still got to take covid tis right now,

1145
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 1: vaccinated because you can still the vaccine so you can

1146
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 1: give it to it. What's going on with that, though, Well,

1147
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: I got to still take the covid time because it's

1148
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: not cure. Because you like, okay, I'm explained it still

1149
00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 1: get no no, no, okay. If you get no, I'm

1150
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: explaining for the vaccination. If you get called, you won't

1151
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:07,280
Speaker 1: get a sick and you won't get hospitalized. You'll be fine.

1152
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 1: But you can still give it to up that who's

1153
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: not vaccinated. And they they told me it was over

1154
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 1: with no man, tell them again, you can give it

1155
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: to them. You can still get it, but you won't

1156
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 1: get sick and you're gonna see hospitalized. I'm not an

1157
00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 1: anti vactor. I'm just headitate because I've never seen them

1158
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 1: in a rush to remedy any other illness in the

1159
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 1: black communicdality, they put magnets on your army. What you

1160
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: mean a quarter and come on, I got to the

1161
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 1: arm You not in my arm too. Money can do

1162
00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: that to somebody on your arm. You did it on

1163
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 1: his forehead the other day. Answer you got told plate

1164
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 1: second shot. It's a trick man, he's a second shot.

1165
00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 1: You can do it like this. That's a pen ahead

1166
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:16,920
Speaker 1: with a quarter offense. It was stuck on from a

1167
01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: second yeah, from the same shop. And he got and

1168
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: like when he's seen it, like I seen his face,

1169
01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: he like knew that he was mine. He got. I

1170
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 1: think he got what you get he got? He got

1171
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: the other one, the one I'm saying, then this fall

1172
01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 1: different version two one man, I ain't trying to do

1173
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: all that. Then one got counseled, counseled. I'm not trying

1174
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 1: to be a laborate man. Wait, I probably gonna when

1175
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 1: when it's eight one and I ain't gotta take it.

1176
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: Got to think about how many people y'all take pictures

1177
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 1: with fans that y'all take pictures with you on the

1178
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 1: way they've been. That's a fact. That's why did it

1179
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 1: go back to do these my hollow ram things but

1180
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 1: back and you gotta think about all the time you

1181
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 1: went raw. It's kind of the same thing. You're taking

1182
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: a chance, it's not the same. Let's get into wait

1183
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 1: Hall time. Before that, I want to ask about the

1184
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 1: Savage fenty relationship. Shout you know she hit us up? No,

1185
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: my fa I mean I never heard them saying nothing

1186
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:27,080
Speaker 1: like that. Put it together, ye shout, reread the man.

1187
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 1: I mean that's fair. Now can we get to a record.

1188
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 1: We got something else for you, saying okaypenive bottle too

1189
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 1: for you? Take off? Okay for you, that's the expensive bottle.

1190
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:47,919
Speaker 1: That's all that cassel D're going is to kill. Okay,

1191
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:50,479
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? My four hundred, five hundred

1192
01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 1: dollars a bottle. You know what I mean. You know

1193
01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 1: I told y'all we're gonna celebrate. Y'all, man, you know

1194
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 1: what I meant. H me, You ain't do it like

1195
01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 1: CALLI did it. You know I asked my wage. Okay,

1196
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 1: I asked my wage. Congratulations on coach to three to

1197
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 1: celebration today. You see that? No bullish? I know y'all

1198
01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:14,080
Speaker 1: thought we're gonna throw a curve ball in there. No bullish.

1199
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 1: We appreciate your Oh wait wait wait no, no, I

1200
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: was ready, He's ready. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning

1201
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 1: to wake up. It's the Breakfast Club. Angela year here

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Speaker 1: An insurance agency Nashville, Tennessee. Some restrictions apply. Make sure

1207
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: you're telling them. Watch out for Florida Morrner. The craziest

1208
01:02:57,840 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 1: people in America come from the Bronx and all all

1209
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 1: of floor. Yes, you are a donkey. The Florida man

1210
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 1: attacked and ATM for a very strange reason. They gave

1211
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 1: him too much money. Florida man is arrested after definitely

1212
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:12,520
Speaker 1: say he's rigged the door to his home and an

1213
01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:15,080
Speaker 1: attempt to electro hid his pregnant wife. Police arrested in

1214
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 1: Orlando man for talking a familia to Breakfast Club Bitchy

1215
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:20,960
Speaker 1: Donkey of the Day with Charlom Haine A God, I

1216
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 1: don't know what y'all keep letting him get ya elected? Wow, Oh,

1217
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: donkey of the day goes to Ronnie O'Neill, And honestly

1218
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: just dawned on me this morning that Ronnie O'Neil is

1219
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 1: from Florida. I should have known. I should have known.

1220
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 1: I should have known. What did your uncle Sharla always

1221
01:03:34,240 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: say about the great state of Florida? The craziest people

1222
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,320
Speaker 1: in America come from the Bronx and all the Florida,

1223
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: but Florida. I can't blame this one on, y'all. This

1224
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: is a lot deeper than being from Florida. Okay, to

1225
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 1: be honest with you, I really believe Ronnie O'Neil is

1226
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 1: a villain in the New Bondocks cartoon. Okay, Aaron mcgrewd

1227
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 1: that had to write this, Like if there was a

1228
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 1: multi verse for the Bondocks, Ronnie O'Neil might be an

1229
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:58,880
Speaker 1: evil variant version of Riley Freeman. Wait a minute, uncle

1230
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 1: shall know who the hell is Ronnie. Okay, you're right.

