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Speaker 1: Hey all, welcome back to beat Your Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena and we are.

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Speaker 1: Back with the Mentel all roundtable from.

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Speaker 3: Hard our speed dating interview style episode.

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Speaker 1: There you go. I like that. That was good. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: And our first guest today is Spencer. Spencer, welcome to

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Speaker 1: Batcher Happy Hour. How are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm doing better now? Fantastic to see all your glowing.

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Speaker 2: Oh thank you?

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Speaker 4: I love that.

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Speaker 1: How was How was tonight? How was being back seeing

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Speaker 1: all the guys for the first time in a while.

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Speaker 4: I'm assuming it's crazy because you go into this experience

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Speaker 4: and it's this whirlwind and then you just go back

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Speaker 4: to real life and then it's like, okay, I guess

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Speaker 4: I'm just back to my day to day and then

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Speaker 4: it airs things change and we come back here and

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Speaker 4: we have an opportunity to kind of like relive it again.

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Speaker 4: So it was back into the frying band quickly.

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Speaker 1: Where do you? Where do you live?

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Speaker 5: Dallas? Dallas?

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Speaker 1: Sexis any and the guys from your season live close

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Speaker 1: to you?

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Speaker 5: Or now?

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Speaker 4: We have a couple of Houston guys. We have actually

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Speaker 4: Grand Devin both in Houston. Outside of that, I think

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Speaker 4: we're the only Texas guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, did you see either of those guys before

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Speaker 1: coming back here?

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Speaker 4: I did not, But I do have a best friend

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Speaker 4: of mine that was on a few seasons ago that

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Speaker 4: I've known since college and got to spend a lot

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Speaker 4: of time with them.

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Speaker 2: So who is it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Connor Saley?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, he was on He was on Hannah

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Speaker 1: Brown season correct?

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Speaker 5: I think so correct? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, nice, all right, So let's get right into you

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Speaker 1: get looped into the drama pretty quickly, which neither of

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Speaker 1: us were expecting.

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Speaker 2: No, let's kick it off with Aaron.

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Speaker 3: I would say, that's the kind of chakra of the

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Speaker 3: night for you, I'm assuming of Aaron called out, you

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Speaker 3: know when he said to Jem before he left, there's

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Speaker 3: some people here I feel like aren't here for the

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Speaker 3: right reason, And he admitted to referring to Devin and

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Speaker 3: to Sam n who I think, you know, didn't really

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Speaker 2: That's kind of a shot.

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Speaker 3: But he did say after watching it back, he felt

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Speaker 3: like you weren't there for the right reasons either, and

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Speaker 3: that you maybe weren't. That's not true, I don't I

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Speaker 3: want to be correct here. He said that he didn't

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Speaker 3: feel like you were ready for the commitment after watching

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Speaker 3: the way you spoke about your ex and how uncomfortable

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Speaker 3: that made you.

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Speaker 2: Were you expecting him to say this? Did you know

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Speaker 2: he might have these feelings?

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Speaker 4: Not at all. First off, I don't know anyone who

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Speaker 4: would think that was comfortable subject matter to share on

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Speaker 4: national television. I mean, the extent of what I shared.

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Speaker 4: The only person that knew that up until that point

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Speaker 4: was my mother. So sharing that nerve wracking. Yeah, absolutely,

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Speaker 4: But I'm four years removed from it and there's no

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Speaker 4: from something, it allows you to see it with a.

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Speaker 5: Little more clarity.

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Speaker 4: And I've had four years of distance and I've seen

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Speaker 4: it for what it was. When you're in the middle

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Speaker 4: actually are. Yeah, but it's shocking to say the least.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know, sometimes guys say something to get

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Speaker 3: I also think that there's something to be said for

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Speaker 3: a very long time, and you might just be kind

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Speaker 3: of like finding your footing as you're revisiting this time

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, I actually never spoke about it in its entirety

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Speaker 4: once people had gotten bits and pieces. It wasn't easy

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Speaker 4: to bring it up to my closest friends and family that, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I wasn't comfortable talking about it. Thank God that Jen's

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Speaker 4: the woman she is, and she was there and coaxed

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Speaker 4: or as a reason for me not being ready or

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Speaker 4: an engagement or ready for marriage is the most ludicrous

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Speaker 4: thing that we heard all night tonight. Or it's some

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Speaker 4: pretty pretty out there things I would.

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Speaker 3: Say, speaking of out there things, I do want to

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Speaker 3: ask you as well.

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Speaker 2: Another thing that tied back to you.

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Speaker 3: We saw a lot of guys forgiving or at least

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Speaker 3: giving Sam m a lot of grace tonight when he

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Speaker 3: a little bit on the stronger side, asking him, or

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Speaker 3: not asking him, but maybe making a statement that you

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Speaker 3: feel like he used the term competition a lot. Do

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Speaker 3: you want to kind of expand on what you meant

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Speaker 3: there and maybe tell us where you feel you stand

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Speaker 3: with Sam.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure right now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so Sam, along with other men, there were other

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Speaker 4: men in the house that use the word competition a lot.

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Speaker 4: And when pertaining to love, I don't think describing what

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Speaker 4: we were in the middle of as a competition is accurate.

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Speaker 4: I think that you can compete to when a sports game.

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Speaker 4: I think that you can compete to try to get

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Speaker 4: a promotion at your job. I don't think you can

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Speaker 4: compete for love, because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 4: it's a two way street. You can want someone to

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Speaker 4: love you as much as as much as you want to,

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Speaker 4: It doesn't mean they're going to love you. You can't make

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Speaker 4: someone love you. You can compete to be able to get

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Speaker 4: more time to show them the person you are you

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Speaker 4: can compete to be able to relay to them important

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Speaker 4: facts about yourself that may sway how they feel. But

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Speaker 4: at the end of the day, it's not a competition.

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Speaker 4: In my eyes, I think a lot of guys get

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: And I also told him that words carry weight, and

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Speaker 4: I think he knows that, and I think some of

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Speaker 4: those words were used to try to win as a competition,

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Speaker 4: and I think he owned up to that to an

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Speaker 4: credits to because getting up there, knowing what he was

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Speaker 4: walking into that couldn't have been easy. But no, I

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Speaker 4: think he, along with everyone else, deserve deserves to be

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Speaker 4: held accountable for their actions and what they say.

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Speaker 1: And you implied Aaron maybe wanting a ticket to Paradise.

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Speaker 1: If they asked you to go to Paradise, would you

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Speaker 1: do it?

