1
00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,600
Speaker 1: We're his in spirit. Yeah yeah, and we're gonna be

2
00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:06,200
Speaker 1: playing some of our top interviews and some throwbacks. So

3
00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:08,520
Speaker 1: keep a lock. But it's gonna be running the boards

4
00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,280
Speaker 1: and uh, we'll see ell in the new year. Happy holidays.

5
00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:14,520
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Slum. Good morning, wake up, wake up way,

6
00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:17,680
Speaker 1: this is good time to get it off your chat

7
00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:21,279
Speaker 1: a man of blass. We want to hear from you

8
00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:24,239
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Block. Hell know who's this yo? What

9
00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:27,760
Speaker 1: it is? Managed the boy block eighty from VA seven

10
00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:30,520
Speaker 1: five seven? Man? What's up? Broke it off your chest?

11
00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,640
Speaker 1: What's going on? Dj N Man? I had a call

12
00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,920
Speaker 1: y'all probably like last year around November man in Weston

13
00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:44,200
Speaker 1: freestyle for y'all. Quite like two months later, somebody hitting

14
00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,880
Speaker 1: me up from her own scam account for Joe Man,

15
00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,920
Speaker 1: y'all need left fat Joe know somebody around here using

16
00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:57,240
Speaker 1: his face card scamming, say they scam you out of

17
00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:01,040
Speaker 1: They scammed me all the night and they tried. What

18
00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,200
Speaker 1: it was he hit me up talking about some man

19
00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,640
Speaker 1: I heard you on the Breakfast club and you know

20
00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like, thank you got it? Man? So

21
00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,000
Speaker 1: with the ID call, that's what messed me up. I'm

22
00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,800
Speaker 1: thinking my life bought the change. He called me on

23
00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,679
Speaker 1: the IG. I see fat Joe face. I say yo,

24
00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:22,160
Speaker 1: he said yo, and then the call. Then I take

25
00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:24,160
Speaker 1: a picture real quick and put a hand from my

26
00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,960
Speaker 1: I g and then the call in. Hes like, I'm

27
00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,240
Speaker 1: in the studio. I'm gonna call you. I'm gonna call

28
00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:32,360
Speaker 1: you back on visit right now. So we were conversating

29
00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,800
Speaker 1: over like two days and on never video me back,

30
00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:38,360
Speaker 1: and stuff started getting a little sketching. He started asking me.

31
00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:40,760
Speaker 1: He like, yeah, so I want to see if you're serious.

32
00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:42,919
Speaker 1: So I want you to put up a little money

33
00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,120
Speaker 1: to get your record on Breakfast Club for about a

34
00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,280
Speaker 1: week and we're gonna see what the people say, and

35
00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,360
Speaker 1: if the people like it, then we're gonna take you

36
00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,320
Speaker 1: to the labels'll talk to the labels or something. How

37
00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:58,400
Speaker 1: much of the asshole, how much it won? It was like,

38
00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,480
Speaker 1: it's probably like a hunting dollars. So that one made

39
00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,000
Speaker 1: me really even more skeptical. I'm like, come on, man,

40
00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,240
Speaker 1: Joe trying to if he really trying to help me

41
00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:08,840
Speaker 1: change my life. I know he ain't gonna ask me

42
00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:10,960
Speaker 1: for the one fifty, but it's like maybe they want

43
00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:12,720
Speaker 1: to see if you know what I'm saying, you're willing

44
00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,840
Speaker 1: to put something towards boy, your career or you believe yourself.

45
00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:17,840
Speaker 1: But let's hear this freestyle. Let's hear a new one.

46
00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,560
Speaker 1: It's almost a year later. Oh yeah, I got one

47
00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,800
Speaker 1: for y'all. This is off. My song called need Me

48
00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:27,200
Speaker 1: is available on all platforms on the block, aidy b

49
00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:31,040
Speaker 1: l O K die EID Come on, I want my

50
00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,720
Speaker 1: shorted back. I love it bits more than rap. Yeah, bro,

51
00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:35,800
Speaker 1: my hold on the track left for a message. She

52
00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,799
Speaker 1: never called me back. Guess what goes around don't always

53
00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,440
Speaker 1: come back around like a cold the sack. She was

54
00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,760
Speaker 1: with rappers like Little Yad letting them call the shots.

55
00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,440
Speaker 1: Is that why you ain't called me back? But don't baby,

56
00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,280
Speaker 1: if you call it rap? Now she win six nine.

57
00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,079
Speaker 1: You know you can't curse on the radio. I think

58
00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,240
Speaker 1: jay Z might call you now. Oh my fa but

59
00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,640
Speaker 1: wait wait wait, hell got your shirty was listen with us?

60
00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,160
Speaker 1: Well you won't bring it back? No, no, no no.

61
00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,920
Speaker 1: I love the fact I've never heard anybody used called

62
00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,400
Speaker 1: the sack and a rap coold to sac Well, I

63
00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,160
Speaker 1: wanted to a cold de sac. But I want to

64
00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,120
Speaker 1: tell everybody. If somebody hit you on Instagram and they're

65
00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,519
Speaker 1: not verified, meaning that blue check, that's not them. I

66
00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,480
Speaker 1: just want to tell because people tell me you hit

67
00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:22,519
Speaker 1: me up, No it wasn't me. If you don't see

68
00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,560
Speaker 1: that blue check, it's not me. And I'm not going

69
00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:28,480
Speaker 1: to create a different page to hit you. And the

70
00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,519
Speaker 1: getting them hundred and fifty dollars and people trying to

71
00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:33,440
Speaker 1: act like it's not him. Hello, who's this because it's

72
00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,839
Speaker 1: Drake d what I'm getting a few chess bro, Yeah,

73
00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:37,840
Speaker 1: I was just I was listening to your man. Somebody

74
00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:39,760
Speaker 1: the school shooting at Sean Man asked that question, like

75
00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:43,800
Speaker 1: what schools like airports and all that, and it's crazy, man,

76
00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,280
Speaker 1: like these people that to this thing like oh the image,

77
00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,160
Speaker 1: it don't make the school not look safe. And it's like, bro,

78
00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,720
Speaker 1: people go to courthouses and airports that you say every day.

79
00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:56,080
Speaker 1: People say I'm not going to work because it's not safe. No,

80
00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,080
Speaker 1: they're safe in there because they go through the middle

81
00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:00,800
Speaker 1: of Texas. They know that. All right, people was checked.

82
00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,320
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind as a parent at my school or

83
00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,640
Speaker 1: my kids school had metal textives and had to put

84
00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:08,160
Speaker 1: their bags through those real machines. Now, I want to

85
00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,080
Speaker 1: know that you took every ple caution to make sure

86
00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,840
Speaker 1: the school was safe. But a lot of people they don't.

87
00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,800
Speaker 1: Well it's that they like to react or whatever it is.

88
00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:19,400
Speaker 1: They don't. They don't put things in motion until something happened. Nope, nope, nope,

89
00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,800
Speaker 1: no prevent defense. And I agree with you, man, Like

90
00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:25,240
Speaker 1: it would really like decrease my parental paranoia if I

91
00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:28,880
Speaker 1: knew that my child school had like metal detectives, and

92
00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,240
Speaker 1: I mean really really like make them go through it

93
00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,760
Speaker 1: when they come in that school, check their bags, you know,

94
00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:37,080
Speaker 1: wanning them down all of that. Yeah, Like I like, listen,

95
00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,719
Speaker 1: I'm safe as a parent, all right, bom I like

96
00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,320
Speaker 1: that man, I'm I'm telling my kids these schools all

97
00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,160
Speaker 1: four years we got transferred nothing because you guys just

98
00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,480
Speaker 1: made sure nothing happened. Like most of the people wait

99
00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,560
Speaker 1: till something happened, then any want to put stuff in place.

100
00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:52,560
Speaker 1: But oh we were sorry for the families being noticed.

101
00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:56,960
Speaker 1: Was going to happen in our neighborhood. Man, please anywhere.

102
00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,360
Speaker 1: I agree with my brother, But thank you, be safe.

103
00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,520
Speaker 1: Get it off your chest. It's a breakfast club. Good morning,

104
00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:09,880
Speaker 1: the breakfast club, looking to turn a small bet into

105
00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,440
Speaker 1: a big payday. With Draft Kings sports Book, Same Game Poulais,

106
00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:15,680
Speaker 1: you can pocket more cash when you can buy multiple

107
00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,480
Speaker 1: bets from one game. Download the apps, sign up with

108
00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:22,240
Speaker 1: Colde Envy and get a special offer. Restrictions apply. See

109
00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,240
Speaker 1: Draft Kings dot com Slash sports Book for details. The

110
00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:34,120
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club Envy, Angela Year and Charlemagne the Gods your

111
00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:35,960
Speaker 1: time to get it off your chests, whether you're mad

112
00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:39,080
Speaker 1: or blast sore, Brother Sam, we want to hear from

113
00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:43,560
Speaker 1: you on the Breakfast Club Hellos this hey listen tray

114
00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:47,080
Speaker 1: calling from ninety seven point nine making Georgia. I just

115
00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,280
Speaker 1: want to say to the infamous Charlemagne the Cheeses and

116
00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:55,119
Speaker 1: MP DJ Emiratus DJ Envy might get it off the chest.

117
00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:00,640
Speaker 1: As a brief song to Lady Leely farewell song Positi

118
00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:03,880
Speaker 1: who is Leally Lely's in s w V. We got

119
00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:09,840
Speaker 1: to Angela who average trying to be funny? Guys, come on,

120
00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,560
Speaker 1: I know, I know, gosh, come on stop Charlamne the

121
00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:26,720
Speaker 1: Jeezy Hey, beautiful black d you like to get to

122
00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:32,720
Speaker 1: know you. Good luck my lady, Oh love, I love that,

123
00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:36,880
Speaker 1: thank you? Yeah, that's amazing. Was it all right, Hello,

124
00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:44,040
Speaker 1: who's this? Hi? Yes? Some day and go ahead. I'm sorry, well,

125
00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,800
Speaker 1: y'all usually give me a well good morning? Where my well?

126
00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:55,680
Speaker 1: Good morning now, Queen? I mean a minute, what's happening, queen?

127
00:06:55,800 --> 00:07:00,279
Speaker 1: How are you sitting? Positive? What's happening all the y'all?

128
00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:05,599
Speaker 1: Stlomon of God, DJ every my earl angela ye want.

129
00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,280
Speaker 1: I want to shout you out, baby, because I had

130
00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:10,480
Speaker 1: to get on here before you last. You know, it's

131
00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:12,680
Speaker 1: been a minister. Yall heard me, And I want to

132
00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:17,360
Speaker 1: say congratulations on your future endeavors, you know, miss, and

133
00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:20,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna miss listener to everything you do, giving out

134
00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:24,080
Speaker 1: the great I'm sorry. It's about because giving out those

135
00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:28,240
Speaker 1: great you know, a PNS, voicing your comments everything. And

136
00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,160
Speaker 1: my second thing, I want to get off my test Charlemagne.

