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Speaker 1: a good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, Come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Man got a radio show because God

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Speaker 1: is in a blessing business. I just happened to be

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Speaker 1: grace and his mercy will take over his favor, his

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Speaker 1: love of you. It's it's already evident. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: because so many times we go along without even acknowledging

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Speaker 1: look up when we find ourselves in a predicament, and

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Speaker 1: wanted to talk to you about something. It's another principle

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Speaker 1: And once again, these are not things that you don't

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Speaker 1: Don't be afraid to change because change is coming anyway. See,

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Speaker 1: I have a theory, don't be afraid to change because

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Speaker 1: change is coming anyway. You know, everything changes, nothing remains

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Speaker 1: the same nothing, and change is inevitable. Now, you could

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Speaker 1: participate in the change, or you can react to the change.

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Speaker 1: Are you following me. You can participate in the change change,

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Speaker 1: Now you didn't participate in this change because you didn't

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Speaker 1: You could participate or you can react. Or let's say

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Speaker 1: and you said, you know what I've been preparing for

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Speaker 1: So when they hand you the pink slip, the transition

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Speaker 1: It could have still ended the relationship. But guess what,

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Speaker 1: is his will? His will is much simpler. It's a

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Speaker 1: So I now, at my age, I can turn around

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Speaker 1: learned about becoming successful. Here's a principle that I learned,

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Speaker 1: But then guess what I had to be unsuccessful to

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, It is here the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Another great day filled with gratitude, which leads to the

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Speaker 1: proper attitude. Thanking him allows you to be introduced to

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Speaker 1: more blessings from him. It's a simple thing. The more

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Speaker 1: be thankful for. That's a principle of success. Please burn

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Speaker 1: it in your mind and live your life accordingly. This

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Speaker 1: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show, starring Shirley Strawberry, Colin Farrell,

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Speaker 1: care Spates, Mississippi Monica, the Legend, Nephew Tommy, and Ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, that damn Jay ain't Thonny Yes, Brown Brown Junior,

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Speaker 1: what's on your mind? You know? Uncle? Yesterday? And closing man,

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Speaker 1: you said something had me really thinking, and I'm just

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Speaker 1: Man's like I got to get it or if I

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Speaker 1: thought it really interested is how you look at pressure

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Speaker 1: designed to crush you. Pressure designed to push something out

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Speaker 1: You're under pressure to develop, you under pressure to produce.

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Speaker 1: Right now, what that pressure is doing is is making

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Speaker 1: you dig down on the inside to discover the necessary tools, attributes,

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Speaker 1: asking for. Because every dream comes with the test. You

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Speaker 1: order to get to something, you got to go through something.

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Speaker 1: what pressure. Knowledge and wisdom give you the same knowledge.

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Speaker 1: That's like when you when you got to Pete. That's

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Speaker 1: him go ahead exactly. Example, just just get something going

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Speaker 1: See that analogy the reason why. That's the reason. That's

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Speaker 1: all right, very thing right there, stopping here, all right?

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Speaker 1: at thirty two minutes after the hour. The nephew will

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Speaker 1: run that prank back right after this. I ain't the

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Speaker 1: only one felt this pressure. You're listening to show right

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Speaker 1: now it's time for the nephew to run that prank.

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Speaker 1: we were down in an entree section. This is called

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Speaker 1: stupid right here. This is straight stupid. It's in the menu.

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Speaker 1: Apartment three sixteen, Apartment three sixteen. I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: at my all time high of stupid. Okay, this is

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Speaker 1: a special part of the menu. This. You don't have

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Speaker 1: to set us up with your stupidity. You can just

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Speaker 1: go ahead. No need to forewarn us, taking us too

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Speaker 1: wasted words? Right, all right, don't set up then three

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach deal. Yeah, this is dead here

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Speaker 1: you deal. How are you doing? Man? My name is Bonn. Dude,

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Speaker 1: the right dude, Man, you're living right apartments? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: live going on? Okay, you live an apartment on three sixteen? Right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: going on at O No, no, no, everything cool with

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Speaker 1: the at the leasing office regarding what's in what's it

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Speaker 1: in regards to well, actually, what's going to happen me

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Speaker 1: is I'm going to move took fort and what I

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Speaker 1: wanted to do, you know, Uh see me in every

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Speaker 1: apartment I've always heard. I've always lived in an apartment

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Speaker 1: at three sixteen. And I know you in three sixteen,

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Speaker 1: so they you know the girl at the office gaming,

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Speaker 1: It ain't my business man, Yo. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: So how about these numbers right here? They sell them?

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Speaker 1: Sell them twinty nine, Steve what man? Hey, sell them?

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Speaker 1: Sell them pointing nine Steve, Aye, sell them, sell them

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Because this is nephew Tommy and

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Speaker 1: mean make it's it's Tom's crazy. Hell, I'll believe this

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Speaker 1: ain't me going no, man, Hey Dale, I got one

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Speaker 1: She laughed her ass off. Oh my god, Katie, Well

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Speaker 1: we're about to find out. Let go number one. Stop

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Speaker 1: gonna wear capris, no problem. You know those the pants

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Speaker 1: The reason for anybody stop wearing them, comprised with them.

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Speaker 1: Damn strings hanging out. The shame don't bother you. You

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Speaker 1: you know what. The little diamond in the time coming

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Speaker 1: dad ain't coming back. And I'll tell you what else

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Speaker 1: You already pretty whatever. We need a sunflower floor on

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Speaker 1: I see it, like a hatment sucks, yeah, segment. You

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Speaker 1: some peoples, yeah, a lot of them's topic copper fit down.

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Speaker 1: I ain't go one time and here he stop referring

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Speaker 1: Stop wearing them. Damn halters. They are not for you. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: don't like these older type. You know, foods like hog malls, hitlands, greens,

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Speaker 1: We got to come over your house, eat and go

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Speaker 1: nothing in here, mardin You ain't found another recipe? Six slavery.

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Speaker 1: Who the hell still puts the hamhock and they damn

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Speaker 1: greenbuts and smoked turkey. Now you just eat the same

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Speaker 1: give what even time. Why am I so sleepy because

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Speaker 1: ham hock? Go ahead? What is it you're walking around

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Speaker 1: the house in your slip anymore? Last time I've seen

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Speaker 1: the slip with my mama? Are things older when they

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Speaker 1: My MoMA man, and let me tell you something. And

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Speaker 1: the flies chick on earth. She just never mentioned all

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Speaker 1: about that, don't judge. I just remember heard Richard. You're listening.

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Speaker 1: I explain it, guys, what is itself? And speak for us?

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Speaker 1: It is when somebody said something to you, you really

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Speaker 1: didn't hear it. What you heard it. The only thing

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Speaker 1: you can say is wtf. You kind of hear it,

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Speaker 1: but you didn't hear. You don't believe. Yeah, you don't

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Speaker 1: believe with yourself. For instance, like this, Hey man, your

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Speaker 1: number hit yesterday, but I forgot to play it. Oh man?

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Speaker 1: Oh man, really okay man, that number hit big yesterday.

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Speaker 1: No man, I forgotten play. Oh how about this when

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Speaker 1: but your gums got to come out. Okay, my girl,

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Speaker 1: you got your fight? Oh god? Wt WTF? All right?