1231
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:03,200
Speaker 1: Let me not assume everyone knows. Ronnie O'Neill is the

1232
01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: human who acted as his own attorney in his double

1233
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: murder trial. He was accused of killing his thirty three

1234
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:12,120
Speaker 1: year old girlfriend Kenyada Baron and their disabled nine year

1235
01:04:12,120 --> 01:04:16,120
Speaker 1: old daughter, ron Navilla O'Neill r. I P to both

1236
01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:18,680
Speaker 1: of them and I'm sending condolences and healing energy to

1237
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: their families. If you need a refresher on the situation,

1238
01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:24,200
Speaker 1: let's go to WTSP ten Tampa Bay for the report.

1239
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 1: Police opening statements are underway in the murder case against

1240
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,880
Speaker 1: Ronnie O'Neil the third. He's the Riverview man accused of

1241
01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 1: killing his girlfriend and their nine year old daughter three

1242
01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 1: years ago. O'Neil is taking an unusual stance of representing

1243
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 1: himself in courts, and here's some of what he had

1244
01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 1: to stay to the jury. I'm please give a premeditated murder.

1245
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 1: They didn't want you to know the truth. We're going

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01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:53,280
Speaker 1: to see who lives before it's all said. There is

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Speaker 1: a public defender understand by. If he does change his mind,

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Speaker 1: he faces the death penalty. If convicted, he's gonna Ronnie

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01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 1: O'Neill was accusing prosecutors of fabricating evidence. Fabricating evidence. Ronnie

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01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:09,760
Speaker 1: O'Neill was charged with two counts of first degree murder,

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01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 1: account of attempted first degree murder, two counts of aggravated

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01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 1: child abuse, an account of resisting a law enforcement officer

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01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 1: without violence. Now, if someone you know kills two people

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01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:22,480
Speaker 1: and stabs another, because Ronnie also established h old son,

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01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 1: who think God survived? If police come over and see

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01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 1: all his chaos, how could they possibly fabricate evidence? Now?

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01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 1: I know Ronnie O'Neil is claiming his girlfriend killed his

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01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:34,360
Speaker 1: daughter and tried to kill his son, That's why he

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01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 1: killed her. But we always have to remember in life,

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01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: a lie ain't nothing to tell. If a ball faced

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01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 1: lie was a person, it would be Ronnie O'Neil the third.

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01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 1: And See, the thing about a lie is when you

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01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:45,240
Speaker 1: tell one lie, it leads to another. So you tell

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01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 1: two lies to cover each other, and then you tell

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01:05:47,040 --> 01:05:49,320
Speaker 1: three lies. An old brother first lie he told was

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01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 1: that his girlfriend killed his daughter and stabbed his son. Well,

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01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: his son took the stand and had to relive that trauma. Listen,

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01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 1: see you did you see me shoot your mom? Ye?

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01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 1: Did I hurt you that night? I love this incident?

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01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 1: Yes I did? And how did I hurt you? Me? Lord?

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01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 1: Damn it man? So you tell four lives to try

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01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 1: to protect you. Then you tell five lives so folks

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01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:24,280
Speaker 1: won't suspect you. Then you tell six lives, and you'll

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01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 1: collect a life filled with worries and fears because you

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01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:29,120
Speaker 1: can't remember how many lives you've told, and half the

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01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 1: things you say aren't true. And sometimes you'll slip up,

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01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:34,439
Speaker 1: you'll trip up, and then whatever will become of you? Well,

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01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 1: what will become of Ronnie O'Neill the third Let's go

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Speaker 1: to w FLA NBC eight for the report police. It

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01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 1: took just more than four hours for a Tampa jury

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01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 1: to decide. Ronnie O'Neill is guilty of killing his girlfriend

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01:06:47,080 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 1: and his own daughter, as well as stabbing and setting

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01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:54,040
Speaker 1: fire to his son. O'Neill represented himself throughout the guilt

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01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 1: phase of the trial and may do so during the

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01:06:56,480 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 1: penalty phase as well. Is guilty of first screen murder, murder,

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01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 1: and phony murder. During his closing argument, O'Neill admitted guilt

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01:07:04,880 --> 01:07:09,360
Speaker 1: in one of the killings. But I want you to

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01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 1: tell you, O'Neill told jurors he did kill his girlfriend,

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01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:18,480
Speaker 1: but only because she murdered their daughter and tried to

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01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: kill their son. What happened to ipe? What happened to

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01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:30,200
Speaker 1: my daughter? And four? It only took joys four hours.

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01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 1: The only reason I think it took that long as

1293
01:07:31,720 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 1: because they were in there discussing the audacity the unmitigated

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01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 1: goal of Ronnie O'Neil the third to get up there

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01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:40,439
Speaker 1: and represent himself. So you lie and lie without even trying,

1296
01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 1: and each lie you tell will keep multiplying to the

1297
01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:49,080
Speaker 1: whole wild world will know you're lying. Then you'll be suspected, detected, rejected, neglected, disliked,

1298
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:51,919
Speaker 1: and you should. When you lie, you're closing the door

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01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:56,560
Speaker 1: on everything good. Ronnie O'Neil the third, what the hell

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01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 1: were you doing? Why were you up there playing? What

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01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:00,840
Speaker 1: was the point? What was you trying to prove? There

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01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 1: was absolutely no reason for you to be up there

1303
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:08,240
Speaker 1: representing yourself other than for your own sick personal entertainment.

1304
01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:10,200
Speaker 1: I've been trying to make sense to this, and I

1305
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:13,680
Speaker 1: keep stopping myself to remind myself stop attempting to make

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01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:17,600
Speaker 1: sense of this senseless. There is no logic in the illogical.

