Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect. And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: on the air. Welcome back to you. Another jest fixed
Speaker 1: my mess segment with Carefully Reckless. Hey you girl, Jess hilarious. Listen,
Speaker 1: we're gonna jump right in. We got some voice memos.
Speaker 1: I like it. Keep it coming, y'all. It just so,
Speaker 1: this is gonna be kind of long, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: try to sum it up as quick as I can.
Speaker 1: I know you always speak about relationship ship, but I'm
Speaker 1: coming to you for advice strictly for getting over a
Speaker 1: friendship or multiple friendships that you know, you know, you
Speaker 1: grew apart from, or you just don't see eye to
Speaker 1: eye anymore. So long story short, I moved to a
Speaker 1: different city when I was in about fifth grade. In
Speaker 1: fifth grade, I met one of my best friends who
Speaker 1: I thought, you know, I would eventually be friends until
Speaker 1: I die with, And then in sixth grade met another one.
Speaker 1: In in seventh grade, we all was a trio because
Speaker 1: they had already knew each other previously. I just never
Speaker 1: knew that they knew each other. So we made it
Speaker 1: strong through middle school and even through half of high
Speaker 1: school now, and in high school, I ended up getting
Speaker 1: pregnant and I was pulled from public school and I
Speaker 1: was placed into private school or online private school. So
Speaker 1: I wasn't there for them as much as I was
Speaker 1: supposed to be or I could have been. But just
Speaker 1: give you a little background, I'm the friend out of
Speaker 1: the group who don't play no ship. I will smack
Speaker 1: a bit about them first and ask questions later, so
Speaker 1: that played a big part. I was like the outspoken
Speaker 1: person out of the group. I was the one who
Speaker 1: took up for the entire group, not saying that their
Speaker 1: soft or anything, but I was just that ongo type
Speaker 1: of bitch. Now with me being going, I couldn't be
Speaker 1: there for them as much as I would have liked to,
Speaker 1: like I stated already, but one of them, so the
Speaker 1: one I met first, she ended up getting the second
Speaker 1: one in to some ship, so she ended up getting
Speaker 1: her into some drama with some other girls, and the
Speaker 1: other girls jumped her while she was there, and she
Speaker 1: didn't do nothing when this is her beef to begin with.
Speaker 1: You were supposed to do something, not just stand there.
Speaker 1: So we instantly stopped being friends with her, and I
Speaker 1: just started being friends with another one the other one. Eventually,
Speaker 1: instead of just me being her friend, she felt so
Speaker 1: desperate that she had to go be friends with somebody
Speaker 1: we didn't already beat up, and we weren't friends with
Speaker 1: at first, and so she just started to be really
Speaker 1: distant towards me kind of. And then it's like, I'm
Speaker 1: raised into a household where I'm not close to my
Speaker 1: brothers and sisters, so I really rely on friendships to
Speaker 1: get me by, to get me out of this lonely
Speaker 1: place in my life. And she just started to be
Speaker 1: like really really fake towards me. And at this point,
Speaker 1: I couldn't turn back onto the other friend like I
Speaker 1: wanted to, and I instantly started regretting not being her friend,
Speaker 1: because honestly, with me not even going to the school
Speaker 1: or being a part of this beef, I shouldn't have
Speaker 1: took anybody's side. Now that I'm older, this happened years ago,
Speaker 1: twenty one. Now, this happened when I was maybe seventeen.
Speaker 1: Now that I'm you know, learned a lot. I felt
Speaker 1: like that was in my place to just decide on
Speaker 1: what was right and what was wrong and what I
Speaker 1: had to do, because it really had nothing to do
Speaker 1: with me. So I ended up being homeless at eighteen,
Speaker 1: and I was supposed to go live with the friend
Speaker 1: that I was still friends with, and she literally left
Speaker 1: me and my son outside because the girl that I
Speaker 1: wasn't cool with she was in the house at the moment.
Speaker 1: So it's just like, just to sum it up, it's
Speaker 1: just a lot of ship, that shady ship that started
Speaker 1: to happen, and I already broke up with the first girl,
Speaker 1: and then the second girl was weird, so I eventually
Speaker 1: broke up with her. And now that we're grown, I'm
Speaker 1: looking at their lives and they're still doing the same thing.