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Speaker 1: You're in the hospital. Doctor come to you and he says,

421
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 1: I kind of got my chips mixed up. That's how

422
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: you ended up with a breast transplant. I'm sorry, I'm sure. Wow,

423
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: I'm only human. Oh god, I'm only let me jump in, Jake,

424
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: what do we doing? W t w w W Hey man,

425
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: you ain't Connie's son. How old is that boy? Eighteen? Man? Eighteen? Wow? Hey,

426
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: let me that's my son. What I wanted to tell you?

427
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: That's my son, And I know Connie ain't told You're

428
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: just gonna out like that. You're a friend, get pulled

429
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: over by the cops. You drive it's your car? Whoa

430
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: they pull your Hey, man, just be real cool. But

431
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: I put a keilo in your choice. What yeah, keilo? Man?

432
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: Just cool, Just be cool, be cool, Just be cool,

433
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 1: all right? You know one. We're all here to day

434
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 1: too for the reading of the will. And it seems

435
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: like your daddy had a lot of money. I mean

436
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 1: a lot, a lot of money, but he left it

437
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: all to the cat. How about the cat? The pig

438
00:30:54,240 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 1: got no blake blake that cat du you? Yeah, hey,

439
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: listen man, let me, I know we can work this out. Listen.

440
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: I'm the one that broke in your mama house. Okay,

441
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: but listen, well me, you can split everything. You splitting

442
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 1: my mama's stuff. Man, you're crazy. Man, I'm gonna kill you.

443
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: This show is okay, But I got something to tell

444
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 1: you though you broke in the house. You know, were

445
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: you tripping like that? Guess what? Hey man, I wasn't

446
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: gonna tell you this what me and your mama kicking

447
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: it my mama? Okay, Okay, I got one, I got one,

448
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: all right, Hey, y'all. I had a bottle in the refrigerator.

449
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: I had had the word tea on it because it

450
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 1: was an old tea bottle. But that was a year

451
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: in specimen I supposed to be taking it. I hate

452
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 1: this show. It's so stupid. Hey, I know you you

453
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 1: asked me brain and weed over here. I got scared.

454
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: I just want you to know. Uh, I just went

455
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. I got it out for you. Listen,

456
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: you smoked it already, all of it, man, all of it. Hey, man,

457
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: you your roommates sitting up there, he tells you. Man, look,

458
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 1: I know you're gonna trip. It came over here, man,

459
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: he cut the gas off today, so I sold your

460
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: car what they got the cats of so much? Man? Stupid?

461
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: Are we so much? Amen? Amen? Amen, come on, we

462
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 1: need you to trip and get all crazy because I

463
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: know how you are. Okay, but you know that scratching

464
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: on the side of your car, Yeah, well it's it's

465
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: got a dent right there now where you you know

466
00:33:53,360 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: that scratch your head outside your car? Hey? Do I

467
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: thought you said? I thought you said, didn't you say

468
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: that was your cousin. That's not you, that's not your cousin. Okay,

469
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 1: because now I was with it but so you're saying

470
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: that's your wife. Now you gotta make up your mind. Man,

471
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 1: you heard the last one. Yes, close it out. Hey, man,

472
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: the police came over here to talk to me today.

473
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: I ain't I ain't know what else to say, man,

474
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 1: I just told him to call you. What we gotta go?

475
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 1: Crazy guy, you're listening to show. Have you guys ever

476
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: worked with someone We all worked together, So listen to this.

477
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 1: Have you ever worked with someone and found out that

478
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:07,919
Speaker 1: he or she was making more money than you? Ever day?

479
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: Is that a question? Really? All right? If so, you

480
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 1: know there's this, you immediately want to rush into your

481
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: boss's office he just have as a beta boss and

482
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: ask for a comparable raise. Now, this is according to

483
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:32,800
Speaker 1: an article and a women's health dot com on their website.

484
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 1: You should first research why your coworker makes more money

485
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 1: and see if your pay is below market rate. Then

486
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,280
Speaker 1: go in and negotiate with your boss by pulling together

487
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 1: your accomplishment since being on the staff, is it okay,

488
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: that's how you get a raise. Okay, if you find

489
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: out someone's making more than okay, that's good advice. Yeah,

490
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,239
Speaker 1: do not say you got it. That is not a

491
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: that's not a good phrase of you. When you want

492
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:02,480
Speaker 1: to raise, well, you got it talking to yours when

493
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 1: you talk to your boss, I want why do you

494
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 1: need a race? Because you got you got it? No,

495
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: you're right, Okay, don't point out stuff they are buying

496
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 1: for themselves if you want to raise I see you

497
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: coming here with a new suit every day. Come, but

498
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 1: I need to know and I come. That's not a

499
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 1: good point. Don't don't go look at the car you drive,

500
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: look at it and I'm on the bus. Don't don't

501
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 1: go there with that. Bring out your accomplishments. What do

502
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 1: you bring to this company? That's why you want more money.

503
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: That's why I found out how much most Steve was making.

504
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: That upset me. So what did you do about it

505
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,879
Speaker 1: to him? Yeah, you go ask Steve for a race.

506
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 1: That didn't laugh on Steve as CEO. Though I have

507
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: been at this a lot longer than you. I've been

508
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: in this business longer than you. I've had more failures

509
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:12,800
Speaker 1: than you. You so therefore wasn't going there? He was?

510
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 1: You brought it up on piece of theater. Since you

511
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: brought it up, rais I want to talk about I

512
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: just been out here longer than you, but you got

513
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: like two or three mozy ros didn't me though, I mean,

514
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 1: it's a it's a scream them three. You know what,

515
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 1: I look at it one? No time you got four.

516
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:54,399
Speaker 1: You're referring to it Commas. That's what problem. Don't worry

517
00:37:54,400 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: about the zero, commasked him, damn Commas. And boy, you're

518
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 1: listening show, well, Stephen Tommy, you two are like the

519
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: grilling experts on the show, the barbecue experts on the show.

520
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: So Memorial Day is coming up, and uh, I wanted

521
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: to know if you guys had any tips for us

522
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 1: hips for grilling. For grilling, let me go. Let me

523
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: go first, one you've been cooking one that he let

524
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 1: me go first. This is what bothers me about people. Okay,

525
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 1: quit putting all that light of fluid on your charcoal

526
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: or your woods. That just drives me crazy. Do you

527
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: realize your meat smells just like that light of fluid.

528
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: It tastes like that. Yeah, come on, man, get you

529
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: some wood. They got some natural wood starters that you

530
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,359
Speaker 1: can put in there and light those up. And now

531
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: your wood or your charcoal, whichever one you're using, doesn't

532
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 1: taste like a smell like all this gas light of fluid.

533
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: You didn't put on that. That's that's one of my

534
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 1: tips right there. That's a pet peever man. So let

535
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: me just piggyback off that and say to start your fire.

536
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: They sell, they'd sell what time he's talking about as

537
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 1: fire starters. Wood starters wear little white chunks. They got

538
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: matched sticks that burn naturally that you could put on them.

539
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,320
Speaker 1: But they have these things that look like coffee cans.

