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Speaker 1: Podcast starts. Now, what's up, idiots. This is Stradio Lab

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Speaker 1: and what's up, my beloved, smart, smart people. I don't

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Speaker 1: think you're idiots like Sam Wow, angel and devil on

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Speaker 1: your little ship. Do you think that's kind of subverting

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Speaker 1: it because I feel like normally you would maybe be

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Speaker 1: the angel. Is that wrong? I don't know. And that's

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Speaker 1: the thing. And I don't even want to start a

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Speaker 1: conversation about like pitting each other against each other in

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Speaker 1: this way because that is so toxic. But I do

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Speaker 1: feel like inherently, when two people of any gender and

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Speaker 1: sexuality hosts a podcast together, they are pitted against each

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Speaker 1: other by the listeners. Yes, and there's a feeling of like, okay,

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Speaker 1: well one of them is the like evil one and

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Speaker 1: one of them is the one of them is an angel,

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Speaker 1: one of them is the devil. And I do I

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Speaker 1: think a good podcast those roles shift and you know,

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Speaker 1: sort of dark night vibes. You will be the villain

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Speaker 1: that the podcast needs at the time that you need it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I would take that a step further and say,

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Speaker 1: in each episode, ideally one of us becomes the joker

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Speaker 1: during the course of that episode. I think we maybe

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Speaker 1: both start out normal, and as a goal, I would

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Speaker 1: say I would like fifty of the time for you

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Speaker 1: to become the Joker throughout an episode and fifty percent

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Speaker 1: of the time for me to become the Joker. If

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Speaker 1: neither of us becomes the Joker, it's not a podcast episode.

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Speaker 1: It's just a zoom meeting, right, And if both of

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Speaker 1: us become the Joker, that's a problem. That's like a

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Speaker 1: huge issue, and that's like and that's unprofessional. Basically, it's

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Speaker 1: basically unprofessional, and it's sort of disrespectful to anyone that's

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Speaker 1: ever invested in us. Yeah. Well, it's also like the

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Speaker 1: guests can only handle one of us becoming the Joker,

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Speaker 1: and I think when both of us become the Joker,

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Speaker 1: that's when we crowd out the guests, and that's when

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Speaker 1: we have episodes where we are like talking over the

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Speaker 1: guests because we are literally both the Joker. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: the tweet fair and to our credit, I don't think

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Speaker 1: we've ever both become Joker. I don't think we've ever

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Speaker 1: completely boxed out a guest and like left them for dead.

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Speaker 1: I would love to know if our listeners think there

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Speaker 1: are any episodes where we've both become the joker. And

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Speaker 1: I actually I'm so happy that you brought into the

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Speaker 1: discussion the concept of us having listeners, because something I've

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Speaker 1: been thinking about, you know, obviously, like we talked about

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Speaker 1: the podcast while we make the podcast. That's been the

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Speaker 1: theme from day one, so we have to address it

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Speaker 1: every time. This is a pot it's a podcast about

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Speaker 1: the act of making a podcast that is accidentally and

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Speaker 1: illegally released every week. And I think you know, as

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Speaker 1: we've hit various milestones, we've also discussed them live on air,

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Speaker 1: and I think the next milestone we are going to

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Speaker 1: hit it's inevitable. And I think you might know what

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say. It's listeners turning on us. Backlash, backlashes.

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Speaker 1: We are literally about to enter our backlash era, and

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Speaker 1: like I can feel it coming, So I can feel

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Speaker 1: it at my door, and I'm like trying to lock

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Speaker 1: You are correct, And I've honestly been mentally preparing for

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Speaker 1: know that people can't you know, you get written up

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Speaker 1: in sure maybe one vulture right up. People are supportive.

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Speaker 1: They didn't maybe two people love that, and then suddenly

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Speaker 1: you're in Time Magazine and addition, but again addition, and

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Speaker 1: I cannot believe you just said that. I literally was

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Speaker 1: that I could say, that's the the new era is.

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Speaker 1: We're each becoming the Joker every episode. We have a

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Speaker 1: good routine. It's one time it's you, one time it's me.

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Speaker 1: Out of nowhere. We are in Spiderman three and there

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Speaker 1: are too many villains. There's too many villains, and literally

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Speaker 1: tofor Grace was a Marvel Spider Man villain. Well, I

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Speaker 1: think Toper Grace has a joker equality to him because

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Speaker 1: I think it's literally iconic when Toby McGuire becomes Emo.

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Speaker 1: and I have to have to stick up for what's right.

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Speaker 1: We can't spify Spider Man three. It's actually a horrible,

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Speaker 1: horrible movie. Okay. That's so fascinating because as someone who

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Speaker 1: isn't into superhero culture, for me, all of them are

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Speaker 1: it's just like the binary is just superhero or nor

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Speaker 1: don't care if Tie for Grace is there or if

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Speaker 1: this same time, George. I'm not even trying to get

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Speaker 1: upset with you. It's just like this is not true.

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Speaker 1: It's just like being like, yeah, I'm not a restaurant person,

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Speaker 1: how I am with superhero is like you're applying that

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Speaker 1: you're seeing I think you're being um intellectually disingenuous, and

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Speaker 1: I think you're not playing to your highest intelligence. And

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Speaker 1: I think that you are cheapening the podcast by bringing

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Speaker 1: that's how I think his performance is fine. But I

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Speaker 1: think the film is clearly much worse than the first

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Speaker 1: two Spider Man movies. See to me, I don't a grade.

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Speaker 1: You have to rewatch them. You are literally all over

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Wow, you're literally becoming tofor grades and

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Speaker 1: that you're becoming joker refied. You are jokerfied. I am

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Speaker 1: his experience on Spider Man Threat. Correct, I'm saying he

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Speaker 1: and to be fair, the to Firs Stand army is

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Speaker 1: Your head better be spinning or else we don't want to.

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Speaker 1: We should install a device in people's phones, like if

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Speaker 1: they're agreeing with one of us too much, it blows up.

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00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 1: I think that's really really smart. Yeah, thank you. Um,

426
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,479
Speaker 1: let's do our first segment. Yeah, I think it's time, Rachel.

427
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Speaker 1: Our first segment is called straight Shooters, and in this segment,

428
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Speaker 1: we give you a series of rapid fire questions where

429
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 1: you have to choose between two or more things, and ultimately,

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Speaker 1: the one rule is that you can't ask any follow

431
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:46,439
Speaker 1: up questions about how it works. Do you copy? Copy? Okay, Rachel?

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00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: Oh you start, you start, Okay, okay, I'll start. I'll start.

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Speaker 1: Actually I have like kind of a vintage one and

434
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: then it straightforward and not and not like meta. I

435
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 1: actually kind of went straight forward with this round two

436
00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: because I was kind of, you know, feeling too much pressure.

437
00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 1: And I said no, Yeah, now you guys thought she won't.