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01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:20,519
Speaker 1: I can't blame this on Florida. I keep trying to

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01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:23,400
Speaker 1: wrap my mind around what this is, and all I

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01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:26,880
Speaker 1: hear in my head is my love Stephanie Mills saying,

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01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:33,200
Speaker 1: Nigga's it, that's it. Please let me Mark give Ronnie

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01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 1: on you the third, the biggest he ha he ha

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01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 1: he hah, you stupid mother, are you dumb? His poor son, man,

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01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:44,080
Speaker 1: his poor son, His poor son is gonna need a lifetime,

1314
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:49,280
Speaker 1: a lifetime of therapy. Okay, you how much work it's

1315
01:08:49,280 --> 01:08:50,960
Speaker 1: gonna take to get the trauma out of that young

1316
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:55,040
Speaker 1: man's body? Come on, man, he's gonna give him a hug.

1317
01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:57,160
Speaker 1: I felt so bad having to listen to him, have

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01:08:57,240 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 1: to testify answer questions because Ronio Nil want to play,

1319
01:09:02,640 --> 01:09:04,560
Speaker 1: Ronio nil the third want to play. All right, we

1320
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:07,560
Speaker 1: got more coming up next to don't move, happy Holidays,

1321
01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 1: don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the

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01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Hello. These relationship advice, need personal advice, just

1323
01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:25,240
Speaker 1: need real advice. Haul up now for asking morning. Everybody

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01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy Angela yee, Charlemagne the God. We are

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us. This

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01:09:31,840 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 1: lady called I think a week ago or two weeks ago,

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01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:36,400
Speaker 1: and she was having some problems in the bed and

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01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,519
Speaker 1: Charlemagne advised I how to work the middle um and

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01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:43,639
Speaker 1: she's back on the line. Good morning, what Hello, Hey,

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01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:48,000
Speaker 1: this is how you doing? She's calling back. You were

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01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: very popular when you called in for asky and you

1332
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 1: were talking about being insecure about being on top, right, Yes,

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01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 1: so I have a follow up. Okay, all right, let's

1334
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:01,680
Speaker 1: talk about it. Okay. So me and him had a

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01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 1: long discussion about it, and I went on and told

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01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 1: him how I felt, and so me and him talked

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01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 1: about it, and that night the imagine happened. We put

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01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:14,400
Speaker 1: on some corners and like, I watched a couple of

1339
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:18,040
Speaker 1: scenes with different women doing you know, difficult disitions, and

1340
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 1: because you told me to do and I tried it,

1341
01:10:21,160 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 1: and like we have not thoughted. I okay, so hold on,

1342
01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:29,880
Speaker 1: hold on. You did reverse cow girl, yes, and I did.

1343
01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:32,600
Speaker 1: I did. And then let me tell you something, And

1344
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:34,920
Speaker 1: that is a workout in itself. So it feels good

1345
01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:37,200
Speaker 1: because you over there doing your squads, doing your cry

1346
01:10:37,280 --> 01:10:39,720
Speaker 1: Baby challenge, doing the Busted challenge on it. That's what

1347
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:43,200
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, girl, And I also been working out too,

1348
01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:45,760
Speaker 1: so it's like, I guess my breathing is a little

1349
01:10:45,800 --> 01:10:48,960
Speaker 1: bit better. And I am like, man, I'm telling you,

1350
01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 1: we have been having some good night we really have.

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01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:54,200
Speaker 1: And you know, it was interesting though, and I was

1352
01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 1: so glad that you called about that because a lot

1353
01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 1: of women were weighing in about their insecurities also, and

1354
01:10:59,320 --> 01:11:01,000
Speaker 1: I was saying, I know he loves just looking at

1355
01:11:01,040 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 1: your body no matter what, and so everything about you,

1356
01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 1: I'm sure he finds attractive. What did he say when

1357
01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:08,320
Speaker 1: you guys had the conversation. He was just like, that

1358
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,720
Speaker 1: is more or less me, and it was never him.

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01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 1: He never ever feel any kind of way about you know,

1360
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:17,320
Speaker 1: me saying that I didn't want to get on top

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01:11:17,360 --> 01:11:21,200
Speaker 1: of whatever, but he just was like, baby, you are

1362
01:11:21,360 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 1: thinking too hard into it. And also, like I told you,

1363
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: I was trying to get the LIGHTFO and the BBL done,

1364
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 1: and he's just like, I love you how you are.

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01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 1: You know that's for women who you know, don't really

1366
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:34,640
Speaker 1: like how they look, and right to spend money. He

1367
01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:36,519
Speaker 1: was like, let's go to the gym. We got a

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01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 1: Planet Fitness ship membership and we've been back and forth

1369
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:41,960
Speaker 1: in the gym and stuff or whatever. So like he

1370
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 1: really supports me, and I love that about him. Like

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01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:47,960
Speaker 1: he didn't make me feel any kind of way about it.

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01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:49,640
Speaker 1: When I did see him down and talk to him

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01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:52,280
Speaker 1: about it, he was just really open and like modest,

1374
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 1: like that's just you, that's that's you. That's all you

1375
01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:59,759
Speaker 1: has never been me. Isn't writing on so fun? It is? Look,

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01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 1: I always was just nervous about it because of my weight,

1377
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:06,160
Speaker 1: you know, and like my guy, he's a pretty small guy,

1378
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:09,240
Speaker 1: and I just always felt like I was too heavy

1379
01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 1: to be on top, and you know, like so that's

1380
01:12:12,280 --> 01:12:13,920
Speaker 1: the only reason why I didn't want to do it

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01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:16,120
Speaker 1: all right now, my only advice is make sure you

1382
01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:20,760
Speaker 1: don't go up too high because because then when you

1383
01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 1: come back down, if it slides out, it could hurt him.