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Speaker 4: I the last bucket in my life that I want

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Speaker 4: to fill as a relationship, and Paradise has worked for

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Speaker 4: a lot of people. I'm single, and the opportunity comes around,

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Speaker 4: I'm not opposed to meeting my person on the beach.

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Speaker 4: It's obviously worked out for some people, you know, So yeah,

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Speaker 4: I would absolutely be open to it for sure.

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Speaker 1: And what would you do? How would you be with

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Speaker 1: Aaron if he was there? Are you guys on bad

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Speaker 1: terms at this point now? Or did you hash it

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Speaker 1: out a little bit? After hash it out a little bit?

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Speaker 1: We're also very different people. I think if someone's look

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Speaker 1: for that, they're not looking for me.

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Speaker 5: And I'm okay with.

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Speaker 1: The great, great, amazing.

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Speaker 5: Well, thank you thanks for taking the time. Yeah, thank

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Speaker 5: you so much.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy your night.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. I appreciate y'all.

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Speaker 4: Enjoy your nine too.

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Speaker 1: All right. Our second guest stop is a guy we

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Speaker 1: just had on this podcast, but he's bad because Beck Jeremy,

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Speaker 1: welcome back.

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Speaker 6: I would like an introduction like UFC when he just

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Speaker 5: Top of.

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Speaker 1: Jeremy. How was it seeing everyone tonight?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's cool.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you guys have been through similar experiences like

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Speaker 6: I become like brothers with some of these guys.

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Speaker 5: So it's great to see everyone.

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Speaker 6: It's been months, obviously a long day, but it's we're

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Speaker 6: all in good spirits and the happy to see each

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're all. We're all good.

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Speaker 3: The best part of the tell Alls, at least when

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Speaker 3: There's such a feeling of relief afterwards.

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Speaker 6: I feel it's weird because I guess like you take

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah for now. Jen Jen, the woman that you

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Speaker 6: I always smile around her. She's always wanted to be around,

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Speaker 6: So yeah, it was good to see her. It was

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Speaker 1: Jay Bear. Did she give you that nickname at Yeah? No,

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Speaker 1: it jair Bear.

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Speaker 6: She came to me in like second week. Yeah, it

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Speaker 6: was pretty early, so jere Bear. I think it's cute.

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Speaker 2: It is cute. I like it.

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Speaker 3: We did see you jump in though, and somewhat call

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Speaker 3: That was Do you want to expand on that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So I was not part of that date at

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Speaker 6: I was rooming with Devin. So he came back and

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Speaker 6: like I start, I heard about what happened. I knew

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Speaker 6: interested to see what was.

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Speaker 5: Going to happen. I didn't know that happens.

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Speaker 6: And I hear him like say it on TV, and

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Speaker 6: I I like, by John dropped, I'll know about you guys,

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Speaker 6: But I was wild our.

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Speaker 2: Jaw draft as well.

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Speaker 1: Because I mean, he he defended himself and it made

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Speaker 1: sense until he said but then he was like, but

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Speaker 1: then I was happy was Jen. But then you said, well,

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Speaker 1: you didn't know it was Jen because you had already laughed. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And then I was confused, and I kind of.

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Speaker 5: Ye what he said was like he said it was

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Speaker 5: out of context, and he said to his mom like, oh,

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Speaker 5: but Maria and Daisy aren't my type.

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Speaker 6: So but then, like he said himself, he thought it

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Speaker 5: So because he went on.

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Speaker 1: Thinking it would people so yeah, But in his in

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Speaker 5: I think it's a great thing. I don't know about you, guys.

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Speaker 5: A good conversation with him. I think. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to see if that's Do you have a question,

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Speaker 1: I do have a question. We saw two tickets to Paradise,

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Speaker 5: I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't expect anything in the slide. I didn't expect

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Speaker 5: I don't know what's going to happen. If it presents

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Speaker 2: That is fun that part.

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Speaker 1: Coming back on. See you guys, go on bye, okay,

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Speaker 1: Sam and sam En is back in the hot seat. Sam,

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Speaker 1: what's up? How are you you? Honestly, you were for

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Speaker 5: I appreciate that a good moments.

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Speaker 7: I'm kidding.

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Speaker 9: Course, because there's a lot of unresolved tension between me

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like you got a lot of flock

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Speaker 9: We'll find with materials and materials nowadays. Come on, it's

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Speaker 2: Was it an easy decision to wear a back out tonight?

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Speaker 9: You know, I think it just brings a different order

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Speaker 2: It brings out energy.

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Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying. It brings a different type

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Speaker 2: I feel like tonight, it's what it's because I.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, of course, you know. I feel like, uh, instead

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Speaker 1: I thought you handled yourself very well tonight.

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Speaker 1: I was really impressed the football game. I was after

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Speaker 5: Play with you?

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Speaker 1: You were fired up, You were fired up, but no,

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Speaker 3: I feel like your main point of conflict tonight was

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Speaker 3: How did it feel? Kind of I feel like you

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Speaker 9: I kind of knew already, right, Devin and I kind

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Speaker 9: We two meet each other because we both realized that Hey,

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Speaker 1: But uh, there's no regrets when it comes to like

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Speaker 2: Know, as Joe saying you, did you put it all

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Speaker 3: What do you feel like now watching back your entire

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, a ton of things, right, like don't call it,

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Speaker 9: Yeah, of course, Like first, like there's a there's a

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Speaker 9: you know it was.

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Speaker 1: It was. It is what it is. It can't change that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I won't demand it, Sam, Sam, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for coming back on and taking easy in year flag

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Speaker 9: You do you want me on your team, Joe, Come on,

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Speaker 9: if I was, if I was taking teams, I would

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Speaker 9: pick you.

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Speaker 5: Yo.

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Speaker 1: Finish the sentence. What is the best offense?

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Speaker 2: A good defense?

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Speaker 1: Exactly?

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Speaker 9: The best defense there was John mitch x pro Seahawks

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Speaker 9: on right week, I'm left wing love brget Sam, whose

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Speaker 9: lane they run every time?

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Speaker 7: They ran my lane?

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Speaker 1: Every look t they ran my lane every time, and

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Speaker 1: I stopped them. I stopped every point. We'll leave it

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Speaker 3: Dam you shine of flight football, and you shine tonight. Congratulations.

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Speaker 5: Hey grocery store Joe, what's up?

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Speaker 7: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Are you?

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Speaker 10: I hope you don't think I was actually coming at you,

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Speaker 10: I'm so sorry because I did. It's like, because you

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Speaker 5: So I'm like, damn, girl, like you could show me

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Speaker 5: no long.

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Speaker 6: No like what look this is a talent.

