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Speaker 1: our listeners named Brian on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: date update today, and I'm actually really interested to talk
Speaker 1: to him. Okay, because in his email, Brian says he
Speaker 1: actually met his date the old fashioned way. That's nice,
Speaker 1: I know. So, Brian, you clubbed her and dragged her
Speaker 1: back to your cave for a marriage. Super old fashioned.
Speaker 1: I like it. Ollo didn't quite happen like that. Oh good,
Speaker 1: she clubbed you? Yeah, right, exactly. Okay, I guess before
Speaker 1: we find out exactly how you met, tell us what's
Speaker 1: her name? Jordan? Jordan? And Jordan was not wearing a
Speaker 1: loin cloth. No, no, there was no wine cloths involved
Speaker 1: at all. Okay, I'm losing interest, man, Yeah, so how
Speaker 1: did you meet Jordan? Well? The old fashioned way was
Speaker 1: that my mom intrude discuss because she works with her.
Speaker 1: Oh and then your mom offered her four cows. Dude,
Speaker 1: that's risky. So wait, your mom works with her, and
Speaker 1: your mom's like, you need to date my son, and
Speaker 1: she actually agreed. Well, she had mentioned her for a while,
Speaker 1: but you know, she was dating someone else and then
Speaker 1: recently she had broken up with her white friend, and
Speaker 1: my mom kind of swooped in and suggested that I
Speaker 1: called her, and she said okay, and then then we
Speaker 1: kind of hit it off over the phone. Do you
Speaker 1: normally meet girls through your mom or is this the first?
Speaker 1: This is the first, But I mean, Jordan's really beautiful
Speaker 1: and they were all worked out great, Like I was
Speaker 1: really excited. Are you shocked more by how great Jordan
Speaker 1: is or that your mom actually has good taste? Well?
Speaker 1: I think initially I was shocked, but like, now that's
Speaker 1: the way it turned out, I'm kind of questioning my
Speaker 1: mom's taste. So okay, she's not calling me back, right right? Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's that. This is your fault, totally mom's fault. So
Speaker 1: what'd you guys do for your date? So they're nice
Speaker 1: to telling your restaurant wanted to impress her and she
Speaker 1: seemed like a genuinely goodhearted person. I don't know, what
Speaker 1: to say, and she had really amazing smile, and I'm
Speaker 1: just kind of like falling in love with this skull, Like, whoa,
Speaker 1: that's a line to drop there. I know. She was
Speaker 1: just so perfect. It's like an episode of the Bachelor. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it really was. It really was, you know, even to
Speaker 1: the point where we were sharing dessert and she says, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm having so much fun. Can we stand longer? Well
Speaker 1: she said that, yeah, I'm like, oh wow, okay, so
Speaker 1: we did that, and then you know, I paid for
Speaker 1: dinner and I offered to drive her home and we
Speaker 1: get to her place. I'm thinking, okay, I'm least getting
Speaker 1: a kiss, right, And as I walked her to the door, like,
Speaker 1: I see there's a guy standing there? Wait where standing
Speaker 1: where standing by the door? And she says, under a broach.
Speaker 1: She's like, oh no, that's my axe right right, And
Speaker 1: I was like, all right. He wasn't confrontational though, he
Speaker 1: was nice and kind of apologized for intruding. And oh
Speaker 1: it's an old fashioned three way. Now, why was her
Speaker 1: ex there? Did you ask? Well? He says, I need
Speaker 1: to speak to you for a second. And he said, oh,
Speaker 1: I'll go wait in the car, and I know, after that,
Speaker 1: she was just totally different. She had just like look
Speaker 1: of concern on her face. I would say, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like, well, I understand relationships a complicated, you know,
Speaker 1: I understand breakups can be weird, and I just wanted
Speaker 1: to give her her space to kind of take care
Speaker 1: of that. And did she mention on the date her
Speaker 1: X at all. She says she got out of relationship recently,
Speaker 1: So okay, we talked about it a little bit, and
Speaker 1: I knew it was still kind of fresh, but she
Speaker 1: seemed why she was, you know, ready to start dating
Speaker 1: again and kind of had moved on. And I'm taking
Speaker 1: it you did not get the kiss at the door
Speaker 1: like you thought. I mean, no, I didn't get the
Speaker 1: kiss of the door. And we just said our goodbyes.
