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<v Speaker 1>our listeners named Brian on the phone for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update today, and I'm actually really interested to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Okay, because in his email, Brian says he

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<v Speaker 1>actually met his date the old fashioned way. That's nice,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. So, Brian, you clubbed her and dragged her

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<v Speaker 1>back to your cave for a marriage. Super old fashioned.

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. Ollo didn't quite happen like that. Oh good,

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<v Speaker 1>she clubbed you? Yeah, right, exactly. Okay, I guess before

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<v Speaker 1>we find out exactly how you met, tell us what's

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<v Speaker 1>her name? Jordan? Jordan? And Jordan was not wearing a

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<v Speaker 1>loin cloth. No, no, there was no wine cloths involved

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Okay, I'm losing interest, man, Yeah, so how

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<v Speaker 1>did you meet Jordan? Well? The old fashioned way was

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<v Speaker 1>that my mom intrude discuss because she works with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and then your mom offered her four cows. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>that's risky. So wait, your mom works with her, and

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<v Speaker 1>your mom's like, you need to date my son, and

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<v Speaker 1>she actually agreed. Well, she had mentioned her for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, she was dating someone else and then

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<v Speaker 1>recently she had broken up with her white friend, and

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<v Speaker 1>my mom kind of swooped in and suggested that I

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<v Speaker 1>called her, and she said okay, and then then we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hit it off over the phone. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>normally meet girls through your mom or is this the first?

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<v Speaker 1>This is the first, But I mean, Jordan's really beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>and they were all worked out great, Like I was

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<v Speaker 1>really excited. Are you shocked more by how great Jordan

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<v Speaker 1>is or that your mom actually has good taste? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I think initially I was shocked, but like, now that's

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<v Speaker 1>the way it turned out, I'm kind of questioning my

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<v Speaker 1>mom's taste. So okay, she's not calling me back, right right? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's that. This is your fault, totally mom's fault. So

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<v Speaker 1>what'd you guys do for your date? So they're nice

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<v Speaker 1>to telling your restaurant wanted to impress her and she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like a genuinely goodhearted person. I don't know, what

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<v Speaker 1>to say, and she had really amazing smile, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like falling in love with this skull, Like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a line to drop there. I know. She was

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<v Speaker 1>just so perfect. It's like an episode of the Bachelor. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it really was. It really was, you know, even to

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<v Speaker 1>the point where we were sharing dessert and she says, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having so much fun. Can we stand longer? Well

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<v Speaker 1>she said that, yeah, I'm like, oh wow, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>we did that, and then you know, I paid for

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and I offered to drive her home and we

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<v Speaker 1>get to her place. I'm thinking, okay, I'm least getting

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<v Speaker 1>a kiss, right, And as I walked her to the door, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I see there's a guy standing there? Wait where standing

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<v Speaker 1>where standing by the door? And she says, under a broach.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, oh no, that's my axe right right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right. He wasn't confrontational though, he

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<v Speaker 1>was nice and kind of apologized for intruding. And oh

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<v Speaker 1>it's an old fashioned three way. Now, why was her

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<v Speaker 1>ex there? Did you ask? Well? He says, I need

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<v Speaker 1>to speak to you for a second. And he said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go wait in the car, and I know, after that,

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<v Speaker 1>she was just totally different. She had just like look

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<v Speaker 1>of concern on her face. I would say, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, I understand relationships a complicated, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand breakups can be weird, and I just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to give her her space to kind of take care

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<v Speaker 1>of that. And did she mention on the date her

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<v Speaker 1>X at all. She says she got out of relationship recently,

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, we talked about it a little bit, and

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it was still kind of fresh, but she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed why she was, you know, ready to start dating

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<v Speaker 1>again and kind of had moved on. And I'm taking

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<v Speaker 1>it you did not get the kiss at the door

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<v Speaker 1>like you thought. I mean, no, I didn't get the

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<v Speaker 1>kiss of the door. And we just said our goodbyes.

