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Speaker 1: Welcome to the forty Niners. You've got Male podcast presented

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Speaker 1: by Manscape. I'm your host, Lindsay Polaris, and here are

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Speaker 1: Week one guests are linebacker Duo Aziz al Shire and

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Speaker 1: of course Demitriusa Flannagan fouls. He's gonna let us call

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Speaker 1: him Flann for sure. Alright, So faithful, this is a

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Speaker 1: podcast you all know and love, but we are switching

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Speaker 1: it up a little bit for the season. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: talk a little bit Chicago Bears game preview and then

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Speaker 1: we're actually gonna switch over to fan submitted questions. Already

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Speaker 1: kind of briefed you guys on this. I promise it'll

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Speaker 1: be fun. Um. Alright, So it's been a tough couple

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Speaker 1: of months during this training camp in preseason. How exciting

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Speaker 1: opener um. I think speaking for everybody, we're all just

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Speaker 1: ready to stop hitting each other. So it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: And then you know, Chicago, it's it's a historic place

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Speaker 1: actually count. So I think it's gonna be good to

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Speaker 1: kind of get the season off started the way we

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Speaker 1: want to. So I think we're kind of, you know,

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Speaker 1: anty and anticipated and ready to go. Is it any

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Speaker 1: more or less exciting when you're starting on the road

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Speaker 1: versus at home? How does that change things if at all?

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Speaker 1: See me, I like being the villain, so I like

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Speaker 1: going into people's house. You know, I like people boying me.

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Speaker 1: It just fills my my already, my alter ego. I

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Speaker 1: love I love like, I love that, I love going

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Speaker 1: to like spoiling somebody's show, So I like I like

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Speaker 1: away games. But also you can't be playing in the

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Speaker 1: stadium where they're talking trash and all that good stuff,

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Speaker 1: and you know, then the fan their fans being quiet.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of kind of get that. That's excited. I

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Speaker 1: So your season doesn't start till Sunday, but first game

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Speaker 1: of the regular season is tonight because it's a familiar

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Speaker 1: NFC West rival. How closely do you do you go

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Speaker 1: home and watch the game or are you just zoned

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Speaker 1: into what's coming on Sunday. I mean it's football, so

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Speaker 1: I think you know NFL game. I think you want

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Speaker 1: you know, definitely be tuned in regardless of their arrival

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Speaker 1: or not. So I have to rebuttle what he's saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm not completely opposite. I outside of outside of playing football,

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Speaker 1: especially all right right now, I get all the football

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Speaker 1: a good matchup for sure. A mean, he said everything above,

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Speaker 1: all right, as promised, we have the fun football questions.

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Speaker 1: So these are fans submitted. Okay, I did not write these,

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Speaker 1: So let's see here one more football question. What is

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