1384
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:26,120
Speaker 1: So just be careful with that. Don't go too high. Yes, maam,

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01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 1: I did see on your Instagram where all the you know,

1386
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:35,840
Speaker 1: people were commenting and stuff or whatever, and you really

1387
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:38,560
Speaker 1: really talk to me like a big sister. And I

1388
01:12:38,680 --> 01:12:41,840
Speaker 1: just want to tell you that I apprechect you so much,

1389
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:45,600
Speaker 1: like this advice line inc past and speaking to you

1390
01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:49,720
Speaker 1: about my insecurity, like with everyone listening or whatever was

1391
01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:51,720
Speaker 1: hard for me, But at the same time, you made

1392
01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:56,920
Speaker 1: me feel very comfortable position over the key. Al Right.

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01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:02,440
Speaker 1: I think a lot of women, we do have insecurities

1394
01:13:02,439 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 1: about our body. But I do know for guys, like

1395
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:06,000
Speaker 1: I said, they're just happy to be there and they're

1396
01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:08,600
Speaker 1: not thinking look at this stretch mark, look at that

1397
01:13:08,800 --> 01:13:11,120
Speaker 1: fat like they're not even thinking like that. They just

1398
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:15,639
Speaker 1: thinking like this is amazing. I mean, we're still gonna

1399
01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 1: I mean, most guys still gonna hit, but they're gonna

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01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:19,439
Speaker 1: talk about it later to their boys at least. And

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01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:22,439
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. My whole thing is, you know,

1402
01:13:22,680 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 1: like man be discussing what they boys like about stuff

1403
01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:27,760
Speaker 1: like that. To me, I think they do, you know,

1404
01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:29,760
Speaker 1: they do, they do, but they I mean, if you

1405
01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:32,080
Speaker 1: if the poom poom is good, he's still gonna be like,

1406
01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:37,639
Speaker 1: but that poom poom fire though. Yeah, right, well, thank

1407
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:39,360
Speaker 1: you so much, and I'm glad that things got so

1408
01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: much better for you. That's and he sounds like an

1409
01:13:41,200 --> 01:13:43,719
Speaker 1: amazing man, so he deserves for you to ride again tonight,

1410
01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:47,200
Speaker 1: and he is. I'm I'm actually I'll be thirty five

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01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 1: next month and he's twenty six. And I had also

1412
01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:54,759
Speaker 1: had insecurities about that too, was our agent because stuff

1413
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:57,439
Speaker 1: or whatever, But like we're going on two years now,

1414
01:13:57,840 --> 01:14:01,200
Speaker 1: so all right now right here, well listen, keep on

1415
01:14:01,320 --> 01:14:03,560
Speaker 1: following up. I'm glad that you sound so excited and

1416
01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:05,800
Speaker 1: energetic about it, and I'm sure he feels better about

1417
01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:07,680
Speaker 1: it too, So that's dope. So that's what asky it's

1418
01:14:07,680 --> 01:14:10,639
Speaker 1: all about. And I'm happy to hear from you. Yes maam,

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01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 1: y'all have a wonderful morning. A goblet ali y'all too. Now,

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01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:17,240
Speaker 1: all right, ask ye. A guy will definitely be like yo,

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01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:20,320
Speaker 1: her body trash with her, poom poom fire. Not about

1422
01:14:20,360 --> 01:14:22,360
Speaker 1: his girl, about his girl though, or his wife. No,

1423
01:14:22,520 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 1: not about not about his girl away, Yeah, because they're

1424
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 1: in a real relation. They're in a real relationship, like

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01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:30,760
Speaker 1: they're together. I can't imagine he would tell yeah, not

1426
01:14:30,840 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 1: about his girl as his wife. Yeah, but he'll think

1427
01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:35,519
Speaker 1: that and that's why he got her. You know, let's

1428
01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:38,120
Speaker 1: go work out together. YadA, YadA, YadA. All right, Well,

1429
01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:39,960
Speaker 1: ask ye eight hundred and five and five one or

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01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:42,120
Speaker 1: five one. If you need advice, call us up again.

1431
01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep a real what's some real advice with

1432
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:51,519
Speaker 1: anthela ye gets ask ye morning. Everybody is j Envy

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01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast club.

1434
01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 1: We're in the middle of ask ye. Hello, who's this?

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01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:02,640
Speaker 1: Whoa Hey? Hi? How are you? I'm good? How are you?

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01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:06,360
Speaker 1: I'm fine? Thank you? I'm such a huge fan. Um,

1437
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:09,559
Speaker 1: and I'm whispering because my husband is sleepy, just came

1438
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:11,760
Speaker 1: home from work. But this is a secret that my

1439
01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:15,439
Speaker 1: son expressed to me that he wants to keep a secret. Okay,

1440
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:19,080
Speaker 1: my son, he just turned ten and he told me

1441
01:15:19,200 --> 01:15:23,040
Speaker 1: that he's made like boys and girls. Okay, and what

1442
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:26,080
Speaker 1: did you say? I don't, um. I told him no

1443
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:29,200
Speaker 1: matter what, that I would love him. Um. And whatever

1444
01:15:29,320 --> 01:15:31,720
Speaker 1: decision he makes out, I'm gonna stand next to him.

1445
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:36,960
Speaker 1: But I'm not sure if what he's feeling is correct

1446
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:39,559
Speaker 1: or or any like. I don't know. I need help

1447
01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:43,280
Speaker 1: with this. I'm not outside. I'm handlin it good with him,

1448
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:46,559
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to keep our relationship, you know. UM.

