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Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with on our radio. Hello,

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Speaker 1: wonderful Bachelor in Paradise viewers, it is actually here this

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Speaker 1: well today and Ben we'll be with you tomorrow and

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Speaker 1: Gass with me today. I love him so much. He's

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Speaker 1: one of my very favorites from the franchise. Well, I

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Speaker 1: have to be, because if I'm not, then you made

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Speaker 1: a seriously wrong decision. My husband Jared Haven is my

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Speaker 1: co host today? Can you introduce me as the host

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Speaker 1: of Help by Second Dating? Your husband? Everybody knows I'm

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Speaker 1: your husband. I feel like, uh, maybe a fourth of

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Speaker 1: the listeners know that I host help by Second Dating

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Speaker 1: in my heart radio podcast A shameless plug over here

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Speaker 1: with my co host Dean and Vanessa. Okay, hey, but Jared,

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Speaker 1: isn't it kind of silly that you're the title of

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Speaker 1: your podcast? And how by Second Dating? Do you think

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Speaker 1: of yourself as the guru on that podcast? Well, we

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Speaker 1: second dating, which I think you can attest to. How so,

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Speaker 1: give an example of when you suck. I can think

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Speaker 1: I just want to be touched all the time, Yes,

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Speaker 1: about us. We're here to talk about Bachelor in Paradise

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Speaker 1: because there was a great episode that aired last night,

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Speaker 1: which has to do with your co host Dean and

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Speaker 1: how maybe he doesn't suck at dating so much. I

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Speaker 1: think he sucks. Me still kind of sucks. He still

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Speaker 1: What was that romantic? I think it was super romantic. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it's a grand romantic gesture. It was even brought up

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Speaker 1: in Paradise. Someone said that, Um, does that mean he

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Speaker 1: we were spending lots of time together, and it felt

429
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 1: like he was super into me. Um, And like at

430
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 1: the rose ceremony where he gave me his rose, Like

431
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:39,360
Speaker 1: he told me like that he's never had such an

432
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 1: instant connection with anybody in his entire life, because he

433
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 1: was definitely like building my ego up and making me

434
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 1: feel really confident in what we had. So at the wedding,

435
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 1: like when I was talking to you, actually I felt

436
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: super confident in like what JPJ and I had. And

437
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,920
Speaker 1: then I just woke up that next morning and Derek

438
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, um, he had super strong feelings for

439
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,360
Speaker 1: Kasha and I like, you know that feeling like when

440
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 1: your stomach just dropped in your you are just completely shocked.

441
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,119
Speaker 1: That's totally how I felt when he said that to me,

442
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,719
Speaker 1: And like instantly my guard went up and I was like,

443
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 1: am I crazy for thinking that we had something special?

444
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: Like I I started thinking that I was mental, like

445
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,199
Speaker 1: that I was losing my mind, and then so I

446
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 1: start you start overthinking everything and then you're like, Okay,

447
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 1: well why don't I just go talk to him and

448
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 1: get some clarity. So our first conversation, um, I went

449
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 1: into it like he didn't approach me. I had to

450
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 1: go up to JPJ and like ask him what was

451
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 1: going on? Yeah, I remember you pulled him into the yeah,

452
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,439
Speaker 1: and I just like I felt that that was I

453
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,919
Speaker 1: wish that he would have told me first. I hated

454
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 1: that I had to hear from somebody else. Um, So

455
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 1: I was just really frustrated, I think in general, the

456
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 1: fact that he just wouldn't open with me, Like I'm

457
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: infolded when people feel like they can't be honest with

458
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 1: me because I'm a super understanding person and like, I

459
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 1: get the whole idea of paradise is to be other people.

460
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 1: So I honestly was just insulted that he didn't feel

461
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 1: comfortable enough to even come up and talk to me,

462
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:09,399
Speaker 1: agc honest with me. So at first I was like, Okay, well,

463
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 1: I just want to clear the air. And then at

464
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 1: that nighttime he was talking about Tatia and stuff in

465
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: front of me and like getting all upset about the

466
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: Derek situation, like saying that Derek is just using Tatia

467
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: for his podcast and stuff, And I was like, why

468
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: are you so upset with Derek when, like Derek nor

469
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 1: I had any idea that you had such strong feelings

470
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: for Tasia, Like we were both blindsided about the fact

471
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 1: that you felt so strongly about Tatia. So at that

472
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: point I got a little heated. So that's when I

473
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 1: called him out. And then when he called me like

474
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,679
Speaker 1: you're a big girl, you know, at that moment, I

475
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, like, don't be condescending towards me.

476
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 1: So I kind of freaked out a little bit. So

477
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 1: who is j p J. Is he this lovable guy

478
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 1: who it's like just as as a hopeless romantic or

479
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: is he this selfish, kind of backstabbing guy and I

480
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 1: am I exaggerating there does extremes? Or is he a

481
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 1: bit of both? I would say overall JPJ is literally

482
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 1: the kindest and sweetest guy like you'll ever meet. He's

483
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: definitely awkward and weird and goofy, but I love that

484
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: about him. But overall, I think that JPJ was just

485
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: in a really awkward position. And this is only the

486
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: second time he's done a show like this, and he

487
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 1: didn't make it super far on Hannah season, I don't

488
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: think so. I does don't think he would used to

489
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 1: all of this, and especially because he was only dating Hannah,

490
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: like now he was here in Paradise dating multiple women.

491
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 1: I don't think that he knew how to navigate it correctly.

492
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: And while I think that he handled my situation poorly,

493
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: I overall think JPJ is like the lovable guy that

494
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 1: everybody fell in love with at first, and I have

495
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: no hard feelings towards jpg A. He actually reached out

496
00:25:56,040 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: to me recently and apologized for me everything that he did. Um,

497
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: and he truly is a great guy. Okay, wonderful. Yeah,

498
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: that's the vibe I get too. I get the vibe

499
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 1: that he's so sweet, very nice, very caring and giving,

500
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 1: which was obviously exemplified last night when he did the

501
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: prompt thing for Tasia. But I also get the vibe,

502
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 1: and I don't mean this in a disrespectful way, that

503
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 1: he's just immature. Yeah, he's just a little loss in

504
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: this environment. I mean, it isn't very natural to be

505
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 1: dating multiple people on the same strip of land. Yes,

506
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: I think he was also immature within the Derek situation. Uh,

507
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 1: And then I think with the Hailey situation, and so

508
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: I think John Paul Jones also recognizes that, which I

509
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: don't think is a negative thing, because we all have

510
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: our faults, and as long as we are aware of

511
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: them and try to work on them, then there's I

512
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: don't see anything really wrong with that, right? All all

513
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: with good intentions pretty much, It's kind of like Dean.

514
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: I feel like Dean makes a lot of mistakes, but

515
00:26:56,080 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 1: he's like always has like the best in his heart. Yeah,

516
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: I mean they do say the past totally grew on me.

517
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: He's the best. Oh, that's right. You were on the

518
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: season with him when he was in the love trying,

519
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,880
Speaker 1: but you're like a big thing with him. I actually right,

520
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: And I was not a big fan of Dean for

521
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: the longest time, Like I actually didn't like him, and

522
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: to follow him on social media and that's as possible.

523
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: That's the worst thing you do, someone not following on

524
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 1: social media and the Bachelor franchise. So yeah, he totally

525
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: grew on me. This season's a great one. So, Haley,

526
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you so we could put it

527
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: to rest once and for all, because you've seen both

528
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: these people close up personal in person. Does Lucas and

529
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: Nick vill look that much alike? They do not look

530
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 1: that much alike. All I can. I see the similarities,

531
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 1: but like not even close. So I've been trying to

532
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 1: crack this code. Why is it that they look similar

533
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: but also not the same at all, it's just the texture.