137
00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:36,520
Speaker 1: I have not gotten my book. I ain't get my books.

138
00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,480
Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna try this again, Eddie. I've asked

139
00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:43,360
Speaker 1: my books. Who weren't Edie? Were you at Eddie? Eddie?

140
00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,760
Speaker 1: Sender a black effect? Uh snap back to send a

141
00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:49,840
Speaker 1: black effect snap back courtesy and Mitchell and next too.

142
00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:53,400
Speaker 1: Please we're gonna make that up to you. Holidays and

143
00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,119
Speaker 1: dj Iffy I love you too. Man. Your car shows

144
00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:59,680
Speaker 1: was jumping. I followed your story throughout your whole car shows.

145
00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:03,120
Speaker 1: You really didn't did it big this year giving back

146
00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,160
Speaker 1: to each community, and I'm really proud of you as well,

147
00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,800
Speaker 1: like y'all really do it big. And y'all gonna it

148
00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:11,600
Speaker 1: with or without itsaly even though it's gonna probably stuff

149
00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:17,320
Speaker 1: without it. Um, y'all gonna do big. Well, thank you Mama.

150
00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,560
Speaker 1: It was I'd beyond right after the Breakfast cloud too,

151
00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,440
Speaker 1: as you will. Okay, great, so I can still listen

152
00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:26,760
Speaker 1: to you. But it's like I said, it's it's not

153
00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:28,680
Speaker 1: gonna be the same without the three y'all, the three

154
00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:31,400
Speaker 1: of me. Well, thank you, Mom. You where you from?

155
00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:36,320
Speaker 1: I'm from day y'all know, y'all to day. Remember y'all

156
00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:46,719
Speaker 1: love my smile know we said that? Yeah, okay, see

157
00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:52,599
Speaker 1: y'all always mess my name up. It's not well, thank you?

158
00:08:52,679 --> 00:09:00,360
Speaker 1: She nise happy, y'all right, black effects nap back. All right,

159
00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,080
Speaker 1: we'll get it off your chest and it's the Breakfast

160
00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:06,040
Speaker 1: Love God Morning Power one oh five wars. Your mornings

161
00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:10,440
Speaker 1: will never be the same. Your next firms treen Sumber Sale.

162
00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:12,280
Speaker 1: You can get a king bed for a Queen Price

163
00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:14,600
Speaker 1: or a Queen bed for a twin price and save

164
00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:17,240
Speaker 1: up to seven hundred dollars plus. Get it for your

165
00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:20,079
Speaker 1: adjustable base. Visit a store near you or a Matches

166
00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:23,520
Speaker 1: firm dot com and unjunk your sleep Today morning. Everybody

167
00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:27,520
Speaker 1: is dj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne Nay. We are the

168
00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:29,600
Speaker 1: breakfast club. We got a special guest in the building. Yes,

169
00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,040
Speaker 1: and she smells amazing. It's the first time that she's

170
00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:36,760
Speaker 1: here in person. I know, ladies and gentlemen. Col Hey, hey, welcome,

171
00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:40,800
Speaker 1: thank you. How's your spirit? It's awesome? Okay, that's incredible.

172
00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,199
Speaker 1: How's yours? It feels good? I feel good today. Good.

173
00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,480
Speaker 1: It seems so good, so positive. I love to see that.

174
00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:51,520
Speaker 1: I am happy. What was I jumping? What's happy? And

175
00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:55,520
Speaker 1: what's what's what's so positive? As good as positive? Good?

176
00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:58,160
Speaker 1: Why do we do that to humans? Like? Why are

177
00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,880
Speaker 1: you so happy? Exactly? You should be the she could

178
00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:06,720
Speaker 1: make somebody else happy positivity. I'm blessed. My family's taken

179
00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,120
Speaker 1: care of. We all have our health. My daughter is

180
00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,959
Speaker 1: extremely genius. I just got back from two weeks of

181
00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:17,800
Speaker 1: like different fashion weeks that I've never experienced. Literally no,

182
00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:20,280
Speaker 1: because I want to see my child. So I was like,

183
00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:22,439
Speaker 1: that's cool to say another week, but I want to

184
00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,320
Speaker 1: go see my baby. So I'm going home. But did

185
00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:27,120
Speaker 1: it take some ad justing being outside again? I got

186
00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:31,000
Speaker 1: a new perspective of like now I appreciate being outside more.

187
00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:32,920
Speaker 1: So now I'm just taking advantage of every time that

188
00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,400
Speaker 1: I'm outside. So what's the perspective? I mean, I think

189
00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:39,439
Speaker 1: I was so like nervous all the time and just

190
00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:42,880
Speaker 1: like shook consistently being outside and just like, Okay, it's

191
00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:45,160
Speaker 1: one thing being super present online, like you can do

192
00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,600
Speaker 1: that from anywhere and you can still completely be yourself

193
00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:49,959
Speaker 1: like behind the scenes, but like when you're outside, like

194
00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,200
Speaker 1: you know, you have to meet people and all things

195
00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,480
Speaker 1: like touch people and hug people and need all those things. Um,

196
00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:59,240
Speaker 1: But my new perspective is just like enjoy every moment,

197
00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,920
Speaker 1: like I can create the experience that I want to

198
00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,920
Speaker 1: create when I'm outside. Didn't have a good time. As

199
00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,120
Speaker 1: a person myself who suffers from like really bad anxiety,

200
00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:11,240
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it because, like you know, it's all of

201
00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:14,880
Speaker 1: external stuff that you can't control that really makes your

202
00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:16,959
Speaker 1: anxiety go through the room. So it's something about being

203
00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:19,080
Speaker 1: in the house every day, knowing what the kids at,

204
00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,839
Speaker 1: knowing what a wife at, it gives you a different

205
00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:24,400
Speaker 1: sense of comfort. I can't lie, I haven't quite adjusted

206
00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,480
Speaker 1: to being outside with your kids. Though. The problem is

207
00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:31,400
Speaker 1: not you with the kids though, right there's there's I

208
00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,000
Speaker 1: feel so bad because I feel like they're suffering. I mean,

209
00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:35,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to say, I don't want to play

210
00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:38,160
Speaker 1: like who's suffering the most? But I've children are right now,

211
00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,199
Speaker 1: I must be really awkward because they're not socializing and

212
00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:43,920
Speaker 1: they're not getting those like other Like my kid mostly

213
00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:46,040
Speaker 1: knows adults. She has like two baby friends, and we're

214
00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:48,720
Speaker 1: really safe about it. But like she mostly knows adults,

215
00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,480
Speaker 1: and it's probably shouldn't be the case right now. But

216
00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:54,800
Speaker 1: how did your parents and style differ from the way

217
00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:58,559
Speaker 1: you were raised. I think my mom was very She

218
00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:00,719
Speaker 1: just didn't have as much support as she should have.

219
00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I think most of our generations parents didn't

220
00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:05,120
Speaker 1: have the support that they should have had. My mom was,

221
00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:10,439
Speaker 1: you know, three kids, single mom, crazy nine to five. Like,

222
00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:13,520
Speaker 1: I have friends and I'm like, if they want to

223
00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,439
Speaker 1: help me, I'm like, I will let you help me,

224
00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,199
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And I think that that

225
00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:20,319
Speaker 1: alone changed the game. And you're rich, you know, I

226
00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:24,040
Speaker 1: can't afford the babysitting. I truly can't. And my babysitter

227
00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,400
Speaker 1: is the best. How's it going to be when you

228
00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,480
Speaker 1: go on tour? Because you know, you least a new

229
00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,320
Speaker 1: single album's coming out. Yeah you're going on tour? Yeah,

230
00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,320
Speaker 1: how is that gonna be? With the baby? I mean,

231
00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:35,959
Speaker 1: her dad's awesome and he's super like fluid where it

232
00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,240
Speaker 1: comes to my career. So he's like, you want you

233
00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:39,760
Speaker 1: want me to come with her? And just like we

234
00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,959
Speaker 1: all hang out and like we'll go back and forth

235
00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,120
Speaker 1: and we just have a great system and the we're

236
00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,439
Speaker 1: a great co parenting team and we just will take

237
00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,360
Speaker 1: it as it comes. That relationship always like that where

238
00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,079
Speaker 1: y'all were great co parents and y'all could. Yeah, pretty much.

239
00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:54,640
Speaker 1: We're both like team baby. So it's like we don't

240
00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,880
Speaker 1: view each other in any other way than like we're

241
00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,800
Speaker 1: teammates and family. So I wonder how rare that is

242
00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,320
Speaker 1: When you hear it, it sounds rare, but I don't.

243
00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:04,000
Speaker 1: I don't have any facts to back it up. But

244
00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:06,719
Speaker 1: you know, you always hear about baby daddy drama and

245
00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,679
Speaker 1: baby mama drama. Like you don't ever hear about like

246
00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:10,959
Speaker 1: healthy co parenting too much. I mean I think, I

247
00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,160
Speaker 1: mean I can't apply necessarily to my situation, but I

248
00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,400
Speaker 1: think people have a bad habit of viewing each other

249
00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:19,080
Speaker 1: as x's instead of viewing each other as co parents, right,

250
00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:23,880
Speaker 1: and then they apply X drama and X attention and

251
00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:28,440
Speaker 1: X like chaos when really, at the moment you guys

252
00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:31,800
Speaker 1: become parents, you guys need to view each other as literally,

253
00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,400
Speaker 1: whoever this baby is parents. That's it, Like you need

254
00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,199
Speaker 1: to all the X thing needs to go out the window.

255
00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:38,040
Speaker 1: So it's almost like you got to take the person

256
00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,680
Speaker 1: a lot of it and deal with the business. Yeah, literally,

257
00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:42,760
Speaker 1: and then your team baby, And if you're if you

258
00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:44,839
Speaker 1: guys aren't functioning as a proper team, then the only

259
00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:47,760
Speaker 1: one that really comes down on hard, like super hard,

260
00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,360
Speaker 1: is the baby. So absolutely, what did you do different

261
00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:54,240
Speaker 1: during the pandemic? Like I applied myself to learning how

262
00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:57,800
Speaker 1: to edit and direct videos, and me and my photographer

263
00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:01,599
Speaker 1: who doesn't shoot videos or editos, decided to start a

264
00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:04,480
Speaker 1: production company so that the videos we would drop at

265
00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,839
Speaker 1: least looked like they came from something professional. So what

266
00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:09,920
Speaker 1: started out it's kind of like a let's do like

267
00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:12,360
Speaker 1: a make their production company actually became a real one

268
00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,800
Speaker 1: and we just bought equipment and like literally sat in

269
00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:16,920
Speaker 1: my garage every day and learned on YouTube. And now

270
00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:21,400
Speaker 1: we're directing videos for other artists. So that alone was

271
00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,560
Speaker 1: its own, like completely own things to a different passion

272
00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,520
Speaker 1: for you now, like like you want to be an

273
00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:28,720
Speaker 1: art director in the video directors he looking at scenes,

274
00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:31,240
Speaker 1: you're looking at sech looking. Yeah, I've always done that,

275
00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,440
Speaker 1: though I didn't even know that. What I was doing

276
00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,880
Speaker 1: up until this point was technically co directing all my

277
00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:37,760
Speaker 1: stuff because I'd come up with an idea and I

278
00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:39,640
Speaker 1: would give it to a director like this is exactly

279
00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:40,800
Speaker 1: what I want to do. Now you take it and

280
00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:42,360
Speaker 1: flush it out. And now I'm not knowing that the

281
00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,080
Speaker 1: whole time, I can technically call myself a co director

282
00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:48,120
Speaker 1: at that point. All when we come back, don't move.