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Speaker 10: That oh my god, reply no because I actually tagged

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Speaker 7: I didn't mean no like.

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Speaker 2: Harm Oh wait, I feel like I showed you that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I just.

451
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Speaker 3: I swear no no no, no, no hate, no hate.

452
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Speaker 2: That's so sorry.

453
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Speaker 5: That was on me. That was she was talking Jose

454
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Speaker 5: Chicago hometown hero. We love Joe, We love Joe.

455
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Speaker 2: No, that's very funny that you posted that.

456
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Speaker 3: I love it when you guys interact with stuff that

457
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Speaker 3: we're saying on the podcast.

458
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Speaker 1: Can your you live it? Do you still live in Chamber?

459
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Speaker 5: Yes? I do so.

460
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Speaker 1: I feel like you're a Woodfield mall guy.

461
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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, yes, yes, I do you miss it at all? Man,

462
00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:53,960
Speaker 5: you needn't come back.

463
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Speaker 10: And I mean there's a lot of new Stoffman. They

464
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Speaker 10: got an export builts over here. You got a lot

465
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Speaker 10: of good restaurants. You guys come through. I'll show you

466
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,360
Speaker 10: guys a good time in Schomberg. Joey Telligence.

467
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:05,639
Speaker 11: Where Schomberg, Schomberg is.

468
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 1: It's it's like a it's a Chicago suburb. It's it's

469
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:13,120
Speaker 1: probably so. I'm from Melrose Park. It's probably like one.

470
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Speaker 1: It's like twenty five minutes from my house.

471
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Speaker 5: Oh shit, Joey from Melos Parks Park.

472
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Speaker 1: Yeah, sage boy, I'm from Malros But you guys have

473
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Speaker 1: Johnny's beef. You guys got a Giants beat somewhere close

474
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Speaker 1: over there. One in Arlington Heights, right, yeah.

475
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Speaker 5: There is one of Longton Heights. And there's one over Bye.

476
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Speaker 5: That's Ols. That's OL's over by us. I went to

477
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Speaker 5: U s.

478
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Speaker 1: Okay, nice. Sorry, we probably need this step. We need

479
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Speaker 1: to talk a little more.

480
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Speaker 2: Butler, Yeah, the show you're talk about that so.

481
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Speaker 1: Joe, I'm sorry, we are we're going to talk about

482
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Speaker 1: we you know, we got a few minutes here, but

483
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go backwards. I'm gonna go backwards. Actually you

484
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Speaker 1: get a ticket? Well, okay, why the fun would you

485
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 1: let that tarantula on your lap?

486
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:03,120
Speaker 6: Why?

487
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: I get And you said it too, You said like

488
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: I did it for Yeah, we.

489
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,159
Speaker 3: Were with you when because we were like, don't do it,

490
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:14,639
Speaker 3: don't shoot it when and then when you were like,

491
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 3: I did it last time for Jaen, why would I

492
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 3: do this? Like what are you going to offer me?

493
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 3: I was like, damn straight, you better negotiate right now.

494
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,879
Speaker 10: With you the whole time, my girl, I appreciate you.

495
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 10: But yeah, I mean they offered me a ticket to periodise.

496
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Speaker 10: So I was like, okay, maybe it was definitely well

497
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Speaker 10: worth it.

498
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you did the right, you made the right and

499
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 3: you know what, they got it off you pretty quick.

500
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Speaker 3: I thought for sure they're going to have that time.

501
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Speaker 5: Oh girl, girl, that was a long time.

502
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Speaker 10: No no, no, no, no, that was a long time.

503
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 10: Don't don't that was a long ass time. And the

504
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 10: thing is he got it like moving and wiggling at

505
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Speaker 10: the end, and I was like, you better get that ship,

506
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 10: Get that ship, get that ship.

507
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 1: Again. What if it just like like laid eggs on

508
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Speaker 1: you or something. I have that because that's what I

509
00:22:58,880 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 1: thought I was gonna ask.

510
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 2: That's my fig hear. Why would you say that.

511
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 1: That's the most random thing.

512
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 5: Laid eggs. I mean, not even bike being He's just

513
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 5: laid eggs on you. He was just breathing on my

514
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 5: fucking lap.

515
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:16,199
Speaker 2: It was terrifying. You're so rave, you're so ray, So.

516
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Speaker 1: What is your all right? So great?

517
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 9: Though?

518
00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 1: You get the you get a ticket to Paradise. This

519
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: is kind of the first time we've ever seen them

520
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 1: do this. You're got any strategy or what's your mindset

521
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:29,880
Speaker 1: going into this now?

522
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 10: I mean, I'm gonna keep it her gluck brother. I

523
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,880
Speaker 10: don't think there's any strategy at all. I think she's

524
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 10: got to be yourself. I mean, I'm looking to find

525
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Speaker 10: a woman of my dreams to fall in love. So

526
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 10: if I'm not myself, it's not gonna work out, right.

527
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,159
Speaker 10: I can't sell her a false reality. I gotta be myself,

528
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 10: not saying that you're looking for anything like juicy anything.

529
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Speaker 10: But like, I don't think there's no strategy. I think

530
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Speaker 10: I just gotta go in and try my best. I mean,

531
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Speaker 10: if she's feeling me and then she feels me and

532
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Speaker 10: she doesn't, then.

533
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Speaker 1: But he Okay, are you are you familiar with the

534
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Speaker 1: single women within Bachelor Nations and now I'm hoping to

535
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 1: see there.

536
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a great question.

537
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 11: Yeah.

538
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 10: I was just talking about this girl named Olivia Lewis.

539
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 10: She's she's beautiful, I think hourly and also inwardly. I

540
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 10: think she didn't get the love that she deserved when

541
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Speaker 10: she was on Paradise. And I promise you if she

542
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 10: does show up, I would give her all the attention

543
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 10: to love that she deserves because she's a queen of

544
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 10: my eyes and I think she has a lot of personality.

545
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:22,640
Speaker 5: I think she can match mine.

546
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Speaker 1: I like that you didn't try away from.

547
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Speaker 5: Right now.

548
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 1: So that you're that's your number one going in.

549
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 5: I think that's where that for you.

550
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 11: Thank you so God.

551
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 5: I love I love Serena, Serena, I love you.

552
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 1: I appreciate you.

553
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 5: No, I rock with you. I rock with you, the

554
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Speaker 5: home Tire Hero.

555
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 1: But I would have called your ass out tonight. I

556
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: would have called your ass out tonight so fast? Would you?