534
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: It's the hair texture. I think it's like it's even

535
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: like the bone structure like in their faces. Totally different

536
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 1: and like obviously so I mean Lucas kind of has

537
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,880
Speaker 1: dad body, Like well, all the other guys were working out,

538
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 1: we guess like would not work out with them. So

539
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: you ended up giving a rose to Lucas or did

540
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: Lucas did? Yeah, so what's your relationship like right now?

541
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: Because right now on the show, we didn't see much

542
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:36,760
Speaker 1: of you two last night, but it's still continuing. Yeah, so, um,

543
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: you guys have to tune in tonight to see what happens.

544
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: But um, as of right now, Lukes and I are

545
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 1: still talking. Are you kissing? Because you're like actually pretty

546
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: conservative when it comes to who you kiss on the show. Yeah,

547
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: I definitely conservative. I don't know what's going to happen

548
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: on tonight's episode, but um, Luke As kind of just

549
00:28:56,240 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: forces kisses on me, like I don't. I wasn't exactly.

550
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: I talked to Luke s and I was like, I

551
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: just don't know if my I'm there yet. Like romantically

552
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: with you, I know that like we've spent some time together,

553
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 1: but romantically I don't know if I'm that interested into you,

554
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: and and he just started making out with me, so

555
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: I think in hopes that that would see Haley Li

556
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: said this earlier in the In the show, we're talking

557
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: about the Dean and Connor and Kaitlin love triangle and

558
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 1: how you just kind of put it perfectly into one sentence.

559
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: How did you feel when she left with Dean? Oh,

560
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: my gosh. So it's so funny because I was super

561
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: torn between Dean and Connor. They're both great guys. I

562
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: think that Connor was most definitely in the facist choice.

563
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: But knowing me and like my personality, I would have

564
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 1: one percent gone for Dean too, Like I would have

565
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: left with Dean too, because who doesn't like somebody who's

566
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 1: a little bit edgy, a little mysterious. And also I

567
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: saw like how the passion between Kaitlin and Dean was

568
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: just so like they were perfect for each other before

569
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: he leve up, and I loved them together. So, I mean,

570
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: I honestly feel like she made the right choice. You're

571
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: basically every woman I was super happy for because I

572
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 1: do overall feel like she made the right choice. But

573
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: it was a tough decision, right Why do you think

574
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: that like the other girls who are like sort of

575
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: single in the house aren't going for Connor at this point.

576
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people didn't go for Connor

577
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 1: because he was so upset and like he was also

578
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: I was hitting it off with Whitney at the wedding

579
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: and he was hoping Whitney would come down. Oh oh

580
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: a little behind the scenes there that very cool. They

581
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,800
Speaker 1: were floating up the wedding. I hope when he comes

582
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: down for him, even though he went on the day.

583
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 1: Isn't it too late for somebody to go down right now?

584
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: I guess. I guess she came down, but isn't tonight

585
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 1: like make it or break at night? So I always

586
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: think it's silly. This last week we were like, why

587
00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: are they even sending people down at this point? Just

588
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 1: let it breathe. That's hard. That's how I felt on

589
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 1: the season when I came down on season four and like,

590
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: why am I here right now? Yeah, you're not off

591
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,479
Speaker 1: walking in late. You're not even going to shake things up.

592
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: Things are too far along or like people are ready

593
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: to leave anyway. Yeah. The problem is everybody's already so

594
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: exhausted from the entire process of being there, especially if

595
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,239
Speaker 1: you're there from the first day that if you're one

596
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: of the final people come down, it's really hard to

597
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: muster up that energy to be excited to meet someone new,

598
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: because not that you're over it, but you're getting there. Um,

599
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: so Haley, you were oh totally so, Haley, you are

600
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: now teaching pilates in Las Vegas. Tell us a little

601
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: bit about that. A congratulations. Yeah, I started, Oh, thank

602
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: you so much. I'm super excited about it. So I

603
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: actually grew up being pilates as a physical pharmacysical therapy

604
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: for my scholiosis, and I fell in love with it then,

605
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 1: and then I kind of just you know, became super

606
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: lazy and when we're working out for a long time,

607
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: and then I got back into it and then decided

608
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 1: that I wanted to eventually teach kids with scoliosis as well.

609
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: So I went ahead and I got my certification and

610
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm especially certified. That's awesome. Congratulations, Hailey, were super excited

611
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 1: for you. You and Emily actually inspired me to start

612
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 1: going to pilates. And while it's been quite a while,

613
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: let's say, you know, it's the only form of exercise

614
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 1: I actually don't dread doing like even though I do

615
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: not go, I was anymore. I was, Lenna say, I

616
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: gotta be honest, I didn't know that you like doing

617
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 1: those What do you mean you know that? I always

618
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: say like I should really just continuously go to pilates.

619
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: It's saying something and actually doing something or two different things.

620
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: But you know, it's my most enjoyable form of working out.

621
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: And it was because I saw Emily and Haley doing

622
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: it so much on Instagram that I did start going

623
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: and my eyes were open to it. Okay, and I

624
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: should back in the sing of things. But go take

625
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: a class with Haley. I will, I mean, maybe we'll

626
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: learn I hurt festival. Maybe I'll teach you. I would

627
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,239
Speaker 1: like that you do way fancier things than I do.

628
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: And before we let you go, Haley, I just want

629
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 1: to see how my Instagram are totally fancy. Yeah, I

630
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: know that's awesome. Sorry, like bendable, um, you're like gumby um.

631
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: But before we go, I want to tell you that

632
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: my sister's boyfriend, Um, he like talks openly about how

633
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: attracted he is to you and Emily to Lauren. He

634
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: he thinks that you guys are aliens sent from another

635
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: planet to spread joy and beauty to the world. It's

636
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: pretty true. Oh my gosh, are you kidding me? I

637
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 1: think that because your sister is probably the hottest person

638
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 1: I've ever seen. You guys have always been too kind.

639
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: Thank you, because you're just like this. You really are aliens.

640
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 1: You really are two little, perfect looking specimens. I love you, guys.

641
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: I need to hang out with you all more often.

642
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: Surprised Jack with you next time you're in l A.

643
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: He'll die of a heart attack. We'll laugh so hard.

644
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 1: I don't know what he'll cry. He'll probably cry. Haley,

645
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us. We are rooting

646
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 1: for you. We love you, and we wish nothing but

647
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: the best for you. Thank you, guys. I love you

648
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: guys so much. All Right, bye, Haley, Bye bye. She's

649
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 1: the sweetest, She's so cute. Haley and Emily. I mean,

650
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 1: I know, I mean, I'm just really rooting for Haley.

651
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: It sucks to like the whole Lucas thing. I mean,

652
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: judging by what she was talking about, I don't think

653
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 1: it goes anywhere, which is sad because I really would

654
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 1: like happiness for her. But if we're going to call

655
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: Luke as a doppel ganger. He's not let's even call

656
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: him that. Okay, let's not call him that. But why

657
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: can't Haley and Nick be together? I think that we've

658
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: been saying how long, I know, but have we said

659
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: it publicly? I just kind of want to put it

660
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: out there. And I'm sorry, Nick, if this annoys you,

661
00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 1: it doesn't he but he comments on her Instagram all

662
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 1: the time. Can we just put it out there that

663
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,479
Speaker 1: they should have a hacked Nick's thirty ninth birthday isn't

664
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: two weeks and he might at that. I don't like

665
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: hearing that. But should we come up with a pact,

666
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:12,760
Speaker 1: like at the age should like be the age should

667
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: be for Haley? You should be Haley's age? Yeah, let's

668
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 1: do Haley's Haley's twenty six. Nick doesn't age. So when

669
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: he's like Tom Brady, Yeah, the dude looks twenty seven,

670
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: he's going back. He is the real life Benjamin Button.

