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Speaker 1: Give Them La La Podcast. We have a studio full

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Speaker 1: of bros today, including my own and his two vffs

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Speaker 1: from Salt Lake.

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Speaker 2: I know I'm more nervous with them here.

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Speaker 1: Now, do you feel like you have an audience? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is good. It's gonna prep you for the live

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Speaker 1: show in October two.

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Speaker 2: Live shows that it will shit. I forget about that.

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Speaker 3: You deal Sometimes I try to put it behind because

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Speaker 3: if I don't, I'll have anxiety about.

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Speaker 2: It all day.

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Speaker 1: Oh and we still got a couple months, so m

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to carry that anxiety.

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Speaker 2: For that long, right, So don't judge me over there.

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Speaker 1: I'm practicing, yes, and practice makes perfect. But then if

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Speaker 1: you look at me, I completely put the kabash on

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Speaker 1: that theory. Jessica, how are we this morning?

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Speaker 4: We are so good, we are thriving. How are you?

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Speaker 4: I love the morning.

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Speaker 1: I feel excellent and here's why. Okay, guys, last week

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Speaker 1: or I guess this week Stosse's episode is airing. We

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Speaker 1: asking about it. But because we're recording this today, I

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Speaker 1: have to travel, right, So this episode is going to

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Speaker 1: be We're going to talk about all the things we

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Speaker 1: usually talk about our lives, housewives and whatnot, but we

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Speaker 1: It is the final week of filming, and then YEP

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Speaker 1: and then yours truly is about to take a break.

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Speaker 1: Jessica's gonna head out for a wedding. I'm going to

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Speaker 1: celebrate turning thirty three. Apparently that's like the age. It's true.

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Speaker 5: One hundred thirty three, i've heard is like prime age. Okay,

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Speaker 5: thirty three was an awful year for me, so I

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Speaker 1: That's the hope. And I'm already noticing like a shift

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Speaker 1: So I'm noticing myself going if I go out into

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Speaker 1: there's a lot of stuff that I still want to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm in the season of, like I think, figuring

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Speaker 5: I just kicked over our give them La La coasters

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Speaker 5: I don't necessarily think retreating is a negative or always

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Speaker 5: There are many things I have retreated from or should

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Speaker 5: And there's some things where I've retreated and then it's

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Speaker 5: Right right, Just yeah, yeah, one hundred percent. I think

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Speaker 5: And that sounds so selfish to be like, is this

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Speaker 4: But I'm not trying to make it sound that way.

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Speaker 5: I'm just like, am I my best version of myself

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Speaker 5: And so when it comes to dynamics with your friends,

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Speaker 4: You say you see a softer side of you this season.

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Speaker 1: But that's the stage that I'm in, the dust settling stage.

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Speaker 5: And also, can I remind you we're coming on twenty

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Speaker 4: You that twenty twenty four was gonna be your year.

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Speaker 1: Yes he did. He said, girl, you are cut from

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Speaker 5: Not a funny dream because it sounds like a nightmare,

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Speaker 1: It's chaotic. G And I wasn't on a unison because

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Speaker 1: This was I'm sleepy time dreaming Okay, it's freaking weird.

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Speaker 1: And my mom was like, well, do you think it's

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Speaker 1: he may be a serial killer. Actually, that's what I'm

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Speaker 4: You have had some wild dreams.

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Speaker 5: It'd be so cool to one day have a dream analyst, like,

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Speaker 3: Man, I know a girl that's going to a sleep

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Speaker 3: like like a camp. No, she's going to somebody who

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what do they can learn about them?

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Speaker 2: The I go that far into it. I just said, Wow,

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Speaker 1: You talk to this woman. You the notes app that

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Speaker 1: them that were for someone who was large, very large,

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Speaker 2: He wanted you to tie it up.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what the point of the dream was.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I was like, I like my face everywhere. There's

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Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna I'll talk to her and see who

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Speaker 3: So there's nothing that I could really that she could

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Speaker 1: They not like you. Everybody likes you.

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Speaker 2: I think she likes me.

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Speaker 2: You are I'm open to dating.

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Speaker 3: Don't tell this one over here, but what I had

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Speaker 3: to I had to bring them home to these vultures.

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Speaker 1: Oh back in the day, No, you do now you are, Lisa.

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Speaker 1: I just Easton. We're not vultures, but I've seen what

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, I want to kick it with someone,

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Speaker 4: You kind of had that with the Don. I yeah,

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Speaker 2: Did I ever meet the Down? I heard about it?

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Speaker 1: He was so cool.

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Speaker 2: I saw pictures of him. He was he looked dope,

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Speaker 1: I was thinking about my dream somewhere like as we're.

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Speaker 2: Talking her ripping the women I'll bring home.

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Speaker 1: No, I was involved. I was doing two things at once.

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Speaker 1: I swear? He told me that.

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Speaker 4: What where did she swim?

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Speaker 5: Because this is like psa bacteria in the water, some

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Speaker 4: This is making me sick.

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Speaker 2: Was in the Bahamas.

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Speaker 1: Where which one the leg or the fish the leg?

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Speaker 3: The girl who got her leg amputated? No, Jennifer Barlow,

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Speaker 1: I knew she was a model Georgia.

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Speaker 3: Vacationing in the Bahamas and swam and with that little

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Speaker 1: The fish last week I used to Yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: Damn, she's pretty well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a model. Stillo told me she's a model.

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Speaker 5: If I live a terrible, evil life, I will come

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Speaker 4: Because thinking about that, feet or disgusting. I hate them

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Speaker 3: Do you guys remember when the Kardashians went and had

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like that was old, old school Kardashian.