540
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 1: They look like a big giant Coffeemok. You put your

541
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: charcoal in it and light it from the bottom, and

542
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: that can get your charcoal started a little bit more

543
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 1: even for you. You don't pour the charcoal in the

544
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: basin of your thing. You pour the charcoal in this

545
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:52,399
Speaker 1: like big round pot and started like that. Yeah it's

546
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: got a handle on it. Then you just pour it

547
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 1: in there and they're burn even this is little stuff

548
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:01,320
Speaker 1: you can learn. I have another tip when it's my turn. Okay,

549
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 1: here's another people that people that are you know, amateurs

550
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: at grilling. They throw their chicken on and then you

551
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: think twenty minutes later, yo chicken is done. Yo chicken

552
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:21,319
Speaker 1: ain't done it. Yeah, it is surely a sport. And

553
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: why are you talking Why are we talking about cooking.

554
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 1: Why you trying to stay awake? Why so long? We'll

555
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: learn how to cook. The people will come over your

556
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 1: house and not leave so much. If you can cook,

557
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: you have whatever. Bring something. So listen. While you cooking

558
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 1: your chicken, keep flipping it and don't be afraid the

559
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 1: slice of piece and see where you are. If you

560
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: see a little light red water, you need to cook

561
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 1: a little longer. That means it's still some blood in

562
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: the Keep cooking your chicken, keep flipping it, and keep cooking.

563
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: That's all I'm asking. Look, man, grilling ain't no thing

564
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: where you can leave your meat for ten minutes and

565
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 1: walk off somewhere. That ain't There's some people going in

566
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 1: the house for thirty minute. What did you do? You

567
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: can't do that when you grilling. Grilling is a sport.

568
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: It's an activity. You got to move that chicken to

569
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 1: the front, to the back. Go ahead, okay, okay, let's

570
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:22,919
Speaker 1: go back. Yeah, go ahead, okay. I don't know nothing

571
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,399
Speaker 1: about grilling. I think what you guys are saying it's great.

572
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:29,240
Speaker 1: Well this week, if you add a barbecue, please bring

573
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 1: good ass plates. Okay. If the sign says cheap plates,

574
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 1: if it says cheap plates, damn it, don't bring them. Okay,

575
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: it says cheap plates, right there, bring good ass plates,

576
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 1: all right, jack, All right here here's one quicker. I

577
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: give it back when you when you he said your charcoals?

578
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 1: Are you even them out? Um? You know when you

579
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: get it, when you get it going. But some of

580
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: us like to have a real hot side and then

581
00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 1: a warm side while you cook it, you understand. So

582
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: you may have more wood mr charcoals on one side

583
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: and then on another side you got you still got

584
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 1: wooden charcoals, but it's not as heavy as the other side.

585
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: That's just one of my Yeah, my tip is I

586
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:15,400
Speaker 1: have the backside of my grill, I put no charcoal back.

587
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 1: Then on the backside, I put none so you can

588
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,479
Speaker 1: move some meat off that heat if it's cooking too fast.

589
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 1: Those are you gotta have? What time he's talking about

590
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,320
Speaker 1: a cool spot on the grill, I put no charcoal

591
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,320
Speaker 1: on the back on the back forth of the grill,

592
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,359
Speaker 1: I put no charcoal. This was so exciting. And you

593
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 1: can set the money on. You can set the meat

594
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: on top of each piece if you have to to

595
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: keep it off the stacke and Shirley, don't rush us

596
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: with your lum kicking as it's people who care about

597
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: this though, like yes, and ain't nobody coming to your house?

598
00:42:56,040 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: Heat now? No, damn crock pot on gotta coming up now.

599
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 1: He's the nephew with today's prank phone. All right after

600
00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: this you're listening show coming up at the top of

601
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: the hour. About four minutes after after the hour, it's

602
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today. Subject my ex wife ran

603
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:21,879
Speaker 1: off my fiance. My ex wife ran my fiance off. Okay, wow, yeah,

604
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:27,280
Speaker 1: wait till you hear this letter. Guys, almost happened. What

605
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: is every outside boy? Why is every letter always about? Yeah,

606
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:37,640
Speaker 1: I've had a hell of a life. Right now at

607
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 1: your nephews turn Uncle Steve, he's here with today's prank phone. Call.

608
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 1: What you got nef? I want to date your mom?

609
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 1: Well do you man? Run it? Boo? Hello, Hello, I'm

610
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 1: trying to reach I'm trying to reach miss Burns. This

611
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 1: is James. This is our son. How you doing man?

612
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: My name is Gordon. Gordon just recently joined the church man.

613
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 1: Within the last month, I was trying to get in

614
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,239
Speaker 1: touch with with Miss Byrne, one of the members gave

615
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 1: me a number, but I guess they they must have

616
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 1: gave me the wrong number. I guess it's is this

617
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:11,160
Speaker 1: a home number or what? Is this a hold of? Hello? Who? Who?

618
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 1: Who is this again? My name is Gordon Gordon. I'm

619
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 1: a new member at the church. Yeah, this is just

620
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: your number. Yeah, man, this is my phone number. I'm James,

621
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 1: I'm my son. Oh that's your mom. Okay, that's your mother? Right?

622
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 1: All right? Well yeah, my bad man. I was trying

623
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 1: to get in touch with miss Burns. Now is do

624
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: you have a sale or home number somewhere I can

625
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 1: get in touch with Miss Burns? Wait to time till

626
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 1: me tell you your name is what? Gordon Gordon? Gordon?

627
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 1: I just joined the church, man, so I might not

628
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: have met you yet, Jane. Okay, well, God bless you man,

629
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 1: Thank you man. I appreciate it. Is anywhere I could

630
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: get your mom's home number from. I mean, you're just

631
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,919
Speaker 1: joined the church. I mean, I don't I don't see

632
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: why you wouldn't be able to talk to it. I mean,

633
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: is there anything Is there a message I could pass

634
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 1: on to it? Though? Uh? Well yeah, I mean I'm

635
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 1: trying to see if it's all right. For me to

636
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 1: take her out. I've been seeing her for the last

637
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: Hold up, Hold up, Hold up, hold hold hold and

638
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: tell you were just into you a new member to

639
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 1: the church, and somebody gave you or they were attempting

640
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: to give you my mother's number, and you're asking me

641
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,959
Speaker 1: if you could take her out. Man, Well, I wasn't

642
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 1: asking you. I thought I had her phone number. I

643
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 1: guess they give me your number. Bout mistake. You know,

644
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,919
Speaker 1: that's my reason for Carl. I thought I was gonna

645
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: get her. I want to take her out, you know,

646
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 1: maybe to dinner or something. Well, I'll be quite honest, man,

647
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:37,919
Speaker 1: I just came back home from overseas, from fighting and everything. Man.

648
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: And uh, I mean you know my pops just passed

649
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: away not too long ago. And I ain't you know,

650
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 1: I ain't too keen or my mama going out with

651
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: somebody beside you. You don't even sound like you hey

652
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: in the sixties. Man, older you man, I'm thirty six.