671
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: So let's say that when Haley's thirty. I don't know

672
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,839
Speaker 1: how old Haley is now, she's I just said four years.

673
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: That's way too long. Seven. She's got what when's your birthday?

674
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: Uh's her birthday? She's got a year Let's give her

675
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: a year from now. If nothing happens in the year

676
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: Haley and Nick get married, so many people are going

677
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: to be like, you're going to give her till twenty

678
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 1: seven to find her person. I found you at seven,

679
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 1: many years. I just want this to happen, though. That's

680
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: why I'm expediting the process. I think it makes sense,

681
00:35:55,880 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: makes sense to be going. She's funny, she'll try and

682
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: him she'll you know, and he loves a good back

683
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 1: and forth, he does. And he also needs someone who's

684
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: a little easy going. But she's going to do it

685
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,959
Speaker 1: in a playful way, not in an angrily way. No. Yeah,

686
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: and he also needs someone to give back to him.

687
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 1: She's like a very nice compliment to him. Anyway, we

688
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: should stop talking about it because I'm sure we'll get

689
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 1: text miss later on today. So let's move on. Okay,

690
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 1: let's take a break first, and then we have to

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00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:30,320
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Speaker 1: So last week, remember how Blake all of a sudden

757
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 1: was like she's been here all along she's been here,

758
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 1: right in front of my eyes, under my nose, and

759
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 1: I didn't realize until now I'm meant to be with Christina.

760
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: And I think, like a lot of people are like, oh,

761
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: Blake is either like getting delusional in Paradise or he's

762
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 1: desperate for a rose, or I guess there's a very

763
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:38,439
Speaker 1: slim percentage that he actually means this. And then this

764
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 1: week watching them and all of his excitement and giddiness

765
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: of a Christina and how many tears he shed when

766
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 1: she left Paradise and broke up with him, I was like, oh, crap,

767
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: he's been genuine. I believe that he's been genuine. And

768
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 1: I actually think that like Blake, for as bad of

769
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 1: a rap as he's gotten throughout this season, has remained

770
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 1: pretty genuine. And again, I think it's one of those

771
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 1: situations where it's like he messed up a lot, but

772
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 1: he's only had good intentions at heart. Yeah, it's I

773
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 1: don't know, no. I mean they say that the path

774
00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 1: to hell is paved with good intentions, and I think

775
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: that could be used to describe Blake's Paradise experience, because

776
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: I do think Blake is uh. I think he's very

777
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: nice I really do. Um, And he's been nothing too

778
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 1: nice to us, and anytime I see him, he has

779
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 1: been very personal. I think he's messed up a lot.

780
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: I think Blake is the guy that just got in

781
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 1: over his head. You know, he finished second on becka season.

782
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: Everybody loved him, was reaching out to him, you know,

783
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:46,280
Speaker 1: was worth. I mean a lot of people were probably

784
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,359
Speaker 1: throwing themselves at him. Um. And I think he just

785
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 1: got in over his head. Uh. And so I'm not

786
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 1: excusing his behavior. He needs to take responsibility for it.

787
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: And I think he is as of right now. Um

788
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: And I what. I think it's like he got wrapped

789
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 1: up in that playboy lifestyle. Right. But I think he's

790
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 1: such a hopeless romantic when he lets himself feel. I mean,

791
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's romantic or not. How does

792
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 1: somebody know, you don't think so. I think that he's

793
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:19,839
Speaker 1: just being aware of his downfall. And I don't think he's,

794
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 1: let me say this. I don't think he's trying to

795
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: do it to save face. I think he is being

796
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: honest in the moment and truly thinks that Christina is

797
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: someone he could see a future with. I do believe that.

798
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,479
Speaker 1: I can't call him not a hopeless romantic. Think about

799
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: how he reacted on Becca season. When he falls, he

800
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 1: falls hard. And I don't understand how somebody can be

801
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: a playboy and a hopeless romantic at the same time. Though. Ah, right,

802
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 1: that doesn't go together. I see it in your face. No,

803
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 1: I mean it can go together. I mean life is gray.

804
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: Life is in the gray area. It's not like you

805
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: can be one thing. It's not like you're either a

806
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,879
Speaker 1: good person or you're a bad person. Each person has

807
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: both good and bad within them and capable of doing both.

808
00:42:57,920 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: Sounds like you've been watching a lot of Star Wars. No,

809
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I mean I do watch a lot

810
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 1: of Star Wars, but I'm just saying that everything is

811
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: not black and white. For example, Blake can be hopeless Manti. Sure,

812
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: you're absolutely right, but that doesn't mean that he can't

813
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:15,479
Speaker 1: have mess ups that pertains to relationships in women. You know. Um,

814
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 1: And so I do believe Blake in in the moment

815
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 1: with Christina. I think he really wants to try to

816
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: make it work. Um, I think he goes a little

817
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 1: bit overboard, even when he said I could see Christina

818
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,479
Speaker 1: being the mother of my children. Don't you think that's

819
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:33,399
Speaker 1: what everybody goes south for everybody. It's like as soon

820
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 1: as you say, like, I see marriage with this person,

821
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,879
Speaker 1: then it immediately scoots forward to the scene in which

822
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: that person is breaking up with so and so. Of course,

823
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 1: the show does a fantastic job of setting it up,

824
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: you know, because you just see it coming, because you

825
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: know the producers. Isn't the producers in the room. And

826
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 1: it's like, can you see having a life with Christina

827
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 1: with children in marriage? And then he goes yeah, and

828
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: they're like, can you put that in a full sentence?

829
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:01,760
Speaker 1: I can totally see life of errors and children with Christina.

830
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I think Christina has had a few moments

831
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: that I've been frustrated towards. And I like Christina. We've

832
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 1: met Christina a few times and she's been very personal

833
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:14,240
Speaker 1: and kind towards us, and I like her as a person.

834
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: But I think there have been a lot of moments

835
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: within this Paradise season uh that haven't been her best.

836
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: I didn't like when she went up to Dean earlier

837
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 1: in this episode and tried to insert herself in that

838
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:28,439
Speaker 1: situation by saying Dean was selfish when he was coming

839
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: back for Calin. Yeah, I just I just didn't think

840
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: that it was really needed for her to come over

841
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 1: and tell him that, Um, because he was coming form

842
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: Calin and not Christina. Wait what about when she's told

843
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: Calin she was like, if he does you wrong, I'm

844
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,319
Speaker 1: I'm going to back you up, even though we've had

845
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: our differences. Um sure you know, yeah, girl code, I

846
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 1: I don't mind that. I like that. Like I said,

847
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: it wasn't that that I minded. It was just her

848
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,919
Speaker 1: like make seeking her way over to the day bit.

849
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 1: And maybe you know, maybe that wasn't like her initial thought.