557
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 1: Who was the guy that you called out, Oh everyone

558
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 1: you called you call out a lot of people, But

559
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,399
Speaker 1: that was I think it was. It was him with

560
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 1: the I love you thing with sam M. Yeah, and

561
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,760
Speaker 1: then you said I but and then you're like, and

562
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: I love you. You told him that you love him.

563
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: If I was him, I would have came back at

564
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Speaker 1: you and have been like, expressed to me why, And

565
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Speaker 1: I would think.

566
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Speaker 5: I would have been giving you.

567
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Speaker 1: But I don't think you would have had the words.

568
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 1: I don't think you would have had the words.

569
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Speaker 5: No, that's cap, that's cap dog.

570
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Speaker 1: I give you the words, why do you love sam?

571
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Speaker 1: Why do you love sam M?

572
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Speaker 10: Sam M is an actual loyal as dude. So what

573
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 10: you guys see is actually who he is. So he

574
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 10: will go to bat for you if he rocks with you.

575
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 10: So he's a person, that is. He may not communicate

576
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Speaker 10: himself to the best, but I'm so thankful how genuine

577
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 10: he is. He didn't shy away from being who the

578
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 10: person he is, and that's all you can ask for

579
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Speaker 10: a person.

580
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 5: But he is loyal to a fall. That boy is loyal.

581
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 10: So I mean again, like I I got all my

582
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Speaker 10: brothers accountable, and that's why I kind of you know,

583
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 10: I mentioned that in the beginning, and he addressed it

584
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,639
Speaker 10: and he alled up to his So that's all you can,

585
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 10: you know, ask for in somebody.

586
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: So yeah, right you there you go. You made me

587
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: my words?

588
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 11: Good?

589
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 2: Did you know that you were going to go in tonight?

590
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 7: And hello?

591
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 5: All right, I'm on here.

592
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 11: I love you.

593
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: Have a little moment on camera.

594
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 10: I'm sorry, Hey, hometown hero, my boy, grocery store show, Serena,

595
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:26,640
Speaker 10: It's all love.

596
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 5: Now, that's my girl, Serena. I'm your biggest cheerleader from

597
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 5: now on. I'm gonna be posting. You are the best.

598
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 5: I love you, guys.

599
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Speaker 1: Fire, get out of here, Aaron, I don't. I don't

600
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: know if I could interview you. Look at you. You

601
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 1: sound so much like your brother.

602
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 7: It's wild, but we don't look alike. We just soundedlike, No,

603
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 7: you don't, actually don't. I mean you can tell you

604
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 7: looking I'll ask you.

605
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 5: The questions right now.

606
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,239
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, don't you are?

607
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 7: You are?

608
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 5: Thank you.

609
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 1: Overall your your You're a better You're a better person.

610
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: Joe's just saying this hoping that NOAEH listens against pissed off.

611
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 7: I was, yeah, I was seeing you up Joeah, whatever

612
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 7: you had to get out there.

613
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 5: This is the tell all yes, all right, let's uh yeah,

614
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 5: let's let's let's get into it.

615
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:22,919
Speaker 2: How are you feeling?

616
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 3: Because I feel like this was much anticipated for you

617
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 3: after the way you went out, probably for you to

618
00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 3: kind of get back out there and share your story.

619
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Speaker 7: Yeah. I really wanted to add clarity in context. I

620
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 7: don't know if I succeeded in doing that, but yeah,

621
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 7: it was. It got a little uh hot heavy out there.

622
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 7: I feel like people were as soon as a word

623
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 7: got out of my mouth, everyone was chiming in jumping

624
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 7: on me. So you know, I'm someone pretty thick skin

625
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 7: I do. I was just trying to be honest about

626
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 7: whatever was going on. Whether they liked it or not,

627
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 7: that's you know, that was my decision and that's how

628
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 7: I was feeling. So so I was fun. I enjoyed it.

629
00:27:58,320 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 7: It was good to kind of see everyone and just

630
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 7: put it all out there and see how the guys

631
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 7: reacted and just you know, has some fun with it.

632
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 3: I want to say, I was surprised because I did

633
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 3: expect that you were going to own up to what

634
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 3: you said and say Devin and Samm or sam n sorry,

635
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 3: but I wasn't expecting you to throw Spencer into that mix?

636
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 2: What compel that decision?

637
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think in the moment, I was thinking definitely

638
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 7: about Devin and SAMN. That was pretty obvious, And as

639
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 7: I watched kind of the season a little bit, I

640
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 7: just felt Spencer, maybe, you know, having a similar experience

641
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,160
Speaker 7: with him through that one on one, maybe he wasn't

642
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 7: as ready as he had thought. So it really was

643
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 7: just an opportunity for him to have a platform, and

644
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 7: I was I just just having a conversation and just

645
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 7: seemed to get way out of hand from what I

646
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 7: was trying to get at. So it wasn't out of

647
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 7: like bad blood or anything like that. It was just

648
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 7: in observation Aaron's opinion that was it. You know, this

649
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 7: is not truth or gospel.

650
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 5: Yeah.

651
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like you're at these things, it's like

652
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: you're giving your opinion, but they're not really letting you talk,

653
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 1: and then there's like seven guys coming at you. So

654
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 1: it is you're you're kind of in a position.

655
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 5: That's my whole thought, you know, just like let me

656
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 5: talk and then you can respond.

657
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 7: But yeah, it was very especially from like certain people

658
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,959
Speaker 7: that you know, the whole season they didn't say much

659
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 7: at all, and then like at the tell all, it's

660
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 7: like here they are ready to talk about everything. So

661
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 7: it was it was an environment that it was difficult

662
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 7: to to explain things, but I tried my best.

663
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: Spencer mentioned implied, you may be looking for a ticket

664
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Speaker 1: to Paradise. Is that something you are interested in?

665
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,719
Speaker 5: I'm open to it. My life is pretty crazy right now.

666
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 7: I'm I'm focused on myself and like my career and

667
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 7: like everything I have up in front of me, but

668
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 7: my over the thing I want most in life is

669
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 7: to fall in love. So if an opportunity like Paradise

670
00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 7: came about and I was able to swing it, of

671
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 7: course I'd be there. I think it's something that you know.

672
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 7: I'm not like itching gotta go to Paradise, but if it,

673
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 7: if the invitation is extended, I would gladly accept and

674
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 7: as long as the schedule works, I'll be there.

675
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 11: Yeah.

676
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: I mean that's pretty much every guy that was on

677
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 1: that stage. So it's like that everybody wants. Everybody wants

678
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: to Yeah.

679
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think in Paradise. I think I think you

680
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:22,000
Speaker 2: would do well.