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Speaker 2: Do people still do that.

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Speaker 2: That is disgusting. I don't want to fish eating other

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Speaker 4: In mind, that's what she was talking about.

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Speaker 1: Where have you been?

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Speaker 2: I was thinking of looking at I was Jennifer Barlow's leg.

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Speaker 2: I was real worried. I just swam yesterday.

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Speaker 4: That's heartbreaking.

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Speaker 1: I know, don't go to the Bahamas hydrogen peroxide that

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Speaker 2: No, I know, I'm going home. That's where I was

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Speaker 1: I said to him, I have my child with me.

439
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:56,119
Speaker 1: Back the fuck off, there are kids here. You're insane.

440
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,639
Speaker 1: I start taping my mom I'm like, get your fucking fixed, dude,

441
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 1: the calm down, a look good, fix yourself, and he

442
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: was an insane person. They ended up taking him away

443
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 1: because yes, he was on something. But this poor woman,

444
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 1: this poor woman just out on this beach trying to

445
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 1: make a difference in her community.

446
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,639
Speaker 2: All it was was a signature, an email and your

447
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 2: zip code and she that's all. That's all. But we

448
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,119
Speaker 2: were yeah, but she was stealing our information.

449
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:24,240
Speaker 4: Number one.

450
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 5: The fact that it was you that started and not

451
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:32,239
Speaker 5: Lisa is not amazing. But like you kept saying, it

452
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:33,719
Speaker 5: was like, you know, a couple of weeks ago when

453
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 5: we talked about it, You're like, Lisa's always getting in

454
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,640
Speaker 5: and I'm like, Lisa, you gotta calm down. But you

455
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 5: came to this woman's defense, so I think, bravo. Do

456
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:43,719
Speaker 5: you regret it?

457
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 1: No. For a moment, I sat there and I was like,

458
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 1: I wish I wouldn't have gotten that way in front

459
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 1: of my child. That was not good. But then my

460
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:55,439
Speaker 1: mom tried to bring me down by saying, you know,

461
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,719
Speaker 1: I want Ocean to know that if she sees someone

462
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 1: acting right, there is a way to get involved without

463
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,560
Speaker 1: putting yourself in harm's way. We went to the lifeguard stand.

464
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 1: There were men that came over. They were fully aware

465
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: someone was called. And it was so crazy because as

466
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 1: it was happening, I was looking around the beach and

467
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, is anyone else because there were men,

468
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 1: is anyone else seeing this? Is anyone gonna get involved?

469
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: I then knew that it was my turn to get involved.

470
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:24,880
Speaker 1: Once I did and people started doing something, there were

471
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 1: like incredible. It was all women, all women that ran

472
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 1: to this woman's defense. They took her away because she

473
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 1: was distraught, like sat her down, gave her water. It

474
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:38,119
Speaker 1: was just like a moment of Okay, if we choose

475
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: to do something like it just takes one person before

476
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: you can rally the troops. But it was so interesting

477
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 1: that a man was going insane on this woman and

478
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: then all the women on the beach were like ready

479
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 1: to fuck shit up, and all the men were sitting

480
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 1: there like eating their fucking funians. Yep.

481
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 4: And the second you got involved, then people started.

482
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 1: Well besides you Easton, you guys go involved. I'm not

483
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:02,679
Speaker 1: talking about this camp, I'm talking about everyone else on

484
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: the beach.

485
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, and really quick, that's about I told your mom

486
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,640
Speaker 5: about this. I just heard this on a podcast. That's

487
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 5: a human phenomenon, I guess where it's. If something is

488
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 5: happening and there's a bunch of people around, no one

489
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 5: will react until one person does. And they did a

490
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,199
Speaker 5: study and they put one person in a room and

491
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,400
Speaker 5: smoke started coming underneath the door, and the person got

492
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 5: up and they're like, well, what's going on.

493
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 4: They put like ten people in a room and smoke.

494
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 5: Started coming under the door and everyone just kind of

495
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 5: like looked around and if no one reacted, they all

496
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 5: just sat there as smoke was filling the room until

497
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 5: someone reacted. Isn't it wild?

498
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 1: I always want to be the one that reacts.

499
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 2: That we are, but we tell everyone not to well.

500
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 1: Because it is scary. I was in Hollywood last night

501
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: and I was like, this is like a little freaky Hollywood.

502
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:52,879
Speaker 4: You were walking around Hollywood.

503
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 1: Well, we went to Sheena's show.

504
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 4: Oh got it.

505
00:24:55,520 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 1: She had a show that's a mouthful Shena She's show. Yeah,

506
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:03,439
Speaker 1: and I took Ocean. I had no idea that the

507
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,359
Speaker 1: beginning of the show was going to be like a

508
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: heavy metal concert.

509
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 2: Is that what it was?

510
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: It was like, Yes, it was amazing, absolutely amazing. The

511
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,719
Speaker 1: crowd was like insane. The show was freaking awesome. If

512
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,440
Speaker 1: she decides to go on tour, it was a really

513
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: great show. So I just held Ocean's ears while they

514
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 1: played that the opening song, and then Ocean wanted to

515
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: be on stage the whole time. Summer Moon went up there,

516
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 1: and I was like I wanted to be about Summer Moon, like, oh,

517
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 1: can't go up there. And then she and his mom,

518
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 1: Erica was like, just let her go on stage, and

519
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 1: she did not want to get off. She kept talking

520
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,679
Speaker 1: about it even this morning, Mama, I want to be

521
00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:42,640
Speaker 1: on stage. And then she keeps asking me. I brought

522
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 1: up dance class one time. I told her, you know

523
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 1: you're a great dance ro oh and a great performer.