438
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 1: I think mine get progressively. Well we'll see. Okay, So, Rachel,

439
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 1: asking your house guests to take their shoes off or

440
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Speaker 1: asking your house guests to use a coaster take shoes off?

441
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: Because coaster? Can? I explain you can? You can always,

442
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 1: you don't have to ask. You put the coaster under

443
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: the drink and they say thank you, But you're actually

444
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 1: kind of making them you can't take off their shoes

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00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 1: for them. I feel like the coaster is so passive

446
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 1: aggressive though you prefer aggressive, I prefer direct. But yeah, okay,

447
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,159
Speaker 1: but would you ever think if I put like a

448
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 1: little coaster under your glass, like oh, thank you or no?

449
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 1: I would actually not find that pass. I would be like, Okay,

450
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 1: Rachel's mad. Like I was like, Rachel really takes this

451
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: table seriously, and I picked off. Here's what the real

452
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 1: trux of the issue is. The issue is whether you

453
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Speaker 1: put it out before I've had a chance to first

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Speaker 1: put down the guard. Yeah what if I did it

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00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 1: with a smile, I've already put down the glass. Then

456
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: I pick it up again, and then you put a

457
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 1: coaster down, I'm gonna start crying. Yeah, I'm like, this

458
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 1: is this is a complete disaster, Like we're literally in

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Speaker 1: a fight. Yeah, you have to be you have to

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00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: be very procative. You have to be like handing the drink,

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00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: it kind of their place together. Okay, if you do

462
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: it like that, if it comes on like a little saucer,

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00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:28,679
Speaker 1: if it comes on a coaster, yeah, that's not pass. Okay,

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00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: wow um okay. Breakfast at Tiffany's or the breakfast club,

465
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: breakfast club, okay, watching the game or gaming the system, okay.

466
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Speaker 1: Pierce Brosnan or Rachel Brosnahan, genius Pierce Brosnan. I'm attracted

467
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Speaker 1: to him. I was attracted to him from an earlier

468
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: It's hard not to be Okay, Rachel, I'm not like

469
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Speaker 1: other girls. I'm not a girl, not yet a woman.

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00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 1: Or I'm just a girl standing in front of a

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00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 1: boy asking him to love me. I'm not a I'm

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00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: not a girl, not a woman, or the middle um okay,

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Speaker 1: the naked gun, the bear, naked ladies or naked juice,

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Speaker 1: naked juice. Yeah, okay, Rachel, laughing through the tears or

475
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: just crying with no sense of humor, just crying no

476
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:34,479
Speaker 1: sense of humor. Okay, pick me energy or I choose

477
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 1: you Pikachu. I kind of want to go pick me energy,

478
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 1: just because I it's it's entertaining to watch. It's it's

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00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,639
Speaker 1: a it's like a term that you can throw around,

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00:27:55,720 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: a phase phrase. I love a phrase. Wait, kind of

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00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: like I love a phrase as your Yeah it's fun

482
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: once you like heard in your life. Oh that's a thing,

483
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: and then yeah yeah. The other day I used the

484
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 1: phrase don't kiss on my leg and telling me it's

485
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 1: raining with Sam and I felt very powerful. I think

486
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 1: you mostly sold it. It was you know, you were

487
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: like unsure of yourself, but you stuck the less. That's

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00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,439
Speaker 1: that one's good when it really like capture something and

489
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: you're like, my little sister, tell me one where you

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00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: do a heart? But wait, how did she do it?

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00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,360
Speaker 1: Like for listeners, Rachel is using her fingers to make

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00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: a heart. Oh, she does like a weird like middle

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00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: heart kind of thing, and then she goes, he's a snake,

494
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: and I'm not doing it right, but I was laughing.

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00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: It's a little more conceptual. I still don't get it.

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00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: It's like you're kind of like doing a heart. I'm

497
00:28:56,880 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: not doing it right, but it's only half of our heart. Really,

498
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:04,120
Speaker 1: my fingers are trembling and chicken the whole time I

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00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 1: was home, like me following her around, trying to imitate

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00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 1: her um. And then it's like it's it's like when

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00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: someone put comments is a heart after something mean? But yeah,

502
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:21,479
Speaker 1: but they're actually commenting snake emoji. Yeah, but you can

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00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: say anything mean and then do the little heart hand,

504
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: but she would. The example that she said was she's

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00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: talking about how he's a snake and then she yeah, yeah, yeah,

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00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: so you say something mean and then you do the

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00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: heart to symbolize that it's you're kidding. Yeah, but also

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00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 1: maybe not because it's half a heart. You're like being

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00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 1: a brat. Yeah, yeah, it's important. It's important to always

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00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: be a little brat. Be a little brat. I love

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Speaker 1: when the sex quiz is like, you're a brass Is that?

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00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, wait, is that a straight sex thing? That? Oh?

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00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 1: I think the what taking the sex quiet? I think?

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00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: I feel like yeah, it's like I feel like being

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00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: a brat is like the cute see name they had

516
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: for like either like like annoying sub or like or

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00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: like a like a nice way to say like weird,

518
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 1: like a dog play or something. It's like a cute way.

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00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 1: It's a it's a way for straight people to be queer. Yes,

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00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: to be bratty, during to be bratty. If straight people

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00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 1: are braddy, they fall under the lgbt Q umbrella braddy

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00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 1: drink sex. Yeah, ready, drink sex. I think it's nice

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00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: that straight people have their own sexual culture. You know,

524
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: it's so fun. It's like it's almost realm almost one day.

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00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: But it feels it feels real to them. To them,

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00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 1: it feels rou to them. U um, should we bring

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00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: in the topic? Yeah? Is that he's welcome to the

528
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: main stage. The topic real main stage. Coming straight out

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00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: of Arizona from pure neutral to the main stage it's

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00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 1: our topic. Um, a couple of options, but well you

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00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: sort of say where you settled and um, what led

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00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: you to this topic? Um? I think I settled on

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00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: merch merch being the overall title, with a couple of

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00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 1: subsets of you know, bridal shower merch, which George brought up, um,

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00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: family merch, and maybe like trip which trip based merch,

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00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: which I think crosses over with family merch, like a

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00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: family on a trip to Florida all wearing shirts that

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00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: say like the Smiths or something, and then yeah, so

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00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: what I'm hearing is kind of overall like custom merch,

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00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: not sub merge, not to emerge. It's like when people

541
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: are like, we what we really need is like coffee

542
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:13,719
Speaker 1: mugs that say everyone's name and the dog gets one.

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00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 1: It's actually saying, you know what's sad about this? On

544
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: a psychoanalytic level, it's like every those people are afraid

545
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: of like not existing, so they have to constantly be

546
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: reminding themselves and others like we were here, like we

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00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: took this trip, we are related, I am getting there,

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00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: and otherwise it might like it might be real. Honestly,

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00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: I feel like there's cross over with monograms too, when

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00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: people like in their house have like everywhere. It's like

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00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: it's like all around my house. I had just like

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00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: ses and I would be like, I've said it. That's me,

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00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean. Yeah, it's trying to

554
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 1: like physicalize the family bond in a way that's like

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00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: like make it explicit, make explicit. It's it feels um

556
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 1: so of old world ownership vibes like yes, it's colonialism.