653
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 1: The hell out of you? You how old man? I'm

654
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 1: thirty six. I'm thirty four. What did you do? And

655
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: you do realize my mom is pushing sixty right? You

656
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,840
Speaker 1: know what? Man? I look at it like James, Right, James,

657
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 1: I look at it like it's you know heyes, ain't

658
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 1: number but the number man, It wasn't your heart man,

659
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:15,399
Speaker 1: And how you carry yourself? You know? Yeah? But my hey, hey,

660
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 1: but my mom ain't no cougar like that. And I

661
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 1: know she ain't coming after you right now. I remember

662
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: telling me that she trying some new things at this church,

663
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 1: but going out with some thirty thirty. How do you

664
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: do a baby, man, I'm thirty. I'm thirty six. Dude. Man,

665
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 1: you like my brother. Something man ain't nowhere in the world.

666
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 1: My mama gonna be days okay than Jane. Let me

667
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: say this man. First of all, I ain't even know

668
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 1: I was calling you. Second of all, I'm calling and

669
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 1: speak with her. I'm not calling trying to get permission

670
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: from you. Miss Burns is a grown woman. And whoa, whoa,

671
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 1: whoa talking about I don't think you're every man. I

672
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 1: just came back from fighting over seed. My pops passed

673
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 1: away not too long ago. I am the man of

674
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 1: the house. Let's get that straight right now, all right.

675
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:01,800
Speaker 1: I don't care if I'm still living at home or not.

676
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm the man of this house, all right. You calling

677
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: the ass my mama on a date. You might as

678
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: well just stick the church, dog, because you know, as

679
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: I said, be blessed, But it ain't gonna be no

680
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: blessing for me to you. I tell you that right now.

681
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: I'm I'm not looking for a blessing from you at all. Bro.

682
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 1: You might no blessing, but I respect the fact that

683
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: you've been overseas and you've been fighting for this country. Okay,

684
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 1: But if I decide I want to speak to miss

685
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 1: Burns about going out, I think Miss Burns has every

686
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 1: right to decide if she would like to go out

687
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 1: with Gordons or not. And Gordon wants to take her out,

688
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: I took up. Hold up, look, bro, I don't care

689
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 1: how old you say you are, all right, number one,

690
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: you're too young, as I already mentioned. All right, this

691
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 1: ain't going down with you and my mom. I'm straight up,

692
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 1: hey man, that's for your mama to decide. No, dog

693
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: that you you bringing up my mamma. You letting the

694
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,280
Speaker 1: word your mama come out your mouth again, that's gonna

695
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: get you, all right. I don't know where you're from.

696
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:05,439
Speaker 1: I don't get how old you are. I'm pretty sick.

697
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: I know what church my mamma go to and and

698
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,439
Speaker 1: it ain't gonna be her and you you ain't gonna

699
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: be asking her out, all right. I don't give what

700
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: it take. I would show up on Sunday, catch up

701
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 1: in the pulpit or wherever you're gonna be sitting in

702
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 1: the back of the choir. It don't matter something's going down.

703
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 1: You will not gonna get with my mama like that.

704
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 1: You got that. That's up for your mama to decide

705
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:29,440
Speaker 1: if your mamma want to go out with me to

706
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 1: out dinner. I ain't going wrong with this, man, I'm

707
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: I'm deciding it right now. It ain't gonna happen. I

708
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: told you before, be blessed or get your whook. You

709
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 1: got two choices, all right. I didn't fight the seeds

710
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 1: three years to come back and also deal with my

711
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: daddy did and then come back. I'm suffering from PSD. Dog,

712
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm gonna do unless you want

713
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:56,240
Speaker 1: to get it like that. Suffer from one a PSD

714
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 1: post traumatic stress syndrome, and I will release all that

715
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 1: on you. Got that one. I don't play hey, man, listen,

716
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: I don't want no trouble it don't matter to me.

717
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: You can tell you. Okay, Look, man, listen, I ain't

718
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: trying to have no trouble about you. Man. All I'm

719
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 1: gonna say is this right here. I'm I'm gonna I

720
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: talk to you mom on Sunday. Okay, you ain't gonna

721
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,720
Speaker 1: tell him? Are you not hearing me? Man? I'm okay,

722
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 1: I'm crazy right now? Okay? Can I say this? Can

723
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: I say one more things to you? Man? So you explode.

724
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing else to say. I got one

725
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 1: more thing before you explode? Man, Is you listening? Yeah? Man, James?

726
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: What hey? Man? I want to tell you this. Man.

727
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning to show.

728
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 1: Your mama. I got me the Frank Bone call you.

729
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:47,799
Speaker 1: It's the out of here. Who Hey man, this is

730
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man. Your

731
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:53,919
Speaker 1: mama told me. She's saying, my son been overseas, even

732
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: in fighting. I'm glad to have him home, she said.

733
00:49:56,680 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: We gotta back in the spirit of laughing. Man, my mama,

734
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,919
Speaker 1: are you Are you kidding me? Man? We got you good.

735
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 1: We listen to this show overseas man. First of all,

736
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: I gotta say thank you for fighting for this country.

737
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 1: I want to ask you one more thing. What is

738
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,960
Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in

739
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 1: the land, Man, nothing but the Steve Harvey more than

740
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 1: this show? Get it over season in the States, though,

741
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:30,880
Speaker 1: thanks man, you always you know you did. Yes, you

742
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 1: play too much? You already well, Mama's mean a little too, though,

743
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: don't mother. I wish you would talk about dating man.

744
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:43,960
Speaker 1: I might call you next week. I might call you

745
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: next See. That's just see, that's you too far, but

746
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: you go too far a lot. That's you right there

747
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:54,319
Speaker 1: at that edge. But he usually goes to the edge.

748
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 1: Kid stuffs over it sometime. You you think I'm mobile

749
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 1: bole y, No, perfectly, my god? Is this reverse psychologist? No,

750
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 1: I don't matter. Don't psychology. Don't work with him? All right,

751
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,280
Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Coming up next to Strawberry letter subject

752
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 1: my ex wife ran my fiancee off. Waiting you guys,

753
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:24,359
Speaker 1: hear this unbelievable letter. My ex wife ran my fiance off.

754
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,359
Speaker 1: Now Steve said this has happened to him because he's

755
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 1: had our actual life. You're listening to show all right

756
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: time now, guys, for Today's Strawberry Letter. If you need

757
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:43,919
Speaker 1: some advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,

758
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 1: please submit your letter to Steve Harvey FM. Okay and

759
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We will make sure we try

760
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: to read your letter live on the air, just like

761
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one today. And this one is

762
00:51:55,840 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 1: a doozy. Okay, it's a doozy. Here we go. Buckle

763
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: up and hold on type. We got it for you here.

764
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject my ex wife ran

765
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 1: my fiance off. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am in a

766
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: desperate need of advice. I was here for you. I

767
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:17,239
Speaker 1: was engaged to be married, but my fiance and I

768
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 1: recently split up after my ex wife caused a whole

769
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: lot of problems in our relationship when my ex. When

770
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: my ex heard I was engaged, she called me. I

771
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: told her that I was extremely happy and excited to

772
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 1: get remarried. My ex said that she was happy for

773
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 1: me and wished me met wished to me well, which

774
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 1: was a big lie. Oh, this ain't about me. Never

775
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 1: seen a few days after we talked. Well, listen and

776
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: get listening, Keep listening, keep listening. Oh no, it's not okay,

777
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: go keep listening. See I'm trying to ignorant, right. She

778
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 1: was happy for me and wished me well. Well, it

779
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: was a big he said, it was a big lie.