850
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: Maybe somebody was like, hey, go over there and talk

851
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: to Dean. But who knows. Um. But within this moment,

852
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: I think I've been frustrated with the whole Christina and

853
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: Blake thing because I think, for my opinion, I don't

854
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: know this for a fact. Obviously, I don't think she's

855
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 1: really ever been into Blake this entire Paradise season. Um. Yeah,

856
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:21,839
Speaker 1: I'm not really sure where people are saying she loves him,

857
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 1: like she's so in love with him, like that's her guy,

858
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 1: and like I was like, I don't really see that.

859
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: I I've always no, I think and I think we

860
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:30,840
Speaker 1: were proven right this episode where he was actively trying

861
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 1: to show her that, hey, I'm only here for you,

862
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: and I know that I've messed up, but I really

863
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: want to take time to build this relationship back up,

864
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: and I'm willing to be patient with you because I've

865
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: done so much, you know, wrong towards you. Um and

866
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 1: from the very beginning when she not at the beginning

867
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 1: of the season, but when she finally gave him that

868
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 1: rose and said she wants to work towards a relationship

869
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 1: with him, I it was just it did seem like

870
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: excuse at excuse you after excuse of her continuing to

871
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 1: tell Blake, you know, you need to keep working harder,

872
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: you need to show me, you need to show me,

873
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 1: and she kept saying it, and at a point, I

874
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: think for me, I thought, Okay, well you need to

875
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 1: start opening up a little bit because he's actively trying

876
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 1: and I understand Christina's hesitations, but throughout that that this relationship,

877
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 1: I just thought to myself, Christina, you have to start

878
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: letting him a little bit more. And then it came

879
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 1: to a point where she continued to say it, where

880
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,319
Speaker 1: I thought to myself, is this an excuse does she

881
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 1: not like him? And then obviously when they you know,

882
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 1: he did this grand Jester, Uh, she obviously said I

883
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 1: don't see this going anywhere and never really gave it

884
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,919
Speaker 1: a shot. So I to me, it kind of made

885
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: me think maybe I was right, and maybe she didn't

886
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: really like him and kind of was just putting it off.

887
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 1: I wonder what their relationship was like last fall when

888
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 1: they were dating in real life, and I wonder what

889
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:55,879
Speaker 1: her feelings were like. Then we'll have to have both

890
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: of them on and talk about what that was, because

891
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: even though I don't think they were ever like exclusive,

892
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 1: they were like dating to a certain degree. I feel

893
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: like talking a bit. So Yeah, and maybe Christina couldn't

894
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:07,400
Speaker 1: just get over it, you know, maybe she was like,

895
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:08,840
Speaker 1: I'm too hurt pipe blake to what he's done in

896
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 1: the past, and there's nothing wrong with that. What my

897
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: point being is whether that was the case of her

898
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 1: not liking him here or if she just never really

899
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 1: liked him. Either way, I just I guess I didn't

900
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 1: really or she was like, we've been there, done that.

901
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: I didn't. We didn't feel it enough in real life

902
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 1: to revisit it again now, Yeah, which is why I

903
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 1: guess I was confused when she kept saying, um, you

904
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: have to show me, or was it was just more

905
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 1: of I guess I didn't like because it was a

906
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 1: little like you gotta show me, you gotta show me.

907
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 1: And then I thought to myself, I was like, I

908
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: wonder if she is she she likes him enough to

909
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 1: see a relationship because I just don't see it. Maybe

910
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 1: I'm wrong, maybe I can't see it. And then obviously

911
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: it came to version last night where she told him

912
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't see a future with you. So I got

913
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: multiple tweets last night saying that Christina and like could

914
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 1: be you and me, because I guess everybody makes but

915
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 1: fourth you know, as in like they were together and

916
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 1: they're not together, and they were together and they're not together.

917
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:03,800
Speaker 1: But I mean, I we didn't feel this. But then again,

918
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 1: so many people watched us and they were like, that's

919
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: never gonna happen. But I really don't think this is

920
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 1: gonna happen. Each relationship is different, each person is different everything.

921
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: You know, everybody likes to make comparisons in life. Uh,

922
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: so I I don't see a lot of parallels between that.

923
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: But um, I do also want to say with the

924
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:23,760
Speaker 1: Christina thing and the Blake thing. I'm really glad that

925
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 1: they ended up both leaving because I looking good. I'm

926
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:28,839
Speaker 1: glad that they both left like looking good the same.

927
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 1: And I think Christina, I'm really glad she didn't stick

928
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: around after telling Blake it wasn't gonna go anywhere. I'm

929
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:35,839
Speaker 1: glad she left. I think it was a really good

930
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 1: move by her. Um. And then I think Blake the

931
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 1: same thing once he found out it wasn't gonna work out,

932
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 1: kind of you know, go his merry way and leave Paradise. Uh.

933
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: I will say there was a little part of me

934
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: that was quite sad to see Blake go. I'm just glad.

935
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: I'm just glad that Blake got over the hump and

936
00:48:56,600 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: that he left Paradise looking like a sympathetic character. We

937
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:04,240
Speaker 1: actually want him to find love again because he seemed

938
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 1: to have like, really developed feelings for Christina. I think

939
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 1: Blake's just a character. He's been a very prominent character

940
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: on this show, and from an audience member, uh, you know,

941
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: as as Blake's friend, I obviously want him the best

942
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,440
Speaker 1: for him and hopefully he can grow from this experience

943
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 1: and get better, but also just from pure entertainment standpoint.

944
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: Seeing Blake leave, I thought to myself, Wow, that's it

945
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 1: almost felt real to me that the show is coming

946
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:29,800
Speaker 1: to a conclusion, because I was like, Wow, Blake's gone,

947
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 1: Blake's gone. I think you thought deeper about your feelings

948
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 1: than I did, because now listening to you say this,

949
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:39,720
Speaker 1: I found in that moment of him leaving myself thinking

950
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 1: I wonder if he'll come back next year, Like thinking

951
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 1: like a little part of me wanted him to come

952
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 1: back next year. Yeah, there's some reason. I think we

953
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: both felt similar. For some reason, we were quite sad

954
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: to see Blake go. I think he's you know, listen,

955
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: he did a lot of wrongs and caused a lot

956
00:49:56,000 --> 00:50:00,759
Speaker 1: of drama, but it was also entertaining. And I also

957
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 1: think like, uh uh it just you can kind of

958
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 1: feel the season coming to an end, and uh I

959
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 1: think that really came hit home with me when seeing

960
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:12,760
Speaker 1: Blake leave, I'm like, wow, yeah, it's already almost over. Crazy,

961
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 1: You're sad Paradise is over. I think it's for some reason,

962
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: it reminded me of Word has a very complicated relationship

963
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 1: with Paradise. He wants to watch it and he hates

964
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: watching you at the same time. It's tough. I don't uh,

965
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: I don't watch every minute of it. It's a tough

966
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 1: not the show itself is fantastic. I'm not he experienced it,

967
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: you guys. It's not because like he doesn't think it's

968
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 1: a good show. It's like it comes with a lot

969
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,839
Speaker 1: of way with Jared's a lot of baggage, you know, uh,

970
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 1: us going through it, all the drama that we had

971
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 1: to go through, the stress. Uh, It's it's sometimes hard

972
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: to watch back because you immediately insert yourself back into

973
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 1: that moment that you were in while experiencing Paradise. And

974
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 1: I think, honestly, uh, that's why maybe the Blake situation

975
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 1: I felt a little bit sympathetic when he left was

976
00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 1: because I remember, uh, I can't remember exactly which person

977
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 1: it was that left when we were on Paradise, but

978
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 1: it felt the very same way where I was like, wow,

979
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 1: that person left. He was here from day one, like

980
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: who I forget, but it was like, wow, they're gone,

981
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: this is almost over. And for some reason I felt

982
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: the same way towards Blake yesterday. Weird. I know, I

983
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: don't have to think about who that was, but first

984
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: we have to take a break. After the break, we're

985
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 1: going to talk about Demi and Christian, Chris and Katie

986
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:35,600
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987
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1030
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 1: let's zip through a couple of little things. Connor and

1031
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:02,320
Speaker 1: Rivian are on a date that seems like it was fine,

1032
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 1: but also like why well, I mean, like, come on,

1033
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 1: there's nothing obviously going to happen. Why I mean, there's

1034
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: no chemistry between him? I mean, I'm sure. I mean,

1035
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 1: rev is A is a beautiful woman. She was on

1036
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,719
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1037
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: she came back with dark hair and she looks fantastic.