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<v Speaker 1>And as I was leaving, I see like he's getting

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<v Speaker 1>out of his car in my rear view mirror and

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<v Speaker 1>he's walking up to the house. So after that, I

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<v Speaker 1>texted her, and Chilly texted me back one time and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, I'm sorry it's not going to work. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for a wonderful dinner, and then she said I will

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<v Speaker 1>never forget it. Oh man. So that's kind of open

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<v Speaker 1>clothes though, right, So don't you. I mean, like that

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<v Speaker 1>means she's for sure back with him, right, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's thinking. I'm assuming. But wait, your mom set you

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<v Speaker 1>up and she works with her. Has your mom not

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<v Speaker 1>gotten the scoop for you? I you know, I asked her,

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<v Speaker 1>but she said she feels a little walkward about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, you know, she mentioned it to Jordan, and

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan's she was like kind of like brushed her off.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm not really sure what happened. So what are

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<v Speaker 1>you hoping to get out of this phone call right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you looking to get a second day or are

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<v Speaker 1>you just looking to find a reason and figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Well, I mean if they got back together,

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<v Speaker 1>I need you guys to break it up. Okay? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that a joker? Is that not a joke? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be great if you could. Okay, that's probity one.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the real deal. I need to see her again.

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<v Speaker 1>So all right, Oh my god, I'm up for this.

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<v Speaker 1>You're up for breaking up a relationship for this guy? Listener, Brian, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm willing to go do whatever it takes. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to play a song right now. Brian We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do some research, dig up some dirt on whoever this

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<v Speaker 1>guy is, and then we'll come back and call Jordan

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<v Speaker 1>for you and get your second date update. Okay, there

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<v Speaker 1>is no fallback. You must break them up, all right. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let the social media stocking begin. We got a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of minutes here, let's end. We're gonna end a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>right after this. I know you're kidding, but I really

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<v Speaker 1>hope you do second update. Brian. I've been thinking more

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and I've decided I'm going to do something

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<v Speaker 1>for you that I've never done before. What's that We've

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<v Speaker 1>done hundreds of second date updates and you're the only

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<v Speaker 1>person I'm going to hang up on right now. So

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, goodbye. No, No, why, I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you have a very good chance. Honestly, I actually

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<v Speaker 1>agree with you. Know what, if we try and get

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<v Speaker 1>second date and we fail, it's going to make our

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<v Speaker 1>show look bad and I don't want to do that

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<v Speaker 1>to us. So Brian, I'm sorry. Maybe call us back

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<v Speaker 1>when you have better odds. No, you don't understand, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I can't stop thinking about her, right yeah, yeah, I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even imagine my life without her. WHOA Okay, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean see, this is what Sorry, there's something about

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<v Speaker 1>this that bothers me, Brian, and this is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I finally realize when you said that, it's that you're

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<v Speaker 1>the dude that always wants what he can't have. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, fast forward six months from now, You're

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly gonna be bored in a relationship with Jordans. No

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. Yeah, sure, no, dude, Ladies know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. Okay, if she didn't have a boyfriend, would

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<v Speaker 1>you be saying things like that, I wouldn't even be

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<v Speaker 1>talking to you right now because they'd be with it

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and I wouldn't you to Second Date update

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<v Speaker 1>se I don't know, or I would be talking to

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<v Speaker 1>you at our wedding. Yeah. See, I believe that's the

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that I'm talking about. I believe in love and

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is your one shot, bro. I have

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<v Speaker 1>your back. Thank you. Well. In case you're just tuning in,

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<v Speaker 1>we're in the middle of a second Date update and

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<v Speaker 1>Brian desperately wants another chance at love. I'm saying the

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<v Speaker 1>L word because Brian said he was falling in love

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<v Speaker 1>on his first date, like a crazy person would say,

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<v Speaker 1>but we like crazy people and so yeah. Anyway, at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of Brian's date, he got a very rude