Speaker 1: They're still fighting, they're still in drama, they're still pulling
Speaker 1: up to bitch's house jumping them and a mama and
Speaker 1: I have two kids now. I have a five year
Speaker 1: old and I have a temo throld baby, and I'm
Speaker 1: just at the point in my life where I know
Speaker 1: that I cannot be their friends anymore based on where
Speaker 1: my life is going. I'm starting a business, I'm saving
Speaker 1: up my money to move out of state because I
Speaker 1: hate Michigan so much. But I'm on a different level
Speaker 1: than them, and I know that we can never be friends.
Speaker 1: But I hate the feeling of just not being their friends,
Speaker 1: and I just don't know how to get over it.
Speaker 1: Like I really truly missed them, even though I know
Speaker 1: we could never be how we was. I often find
Speaker 1: myself on their Facebook pages looking at what they've been doing,
Speaker 1: looking at how they've been growing. One of them had
Speaker 1: a baby, and like she's still on the same ship.
Speaker 1: So I'm just coming to you to see, like, if
Speaker 1: you can give me any advice on how to move
Speaker 1: on from these friendships, I would gladly appreciate it, just
Speaker 1: because it's just a hard part of my life that
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get over. Like I don't find myself
Speaker 1: crying over it or anything, but it's so hard to
Speaker 1: not dwell on the past when those were like my
Speaker 1: sisters that I didn't grow up with. Well, actually I
Speaker 1: did grow up with them because I was friends with
Speaker 1: them for so many years, but you know, they weren't
Speaker 1: biologically my sisters. But it's just so hard not to
Speaker 1: miss them or not to think about them, and I
Speaker 1: just want some type of advice. I haven't reached out
Speaker 1: to neither of them, and I really don't think they
Speaker 1: would want to hear from me. Just because of how
Speaker 1: I left them hanking. Okay, see your story stops there. Okay,
Speaker 1: well listen, it's okay girl. Look, you don't have to
Speaker 1: not be their friends. You don't have to. You don't
Speaker 1: have to hang out with them all the time either.
Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that. You love these girls, and
Speaker 1: these girls love you. I don't care what y'all been through. Listen.
Speaker 1: You told me something that y'all went through when y'all
Speaker 1: were seventeen years old. You're twenty one. That was four
Speaker 1: years ago. No, not too long. But you grow every year.
Speaker 1: You have two children. Now, you know what you want
Speaker 1: to do with your life. You want to move out
Speaker 1: of state. You're starting your own business. All good, you're
Speaker 1: taking care of your children. By the way, I hear
Speaker 1: your baby in the back cock baby. But you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. As long as you know what your
Speaker 1: goals are, it don't matter who your friends are. You
Speaker 1: don't let people drag you down. You don't do that.
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing wrong with checking on your friends, get childhood friends,
Speaker 1: your sisters. You know how many girls don't have that
Speaker 1: these days? You know how many girls don't have friends
Speaker 1: at all. Didn't even grow up with friends that they
Speaker 1: considered sisters. Girl, you know how many fights I've been
Speaker 1: in for other bitches and how many fights other bitches
Speaker 1: been in for me? You know what I'm saying. That's
Speaker 1: the part of growing up. Girl, looks I had a
Speaker 1: friend who I stuck my neck out there for. She
Speaker 1: didn't know how to fight. All she knew how to
Speaker 1: do was talk ship. And we're in the club and
Speaker 1: this girl whooped my ask because I'm the same friend
Speaker 1: that you are, jump out there. But see, you can't
Speaker 1: be there everybody, this big bitch. I just knew I was,
Speaker 1: you know, because I I'm quick with mine. You know,
Speaker 1: you know, you know what I'm saying. But she beat
Speaker 1: my ass and I didn't leave that friend alone. I
Speaker 1: was upset that that bitch stood right there and watched
Speaker 1: me get my ass whipping neck like she didn't see
Speaker 1: what was going on. She just thought of dancing to
Speaker 1: the beat and ship. But I knew she wasn't a fighter,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. I knew she talked ship.
Speaker 1: So that's when you you don't say, or I ain't
Speaker 1: sucking with her no more. No, you realize what she is. Oh, okay,
Speaker 1: that's the point of her being your friend. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: that's Tiffany. I'm just you know, throwing her name out there.