780
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 1: A few days after we talked, this must be will

781
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: Smith go ahead, because they had that great relationship all

782
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: and people sitting together talking and stuff. All right, here

783
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: we go. A few days after we talked, my ex

784
00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 1: created a new Facebook page named it the Thompsons and

785
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 1: posted a bunch of old pictures from our wedding and

786
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: family vacations. My fiance's mother saw the Facebook page and

787
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,439
Speaker 1: showed it to my fiance, and that's when everything hit

788
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,759
Speaker 1: the fan. I told my fiance that, yes, I talked

789
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:43,919
Speaker 1: to my ex because she called me. I didn't call her.

790
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 1: I told my fiance that I had no idea that

791
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: the Facebook page existed because I don't deal with my

792
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: ex wife at all. My fiance didn't believe me, so

793
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,360
Speaker 1: she called my ex, and my ex gave her an

794
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 1: earful of lies. She told my fiance that I still

795
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: try to see her and that we are still in

796
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: love with each other and talk often. Of course, my

797
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: fiance was all confused and didn't know who to believe,

798
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 1: so she called off the wedding and we broke up.

799
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 1: My ex found out about her breakup and claimed she

800
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: felt awful about it, so she sent my fiance an

801
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:22,719
Speaker 1: email admitting that she lied about everything and she was

802
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: sorry that she interfered. My fiance still doesn't want to

803
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: marry me, and we barely talk at all now. Even

804
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:33,400
Speaker 1: though my ex admitted she was lying, I'm still suffering

805
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,360
Speaker 1: from what she did. Can you please offer some advice

806
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 1: on how I can get my lady back. I cannot

807
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 1: stand my ex wife for this, but I'm going to

808
00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:45,240
Speaker 1: let God deal with her. I just want my fiance back.

809
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: Please help. Yeah, yeah, this is this is this is funky, funky,

810
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 1: funky right here, don't I don't like your ex wife.

811
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna put that out there. Don't like her

812
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 1: at all. She's a stuff starter. She's a very negative person.

813
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: She doesn't care who she hurts. Yeah you know what

814
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 1: I mean. She doesn't care how many lives she destroys,

815
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:12,760
Speaker 1: how many lives she tells. She doesn't care, she's cage,

816
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 1: she's tricky, all of that. It's just so wrong on

817
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,799
Speaker 1: so many levels what she did. And you're right, You're right,

818
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:21,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with you when you say you're gonna

819
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 1: let God deal with her, because it's not it's not

820
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 1: really about her. It's not really about her. It's just

821
00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: never about It's not about your X. This is about

822
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 1: your most recent X, your X fiance, because there was

823
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 1: a problem in your relationship. There had to be some

824
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: kind of problem on her part that you didn't know

825
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: about in your relationship, a trust issue. How can she

826
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 1: let this X just come out of nowhere? Do all

827
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 1: this stuff make her doubt you? Okay? And do all

828
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: these things and believe this woman over you and you

829
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 1: guys are making wedding plans here. Okay, Yeah, she can

830
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: be confused, but to just throw it all away over

831
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: what she said, especially the woman gave her an email

832
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 1: and says she was lying, but she doesn't know what

833
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 1: to believe. I don't know if you're going to ever

834
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 1: get this woman back. I really don't, because the trust

835
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 1: is broken on her part. She doesn't trust you because

836
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 1: your x X did so much damage. And you know,

837
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,879
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure you've done everything a man could

838
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 1: do to prove to her that this is not true.

839
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:35,760
Speaker 1: You told her you didn't talk to her, you don't

840
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 1: call her. You told her that, you told her the

841
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: ex called you, You told her all that. She wasn't

842
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,439
Speaker 1: buying any of it. I guess there was too much

843
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 1: evidence that she saw with the Facebook page and the

844
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: pictures and all of that. The problem I think is

845
00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 1: with your most recent x fiance, excuse me, and not

846
00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: trusting you, and not knowing what to believe and not

847
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:03,360
Speaker 1: wanting to go farther and the relationship. Steve, Shirley, I

848
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 1: agree with you one. I think you've hit it spot on. Yeah,

849
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,759
Speaker 1: he in trouble could yeah yah, Yeah, he washed up

850
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:13,319
Speaker 1: here here on the banks here fish that then got

851
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: washed up on shore and it's low tide. He just

852
00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 1: said he needed water back in desperately because he died. Yeah,

853
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 1: he loved this girl. Shirley is really spot on. This

854
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: is the straw that broke the camel's back. You all

855
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 1: have had trust issues before. This was the one thing

856
00:57:35,080 --> 00:57:38,959
Speaker 1: she couldn't take. But the words of Marvin Gaye's song

857
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 1: to his ex wife Janets, you were my wife, my flower,

858
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: my hopes, my dreams, And for you to understand what

859
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: this means, I shall explain I was still all your jealousies, yes,

860
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 1: and your too, but I forget it all once in

861
00:57:55,560 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 1: being with you. But old Holly, how could we indo

862
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 1: light this? All right? Marvin is not here? Okay, all right,

863
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 1: Steve sings us out of this, uh this letter right here.

864
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 1: We'll be back with his second response at twenty three

865
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 1: after the hours, subject my ex ran off my fiance.

866
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 1: We'll be right back right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve.

867
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 1: Please let's recap today's strawberry letter and get to your response,

868
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 1: subject my ex wife ran my fiance off. This dude's

869
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 1: ex wife found out that he was engaged, called him

870
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 1: and told me that she was happy and excited for me,

871
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 1: he said, which was a big laugh. A few days

872
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:50,240
Speaker 1: after we talked, his ex wife created a brand new

873
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 1: Facebook page and called it to Thompson's and posted a

874
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:56,480
Speaker 1: bunch of old picts that they win and family vacation.

875
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 1: Then this dude's fiance's mama saw the Facebook page showed

876
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,439
Speaker 1: it to my fiance, his damn mama. See her damn

877
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 1: mama in it. This is why you can't get your

878
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 1: girl back, man, because she under the scrutiny her mama.

879
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 1: Look at this on Facebook. Sister Claire re see this

880
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:18,959
Speaker 1: er Lane hasn't seen it. I can't go know where

881
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 1: everybody has seen this. Hell, this man advancing you like that,

882
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:25,680
Speaker 1: and now your friends and found out about it because

883
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 1: you took it to your friends and your friends have

884
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 1: been commenting on it. Girl, this is new. When everything

885
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 1: hit the fan, I told my fiance that, yes, I

886
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: talked to my ex because she called me. I didn't

887
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:42,640
Speaker 1: call her. I told my fiance I had no idea

888
00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 1: that the Facebook page existed because I don't deal with

889
00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:49,160
Speaker 1: my ex at all. Your fiance didn't believe you, man,

890
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 1: so she called my ex. She called your ex, and

891
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 1: your ex gave her ear full of lies. Oh, man,

892
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:58,240
Speaker 1: see hit this? Why you dog that? Man? Hell hath

893
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:03,800
Speaker 1: no fury like a woman scorn? Now that's right. I thought,

894
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:06,439
Speaker 1: hell hath no fury like a woman scoring? I really

895
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,919
Speaker 1: thought for years until it surely told me last year

896
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 1: that that's not a scripture. And then I wanted to

897
01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:16,400
Speaker 1: have a meeting with all the theologians and all of

898
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 1: them to see if we could get it put in nothing.