283
00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:54,520
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club Morning.

284
00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:58,800
Speaker 1: Everybody's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy we are

285
00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:02,120
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club was still Charlie. What do you learn

286
00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:05,720
Speaker 1: about yourself last year during the pandemic, yourself specifically, so

287
00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:10,240
Speaker 1: many things, so many things. I learned that I'm super limitless.

288
00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,480
Speaker 1: I learned that that's all I aspired to be. And

289
00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,680
Speaker 1: it's funny because I just did it sit down with

290
00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:18,160
Speaker 1: Alicia Keys, and when she said that, I was like, man,

291
00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:20,440
Speaker 1: you put it all into words, like it's one thing

292
00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,440
Speaker 1: to like be limitless, and it's another thing to like

293
00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,520
Speaker 1: know that it's possible to be, you know, because we

294
00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,800
Speaker 1: are all limitless. But it takes a long time to

295
00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:30,600
Speaker 1: unlock that feeling of like, oh, I can really do

296
00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:33,000
Speaker 1: whatever I want to round this bitch, like if I'm

297
00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:35,240
Speaker 1: taking care of myself and I'm doing it the right way,

298
00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:39,040
Speaker 1: like the world is mine type and I don't know.

299
00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:42,240
Speaker 1: I just I went to therapy. I started. I love

300
00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,560
Speaker 1: my therapists. There's a lot of things that I learned.

301
00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:49,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't go forever well, I was.

302
00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:50,720
Speaker 1: I used to be in therapy, and then I think

303
00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,280
Speaker 1: I got really hard hit it with it because I

304
00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:54,000
Speaker 1: was just like, you know, I'm at that point where

305
00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:55,640
Speaker 1: like I know what my therapist is gonna say, and

306
00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:57,280
Speaker 1: like I know what she's gonna tell me, and like

307
00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:00,080
Speaker 1: I can apply to myself, but you truly, really I

308
00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:03,240
Speaker 1: was like you never actually graduate out of therapy. I

309
00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:04,760
Speaker 1: was just at that point where I was like, you

310
00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,080
Speaker 1: know what, I'm a mom now, I'm two years into motherhood.

311
00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:11,680
Speaker 1: Like I'm experiencing a new set of things that I

312
00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:14,560
Speaker 1: need to get the tools to work through. So that's

313
00:16:14,560 --> 00:16:20,080
Speaker 1: why I went back. The song Alter is about being

314
00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:23,400
Speaker 1: able to maintain the relationship with people when they've passed

315
00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,760
Speaker 1: on because of the work that you put in, you know,

316
00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:28,480
Speaker 1: on this side, UM, I had a lot of people

317
00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:30,240
Speaker 1: that passed away in the last couple of years, a

318
00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:33,280
Speaker 1: lot of friends really really young. I also really got

319
00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:35,400
Speaker 1: really close to my father who passed away when I

320
00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,760
Speaker 1: was one. UM in this last year, just like doing

321
00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,560
Speaker 1: proper ancestor work and like making sure that you know,

322
00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:45,560
Speaker 1: they were always venerated and fed and had things to

323
00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:47,640
Speaker 1: light them and guide them and just taken care of

324
00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:50,240
Speaker 1: and through putting the time in and like little by

325
00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:53,200
Speaker 1: little by little and really developing like a discipline with it.

326
00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:56,960
Speaker 1: Just the way I was able to transform my understanding

327
00:16:57,000 --> 00:17:01,080
Speaker 1: of grief. I think I lost maybe five friends that

328
00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:04,439
Speaker 1: were probably all under the age of twenty eight twenty

329
00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:07,439
Speaker 1: seven in the last couple of years to like random

330
00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:10,880
Speaker 1: freak drug situations, and I had gotten to the point

331
00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,240
Speaker 1: where I was like, I have to understand, like why

332
00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:16,240
Speaker 1: I feel you guys so much, and like how can

333
00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,280
Speaker 1: I help you guys? And dad da da dah, and

334
00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:21,160
Speaker 1: the people I'd become surrounded within my spiritual community were

335
00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:22,760
Speaker 1: just like, look, this is how we can help you,

336
00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:25,880
Speaker 1: you know, grapple with that, and through that, I feel

337
00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:27,480
Speaker 1: like I'm a lot closer to everyone. So that's what

338
00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:29,720
Speaker 1: the song is. Isn't that amazingly normal? Like when you

339
00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:32,080
Speaker 1: start doing like that spiritual work and the healing work

340
00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:34,720
Speaker 1: and that energy work on yourself and you got your

341
00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:36,119
Speaker 1: all to set up in the crib, you really do

342
00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,240
Speaker 1: be talking to your people or yeah, and then you

343
00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:41,200
Speaker 1: then you start having to differentiate like did I just

344
00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,240
Speaker 1: make that up? Or did I see that? Did I

345
00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:45,720
Speaker 1: make that up? Or did I feel that I didn't

346
00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,480
Speaker 1: think of that? That was that was somebody there and

347
00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:51,480
Speaker 1: it's comforting. So what's the title Blue Water Rolled About? Well,

348
00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:55,040
Speaker 1: there's a surface level title version definition and then there's

349
00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:59,720
Speaker 1: like a deeper one. But we had started the what

350
00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:01,720
Speaker 1: was the deluxe for? It was good until it wasn't

351
00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:04,320
Speaker 1: my last album in this house that I did a

352
00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,760
Speaker 1: writing camp bat on a street called Blue Water Road,

353
00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:10,360
Speaker 1: or and I left after the first week and went

354
00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,840
Speaker 1: into like a couple of ceremony processes. I came back

355
00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:17,760
Speaker 1: and I just like was completely different and heard the

356
00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:20,359
Speaker 1: music differently and was like, this doesn't sound like it's

357
00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,600
Speaker 1: a deluxe for my last album. This sounds like it's

358
00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:26,160
Speaker 1: a completely new project. And when I think of Blue

359
00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,960
Speaker 1: Water Road, to me, it's a river, and a river

360
00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:35,399
Speaker 1: super spiritually significant to me, and to be discreet, but

361
00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:38,919
Speaker 1: like still give explanation. Like a river, it just keeps flowing.

362
00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:41,640
Speaker 1: It's it's a life source. And then on the flip

363
00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,160
Speaker 1: side of thinking about it as a location, it gave

364
00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:47,160
Speaker 1: me an ability to put people into my world because

365
00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:50,199
Speaker 1: it gave it a literal location. I performed a lot

366
00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:52,359
Speaker 1: of my old music and been on stage and almost

367
00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:54,159
Speaker 1: had laughing moments where I'm like, I can't believe I

368
00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,399
Speaker 1: was there all I can't believe that was me, or

369
00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,640
Speaker 1: I can't believe I thought that, or like, oh wow,

370
00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:00,480
Speaker 1: look how far I've comes since I thought that, And like,

371
00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:02,520
Speaker 1: I don't realize it's doing things for people in the audience,

372
00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,080
Speaker 1: but for me, I'm like, that's hilarious, you know. But

373
00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:07,800
Speaker 1: when I hear my perspective as a nineteen year old

374
00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:10,399
Speaker 1: or twenty year old girl, I'm like, oh, baby, you

375
00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:13,600
Speaker 1: needed somebody to sit you down and tell you leave

376
00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:17,080
Speaker 1: it alone and go get it together. And now I'm

377
00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,280
Speaker 1: I'm twenty six and I'm dropping songs that are just

378
00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:24,080
Speaker 1: about like I don't really like I don't need anybody.

379
00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:25,640
Speaker 1: And I think I was coming from such a place

380
00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,960
Speaker 1: of like need in the past. You can hear it.

381
00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:30,160
Speaker 1: You can hear it in the lyrics. And now I'm

382
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,480
Speaker 1: just like, WHOA, Thank God I grew up, you know,

383
00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,760
Speaker 1: but we all we all go through it, you know,

384
00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,719
Speaker 1: Road and Nick Cannon playing your career. Wheren't you signing Nick?

385
00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:40,800
Speaker 1: At one point I wasn't signed to Nicky kind of

386
00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 1: not really. So when I first met Nick Cannon, I

387
00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:46,800
Speaker 1: was on America's Got Talent. I was fifteen, sixteen years old,

388
00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,960
Speaker 1: time had passed, my band had broke up. I was

389
00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,280
Speaker 1: like working two jobs and in high school. And he

390
00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,080
Speaker 1: called and he was like, I see the vision. I

391
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,119
Speaker 1: get it, like you're meant to be solo artists, Like

392
00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,320
Speaker 1: come back to LA, Let's try it again. I want

393
00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,840
Speaker 1: to support. And when I came back to La, he

394
00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,560
Speaker 1: had surprised me with my first apartment. I had never

395
00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 1: slept in a bed by myself. I never had my

396
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:07,960
Speaker 1: own room. At the time, I was couchopping between a

397
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:11,560
Speaker 1: bunch of friends working two jobs. Like I just fell

398
00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,160
Speaker 1: on the floor and couldn't believe it. He made sure

399
00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 1: that if I needed anything that I had it as

400
00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,680
Speaker 1: long as I was not out here bullshit, And he

401
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,600
Speaker 1: changed my life forever. Like that's family to me. He

402
00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 1: silently has changed the lives of so many people. And

403
00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,040
Speaker 1: we don't know until someone sees like an interview of

404
00:20:30,119 --> 00:20:31,960
Speaker 1: mine and they'll come grab me and be like, you know,

405
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,119
Speaker 1: Nick Cannon did the same thing for me. Wow, And

406
00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,000
Speaker 1: he don't get his flowers for that, but he doesn't.

407
00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 1: You got to salute him. Yeah, well, we appreciate you

408
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:40,479
Speaker 1: for joining us, Thank you for having Thank you so much.

409
00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:42,040
Speaker 1: A pleasure me. It's the first time you've been up. Yeah,

410
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 1: nice to meet y'all. Realized all right, it's Kalani, it's

411
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:53,239
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning, it's topic time called eight

412
00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,399
Speaker 1: hundred five eight five. One wanted to join it to

413
00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,640
Speaker 1: the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk about it morning.