557
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: It's colonialism. It's like we are a team and you

558
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: can see that because we all are wearing the shirt.

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00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: And also like Christmas cards, like just like sending holiday

560
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: cards or having a little wooden sign on the door

561
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: that says the Taggarts. Yeah. I mean, and if we're okay,

562
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: if we're starting with family merch, I would like to

563
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: first get all of your experience, like did your family

564
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 1: have merched, what was the style, what was the best,

565
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: what was the worst? Hit me with it, Okay, Rachel,

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00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 1: I have a shirt that says the Senate Family Reunion,

567
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: and I was not able to attend the reunion, so

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00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: I am colostantly guilted about it. However, I have three

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00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: t shirts that all say the same thing. And then

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00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: my dad made these hats that actually are cute, that's

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00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: say Senate University. I love I love those, and my

572
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: dad got he got creative with the designe there, so

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00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 1: I give him points. But those are my two main

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00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 1: March experiences. And then one year I kind of did

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00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 1: merch where I took a photo of my mom where

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00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 1: she like looked she was so tired that she looked high,

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00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,720
Speaker 1: and then she was saying something about not smoking weed.

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00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 1: So I made t shirts for everyone that was like,

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00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 1: don't smoke weed with like a picture of my mom

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00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 1: looking tired but looking high. Yeah, I like that. That

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00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:47,479
Speaker 1: sounds but it's actually funny. That's funny, was a yeah, Sam,

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00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: I had a we literally had a taggart sign like

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00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 1: what you're saying, oh my god ea, which actually was tasteful.

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Speaker 1: It had a from the door, it was for the inside,

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00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: um and it was sort of like I want to say,

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00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: it looked like medieval or something where it was like

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00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: little Jesterman like would be each letter, you know, and

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00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,359
Speaker 1: so is that style, so like a little silly, which

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00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: I liked. We've never been a huge merged family. Recently,

590
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 1: my uncle gave us all matching sweaters that don't say

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00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: like Taggart anywhere, but they are all like the same

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00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 1: exact sweater and it my mom made us take a

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00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,720
Speaker 1: group photo wearing them, which you know, it was supposed

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00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: to Facebook. So I thought, oh great, none of my

595
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: friends will see this. Ten minutes after it's posted, I

596
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 1: get a message from Nick nanny um making fun of

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00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 1: me podcast um, and so that was fine. And then

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00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,240
Speaker 1: other than that, my parents were big into like matching

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00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: outfits for photo shoots growing up. But that's as far

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00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,760
Speaker 1: as it went. It wasn't They're not hard merch people,

601
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 1: George so I. When I was home, I realized that

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00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: there exists two mugs that each have one of my

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00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:14,839
Speaker 1: sister's faces on them, and there is not a mug

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00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: that has my face on it, which I had never

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00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: really noticed before. We where did did? Was there a

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00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: day that no, just organically like I, I honestly could

607
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 1: not even tell you who made which one, like one

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00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 1: of them was probably a gift for something, the other

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00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: one like our aunt made, you know, like for someone's birthday.

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00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. But somehow we have gotten to a

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00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: point where in my parents kitchen there is a mug

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00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: of one of my sisters. There's a mug of my

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00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,399
Speaker 1: other sister, and there there are none of me, which

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00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,360
Speaker 1: I found interesting that I would say is merch like

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00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: that there are mugs with their photos on them. We

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00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: also um over the holidays when I was home that

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00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: there are kind of monogrammed Christmas stockings that I think

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00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:58,320
Speaker 1: are probably from like LLL Bean, let's say, with each

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00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 1: of our three names on them. So that's its own thing,

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00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 1: And then I think that might be it. I do.

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Speaker 1: I not to you know, all the my family's foreign card,

622
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,240
Speaker 1: but I do think this is a very American tradition

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00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 1: of constantly putting your family's name on things. And now

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00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: that you actually bring up that other, I'm like, we

625
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 1: have cups with our initials on them. We do too.

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00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: Now that yeah, I'm like, I didn't know what you

627
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: were like, like, yeah, we we all have a healthy amount,

628
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:31,720
Speaker 1: because if we had none, it would be like exactly,

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00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: you're not a little bit to remind yourself that you exist.

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Speaker 1: We have a family, were family. Yeah. I do think

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Speaker 1: something big in our house, which in my mind is like,

632
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 1: uh a more. I don't know if it's less straight,

633
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: but it's less like in your face. Perhaps it's like

634
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 1: there are just photos of us everywhere that it's like overwhelming,

635
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:58,359
Speaker 1: Like when you walk in, every surface has like at

636
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: least eight framed photographs of various people in the family,

637
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:03,919
Speaker 1: and that I think maybe makes up for the lack

638
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: of merch that's sort of your your your family's special

639
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 1: takeoff version is photos. Yeah, I feel like it's what

640
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: do you think is more humiliating to have to be

641
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: like traveling in shirts that say what it is or

642
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:27,280
Speaker 1: like no words, but like full matching like track suits

643
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: or like sweatpants. Right, Yeah, I still think the matching

644
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: shirts is more embarrassing because the sweat like if you

645
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: had a full matching sweatsuit with everyone in your family,

646
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: you could still like scatter and yeah, then be invisible,

647
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:45,280
Speaker 1: whereas if you're or maybe people are like they're athletes

648
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:49,439
Speaker 1: or something like they're the weird basketball team where they're

649
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: all different ages and genders. Yeah, with the baby and

650
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 1: I would actually I would maybe disagree because I feel like,

651
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: at least with the merch, Okay, it's a special occasion,

652
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:05,040
Speaker 1: you're clearly celebrating someone sixteenth birthday, whereas if everyone's rematching,

653
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,760
Speaker 1: if it's suddenly you're like, is that what they always

654
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 1: look like? Yeah, that's a good point. Okay, And I'm

655
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: being the perfect listener and I was like totally. And

656
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 1: then George talking, I was like, yeah, you're all in

657
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: on both of them, but you have like truly a

658
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 1: split second to switch back to Sam, otherwise you will

659
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: be ejective. No, it's they're both good points. Because the

660
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: thing is with the T shirt. Also, it's like it's

661
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: kind of like a school uniform where it's like you

662
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,479
Speaker 1: can make your own take on it, like maybe like

663
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: the teenager is kind of get into a crop top.

664
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 1: Maybe an older person who gets cold easily is wearing

665
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: it over ely. We have options versus it's like the

666
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: track suits. It's like this is it. But again, you

667
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 1: walk away from the group, you're free. I guess that's true.