899
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 1: I just think it's if some are to be in there,

900
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 1: why that ain't there there? And so they told me

901
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: I couldn't do that. So I got off of that,

902
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 1: So you're so she told your ex wife said that

903
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 1: y'all still in love, that you try to see her. See,

904
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 1: here's a key, still try to see her. If the

905
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: girl had something on you seeing her, she wouldn't have

906
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 1: said you still try to see her. She just said,

907
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:55,480
Speaker 1: I got texts, I got pictures, because you gotta text,

908
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 1: somebody gotta picture. You gotta have phone records. They don't

909
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 1: have that on you. Dog, She lied and said, I

910
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 1: still try to see her, and then we're still in

911
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: love with each other and we talk often where the

912
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 1: phone records. Of course, my fiance was all confused and

913
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 1: didn't know who to bleeve, so she called off the

914
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 1: web and we broke up. She broke up because of

915
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: that phone call and her damn mama, wait what her

916
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: damn mama, mama, man man all man, now you over

917
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 1: there trying to explain, and she standing behind her daughter

918
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: with her own folk, with her lips perched. Of course,

919
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: my fiance come. My ex found out about our break

920
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: up and claimed she felt awful about it. So she

921
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 1: sent my fiance an email admitting that she lied about

922
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 1: everything and she was sorry that she interfield my fiance

923
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,320
Speaker 1: still don't want to marry me and we barely talk

924
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 1: it on now. See that's crazy, man. Even though my

925
01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 1: ex admitted she was lying, I'm still suffering from what

926
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: she did. Can you please offer some advice I can

927
01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 1: get my lady back. I cannot stand my ex wife

928
01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: for this, but I'm going to let God deal with her.

929
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 1: I just want my fiance back, all right, dag here

930
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:21,919
Speaker 1: you go. First of all, I want you to take

931
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: this notion to her. If she's said try to see her,

932
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 1: what's prevented her from seeing her? If she say, y'all

933
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 1: still in love with each other, your ex would see you,

934
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 1: but she didn't. Also, man, phone records exist. Pull up

935
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 1: your phone records, man, and show you ain't had no

936
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 1: conversations with this woman an extensive so excuse me. See

937
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:50,840
Speaker 1: you're saying he needs proof to show if he has

938
01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 1: a physical evidence. Okay, we're trying to get your girl back.

939
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: She gonna love the fact that you worked as hard

940
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: to research. See a thirty second phone call. You can't

941
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 1: arrange nothing in thirty seconds. That's hey what you're doing? Hey, look,

942
01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: I ain't got time. I want to talk to you. Click.

943
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:11,760
Speaker 1: See a lot of times they call. You play it off.

944
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 1: You understand. So you gotta get your phone records and

945
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 1: then where the text messages. And you can't arrange nothing

946
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:24,080
Speaker 1: no more on the LOWLO without texting. You can't do it, though,

947
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 1: So get your get your records, and get to texting. Now,

948
01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 1: once you do that, you gotta present your casing. Hey man,

949
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: you got it, You got it. You gotta get on

950
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:37,640
Speaker 1: your stomach, even though you didn't do nothing wrong. You

951
01:03:37,680 --> 01:03:40,480
Speaker 1: want your girl back. Now here's what young dudes don't

952
01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:43,280
Speaker 1: like to do. I don't know how old you are,

953
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 1: but you got some kind of sense because you said,

954
01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let God deal with them. So you got

955
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 1: some kind of sense. You gotta get to your girl,

956
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 1: and you gotta refresh her memory. You gotta Michael Jackson though.

957
01:03:57,360 --> 01:04:02,240
Speaker 1: You gotta remember the time we fell in love, remember

958
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: the time when we first met. Game. You got to

959
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:10,680
Speaker 1: get to Michael Jackson, this girl which to remember on

960
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:20,920
Speaker 1: the phone and you and me? What about? What about?

961
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 1: All right? Guys, we gotta get out of here. You

962
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 1: can email us or instagram us your thoughts on Today's

963
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey f M. You're listening to

964
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. All right, Steve, it is time for

965
01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:39,160
Speaker 1: comedy roulette, and Jay explained it to us. Damn to roulette.

966
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 1: This where we take five subjects. We put the subjects

967
01:04:41,800 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 1: on the wheel. We spun the wheel around and around

968
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:48,360
Speaker 1: and around. Where the wheel stops, we'll do the damn thing.

969
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:51,479
Speaker 1: What are the subjects? You're ready? Here we go. Number one.

970
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 1: I apologize, baby. This is the first time this has

971
01:04:55,240 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 1: ever happened. Number number two, When is the baby going

972
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 1: to sleep? Man? That is me? Number three? How long

973
01:05:06,760 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 1: is he going to stay in the sixth grade? Once again?

974
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 1: Number four? Well, you're big and bad, come on down here. Okay.

975
01:05:18,520 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 1: Number five, I didn't get fired. They just tripping at

976
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 1: the job. Okay. And here's a bonus. Number six. If

977
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 1: you buy cheap stuff, it doesn't last. All right, okay, alright, alright,

978
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 1: it's been a day. Bring that when you want, Jay,

979
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 1: you did not want Number one. I apologize baby. This

980
01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:50,720
Speaker 1: is the first time this has ever happened. That one.

981
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 1: You know. The problem is you. You is the problem.

982
01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 1: I take take because of you. You're doing something to me. Yeah,

983
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 1: make me my concentration and whatever it is, stop it.

984
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:17,680
Speaker 1: You need to focus. Was personal that I wanted to stop. Man. Okay,

985
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 1: well look at, look at. I want to apologize. This

986
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: has never happened, folks, but me and the microwave went

987
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:27,480
Speaker 1: off at the same time. I want to say, I'm sorry.

988
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 1: I didn't not know I was through any foot. Listen, listen, listen.

989
01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:44,080
Speaker 1: I apologize. This is the first time this has ever happened.

990
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:49,200
Speaker 1: I dreamed I was peeing, all right. That's why we

991
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 1: both laying here with saying this is the third time

992
01:06:57,160 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 1: I was being in my dream. Yeah, when you're twelve. Okay,

993
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 1: come on, see baby, baby, baby, I'm sorry, I didn't

994
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: know it was your mama, bail. I had no idea.

995
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 1: All right, listen up next more of this crazy ignorant show.

996
01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to

997
01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 1: Steve Show. All right. Yahoo is reporting, guys, a new

998
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:46,920
Speaker 1: pole that finds fifty nine percent of couples say that

999
01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 1: they um suspected their partner of cheating. If they suspected them,

1000
01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 1: they would discuss the matter with them rather than jumping

1001
01:07:55,040 --> 01:08:00,560
Speaker 1: to conclusions. I'm gonna say that again for the lateies. Okay,

1002
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:03,760
Speaker 1: of couples say that if they suspected their partner of cheating,

1003
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: they would discuss the matter with them rather than jumping

1004
01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 1: to conclusions. Okay, let me ask you a questions, Shirley

1005
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:14,600
Speaker 1: and Colum, Now, let me ask you a question. Just

1006
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 1: listen to this question. If you suspected your husband of cheating,

1007
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 1: and it was not on the internet, nobody knew, none

1008
01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:29,000
Speaker 1: of your co workers, it was not it wasn't made public.