524
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:50,639
Speaker 1: Do you want to do dance class? And now she

525
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: asks me every day, So remind her to myself. I

526
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 1: got a call today to make that happen.

527
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 4: Was this in front of people or after everyone left?

528
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 4: They got stage? Full crowd and people who are cheering.

529
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 1: I vet, yeah, a couple to a few hundred people.

530
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 2: No, I saw it. It looks packed.

531
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 4: Were they singing in the micro just dancing around?

532
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: They were just dancing, But my child, once I got

533
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: her off the stage Becausehina was about to perform again.

534
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 1: She performed Apples and Ocean was digging it. Because she

535
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 1: gets off the stage, comes to her mama, grips the

536
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: couch cushion and starts whipping her hips around. Fam bam bam.

537
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 1: I was like, what where did you learn that? And

538
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: then I think about when we're dancing in the room,

539
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: I only know how to just kind of like move

540
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: my hips back and forth. You know, there's not much

541
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: happening in the back, so it's just left right, left right,

542
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: And she she was freaking killing it. Man hands in

543
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:47,120
Speaker 1: the air.

544
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 4: H Oh, that's hilarious.

545
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 5: So she has to do balet, hip hop, jazz, all

546
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 5: of it, all of it.

547
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: Okay, No, she's a real freaking star. Speaking of being

548
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: a star though, I saw it. So Lisa comes out

549
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,919
Speaker 1: the other day and she's like, why did you hear that?

550
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 1: Disneyland struggles when Taylor Swift is in town for a

551
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 1: performance or a concert or her tour, because Taylor Swift

552
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 1: and Disneyland have the same demographic. They notice a decline

553
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: in ticket sales and obviously people going, which obviously ticket

554
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:28,959
Speaker 1: sales reflect how many people to show up. But they

555
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: notice that it's not as hefty of a crowd when

556
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift is around.

557
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 2: They said that this has been their slowest summer due

558
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 2: to her.

559
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 5: Her allegedly allegedly Taylor, congrats.

560
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 4: That is you are a actual boss that's.

561
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 2: Ripping from Walt Disney. You're doing something right.

562
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 4: You're doing something right.

563
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 1: It's fully insane, but it does make sense. Yes, yes,

564
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: kids are going on a vocal ride, baby. I mean,

565
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 1: that's how I feel about it. And I love the

566
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 1: fact that Taylor Swift is like sitting here talking about

567
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:07,119
Speaker 1: like real life things. I'm down for Disney, down for

568
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift, especially when you think about the world we

569
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: live in and the music that I listen to as

570
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 1: like a child. By the way, if I'm looking over

571
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: here during this video, it's because he since friends are

572
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,120
Speaker 1: over here, and I don't want them to feel left out.

573
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,880
Speaker 1: But like the music I was listening to a long

574
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: time ago, it's like, probably not the healthiest of music

575
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: to be listening to in your formative years.

576
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 4: It's just not so slow motion juvenile.

577
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's exactly right. Nelly in his music video where

578
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: he's literally swiping black cards through asses, assholes, I know

579
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: that's that's a bucket for me. What it's a bucket,

580
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: it's honestly that a black card in an ass bend over.

581
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 1: Just do it to yourself.

582
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: No, it's got to be something prettier.

583
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: But that's and I loved it and I still love it.

584
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: But it's like the time, like the age in which

585
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: you should be listening to those things. So when I

586
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 1: see my daughter freaking out to like pink Taylor Swift,

587
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: dig it, I want that to last forever. Because I

588
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: had breaking news come through my phone that drug use

589
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: and alcohol are at an all time high in the

590
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: United States, and it made all the sense. It made

591
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: all the sense because I went to a party. Yes,

592
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: I left my house and guess what what? And it

593
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: was during the day, like daytime vibes. What world do

594
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: I live in where it's four o'clock and you guys

595
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: are getting like ripped? What is this incessant need to

596
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: like not be in reality? I'm like, God, we're gonna

597
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: get bumped up. Probably. It's like really sad to me.

598
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 5: I'm actually shocked it said an all time high because hello,

599
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 5: the seventies, Like, was that not the all time high

600
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 5: for drug use.

601
00:29:58,360 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: At I don't know. How do you feel about that?

602
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: Do you feel like they just like they didn't maybe

603
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: make records the way they do now, they don't applord

604
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 1: things as thoroughly, or do you think they're just trying

605
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: to freak us out.

606
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 4: I have no idea.

607
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 5: Maybe it's like a different Maybe seventies was more like

608
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 5: much like shrooms and wet I don't know, But to me,

609
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 5: I think of the seventies and I'm like, that's when people,

610
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 5: all day, all night, we're on drugs.

611
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe I'm wrong, Maybe I'm wrong. Obviously

612
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 4: I'm wrong.

613
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a different type of thing. I

614
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 1: feel like back then it was used as like true recreation. Obviously,

615
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 1: addiction has existed forever. In my mind, it's like back then,

616
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: you go out to a party, you're having good time.

617
00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: Now I feel like it's truly an escape. There's so

618
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: much happening all the time. We are being fed information

619
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 1: in seconds, something new. You can't even process what you

620
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 1: just read because like that you're already having to process

621
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: something else. On top of going through social media and

622
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: seeing everyone live the dream, and it's a lot. You're like,

623
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: I have to escae because I cannot process like as

624
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: quickly as I'm getting the information.

625
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 4: I think that's a great point, the escape and the.