414
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,880
Speaker 1: Everybody in steed Envy and Jelu yee, Charlemagne the guy.

415
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,399
Speaker 1: We are the breakfast club. Now, if you're just joining us,

416
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:09,920
Speaker 1: we're asking if social media ruined relationships. Now, this conversation

417
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:12,960
Speaker 1: comes from drink camps and Bootsey. Bootsey was gonna drink camps.

418
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 1: And this is what you have to say. Everything marriages

419
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:21,600
Speaker 1: at first your bit, you just see that work you

420
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:26,760
Speaker 1: and it's come home. Now she got about thirty thousand looking.

421
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 1: But when you don't act right, and she hit my

422
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 1: tide about all of them aground? She ain't getting so

423
00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,920
Speaker 1: all that time you didn't put in with no money

424
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 1: up everything YouTube, No, you had to look at was

425
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 1: your side at work, your cat home and come back.

426
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 1: Now you hit my tide. You look at you and

427
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 1: you see about just look better. It made us hold

428
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one on five one. Let's

429
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 1: go to the phone lines. Hello, who's this? This was

430
00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:01,120
Speaker 1: the Velly was good? What's uping about Rizzarelli? You sound

431
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 1: like a cheetah? Yeah? Sorry, yeah, I'm sorry. I apologize.

432
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 1: Who are you sorry to listen? I'll cheat every woman

433
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 1: I've been and so make it a good person. How

434
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: old are you trying to make a good person? Just

435
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,159
Speaker 1: makes me your honest person. How old are you Rizzarelli? Thirty?

436
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,679
Speaker 1: Oh thirty? So damn all you know? With social media? Listening?

437
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 1: Social media does ruin a relationship. I've been well, no,

438
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:30,600
Speaker 1: without without here, without social media, you would have ruined

439
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:34,879
Speaker 1: every relationship. Tell us how though, I want to hear

440
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 1: how why you gotta you gotta understand. I've learned that

441
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 1: people gotta learn how to conduct themselves over social media. Okay,

442
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 1: as people as in you, well, of course, but I'm

443
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 1: just saying humor racing. Oh, you know, everybody. I think

444
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 1: social media is over sensualized everything. You know, Hey, I

445
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 1: don't think you should blame social media on the fact

446
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 1: that you're prone to cheat. That depends on who you

447
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: follow right, Well, no, no, not really, you don't, depending

448
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 1: on who's following and who's following you. It's just what

449
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 1: it's put out. This fool like social media is everybody

450
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 1: go out to just to show themselves forward. They're gonna

451
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 1: show up what they're doing. They're gonn show up by

452
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 1: body looks, and it should over strict you a lot

453
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 1: of everything. It suits me a little sense a lot.

454
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do now? Moving forward? To

455
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: change things for yourself. So you're not a cheating I

456
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 1: learned from my situation. Okayitation, you know what I'm saying.

457
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 1: But I want to some people as a groupments everybody,

458
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 1: you know, uh, as a human race. You know, I

459
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: want them to be able to do the same thing

460
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:44,560
Speaker 1: I can mix my wrong you know that. You know

461
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: everybody ain't cheating, rise Arelli. Some of us are members

462
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:53,160
Speaker 1: of the faithful black male community. Okay, ain't man? Hello,

463
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 1: who's this? You are the girl and I never had

464
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: and I on and get to know you bad? Leave

465
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 1: uncle O, what's gonna talk to us? Mama? I was

466
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 1: saying that social media has definitely messed it up? Or um,

467
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,119
Speaker 1: you know in the relationship you really a cheat it

468
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 1: huh not at all? So why why is it? Why

469
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: is it messing up your relationships? Did no? And it

470
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,879
Speaker 1: mess it up? Thank god? And almost did? But what happened?

471
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, um, you're almost cheated social media like like

472
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: we're talking about. But like what happened. It's easier to

473
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 1: cheat media, all right. So somebody reached out to you,

474
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 1: you respond it even though you have a man or

475
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 1: what you know? Actually, I um saw it on the

476
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 1: social media. I not the phone and read you know,

477
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,679
Speaker 1: all right, you call him doing some things? Yes, okay,

478
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 1: well listen, it's easier. It's easier to cheat when you

479
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,400
Speaker 1: are cheatah, if you're not a cheetah, and then it's

480
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 1: not hard. Did not cheat at all? Right, period, it's

481
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: easier to get caught on social I'll say that. So

482
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: you're still with your cheating. Definitely, you're still with your cheating. Now. Yeah,

483
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 1: that's right. Okay, that's good, that's good. That's I'm gonna

484
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: reform cheating. Ain't nobody here judging nobody, not at all,

485
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 1: not at all. How long you've been clean? How long

486
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:22,440
Speaker 1: you've been sober? Sober? Well? How long is he not cheated? Man?

487
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 1: I was a cheater. I've been cheated. I'm talking about

488
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 1: the man. How long is the man not cheated? About? Now?

489
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you something. Just like women know

490
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: when they man it's cheating, they know when they man

491
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 1: it's not cheating. So she can say that two years

492
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 1: with confidence. There you go. Yeah, okay, period, Well, thank you, mama,

493
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 1: thank you, yes man. Eight hundred five eight five one

494
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 1: o five one. Now, what's the moral of the story

495
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: If there is a moral and the moral of the stories.

496
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 1: Exactly what I said. You can literally see a million

497
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 1: people on Instagram, but if you only have eyes for

498
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 1: one person and that's all it's gonna be. You know

499
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 1: what I mean? What Boosey is saying, it's real, but

500
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 1: it only applies to people who are only cheat Me.

501
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: I am a member of a proud member of the

502
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 1: faithful black male community. I am reformed and the keep talking. Okay,

503
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 1: black men don't cheat, all right. I've been cleaned for

504
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,199
Speaker 1: October twenty sixteen, felt that in my soul. Bro I'm

505
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: clean over six years now, Okay, that's right, all right,

506
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: because it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody is

507
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee Charlomagne, the guy we are the

508
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club were still kicking it with Lunell Charlomagne. Now,

509
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: how do you prepare to do shows when you don't like,

510
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 1: are you ever in the mood not to be funny? Sometimes? Okay,

511
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: but rarely like they say, like never said, it's in you,

512
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: not on you, So it's in me to be funny. Um.

513
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 1: I you know our brains, comics, brains are wired different.

514
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: Like I even have things to laugh at at my

515
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: own mother's funeral. You know what I'm saying? So well, yeah,

516
00:26:55,560 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 1: for you to hear her friends saying exactly, I was crying,

517
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 1: but crying you laughed at your friends, mamma because she

518
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: did like five verses. I'm like, yo, the funeral, like

519
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,080
Speaker 1: what are you doing? What was the song? I don't know.

520
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: I'm kind of block it out my mind, but I

521
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: do remember that situation happening for sure. Did you want

522
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:25,959
Speaker 1: the funeral to be over just because you didn't want

523
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: to be there because you know grief is hard? Or

524
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: did you have another gig? No? It was, it was terrible.

525
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 1: Then it was terrible. Man. I'm gonna ask you know what,

526
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: You're doing so much, so many shows and on the

527
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 1: tour for nine months, how often do you get a

528
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: chance to refresh material and talk about new things? Oh?

529
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: Every day? I don't. I'm not scripted type comic man,

530
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:52,240
Speaker 1: Like I don't write my material down. I just like

531
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: I write bullet points down and things that I happened

532
00:27:56,000 --> 00:28:00,359
Speaker 1: because for me, for me, I feel that I need

533
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: to leave myself open to change. Like if I say

534
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this, this, this, this and this and

535
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: that's it. But on the way to the show this

536
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,399
Speaker 1: and this might happen now I want to talk about

537
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 1: that and change the whole thing. So I just kind

538
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: of flow with it. But I do have, of course

539
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 1: standard stuff that I talk about per every show. And

540
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: I'm also you know, preparing to do my first Netflix

541
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 1: special Dave Chappelle producer nice, and I'm ready to shooting tonight.

542
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: You know, I don't. I don't. I don't, I don't.

543
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 1: I don't have any anxiety about doing it. Already got

544
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: my fit, already, got my shoes, We just got locked

545
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 1: down on location. I want to shoot it in Oakland

546
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: for so much time in my life, and you know,

547
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: work out some details and then we'll do it. You

548
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: feel like you get the credit you deserve for all

549
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 1: that you've done and and open indoors for so many

550
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: different people in women, I don't really think I've opened

551
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 1: that many doors for anybody. Number One thinks no, because

552
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: there's nobody that's actually like me walking through them feeling.

553
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: And then also, um, do I feel like I get

554
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,959
Speaker 1: I think I get all the credit from the people.

555
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: The people give me my props constantly. I think I'm

556
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: the people's you know, comic type check. But the industry

557
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: I think is still a little scared to me because

558
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: you know, I have been known to Papa off, and

559
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: I know a good contract when I see one. I

560
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 1: know a trash one when I see one. It's so

561
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 1: much easier for them to work with a young, ambitious, eager,

562
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: quasi naive person that it is from. You get an

563
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: old bat like me that's coming with my attorney, coming

564
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: with my management. And then my team is black, it's

565
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: not white. A lot of times people in the industry,

566
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: whether it's a musician or a comic, they get to

567
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: a certain level than their whole team turns into this

568
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: U CATAJ committee. Yeah, and you know I'm I already

569
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: got my team with me. My agency I work for

570
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: is multi cultural. My male ages is black, female. Um,

571
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: my manager is black, My lawyer is black and from Oakland.

572
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: My accountant is Latina. You know, my house people Latino

573
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 1: e Latinas. So I just I think I come with

574
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: a lot for the average white male to be intimidated with.

575
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: So I think that you know, my talent is you know,

576
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 1: certifiable obviously, but um, you know, I've never been a

577
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: regular on it any kind of show like a you know,

578
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: like a family, you know, like like like like yeah,

579
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: I've never worked with like sad and one of those things.

580
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: I've never done that, and I've never had like a

581
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 1: lot of specials or anything like that because I'm trying

582
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 1: to be, you know, the next black woman in late night.

583
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 1: That's my goal because every night, you know, like I

584
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: grew up in the Carson era, Okay, but it's still

585
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: a white man after white man after white man, amber

586
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: white man after white man after white man in late

587
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: night and they got two names Jimmy. So you know,

588
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: it's time to break that up. That is my goal,

589
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: and I think, I mean, I've been trained for that

590
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: since before I left her. What do you think about it?

591
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna talk to you about some trending topics.

592
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: And you know, we saw bificuat Fox say that, you know,

593
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: she doesn't like the fact that Nick Cannon has all

594
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: of those kids. She don't think he can probably spend

595
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: time with all of them. And you know, they need

596
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 1: black families, need a strong black figure. What do you

597
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,080
Speaker 1: think about that? Well, I'm the eighth of eight children myself.