1449
01:15:46,680 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 1: I want him to come to me right for any

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01:15:48,960 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 1: about anything. But inside, I'm like kind of panicking and

1451
01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 1: I don't you know, like I'm going back and forth

1452
01:15:56,400 --> 01:16:00,160
Speaker 1: with myself. But what are you panicking about? Because nomber one,

1453
01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 1: he's a young black man already, UM, and you know,

1454
01:16:04,280 --> 01:16:07,320
Speaker 1: just to be open and he's already being bullied, he's

1455
01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:11,720
Speaker 1: already had mental health issues and you know, it's just

1456
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:15,000
Speaker 1: tough out here for him. So one more stigma on

1457
01:16:15,120 --> 01:16:18,639
Speaker 1: top of that it's just you know right, already expressed

1458
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:21,400
Speaker 1: in the third grade that he wanted to commit suicide. Wow,

1459
01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 1: it sounds like you put yourself. I'm thinking like maybe

1460
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:28,719
Speaker 1: this is you know what everything was that he was hiding,

1461
01:16:28,880 --> 01:16:31,800
Speaker 1: you know, right, yes, because it is painful to have

1462
01:16:31,920 --> 01:16:33,559
Speaker 1: these things that you want to hide. You don't want

1463
01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:35,880
Speaker 1: people to know. He it's great that he felt like

1464
01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 1: he could tell you, yes, that's what I told her, right,

1465
01:16:39,560 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 1: and start expressing that to you. And you have to

1466
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:44,599
Speaker 1: keep those lines of communication open. I think your response

1467
01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 1: was amazing, and I understand that you are concerned because

1468
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 1: that's your child, so you don't want him to be

1469
01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:52,519
Speaker 1: out in this world where people can be really nasty

1470
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:57,080
Speaker 1: and cruel. And I exactly right. So he expressed to

1471
01:16:57,160 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 1: me that he does like a boy in school and like,

1472
01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:02,240
Speaker 1: you know, like I don't, I don't know how to

1473
01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:05,160
Speaker 1: how to handle everything, like like this is a lot,

1474
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:08,400
Speaker 1: Like he's only ten. If he's too young to have

1475
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:11,320
Speaker 1: these feelings, is he you know? Like is this something

1476
01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 1: that's normal? If it's gonna change? I have so many

1477
01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:17,240
Speaker 1: questions like I don't, I don't I need help, And

1478
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 1: you know what, honey, there's nobody that can even answer

1479
01:17:19,960 --> 01:17:22,040
Speaker 1: all those questions for you, because he probably doesn't even

1480
01:17:22,120 --> 01:17:25,200
Speaker 1: understand everything right now. He just knows how he's feeling,

1481
01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:27,559
Speaker 1: and at least he's able to express how he's feeling.

1482
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:29,439
Speaker 1: And that's all he can do. Now. Have you got

1483
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:31,720
Speaker 1: him some professional help, somebody that he can speak to

1484
01:17:32,160 --> 01:17:34,240
Speaker 1: so that they can help him navigate, and maybe both

1485
01:17:34,320 --> 01:17:38,840
Speaker 1: of you should go. And I think that's not far.

1486
01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:42,040
Speaker 1: You know, like I'm still kind of in shock this.

1487
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:44,800
Speaker 1: He just expressed this to me two days ago, right,

1488
01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:48,040
Speaker 1: so I'm just like still trying to you know, see

1489
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 1: like I don't want him to, you know, feel like

1490
01:17:51,520 --> 01:17:53,600
Speaker 1: he can't trust me, but I don't want him to.

1491
01:17:54,280 --> 01:17:56,120
Speaker 1: He's only ten and I don't want him to start

1492
01:17:56,200 --> 01:17:59,320
Speaker 1: reacting on these feelings. And you know, like I I

1493
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:02,960
Speaker 1: don't know. And then he's also expressing to me like,

1494
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:06,320
Speaker 1: you know, please don't tell my God and don't tell

1495
01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,200
Speaker 1: this person, and you know, like I just he's scared

1496
01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:13,360
Speaker 1: of everyone's reaction, right, So and you should respect that,

1497
01:18:13,560 --> 01:18:16,599
Speaker 1: of course, and you are, Yeah, don't tell anybody else,

1498
01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:19,040
Speaker 1: but definitely go set up something for you guys, to

1499
01:18:19,120 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 1: find somebody good to talk to. If you hold on

1500
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: the line. I actually have somebody that can be really

1501
01:18:23,240 --> 01:18:26,320
Speaker 1: helpful with that, and that would be doctor Kendall Jasper

1502
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:27,960
Speaker 1: and I always refer people to him when we're in

1503
01:18:28,000 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 1: situations and I feel like this is dire because I

1504
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 1: want you to be able to know how to deal

1505
01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 1: with this. I'm not an expert in that, but I

1506
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:36,280
Speaker 1: do feel like what you've done so far has been

1507
01:18:36,640 --> 01:18:38,920
Speaker 1: amazing as a mom, and I know that I want

1508
01:18:39,040 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 1: you to be able to express to him in the

1509
01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 1: best way possible how much you love him, how much

1510
01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:46,760
Speaker 1: you care about him and us, and also help him

1511
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 1: learn what he needs to do in order to be

1512
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:51,559
Speaker 1: more comfortable and not have feelings of suicide, because that's

1513
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 1: a major too. You don't want him to everythink about

1514
01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 1: that again. That's my worst fear. All right, hold on

1515
01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 1: the line. I'm gonna hook you up with doctor Kendall much.

1516
01:19:00,960 --> 01:19:04,800
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, No problem, damn. Let's let's ask

1517
01:19:04,840 --> 01:19:07,479
Speaker 1: you one hundred and five and five one oh five one.