1038
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that she didn't asked Arnor to talk first. Uh.

1039
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: It seemed like she kind of went through the cycle

1040
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: of guys and it's like, well, Connor is a very

1041
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: good looking single man right now, they should snag him.

1042
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 1: I'm glad they went on the date. It was very

1043
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 1: I don't even know what they did. The it was

1044
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,920
Speaker 1: like a scooter date. It was very very short. It

1045
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 1: was like a four minute date. They're like, yeah, it

1046
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: was fun, cool, and they ended up kissing and that

1047
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: was it. There was really nothing between him. Tonight is

1048
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 1: the episode in which people really have to like make decisions.

1049
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 1: I think, why you throw somebody in even if she

1050
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: is so beautiful. I mean, it's tough, right because he's

1051
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:54,319
Speaker 1: just getting over the heartbreak of Kalin rev comes in late.

1052
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm sure it was just a tough situation. Uh you

1053
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 1: know so. I mean it's really hard to build on

1054
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: anything at this point in Paradise when you just meet

1055
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: Matt Donald. He is such a heartthrob right now. He's

1056
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,920
Speaker 1: like Josh Hartnett of Paradise. I don't know why, just

1057
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: Hardnet like throw a heartthrob out there, like a little

1058
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 1: outdated there. I like being outdated. I like my nineties heartthrobs.

1059
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: Matt McDonald getting massages from Sydney and he's he's hanging

1060
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,839
Speaker 1: out Brie. I mean, just what is it about him?

1061
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: Do you see something as a guy that I don't

1062
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: see as a woman. I think it's the purity of

1063
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 1: his purity, right, It's the innocent innocence of him. He's

1064
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 1: like the A Shucks guy, and you're like, oh, the

1065
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:36,399
Speaker 1: A Shucks guy isn't going to break my heart? Yeah,

1066
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,800
Speaker 1: the Stocks guy. He's so sweet and kind and funny

1067
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:43,320
Speaker 1: and innocent, safe and and especially worship me. Yeah, especially

1068
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:45,279
Speaker 1: now in Paradise, everybody's coupled up. You want to be

1069
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: coupled up. There's this really nice guy. Why not. Chris

1070
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 1: and Demi kind of bonded over the fact that they're

1071
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 1: not outwardly affectionate. They're not like gonna be super vulnerable,

1072
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:00,320
Speaker 1: lovey dovey with their love interests. Can I tell you

1073
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:03,719
Speaker 1: how much I love Chris season the best? I can't.

1074
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 1: I don't love you guys. Remember but season two of Paradise,

1075
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 1: when he came in, he was drunk off his ass.

1076
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 1: He like fell into the fire, and people were like, actually,

1077
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,319
Speaker 1: you should give Chris Pokowski a try. And I'm like

1078
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 1: the guy falling into the fire because he's had fifteen

1079
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,799
Speaker 1: tequila shots. No thank you, But so, I like, I

1080
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 1: didn't think highly of him back then, but I am

1081
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:27,760
Speaker 1: so in love with watching him right now. I love

1082
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 1: the because I find myself loving Chris POKOUSI I find

1083
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: myself loving Chase on the small air time. He's getting

1084
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: right now. I love him. I loved Derek on this season.

1085
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 1: I think there's something to be said about the guys

1086
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:45,040
Speaker 1: growing up who are not old, they're not old at all,

1087
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 1: but like in who have been through this process, who

1088
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 1: are a little bit older, who are a little bit

1089
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: more I don't want to say ready, but just like,

1090
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: there's something about those guys that I truly love and

1091
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:00,320
Speaker 1: seeing them on the season it just made me really

1092
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 1: like them and made me think, like, do we want

1093
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:06,240
Speaker 1: guys that age? Isn't it funny that Chase has only

1094
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,959
Speaker 1: been on JoJo's season and Gad I feel like he's

1095
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:13,879
Speaker 1: been such an integral part of the of the show. Um, yeah,

1096
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: that is super crazy. But Chris is great. He and

1097
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 1: Katie finally seemed to like have settled, like they're very

1098
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: happy that day with the big dramatic kiss in the streets. Yeah,

1099
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: and I loved I love that day because a lot

1100
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 1: of people, I feel like, throw the love word around

1101
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: on the on the show and they're always like, I'm

1102
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 1: falling in love with you, I'm falling and falling falling,

1103
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 1: And Chris was so real in that moment. Yeah, I

1104
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: loved it because it was such a moment. It was

1105
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 1: such a real moment. In real life, you don't have

1106
00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 1: to have these stages where it's like I could fall

1107
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 1: in love and then it gets to the I'm falling

1108
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 1: in love and then I'm in love. Could you imagine

1109
00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: if you did that to me, or like if anybody

1110
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 1: did that in real life, or it's like this is

1111
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 1: phase one, this is called falling. Yeah, it's it's just now.

1112
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 1: I'm there sometimes for petitive when you see it on

1113
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: the show, and I think for this moment with Chris

1114
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:06,560
Speaker 1: where he did such a good job of articulating exactly

1115
00:58:06,600 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 1: how he was feeling, because a lot of times when

1116
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 1: you see two people on the day, it's like you're amazing,

1117
00:58:11,080 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: You're perfect, I see a future, I'm falling for you,

1118
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: and then it's like this grand romantic moment and you're like, okay, great,

1119
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 1: that's adorable. And then then in this moment it was

1120
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 1: him and Katie and he was so real and talking

1121
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:23,919
Speaker 1: exactly how he felt and where he thought this was going,

1122
00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:25,840
Speaker 1: and he's like, I do see something with you, but

1123
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm not falling for you yet, and it was just like,

1124
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 1: oh god, it was such a good moment, I and

1125
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 1: mature Chris Pokowski. I mean, I was in from the

1126
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: get go about Pokowski being on this season, and I

1127
00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 1: feel validated because I love him on this season and

1128
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 1: I love him and Katie and Katie. First of all,

1129
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 1: he's hitting outside of his leg BECAUSI is a good

1130
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: looking guy. Katie is gorgeous, like she is Rking and

1131
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 1: because is a good looking guy. But he's batting out

1132
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 1: of his league. And I kind of love that, love it.

1133
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 1: I know, why do I love that so much? Because

1134
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:57,680
Speaker 1: I love that she loves him for all that, all

1135
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: the inside, and and he looks like a damaged man,

1136
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 1: you know, and I love that he's like he's like

1137
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 1: a romantic lead. He's like Noah in the second half

1138
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 1: of the note Book. He's damn this. And I'm like,

1139
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: I love guys who are damage. I love people her damage.