598
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I have seven brothers and sisters. Is all

599
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: on my Instagram Adelue nell L E E L L.

600
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 1: My whole family. You just had a family of un

601
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: I got a niece sitting right there. That's my sister's daughter. Um.

602
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a problem that you have so

603
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 1: many kids. I think it's a problem that you have

604
00:31:55,240 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: so many mamas. Yeah, a lot of people problem. Yeah.

605
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: You know, you can't be everywhere all the time, and

606
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: everybody's not going to get along. Talking to Nick about

607
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: this on his show on television, I don't know what

608
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: his goal is. And anytime you have two women praying

609
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: at the same time, that's problematic. I think it's problematic. Yeah.

610
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: And but the women, they have to take some accountability too.

611
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: Obviously they want to have these children. You know, what

612
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: do you tell yourself when your baby Mama number eight

613
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: or baby Mama number nine. Nick can live his life

614
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: and do what he want, But you know I wouldn't.

615
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have a baby for I'd just be a

616
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: side chick that has his benefits too. All right, We

617
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: got more with lu Nelle when we come back. It's

618
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody's ch Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne,

619
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club were still kicking

620
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: it with lu Nelle Charlomagne. I wonder why why nick

621
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: situation is so loud though, because I think, like Eddie

622
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 1: Murphy got ten kids with dad, you don't have nine

623
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: baby mamas though, just two? Really? Five of those kids

624
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: are from the cool okay, and then he's got Paige,

625
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: but then it's the Spice girl. Oh yeah her so

626
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I think he got more than three baby

627
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 1: mother You got three. There's three Google that Eddie got three.

628
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, but that's a good perspective. I never

629
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 1: thought about it like that. It's not the kids, it's

630
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 1: the amount of baby man. Correct. The kids will adapt,

631
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: you know, they'll play with their brothers and the sisters

632
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: and all that. But let's say he wants to get

633
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 1: all the kids together. Yea, now all the moms are together? Yeah,

634
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: whose rain has been bigger than who's? Who's got one?

635
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: Who don't have one? Children? With five women? Five? Lord, Eddie,

636
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: I was trying to have your back, Eddie, Paige, Nicole, Paulette,

637
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: Tamara And yeah, I don't know Paula and Tamara. But

638
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: you know, it's not for me to know. I don't

639
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: know what would happened. If I had ten kids with

640
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: six different guys, they'd be calling me a hu. So

641
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 1: it's double standard. It definitely is. I get the only

642
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 1: thing I disagreed with when she said that he can't

643
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: he can't be a strong black male figure for the kids.

644
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: I disagree with that part. He still is. He's still

645
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 1: a good dude. I think she meant like in the household.

646
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 1: Yeah he's like yeah, yeah, I agree with that. I agree.

647
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: He's not gonna be able to spend the time. If

648
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 1: you got three kids sick at the same time, yeah,

649
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 1: and three different houses, Yeah that's wild. Yeah, yeah, I

650
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: mean I have six and it's difficult for me and

651
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: they all in my same house. Yeah yeah, I saw that. Man,

652
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: I got six VU be shooting them down? But you

653
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 1: know what, but they all in the same house, so

654
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 1: it's not like I gotta go to you know, you infertile.

655
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:56,320
Speaker 1: Yeah that's who? Well, right, us eight are fame parents.

656
00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: So you're the youngest. Yeah, I'm the baby. Okay, all

657
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 1: your siblings are alive and everything. No, okay, I have

658
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: one sister. I got a murder. Oh h how was

659
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: that growing up? You being the youngest, Did you get

660
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: picked on or were you the one that they always protected? No,

661
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 1: I got picked on. That's why that's so strong. Yeah.

662
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: And like I said, we just had a family reunion

663
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:27,320
Speaker 1: in Arkansas and it was only four days. Is usually Thurs, Friday, Saturday, Sunday,

664
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 1: and that's enough. So during the family union, are you

665
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 1: the one that has to do comedy or you do

666
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: you do comedy during your family union? I absolutely do not,

667
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 1: but I have. I have, and they always trying to

668
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: get me. You know you're gonna be and I just

669
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: come a little rock. You couldn't come text scanner. I'm like,

670
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 1: I didn't come here for that, you know. I came

671
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 1: to spend time with my sibs. That's what it is.

672
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 1: That what's the hardest part about being a comedian that

673
00:35:52,360 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: people don't talk about um relationship and parenting. Oh very difficult.

674
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: It makes it so difficult that you're on the road. Yeah,

675
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: And that's why one of the reasons why I want

676
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 1: to be the next Black Woman in Late Night because

677
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: I want to be stable. But when I have a grandchild,

678
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to be on the road for that.

679
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: My daughter's gonna need me. I need to be around.

680
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 1: I kept be doing this and leaving her alone with

681
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: the first you know, the first time mother. And I

682
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 1: know how difficult I was because I got my mother

683
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: passed away. In the next month, I got pregnant, and

684
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 1: so I had to have my child without my mom.

685
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: I don't want my daughter to have to do that.

686
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: So I want to get stable and not be on

687
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: the road so much. The road is the audiences is

688
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 1: my That's where my heart lies, you know, the insect gratification,

689
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: the meeting of the people. That's why it's not like

690
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: a bummer for me to be back in the clubs

691
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 1: as opposed to the arena. The arena is a big machine.

692
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,919
Speaker 1: That's a big monstrosity of machine. But in the club

693
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: I can talk to somebody right there. I can talk

694
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: to somebody right there. They can smell me, they can

695
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: feel me, and all that kind of stuff. And I

696
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: really like the clubs and stuff. But I just do

697
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: not I want to even if I got my show,

698
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: when I get nice shows existence and I get my

699
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: late night show, I will still want to do stand

700
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 1: up somewhere around the country, maybe twice a month. Got you,

701
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 1: but not not every week like I'm doing. They can

702
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: see you this week and you're gonna be at Carolines.

703
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: I am starting tonight and then um to tomorrow on

704
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 1: Saturday and one on Sunday. That's right, So two shows tonight,

705
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: two shows Saturday, one show on Sunday. Makes your head

706
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 1: out to Carolines and shout out to the good people

707
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 1: like Carolines. It always holds it. Now, but who you're

708
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 1: going out of time? And are you going? Charltagne? I

709
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 1: feel like you haven't sat and watched me. I wanted

710
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: to go. I want you to. I feel like people

711
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 1: that see me is one thing where if you don't

712
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: see me on stage, you really don't know. Now, I'm

713
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: gonna coming this weekend. I'm here this weekend. Okay, what

714
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: you do now, I'm come. I'nna come this weekend. I'm

715
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: gon text Greg Gooday, I'm coming. All right. I don't

716
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: know what day yet, but I'm coming. That's okay, Yeah, alright,

717
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: it's little now check her out of Carolina this weekend.

718
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,439
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, and your picture still

719
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: up there? You see what It's never coming down? Well,

720
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: I mean it might come down from in here and

721
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: put up somewhere else. Well, I'm very excited to the

722
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:38,720
Speaker 1: breakfast club. Good morning, you get you. I'm gonna fatten

723
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: all that around your want this man two Dolden blowers.

724
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 1: Many wait with Charlemagne to make a judgment. Who was

725
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 1: gonna be on the donkey of the day. They chose

726
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: you breakfast many of the day to day donkey today

727
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: go to a young woman named Tiger Russia Tis. It

728
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 1: is twenty nine years old and she's from the great

729
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 1: state of New Jersey. Up on a clous box from

730
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 1: New Jersey demo. Now, before we talk about Todger, let

731
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: me ask y'all the question out there. When the last

732
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,359
Speaker 1: time you got stood up? When is the last time

733
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 1: you told someone you wanted to take them out and

734
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 1: didn't show up? Huh? When is the last time you

735
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: told someone to come over and you fell asleep on

736
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: their ass? I have homeboys now who are not married,

737
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 1: not in a committed relationship, not part of this faithful

738
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,360
Speaker 1: black male community, and they tell me stories like this

739
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 1: all the time, especially when we out of time. All right,

740
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: women come to the hotel and be downstairs in the

741
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 1: lobby for hours because said individual has fallen asleep on

742
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 1: their ass. Every time I hit stories like this, I

743
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: feel for those women, because to me, this is a

744
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: different level of disrespect. All Right, If a man calls

745
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: you over and tells you that he fell asleep on you,

746
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 1: he's an eight lyne because he was going through his

747
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 1: phone and decided to call a couple of different chicks,

748
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: And whoever got there first is who he's with. Hinch,

749
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 1: Why he is not answering for you or b You

750
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: just don't excite him like that. Okay, you're not falling

751
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: asleep on a woman. You are really excited to see.

752
00:39:59,520 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: In fact, that adrenaline rush you get from seeing a

753
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,520
Speaker 1: being around a woman you're into. It's gonna wake your

754
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 1: ass up, all right, you got a woman coming over,

755
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 1: you get excited, all right. You think you're gonna get

756
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 1: some ass. So you gonna hop your ass in the shower,

757
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: and that shower gonna wake you up. Then you're gonna

758
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,439
Speaker 1: lotion up, throw on some basketball shorts, in the fresh

759
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: T shirt, spray some cologne on, roll up something, smoke,

760
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 1: paul you a glass or something, and waiting for the

761
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 1: young lady you called over to arrive. Okay, I fell asleep,

762
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: He fell asleep. How boring was your box that the

763
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: thought of you coming over puts a man to sleep,

764
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,879
Speaker 1: all right, So yes, ladies, you should feel extremely disrespected

765
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 1: when you come to see a man and he tells

766
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: you I fell asleep. That you wouldn't feel disrespected? Gives

767
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:42,800
Speaker 1: that happened to you? Yeah, I'd be annoyed that I

768
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,240
Speaker 1: came out of my way. Then that's exactly what happened

769
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: to Taja M. Russell. Now, according to the New York

770
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: Daily News, Tiger was the side chick. All right. That's

771
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: the New York Daily News words, not mine, all right.

772
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 1: Tiger was this young man she was visiting side chicken.

773
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: The young man told authorities that he asked Russell to

774
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: come to his house for sex, but he fell asleep

775
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: before she arrived. Disrespectful. When Tiger got to the man's house,

776
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,879
Speaker 1: she called him eight times, eight times, but he didn't

777
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: pick up. After eight phone calls, she allegedly texted man,

778
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 1: I see you want to die, followed by you wasted

779
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 1: my money to come out of here. And then around

780
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:25,359
Speaker 1: four am, security camera saw Maga knocking on this young

781
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: man's door and he still didn't answer. Ladies, when this

782
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: is over, rewind and listen to what I said about

783
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: a man disrespecting you. The level of disrespect this young

784
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 1: woman Tiger received. It's four in the morning. You got

785
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,919
Speaker 1: there and called eight times, You're knocked on his door,

786
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: and he eggetting the hell out of you, not to

787
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:46,399
Speaker 1: mention you already his side, chick, What else is there

788
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: to do, especially after you sent him that I see

789
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 1: you want to die texts, Well, you gotta attempt to

790
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 1: kill him. Let's go to News twelve New Jersey to

791
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: see how Tiger and Russell handled this situation. A woman

792
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: is accused of setting a man's home on fire after

793
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 1: she was invited over for a late night rendezvous. Police

794
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: say the small, twenty nine year olds Hasia Russell, went

795
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 1: to the home on Barbara Avenue, North Jersey. Dot Com

796
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 1: reports the man fell asleep did not answer the door.