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<v Speaker 1>surprise when the girl's ex was waiting at the door

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to her, and afterwards she sent Brian at

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<v Speaker 1>Tech saying basically, you know, I had a great time,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're out. Yeah. So we don't know if she's

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<v Speaker 1>actually back with her X or not, but if she is,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not going to be for long because we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to break them up, right, That is our goal today,

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<v Speaker 1>break people up, especially if they've been in love for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. It's fine, they're already in a cycle.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they broke up once, they'll probably do it again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's usually how that cycle works. All right, Brian, are

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<v Speaker 1>you ready to make Jordan possibly cry because the beans

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<v Speaker 1>that she'll get back together with me? Then yeah, let's

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<v Speaker 1>make her Fry's spirit. Okay, we're gonna doubt her number

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<v Speaker 1>right now here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Jordan please? This is Jordan. Hi Jordan, Hi, Hi, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's death? Oh? My name's young Jeffrey. Doesn't who you are?

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, that's how phone calls work. You can't see me, Canyon.

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<v Speaker 1>My name's young Jeffrey. I work on the radio. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Well, not too much. We're calling you because

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing something called a second Date Update. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what that is? Uh maybe I'm not sure. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>to jog your memory in case you might know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a segment that we do where someone who's getting blown

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<v Speaker 1>off emails us and they ask us to call the

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<v Speaker 1>person they recently went on a date with to find

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<v Speaker 1>out why they're not getting in contact with them anymore. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so you recently went up with a guy named Brian. Yeah, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and it sounds like you had a great time with Brian. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess you know, we went on Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, that's the worst response you could have to that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Brian told us a little bit about what happened, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said that your ex was there at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night. Yeah, and then after he had a

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<v Speaker 1>run in with your ex, you texted him that it's

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<v Speaker 1>basically over. Well, I mean it's been really hard, Like

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<v Speaker 1>Brian's a really nice guy. Yeah, I mean I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hurt him or anything, you know, just things

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<v Speaker 1>happen in life, so and it was just it was

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<v Speaker 1>just one date. I mean, yeah, I don't know, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I have so much history with my ex. We've been

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<v Speaker 1>dating since high school. Oh girl, you're in that cycle.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, I mean like he's been at my parents house,

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<v Speaker 1>like every holiday, birthdays, my parents' anniversaries. Like we've just

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<v Speaker 1>a lot together, like we've experienced everything, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just I really love him. So Okay, wait though,

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<v Speaker 1>can I just ask you, yeah, because it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you're with your ex, I guess now your current boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>simply because of history. And I'm gonna tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>is not a long lasting reason to be with somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's more than that. I mean, it's more than

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<v Speaker 1>just history. Like we had a rocky like patch because

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<v Speaker 1>he broke up with me. Like there was this bartender

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<v Speaker 1>girl he met one night and he's out with his friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and like I was upset about it, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing leaving me for a trip like that?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like it's like a dirty bartender's been with

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<v Speaker 1>like over hundred guys or whatever. But he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's time for me to try something new and spread

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<v Speaker 1>my wings. And so at first, I was suppressed and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm angry, and then I wasn't gonna let this happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So just like this date came up and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to play dirty, like what's left? Oh wait?

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, wait, you use Brian to make your ex jealous.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't judge me to you hear the whole story. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not judging you. I've definitely done the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm We're fine. Yeah, So what happened so earlier that

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<v Speaker 1>we that we went out, Like I planned for my

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<v Speaker 1>ex night exchange things at my house. So I scheduled

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<v Speaker 1>my date with Brian the same evening because I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get my bang from my back, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>it'll make my ex jealous. So I knew he'd be

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<v Speaker 1>there when we got back from dinner. And honestly, everything

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<v Speaker 1>did go perfectly. Like my ex SAMMI was another guy

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<v Speaker 1>having fun. He got jealous. Like when I got out

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<v Speaker 1>of the car, like you know, I did an extra