668
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 1: I guess that's true. You don't have it. The group

669
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 1: element is not permanently on your Yeah, but you can

670
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 1: still be an individual. Worst case scenario, you scatter, but

671
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 1: you're with one other person and you were in complete

672
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: matching outfits, and then people just think you're like a

673
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 1: weird performance duo like that. It's really dicey. You gotta

674
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: have to have a complete separation in order to be incognito. Yeah,

675
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 1: I feel like that's family trip is the most embarrassing,

676
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: Like birthday bridal shower is like slightly less to me.

677
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: The least embarrassing is if you're celebrating an older person's birthday.

678
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 1: Like if I'm seeing people and they haven't like Grandpa's

679
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: eightieth birthday, I'm all in and in fact, I don't

680
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: find it embarrassing. I find it absolutely uh celebratory, and

681
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: it's something that I and I'm tearing up immediately. I

682
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have this issue, but

683
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: I truly feel like in these family moments, I inherently

684
00:40:55,320 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: become like the alternative goth in the Emily, And I

685
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 1: think it's so cruel that they put me in a

686
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: position where they know that I will appear that way

687
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: because I'm not trying to. I'm like, I'm down to

688
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: go on the trip and I'll be nice to everyone.

689
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: But then there's that picture and it's always me that

690
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: looks insane and everyone else looks like they're part of

691
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: the crew. And I'm still wearing the shirt, but I

692
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 1: look like the weird goth teen even when I'm thirty.

693
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: It's insane. Well, the thing is like when you put

694
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 1: everyone in the same outfit, it actually accentuates people's differences

695
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 1: because you can, let's say, for instance, I'm kind of

696
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 1: a cool chick who has blue hair and piercings. If

697
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 1: I am also wearing my own outfit, that's a look

698
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 1: and you can kind of you know what to do

699
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 1: with that. But if I'm forced to wear the family

700
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: family reunion t shirt in the photo and then I

701
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: also have my blue hair and piercings, I stick out

702
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 1: what much more than a normally went wow? Yeah, that

703
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: it was scientific almost the way you just right that was.

704
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 1: But with like trying to be like slutty, because I

705
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: would always be like roll. It would be like the

706
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 1: family pictures and I would be like tying up the

707
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 1: shirt like really tight and there's a huge knot here

708
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 1: with like a bra and a little short. It just

709
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: is it's very jarn because it's like you're like, oh

710
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 1: my god, yeah, you definitely always if you're wearing a

711
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,760
Speaker 1: slutty outfit, look even more slutty when you're with your family.

712
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: That is also true. That is true. Yeah, It's I

713
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: think we're we're getting to something where it's like the

714
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: straightness is the like forced assimilation. It's like and if

715
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: you are othered, you look really really othered, Like yeah, yeah,

716
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:50,399
Speaker 1: don't do it. I also and any family photo after

717
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 1: I was twenty two, I also Rachel looked like a

718
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 1: huge slut, like because I was like, I's still wearing

719
00:42:55,840 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: like short short shorts and like like my mom would

720
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 1: be like, well, the dress code for this photo shoot

721
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 1: is like well like casual beach or something like that,

722
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:09,439
Speaker 1: and it's like, oh great, So it's like I rolled

723
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: my sleeves up to like the shoulder and like that

724
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 1: truly is like, oh that's the gay son. It's like, oh,

725
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 1: I thought were taught when the family sends a dress code,

726
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 1: is that is rough to like your mom being like

727
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,959
Speaker 1: beach wear is it's really because beach where I means

728
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 1: something so different to every person who's receiving me. Yeah.

729
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm actually I feel like I'm now re entering an

730
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 1: era where I look normal and family photographs. I feel

731
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 1: like that there's almost something where like from the ages

732
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 1: of eighteen to late twenties, let's say you stick out

733
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 1: and then you can kind of settle back into like

734
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 1: being a family, being a normal family member. And I

735
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,399
Speaker 1: think that's where I am now, I feel no need

736
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: to either like I know how to tailor my my

737
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: elf to look like I fit in with whatever group.

738
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,839
Speaker 1: I think this is tough because Rachel, you brought up

739
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:10,400
Speaker 1: like the tying it into a like you know, crop

740
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: or something, and it's sort of like the styling free

741
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:19,799
Speaker 1: you from the family assimilation or does it only like

742
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:23,760
Speaker 1: make you fit in but look stupid. I think that

743
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 1: when I was trying too hard, it made me look stupid,

744
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:30,360
Speaker 1: and I was like really trying. I think I wanted

745
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:34,879
Speaker 1: so badly to be like I'm different. I like, like,

746
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,920
Speaker 1: oh my god. When I first went to n y U,

747
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 1: I was like a nightmare in actually so many ways,

748
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: but to my family, where I was like I came

749
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: home and I was like, everything you've ever said is

750
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 1: the wrong, Like you've been shaving me since I was four,

751
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: Like that was, and so I went everything I was doing.

752
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,799
Speaker 1: I was like trying to be like different than them.

753
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 1: And now it's like I actually can just wear like

754
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: pants my head's house, Like that's not crazy, and it's

755
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 1: like I don't lose any sort of I'm like, oh

756
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:08,879
Speaker 1: my god, like what if everyone in Brooklyn can see

757
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: me right now? It's like they want to care and

758
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: they don't see you like that kind of that was

759
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: I think it made me look crazy. Like specifically for me,

760
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: the idea of wearing khakis for the longest time seemed

761
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: like the worst, Like, oh no, someone's gonna put khakis

762
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 1: on me, and then I will, and it's like the

763
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: fear with it. I would suddenly be wearing khakis and

764
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: someone I know would see me and it's like it's fine,

765
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 1: you can just wear khakis for the one day a

766
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: year you have to. No, it's like what actually lives

767
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 1: insane is when you're wearing a corset top to dinner

768
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,839
Speaker 1: with your naddy in popap. Literally that was like me

769
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: like tying up my boobs and being like what and

770
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, are you trying to fund your family?

771
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: Like that was the I was just like had to

772
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,720
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I'm here, I'm aware of my body.

773
00:45:56,840 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 1: It's like they're like cool, just walking into the Thanksgiving dinner. Oh,

774
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: but you probably think on a slut, don't you? When

775
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 1: I own that your mom's like I made stuff literally

776
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,800
Speaker 1: hun being like yeah, I remember saying to one of

777
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: my aunts being like, yeah, I don't have my boyfriend

778
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 1: I hook up, and she was like, like, if she

779
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: were ever to be like I'm dating someone, I would

780
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 1: be like, that's sick prot me that, Like, but I

781
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 1: had I thought I was like making such a statement.

782
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:31,680
Speaker 1: I want to go back a little bit to the

783
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:36,479
Speaker 1: like personalizing your merge because I was thinking of something,

784
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: which is that the dream with that stuff always is

785
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: basically to be a character and gossip girl who makes

786
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,240
Speaker 1: the uniform her own. Yeah, that's what we all want.