1518
01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:09,000
Speaker 1: You can call up and ask you whatever you want

1519
01:19:09,000 --> 01:19:12,120
Speaker 1: to talk to about. It's the breakfast Club, the Breakfast Club,

1520
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:20,160
Speaker 1: It's time to ask you and e morning. Everybody is

1521
01:19:20,280 --> 01:19:24,120
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela ye, Charlomagne the guy. We are the

1522
01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:27,840
Speaker 1: breakfast Club. It's time for ass C and E. You

1523
01:19:27,920 --> 01:19:30,000
Speaker 1: can ask us anything you want. Eight hundred and five

1524
01:19:30,080 --> 01:19:34,640
Speaker 1: A five one to five one. Hello, who's this? Hi? Askley?

1525
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:36,800
Speaker 1: What's your question? How are you doing to ask you?

1526
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm good, all right. So I'm twenty nine. Um,

1527
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 1: I've been separated for three years, married for five and

1528
01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:52,320
Speaker 1: I recently found out that my ex or whatever, my husband,

1529
01:19:52,840 --> 01:19:58,280
Speaker 1: that she is bisexual. Okay, he likes men and women, right,

1530
01:19:59,080 --> 01:20:03,599
Speaker 1: So that being said has changed and like we kind

1531
01:20:03,600 --> 01:20:05,000
Speaker 1: of don't know how to go with each other. It's

1532
01:20:05,080 --> 01:20:06,560
Speaker 1: more and that's like he's acting like a real d

1533
01:20:07,240 --> 01:20:09,320
Speaker 1: Like now I gotta deal with a female and before

1534
01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:12,200
Speaker 1: it was a whole different person. We'll listen. I don't

1535
01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 1: like your attitude about this, and I'm gonna tell you why.

1536
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:19,040
Speaker 1: You know how that makes people lack? Right? You don't

1537
01:20:19,080 --> 01:20:21,280
Speaker 1: you don't? You know, have started acting funny because you

1538
01:20:21,400 --> 01:20:24,600
Speaker 1: was getting some good d. Okay, so you should be

1539
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:26,479
Speaker 1: able to relate to that man even more. Now that

1540
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 1: shouldn't drive y'all apart. Oh god, listen, So my question

1541
01:20:31,640 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 1: is how do I get him to be a little

1542
01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:38,960
Speaker 1: bit more, How do I deal with him in terms

1543
01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:40,400
Speaker 1: like how am I be patient? Because I don't know.

1544
01:20:40,640 --> 01:20:42,519
Speaker 1: I don't I don't throw a woman like I don't

1545
01:20:42,560 --> 01:20:44,200
Speaker 1: know how. He's not a woman, he's a man. You

1546
01:20:44,280 --> 01:20:46,400
Speaker 1: gotta deal with him the same way. He's just a

1547
01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:49,760
Speaker 1: dumatized person. Stop looking at it from agenda perspective and

1548
01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:53,599
Speaker 1: just think from the perspective of being tematized. You've been there,

1549
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:56,160
Speaker 1: you can relate. You need to look that man in

1550
01:20:56,240 --> 01:20:58,040
Speaker 1: his eyes and say, look, man, I understand how that

1551
01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:00,960
Speaker 1: good D can get you, But you acting funny with me? Son?

1552
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 1: Good luck though, good luck. I don't understand why this

1553
01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:09,880
Speaker 1: isn't such a complicated conversation. Now y'all got more in common.

1554
01:21:09,960 --> 01:21:13,400
Speaker 1: You like penis, he like penis. It's different, different when

1555
01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:15,759
Speaker 1: you were really dealing with someone and now they've changed,

1556
01:21:16,560 --> 01:21:19,560
Speaker 1: like or maybe or maybe you have changed. Maybe you

1557
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:22,000
Speaker 1: feel a way now because you understand that he's just

1558
01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:24,560
Speaker 1: not giving a D to you. Have you ever been bisexual?

1559
01:21:24,960 --> 01:21:28,320
Speaker 1: You've been with a woman. I am actually from the beginning.

1560
01:21:28,560 --> 01:21:32,360
Speaker 1: Oh so, y'all both share the best of both worlds.

1561
01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:35,639
Speaker 1: He like penis andoom. You like penis and poom. Poom

1562
01:21:36,240 --> 01:21:38,719
Speaker 1: in the same way you're hating Yo. You hate because

1563
01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 1: he's getting more d than you Nowaday, you sound like

1564
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:42,960
Speaker 1: I hate a hater. Y'all. You hate him? You hate him?

1565
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:46,960
Speaker 1: I hate him? Goodness creations as CNE eight hundred and

1566
01:21:47,040 --> 01:21:49,000
Speaker 1: five eight five one on five one. If you hate it,

1567
01:21:49,040 --> 01:21:52,160
Speaker 1: will take it. Calls to Hello, who's that? Hi? I said,

1568
01:21:52,200 --> 01:21:54,560
Speaker 1: my name is anonymous? Hey, Anonymous? What's your question for

1569
01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 1: seeing it? I don't get it. We're on the radio,

1570
01:21:56,479 --> 01:21:58,120
Speaker 1: nobody can see you. But whatever. You can give a

1571
01:21:58,200 --> 01:22:00,759
Speaker 1: fake name. No, but my name is just so unique,

1572
01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:04,760
Speaker 1: you know. I just can't do it. So name, go ahead.

1573
01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 1: What's your question, mamma, I'm glad I got y'all to today.

1574
01:22:08,120 --> 01:22:11,040
Speaker 1: It's a good Question's okay. So I've been with my

1575
01:22:11,160 --> 01:22:14,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend for We're in our tenth year, right, yes, congratulations?

1576
01:22:15,040 --> 01:22:18,920
Speaker 1: Oh you know thanks. We had three kids together, okay.