Speaker 1: And as I was leaving, I see like he's getting
Speaker 1: out of his car in my rear view mirror and
Speaker 1: he's walking up to the house. So after that, I
Speaker 1: texted her, and Chilly texted me back one time and
Speaker 1: she said, I'm sorry it's not going to work. Thanks
Speaker 1: for a wonderful dinner, and then she said I will
Speaker 1: never forget it. Oh man. So that's kind of open
Speaker 1: clothes though, right, So don't you. I mean, like that
Speaker 1: means she's for sure back with him, right, that's what
Speaker 1: everyone's thinking. I'm assuming. But wait, your mom set you
Speaker 1: up and she works with her. Has your mom not
Speaker 1: gotten the scoop for you? I you know, I asked her,
Speaker 1: but she said she feels a little walkward about it,
Speaker 1: and yeah, you know, she mentioned it to Jordan, and
Speaker 1: Jordan's she was like kind of like brushed her off.
Speaker 1: So I'm not really sure what happened. So what are
Speaker 1: you hoping to get out of this phone call right now?
Speaker 1: Are you looking to get a second day or are
Speaker 1: you just looking to find a reason and figure out
Speaker 1: what happened? Well, I mean if they got back together,
Speaker 1: I need you guys to break it up. Okay? Is
Speaker 1: that a joker? Is that not a joke? No? No,
Speaker 1: it'd be great if you could. Okay, that's probity one.
Speaker 1: He's the real deal. I need to see her again.
Speaker 1: So all right, Oh my god, I'm up for this.
Speaker 1: You're up for breaking up a relationship for this guy? Listener, Brian, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm willing to go do whatever it takes. So we're
Speaker 1: going to play a song right now. Brian We're gonna
Speaker 1: do some research, dig up some dirt on whoever this
Speaker 1: guy is, and then we'll come back and call Jordan
Speaker 1: for you and get your second date update. Okay, there
Speaker 1: is no fallback. You must break them up, all right. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: let the social media stocking begin. We got a couple
Speaker 1: of minutes here, let's end. We're gonna end a relationship
Speaker 1: right after this. I know you're kidding, but I really
Speaker 1: hope you do second update. Brian. I've been thinking more
Speaker 1: about it, and I've decided I'm going to do something
Speaker 1: for you that I've never done before. What's that We've
Speaker 1: done hundreds of second date updates and you're the only
Speaker 1: person I'm going to hang up on right now. So
Speaker 1: thank you, goodbye. No, No, why, I just I don't
Speaker 1: think you have a very good chance. Honestly, I actually
Speaker 1: agree with you. Know what, if we try and get
Speaker 1: second date and we fail, it's going to make our
Speaker 1: show look bad and I don't want to do that
Speaker 1: to us. So Brian, I'm sorry. Maybe call us back
Speaker 1: when you have better odds. No, you don't understand, Like
Speaker 1: I can't stop thinking about her, right yeah, yeah, I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't even imagine my life without her. WHOA Okay, buddy,
Speaker 1: I mean see, this is what Sorry, there's something about
Speaker 1: this that bothers me, Brian, and this is what it is.
Speaker 1: I finally realize when you said that, it's that you're
Speaker 1: the dude that always wants what he can't have. And
Speaker 1: you know what, fast forward six months from now, You're
Speaker 1: suddenly gonna be bored in a relationship with Jordans. No
Speaker 1: I'm not. Yeah, sure, no, dude, Ladies know what I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. Okay, if she didn't have a boyfriend, would
Speaker 1: you be saying things like that, I wouldn't even be
Speaker 1: talking to you right now because they'd be with it
Speaker 1: right now, and I wouldn't you to Second Date update
Speaker 1: se I don't know, or I would be talking to
Speaker 1: you at our wedding. Yeah. See, I believe that's the
Speaker 1: stuff that I'm talking about. I believe in love and
Speaker 1: I think this is your one shot, bro. I have
Speaker 1: your back. Thank you. Well. In case you're just tuning in,
Speaker 1: we're in the middle of a second Date update and
Speaker 1: Brian desperately wants another chance at love. I'm saying the
Speaker 1: L word because Brian said he was falling in love
Speaker 1: on his first date, like a crazy person would say,
Speaker 1: but we like crazy people and so yeah. Anyway, at
Speaker 1: the end of Brian's date, he got a very rude
Speaker 1: surprise when the girl's ex was waiting at the door
Speaker 1: to talk to her, and afterwards she sent Brian at
Speaker 1: Tech saying basically, you know, I had a great time,
Speaker 1: but you're out. Yeah. So we don't know if she's
Speaker 1: actually back with her X or not, but if she is,
Speaker 1: she's not going to be for long because we're going
Speaker 1: to break them up, right, That is our goal today,
Speaker 1: break people up, especially if they've been in love for
Speaker 1: a long time. It's fine, they're already in a cycle.