797
00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 1: They say that's when Russell set the home on fire.

798
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: The man was taken to the hospital with burns and

799
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 1: smoking elation. Tiger was determined to have a hot date.

800
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 1: All right, Remember when I told you that if a

801
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: man falls asleep on you before you get there, that

802
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: means the thought of your poom poom makes them sleepy.

803
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 1: You out there giving out that boring ass box. Well,

804
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: I think Tiger realized that in her mind, and she

805
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: was not leaving that house that night without the word

806
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 1: fire coming out of that man's mouth. She wanted that

807
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 1: worry to be you to describe her vagina, but she

808
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 1: didn't get that opportunity, so she decided to set his

809
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 1: crib a blaze. Okay, I'm gonna be honest with you.

810
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 1: Other than her having an arson charge and an attempted

811
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 1: murder charge and being held without bail, I kind of

812
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: feel him, all right. See, let's just be a lesson

813
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: to you fools, all right. Stop standing women up like

814
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: that after you didn't waste dead time and g and

815
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: money that comes see you. All right, it's disrespectful and

816
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 1: just not right. But ladies, don't be like Taja. When

817
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 1: a man doesn't value you, doesn't appreciate you, stands you up.

818
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,320
Speaker 1: Don't do what Taja did, even though it hurts not

819
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 1: to react. All right, don't do it Taija did. Yeah.

820
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: I know you really want to work this out, but

821
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,239
Speaker 1: I don't think this man is ever gonna change. All

822
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 1: right when you do, but they don't. I just think

823
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: it's best you go your separate ways, all right. Sometimes

824
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 1: you have to ask yourself, why should I stay in

825
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 1: this relationship. When you're hurting, baby, you ain't happy baby.

826
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: Let's just just so many other things you gotta deal with.

827
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 1: So I just think that you shouldn't let it burn.

828
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: Might might just put bis meminems or something, some peanut

829
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 1: eminem's or something. My goodness, I feel her pain a

830
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: little bit. All right, Well, thank you for that donkey today.

831
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:53,320
Speaker 1: Now it's very literal and true to her words. What

832
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 1: did you get having her heart as thought at four

833
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 1: in the morning. All right, we got more coming up

834
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: next with a breakfast club. The breakfast club. If she

835
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 1: has an issue respecting what you need from her, then

836
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: it feels like, you know, I don't know how a

837
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,399
Speaker 1: relationship can work if you're telling somebody that certain things

838
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 1: aren't acceptable and they're not in agreeance with you, or

839
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: they're not saying, Okay, I'm gonna let him know not

840
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 1: to call me anymore. I won't take his calls anymore.

841
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 1: And she's still speaking to him. Well, according to her,

842
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,320
Speaker 1: she has been spoken to him, and I believe her. Okay.

843
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: My deeper concern is the fact that there's this reoccurring

844
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 1: theme of selfishness that she doesn't seem to get. But

845
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,320
Speaker 1: you said she's not talking to him at all, So

846
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: she did listen to you, right, So the problem is,

847
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,959
Speaker 1: like Chris rockinscribed, like the penis in the glass case,

848
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 1: Like if you allow people to hang around, you know,

849
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:47,919
Speaker 1: one day, maybe we have an argument when he calls,

850
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,919
Speaker 1: maybe she decides to take the call. But you said

851
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,839
Speaker 1: she's not she's not talking to him anymore. And look,

852
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: you believe her. She says she doesn't speak to him,

853
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: and that's it, and you believe her. I do believe her.

854
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 1: But so you're telling me that you think this, like

855
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: to a laugh, I thought you just said she's not talking.

856
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: I don't think it's acceptable. You told her something she

857
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: told you she doesn't speak to him. You believe her.

858
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,479
Speaker 1: So that issue feels like it should be a close

859
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 1: issue because she's not speaking to him, right all I

860
00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: ask to tell a guy, listen, I'm in a relationship.

861
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: I need you to stop doing it. Okay, So you

862
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: want her to be more confrontational. Absolutely, So it's not

863
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,439
Speaker 1: acceptable for you if she's just like, I'm not talking

864
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: to him anymore and just fades out and doesn't respond

865
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 1: to his messages or calls. Right, you don't block the guy.

866
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 1: You don't you don't let him know to stop calling

867
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: it sounds like to me that you know, uh, you

868
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: don't want you Okay, addressed it right, she doesn't want

869
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 1: to stop. I do feel like because I'm also that time,

870
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 1: I don't really block people like that, and like some

871
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 1: of my exes might sometimes hit me up, but I

872
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 1: just am not responsive to it. To me, that's good enough,

873
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: but you know for you it's not. And she told

874
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,880
Speaker 1: you about it, so she's being open and honest with

875
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 1: you in that way, and she's not speaking to him anymore.

876
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 1: I think you know her to do things the way

877
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: that you want her to do them, and she's doing

878
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: them the way that is her behavior. I'm not a

879
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 1: confrontational like don't speak too many or leave me alone,

880
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: don't call me a black you type of person. I'm

881
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,439
Speaker 1: more of a if you hit me and do these things,

882
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,759
Speaker 1: I just won't respond. But you don't like the way

883
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 1: that she's handling it. No, But I mean, but to

884
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: hear you, to hear you expression like that allows me

885
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 1: to look at it from a different perspective because the

886
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 1: main thing is that you don't want her speaking to him,

887
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 1: and you want that respect right now, The way that

888
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 1: she does it is maybe more in line with her personality.

889
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: And when you say it that way, that is right.

890
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: Some people are not hush like that or brutally honest.

891
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,080
Speaker 1: I'm more of a I'm a just you know, I'm

892
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:45,800
Speaker 1: not trying to have this conversation to do all that.

893
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 1: I'm ana just fade out, right. So instead of me

894
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: calling herself, which maybe I can look at it as

895
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: me attempting to put the way I feal things on

896
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 1: with deal with things on her. Yeah, she doesn't have

897
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 1: to handle it. But I do feel like if the

898
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 1: result is what you guys went like, that's the result

899
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: that you wanted, do not communicate with him, You're still

900
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:06,880
Speaker 1: getting that result. Okay, school, Thanks she and So I

901
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: just want to say to all three of you guys, um,

902
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: I really stilly appreciate the way the show us evolved

903
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 1: into a voice the community, Like I really appreciate that.

904
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 1: It's one. Let you guys know that. I think, thank you,

905
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 1: we appreciate you listening. You're the best. But yeah, so

906
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: I wish you luck with your relationship and you know,

907
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 1: keep those lines of communication up. But she should be

908
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: able to tell you anything. I think it's good that

909
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,800
Speaker 1: she comes to you and let you know what's going on,

910
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: but you don't want her to not tell you right right,

911
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 1: all right, thank god, no problem, take care all right?

912
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: Ask ye ain't andred five eight five one oh five one.

913
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,720
Speaker 1: If you need relationship advice and any type of advice,

914
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: call ye. Now it's the breakfast Club. Good morning. I'm

915
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 1: gonna keep a real way of what there's some real

916
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 1: advice with Angela yet, ask ye morning. Everybody's d j

917
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: envy Angela yee. Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast

918
00:47:56,920 --> 00:48:00,879
Speaker 1: club with in the middle of ask ye Hello, who's this? Hi? This? See? Hey?

919
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 1: What's your question for you? Hie? Okay, So, long story short,

920
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you if you're seeing this guy

921
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: and you're all in with him, which I was, and

922
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: he wanted to test you to see how you do

923
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 1: react in a situation. Um like, given I was all

924
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 1: in and he wasn't just yet, so he wanted to

925
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: do a little test. Is he there right now? Yes?

926
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 1: He is? Okay, so what did he do to you?

927
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 1: He basically told me to get out at one o'clock

928
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: in the morning, and he and he's a situation so

929
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: he want to tell me to get out at twelve

930
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: o'clock at night and had a dead straight face and

931
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 1: let me go ahead and do so. But I was like,

932
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 1: I was all in with you and are you serious

933
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: right now? And he was like yes, I'm like really

934
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 1: like like f you, I was all in, like I

935
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 1: wasn't holding anything back and like everything it was so funflicted.

936
00:48:57,160 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: I told him, because like if you want to test somebody,

937
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: why are we you test them that way? And yes,

938
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: I was up, Yes I cut you out because you

939
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: made me feel like everything I did was a subside,

940
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 1: like it was like all a lie and you just

941
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: look at me dead in my eyes, go on, come

942
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:11,959
Speaker 1: me get out. He's like, well, you know I would

943
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: never do that. For really, you should have laughed it

944
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: off and be like, oh you're joking, Like why would

945
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 1: someone think that that is a joke. You know, that's

946
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,760
Speaker 1: not that's not funny, especially in the middle. That's actually dangerous.

947
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:23,719
Speaker 1: What if something could happen to you? What if you

948
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: left the house? It was a test, and I should

949
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: have laughed it off. I should have known, like better

950
00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: officer's a heartline. You should ask both side of the

951
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 1: story and at this big grown age, why are we

952
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: testing people in relationships grown age? Because it's been hurt

953
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 1: in the past every relationship. My wife can I can

954
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 1: we speak to him? I don't understand what's going on

955
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 1: here is we'll talk because he wanted to talk. So

956
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: so what happened? Why would you kick her out of

957
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 1: the house. I'm an honest and loyal, an honest guy

958
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 1: in every relationship with beiding, I think much stepped on

959
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 1: it hurt well, my wife asked me where in the time.

960
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: I didn't want to do it. So we're into that.

961
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm into a different thing. I actually like, like you guys,

962
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: you don't want to hear were lingerie, and like I

963
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 1: enjoy bisexual men, and I enjoy watching gay porn like

964
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 1: you don't cost Okay, so he's bisexual, remember, Okay, Now,

965
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,840
Speaker 1: I don't understand the test of kicking someone out. What

966
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: does that prove? And I just wanted to see how

967
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 1: but he's situation would go if we was into one.

968
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 1: And it was a simple little question. Were never kicked

969
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:39,399
Speaker 1: her out of my house at one in the morning,

970
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 1: But you shouldn't even threatened somebody to do that. How

971
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 1: do you think that makes her feel? But then she

972
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,359
Speaker 1: decided to say, she's gonna sit in my face. I guy,

973
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,359
Speaker 1: I was willing to, I said, I wanted to. What's

974
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: wrong with that? That's sexuation? So I tested her earlier.