1009
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:34,120
Speaker 1: If you suspected your husband of cheating, would you bring

1010
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 1: it up calmly? Would you bring it up with anger?

1011
01:08:37,760 --> 01:08:40,639
Speaker 1: How would you do it? Probably? All of the above

1012
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:46,639
Speaker 1: for me without the calm though you're already nowhere. I'm

1013
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:53,200
Speaker 1: coming bigger, all of it. All of the above for me,

1014
01:08:53,320 --> 01:08:57,720
Speaker 1: without the calm. Anger. If I suspected that not yet? No, well,

1015
01:08:57,760 --> 01:09:00,679
Speaker 1: I mean, if you had suspicious you ain't no proof,

1016
01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:05,479
Speaker 1: you ain't, you ain't heard nothing, you ain't got no pictures,

1017
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 1: ain't no ain't on internet, and none of that. But Steve,

1018
01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: you know we have intuition. You know we have intuition.

1019
01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 1: Disappointing to you, mister Harvey. I don't know. I'm just

1020
01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:18,719
Speaker 1: trying to see what y'all would do. I don't really

1021
01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 1: and and the word discussion, I have a problem with

1022
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 1: there will be no discussion. Well, you gonna just find

1023
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:29,640
Speaker 1: out on your own first, like dot se SI, let

1024
01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:33,400
Speaker 1: me ask you a question. Suppose you discovered that you

1025
01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:39,680
Speaker 1: were wrong about him and that he wasn't cheating. What

1026
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:42,679
Speaker 1: happens at that point? Oh, then I'm apologizing and begging

1027
01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:46,080
Speaker 1: to his forgiveness, begging for his forgiveness and threatening him

1028
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:48,840
Speaker 1: he better not do it. You see what happens? Yeah,

1029
01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 1: God in the tart, you gotta do that. Yeah, you

1030
01:09:56,000 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 1: apologize for your wrong doing, but you know, make up

1031
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:04,960
Speaker 1: to him. You know all of that. Wow, that's a man.

1032
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:09,639
Speaker 1: Any more questions, We're here for it. No, y'all's answers

1033
01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 1: is short and yeah and truthful, and there's no there's

1034
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:18,200
Speaker 1: no one in between, ain't no. You know that's I

1035
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:22,400
Speaker 1: don't like talking. Yeah, if were you expecting something else?

1036
01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:24,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what I expected, but that wasn't it.

1037
01:10:25,800 --> 01:10:29,760
Speaker 1: You've obviously been through this before. I'll tell you what

1038
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:32,599
Speaker 1: I found out. Though I'm fine out, I ain't fired

1039
01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:36,120
Speaker 1: up to have a discussion once they find out I'll cheating.

1040
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 1: It's all. You're ugly ass sitting up here. Got the

1041
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:45,519
Speaker 1: need cheat? No, you did, but Junior don't you know

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Speaker 1: that money changes things? How you get the nerve that

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Speaker 1: was before? Look at you now see Tommy saying Dane

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Speaker 1: Junior like you can't believe Junior called himself ugly. Tommy,

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Speaker 1: you're ugly. No, I am not. I'm not gonna let

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Speaker 1: you break. Stop doing that. You're gonna listen. You're not

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Speaker 1: gonna do this. I'm not. I'm gonna tell the truth.

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Speaker 1: Are you fine? No, I'm not no fine, and I'm

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Speaker 1: not off. But I ain't just gonna be hug little No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. Do You're not fine and I'm

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Speaker 1: not hugging. But listen to me. If you're not fine,

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Speaker 1: then by a longe shit, what you think that is?

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Speaker 1: Why don't do that to him? I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: I tell me. Keep thinking he cute, but you're not cute.

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Speaker 1: I didn't say I was cute. I'm just saying I'm

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Speaker 1: not telling Listen to me. Listen to me. You look

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Speaker 1: strang I'm decent. I don't look strang man. You do.

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Speaker 1: I do not look straight. All you got to do

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Speaker 1: start get a mirror and look at yourself from the side.

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Speaker 1: You're strange. I am not strange. Tommy. You are you

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Speaker 1: look strange? All everybody, all of me in our family,

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Speaker 1: we're strange looking from the side. Look, I have fun

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Speaker 1: with the time and when you accept it, Tommy and

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Speaker 1: he's never going to accept that. You guys know that

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Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not doing all right. Speak you're listening

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Speaker 1: to all right. Here's something we can all comment on

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Speaker 1: or think about. If you could be the best player

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Speaker 1: in any sport. What sport would that be? We all

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Speaker 1: know the NFL is the most popular sport. Football. Of course,

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Speaker 1: that's the most popular sport in the land. But the

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Speaker 1: players are mostly unseen because they wear helmets. Okay, and

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Speaker 1: they get hit a lot. Uh, it's not ideal. NBA

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Speaker 1: players have a good gig, but playing basketball still involves

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Speaker 1: a lot of running around, you know, a lot of running. So, guys,

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Speaker 1: if you were to be the best player in any sport,

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Speaker 1: what would that be, Steve, be basketball? Give a damn

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Speaker 1: what that survey said. You'd run around on all that

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Speaker 1: damn running around? What you want to do? What sport

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Speaker 1: I want to be? No damn baseball player. Get out there,

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Speaker 1: n nine en, you're out there every third inning. Don't

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Speaker 1: want to be out there for that what about you, junior?

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Speaker 1: Want to be no damn hockey, gonna run my ass

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Speaker 1: up in that wall. Were fighting, some teeth will be

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Speaker 1: knocked out. Should't up here and playing no dry ass

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Speaker 1: soccer wonder nothing been out hit ninety eight minutes running

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Speaker 1: them down. I ain't even chick the damn ball, kick

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Speaker 1: them in. Just get this ball in this net, bast

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Speaker 1: but you can't throw it in there? What about you, junior?

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Speaker 1: Coming on basketball and the ladies that couldn't win it? Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, okay, what me honestly about sumo wrestling? You

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Speaker 1: know at least you naked hand one? All right? All right?

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Speaker 1: Coming up? More fun, more music, more ignorance on the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll be back right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Have you, guys,

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Speaker 1: ever worked with someone? We all work together, so listen

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Speaker 1: to this. Have you ever worked with someone and found

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Speaker 1: out that he or she was making more money than you?

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Speaker 1: Day about? Is that a question? Really? All right? If so,

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Speaker 1: you know there's this, you immediately want to rush into

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Speaker 1: your boss's office. Huh, he just happens a beata boss

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Speaker 1: and asked for a comparable raise Now. This is according

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Speaker 1: to an article and a women's health dot com on

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Speaker 1: their website. You should first research why your coworker makes

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01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:01,000
Speaker 1: more money and see if your pay is low market rate.