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<v Speaker 1>loud laugh. Wow, it's solid. It was fine, like whenever

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<v Speaker 1>we had a nice time. I snuggled up next to

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<v Speaker 1>Brian's vine while we walked, like you know, I even

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<v Speaker 1>acted surprising a turn in front of Brian, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>really tried to sell it. Well, how do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that Brian feels being used like this? Honestly, if he

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<v Speaker 1>feels bad, he should just get over it. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just one day. Well, I don't know if he can,

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<v Speaker 1>especially now that he knows that you set the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing up just to get back with your ex. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not gonna know if you don't tell him. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to tell him because you already told him.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get it. We didn't tell you this, but

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<v Speaker 1>Brian has actually been on the phone and has been

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<v Speaker 1>listening this whole time. What. Yeah, sorry, you guys tricked me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>in your work. We're also not in a healthy relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>sert Brian, How could you do this? I really liked you? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know. Like he shouldn't have heard everything.

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<v Speaker 1>He shouldn't have heard everything. Well, he did hear it,

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<v Speaker 1>and you need to talk with him about it right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So when did you even come up with this plan

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<v Speaker 1>using me? I mean, I was just looking for somebody

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<v Speaker 1>to make my ex jealous, like your mom showed me

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<v Speaker 1>your picture. I don't know. I was just like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he'll do Oh, no, he'll do. I mean, Brian, you

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<v Speaker 1>could take that as a compliment, like you're hot enough

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<v Speaker 1>to make her ex jealous, which means I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being for real. I'm being for real, which means that

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<v Speaker 1>you're a step up because nobody's gonna go out with

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<v Speaker 1>a fuggly person. That's true after an X. That doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>look like a good rebound. Jordan, why don't you just

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<v Speaker 1>tell me now? What else did you lie about? I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know. I lied about wanting dessert on the gate.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to stay with you at the restaurant longer.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we had a moment, There was a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to time it well, which you

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<v Speaker 1>never felt anything at all towards me. I honestly don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how I'm gonna trust anyone ever again after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, not being dramatic. It was one date. We

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even kiss. You're overreacted. I am so with Jordan

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<v Speaker 1>on this one, Brian, with her. You're supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>helping me right now, Man, what is going on here?

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<v Speaker 1>You're never gonna trust anyone again after your first date

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<v Speaker 1>lied to you. I mean, it's kind of like news flash.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody lies on a first date at some in some

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<v Speaker 1>way times you click. I know Brooke is never honest

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<v Speaker 1>with her husband, and that's how she got married. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just like it's the key to a successful relationship. Zero truth.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying it didn't work out, Brian. You were

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<v Speaker 1>dropping a lot of big words after barely knowing someone

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<v Speaker 1>and obviously not knowing anything about them. It doesn't change

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<v Speaker 1>how I I mean, I feel like I was duped,

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<v Speaker 1>like this wasn't it just isn't right. That's fair, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm giving you. That's fair. Yeah, you get a really

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<v Speaker 1>good thing. Like I have to thank you because without you,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't have gotten back together with my ass that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really nice of you. He's a matchmaker, you're such

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<v Speaker 1>a whoa. All right, and I think I think that

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<v Speaker 1>is the right time to ask if you guys would

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<v Speaker 1>like to go on a second date. We will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it if you guys go out. Yeah, guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>ever need you. Okay if that call, Oh man, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure cheat on you soon anyway. Oh, just get over it.

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<v Speaker 1>Get over it, Brian. He's probably cheating on you right

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<v Speaker 1>now while you're on this call. All right, Well, okay, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>so no second date for you, Brian. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel really bad for you. Yeah, you shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>been put through this situation. And I'm sure that one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners would love to lie to you too

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<v Speaker 1>to get back with their X. So text seen seven

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<v Speaker 1>to eight five nine two. Man, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with Brian and get back together with your X.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for it. I hear your good arm, Candy Brian.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you guys so much. Sweet