681
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 3: I think it would be more cohesive to your personality,

682
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 3: and I think you would have a good chance of

683
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 3: finding someone there.

684
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 7: I agree with you.

685
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 5: I think I'm someone.

686
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 7: You know, the the Bacheorette is such a it's such

687
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 7: a shotgun type of like you really got you don't

688
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 7: know who's going to come in and interrupt you. It's

689
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 7: so difficult to like I'm someone that I have a lot.

690
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 7: I feel like I have a lot of emotional intelligence.

691
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 7: I need that that connection with someone and to feel

692
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 7: like we're both in this thing. And I feel like

693
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 7: that was something that Jenna and I, you know, kind

694
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 7: of struggled with where I kind of poured myself out

695
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 7: in you know, the final after like the group date

696
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 7: rows or date right before I left, and I just

697
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 7: didn't She didn't really in turn, do the same thing.

698
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 7: So it's really difficult. So I think an environment like paradise,

699
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 7: where you have more time just to like banter and

700
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 7: really get to know each other and it's not so like,

701
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 7: you know, so quick, I would do well at So

702
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 7: we'll see.

703
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, you said, obviously the guys were kind of jumping

704
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 3: on you tonight. There was a lot of people talking.

705
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 3: Is there anything that you wish you got the chance

706
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 3: to say or explain further that you didn't.

707
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 7: I really think the book thing it was not. I

708
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:34,719
Speaker 7: would me and Devin from a like personality standpoint very different, right,

709
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 7: that's totally I don't need to explain that. But the

710
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 7: gesture of why I do what I do. I'm someone that,

711
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 7: for better or for worse, I genuinely care about people,

712
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 7: and in that moment, I genuinely cared about him because

713
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 7: he didn't realize how he comes off or even understood

714
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 7: how he makes other people feel. He's just like, this

715
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 7: is just who I am, and I don't care, and

716
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 7: so I want It was like a token of like, hey,

717
00:31:58,360 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 7: I don't want this to be just what Aaron said.

718
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,720
Speaker 7: I was the one being affected. I could have chosen

719
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 7: the path, you know, the Sam M. Thomas path of

720
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 7: like let's just fight it out, and you know, I don't.

721
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 7: You know, I knew that would was not productive. So

722
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 7: I wanted to just genuinely care about him, give him

723
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 7: a gift. You know. It wasn't like a hey, go

724
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 7: read this and figure life out. It was like, Hey,

725
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 7: I want you to succeed. If it's with Jen, I'm

726
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 7: rooting for you. If it's you know, this is a

727
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 7: TV show. At the end of the day if it's

728
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 7: with someone else, like, I want you to better yourself

729
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 7: and be the best version of yourself. So that was

730
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 7: the intent of it, and I feel like that was

731
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 7: missed and it was just all this, oh, Aaron thinks

732
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 7: he knows everything, miss her self help guru, and that's

733
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 7: well it was.

734
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: It was a book. It was a book that helped

735
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: you out, so you in turn wanted to give it

736
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: to him.

737
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 7: So yeah, it was a very transformative. I went through

738
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 7: like kind of a pretty life changing thing after my

739
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 7: divorce and just really had to come to terms with

740
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 7: who I was as a person, kind of rebuild, and

741
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 7: I was so closed off to life, so close off

742
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 7: to emotions, and that book in particular was one of

743
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 7: the first ones I read because it was short and

744
00:32:58,840 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 7: I'm not that smart.

745
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 5: And yeah I was.

746
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,479
Speaker 7: I was out in the middle of like a different country,

747
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 7: and I was just like really found a new sense

748
00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 7: of like who I was and understanding people. And the

749
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 7: biggest thing was empathy. How to put myself in someone

750
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 7: else's shoes, understand their perspective.

751
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 5: And that's really what I was trying to help Devan do.

752
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 5: In that moment, I almost called them, no.

753
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 3: Don't call him Dylan again, Aaron, But so then, you know,

754
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 3: putting yourself in Devin's shoes, do you think you can

755
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 3: understand why he reacted the way he did to receiving

756
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 3: the book.

757
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 7: I think he did realize it was sincere but he

758
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 7: also was kind of like didn't believe it. He thought

759
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 7: he didn't want to let me win, you know whatever

760
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 7: that is. So I think he initially was like pushing

761
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 7: back at it. So I get his opinion about that

762
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 7: and how I'm someone I have a growth mindset. If

763
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 7: someone wants to say something about me, I will always

764
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 7: try to understand where they're coming from. I might just

765
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 7: be like, hey, that's just your opinion. Frankly I disagree

766
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 7: and then we you know, that's it. But I'll always

767
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,200
Speaker 7: try to listen. And yeah, if someone ever wanted to

768
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 7: give me a book, I would.

769
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 5: Be all for it.

770
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 7: I will maybe read it or maybe it'll go on

771
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 7: my bookshelf. But you know, that's just we're different people.

772
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 7: So I understand that about him, and I can see

773
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 7: how he could say, hey, like thank you, but no

774
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 7: thank you whatever.

775
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:21,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, last question. We do see your twin brother

776
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 1: Noah in the stands tonight and Abby. He kind of

777
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 1: you know, and he kind of spoke his opinion and

778
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: he on his season was on the receiving hand of

779
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: the book, this book Shit's got end. How did you

780
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: feel hearing in talk?

781
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 7: I think I kind of knew what he was going

782
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 7: to say in a way, you know, I'm reading his

783
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 7: mind as a swin, But I think he said what

784
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 7: he needed to say. I think he towed both lines.

785
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,840
Speaker 7: He understood. When Noah received his book from Bennett, he

786
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 7: was like twenty five, and honestly or even younger, he

787
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 7: was very immature, and I think he deserved that. I

788
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 7: think now he's gotten a little bit older, he's had

789
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 7: to figure out some things with life. I mean, he's

790
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 7: about to get married in October, which hope they'll see

791
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 7: both there. I think he understood the sentiment. You know,

792
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 7: it wasn't a dig, It wasn't that let me put

793
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 7: someone down kind of moment. So I think he was

794
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,280
Speaker 7: trying to bridge both sides. I mean, I think ultimately

795
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 7: he was like, why did you do that? Like you

796
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 7: shouldn't have done that. That's just his personality. But we're

797
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 7: very different people. So I think he was trying to

798
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 7: bridge the gap of like, I see both ways.

799
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, I think that's how it got us.

800
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:31,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree.

801
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:32,399
Speaker 7: Yeah.

802
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 5: Cool.

803
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: All right, Well, looking forward to meeting you in person,

804
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: and thanks so much for coming on the podcast.