1577
01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:22,160
Speaker 1: And when we first started dating, we both established that

1578
01:22:22,200 --> 01:22:24,320
Speaker 1: we didn't want to get married. It was just like,

1579
01:22:24,720 --> 01:22:26,720
Speaker 1: I think we were both young and it was hey,

1580
01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:28,880
Speaker 1: we just dating, let's have fun. We didn't see that

1581
01:22:28,920 --> 01:22:32,000
Speaker 1: we'd be to get the ten years. So now my

1582
01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:35,240
Speaker 1: values have changed and I want to get married and

1583
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:40,519
Speaker 1: he's in that why I fixed something that? Yeah, and

1584
01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 1: but I'm looking at it more on a you know,

1585
01:22:43,280 --> 01:22:47,960
Speaker 1: showing your kids that you value your relationship and legal

1586
01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:51,120
Speaker 1: standpoints too. If anything ever happens to me or him,

1587
01:22:51,760 --> 01:22:54,280
Speaker 1: we can't go on the room. We're not allowed there,

1588
01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:56,439
Speaker 1: we have no say so. But we know what's best

1589
01:22:56,479 --> 01:22:59,880
Speaker 1: for each other. I agree, so. But the thing is,

1590
01:23:00,479 --> 01:23:02,479
Speaker 1: but he came in this relationship not thinking that he

1591
01:23:02,520 --> 01:23:04,080
Speaker 1: didn't want to get married, and you knew that, and

1592
01:23:04,120 --> 01:23:06,439
Speaker 1: you didn't want to get married. You changed up. He

1593
01:23:06,479 --> 01:23:08,880
Speaker 1: didn't change up. You sound just like my best friend.

1594
01:23:08,920 --> 01:23:11,439
Speaker 1: He had do too. But the thing is, your values changed,

1595
01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:14,360
Speaker 1: and your kids start to ask you why y'all don't

1596
01:23:14,360 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 1: got the same last name? Exactly happened to me exactly,

1597
01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:22,400
Speaker 1: so we wentn't looking for houses, and my daughter said, mommy,

1598
01:23:22,439 --> 01:23:24,320
Speaker 1: and the next house we go and you can't come

1599
01:23:24,360 --> 01:23:28,160
Speaker 1: in because you're not a blank she said, their last name. Wow,

1600
01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:30,400
Speaker 1: it like hurt my heart. Yeah, but she was only

1601
01:23:30,479 --> 01:23:32,880
Speaker 1: like three or four. Did you have that conversation with him?

1602
01:23:32,880 --> 01:23:35,200
Speaker 1: Does he still doesn't want to get married? Yes, But

1603
01:23:35,320 --> 01:23:37,360
Speaker 1: the thing is, I don't want to continue to push

1604
01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:39,439
Speaker 1: because I don't want him to feel obligated. I don't

1605
01:23:39,439 --> 01:23:41,800
Speaker 1: want a man to marry me out of obligation. I

1606
01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:44,160
Speaker 1: want him to marry me because he feels like we

1607
01:23:44,400 --> 01:23:47,240
Speaker 1: have the same value. Right. But you know, you already

1608
01:23:47,280 --> 01:23:49,560
Speaker 1: went into this relationship, in this union thinking that you

1609
01:23:49,680 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 1: didn't want to get married. He didn't want to get married.

1610
01:23:51,439 --> 01:23:52,800
Speaker 1: He was cool with that. What's the reason he doesn't

1611
01:23:52,840 --> 01:23:55,960
Speaker 1: want to get married. He's just saying, like, what does

1612
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:58,360
Speaker 1: a piece of paper do for us? We know that

1613
01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:01,360
Speaker 1: we're both for each other and we're gonna be together forever.

1614
01:24:02,360 --> 01:24:04,880
Speaker 1: Where he's on the black man don't cheat. He does

1615
01:24:04,960 --> 01:24:08,240
Speaker 1: not cheat. I know this. But the thing is, it's

1616
01:24:08,280 --> 01:24:10,639
Speaker 1: just like for him, it's like, why I'm gonna tell

1617
01:24:10,640 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 1: you something. I think you know. I'm sure he loves you,

1618
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:14,479
Speaker 1: I'm sure he wants to be with you for the

1619
01:24:14,560 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 1: rest of his life. With JAD. That's the thing when

1620
01:24:16,240 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 1: your kids come to you, and your kids say, why

1621
01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,080
Speaker 1: y'all don't have the same last name? Like you know,

1622
01:24:20,439 --> 01:24:22,800
Speaker 1: I do believe that marriage is just a piece of paper,

1623
01:24:23,120 --> 01:24:25,840
Speaker 1: and y'all already married because y'all are tired. It's the soul, correct.

1624
01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:27,760
Speaker 1: But I do like the fact I do like the

1625
01:24:28,840 --> 01:24:30,720
Speaker 1: I like making it official. I think he should make

1626
01:24:30,760 --> 01:24:32,760
Speaker 1: an official but you know I can't. I can't tell

1627
01:24:32,880 --> 01:24:34,360
Speaker 1: him to marry you. I can only tell him to

1628
01:24:34,400 --> 01:24:37,040
Speaker 1: find somebody to share his life experiences with. But he

1629
01:24:37,080 --> 01:24:39,840
Speaker 1: already got that. So it's really nice. And he tells

1630
01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:41,680
Speaker 1: me that all the time. He's like, Hey, I want

1631
01:24:41,680 --> 01:24:43,680
Speaker 1: to be with you year the person I want. I

1632
01:24:43,720 --> 01:24:46,120
Speaker 1: don't want to do with anybody else. But he just

1633
01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:49,639
Speaker 1: doesn't see the reason why. Hey, we've been together this long,

1634
01:24:49,760 --> 01:24:51,640
Speaker 1: it's been working. You should tell him. You should tell

1635
01:24:51,720 --> 01:24:54,000
Speaker 1: him the reason is because you want to That's it.