1140
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 1: And then here you have this like optimistic, beautiful young

1141
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 1: woman who's like, I I want him, That's all I want.

1142
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 1: And then he's like, you see the future with you.

1143
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 1: I just don't know if I'm falling for you, and

1144
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 1: she's just like, I just want you. That's what I want.

1145
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 1: It's all right. Yeah, we kind of like love seeing this,

1146
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 1: like stunning girl going after somebody who like maybe the

1147
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 1: audience like doesn't understand why she's so hung up on it,

1148
00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: but it's so great. Um. Okay, So last couple that

1149
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 1: we haven't mentioned yet is Demi and Christian. Christian is

1150
00:59:44,280 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: a touch person. She her first love language is physical touch.

1151
00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 1: And Demi, who may may never have been a physical

1152
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 1: touch person when it comes to her love languages, but

1153
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:59,440
Speaker 1: is expressing a little bit of insecurity because this is

1154
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 1: the first time that she has to show physical touch

1155
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 1: with somebody, with a woman that she's dating, so it's

1156
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: kind of uncomfortable for her in two aspects. Um, and

1157
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 1: she's feeling like Christian is flirting with other people, she's

1158
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 1: being touchy with other girls just you know. Christian assures

1159
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:20,440
Speaker 1: her it's out of just friendship, and that's how she

1160
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:24,880
Speaker 1: expresses her love and affection towards everyone, not just romance, um,

1161
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 1: you know, romantic involvement. But I feel like Christian is

1162
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 1: she's so calming to watch, she expresses herself so well

1163
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 1: m and she's super understanding. How do you think they're

1164
01:00:41,040 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 1: going to get over this though? Um? Because I don't

1165
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 1: know if they're ever going to have this compatible love language?

1166
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 1: And why do you have that face on like you're

1167
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:52,560
Speaker 1: really concerned about them? No, I'm not concerned about them. UM.

1168
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: I think watching it last night, it's a real concern.

1169
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: I think a lot of couple of couples go through

1170
01:00:57,040 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 1: this where one person's love language is different than another. UM,

1171
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 1: and that's an obstacle you have to overcome. UM and

1172
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 1: you kind of have to work on. And that's kind

1173
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: of the basis of a relationship, right, compromise and sacrifice

1174
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 1: and working on something that somebody else needs and and

1175
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 1: so I on something that you may not innately have,

1176
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 1: but trying to provide it for somebody else exactly. And

1177
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: so I think last night I really liked the conversation

1178
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 1: that they were having because I think they were talking

1179
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 1: about something very real and that a lot of people

1180
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 1: can relate to. Um it did am I the only

1181
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: one that thought Demi was did she seem off like

1182
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 1: a little loopie? I don't know she was overtired, but

1183
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 1: on the date, I don't know. It was just I guess, like,

1184
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 1: I think they're going to be fine, but just to

1185
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 1: play devil's advocate for a second, I'm worried if this

1186
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 1: is to play Devil's advocate, can you see them? Can

1187
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 1: you see this being an excuse for Demi to get

1188
01:01:56,480 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 1: out of this relationship because she's starting to feel uncomfortable. No, no,

1189
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 1: And I think, you know, I was kind of reflecting

1190
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: on my own, uh past when she was talking about

1191
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 1: how she feels uncomfortable being in a gay relationship in

1192
01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: the public eye, because she always feels like is somebody

1193
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 1: judging me, somebody looking at us and thinking that we're weird.

1194
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 1: And I've never obviously felt that I'm I'm a straight

1195
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:28,760
Speaker 1: white male, you know. Uh, And so I think I've

1196
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: always taken that for granted that I've never even thought

1197
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:38,840
Speaker 1: about looking at last night, Yeah, I saw that, and

1198
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 1: I totally related to because I was thinking of the

1199
01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 1: exact same thing in the moment where I've never had

1200
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:45,600
Speaker 1: to deal with that that problem. And I've also never

1201
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 1: had friends, I guess my friend group. I'm very happy

1202
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 1: that I've been surrounded by such incredible people, because I've

1203
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 1: never really been surrounded by people that would look at

1204
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 1: that and say that's weird to see two people the

1205
01:02:57,680 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 1: same second kissing. And so I think in that moment,

1206
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 1: I had to kind of take a step back because

1207
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 1: I've never been faced with that issue or have dealt

1208
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: with it, And so I think, yeah, again, it's just

1209
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 1: one of those things that, uh, you know, you feel

1210
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:14,120
Speaker 1: for because you never want anybody to feel judged by

1211
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 1: the people that they love. Um, and sometimes we feel

1212
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:21,120
Speaker 1: like we're in such a woke society based on who

1213
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 1: we associate with that you don't realize that a lot

1214
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 1: of other people won't look at that the same way

1215
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:28,320
Speaker 1: we do. Yeah, you go to certain parts of this

1216
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 1: country and it's like you're not even in the United

1217
01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 1: States anymore. Uh But um, yeah, so I think it's

1218
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 1: certainly a real issue. Uh that you know, Demi has

1219
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 1: her own insecurities, and they're very valid and and and

1220
01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 1: and I think Christian was very honest with her, just

1221
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: not even knowing that that was an issue. Um. So

1222
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: I don't think this is any type of derailment in

1223
01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:53,480
Speaker 1: their relationship. I think they're going to be just fine.

1224
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 1: If anything, it's probably a good demonstration of how well

1225
01:03:57,160 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 1: they're able to talk through their issues. All Right, we

1226
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 1: got some fun emails I want to go through before

1227
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:05,640
Speaker 1: we wrap up. Well, we got to talk about the

1228
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 1: prom thing really quickly. I feel like we'll get a

1229
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 1: lot of flak. We don't even mention this. That was adorable.

1230
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 1: And not only wasn't an adorable, thoughtful gesture from JPG

1231
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:19,920
Speaker 1: to Titia. I love the way that everybody joined in

1232
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 1: at the end. It was great. Wasn't that one of

1233
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 1: the sweetest moments of paradise you've ever seen? It was

1234
01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 1: one of those moments that I thought, this, it needs

1235
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 1: to be more of this, because it was such a

1236
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 1: great moment to have every couple up there kind of

1237
01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 1: together and dancing and having fun and letting loose. And

1238
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 1: this season has been so filled with heavy drama and

1239
01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: serious moments. It was really nice to just see this light,

1240
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 1: loving moment where everybody was being ridiculous and having fun

1241
01:04:54,920 --> 01:04:58,920
Speaker 1: and oh, we're at prom and it's just wonderful. It

1242
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 1: was so fantastic. Stick I had said in one of

1243
01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 1: my recaps last week, I'm not sure if it was

1244
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: this one that I said, do you guys want to

1245
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 1: see more love and less drama? And I got multiple

1246
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 1: tweets last night being like, actually, you got what you

1247
01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 1: wished for. There was more love in this episode between

1248
01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 1: the Dean and Kylen thing. Because that was so romantic,

1249
01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 1: um Chris and Katie and then the prom scene. Yes,

1250
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 1: this is definitely one of my favorite episodes of the

1251
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:25,439
Speaker 1: entire season. Very sweet in in JPJ. Do you think

1252
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 1: that himself? So you think it redeems him? I think

1253
01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: it redeems him just because, like he remember at the

1254
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:33,960
Speaker 1: top of the episode we were talking about just like

1255
01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 1: going for it completely and the romance around like those actions.