975
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: Im glad I did, Mike. I found out how she

976
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: really is. Yeah, but what about how you are? I

977
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 1: don't understand. Let me tell you that I was so

978
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: angry I can't remember because baby blacked out. Who wouldn't

979
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,160
Speaker 1: who wouldn't Let me ask you, sir, who wouldn't get

980
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,320
Speaker 1: mad if someone kicked them out of the house at midnight?

981
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: That man his match, like I broke stuff, like I

982
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 1: wanted to grab her, said I wish I could. I

983
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: wanted to spend in him face. What's what's man er?

984
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:26,959
Speaker 1: How did you turn by sexual? I'm now we're asking

985
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 1: the real questions. Okay, I'm glad. Now are you asking I.

986
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 1: We'll talk about this then, so like it's not man lingerie,

987
00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: it's like lingree that I would wear. Okay, Yeah, sometimes

988
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: we match walk around wearing heels, and that's why he

989
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 1: thinks he's by. Now he thinks he's by just because

990
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: he wore your panties. Let me tell you, guys, his

991
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: wife exhorted him and how weerae and nothing the pictures

992
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:58,840
Speaker 1: and put him on social media pretending it. But I

993
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 1: would say this, that sounds it's very traumatic for you, sir.

994
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: That sounds like a traumatic thing when you trust somebody

995
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 1: and they betrayed you your trust in that way. But

996
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 1: but if you can find somebody right who accepts you

997
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:18,399
Speaker 1: from who you are, why would you cause why would

998
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: you cause issues in your relationship unnecessarily? He's not bisexual

999
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 1: just because he wore a woman's laing. I didn't hear

1000
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: that part. He said, That's what I'm trying to get to.

1001
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:33,840
Speaker 1: His wife was making him feel ashamed of it. But

1002
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,320
Speaker 1: he probably found his match, which was me, because I

1003
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 1: am into bisexualman who wear lingerie and watching that type

1004
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: of thing. He slept with a man before? Has he

1005
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:47,399
Speaker 1: slept with a man before? The guy? You know? The guy?

1006
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 1: But sexual a man together, like have a three way

1007
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 1: with two guys and he will receive and might be

1008
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 1: giving me oral and getting back from like I mean,

1009
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,319
Speaker 1: I enjoy that stuff like this. I'm listening. Okay, if

1010
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: you let whatever y'all like to do in your relationship

1011
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 1: is your guy's business. But I do want to say

1012
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 1: in reference to the question. Okay, don't sabotage your relationship

1013
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 1: because something previously didn't work out. You got to start

1014
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 1: from zero man and yelled at or to get out,

1015
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: no matter if you wrote it down on a piece

1016
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 1: of paprit shouldn't do you Guys have to learn how

1017
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 1: to communicate in a better, more responsible way, and every

1018
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:27,399
Speaker 1: relationship is a risk. Are you willing to take that risk?

1019
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 1: Because no matter what, no matter what type of test

1020
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 1: you put somebody through, you don't know what's gonna happen

1021
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 1: when a real thing comes up. So don't create drama

1022
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: because you've been traumatized before. No drama with its nout're gone.

1023
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 1: A woman comes in house, you spend sixty I don't

1024
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: think you respect you because you're bottom to stop it.

1025
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: But I will say this. Just listening to this conversation,

1026
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 1: I realized that you guys don't listen to each other.

1027
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 1: You guys continually talk over each other. And there's no

1028
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 1: possible too many people in the room. Two people, but

1029
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: you can possibly understand each other if y'a don't get

1030
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 1: each other's thoughts out. Every time she talks, he talks

1031
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 1: over him, and every time he talks, she talks over him.

1032
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: How could y'all possibly understand each other and listen to

1033
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:12,879
Speaker 1: each other if you're not allowing each other? And he'd

1034
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 1: rather be with a man. He just told her that.

1035
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: He was like, that's why I I'd rather deal with

1036
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: a man, because men, you know, don't do all of this.

1037
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: That's what he said that. All right, Well, look maybe

1038
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 1: you guys are in a match then if that's what

1039
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:28,920
Speaker 1: you're saying your preference is, like, that's why I did

1040
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 1: what I did. No, you doing what you did? I'm

1041
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: glad you did. All right, guys, it feels like he doesn't.

1042
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: This is you know, you're not for him through life.

1043
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 1: I was all in, you know, willing to take that

1044
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 1: risk for you know, taking another chance on being hurt

1045
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,480
Speaker 1: again by being all in with one. I felt like

1046
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,360
Speaker 1: it wasn't match. I didn't feel like I needed to

1047
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: test him. I never did test him. I made a

1048
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: promise to myself to that further on early in the morning.

1049
00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: Have y'all had preference and at least now you know

1050
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 1: what it is? Right? Yeah? Now, I got to be

1051
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,359
Speaker 1: an independent I told you that that was anybody would

1052
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:07,959
Speaker 1: be angry doing Are you saying that anybody wouldn't be angry.

1053
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,840
Speaker 1: They would have. I didn't react with that. I was

1054
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: supposed to react belligerent. It sounds to me like you

1055
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:17,439
Speaker 1: need a power top in your life. Man, Man, would

1056
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:18,960
Speaker 1: you respect him if he was a power top and

1057
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: not a messy bottom? They listen, man, I didn't didn't matter.

1058
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:25,439
Speaker 1: It was only giving her chance because she had me fallen.

1059
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: I wasn't even gonna date women again. Okay, but what

1060
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:32,399
Speaker 1: do you see? Do you hear what he's saying? Women again? Yeah,

1061
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:33,960
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to be with you. It looks like

1062
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 1: this is not what he wants. And maybe I mean

1063
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 1: I've moved on. We could be friends, but let's move on.

1064
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 1: Maybe him doing this was his way of trying to

1065
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:43,799
Speaker 1: break up with you in a passive way. I put

1066
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: both put your lips on him. I probably should have

1067
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: put just one of them on sting handle it. He

1068
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 1: don't want that no more? Boo, he want cheeks. Okay,

1069
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:52,839
Speaker 1: you don't have what he want no more. It's over.

1070
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: That's what it sounds, all right. Woman is not gonna

1071
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 1: work if he goes through like testing them like are

1072
00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 1: testing and I'm like playing game like what people? Most

1073
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: you ever hear? Crime of passion I just ate him

1074
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 1: who she threatened the crime of passion? He said, he

1075
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 1: only f guy you know on datum. Wow, good luck, guys,

1076
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 1: Thank you go your separate ways. Please man drop one

1077
00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: of clues bomb for Tyler Perry because I know he

1078
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 1: executive produced that phone call. That was asking you, guys,

1079
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:26,799
Speaker 1: we answer any question. Sound like a Tyler Perry movie.

1080
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 1: We got rumors on the way tonight on bet Plus. Wow.

1081
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 1: That was incredible. That call gave me everything I need.

1082
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: I'm taking that home on me. I'm gonna listening to

1083
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: that later on the podcast. I'm gonna listen to that

1084
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:44,800
Speaker 1: late on the Brookers Club podcast. That was an incredible

1085
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: phone call. All right, but Diddy says he is uncanceling

1086
00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 1: the canceled We'll tell you what he's talking about. Besides,

1087
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:53,720
Speaker 1: you think his feet is to have to wear women's hiles.

1088
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 1: I don't know. We ain't offer him no expert advice. Easy,

1089
00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:58,879
Speaker 1: what kind of advice? She threatened the man with murder?

1090
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:00,799
Speaker 1: She said, she said, you ever heard of a crime

1091
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 1: of passage? We just let that go on there. It's like, well,

1092
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:06,839
Speaker 1: he responded, he said, that's why I don't that's only

1093
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 1: the only guys don't damn there you go? Wow the

1094
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 1: hell you go too far? What the breakfast Club? It's

1095
00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 1: that time again, asked Charlomagne and dj Envy anything pick

1096
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 1: it up, pick it up, pick it up morning. Everybody

1097
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy and Juli Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We

1098
00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: are the breakfast Club. It's time for ass C and E.

1099
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 1: If you need relationship advice at any type of advice,

1100
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:39,440
Speaker 1: you can call us. Hello. Who's this? Yo? Yos? Do

1101
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 1: not have to be anonymous on the radio. You gotta

1102
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 1: do to say another name. You could have made up

1103
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: a name, But what's your question for seeing me? Bro?

1104
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 1: He was still a name either way, A little I

1105
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 1: was living food right and I knew the person I

1106
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: was living food too, but it was an old cobo

1107
00:57:55,200 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: and the dude, the boyfriend came out and started like,

1108
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 1: what's the would you saying with my girl stolen on me?

1109
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: I'm literally delivering foo like doing that dude stole on me?

1110
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:06,600
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm trying to figure out

1111
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 1: did I get him stranging? Knows that I would telling

1112
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 1: the hood way like, man, shut up that man, punch

1113
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:13,280
Speaker 1: you in your face right then and there you ain't

1114
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: doing nothing. You ain't gonna do nothing after the fact,

1115
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: leave it alone. Why you go back to the house, Broe,

1116
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: you better stay away from that man. Hey that point? Hey,

1117
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 1: that punch hurt everything about Hey, did that punch hurt? Nah?

1118
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: Don't lie, tell the truth, Tell the truth. So why

1119
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 1: you ain't hit him back? Then? If the punch ain't

1120
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 1: hurt because it was like literally stolen on me, then

1121
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 1: literally just put me in the joke old and then

1122
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 1: then he put you in the dope feet. So you

1123
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 1: ain't he beat you up there? He beat you up.

1124
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 1: It's okay. So when you got back up what happened?

1125
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: Literally he will gone. Like when you woke up he

1126
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 1: was doing Yeah, after you woke up, he was gone.

1127
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 1: He ain't gonna stick around. You sleep for ten minutes

1128
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: and the words of Craig's daddy and Friday, Okay, you

1129
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 1: win something, you lose something, but you live to fight

1130
00:58:56,800 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 1: another day. Huh. No, man, I ain't gonna do nothing

1131
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 1: and stop, But why do you want to retaliate? Leave

1132
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 1: with you exactly on his head? How old are you?

1133
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 1: How old are you? How old are you? How old

1134
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:14,040
Speaker 1: are you? Well? Listen, I was born in nineteen hundred

1135
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: and seventy eight. I turned for it. I turned forty

1136
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: four yesterday. You come. We come from an era where

1137
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: if you lose a fist fight, you just lose a

1138
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: fifth fight. Leave it at that, Leave it alone, bro,

1139
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 1: Ain't that okay? Well listen, if you want to retaliate

1140
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: asking for a fan one, then oh that's a I

1141
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 1: don't do that because he bro with me. Trust me, bro,

1142
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 1: he whipped your ass one time. It ain't worth it

1143
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 1: ain't worth it because think about it like this, right,

1144
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:42,920
Speaker 1: think about it like this. You retaliate, you do something, now,

1145
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: you go into jail. It's if it's a fan one.