787
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: Finally you got to the bottom of it, do you

788
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 1: know what I mean? And the thing is, no one

789
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 1: has ever done that, realized, no one has ever transcended

790
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: a uniform. No, well, media it really hard. Wait what

791
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: media really makes it seem so easy? And you forget

792
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 1: that these gossip girls have a whole team behind them.

793
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: There's wardrobe, they're styling, and they're not actually playing within

794
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: the rules that you think they are. That's exactly what

795
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,360
Speaker 1: you forget is that literally she's wearing a different costume

796
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 1: than every different costumes. She is not wearing the same

797
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:22,360
Speaker 1: costume that she made better. She's literally wearing a different shirt.

798
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 1: It literally different, a hotter skirts, it's a different product.

799
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 1: It's literally different. How did she make that look different?

800
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: And it's like because it is a different head. The

801
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:43,240
Speaker 1: media will trick you into a lot of things, mostly

802
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 1: through wardrobe. Yeah, image, imagery, wardrobe and imagery. People forget

803
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 1: the wardrobe can be a weapon. It can. No, I

804
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:04,319
Speaker 1: remember Jenny's character who was like evil. But that The

805
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:08,320
Speaker 1: other thing is sometimes I think someone's like personalized, personalizing something,

806
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: but then it just turns out that they're like six

807
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: ft three and ninety pounds and I'm like, oh my god,

808
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: she's like doing something crazy with that skirt, and it's

809
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 1: like she the thing is that she's a model and

810
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: that's like that, but I'm like, the skirt like sits

811
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,880
Speaker 1: in a different way. What is it? And it's like

812
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 1: six pounds. But yeah, if when you have families, do

813
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 1: you think you'll be above family merch? No, I mean,

814
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: ultimately I will be. I'll be trying to make it funny.

815
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 1: That's the really sad truth. Well, and oh, we actually

816
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,279
Speaker 1: didn't talk about this, Rachel. You brought up funny merch.

817
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: Your mom's yes, she fired merch is funny merch. Yeah,

818
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: I think if you can make it funny, it doesn't

819
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 1: count as a tool of straight culture. Oh, I'm gonna

820
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:07,879
Speaker 1: be trying to make my family merch hot. Yeah. Yeah,

821
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: you should get course at tops for everyone in your family,

822
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:16,879
Speaker 1: including your children young male baby, my baby, my son,

823
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: gender normative son. You should put your young gender normative son.

824
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: And of course that says Senate Fam. Senate Fam. That

825
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: says PEG, the Senate Fam, Peg, the Senate Fam. It

826
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 1: would be funny if like your family march was of course,

827
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 1: it's like PEG the patriarchy. Of course, anything like that,

828
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 1: any or like underwear or like bathing suits. Family bathing

829
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:50,359
Speaker 1: suit march is something that I've never seen. Maybe I'm

830
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 1: actually the first person to think of it because it's weird,

831
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, that's what I'm gonna do. I like family.

832
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 1: Yeah huh, maybe we're running around on the idea of

833
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 1: family merch. Yeah, we're kind of like we love it

834
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,839
Speaker 1: well because that also it's like, you don't know, they

835
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:09,839
Speaker 1: walk into the resort. Yeah, we're in Disney Plora. It's

836
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 1: like they're walking in, You're like, that's a normal chill family.

837
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: And then it's like they get to the ball, they

838
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:21,839
Speaker 1: stir up. You're like that like happ Grandma. In fact,

839
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: they all walk in and they actually look really cool.

840
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, maybe they're from Portland or Austin. And

841
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 1: then a strip and it's like and it's like Tangkini's

842
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 1: that's say Happy eight of Grandma. Yes, I mean, I

843
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 1: absolutely love that. So there's hope for merch. Yeah, I think.

844
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 1: So I would push back a little bit on the

845
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 1: idea that if it's funny, it's not straight, because in fact,

846
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: some of the main funny things are straight. You know,

847
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 1: like but but on but you mean on purpose. Well,

848
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 1: I think something like something that is inspired by the

849
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:01,560
Speaker 1: kind of I'm with stupid T shirt thing has the

850
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:03,960
Speaker 1: potential to be straight. That's true. But if it's like this,

851
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: if it's just fully funny, you know what I mean,

852
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: if it's like if it's like if it's new but

853
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: not if it's like a bacherette party and it's like

854
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: or or you know, it's like a bachelor party and

855
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 1: there's like jail imagery on the shirt because he's about

856
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:23,840
Speaker 1: to get hitched to the old. Yeah, and for a while,

857
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: those also I think not merch. But it just T

858
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: shirts that say those kind of things, Like I remember

859
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:34,799
Speaker 1: I bought this T shirt that said wait it says

860
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 1: like blow if you're something something, I think it just says, actually,

861
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:41,879
Speaker 1: I think it literally just says blow here and then

862
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 1: an arrow. And I was trying to come up with

863
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: something in something else it literally doesn't blow here and

864
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 1: then an arrow. And I thought that it was like

865
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,799
Speaker 1: so edgy of me to like where that is kind

866
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,319
Speaker 1: of edgy. It's still edgy. Maybe I'll bring him back.

867
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 1: It was edgy. Yeah, I still think women reclaiming things

868
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: is that gym. Sorry, no, I say, go off. I

869
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: you know, I simply still stand sort of ironic, like

870
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:17,759
Speaker 1: World's Best dad hat. You know, when you can pull

871
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 1: it off, you can pull it off. Do you know

872
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 1: what I usually think was the the funniest thing is

873
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 1: like me going somewhere, let's say at university and going

874
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,520
Speaker 1: to the gift store and buying the thing that said

875
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:32,480
Speaker 1: like Princeton Grandma, and you know what it holds up

876
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 1: and it was funny. Yeah, Well, you don't have to

877
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:39,160
Speaker 1: completely reinvent the wheel. Just say something that is not

878
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: true and that's humor. That's funny. Whying is funny. Buying

879
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 1: it that's the number one action. How much better it

880
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,759
Speaker 1: is if I have no relationship to Princeton but think

881
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:54,279
Speaker 1: of how much better it is if I wear a

882
00:52:54,440 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 1: crew neck that says Princeton Grandma, versus me just wearing

883
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: one that says Princeton if I had visited Princeton. And

884
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: some people are kind of like, oh, so you went

885
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 1: to Princeton. You're like, no, maybe the joke is that

886
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:07,400
Speaker 1: I just visited, and then it's kind of and then

887
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 1: it's not funny anymore. Yeah, well, if you have to

888
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 1: explain it, no, I mean, I mean getting merch that

889
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:18,920
Speaker 1: is false. I'm laughing. This is a classic joke. Well,

890
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:22,760
Speaker 1: because you're literally like it's anti capitalist, like merch wants

891
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,800
Speaker 1: to label you, and you're like, no, I'm Princeton Grandma.

892
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 1: I'm lying. Okay, wait, I actually found the shirt and

893
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,800
Speaker 1: it does say something else. It says drunk breathalyzer test

894
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 1: blow here. That's that's funny. That's actually good. Is really funny. Okay,

895
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring it back. I still have it, all right,

896
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: let's do it. I actually think you could pull it off, Okay.