Speaker 1: Oh that's Tiffany. I know sean fight, but I know
Speaker 1: she's gonna talk shit. So I'm I'm I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: her at arms length because I don't know. One day
Speaker 1: we might be out and somebody walk up on this
Speaker 1: bitch and she won't fight. Somebody hit in the back
Speaker 1: of head. I'm a fight with her. But if I
Speaker 1: don't want to be attached to that part of my friend,
Speaker 1: I don't have to. So you have her for different ship.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we're gonna go to church together on Sunday's bitch.
Speaker 1: Oh no, you can come over my house and we're
Speaker 1: gonna chill. Bring your baby over here. We can haven't
Speaker 1: play date. Oh, We're only gonna be in certain facinities
Speaker 1: where ain't no drama gonna be. You have to know
Speaker 1: your friends. That's it. You watch them through Facebook, you
Speaker 1: find yourself missing them, you find it's okay, let's because
Speaker 1: you had a lot of fun together. Girl, hit them
Speaker 1: girls up? Hey, how y'all doing. I was actually pondering
Speaker 1: back and forth whether or not I should hit you guys.
Speaker 1: I didn't know if I wanted to speak with you. Guys.
Speaker 1: I didn't know if you guys wanted to speak with me.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, hey, I see you guys are doing
Speaker 1: better now. Even if they ain't that your sisters uplift
Speaker 1: them up, left them ship. That could be your way
Speaker 1: of getting them out whatever the funk they got going on.
Speaker 1: That message from you can actually make them say, oh, Ship, damn,
Speaker 1: she doing good. She hit herself up. You know, you
Speaker 1: might prompt them to want to know more about what
Speaker 1: you're doing, and then when they see what you're doing,
Speaker 1: they might want to do the same. Ship. That still
Speaker 1: don't mean hang with their asks every day. You don't
Speaker 1: have time to do that. You' twenty one, you on
Speaker 1: your way place this and you've got two babies there
Speaker 1: your friends, huh, mama, Ship. You can't hang out with
Speaker 1: your sisters all day if the funk you wanted to,
Speaker 1: because your real friends, the one that was crying in
Speaker 1: the back and that other five year old, Oh they're
Speaker 1: gonna be there. Oh no, baby, we first, so they
Speaker 1: come later. There's nothing wrong with still having friendships with
Speaker 1: people that you feel like aren't on your level. It's fine.
Speaker 1: What you have to do is not let them bring
Speaker 1: you down. You can't let them rub off on you.
Speaker 1: And you seem pretty headstrong where you ain't gonna let
Speaker 1: that happen. You seem that way. You live by yourself.
Speaker 1: You got your own plate. You know. You could be
Speaker 1: motivation for them. Obviously, they ain't thinking outside of Michigan.
Speaker 1: You are. It ain't your job to take them with you,
Speaker 1: but ship passed on what you're doing. Just put that
Speaker 1: ship in there. But if you miss him, tell them.
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing wrong with that. Dropped that pride because you're one.
Speaker 1: I understand. I was twenty one two and I had
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of pride. Shit, Ain't nothing wrong with
Speaker 1: telling your sisters you miss them, you love them, and
Speaker 1: you wish them the best. That could open up a
Speaker 1: whole another can of worms. Listen, they could be missing
Speaker 1: you right now too. You never know. Be that person
Speaker 1: you know, and if you don't want to, you don't
Speaker 1: have to. But I would say do that. You don't
Speaker 1: want to take that advice, prey on it. Ask God
Speaker 1: to send you new connections, new people that you can
Speaker 1: build healthy connections with. Just pray on that. If you
Speaker 1: do pray. If you are a Christian or you know
Speaker 1: whatever or whoever you believe in, pray, pray to that
Speaker 1: pray and I'm telling you ask God to put meaningful
Speaker 1: connections in your life, connections that you can benefit off
Speaker 1: of as well as someone else can benefit. Send your
Speaker 1: friends that can strengthen you where you lack, they can
Speaker 1: they can pick it up where you feel weak. That
Speaker 1: friend is gonna be your backbone. You're strong, girl, you
Speaker 1: know there's nothing wrong with that. Talk to your SISIs.
Speaker 1: Tell them you miss them, your friends, you know, tell
Speaker 1: them you miss them. It's all right, It is okay.