626
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 5: Quicker release of dopamine, because I did read recently that

627
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 5: our dopamine receptors are becoming exhausted because everything on social media,

628
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 5: the likes this and that triggers dopamine triggers, and they're

629
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 5: it's getting triggered quicker and more often. That our dopamine

630
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 5: receptors are becoming exhausted and we need more and more

631
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 5: and more to be feel that happiness because that's what

632
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:31,239
Speaker 5: dopamine is.

633
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 4: So I think that's a great point.

634
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 5: It might be either the escape or literally just looking

635
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 5: for your next like happiness.

636
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 4: Yes, Hi, Yeah, it's just a weird world.

637
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 1: So if Taylor Swift can keep Ocean in like this happy,

638
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: little innocent bubble for as long as possible, I'm gonna

639
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: be really thrilled about that. Because when I went to

640
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: that party read what I had read about that breaking

641
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: news about alcohol and drugs, I was like, Ocean is

642
00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 1: never leaving the house. No, she will not, story Bob. No,

643
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: she also can't get in the ocean because I'm afraid

644
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: she'll be eaten by a shark.

645
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 4: Well this season.

646
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's terrifying. Anyway, did you guys watch Housewives at all?

647
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: I know that this episode, y'all were going to be

648
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: a little bit behind, but I still want to talk

649
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: about it, and then at some point we will be

650
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 1: like up and popping and in real time. Did you

651
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: watch Ronnie?

652
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 4: I did watch Ronnie.

653
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: Tell me about Ronnie?

654
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 4: Did you watch Ronnie? No?

655
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 1: The last episode I watched was when they all went

656
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: to the renewal, the vow renewal for Aaron and her husband.

657
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 5: Right, So I watched Ronnie, and it's the episode after

658
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 5: that that we're on or that I'm reviewing right now,

659
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 5: and it was Aaron ended up confronting Brinn about I'm

660
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 5: gonna say this without any emotion behind it, but about

661
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 5: like flirting with her husband, which you know what, I

662
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 5: know A lot of people were like, yes, that was inappropriate.

663
00:32:58,720 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: Are people saying that?

664
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 5: I saw a few comments like yeah, it's her anniversary.

665
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 5: Her kids were there that were on Aaron's side, But

666
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 5: it's like.

667
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: She didn't say it to the kids. She didn't say, hey, kids, no,

668
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: when daddy divorce is mom, you're gonna be calling me mom?

669
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 5: And all of yes and all of the women too,

670
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 5: were like, Aaron, what are you talking about?

671
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 4: That's Brynn. She was being her briin self. It's just

672
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 4: it was funny, relaxed, I was.

673
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: It was hysterical because she was talking about the giant

674
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: rock that he just gave Aaron. It was less about

675
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna come in and seal your man. She's like,

676
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: I want the cool jewelry, so like, hit me up.

677
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 1: It doesn't work out.

678
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 5: It was funny, and we found out Jenna Lyons was

679
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 5: her birth given name or whatever is Judith?

680
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 4: Did you know that?

681
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: No?

682
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 5: So it's Judith and it's and she changed it in

683
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 5: college because she never felt like a Judith.

684
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: She doesn't look like a Judith.

685
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 4: I'm teraphrasing.

686
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,959
Speaker 1: But by the way, anyone named Judith is expensive as

687
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 1: a guest.

688
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 5: No, that's why I was like, but apparently she in

689
00:33:57,240 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 5: college her professor was like, does anyone have a nickname?

690
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 4: And she was like, now's my chance.

691
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 5: And all that came to her head was the fact

692
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 5: that her brother used to tease her and call her

693
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 5: Jenna Jenna Genitalia, and so she was like Jenna, which

694
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 5: is like, good for her for being vulnerable and She's

695
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 5: like telling this during a casting for her Lashes, and

696
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 5: she's like being vulnerable in front of her friends on

697
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 5: the cast, but also in front of this like new woman,

698
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 5: and it was just a really sweet moment.

699
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 4: I love that. I love her opening up. She talks

700
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 4: a little bit about her breakup.

701
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 5: Of course she isn't specific with who it is, but

702
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 5: just she gets vulnerable and emotional and it was very nice,

703
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 5: and that's really the main I'm sure I'm missing things.

704
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 1: Has it changed your view on Aerin at all? I?

705
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 5: Ah, I hate I love all the women, but I'm

706
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 5: a little bit like Aaron, come on, because I light

707
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 5: lighten up Aaron.

708
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:51,359
Speaker 4: Oh and the other thing.

709
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 5: And this is just a me thing, but I want

710
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 5: to know how you feel about now. They call her

711
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 5: out again or the name is Lee my mind, you

712
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:02,840
Speaker 5: guys know. She gets called dead out again about not

713
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 5: having enough food or not having enough options Erin at

714
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,840
Speaker 5: her anniversary part it was just pigs in a blanket

715
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 5: who left early?

716
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 4: Why is the name? It wasn't Si? Si leaves early.

717
00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 4: She's like, I was hungry.

718
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 5: She gets called out again for it, and she was like,

719
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 5: you had pigs in a blanket. I'm vegetarian, and I'm like,

720
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 5: everyone's like relaxed, y, like you're good. Maybe you're an adult,

721
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,919
Speaker 5: you should have eaten something before you went to the event.

722
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 5: But I'm like, no, if you're gonna have an event,

723
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 5: have food there, like have food.

724
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 4: There for everyone.

725
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 5: And that is maybe just a me thing because I

726
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 5: grew up in a family where it's like there was

727
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 5: just food just like everywhere. Every Sunday, family and friends

728
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 5: stopped over. Everyone was fed all the time, and that's

729
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 5: how we socialized. So I get a little like, if

730
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 5: you're gonna have an event, yes, like have food there.