1146
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm cool with that, though, as long as they ain't

1147
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 1: no like this, wouldn't dude put him in the dope

1148
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,160
Speaker 1: and he's just gonna get putting the dope feet again.

1149
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: You're gonna train, You're gonna train before the next fight.

1150
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 1: That look, it ain't no training. It ain't no training

1151
00:59:57,040 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 1: with it. You train. It's okay, man, Listen, I listen.

1152
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 1: I didn't got punched on camera. Bro, You know you

1153
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:06,080
Speaker 1: don't seen the Can I get a drop? I ain't

1154
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,800
Speaker 1: got no time for retaliation? Who cans like we're too old?

1155
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: Let it go. Let it go, you've already know you

1156
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 1: that's even worse. Exactly, I got punched in the head

1157
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: and got seen by millions of people. You think you

1158
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:21,440
Speaker 1: think I'm sitting around here. You know, all the more

1159
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: reason for you to let it go, sir, all the

1160
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: more reason I retaliate. No, why, okay, jail. You're gonna retaliate.

1161
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 1: You're gonna hurt him. You're gonna go to jail. Is

1162
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 1: it worth it? No, we don't know if you're gonna die.

1163
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:33,959
Speaker 1: You're gonna hurt him, now, Okay, So imagine a question.

1164
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: If you go get a fair one, you and him

1165
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:37,680
Speaker 1: just fight straight up. If he beat you again, then

1166
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 1: what they gonna go for a third time. I'm gonna

1167
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:45,439
Speaker 1: call him fair fight. You're gonna what I'm gonna call him? Fight? Dude?

1168
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: Su All right, I'm gonna tell you what to do then,

1169
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 1: because you said you either want to fight again and

1170
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:53,360
Speaker 1: you want to press charges. Right, Oh, you just said

1171
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 1: you want to get rescreen to get restraight, No, they

1172
01:00:55,920 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 1: got a press charges? Oh I want you to press yards. No, no, no, no,

1173
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 1: I'd rather you press charge. I'd rather you get a

1174
01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 1: rescreen in order. You're about to lose your job and

1175
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 1: you're about to go jol with doing something stupid and alone. Man,

1176
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 1: That man, That man then beat you up so bad

1177
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 1: you want to get a rescreening order. So I don't know.

1178
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,560
Speaker 1: Why are you acting all tough? Now? Let it go, bro,

1179
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 1: have a good one man, But no, don't hang up

1180
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: on this man. You don't want You're gonna let it go.

1181
01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 1: Maybe do you have kids? Bro? Nah man, let it

1182
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: Your mom and daddy gonna have to visit you in

1183
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 1: jail because you're gonna do something stupid. Leave it a

1184
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 1: little when something we lose something, Let it go. Did

1185
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 1: your girl? See you did your girl? So you get

1186
01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 1: beat up? Nah? I then so let it go. Nobody

1187
01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 1: saw it. Nobody even know that's and you anonymous. Nobody

1188
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:42,080
Speaker 1: knows this happened. Bro. If it's not on video, nobody

1189
01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 1: saw it. Let it go. Chase the narratives tell everybody

1190
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: you beat him up. Nobody seen it it up. You

1191
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 1: could have called up here line does yes, I ain't

1192
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:55,480
Speaker 1: a will see. Don't do nothing stupid, bro, God bless

1193
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:58,000
Speaker 1: you man, goodness, grac Then you're healing energy. Man, he

1194
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 1: got knocked out. The man then hit you and old

1195
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 1: you out and you talk about you want the first

1196
01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 1: thing he did when he called up, he was saying,

1197
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:06,920
Speaker 1: should I get restraining on it or retaliate? Then you

1198
01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 1: know how bad somebody got to do you. If you

1199
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 1: want to get cred in order, let's get the restraint.

1200
01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 1: Let's relax, man, come on, let it go. I seeing

1201
01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 1: the eight hundred five A five one oh five one.

1202
01:02:15,320 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: If you got questions for us, call us now. It's

1203
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:23,400
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. The morning. It's topic time. The phone

1204
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:27,320
Speaker 1: called eight hundred five A five one oh five. Want

1205
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 1: to join it to the discussion with the Breakfast club,

1206
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: talk about it morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee,

1207
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now after

1208
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 1: you're just joining us, we're asking if social media ruined relationships.

1209
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 1: Now this conversation comes from Drink Champs and Booty Bootsey

1210
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: was on drink Camps and this is what he had

1211
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 1: to say. Everything marriages at first, your bit, you just

1212
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:57,280
Speaker 1: see that work you and come home. Now she got

1213
01:02:57,320 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: about thirty thousand looking you don't act right, and she

1214
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 1: hit my tide out all of them aground. She ain't

1215
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: getting so all that time, you didn't put it in

1216
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: with no money everything w two, No, you had to

1217
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 1: look at what your side at work? You can't home

1218
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:21,440
Speaker 1: and come back now you hit my tide, you get

1219
01:03:21,480 --> 01:03:24,920
Speaker 1: your can you see about just look better? It made

1220
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 1: us whole eight hundred five eight five one on five one.

1221
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 1: Let's go to the phone lines. Hello, who's this yo?

1222
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 1: This was a relly? Was good? DJA? What's up my GRELLI?

1223
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: You sound like a Cheatah? Yes, yeah, I'm sorry. I apologize.

1224
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 1: Who are you sorry too? Listen, listen, I'll cheating or

1225
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 1: every woman I've been and so make it a good

1226
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 1: person for how old are you ever saying to make

1227
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 1: me a good person? But it just makes me your

1228
01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 1: honest personal How old are you? Arrelli? Oh? Dirty? So

1229
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 1: damn all? You know what social media? Listen, social media

1230
01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: does relationship. I've been without without here for without social media,

1231
01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 1: you would have ruined every relationship. That's how though, I

1232
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 1: want to hear how why you gotta you gotta understand?

1233
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 1: I learned that people gotta learn how to conduct themselves

1234
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: over social media? Okay, as people as in you, well,

1235
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 1: of course me. But I'm just saying as humor racing

1236
01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 1: all you know, everybody, I think social media is over

1237
01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 1: sexualized everything. You know, Hey, I don't think you should

1238
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: blame social media on the fact that you're prone the cheat.

1239
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 1: That depends on who you follow, right, well, no, no,

1240
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 1: I'm not really. You don't depend on who he swallowed

1241
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:40,920
Speaker 1: and who's swallowing you. It's just what its put out

1242
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 1: is full like social media is. Everybody go out there

1243
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 1: just to show themselves for They're gonna show up what

1244
01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 1: they're doing. They're gonna show our funny bodies, looks and

1245
01:04:51,600 --> 01:04:55,760
Speaker 1: should I learned from my situation. Okay, situation, you know

1246
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I want to as the people

1247
01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 1: as a group, as everybody, you know, as a human race.

1248
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: You know, I want them to be able to do

1249
01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 1: the same thing I to mix my wrong. You know

1250
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:12,120
Speaker 1: that everybody ain't cheating Rizarelli. Some of us are members

1251
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 1: of the faithful black male community. Okay, Amen, Hello, who's this?

1252
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: You are the girl and I've never had and I

1253
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 1: want to get to know you bad leave uncle on

1254
01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 1: what's gonna talk to us? Mama. I was saying that

1255
01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 1: social media has definitely messed it up for um. You know,

1256
01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 1: being in the relationship, you really are cheated huh, not

1257
01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 1: at all? So why why? Why is it messing up

1258
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:43,160
Speaker 1: your relationships? In? No, and it mess it up, thank god,

1259
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:48,000
Speaker 1: it almost did. But what happened? Oh gosh, um, you're

1260
01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 1: almost cheated media like like we're talking about, but like

1261
01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 1: what happened. It's easier to cheat media, all right, So

1262
01:05:57,560 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: somebody reached out to you. You responded, even though you

1263
01:05:59,640 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 1: have a man or what you know? Actually, I um

1264
01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 1: saw it on the social media. I not the phone

1265
01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 1: and read you know, all right, you call him doing

1266
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 1: some things? Yeah, okay, well listen, it's easier. It's easier

1267
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:17,760
Speaker 1: to cheat when you are cheatah, if you're not a cheetah,

1268
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: and then it's not hard. Did not cheat at all? Right, period,

1269
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 1: it's easier to get caught on social media, I'll say that.

1270
01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:26,200
Speaker 1: So you're still with your cheatah, definitely, you're still with

1271
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 1: your cheating now. Yeah that's right. Okay, that's good. That's

1272
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:38,240
Speaker 1: good that I'm gonna reform cheating. Ain't nobody here judging nobody,

1273
01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 1: not at all, not at all. How long you've been clean,

1274
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 1: how long you've been sober? Sober? But how long is

1275
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 1: he not cheated? Man? I was in a cheater. I've

1276
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 1: been cheating. I'm talking about the man. How long is

1277
01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 1: the man not cheated? About? Who? Earth? Now? And I'm

1278
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 1: gonna tell you something. Just like women know when they

1279
01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 1: man it's cheating, they know when they man it's not cheating.

1280
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: So she can say that two years with confidence. There

1281
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 1: you go. Yeah, Okay, well thank you mama. Yes man.

1282
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five, one oh five one. Now,

1283
01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:11,080
Speaker 1: what's the moral of the stories? If there is a moral,

1284
01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 1: and the moral of the stories exactly what I said.

1285
01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 1: You can literally see a million people on Instagram, but

1286
01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 1: if you only have eyes for one person, then that's

1287
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 1: all it's gonna be. You know what I mean. What

1288
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:22,080
Speaker 1: Boosey is saying, it's real, but it only applies to

1289
01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 1: people who are prone to cheat. Me. I am a

1290
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 1: member of a proud member of the faithful black male community.

1291
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:33,080
Speaker 1: I am reformed and keep talking. Okay, black men don't cheat,

1292
01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 1: all right. I've been cleaned for October two thou sixty

1293
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:41,480
Speaker 1: felt that in my soul, Bromle for six years now, Okay,

1294
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 1: that's right, all right, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning morning.

1295
01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:49,160
Speaker 1: Everybody is dch envy Angela yee, Charlomagne, the God we

1296
01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 1: are the breakfast club now? Um, Charloman, you got a

1297
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: positive note? Yes, Oscarol wild one shade. People who count

1298
01:07:56,280 --> 01:08:00,320
Speaker 1: their chickens before they are hatched act very wisely because

1299
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:04,280
Speaker 1: chickens run about so absurdly that it's impossible to count

1300
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 1: them accurately. You understand that, you'll understand life. Breakfast club bitches,

1301
01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 1: you know I'm finish. Are y'all done?