Speaker 1: Check back in, baby girl. If you love me, you'll
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Speaker 1: All right, all right, before I play this next and
Speaker 1: I want to let y'all know this is an update,
Speaker 1: all right. So look, I've helped this girl three different times,
Speaker 1: and at this point, this is my client. This is
Speaker 1: a regular and she's my client, and we have monthly sessions,
Speaker 1: so there with her. Just at this point, I consider
Speaker 1: you my home girl from a distance. But basically I
Speaker 1: just wanted to update you on the last situation. I'm
Speaker 1: really just feeling some tea at this point. But basically
Speaker 1: the last situation I was with, I was talking to
Speaker 1: this guy that I worked with. He pretty much seemed interested.
Speaker 1: You know, he had my number. We texted during work,
Speaker 1: and you know, he seemed like he wanted to go
Speaker 1: further because he said that he wanted to text me,
Speaker 1: but he ended up never texted me. Um, And this
Speaker 1: was like, are on the weekend, So I assumed that
Speaker 1: he may have another woman in his life, but like
Speaker 1: you said, communication is key and I didn't want to assume,
Speaker 1: so I asked him once I saw him at work
Speaker 1: a few days back, this man's told me that it
Speaker 1: was not another woman, mind you. A few days go
Speaker 1: by and we ended up coming across each other again
Speaker 1: at work. He's flirting with me. You know, we're talking
Speaker 1: and I'm like joking, saying, like, you know you're doing
Speaker 1: all this flirting, but you can't even text me outside
Speaker 1: of work, or you know, call me or anything. Why
Speaker 1: This man said, uh, you know, it's hard to do
Speaker 1: that when I have a living in my mind, I'm
Speaker 1: like a living. But I asked him, I'm like, what
Speaker 1: is a living? He said, I still live with my
Speaker 1: child's mother. Your child's mother living with her. Excuse me,
Speaker 1: is what I said in my mind? Mind you. So
Speaker 1: he goes on to explain, of course, that they no
Speaker 1: longer get along, she's always arguing with him, that he
Speaker 1: wants to just like separate from her. YadA YadA, YadA.
Speaker 1: I'm taking this all in. I'm not giving no expression,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying anything back anything. I'm just like I'm okay, okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: And he just goes on and on and like, saying
Speaker 1: that they've been together for twenty years and he doesn't
Speaker 1: want to leave because of the child, just digging himself
Speaker 1: in the deepest hole ever. A couple of days go
Speaker 1: by again, you know, we ended up coming across each
Speaker 1: other again. Really, he kind of followed me. I wasn't
Speaker 1: even trying to deal with this man. But why this
Speaker 1: man goes on to invite me. We're talking like casually,
Speaker 1: we're not even really, we're not flirting at all. I'm
Speaker 1: over at this point, but we're talking casually. We're still
Speaker 1: at work, you know, still keeping professional or cordial. But
Speaker 1: why this man tells me or asks me, do I
Speaker 1: want to go to a Halloween party with him? My nigga, no,
Speaker 1: I don't want to go to a hallowbein party with you.
Speaker 1: What I said was, though, I'm not doing anything with
Speaker 1: you because you have a whole situation. I'm not trying
Speaker 1: to deal with any of that. Do you understand where
Speaker 1: I'm coming from. I'm trying to really gauge his understanding
Speaker 1: of how messy the situation is. He still is like,
Speaker 1: you know, just saying all this negative stuff about the woman,
Speaker 1: like she argues all the time. I know she doesn't
Speaker 1: love me, YadA, YadA, YadA. And then he goes on
Speaker 1: to say when I see you, you brighten my day.
Speaker 1: Whenever I see you, I'm like a kid in a
Speaker 1: candy store, just saying on this reckless as it's I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh god, you must be testing me. You must be
Speaker 1: testing me. If it's not a test, I don't know
Speaker 1: what is. Because he's handsome, he's tall, he a handy man,
Speaker 1: he has a lot going for himself. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: live but like, no, absolutely not, I'm not. I'm done
Speaker 1: with the mess, Jess. I'm done with the mess. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to update you, like already know cut
Speaker 1: that off, already know, Like he's playing games, not keeping
Speaker 1: it real, not get himself out of a situation before
Speaker 1: jumping into a next like show us this level of
Speaker 1: the maturity and just like carelessness. So yes, Jess, I
Speaker 1: just want to update you on lis shenanigans that happens
Speaker 1: in our everyday lives at this point with these men. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I hope you have a beautiful day. I love you.