1256
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: I think like he just is so into her. It's

1257
01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:46,400
Speaker 1: just a demonstration of like he doesn't even care if

1258
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 1: he looks like a fool sometimes. Yeah, I don't think

1259
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:52,800
Speaker 1: it completely redeems him. I think, well, I listen, I

1260
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 1: love John Paul Jones. Okay, yeah, he doesn't redeem the

1261
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 1: way he acted with Derek. No, no, of course, I

1262
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: think Tatia should absolutely move for John because he's so

1263
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 1: enamored and possibly falling in love with her. But I

1264
01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 1: also think that there might be some issues within the

1265
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 1: relationship because of how John Paul Jones reacts sometimes to adversity.

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Speaker 1: But that's something very similar to like, you know, Dean

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01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: and Kalen have things to work on. John Paul Jones

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Speaker 1: a Tasia thing have things to work on. We have

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Speaker 1: things to work on Um. So that's why I don't

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Speaker 1: think it like completely eradicates it, but they can move forward.

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Speaker 1: I said that in too much of a way. He

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Speaker 1: doesn't redeem him for how he dealt with the Derek drama,

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Speaker 1: but it does redeem him in the audience continuing to

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Speaker 1: root for him with Tasia. Um, sure, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like that moment was like, Okay, Tassia, give

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Speaker 1: this a whirl. I mean, to be fair, everything he

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Speaker 1: did towards Derek was in you know, for Tasha. Well,

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Speaker 1: but his arguming no, I agree. That's why I don't

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Speaker 1: think because I think that he was being uh ridiculous

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Speaker 1: and absurd in the moment. And he even said so yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: We got some good emails here. The first one is

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01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: from Dina. She says, I'm hoping for you to explain

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01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 1: the Bachelor afterlife. That sounds morbid. It's been said that

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01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 1: the Bachelor does not pay contestn's a lot of money.

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01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:17,480
Speaker 1: It's like Chris Harrison opens up the Prilli Gates a

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01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:21,960
Speaker 1: heaven for us. The Bachelor doesn't pay their condesns a

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01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:24,440
Speaker 1: lot of money because saw that funding love the experience

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01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:28,320
Speaker 1: often leads to opportunities after the show. But does a

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01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:31,160
Speaker 1: person support them how does a person support themselves after

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01:07:31,200 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 1: the Bachelor? Like, what are Colton and Cassie doing now

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01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 1: for a living? Well, I think first of all, we

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Speaker 1: should never speak on casting Colin's behalf. We don't know

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Speaker 1: what they're doing. We know they're both hard working. Uh

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Speaker 1: we've I've only met Cassie once. I think met Colin

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Speaker 1: a couple of times. Dude's a hard worker. Um, So

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Speaker 1: I know whatever they're doing, they're working hard at it. Um.

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Speaker 1: I think it's different for every contestant. It's very frustrating

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Speaker 1: when we get tweets though, or or Instagram comments that

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Speaker 1: say that we don't have a job, or like do

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01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 1: you have a real job, as if like you doing

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01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:02,840
Speaker 1: hosting and stuff isn't a real job, or if you're

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01:08:02,880 --> 01:08:05,640
Speaker 1: having fun with your job that it's not a real job,

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01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:08,120
Speaker 1: or it's not actually hard work because we get to

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01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:10,160
Speaker 1: do a lot of fun stuff, but it's not like

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01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:15,320
Speaker 1: it's not all a big party our life. No. Um.

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01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 1: I think it's just different work. Like I, you know,

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01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:23,639
Speaker 1: I was working fifty hours a week, you know, grinding

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01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:27,400
Speaker 1: away before going on the show, and then continuing after

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01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:29,639
Speaker 1: the show and I think you know, work has just

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01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:33,400
Speaker 1: adjusted to what is best for me, what's best for you,

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Speaker 1: and what's best for us together. If you want to

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01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:38,880
Speaker 1: like kind of recap with Jared and I have done

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01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:42,599
Speaker 1: over the past twenty four hours. Jared hosts this sports

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01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:45,599
Speaker 1: app called Hofer. He went on that on Sunday night.

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01:08:46,040 --> 01:08:47,559
Speaker 1: Go check it out. It's not just a sports app.

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01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:50,439
Speaker 1: We do TV too, and it's really film. It's a

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01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:53,839
Speaker 1: really cool you can do Bachelor, there's Bachelor in Paradise.

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01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,920
Speaker 1: Hofer to where you like submit your predictions for that

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01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:59,960
Speaker 1: night's episode and then you win money. Anyway, we're not

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01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:01,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to plug it. Well, I mean I

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01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:03,720
Speaker 1: can if I want to. But you like it and

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01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:05,840
Speaker 1: you host. I love it because it's it's not only

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Speaker 1: sports up. So what pretty much happens? We asked you

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Speaker 1: as you ten questions, you give us ten predictions, you

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01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 1: have a chance to win free money. It's a free

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01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:14,599
Speaker 1: app to play, it's offer it's really fun. Well hosts

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Speaker 1: as well. Yeah, It's just it's something that I really

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Speaker 1: truly believe in. Well, Jared was doing that. I flew

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01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 1: over to New York. I woke up. I had an

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01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:24,600
Speaker 1: event at Fashion week did some promotional stuff, but you

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01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:26,720
Speaker 1: didn't mag care about our day to day. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: And then you were recording to podcasts over at I Heeart.

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01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:32,200
Speaker 1: Here we are recording another podcast at I Heeart, and

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01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 1: then we're going to rehearsal for an MTV reunion show

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Speaker 1: that Jared and I are hosting. We don't think you know.

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01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 1: It's a lot of miscellaneous stuff, but it's not just fun.

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01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:45,200
Speaker 1: It's fun work. We work hard, but we have fun

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01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:47,720
Speaker 1: with it. And we're very, very lucky and grateful for

1339
01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 1: all the opportunities that the Bachelor has given us, that

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01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: is for sure. Thank you for your question. Next emails

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01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 1: from Carly Sunglasses in Paradise. We've noticed that no one

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01:09:56,840 --> 01:10:00,920
Speaker 1: wears sunglasses of Paradise. Is this avoid? Is this so

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01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:05,799
Speaker 1: that the wait? Is this to avoid seeing the team?

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01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm assuming product reflections. Yeah, it's a connection thing. Could

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01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 1: you imagine if you couldn't see the emotion and connection

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01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:18,760
Speaker 1: behind somebody's eyes in Paradise? Yeah? I say a lot,

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01:10:18,880 --> 01:10:21,519
Speaker 1: and I think everybody wants to see people lies when

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01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 1: they're talking about love and relationships and all that good stuff.

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01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 1: Didn't doesn't Dr Phil say something like communication? Is always

1350
01:10:27,400 --> 01:10:33,599
Speaker 1: seven verbal because yeah, yeah, he says that could you

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01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:37,880
Speaker 1: imagine well with sunglasses? No, it makes perfect sense of

1352
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,120
Speaker 1: why they don't want cast members to wear the eyes.

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01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:43,200
Speaker 1: Like I said, they're very telling and so you want

1354
01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: to see them. You see the love in her person's

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01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:51,519
Speaker 1: eyes or they hate okay, um. This is from Caitlin.