731
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 5: And so that was another thing that was turned me off,

732
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 5: like arin you should have had more options.

733
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: No, I think if it's around dinner time, you need

734
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: to have a meal, and if it's later, you have

735
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 1: to have like a plethora of snacks options. Pig's in

736
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 1: a blanket, you could do like the little caviare on

737
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 1: the pancake. You could do so many different things that

738
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: are so easy, just like little finger foods, right, little

739
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: chicken tenders like or whatever that say said she's vegetarian.

740
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: There's plenty of vegetarian options that you have to take

741
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: into consideration. I highly doubt that Si was the only

742
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: person who was a vegetarian there, and she's definitely not

743
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: the only one who's like, where's the food?

744
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 4: Where's the food? And it's like a it wasn't a

745
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 4: backyard cabin party.

746
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: This was a luxurious No, it was glamorous.

747
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 5: Have the food, Like, just spring for more food if

748
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 5: it's not going to be sponsored or whatever. It's like

749
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 5: most of the event that was like a joke, or.

750
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,720
Speaker 1: Like ask Cy because she's like the spaw con queen.

751
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: She gets like all this stuff for free. It's like

752
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: what she does for a living. Yes, she actually makes

753
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:57,800
Speaker 1: mad money off of it. What annoyed me is anyone

754
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 1: trying to say that I leaving that event was anything

755
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 1: like Jenna leaving the Hamptons. That was like an intimate gathering.

756
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: The only thing Sy, oh Jenna was or Aaron was like, hey,

757
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 1: by the way, snuck out, beautiful party. I love you

758
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: talk tomorrow. I don't need to come find you. In

759
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: a room full of hundreds of people very different situations

760
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 1: and the sister rolling up on them being like, you

761
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: guys need to stop talking. It's like, well, maybe don't

762
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: have four hundred speeches. Let me be very clear. And

763
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 1: this is gonna make me sound like I hate love,

764
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: but I don't. But when you get married, I'm letting

765
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: you know no one gives a shit but you. And

766
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 1: when you get remarried, then people really don't give a

767
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 1: shit except you. No one needs to hear your backstory

768
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 1: and speeches given it's so boring, it's fun for you

769
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: to hear. Have like a little night with everyone who

770
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 1: just talks about you. Who wants to write speeches? Don't

771
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: make an entire room. Have a cap for your wedding.

772
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 1: Your people a part of the bridal party and groomsman

773
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:09,880
Speaker 1: party or whatever it's called. See, I don't even know

774
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 1: what are they. Groomsmen rooms? Yeah, like a cap, you know,

775
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: like no longer than a minute. And please don't have

776
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:23,359
Speaker 1: multiple people. The maid of honor and the fucking what's

777
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 1: the guy? What's the main guy? The best man. They're

778
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: the only two people that get to speak. Mom and

779
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: dad can say a quick something, but not each of them.

780
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 1: They write it together because no one cares.

781
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 3: No man like I who wants to talk for more

782
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 3: than thirty seconds. I'd have been like, I met this

783
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 3: dumb ass X, Y and Z and he's ambastard.

784
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:47,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to say. I want to say. They

785
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 1: had five speakers and it was pages and bread made

786
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 1: a comment or someone made a comment. Jenna, there's like

787
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: pages upon pages. This one person has four pages. No

788
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 1: one cares about your love story. I know, I know

789
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: it's hard to hear.

790
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 2: Instead of a page, it's a paragraph.

791
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:09,280
Speaker 1: Yes, get her done, Let people drink, let people talk.

792
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 1: That's when they leave and they go, you know what,

793
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 1: this couple's fucking awesome because they didn't make me suffer

794
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 1: through their freaking love story.

795
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 4: And then yes, the.

796
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: Longer it is, it's like you're selling it on, like

797
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,280
Speaker 2: we are in love. Listen to how long?

798
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 3: And why it's not selling anyone on this shit, sweetheart,

799
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 3: Just get it done.

800
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 5: And then her having to be like whoa wa, whoa

801
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 5: everyone's talking quiet down back there.

802
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:33,720
Speaker 3: It's like, well read them cares, buddy.

803
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: And also then then the sister's hair lit on fire.

804
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 2: I think.

805
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: It looks like the same person to me, full flamage.

806
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: I was like, Karma is alive and well at this party.

807
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 4: That was horrifying?

808
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 2: Was it the one who told everybody the quiet down?

809
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 1: It looks like it to me, but I keep looking here.

810
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: I feel like my friends are in the room. They

811
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: are give them a little something something, write in and

812
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: tell me if it is the same, if it is

813
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 1: Aaron's sister. Yeah, I forget.

814
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 4: But I did see the That was a big flame too.

815
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 1: It was huge. The fire department could have come.

816
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 3: A lot of hairspray in it, just a lot of

817
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 3: hair and product.

818
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 5: But not as much as because if that were my hair,

819
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 5: let me tell you something, I would look like.

820
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:22,239
Speaker 4: Hades from Hercules.

821
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 1: Why do you have a lot of product?

822
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 4: Not now?

823
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 5: But if I had my hair done and curled hairspray,

824
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,239
Speaker 5: it would have gone up. My whole head would have

825
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 5: been a flame. So I saw hers and I was like,

826
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 5: oh my god. And then it went out.

827
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,919
Speaker 1: I just must have been oh my gosh.

828
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 4: But it was great. I love Ronny smell.

829
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 1: After that, and then they're like they come by, they're

830
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 1: like burnt hair and would you like a pigs and blanket,

831
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: like a toilet throw up? Please my god, dead animal

832
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: and burnt hair.

833
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 4: Oh I was ready to go.