Speaker 1: I mean, they broke up once, they'll probably do it again.
Speaker 1: That's usually how that cycle works. All right, Brian, are
Speaker 1: you ready to make Jordan possibly cry because the beans
Speaker 1: that she'll get back together with me? Then yeah, let's
Speaker 1: make her Fry's spirit. Okay, we're gonna doubt her number
Speaker 1: right now here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Jordan please? This is Jordan. Hi Jordan, Hi, Hi, Hello,
Speaker 1: who's death? Oh? My name's young Jeffrey. Doesn't who you are?
Speaker 1: That's right, that's how phone calls work. You can't see me, Canyon.
Speaker 1: My name's young Jeffrey. I work on the radio. Okay,
Speaker 1: what's up? Well, not too much. We're calling you because
Speaker 1: we're doing something called a second Date Update. Do you
Speaker 1: know what that is? Uh maybe I'm not sure. Well,
Speaker 1: to jog your memory in case you might know. It's
Speaker 1: a segment that we do where someone who's getting blown
Speaker 1: off emails us and they ask us to call the
Speaker 1: person they recently went on a date with to find
Speaker 1: out why they're not getting in contact with them anymore. Oh,
Speaker 1: so you recently went up with a guy named Brian. Yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: and it sounds like you had a great time with Brian. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I guess you know, we went on Oh
Speaker 1: my god, that's the worst response you could have to that. Well,
Speaker 1: Brian told us a little bit about what happened, and
Speaker 1: he said that your ex was there at the end
Speaker 1: of the night. Yeah, and then after he had a
Speaker 1: run in with your ex, you texted him that it's
Speaker 1: basically over. Well, I mean it's been really hard, Like
Speaker 1: Brian's a really nice guy. Yeah, I mean I didn't
Speaker 1: want to hurt him or anything, you know, just things
Speaker 1: happen in life, so and it was just it was
Speaker 1: just one date. I mean, yeah, I don't know, Like
Speaker 1: I have so much history with my ex. We've been
Speaker 1: dating since high school. Oh girl, you're in that cycle.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean like he's been at my parents house,
Speaker 1: like every holiday, birthdays, my parents' anniversaries. Like we've just
Speaker 1: a lot together, like we've experienced everything, you know, and
Speaker 1: I just I really love him. So Okay, wait though,
Speaker 1: can I just ask you, yeah, because it sounds like
Speaker 1: you're with your ex, I guess now your current boyfriend
Speaker 1: simply because of history. And I'm gonna tell you that
Speaker 1: is not a long lasting reason to be with somebody.
Speaker 1: Well it's more than that. I mean, it's more than
Speaker 1: just history. Like we had a rocky like patch because
Speaker 1: he broke up with me. Like there was this bartender
Speaker 1: girl he met one night and he's out with his friends,
Speaker 1: and like I was upset about it, and I was like,
Speaker 1: what are you doing leaving me for a trip like that?
Speaker 1: You know, like it's like a dirty bartender's been with
Speaker 1: like over hundred guys or whatever. But he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's time for me to try something new and spread
Speaker 1: my wings. And so at first, I was suppressed and
Speaker 1: I'm angry, and then I wasn't gonna let this happen.
Speaker 1: So just like this date came up and I was like,
Speaker 1: you have to play dirty, like what's left? Oh wait?
Speaker 1: So wait, wait, you use Brian to make your ex jealous.
Speaker 1: Don't judge me to you hear the whole story. Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm not judging you. I've definitely done the same thing.