Speaker 1: Keep doing what you do. I'm always support you. I'm
Speaker 1: coming to a comedy show here in the d M
Speaker 1: Feet on December and yeah, I keep fucking girl. Okay.
Speaker 1: So that's my client, yall. And that's that's my baby. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm about to get in her asks a little bit.
Speaker 1: So y'all know, bead with a girl. You know, damn well,
Speaker 1: you know damn well. But you already said you know so.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna beat you up too much. Listen, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be honest with you. Yes, all of this is true.
Speaker 1: You brighten up his day. This man is with this woman.
Speaker 1: He is they've been together for twenty years. He's not
Speaker 1: going to ever leave her because that's his comfortability, that's
Speaker 1: her comfortability. I bet you any amount of money they
Speaker 1: both trying to cheat on each other, if ain't already
Speaker 1: doing so. You understand what I'm saying. But they have
Speaker 1: so much together, and they've had so much together that
Speaker 1: they don't want to walk away. No, it ain't about
Speaker 1: the damn child. Listen, you said twenty years now. If
Speaker 1: they would together for twenty years, all right, if they
Speaker 1: had the kids twenty years ago, that kids shouldn't even
Speaker 1: be living at the house. That kid is twenty, but
Speaker 1: that might not be the case. All right, let's say
Speaker 1: the kid is younger. Either way, it ain't about the kids.
Speaker 1: It's about that twenty years that y'all been together. It's
Speaker 1: about all of the ship that they have shared. It's
Speaker 1: about all the ship that they owned together. They own
Speaker 1: that house together. Butter believe that they ain't paying no rent.
Speaker 1: They own that ship together twenty years. Please. His car
Speaker 1: probably got her name on and her car probably got
Speaker 1: his name on it. They married without being married. They
Speaker 1: married without the legal contract, They married without the paperwork. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's what it was. It's giving Yandy mndcense's that's what not.
Speaker 1: I think they got paperwork now, But no, that's what
Speaker 1: that is. That is a life long relationship. And listen,
Speaker 1: he's bored. He's bored at times he's tired of her.
Speaker 1: At times, he's tired of her, but he also knows
Speaker 1: it ain't really ship out here either. Not saying you
Speaker 1: ain't ship baby, It ain't really ship out here. So
Speaker 1: he probably liked to go off and have his fund
Speaker 1: every now and then, just something to hold him over
Speaker 1: until he misses her again. But you better believe is
Speaker 1: still some type of goddamn love there. It is. It
Speaker 1: is love and respect of some sort, because that nigga
Speaker 1: turns his phone off or blocks you on the weekends
Speaker 1: to be with her, you know what I'm saying, to
Speaker 1: be with his family. Now. Even with that being said,
Speaker 1: you're saying he's talking all his reckless ship. You said that,
Speaker 1: he said, Oh you're brightened my day. You're beautiful, and
Speaker 1: I get butterflies, and I see you in all that
Speaker 1: ship that may not necessarily be alive. That may be true.
Speaker 1: You're a young brother of fresh air, youthful. You got
Speaker 1: all your teeth, probably a nice, pretty beautiful complexion, all
Speaker 1: of that. He's older. You said, he's hands and he
Speaker 1: got things going forward south. He's a handy man. He
Speaker 1: just gotta live in sir, goodbye, good guy. Damn by
Speaker 1: calling her living you with this woman, and I can't
Speaker 1: stand with a man do that ship. I can't stand
Speaker 1: when a man lives with a woman who has his
Speaker 1: children and you come and you talk to outsiders about me,
Speaker 1: as if we ain't together, as if you ain't hitting
Speaker 1: this at night, as if you don't wake up next
Speaker 1: to me, as if you don't block these girls, and
Speaker 1: as if you don't lock yourself in the house with
Speaker 1: me every fucking weekend and we have our time. You're
Speaker 1: sitting here, going back painting the worst picture possible to
Speaker 1: get these women a funk with you, when really they
Speaker 1: should be looking at your ass like you fucking lost
Speaker 1: your mind, Because why you're still there? If all of
Speaker 1: this is bad? I know she don't love me no more?