834
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 1: Well yeah, and they were all talking about and I

835
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,839
Speaker 1: was like, that's where I would go. Can they talk

836
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 1: about Noboo and going there? Yeah?

837
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 4: They yeah, to get food because they were hungry.

838
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: Not catch the elevated version. Right, there's no Easton, there's

839
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: no winning when it comes to being Erin. I feel

840
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: she's got a loosen up. Love her so much, love

841
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: all of them, but like I'm starting to see little sides.

842
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:23,240
Speaker 1: Bryn is a star.

843
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 4: Brin's a star.

844
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,839
Speaker 5: And can I clarify I didn't say the sponsor thing

845
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:27,720
Speaker 5: to be shady.

846
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:29,240
Speaker 4: Wasn't that a joke on the show?

847
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 5: Like they were joking they Aaron or Brynn said, did

848
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 5: you see the invite?

849
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:34,720
Speaker 4: It looks like Coachella.

850
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 5: Because it said did you remember that part? It was

851
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,800
Speaker 5: like party sponsored by? And it was like a whole

852
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 5: Aaron's party and it was like a whole list.

853
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 4: That's why I said the sponsored. I'm like, if people

854
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 4: are gonna sponsor, get food.

855
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 1: To sponsor, kind of love that so much, Right, where's

856
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 1: the food sponsored? The most important thing? People who are

857
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: well fed and drunk. You got an epic party, one

858
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: hundred percent. Yeah, keep the drinks and the food coming

859
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: you the game. No one's gonna look around and be like,

860
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: but it wasn't a fabulous ballroom. No no one cares

861
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: where they end up, all right, that ship sailed when

862
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: people went to college exactly. That's what I think, which

863
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 1: is why I care about the Boogie Ballroom because I

864
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: never went to college. So there's that we're somewhat caught

865
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 1: up again. Next time will be like in real time.

866
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 1: Has anyone watched Atlanta?

867
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 5: No, but I'm gonna add it to my list. I

868
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 5: didn't know this was one we should we should watch

869
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 5: them all.

870
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing with Atlanta. Okay, I'm gonna let

871
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: you guys in on a little sum sum Atlanta is

872
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 1: one of my favorites of the franchise, but I become

873
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 1: so addicted that I cannot watch them in real time

874
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: because I can't wait another week. Atlanta is the only

875
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,760
Speaker 1: franchise that I wait and have it build up until

876
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: I'm stacked with episodes because then I don't leave the

877
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 1: better of the couch and I just cannot get enough.

878
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: It's like my most yes. The rest of them is

879
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 1: like I can wait until next week. Atlanta no go

880
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: because every episode is freaking bomb. So the finale is

881
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: about to air. I think it it will have aired

882
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: by the time this comes out, and then we'll recap

883
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 1: it because I'm assuming it'll be three parts. A lot

884
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 1: has happened. We won't talk about storylines, but just like

885
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: what I gathered from life and what was going on.

886
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 1: So Marlowe, who's a boss bitch, is dating this guy right,

887
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 1: and I'm noticing, like it seems like a healthy relationship.

888
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 1: She's like, he's not my boyfriend, he's my friend boy

889
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 1: whatever you're seeing everyone have like dysfunction in their relationships

890
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:43,160
Speaker 1: or healthy, happy relationships. Then cut to Druidora. She's dating

891
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:46,439
Speaker 1: this guy, Ralph who's a buffoon of a human. They've

892
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:50,320
Speaker 1: been together for seven years. He says really really fucked

893
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 1: up things to her. Okay, and my mind started going

894
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,640
Speaker 1: wondering as I was thinking about jumping into dating again,

895
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 1: and this again is like, Okay, this is why I'm

896
00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 1: gonna do bumble route, right. It just has to happen

897
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 1: that way because then I can put in my bio

898
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: the exact things I'm looking for. No other version woman

899
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: runs the show. I'm the woman. I enjoy running the show.

900
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: That feels so natural to me. And also I'm the

901
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: one that gets to say like you can come into

902
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 1: my circle and then they can start, you know, doing

903
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:26,839
Speaker 1: the whole What is it called when someone shrive chival risk,

904
00:44:26,960 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 1: shival risk, right, shivel, shriveling, shriveling, whatever that word is.

905
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: I can be the one that makes the move of

906
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:39,760
Speaker 1: like yeah, welcome into my circle. And then it's on you, buddy,

907
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: you open the door. Yes, best of both worlds on

908
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: bumble right. Safety first. Okay, So I'm thinking about it

909
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 1: as I'm watching Drusidora and her clown of a husband,

910
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:54,760
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking, at what point when you're dating someone,

911
00:44:55,680 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: do you go, this is a red flag? I should

912
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 1: probably not be with this person. Or is it a

913
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,280
Speaker 1: one time thing or is it still like three strikes

914
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: you're out? Like if you see something when you're first

915
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: dating them, do you go, Okay, he's maybe having an

916
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: off night or there maybe having an off night. Do

917
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying.

918
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 5: I would I would give them them maybe having an

919
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 5: off night. Three strikes you're out because it's like, especially

920
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 5: if they've been single for a while, like maybe not

921
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 5: opening your door whatever you're expecting, red flag. It's like, okay,

922
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 5: let me communicate that's not a vibe for me. And

923
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 5: then by strike three, but I feel like, are you

924
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 5: in a point where you're gonna start dating where it's

925
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 5: like the first second you see a red flag, you're out.