Speaker 1: I'm We're fine. Yeah, So what happened so earlier that
Speaker 1: we that we went out, Like I planned for my
Speaker 1: ex night exchange things at my house. So I scheduled
Speaker 1: my date with Brian the same evening because I was like, well,
Speaker 1: I'll get my bang from my back, you know, and
Speaker 1: it'll make my ex jealous. So I knew he'd be
Speaker 1: there when we got back from dinner. And honestly, everything
Speaker 1: did go perfectly. Like my ex SAMMI was another guy
Speaker 1: having fun. He got jealous. Like when I got out
Speaker 1: of the car, like you know, I did an extra
Speaker 1: loud laugh. Wow, it's solid. It was fine, like whenever
Speaker 1: we had a nice time. I snuggled up next to
Speaker 1: Brian's vine while we walked, like you know, I even
Speaker 1: acted surprising a turn in front of Brian, like, I
Speaker 1: really tried to sell it. Well, how do you think
Speaker 1: that Brian feels being used like this? Honestly, if he
Speaker 1: feels bad, he should just get over it. It was
Speaker 1: just one day. Well, I don't know if he can,
Speaker 1: especially now that he knows that you set the whole
Speaker 1: thing up just to get back with your ex. Well,
Speaker 1: he's not gonna know if you don't tell him. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't have to tell him because you already told him.
Speaker 1: I don't get it. We didn't tell you this, but
Speaker 1: Brian has actually been on the phone and has been
Speaker 1: listening this whole time. What. Yeah, sorry, you guys tricked me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: in your work. We're also not in a healthy relationship,
Speaker 1: sert Brian, How could you do this? I really liked you? Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't even know. Like he shouldn't have heard everything.
Speaker 1: He shouldn't have heard everything. Well, he did hear it,
Speaker 1: and you need to talk with him about it right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So when did you even come up with this plan
Speaker 1: using me? I mean, I was just looking for somebody
Speaker 1: to make my ex jealous, like your mom showed me
Speaker 1: your picture. I don't know. I was just like, okay,
Speaker 1: he'll do Oh, no, he'll do. I mean, Brian, you
Speaker 1: could take that as a compliment, like you're hot enough
Speaker 1: to make her ex jealous, which means I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: being for real. I'm being for real, which means that
Speaker 1: you're a step up because nobody's gonna go out with
Speaker 1: a fuggly person. That's true after an X. That doesn't
Speaker 1: look like a good rebound. Jordan, why don't you just
Speaker 1: tell me now? What else did you lie about? I
Speaker 1: want to know. I lied about wanting dessert on the gate.
Speaker 1: I need to stay with you at the restaurant longer.
Speaker 1: I thought we had a moment, There was a lot.
Speaker 1: I was just trying to time it well, which you
Speaker 1: never felt anything at all towards me. I honestly don't
Speaker 1: know how I'm gonna trust anyone ever again after this.
Speaker 1: Oh no, not being dramatic. It was one date. We
Speaker 1: didn't even kiss. You're overreacted. I am so with Jordan
Speaker 1: on this one, Brian, with her. You're supposed to be
Speaker 1: helping me right now, Man, what is going on here?
Speaker 1: You're never gonna trust anyone again after your first date
Speaker 1: lied to you. I mean, it's kind of like news flash.
Speaker 1: Everybody lies on a first date at some in some
Speaker 1: way times you click. I know Brooke is never honest
Speaker 1: with her husband, and that's how she got married. It's
Speaker 1: just like it's the key to a successful relationship. Zero truth.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it didn't work out, Brian. You were
Speaker 1: dropping a lot of big words after barely knowing someone
Speaker 1: and obviously not knowing anything about them. It doesn't change
Speaker 1: how I I mean, I feel like I was duped,
Speaker 1: like this wasn't it just isn't right. That's fair, that's fair.
Speaker 1: I'm giving you. That's fair. Yeah, you get a really
Speaker 1: good thing. Like I have to thank you because without you,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have gotten back together with my ass that.
Speaker 1: It's really nice of you. He's a matchmaker, you're such
Speaker 1: a whoa. All right, and I think I think that
Speaker 1: is the right time to ask if you guys would
Speaker 1: like to go on a second date. We will pay
Speaker 1: for it if you guys go out. Yeah, guys, I
Speaker 1: ever need you. Okay if that call, Oh man, I'm
Speaker 1: sure cheat on you soon anyway. Oh, just get over it.
Speaker 1: Get over it, Brian. He's probably cheating on you right
Speaker 1: now while you're on this call. All right, Well, okay, okay, well,
Speaker 1: so no second date for you, Brian. But you know what,
Speaker 1: I feel really bad for you. Yeah, you shouldn't have
Speaker 1: been put through this situation. And I'm sure that one
Speaker 1: of our listeners would love to lie to you too
Speaker 1: to get back with their X. So text seen seven
Speaker 1: to eight five nine two. Man, would you like to
Speaker 1: go out with Brian and get back together with your X.
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. I hear your good arm, Candy Brian.
Speaker 1: I hope you guys so much. Sweet