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Speaker 1: She says, have a few questions about Ashley and Jared's wedding. Well,

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01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:57,680
Speaker 1: that's great because we're together here. First of all, wondering

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Speaker 1: if they took a type of dance lesson in order

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Speaker 1: for preparation for your first dance, and what tips do

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01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:06,719
Speaker 1: you have for people who are currently engaged in planning

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Speaker 1: a wedding Like myself, we didn't take dance lessons because

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01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 1: it is just one dance and we kind of like

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01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,240
Speaker 1: dance around and parking lots and grocery store aisles all

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01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:22,599
Speaker 1: the time, have him spin me everywhere, and my dress

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01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:26,400
Speaker 1: itself kind of just danced for me. And honestly, when

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01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 1: planning your wedding, the last thing you want to spend

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01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:33,200
Speaker 1: more on is a dance lesson. It's like, don't spend

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Speaker 1: the extra money, but like pretend like you know what

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01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 1: you're doing. Yeah, we did a couple of twirls. It

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01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 1: was really fun. People were oong and eyeing, and they

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01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 1: made us feel like we knew we were doing or

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01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:46,280
Speaker 1: at least doing a good job. And our other advice

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01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:49,960
Speaker 1: for any engaged couples planning a wedding currently would be

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01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 1: to make it your own wedding too. Obviously he's the best.

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01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:57,280
Speaker 1: Somebody actually commented on the help my second dating podcast

1376
01:11:57,280 --> 01:11:59,519
Speaker 1: was like stop at the wedding ads because I mentioned

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01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:01,719
Speaker 1: Troy's name and I was like, that's not an ad.

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01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:03,760
Speaker 1: We just really love Troy and what people to use

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01:12:03,800 --> 01:12:06,640
Speaker 1: him for his wedding because we want him to do

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01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 1: every wedding and Troy was very much paid. Well, yeah,

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01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:14,519
Speaker 1: that's besides the point, but um are My best advice

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01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:17,840
Speaker 1: is to truly make your wedding as much about you

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01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 1: as possible, and that means integrating your personality into every

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01:12:22,600 --> 01:12:25,160
Speaker 1: aspect of it. And for Ashley and I, we worked

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01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:26,880
Speaker 1: really hard on our wedding. We spent a lot of

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01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 1: money and we wanted to make sure that we tried

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01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:32,679
Speaker 1: to make it our own as possible and personalizing. Even

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01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:35,559
Speaker 1: something like David Cook singing, who's been so meaningful to

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Speaker 1: Ashley over the past ten to fifteen years or more

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Speaker 1: than that ten years, um, and to like we and

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01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 1: and our wedding planner, he did this, We didn't know,

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Speaker 1: but they were like these detailed mirrors throughout the ballroom

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01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:53,360
Speaker 1: and cocktail hour that had inscriptions of quotes that we

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Speaker 1: really love. Um. And then to even like the band

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01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:59,639
Speaker 1: playing Disney songs. Uh so we really yeah, we hand

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01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:01,800
Speaker 1: picked every song that was played at the wedding. So

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01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 1: like details like that, like gets your hands on them,

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01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:06,559
Speaker 1: there possible and you know what, and it makes all

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01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 1: the difference in the world because like for me personally,

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Speaker 1: one quick story, I really wanted Shallow to be played

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Speaker 1: at the wedding because it's just the song that really

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01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:16,920
Speaker 1: pulls out my heart strings and hearing that played in

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01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 1: the ballroom live dancing to it was a moment that

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01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:24,080
Speaker 1: I'll never forget. And I'm so happy that I asked

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01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:25,760
Speaker 1: that song to be played. And both actually and I

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01:13:25,800 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 1: wanted that song to be played, and it was just

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01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:29,759
Speaker 1: one of those things like I'm so happy we asked

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01:13:30,000 --> 01:13:32,080
Speaker 1: because it created one of my favorite moments for the wedding.

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01:13:32,160 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 1: So stuff like that that would be my best advice.

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01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 1: Don't be afraid to ask. Yeah, the moment, the musical

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01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:40,479
Speaker 1: moment that I am so regretful for missing because I

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01:13:40,520 --> 01:13:44,919
Speaker 1: had to go do my costume change was they dropped

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01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:49,400
Speaker 1: this curtain right after we did like some speeches, and

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01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:51,439
Speaker 1: then they started playing Beauty and the Beast and I

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01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:54,080
Speaker 1: ran upstairs and in the moment it felt like I

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01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:56,439
Speaker 1: was like Cinderella running up the stairs, and it felt

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01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:59,080
Speaker 1: very much like a fairy tale. But it was also

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01:13:59,120 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 1: a moment that I missed downstairs that I was regretful for. Ye. Well,

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01:14:02,680 --> 01:14:05,240
Speaker 1: and all that stress will be worth it, and it

1420
01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:09,720
Speaker 1: was incredible. Get good videographers and photographers to capture the

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01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:12,439
Speaker 1: whole thing, because you will miss moments and it'll be

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01:14:12,520 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 1: nice to be able to see eventually. Definitely, I think

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01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:17,880
Speaker 1: everybody will have a photographer, but we had wonderful videographers

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01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:22,880
Speaker 1: as well. So um, anyway, that's our wedding advice. Alright, guys, well,

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Speaker 1: this is a fantastic episode. I love doing it with you,

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01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:29,960
Speaker 1: Jared h taking with you. Ah well, thank you. I

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01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:32,200
Speaker 1: love doing it with you as well. But also miss Ben.

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01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 1: We really miss Ben. Ben is just Benson's saying a

1429
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:37,639
Speaker 1: weird on Twitter yesterday about the fact that I think

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01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:39,680
Speaker 1: he may have worded it wrong, but he was like,

1431
01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 1: I hate the Patriots even more because Jared loves him

1432
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 1: so much. Well, I don't know, but I think just

1433
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:50,880
Speaker 1: everybody's really hating the Patriots right now. They just signed

1434
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 1: Antonio Brown. They beat down the Steelers thirty three to three,

1435
01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 1: and it's like, oh my god, here we go again.

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01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 1: You guys. He's really brought me to the dark side.

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01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:01,559
Speaker 1: I do. I just really love me five minutes with anybody,

1438
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:04,559
Speaker 1: they'll be a Patriots fan because I have a way

1439
01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:08,559
Speaker 1: we have to do is watch any just go follow

1440
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:11,479
Speaker 1: Julian Edelman on Instagram. Yeah, you're gonna him. He's the

1441
01:15:11,520 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 1: best best. Okay, we're so off topic anyway, let's not

1442
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:16,320
Speaker 1: talk about that. But we've missed Ben and we love

1443
01:15:16,360 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 1: Bend and Ben's a freaking best, awesome person. Like I

1444
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 1: can't tell you how much I appreciate that human being

1445
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: and him being at the wedding and there's just so

1446
01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:27,840
Speaker 1: many moments that we had together and we don't hang

1447
01:15:27,920 --> 01:15:30,160
Speaker 1: I I don't hang out with Ben uh that much,

1448
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:32,519
Speaker 1: just because he lives in Denver, and it sucks because

1449
01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:34,760
Speaker 1: every time I do, I realize how much I love

1450
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:36,680
Speaker 1: him as a human being, and I just wish I

1451
01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:39,559
Speaker 1: could spend more time with him anyway, that's mine. You

1452
01:15:39,560 --> 01:15:41,800
Speaker 1: guys are gonna get plenty of Ben tomorrow. He'll be

1453
01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:48,280
Speaker 1: here recapping night two of Week six, and um, that's

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01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:50,400
Speaker 1: all I got for you. There we go perfect. I've

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01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:55,600
Speaker 1: been Ashley and I've been Charried. Follow the Ben and

1456
01:15:55,680 --> 01:15:59,440
Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on iHeart Radio, or subscribe

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Speaker 1: wherever you listen to podcasts.