926
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 1: Well, that's why I'm holding off on dating right now,

927
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,760
Speaker 1: because I am going through the motion of a healing

928
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: process right and right now my triggers have lessened, but

929
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 1: they're still there where one one thing is said and

930
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: I draw a parallel and I'm like, nope, we're not

931
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: even doing this. Guard is up and I place them

932
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 1: in a box. The box is either the one that's being

933
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: taken to the trash or the box where it's like,

934
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: when I have some free time, we can bump peeps.

935
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 1: The box where it's like, let's just text you feel

936
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: like when I'm bored, like that's the box you're in.

937
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:16,399
Speaker 1: I don't want to be like that forever. So once

938
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: I go through my healing process and not everything is

939
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 1: a trigger where it's like one wrong move and it's

940
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 1: like you're fucking out. I'll do the I'll go the

941
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: bumble route. It'll be like a very you know, it

942
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 1: just feels like you're people are going there to actually

943
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 1: date and then hopefully I'll be soft enough to go okay.

944
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 1: I have off nights all the time, like I'd be

945
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: really screwed if someone thought that. You know, one thing

946
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 1: I did was a red flag.

947
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 4: Right, and it depends on the red flag because they

948
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 4: love vomb you. Then it's maybe like a.

949
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,359
Speaker 5: Whoa woa, whoa whoa whoa right, bigger red flag of like, uh,

950
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:49,879
Speaker 5: I'm out.

951
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 1: I used to be so down with dudes giving me

952
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 1: pet names right off the bat. The second a dude

953
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 1: I first meet him and he calls me baby, I'm like,

954
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: and we're done here. Goodbye? Really yeah, don't call me

955
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 1: babe baby boo bite oh bye?

956
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 5: Interesting those I can call them boo because I call

957
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:07,480
Speaker 5: everybody boo.

958
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 4: What if that's their excuse, that's funny. What if they

959
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 4: go I call everyone.

960
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 1: No, you don't, you're a man, you move different than me. No,

961
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 1: you don't. And if you do, you're a dog. And

962
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 1: I knew it.

963
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:21,800
Speaker 4: That's funny.

964
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:27,399
Speaker 1: There's that. Okay, guys, I want to do the the

965
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: relief of the week and the ache. Let's start with

966
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 1: the ache. Who wants to start us off? Just occur me?

967
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, So my relief of the week, which I

968
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 5: based on when this is coming out, I will have

969
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,800
Speaker 5: gone home for my sister Catherine's wedding.

970
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:47,399
Speaker 1: Okay, and I'm just.

971
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:49,720
Speaker 4: Very excited about that I get to see the fam.

972
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:50,760
Speaker 4: She's getting married.

973
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 5: I love my new brother in law, and so that's

974
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 5: my relief. My ache is more of like an emotional

975
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:02,720
Speaker 5: ache that I've varians on Saturday with an elderly man

976
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 5: and I was leaving the Alterations place and he was

977
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 5: just it was so hot on Saturday. It was like,

978
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 5: I think it hit like ninety seven and there was

979
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 5: this man standing out there.

980
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 4: He had like six bags.

981
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 5: I'm talking elderly, elderly probably like late eighties, nineties, and.

982
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 4: You could tell you couldn't see very well.

983
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 5: And he's got a full jacket on, and he's sweating,

984
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 5: pouring sweat, and I'm I'm kind of like looking and

985
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 5: looking around and I'm like, do I leave?

986
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,320
Speaker 4: And he goes, excuse me, miss, is there a pharmacy

987
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 4: around here? Somewhere?

988
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 5: People down there, Like I've walked twenty five minutes and

989
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 5: they told me there was a pharmacy here and I

990
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,600
Speaker 5: just need a pharmacy and I was like, oh, yeah,

991
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 5: there is, and it was closed and it was right

992
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 5: next to the Alteration place.

993
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 4: I'm like, I was right here.

994
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 5: But it's closed, and he was like, oh no, and

995
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 5: he looked so upset, and I was like, can it

996
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 5: be any pharmacy? Is it one your doctor sent a

997
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 5: prescription to? Because whatever there's a farm, there are other pharmacies.

998
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 5: So I pulled up the there was one point two

999
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 5: miles away, which was like a twelve minute walk and

1000
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 5: a two minute drive, and I tried to show him

1001
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 5: and he was confused, and you could tell you he

1002
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:09,800
Speaker 5: couldn't see very well. So I was like, sir, I'll

1003
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 5: take you, and he was very I was like, let

1004
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 5: me just take you to the pharmacy, and he was

1005
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 5: very hesitant.

1006
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 4: He was like, no, no, I don't want to put

1007
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 4: you out. I'm like, let me take you.

1008
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,360
Speaker 5: And I made up a story, but I'm going that

1009
00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,839
Speaker 5: way anyway, and I was like, my cars are here,

1010
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 5: let me take you.

1011
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:26,240
Speaker 4: Very hesitant. I was like, please get in the car.

1012
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 4: Now that I'm saying this, I didn't kidnap this old man,

1013
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 4: but the story sounds like I'm mad because I was like,

1014
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 4: please get in the car.

1015
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:36,280
Speaker 2: I was like candy.

1016
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 4: I was like, sir, get in the car. I have

1017
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 4: were there's originals.

1018
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 1: In the back anyway.

1019
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 4: So finally he gets in the car.

1020
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 5: In the back of the car and I put his

1021
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 5: bags in there, and I bring him to CBS and

1022
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 5: I drop him off and he couldn't see so bad

1023
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 5: that he dropped him off right in front of the door.

1024
00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 4: And I took him out, and he looked around and

1025
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 4: started walking away.

1026
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 5: We were like five feet from the door and he's like, okay, okay,

1027
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 5: the pharmacy and I had to go and like and

1028
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 5: I was like where, Like what.

1029
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 1: Do I do?