897
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: Crop it. Also, I love T shirts that have um

898
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 1: like a woman's body with a bikini on them. Yeah,

899
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 1: because it's like, we know what that is. You're looking

900
00:53:56,120 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 1: at it your life? Hey a classic. Yeah, it's a classic.

901
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 1: It's a classic. It's like a lawn flamingo of shirts.

902
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: You know. It's like this has been seen in media

903
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 1: so much. I'm almost playing with it's it's implied meaning. Um,

904
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:16,280
Speaker 1: what like, what the hell are we talking about? Where?

905
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:21,360
Speaker 1: Wait for bridle? Okay, if you would, you guys, do

906
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: at what point is the merge? Is bridle merge? Corny?

907
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 1: What what's the line there? Like? I think if you

908
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: are having like sex with your fiance or whatever in

909
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:41,640
Speaker 1: underwear that says like miss so and so like that

910
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 1: like reaches a point for me that's like it's too much. Well,

911
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 1: the thing with any kind of calling attention to a

912
00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: straight relationship immediately like makes it look um consensual. There's

913
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: something to that. There's something that's just the fact there's

914
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 1: like no neutral language. No, it looks it looks like

915
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 1: people are being it's it looks like it was arranged

916
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:15,840
Speaker 1: here here put this on. Yeah, yeah, that's it's tough.

917
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 1: But what if it said like Steve's little brat? What

918
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:23,319
Speaker 1: if it said that, then is that a little less

919
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 1: ownership and a little more who owned two? Well shouldn't

920
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: it be the shouldn't the guy be wearing something that's

921
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: like Sandra's Little Brat because the girls the brat. I thought, yeah,

922
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: but we're subverted. He should be brat Tamer Tamer, Sandra's

923
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 1: Little Brat table. We're gonna have to, um, what is it? Coin?

924
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: All the terms for people are about to make a

925
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:46,279
Speaker 1: million dollars selling all of the verch ideas that we've

926
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: come up with. Well, it's like most I would say

927
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 1: of the economy is people trying to rebrand heterosexuality. So

928
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: like that is where the money is. Yeah, we've come

929
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 1: up with a lot. Yeah, Sandra's Little Brat Tamer is

930
00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: really you should be regardless of whether your wife is

931
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:08,880
Speaker 1: named Sandra, it should be a line that's called Sandra's

932
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 1: Little Brat Tamer. Yeah, that's so Gonvaluded. I love it.

933
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 1: You kind of you started and you think it means

934
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:21,760
Speaker 1: one thing, and then you go, oh, it's really something.

935
00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:24,000
Speaker 1: I was literally like, who is a woman? And the

936
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:28,840
Speaker 1: first person I thought it was Sandra Bullock. She is

937
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:32,479
Speaker 1: a woman, is one of the main women, a woman

938
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 1: on the world stage. She's on the actual main stage.

939
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: She is she invented it, She invented the main she's

940
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,399
Speaker 1: one of the main ladies of the main stage. Um,

941
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,800
Speaker 1: I actually have something insane. I want to bring back

942
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:51,360
Speaker 1: a topic from maybe the first twenty minutes actually, um,

943
00:56:51,400 --> 00:56:55,760
Speaker 1: which is we're doing that time thing. Um. I'm realizing

944
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 1: when I said one of the original girl ease to

945
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 1: introduce to you, I felt that, you know when like

946
00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 1: maybe an uncle gets you a present for Christmas and

947
00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 1: it's like something that you would have liked two years ago,

948
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: and you're sort of like, oh, thank you, like I

949
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: understand why you got me this, but that's not me anymore.

950
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 1: And it's like I felt I was the uncle and

951
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:26,400
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, they grow up so fast. No.

952
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 1: I think first of all, when your uncle gets something

953
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 1: for you at all, it's kind of like what that's crazy.

954
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: That's crazy. And then I think it kind of almost

955
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: makes you be like, wow, this is the fact that

956
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: I used to play tennis is like making me realize

957
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: that now I do violin, Like that's kind of like

958
00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 1: what you know, it's grow Yeah, that's interesting because I

959
00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 1: feel like for a long time, I as you know,

960
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: when I was a little younger, like when I would

961
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 1: change my taste in something, I would like be offended

962
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 1: if someone didn't already know like the second I changed

963
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: my mind, but there was there was like a couple

964
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 1: of years. This was many years ago where at some point, truly,

965
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: for like a year, I liked the brand Scotch and Soda.

966
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 1: This was like kind of early on before it became

967
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:23,919
Speaker 1: mainstream in my defense, and I found that like their

968
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,919
Speaker 1: pants fit me well something whatever. And so one year

969
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: I was like Holliday shopping with my mom and I

970
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 1: when we were there and I was like, oh, these

971
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 1: pants hit me or whatever. And then truly the next year,

972
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: she was like, do you want me to get like

973
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 1: for your Christmas present? I was thinking, we go to

974
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: Scotch and Soda, And I was like, what the funk

975
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: are you talking about? I literally hang up, Oh my god, No,

976
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 1: I feel the exact same way, and I hate that

977
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: I feel that way. Yeah, it's really it's like, did

978
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 1: you not miss the meeting? And mentally when I decided

979
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 1: that this, And also because it's like it's embarrassing to

980
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 1: be like, how I can't how can you bring up

981
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 1: the time that I liked those pants or whatever because

982
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 1: you feel so distant from that. It's also like suddenly

983
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 1: you're a vulnerable sudden you're like you knew me a

984
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 1: year ago. That's that's been deleted. I've forgotten that hard

985
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 1: update your books, mother. I do remember being like a

986
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:24,240
Speaker 1: little girl and getting like this kind of like longish skirt,

987
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 1: but it wasn't like it wasn't long on purpose. It

988
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: was like a sure that skirt that should have been

989
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: short of it was like long. It was like right

990
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 1: at the knee and a sweater and they were like

991
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,960
Speaker 1: pink and they were just so like girly. And I

992
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: was like thanks from like an ae or something. And

993
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 1: then I went up to my room and I cried,

994
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: and I was like, no one knows that I'm like mature,

995
00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 1: and and it was just like it's like also, it's

996
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: like you're never going to get exactly what you want

997
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 1: from a relative, especially if you're like honestly, it's like

998
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:59,200
Speaker 1: what you should be going for is like comfort. They

999
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 1: can do comfort and they can do like class. It's

1000
01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 1: like if you're looking like if you're like I want

1001
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 1: to bust my ass out like seventh grade hallway with

1002
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 1: like the shortest skirt, It's like you're not going to

1003
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 1: get that from your It's like you have to go

1004
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: to every trom me a bitch on your own. No

1005
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 1: one is going to pick up that little thing and

1006
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 1: be like, your's not gonna get you poppers. No, you

1007
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 1: have to pick up purchase on your own. And just