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01:15:01,720 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 1: Then go in and negotiate with your boss by pulling

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Speaker 1: together your accomplishment since being on the staff. That is it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's how you get a raise. Okay, if you find

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Speaker 1: out someone's making more than okay, that's a good advice. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: do not say you got it. That is not a

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Speaker 1: That's not a good phrase to you when you want

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01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:23,960
Speaker 1: to raise or you got it. Yeah, talk when you

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01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:28,320
Speaker 1: talk to your boss. I want why do you need

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01:15:28,360 --> 01:15:32,880
Speaker 1: a race because you got you got it? No, you're right, ja, Okay,

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01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 1: don't point out stuff they are buying for themselves if

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01:15:36,960 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 1: you want to raise. I see you coming here with

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01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:42,479
Speaker 1: a new suit every day I come. What I need

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Speaker 1: to know is I come. That's not a good point.

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Speaker 1: Don't don't go click at the cart and I'm on

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Speaker 1: the bus. Don't don't vote there with that. Bring out

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Speaker 1: your accomplishments. What do you bring to this company? That's

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01:15:55,640 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 1: why you want more money? I found out how much

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01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:03,640
Speaker 1: that upset me? So what did you do about it?

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Speaker 1: To him, Yeah you go as Steve Race that didn't laugh,

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Speaker 1: Steve Ceo, though I have been at this a lot

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Speaker 1: longer than you. I've been in this business longer than you.

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Speaker 1: I've had more failures than you, So therefore wasn't going there.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't brought it up on piece of theater since

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Speaker 1: you brought it up, rais I want to talk about

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Speaker 1: I just been out here longer than you. But you

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Speaker 1: got like two or three mozy rods, didn't me though,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's a it's a screaming two or three,

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Speaker 1: you know what I look at it? This tell me

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Speaker 1: hold one, don't tell me you have You're referring to

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Speaker 1: its commas that don't where about them? Zero commas? Commas, boy,

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Speaker 1: your zero? Your money is commons you're listening to. Here's

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Speaker 1: Steve with his closing remarks. My closes remarks today as

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Speaker 1: rather personal to me, as I'm sure it is with

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Speaker 1: a lot of you when you hear the subject. But

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Speaker 1: I want to try to encourage people to make this

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Speaker 1: readily available to themselves. I can't even begin to tell

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Speaker 1: you how effective this weapon has been for me throughout

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Speaker 1: my life, how many times I have used this to

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Speaker 1: help me, to comfort me, to soothe me, to guide me,

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01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:13,639
Speaker 1: to just make me feel like somebody's listening. I'm talking

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Speaker 1: about the effectiveness of prayer. I want to remind everybody

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Speaker 1: on a personal level of what prayer has meant to me. Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that millions of people listening to me know

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Speaker 1: exactly what I'm talking about, but sometimes you got to

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Speaker 1: say it out loud as a reminder to yourself and

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Speaker 1: just an offer to other people who might be struggling

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Speaker 1: out there. Because everybody struggles with something, But every time

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Speaker 1: I've truly struggled with something, prayer has been my most

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Speaker 1: effective tool. It really is. Man. The thing about prayer

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Speaker 1: to cool thing about prayers. You don't have to ask

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Speaker 1: for nobody's permission, you don't need in a appointment, you

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Speaker 1: don't have to clear it with anybody. And I'm sure

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Speaker 1: that you know people will share with you certain methods

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Speaker 1: they use. But really, anyway you do it be just fine.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to be on your knees, you know,

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Speaker 1: if you want to, that's absolutely fine. But you could

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Speaker 1: be on the public transportation, you could be driving, you

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01:19:27,479 --> 01:19:29,920
Speaker 1: could be sitting in your car, you could be in

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Speaker 1: your cubicle. You could be at your desk, you could

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Speaker 1: be at your workstation, you could be walking on the

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Speaker 1: way to lunch. You can do it anywhere. So please

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Speaker 1: don't wait until you have an available space or time.

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Speaker 1: Because the thing about praying God man, He's always available.

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Speaker 1: The cool thing about prayer also, it doesn't require perfection.

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Speaker 1: And what I mean by that is you don't have

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Speaker 1: to have yourself together to do it. This is a

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Speaker 1: big one that people need to understand. Prayer does not

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Speaker 1: require perfection. As a matter of fact. Prayer doesn't require

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Speaker 1: that you come to pray after you get it right.

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Speaker 1: Matter of fact, you don't have to get it right.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to be perfect. Prayer is for broken people.

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Speaker 1: Prayer is for people that are confused. Prayers for people

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Speaker 1: who are unsure about the next move. Prayd is for

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Speaker 1: people who are grieving. Prad is for people who are hurting.

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Speaker 1: Prayer is for people who feel alone. It's for people

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Speaker 1: who got no where to go, who have no place

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Speaker 1: to turn. Now, it would be good if you used

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01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:55,639
Speaker 1: it all the time, but let's be honest, a lot

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01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:59,120
Speaker 1: of times we wait till something is wrong. It's best

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Speaker 1: to do it all the time. But if you are

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Speaker 1: finding yourself in one of these positions of being broken, confused, unsure, hurting,

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Speaker 1: grieving alone, then it's available. Because the thing about God

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Speaker 1: is he's merciful. He understands already that you're not perfect.

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Speaker 1: He understands already that you only come to him a

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Speaker 1: lot of times when you really need him. But the

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Speaker 1: incredible thing about him is he's always there. That's incredible.

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Speaker 1: God is behind the prison walls, He's inside of hospitals.

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Speaker 1: God is down at the funeral hole. God shows up

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Speaker 1: man when he needed most, when he's needed most. And

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Speaker 1: it doesn't matter because let me tell you what prayer

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Speaker 1: has done for me. It is giving me comfort. It

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Speaker 1: has given me a sure fire way to get real answers,

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Speaker 1: connects us to the greatest source of power available to man.

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Speaker 1: I'm just talking to you real, y'all. I'm just giving

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Speaker 1: it to you the way I see it. That are

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Speaker 1: people who can explain prayer far better than me. I'm

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Speaker 1: pretty shure there's some people in that poor pitch can

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Speaker 1: give you a cold, cold definition of prayer. But what

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Speaker 1: if you ain't, What if you ain't Dawn that Sunday.

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Speaker 1: I'm just telling you from a hood cat that prayer

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Speaker 1: has worked for me, that it got through, got me

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Speaker 1: through some of my darkest moments when it seemed like

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Speaker 1: everywhere I turned they was against me. Prayer got me

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Speaker 1: through it. Oh. I've done some things publicly, man, Lord

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Speaker 1: have mercy, man that I know would have crumbled me

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Speaker 1: if it was not for prayer. Oh, I've heard people

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Speaker 1: talking about me that don't even know me, ain't never

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Speaker 1: met me, just saying negative about me. You know what

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Speaker 1: got me through it? Prayer. You know when they all

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Speaker 1: said I was just ignorant person on television. Prayer when

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Speaker 1: I was being called out of my name what I

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Speaker 1: felt was unjustifiably prayer, Prayer when they lie about me,

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Speaker 1: drag my character and name through the mud with lies, Prayer,

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Speaker 1: Prayer when I was homeless and living in that car. Prayer,

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Speaker 1: Prayer changes things. Just use it, man, stop being proud

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Speaker 1: and use it because prayer works. Pray. Don't ask nobody, listen,

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Speaker 1: don't forget to pray, don't be ashamed to pray, and

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Speaker 1: don't ever be too proud to pray because prayer, Prayer

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Speaker 1: changes things. You can believe that y'all have a great weekend.

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Speaker 1: It's already have a great weekend. Pray for all Steve

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