1030
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 4: Where is like his I guess caretaker.

1031
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 5: Anyway, he made it into the pharmacy and he said

1032
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:16,799
Speaker 5: thank you, and I made sure he made it back

1033
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:18,719
Speaker 5: to the pharmacist and then I left because I was like,

1034
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:19,439
Speaker 5: I don't, well.

1035
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: There was nothing else you could do. Join yeah, I

1036
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 1: did a lot.

1037
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 4: It was heartbreaking though, and I was like, where is this?

1038
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 4: I don't know, but that was my age. He made

1039
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:29,840
Speaker 4: it to the pharmacy. But it was sad. That is

1040
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:31,359
Speaker 4: it makes me sad.

1041
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: No, It is sad when people don't have no hat,

1042
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, like when.

1043
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 3: You see him eating alone and you're like, oh, I know,

1044
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 3: even though I enjoy eating alone most times, I.

1045
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: Know, but it is sad because when they're of that age,

1046
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 1: you know that like most likely most people have passed

1047
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 1: and then you think, like do they have kids? And

1048
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: it's another reason, like I want a lot of kids

1049
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 1: because at some point I'm going to most likely be

1050
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:53,240
Speaker 1: alone and I need a gang of children exactly.

1051
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 5: And Kyle had called me during it and I texted him,

1052
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 5: I said, taking man to pharmacy, call you back and

1053
00:50:57,960 --> 00:50:58,439
Speaker 5: he was like.

1054
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 4: What what are you talking about?

1055
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, only imagine being Kyle that one, you know.

1056
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 1: What gold star for you.

1057
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 5: No, I hate that because I've been doing the thing

1058
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 5: lately where it's like do something nice every day and

1059
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 5: tell no one.

1060
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 4: And I just told the podcast, but it was my

1061
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 4: ache of the week.

1062
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:18,879
Speaker 1: You have you have a public forum where you can

1063
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: show people what you should go and do. And I

1064
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 1: just asked you what it was. You didn't have to

1065
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: share it, and I'm thankful that you did because that's

1066
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: an inspiring story and I'm proud of you. And you're

1067
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: taking the fucking gold star that I just gave you.

1068
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:31,799
Speaker 1: Say thank you, thank you.

1069
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:37,439
Speaker 3: Easton Mine or two and one again my homies coming

1070
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:37,959
Speaker 3: into town.

1071
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 2: It was fun. We had a lot of fun.

1072
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: But that was my role.

1073
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because they're leaving. Oh okay, that's the acheu is,

1074
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 2: they're leaving. But we had fun. We went to the

1075
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 2: beach and stuff. It was like having Salt Lake come

1076
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 2: to me for a bitute.

1077
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:51,320
Speaker 1: Oh that is so nice.

1078
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 2: I love that we had some fun.

1079
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 1: So you guys should postpone the leaving date. Trust me,

1080
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: I've been trying to all right, we'll I'll try to hustle. Wise,

1081
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 1: I'll show them one nipple. I'm just kidding. Shit, you

1082
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: know what. My My ache and relief are one and

1083
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: the same as well. I had a giant ZiT right there,

1084
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 1: huge honker, And I always feel that zits in that

1085
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: area are better than the cheeks because the cheeks are

1086
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: so fatty that they're really hard to pop. There's so

1087
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 1: much room for them to just like stay nice and

1088
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: snugged in there. The forehead bone gotta go somewhere easy

1089
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Speaker 1: to pop. This one I pushed on and then I

1090
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 1: was screwed. It was like, well, what's done is done.

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00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 1: It's not coming coming out. It's gonna be just a

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00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: bulbous yummy. I love the word a bulbous disgusting, all right.

1093
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 1: So I doctored it to the best of my ability

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00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 1: to where it was then just flat and like a

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00:52:56,560 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: little scabby, right, my adorable daughter. So that was the

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00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 1: the ache because we're filming and I'm like, great, I

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00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 1: got unicorns. It going on lopsided unicorn. And the relief

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00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 1: is that my daughter is in bed with me and says,

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00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 1: you got a boo boo. I was like, I got

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00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 1: a zi? What that is? And she was like, it

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00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 1: looks like a boo boo. I was like, yeah, it

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00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 1: is a booboo kind of you know, mommy picked and

1103
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 1: she goes, I gotta kiss it, yummy, So she Easton,

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00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,840
Speaker 1: it's horrible, there's nothing in it. It's cute when I

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00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 1: kiss her boobies all the time. You shut your fussy ouse.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm kissing. I'm kissing your zi.

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00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:41,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna punch you in your dome.

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00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 2: If I kitch you first.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she kisses it. That's what we do. Sweet. She

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Speaker 1: came out of my vagina. Easton, Oh God, all right,

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00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:51,799
Speaker 1: calm down.

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Speaker 2: She kissed it so then.

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Speaker 1: I said, oh, thank you, and she pulls me in

1114
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: by then I goes, it's gonna be okay, and I

1115
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 1: was like, I feel so seen. This won't take me out.

1116
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 1: I will be okay. I was like, had so much

1117
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 1: meaning and just that tiny little ZiT and the kiss combining,

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Speaker 1: I was like life.

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Speaker 4: She's already a big sister metaphor.

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Speaker 1: For life and it will be okay, bitches all right?

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Speaker 1: I love that. Wow, what a fun podcast today, wid

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Speaker 1: you guys enjoy it from the back the cheap seats.

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Speaker 1: We should have given them a camera because they're both gorgeous. Yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you guys so much for listening to another episode

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Speaker 1: of the Give Them All a Podcast. I can't wait

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Speaker 1: to catch you guys next week