1008
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 1: to circle like something you said, Rachel, when you said

1009
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:29,920
Speaker 1: you're not going to get everything you want from your family,

1010
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 1: I think just out of context, even that's like an

1011
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:36,000
Speaker 1: important thing to realize, is like, not only are you

1012
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 1: never going to get exactly what you need from your family,

1013
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 1: that's the point of family is like that you have

1014
01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 1: a close enough relationship to them that they don't you

1015
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 1: don't have to get everything you need from them wise

1016
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: because they are the people whose flaws exactly Well, we

1017
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 1: got somewhere, We got somewhere that was that was actually

1018
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: crazy and true. That was actually crazy and true. I

1019
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 1: do feel like what I want to be for my

1020
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 1: younger sisters is I do want I want so hard

1021
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 1: for them want to respect me, to to think I'm cool,

1022
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 1: and I want to be the person to like get

1023
01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 1: them like I'm like, I also got the ad for

1024
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 1: that on to talk, I'll get that for you because

1025
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 1: I know I really want that to be that would

1026
01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:25,560
Speaker 1: be here, but it's like, I don't I even that. Still,

1027
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 1: it's like you don't know the exact you're not them,

1028
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:33,439
Speaker 1: so you'll never know you don't. And also I am

1029
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 1: actually at that age where I'm now like sometimes I

1030
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: have a suspicion like are my sisters humoring me when

1031
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 1: I try to do something funny? Oh my god? Like

1032
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:46,919
Speaker 1: I my middle sister, kind of, like like many people

1033
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: we know, has like a recurring bit where that she

1034
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 1: just loves Dunkin Donuts and whenever there's a dunk and

1035
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 1: she takes a photo of there of herself like holding

1036
01:01:54,120 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 1: a Dunking coffee whatever. And I knew someone in Boston

1037
01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 1: who is making T shirts that in the Dunkin Donuts

1038
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 1: legoes had slut for Duncan, and I got her one

1039
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: of those T shirts. In my mind, I was like, well,

1040
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 1: this is the best thing I've ever done. That is amazing,

1041
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:10,800
Speaker 1: and she loved it, and I'm like, okay, okay, fine,

1042
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 1: I'm not going to question no, but I know what

1043
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: you mean where you where you wonder? And You're like,

1044
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 1: is she like y? And then if I don't have

1045
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:24,760
Speaker 1: enough to she's like, it's not about that. She's like

1046
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:28,959
Speaker 1: I never said I think that I love it. It's

1047
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:33,439
Speaker 1: I also it's hard to as as you know, as

1048
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 1: empaths know, as people that are you know, I want

1049
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: to do well. It's hard to not like to put

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01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure on gift giving. And I don't

1051
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: know how we got on gift giving, but here we are.

1052
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:45,680
Speaker 1: And it's like this year, my mom was like, oh,

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01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 1: you guys are so good at giving gifts, like she

1054
01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: was talking to me in the kitchen, and I was like,

1055
01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:52,320
Speaker 1: I don't even think so I was like, no, I

1056
01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 1: actually think my gifts, you know, I think they're a

1057
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 1: little lazy, if I'm being honest. And it was just like,

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01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 1: shut up, Like she's just being nice and everyone's just

1059
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 1: being nice. This is all for like chill out. No,

1060
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: but there's there is pressure, and right before they open it,

1061
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 1: or as they're opening it, it's like, like, what why

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01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: the hell? When I get them back? If I could

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01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,160
Speaker 1: be giving them anything else right now, I would feel

1064
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 1: good about myself. But I feel like a loser and

1065
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 1: a freak because I got them blank ear rings or whatever.

1066
01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 1: The politics giving it's interesting because it is the only

1067
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,280
Speaker 1: thing that matters is a subtext. No one actually gets,

1068
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:30,240
Speaker 1: like the straightforward social practice of giving a gift and

1069
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: then being grateful for it. The actual things that matter

1070
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:34,920
Speaker 1: are none of those things. It's not the object, it's

1071
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 1: not being grateful, it's not the giving. What matters is

1072
01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:41,520
Speaker 1: pretty much every like the things happening like five layers

1073
01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 1: above that in everyone's mind and then all their psychosis

1074
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: coming out. Yeah, it's a cruel process. We should get

1075
01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 1: rid of it. We actually need to. We have to

1076
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,440
Speaker 1: do our last segment. Yeah, Rachel our finally one. It's

1077
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: called shout outs, and then we give a shout out

1078
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 1: to anything that we enjoy, sort of in the style

1079
01:03:56,360 --> 01:03:59,640
Speaker 1: of it doesn't one. You're at TRL and times square

1080
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: in your shout taking back to your squad back home

1081
01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 1: about anything that you enjoy. Um, Georgie, do you have anything? Um?

1082
01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 1: I can do one. Yes, Okay, you go first. I

1083
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 1: find it so endearing when you call me Georgie. I'm glad.

1084
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 1: It's very cute. Um, Okay, I have one. What's up,

1085
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: breaks and losers out there? I want to give a

1086
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:24,680
Speaker 1: quick shout out today to a list celebrities. I just

1087
01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:29,320
Speaker 1: want to say, you're the original girlies capital G and

1088
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:33,800
Speaker 1: you have been doing this since before Instagram, before the

1089
01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:38,120
Speaker 1: influencers before. You know, people that are kind of pretending

1090
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 1: to be celebrities, and I'm just gonna say it, someone

1091
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,320
Speaker 1: like Sandra Bullock. We don't have that anymore. And so

1092
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 1: we have to keep Sandra Bullock in our hearts and

1093
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 1: the hope and pray that she keeps making work and

1094
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 1: keeps being a main stage woman, because without her, we

1095
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 1: don't even know what to emulate. So this is my

1096
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: big shout out to at least and let me tell

1097
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:58,960
Speaker 1: you something. If you're an A list celebrity out there

1098
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 1: and you kind of have a sense of humor, and

1099
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 1: maybe I want to do a podcast hosted by two

1100
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:06,480
Speaker 1: Alt Brooklyn comedians because it will kind of endure you

1101
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 1: to a new fan base. Why not check out this one?

1102
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:14,480
Speaker 1: Sandra Bullock, Julia Roberts, George Clooney. We're very open to

1103
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 1: having pretty much anyone who's ever been nominated for a

1104
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:19,240
Speaker 1: Golden Globe on the pod, which is a lot of

1105
01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 1: even EMILYA in Paris. Get Emily on here, but in

1106
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 1: character not any star qualify that qualify that. Um okay,

1107
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: I'll I've been hating my shadows recently. Sort of. This

1108
01:05:37,480 --> 01:05:41,000
Speaker 1: is our role reversal George normally hates Now I'm hating mine.

1109
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 1: But that's okay because that's life. Baby. What's up perverts

1110
01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 1: out there in pervert nation? I just want to give

1111
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 1: a huge shout out to Crisp cold Weather. There have

1112
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 1: been a couple of weeks where it has been quite

1113
01:05:54,840 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 1: warm in n Y City and it has been very disconcerting.