805
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:40,479
Speaker 7: Yeah, great to see you both.

806
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 5: Well, all right, I.

807
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: All right, Jen, Jen is our next guess, Jen. Well,

808
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: what's up? How you doing?

809
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 11: I'm good? How are you doing?

810
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: We're good, We're good. So tonight you just said you

811
00:35:56,440 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: chose the islands and came out, but it's his call

812
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: it you came out swigged.

813
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 5: Uh.

814
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 1: First, well, first let's talk about sam M because you

815
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 1: definitely let him have it. It did seem like that

816
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: was something that was kind of weighing on you, and

817
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: I'm assuming after watching it all back, you're like, all right,

818
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 1: well you my peace.

819
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 3: Of mind, and if I'm gonna be honest, your tone

820
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 3: is the tone that I was anticipating from everyone tonight

821
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 3: regarding sam M, and I was surprised by it was

822
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 3: a lot more grace given than I was just expecting,

823
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 3: not saying like he should or shouldn't have gotten it.

824
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 3: And then you know, it's getting kind of koombai eye you.

825
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 3: Everyone's getting a little tired, and then you came out

826
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 3: and it was like you were like, I'm here.

827
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,479
Speaker 1: To play guys, don't forget this is my show.

828
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 3: Sit down, shut up, and listen. I'm the pachelorette and

829
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 3: I have some stuff to say.

830
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 11: Listen. It's been weighing on me.

831
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 12: I mean, watching things back, you get such a fuller

832
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 12: perspective of everything that's going on. I didn't see the

833
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 12: way he was interacting with the guys, and also watching

834
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 12: our interactions together, You're being able to pinpoint exactly why

835
00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 12: something wasn't right. That was really really insightful for me,

836
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 12: and so I think I doubted myself kind of a

837
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 12: little bit throughout the journey with him, but then finally

838
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 12: being able to have an endpoint conclusion as to what

839
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 12: was that went wrong.

840
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 11: I was excited to tell him about that.

841
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 12: And also, you know, I think that the biggest takeaway

842
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 12: I want him to take is to take a step

843
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 12: back and learn from this, like this isn't something that

844
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,879
Speaker 12: you can just push to the side, because I truly

845
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 12: do want the boss for him.

846
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think you've answered a lot of people's

847
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 3: questions tonight, because I'm sure viewers are going to be

848
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 3: watching and listening to this podcast having seen what his

849
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 3: family and have been putting out about. So they've been

850
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 3: basically saying that the show is not reflecting who Sam

851
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 3: is and what actually happened. So I think it's great

852
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 3: that you came out and addressed that because obviously you

853
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 3: were there, so you are kind of one of the

854
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 3: few people that can speak to how it actually was.

855
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 11: Absolutely, I lived it and and that's exactly guys.

856
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 12: I was so disappointed to seeing him blame things on

857
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 12: an edit when I was like, no, no, no, I

858
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 12: lived every single moment with you there, and that's exactly

859
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 12: how our conversations play up. That's exactly how you feel

860
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 12: in that moment. And so yeah, I wasn't gonna let

861
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 12: him have the last word on that.

862
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 5: Absolutely.

863
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: What how about seeing some of the other guys like Jonathan.

864
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 5: Great it was.

865
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 12: It was so good to see a lot of the guys,

866
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 12: especially Jonathan, and he had such a a heart felt goodbye.

867
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 12: But he's such such a genuinely great guy, and so

868
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 12: it was good to be able to see him again

869
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 12: and kind of cultivate that friendshipping.

870
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 11: At the end of the day. We've been through this

871
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 11: burny together and he's such a wonderful person and I'm

872
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 11: so excited to see him thrive in paradise.

873
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 3: I know that's gonna be really great. What were you

874
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 3: most nervous for tonight? And then what were you most

875
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,320
Speaker 3: excited about most nervous?

876
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:53,719
Speaker 11: I don't know if I was necessarily super nervous about anything.

877
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 12: You know, these guys, I've been through a whole duram

878
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 12: with them, so I knew what to expect with them,

879
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 12: and I was like to see them. I was probably

880
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 12: most excited to just see them all again. This journey

881
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,919
Speaker 12: to me holds such a special place in my heart.

882
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 12: It's such a unique experience one sense well to experience.

883
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 12: It was such a great critic guys. You know, it's

884
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 12: it's nice to I'm all back together.

885
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 11: It's like a sorority.

886
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: Hello, are you glad it's over?

887
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:27,360
Speaker 11: You know there's ups and downs, and I think I

888
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 11: don't know.

889
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 12: I don't know if it's I'm glad it's over. I

890
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 12: wouldn't say that, I would say I'm I'm happy it happened.

891
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: Do you have any I don't want to say, I

892
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 1: don't want to say regrets, but because most people always

893
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: say the answer like, I don't have any regrets. But

894
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,879
Speaker 1: is there anything that that you did that you kind

895
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:47,720
Speaker 1: of look back around like, oh, I wish I changed

896
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 1: this or anything that you would switch out.

897
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 12: I mean, I learned so much and I've grown so

898
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 12: much since the beginning of the journey that yeah, I

899
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 12: mean there are times where I definitely felt like I

900
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 12: should have stood up for myself a little bit more.

901
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 12: For example, I'm sky Tower. I wish that the conversation

902
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 12: between Sam and I really I wish I had put

903
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 12: my foot down more.

904
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:09,399
Speaker 1: And then like, no, I hated that Skytower. I hate

905
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: it watching it. That gave me so much anxiety of

906
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 1: just being on top of that building.

907
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 11: I hate that.

908
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

909
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, not only are you like on the tallest.

910
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: Built like heights I don't.

911
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 3: Like, but like you're in an argument, like you're you're

912
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 3: feeling like so isolated and alone and all this tension

913
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 3: and you're like I'm gonna fall off this building.

914
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 11: Absolutely.

915
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

916
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 12: So in that moment, I wish I had just stood

917
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 12: up for myself a little bit more. And then like, no,

918
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 12: you need to act right, Like this is not okay

919
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 12: for you.

920
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 6: The act right.

921
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 11: You know, you grow and you learn and and and

922
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 11: that's okay. At least I'm learning from it.

923
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: Last thing? Do you want to ask? Because you went

924
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: pretty far in your season and he just got announced

925
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, how do you feel about Grant?

926
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,479
Speaker 11: I'm so excited for him, truly.

927
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,240
Speaker 12: I think he is the perfect picked No one deserves

928
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 12: it more like he from the beginning opened his heart

929
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,879
Speaker 12: up so quickly till the journey that I think things

930
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 12: introduced so well on his own journaling well, because as

931
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 12: a lead, that's so important to be able to be open.