1636
01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:57,639
Speaker 1: And your kids, your kids as well. I'm all about

1637
01:24:57,720 --> 01:25:00,439
Speaker 1: making my woman happy, happy wife, happy life. So the

1638
01:25:00,560 --> 01:25:03,400
Speaker 1: fact that tell him you want to, don't, don't. Don't.

1639
01:25:03,439 --> 01:25:05,559
Speaker 1: Don't even make it like negotiable, be like, y'all really

1640
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 1: want to get married. When you ask you what you

1641
01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:08,320
Speaker 1: want for Christmas? I want to get married. What you

1642
01:25:08,360 --> 01:25:10,160
Speaker 1: want for your birthday? I want to get married. What

1643
01:25:10,280 --> 01:25:12,439
Speaker 1: you want from Valentine? I want to get married. Trying

1644
01:25:12,520 --> 01:25:14,680
Speaker 1: too much? Whyn't you just ask him one good time?

1645
01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:16,160
Speaker 1: Why don't you ask him? Why don't you get a

1646
01:25:16,240 --> 01:25:17,800
Speaker 1: ring and be like I want you to be my husband.

1647
01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:21,439
Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't do that. You

1648
01:25:21,520 --> 01:25:24,840
Speaker 1: just go curse the video. Never, I would never do that.

1649
01:25:25,280 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 1: Do about to be a Christian Jim John situation. I

1650
01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:31,160
Speaker 1: don't think it's anything wrong with letting him know that's

1651
01:25:31,200 --> 01:25:33,120
Speaker 1: what you want, though, And if he loves and if

1652
01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:34,960
Speaker 1: he really really loves you, and he really because it's

1653
01:25:34,960 --> 01:25:36,360
Speaker 1: gonna come a point in time where he can't give you.

1654
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:38,200
Speaker 1: He can buy you a house, he can buy you purses,

1655
01:25:38,200 --> 01:25:40,360
Speaker 1: all that stuff he done all that. He bought me

1656
01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:42,839
Speaker 1: a house. He's support We both own our own businesses.

1657
01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:45,920
Speaker 1: He supports my business so much. And it's just like

1658
01:25:46,720 --> 01:25:49,000
Speaker 1: you want that ring. That's the only thing that I want.

1659
01:25:49,160 --> 01:25:51,120
Speaker 1: I don't even need. The thing is I don't. I

1660
01:25:51,160 --> 01:25:52,760
Speaker 1: can get one of those the rings you go work

1661
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:54,720
Speaker 1: out with. It is like silicone. I don't need the

1662
01:25:54,800 --> 01:25:57,040
Speaker 1: big jewel. I just want to be able to share

1663
01:25:57,080 --> 01:25:59,760
Speaker 1: the last name and we be a You need to

1664
01:25:59,760 --> 01:26:01,920
Speaker 1: go on title and make you a marriage playlist. When

1665
01:26:01,960 --> 01:26:03,800
Speaker 1: y'all in the car, just songs be playing like let's

1666
01:26:03,800 --> 01:26:05,800
Speaker 1: get married beyond it. If you like it, then you

1667
01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:07,400
Speaker 1: put a ring on it. Just all these songs they

1668
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:09,240
Speaker 1: got to do in marriage. Just keep beating it in

1669
01:26:09,280 --> 01:26:12,400
Speaker 1: his head. Eventually he'll come around y'all all day. So

1670
01:26:12,560 --> 01:26:14,639
Speaker 1: y'all get tell him, tell him to marry me. What's

1671
01:26:14,680 --> 01:26:19,760
Speaker 1: his name? What's his name? His name is DWIGHTE. White?

1672
01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:23,080
Speaker 1: Get married, Get married to West. What you do is

1673
01:26:23,160 --> 01:26:24,960
Speaker 1: you wait right right when y'are having sex, right when

1674
01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:28,040
Speaker 1: he's about, and you stop right there, and you'd be like,

1675
01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:30,920
Speaker 1: this is only for a married man, and just walk out.

1676
01:26:32,040 --> 01:26:36,040
Speaker 1: What No, the wighte for real? Get married. I promise you,

1677
01:26:36,080 --> 01:26:38,240
Speaker 1: when you get married, your life will change, man. And

1678
01:26:38,320 --> 01:26:39,960
Speaker 1: not only when you get married. When you get married

1679
01:26:40,080 --> 01:26:43,320
Speaker 1: and you're a faithful black man, I promise you your

1680
01:26:43,400 --> 01:26:45,880
Speaker 1: life will transform in ways that you can't even explain.

1681
01:26:45,920 --> 01:26:47,439
Speaker 1: I can't even explain to you. To joy that I

1682
01:26:47,479 --> 01:26:49,719
Speaker 1: feel in my life. Peters gets bigger when you get married.

1683
01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:56,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, get married. The white marry me white to white?

1684
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:59,200
Speaker 1: All right, The white do what's right, The white do

1685
01:26:59,320 --> 01:27:04,040
Speaker 1: what the white alright? I'm with that. All right, Well,

1686
01:27:04,080 --> 01:27:06,880
Speaker 1: don't move. Happy holidays. It's the breakfast club. Good morning,

1687
01:27:07,280 --> 01:27:11,519
Speaker 1: the breakfast club. All right, Charlemagne, you got a positive

1688
01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:14,360
Speaker 1: note for the people. I do positive note and simple man.

1689
01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:17,320
Speaker 1: What's broken can be mended, what hurts can be healed,

1690
01:27:17,560 --> 01:27:20,040
Speaker 1: And no matter how dark it gets, the sun is

1691
01:27:20,120 --> 01:27:23,559
Speaker 1: going to rise again. Breakfast Club, you know I'll finish

1692
01:27:23,560 --> 01:27:24,160
Speaker 1: for y'all. Dunk