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Speaker 1: our listeners named Brian on the phone for a second

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Speaker 1: date update today, and I'm actually really interested to talk

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Speaker 1: to him. Okay, because in his email, Brian says he

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Speaker 1: actually met his date the old fashioned way. That's nice,

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Speaker 1: I know. So, Brian, you clubbed her and dragged her

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Speaker 1: she clubbed you? Yeah, right, exactly. Okay, I guess before

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Speaker 1: her name? Jordan? Jordan? And Jordan was not wearing a

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Speaker 1: loin cloth. No, no, there was no wine cloths involved

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Speaker 1: did you meet Jordan? Well? The old fashioned way was

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Speaker 1: that my mom intrude discuss because she works with her.

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Speaker 1: I think this is your one shot, bro. I have

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Speaker 1: Brian desperately wants another chance at love. I'm saying the

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Speaker 1: right now here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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Speaker 1: to Jordan please? This is Jordan. Hi Jordan, Hi, Hi, Hello,

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Speaker 1: who's death? Oh? My name's young Jeffrey. Doesn't who you are?

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Speaker 1: My name's young Jeffrey. I work on the radio. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's up? Well, not too much. We're calling you because

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Speaker 1: so you recently went up with a guy named Brian. Yeah, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: and it sounds like you had a great time with Brian. Um, yeah,

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Speaker 1: So wait, wait, you use Brian to make your ex jealous.

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Speaker 1: Don't judge me to you hear the whole story. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm not judging you. I've definitely done the same thing.

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Speaker 1: listening this whole time. What. Yeah, sorry, you guys tricked me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: sert Brian, How could you do this? I really liked you? Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know. Like he shouldn't have heard everything.

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Speaker 1: He shouldn't have heard everything. Well, he did hear it,

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Speaker 1: So when did you even come up with this plan

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Speaker 1: I thought we had a moment, There was a lot.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, not being dramatic. It was one date. We

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Speaker 1: You're never gonna trust anyone again after your first date

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying it didn't work out, Brian. You were

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Speaker 1: like this wasn't it just isn't right. That's fair, that's fair.

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Speaker 1: I'm giving you. That's fair. Yeah, you get a really

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Speaker 1: It's really nice of you. He's a matchmaker, you're such

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Speaker 1: a whoa. All right, and I think I think that

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Speaker 1: Get over it, Brian. He's probably cheating on you right

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Speaker 1: now while you're on this call. All right, Well, okay, okay, well,

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Speaker 1: so no second date for you, Brian. But you know what,

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Speaker 1: I feel really bad for you. Yeah, you shouldn't have

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. I hear your good arm, Candy Brian.

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Speaker 1: I hope you guys so much. Sweet