932
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,400
Speaker 12: And he's so sincere and so genuine and all so

933
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 12: hard and he's just overall like so kind hearted and

934
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:12,839
Speaker 12: such a great guy.

935
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 11: And so I'm truly rooting for him, and I'm so

936
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:16,640
Speaker 11: excited to watch.

937
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:18,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he's I think he's gonna be great.

938
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 1: I think I think Sam n would have been the

939
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 1: right choice. If you Joe loves Sam, you wanted real TV,

940
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:28,760
Speaker 1: you you choose the love virgin.

941
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 2: He's not ave anymore.

942
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: Jonathan, Welcome to the podcast. I'm just gonna throw it

943
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,359
Speaker 1: out there right away. You go by, Jonathan. Everyone's calling

944
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 1: Jonathan to go home in your whole family is honey, John,

945
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 1: what's up?

946
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 5: Yeah?

947
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: It was?

948
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 6: I guess when you're saying it a lot more frequently

949
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 6: it's easier. But I go by Jonathan when I was

950
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,360
Speaker 6: at when I was in high school. I work in

951
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 6: a restaurant and I have these group of older women

952
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 6: come up to me and they're like, oh, like, what's

953
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 6: your name, Like you're so cute, and I was like, oh,

954
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 6: thank you, it's john and then they're like short for anything.

955
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 6: I was like, yeah, it's short, but Jonathan, and they go, yeah,

956
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 6: you need to go by that for the rest of

957
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 6: your life.

958
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:16,399
Speaker 5: That is a much sexier name. And from that point on, yep,

959
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 5: I'm locked in on Jonathan.

960
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 1: Now, wow, that's a great story. That's a way better

961
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: story than I expected. How old are you?

962
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 5: Thank you? How old was I?

963
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 4: Yeah?

964
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 5: Eighteen?

965
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: Wow, that's solid salam And you.

966
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 2: Know what, I bet you those women watch The Bachelor

967
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: and they're like, he did it, He's still Jonathan.

968
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 5: If they remember that, they would probably freak out.

969
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, I'm Joe, but like my family calls

970
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 1: me Joey, but I would never introduce myself Joey.

971
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 2: Or Joseph or Joe Joseph would be your full name.

972
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm never no one.

973
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 3: Well, Joseph and Jonathan are giving different energy, really, Jonathan, Jonathan, Okay,

974
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 3: let's talk about it anyway.

975
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 5: Let's have a Yeah, I have to say, I mean,

976
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 5: we can go on depth about whatever we want.

977
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 3: We'll get into it another time, but I have to say,

978
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 3: you ranked Jen's top three looks tonight so impressed.

979
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 2: Couldn't agree more, couldn't agree more? You nailed it?

980
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 5: Do you guys remember these outfits I'm talking about too?

981
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 3: Yep, the purple retro fit, sparkly dress and then the

982
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 3: little mini white one with the silver fringe.

983
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 5: Yep.

984
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: All right, so tonight there was a lot of a

985
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: lot of man drama, as we expected. It's the then Pella.

986
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 1: I guess what were were? I mean, the biggest thing

987
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: is probably Aaron and Samon. I feel like most of

988
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: the guys were going at them. What are your takes on?

989
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:41,280
Speaker 1: Let's go Aaron first and then some Salmon.

990
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 6: Honestly, my answer is going to be pretty similar for

991
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 6: both of them. You know, I think a lot of

992
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 6: people land in this like world of not knowing how

993
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 6: to explain their feelings in the correct way, and they

994
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 6: keep talking about opinions. This is my opinion, This is

995
00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 6: that opinion, and people are getting offended by it, and

996
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 6: it's like it's an opinion. Everybody's out one. Some of

997
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 6: them suck, Like get over it. Yeah, So for them,

998
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 6: you know that they had some opinions and some of

999
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 6: them sucked, and you just got to sit there and

1000
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 6: just live in that world. But as far as what

1001
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 6: they tried to say to make up for it, you know,

1002
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 6: watching Sam sit up there and just speak his truth

1003
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 6: and actually be able to like articulate his feelings for once,

1004
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 6: it was incredible to see. So we just watched this

1005
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 6: man malfunction pretty much on and then on a one

1006
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 6: on one, not knowing what to say or finding the

1007
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,760
Speaker 6: right words. The fact that he came out there spoke

1008
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,839
Speaker 6: so well, was able to explain himself in that way.

1009
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 6: You know, he was trying, you know, and I'll never

1010
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 6: fall to try, and he did incredible of that, So

1011
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 6: I agree.

1012
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: And then and then Jen came out and fucking.

1013
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,760
Speaker 5: I was like, let letter going in on everybody.

1014
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I she was prep she was ready to go out.

1015
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 5: Oh my god, way back of my faces. I'm just

1016
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 5: like the whole time, there was a lot.

1017
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:13,160
Speaker 3: Of shocking things. It was a good one, I feel like,

1018
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 3: you know, there was a lot of droping tonight. But

1019
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 3: the main event for you was, you know, revealing to

1020
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,760
Speaker 3: the audience that you got sent home after Fantasy Suites.

1021
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 3: How was that just finally having that information out there.

1022
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,720
Speaker 3: I'm sure it is a little bit of a relief.

1023
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:32,800
Speaker 3: But watching it back, what were those those emotions.

1024
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:37,800
Speaker 5: Really tough? Honestly, you know, I think the biggest takeaway

1025
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 5: was when I was sitting in.

1026
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 6: The car, I was like, you know, I'm tired of

1027
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 6: being my own biggest enemy, standing my own way and

1028
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 6: made a mistake again, you know, by not letting.

1029
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 5: Myself fully feel for the person that was in front

1030
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 5: of me. So watching the back was tough.

1031
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 6: You know, those emotions were super real, and I think

1032
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 6: I've watched it now three times since it's plaid.

1033
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,400
Speaker 5: Every time, I like get choked up a little bit.

1034
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, standing in my own way and not allowing myself

1035
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 6: to validate my own feelings, feel how I want to feel.

1036
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 5: Like if I love somebody, need to let them know.

1037
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 5: I need to let myself know and just go for it.

1038
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 6: So that was the biggest takeaway, And honestly, it was

1039
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 6: just I don't know, I loved every moment of it,

1040
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 6: but it was definitely definitely an emotional Yeah.

1041
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 1: So after watching that and kind of like, I don't

1042
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 1: know pinpointing what your issues are going into you you

1043
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 1: get a ticket to Paradise. You're the first one. How

1044
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,360
Speaker 1: are you gonna approach Paradise?