1114
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 1: You think, oh, I can enjoy way of warm December.

1115
01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 1: Now you can't. You can't get into the Christmas spirit.

1116
01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:06,320
Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like winter, and you can't help but

1117
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 1: think about climate apocalypse. And now it is cold outside

1118
01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 1: and it kind of hurts to walk around, and I

1119
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:15,880
Speaker 1: don't like the pain. But I do feel like I

1120
01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 1: am paying my weather taxes so that I enjoy a

1121
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: beautiful upcoming summer. It is refreshing to feel cold. It

1122
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:28,520
Speaker 1: is um cool to prepare yourself to go outside. And

1123
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 1: it's winter, baby, it should feel like it. I'm I

1124
01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 1: love you, Crisp cold Weather. Snows coming up soon, baby

1125
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 1: girls that Rachel whenever you are ready. Okay, what's up

1126
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 1: you hot morning freaks with hearts of gold? Um? I

1127
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:51,400
Speaker 1: didn't to give a big shout out to cooking dinner.

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01:06:52,440 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 1: Many people would say Wow, we'd be cooking dinner our

1129
01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:58,520
Speaker 1: whole lives. Not that interesting. You didn't invent it. But

1130
01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 1: speaking as someone went through a granol bar diet for

1131
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:06,760
Speaker 1: various years of college where you only eat quest bars

1132
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:12,800
Speaker 1: and you have an eating disorder, is so nice to

1133
01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: get to the stage of your life where you go

1134
01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 1: to the grocery store and you buy sweet potatoes and

1135
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,920
Speaker 1: then a couple other things and then you make dinner

1136
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 1: with a glass of wine. I feel old in the

1137
01:07:22,920 --> 01:07:25,880
Speaker 1: perfect way. I feel full in a way where I

1138
01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 1: am satisfied and I feel like I know how to

1139
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:33,480
Speaker 1: make at least two things, which is huge. Um. So

1140
01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:37,080
Speaker 1: thank you to cooking dinner for giving me what I

1141
01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 1: would say is happiness. I love that. It's beautiful. Thank you.

1142
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 1: What's what's your favorite thing to cook? I love doing Okay,

1143
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 1: there's this. I think sweet potatoes is the main thing,

1144
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:56,320
Speaker 1: and I do like variations on that. I've been doing this,

1145
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:59,440
Speaker 1: like sweet potato bowl where it's like you bake the

1146
01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 1: sweet poto it does and then you like do egg

1147
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:07,480
Speaker 1: avocado with pesto and arugula. I did get a pasta

1148
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 1: maker during the pandemic, so I will like if you

1149
01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 1: want to do like group if you want to do

1150
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:16,719
Speaker 1: like a fun dinner where everyone helps, but not really.

1151
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:19,720
Speaker 1: It's like you put out your shirtcoo, you have like

1152
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:23,679
Speaker 1: three bottles of wine and you like you don't really

1153
01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:25,640
Speaker 1: like eat as much during the day, and then you

1154
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:28,960
Speaker 1: started like four you have your first class of wine picks.

1155
01:08:29,479 --> 01:08:32,160
Speaker 1: Then it's like you're going into the charcoo as you

1156
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 1: start making the pasa and the sauce, which takes like

1157
01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 1: four hours. By the time you're eating dinner, you're drunk.

1158
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 1: It could taste like anything, but you're like, this is

1159
01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:43,920
Speaker 1: an experience and everyone gets a turn, like doing the

1160
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:47,479
Speaker 1: pasta spin that sounds amazing. I love that. You know,

1161
01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 1: what's a great hack for if you want to make

1162
01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:53,120
Speaker 1: your own pasta but you don't have a lot of time, huh,

1163
01:08:53,720 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 1: make ricato yuki. It's like yeah, but it's but it's

1164
01:09:01,320 --> 01:09:08,639
Speaker 1: still feels fancy. Yeah, well I've learned a lot. If

1165
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:10,640
Speaker 1: you guys come to l A, we could do it

1166
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: at my house and you know, we can do anything.

1167
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:18,719
Speaker 1: It's l A. Sorry, now you're being the uncle. I'm sorry,

1168
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 1: I am being the uncle. And I realized that no,

1169
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 1: I'll actually never do anything better than that. That was

1170
01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 1: the only thing I've ever been like this. I feel

1171
01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 1: good about the rest of my life. Um, now we're

1172
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 1: coming to l A in March. I've decided and we're

1173
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 1: going to make it. We're doing l A in March.

1174
01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 1: We're doing LA in March. You know, we were originally

1175
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 1: going to do an l A show sometime in March.

1176
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 1: And I think now it's we don't know with a

1177
01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 1: macrown and with COVID, what's gonna happen. No, we're going

1178
01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 1: to We're going to push through. We're gonna push through.

1179
01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:50,519
Speaker 1: I say, I want to say that I feel like

1180
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 1: not to talk about my crown, but I actually feel

1181
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:57,400
Speaker 1: like this is gonna go this I read it. My

1182
01:09:57,520 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 1: dad said something about a heart ho where as a disease,

1183
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:11,839
Speaker 1: a disease becomes more contagious, but less um vindictive, less dangerous, potent,

1184
01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:17,400
Speaker 1: And it's like that is what is happening. It's pushing

1185
01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 1: us towards it becoming like a colder of flu. I

1186
01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 1: actually feel I actually feel positive, and um, I think

1187
01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 1: that it's like cut. We'll soon we'll be like in

1188
01:10:30,080 --> 01:10:32,920
Speaker 1: Union Hall or at Leason will be like that was

1189
01:10:32,960 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 1: the past, that this or this is the past. Yeah,

1190
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:39,519
Speaker 1: this one day will be wait until this is the past,

1191
01:10:40,920 --> 01:10:44,360
Speaker 1: and Nobbi will be looking back fondly, will be like,

1192
01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 1: oh we found such joy on zoom, but now we're

1193
01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:52,400
Speaker 1: finding joy in person. Yeah, well finding joy in person. Well,

1194
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:54,240
Speaker 1: thank you so much for doing the pod, Rachel. This

1195
01:10:54,320 --> 01:11:00,559
Speaker 1: was a true delight. This was having so fun. And

1196
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 1: we will I'll be scarring the internet for versions of

1197
01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 1: our merch. I'm sure the fans will be making it.

1198
01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:10,760
Speaker 1: Send us merch ideas, oh they will. Yeah, they're so toxic. Okay,

1199
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: Papers for girls, Papers for girls, I think has a

1200
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 1: lot of potential. And and Sandra's what is it, Sandra's tamer,

1201
01:11:23,880 --> 01:11:26,719
Speaker 1: Sandra's little brat teamer. I think we'll be about I agree.

1202
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:30,559
Speaker 1: All right, well we'll see you down the line. Sandra's

1203
01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 1: little break brat tamer. Okay,