Speaker 1: All right now? Why you don't talk to me on
Speaker 1: the weekend? The fuck stop playing with me? No, he's
Speaker 1: looking for, you know, little temporary side bitches head there
Speaker 1: that he can go ahead of his fun with when
Speaker 1: he's outside the home, because he's been with the same
Speaker 1: person for twenty years. That's how that ship goes sometimes.
Speaker 1: But he's not leaving her. You ain't about the funk
Speaker 1: with him. I don't care what you're saying you ain't
Speaker 1: about the funk with him. Yeah, he hands him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he can light up when you see you. Every fucking
Speaker 1: time your light light light up. I don't care. You
Speaker 1: can turn into a goddamn Christmas tree every time you
Speaker 1: see me. Sir, we're not fucking around, We're not doing nothing.
Speaker 1: We're not about to be together. No, we're not Halloween party, myas.
Speaker 1: That's because it was on a Monday. If the Halloween
Speaker 1: party was on a Saturday, he wouldn't invited you because
Speaker 1: he would be with the living, calling her a living. Sorry,
Speaker 1: you need a therapist. You don't need a little younger,
Speaker 1: You don't need a girlfriend and to live in. You
Speaker 1: need a therapist to help you find that spark with
Speaker 1: your living again. You need somebody to help you or
Speaker 1: you need to move the funk out, wake up and
Speaker 1: realize that ain't where you want to be. But he's
Speaker 1: too old to not realize that, So that's what I'm saying. No,
Speaker 1: he may not be happy with this woman, but he
Speaker 1: loves her and they are working it out in their
Speaker 1: own little way. Because girl hand leaving that woman. They're
Speaker 1: both too comfortable with each other. So you check back
Speaker 1: in with me. Bring me some more men so I
Speaker 1: can fix it. I ain't gonna keep playing with you girl.
Speaker 1: That's my girl, though, that is my girl. I can't
Speaker 1: the nerve of these man. I'm telling y'all, I'm telling y'all, well, look,
Speaker 1: we're gonna end the episode right here, right now. I
Speaker 1: love you guys the way y'all love me back. Tune
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Speaker 1: only on YouTube again. If you have mess you can
Speaker 1: send it to Carefully Reckless. You can send it to
Speaker 1: Reckless Discussions. I will read or listen if the story
Speaker 1: moves me and I feel like it's something that I
Speaker 1: can do. If I have not ever read your story,
Speaker 1: if you you know, because I I see a lot
Speaker 1: of y'all mad and my emails obviously I've sent you
Speaker 1: this that the baby you need some real goddamn help.
Speaker 1: You need um to go pay for some ship. You
Speaker 1: don't need for me to repeat what y'all telling me
Speaker 1: on this goddamned podcast. Um, A lot of y'all are
Speaker 1: submitting things and going through things that require medical attention.
Speaker 1: So I don't want to ever use a severe situation
Speaker 1: that I think is detrimental to your help and our community,
Speaker 1: just for the likeness of a podcast, you know, just
Speaker 1: for likes and views, just for No. I would never
Speaker 1: I don't want to do that. But I do read
Speaker 1: a lot, and I do be seeing the ship. But
Speaker 1: it's a lot of y'all. I can't, you know, man, No,
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. I need you women too, really
Speaker 1: really seek professional help. I don't want to be responsible
Speaker 1: for like domestic violence mess. These men are whooping y'all asses,
Speaker 1: These men are doing ship to your kids. Why the
Speaker 1: funk are you sending just with the mess this ship?
Speaker 1: I want to help, but that's the reason why I
Speaker 1: can't be a real therapist or a real cop, or
Speaker 1: a real judge or because you can't help everybody. And
Speaker 1: I'm the type of person that would to help everybody.
Speaker 1: I would feel horrible if there was somebody that I
Speaker 1: tried to help and I couldn't I failed. So please,
Speaker 1: y'all need medical attention. I cannot. I will not do that.
Speaker 1: And it's even worse things than that. Other than the
Speaker 1: two things I just said, y'all are in like really
Speaker 1: really bad situations. Man, that's statrimental to your health. I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't. I'm not going to read that and try
Speaker 1: to fix it because I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 1: what to do for you, guys. I can't I can't
Speaker 1: physically come get you. So what I can do is
Speaker 1: keep praying for all the men and women out there
Speaker 1: who are batter than being treated wrongly, in in danger,
Speaker 1: And just like that, y'all, I love y'all. Tune in
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