1045
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I think for the biggest part of

1046
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 6: it for me, and I don't know how the show

1047
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 6: I want to see. Before I went on the Bachelrette,

1048
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,320
Speaker 6: I only watched Joey's season. I'd never seen The Bachelor Bacheorette,

1049
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 6: so I've never seen Paradise either, So I don't really

1050
00:46:58,440 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 6: have much of a strategy going into it.

1051
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 1: But I will say it's just like it's basically like

1052
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: if you went to a pool party in Mexico with

1053
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 1: like six of your friends and then a few other

1054
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: guys that you don't really know but you know of,

1055
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 1: and then there's a there's a like seven or eight

1056
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 1: girls that you've.

1057
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 2: Heard of, and everyone's good looking and singing, And.

1058
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 13: Everyone's good looking and singing, there's also okay, Yeah, I

1059
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 13: think the biggest thing that I would do is take

1060
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 13: away what I just took away from this last season's

1061
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 13: beast rat and I feel something, feel it, you know,

1062
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 13: let us run with it.

1063
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 6: If I like somebody, I can let them know, hey,

1064
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 6: I think we have something here, or if I if

1065
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 6: I have loved with somebody honestly, like I'm I'm not

1066
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 6: afraid to say it, and I'd rather just let you

1067
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 6: know now. I'd rather shoot big and win big then

1068
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 6: not shoot at all and see you appen. So my

1069
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 6: only strategy is holding myself accountable to those feelings.

1070
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 14: Can I give you some advice as a as a love,

1071
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,759
Speaker 14: it moves quick, quicker than quicker than you think.

1072
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: So if you do feel something, lean into it and

1073
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 1: lean into it right away. Don't sit back because things

1074
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: happen faster than you realize.

1075
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 2: I've never heard you give that advice before I get

1076
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 2: to ask you.

1077
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 1: It's good advice, don't you think? Yeah?

1078
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 2: It is the advice.

1079
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:27,879
Speaker 5: Do I get to ask a question too, Yeah?

1080
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, go for it.

1081
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 6: If I feel it with somebody quickly, should I just

1082
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 6: run with that since we're working with limited time, or

1083
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 6: do I still kind of weigh out the other options?

1084
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 1: That's exactly you just answered. You just answered you run

1085
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,800
Speaker 1: with what you feel because all the people that go

1086
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 1: to paradise and like, oh but no, I'm gonna weigh

1087
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: my options are gonna sit around, they're going to weigh

1088
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 1: their options, they're going to fuck it up, nothing's going

1089
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: to happen, and they usually let a good thing go

1090
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 1: to way.

1091
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 3: I mean, look, there's a window of time in the

1092
00:48:56,840 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 3: beginning where it's appropriate to explore. Even if feeling it

1093
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,479
Speaker 3: with someone, they're probably exploring. But I think the best

1094
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 3: thing is to know when to shut the door and

1095
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:07,839
Speaker 3: know you have a good thing and be like, I'm

1096
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 3: putting all my eggs in this basket and if it

1097
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 3: doesn't work, it's okay, but at least I.

1098
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 2: Know I really went for something real. Yeah, so that's

1099
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 2: our advice. But I have one more question for you.

1100
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 3: I feel like watching your exit interview in the car,

1101
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,399
Speaker 3: you were very vulnerable and you really talked about kind

1102
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 3: of what you feel like you should have done differently,

1103
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 3: And I think that's amazing. I think there's so much

1104
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 3: to be learned about ourselves going on a show like this.

1105
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 3: But I will say I feel like you were hard

1106
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 3: on yourself, and do you feel like watching it back

1107
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Speaker 3: you have more clarity because I feel like you and

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Speaker 3: crust me if I'm wrong. I'm not trying to put

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Speaker 3: words your helt, but I feel like you took a

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Speaker 3: lot of the blame for the relationship not working out.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like watching it back, there was a

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Speaker 3: sense of clarity of maybe where her other relationships.

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Speaker 6: Were at one hundred percent. I've actually been saying that

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Speaker 6: to today. Is people asked about closure. Watching the Final

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00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 6: three me a lot of closure on.

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Speaker 5: What we had.

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Speaker 6: You know, she has pronounced her love that she has

1118
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Speaker 6: for Marcus. She's in love with Marcus, and Devin is

1119
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Speaker 6: in love with her, you know, and we're sitting in

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Speaker 6: this beautiful middle route where we get along. Everything's great

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Speaker 6: and it feels so amazing to spend time together, but

1122
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Speaker 6: it's like expact, it's something that's not clicking.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 6: That's the movie has passed friendly love and we have

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Speaker 6: so much fun to this is my forever, you know.

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Speaker 6: We just never got to that point. So that hardness

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00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 6: I had on myself. I didn't know the depth of

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Speaker 6: what she was beating to with these other two guys,

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Speaker 6: you know, So seeing that she was able to get

1130
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Speaker 6: there and get there quicker with them, I'm like, you

1131
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Speaker 6: know what, it wasn't anything outside of what we could

1132
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Speaker 6: have done.

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Speaker 11: It was just it wasn't there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a good question. And honestly, I

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Speaker 1: hate when people are too high on themselves for like,

1136
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: especially at the end, because there's so many different factors

1137
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: and it's like whatever, and you'll figure it out, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, like you're gonna like, like Jonathan, You're going

1139
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: to be fine, Like you're gonna go on paradise, You're

1140
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Speaker 1: gonna do really well and you're gonna end up getting

1141
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 1: engaged and you're happily. Ever, Jod just manifested, I actually,

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Speaker 1: I actually think I think it's gonna work out for you.

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Speaker 1: R I have I have sincere hope.

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Speaker 5: I hope, So I hope.

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Speaker 6: I'm sitting here across Tom you guys with somebody next

1146
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 6: to me that you guys are like, yeah, we knew it, it.

1147
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 1: Works, or you're gonna completely funk it up, but either way,

1148
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Speaker 1: and then.

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00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 6: I'm sitting here and I'm like, dude, advice, broyow me

1150
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 6: back either way.

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Speaker 1: Jonathan, thank you so much for taking the time. We

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00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:48,879
Speaker 1: really appreciate it, and this won't be the last time

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Speaker 1: we'll be seeing you, so good luck with everything.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Jonathan.

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Speaker 1: All right, everyone, thank you for tuning in to Thatchler

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Speaker 1: you stay tuned. We have more episodes yeah.

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Speaker 3: Next up GENS season finale, so be sure to tune

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Speaker 9: Bye,